r/Bestof My Mom Asked Me to Sleep With My Dad
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0:00 Intro
0:27 Step dad wants passionate hugs from his step daughter
10:33 My husband is an awful cheater
13:03 The husbands side makes him look even worse
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
The 16yo believed OP instantly, which makes me think she has, at least subconsciously, noticed something about her father.
I mean,
since the stepdad didn't even deny it when the 14 years old asked, there's no way he was making any effort at hiding his creepy behavior.
Thus, even if they didn't fully know, 16yo had to notice that something was off
Oh god, the first story is making fucken SICK! WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT!?!
Honestly what made me saddest when she immediately believed OP was the probability she’s been on the receiving end of some inappropriate behavior 😦
💯
Or she’s just old enough to understand the situation and realize that her sister isn’t a liar. Something like that 😂
First story: Scott deserves to rot in jail, but let's not forget the mother deserves it equally. She was okay with it AND "wanted to be in the room." I'm glad OP and her siblings got out of there.
No no, He deserves to rot in Hell
The mother is also expecting another child that was the excuse they used to try and get OP to have sex with her Stepdad. They don’t need other children.
Yeah, exactly. What parent wants to see their kid bumping uglies, especially with their spouse? The whole thing was just disguisting.
Yeah she's just as much of a freak. Sick couple
@@akl2k7 Maybe it was how the mother also contributed towards the ick factor helping.... helping a sicko she's still twisted.
Last story’s with husband’s side: “Feel sorry for me! I married the girl who I didn’t see as my dream girl but I got to sleep with my dream girl! Feel sorry for me!” Go kick rocks!
And apparently, some who dug through reddit found out that before Sarah got married they had been sleeping together for 4 years of his marriage, it stopped because she wanted to "respect" her husband apparently. So yeah. He suffers from main character syndrome "oh boo hoo everything isn't platinum for me"
@@SoManyRandomRamblings sounds like he has been watching too much anime…
It seems as though the husband from the second story and the creepy stepfather from the first have something in common:
They both seem pretty convinced that they did nothing wrong or unusual, and appear to be honestly surprised - _shocked_ even - that anyone else would have a problem with their behaviour . . .
@@stickiedmin6508 Good thing they at least aren't self-aware enough to keep their behavior secret and take care not to get caught.
Narcissist logic
1:31 Adding to RSlash’s point, alcohol doesn’t make you do stuff against your will. It lowers inhibitions, shuts down that voice that says “Uh actually that’s not a good idea.” So drunk dad wanting to kiss his daughter always had that desire - a MAJOR red flag.
Yep. Lots of people that do dumb or shorty things try and argue this but have no clue what alcohol actually is and does. They don’t like knowing they’re inherently that kind of person.
The saying, "In vino veritas" is widely known for a *_good_* reason.
I heard the phrase “a drunk man’s talk is a sober man’s thought” or something of the lines of it, I think
@@kaitlynhenson7157 It is mostly true. There are semi caveats. Basically alcohol impairs the filter between what you think impulsively and what you say and do. So you might say things that are meaner or harsher than you meant to be or come out differently than you meant. Think of it like how hard it is to meaningfully communicate with someone who is very sleep deprived. They might be overly emotional and not make a lot of sense. They might lash out like a toddler if you try and take their keys or put them to bed. They also might be very suggestable and vulnerable to any predators.
However, just because every single thing they say or do isn't literally something they believe deep down, doesn't excuse most behavior people try to blame on being drunk. Generally, if you are a bad drunk then you have to learn to never get past tipsy. I am an argumentative drunk. I like fighting with people over nothing. So I am a two drinks max person. When I'm sober it doesn't even occur to me to argue with people about nothing and be a giant pedant just to stimulate my brain. Unfortunately drunk me finds it amazingly fun. But that is also a super minor issue. A bit worse than suddenly deciding Taco Bell is the best restaurant ever and you need to eat five days worth of food from there at 3am, but also not much worse. Because alcohol doesn't fundamentally change you as a person.
now while I agree in this context this isnt always true what if I drive off a cliff while drunk does it mean I wanted to commit suicide?
Story 1: I am sooo mad at her mother. Shame on her for not protecting those babies! Absolutely sick!
No need to be angry. Its fake.
@@harrydresden4661 Oh? How do you know?
@@harrydresden4661 how is it fake? Happens a lot more than you think.
@@harrydresden4661 This specific story might be fake, but sadly, this does happen.
@@harrydresden4661 it may or may not be fake, but situations like in the 1st story do happen unfortunately
Story 1 : don't lie.. tell everyone why you are moving out..don't protect a predator..
Actually a couple of predators because that mother is a special nutcase.
Especially since I don't think he did anything illegal.
(that we know of)
It's not illegal to proposition other adults for sex, so I doubt the law could do anything.
However, he's probably the worst person who didn't do a crime that I've ever heard of, so ... yeah. Tell EVERYONE!
This is why we need a local pedo woodchipping company
@@Nerobyrne she set boundaries but he tried to kiss her and is constantly insisting, so that can be harrasment
@@DianaWanMa Ah, ok, that's true.
Although knowing the track record of the police, they likely would just ignore it even if she had it on video. -.-
But, okay, that's at least some kind of crime.
That last story is legit my biggest fear. I'm TERRIFIED of falling for someone who doesn't feel the same, or even worse, pretends to feel the same and leads me on. I'd rather be alone than go through that.
You need to choose your partner like you choose a puppy. Choose the one that is most excited to see you.
He didn't lead her on, the marriage was just terrible. Even if he didn't reveal he had romantic ambitions before her, they were on the train to divorce town for awhile.
Same
@@tehevilengineer7939 I think he did lead her on. He wanted the friend but settled for his wife. The wife was in love but he was like whatever. He should never have gotten married to Amber in the first place and found someone he was in actually in love with.
@@Obsidianone831 but see that's the kicker. Just based on what he posted people like him will never get over their first crush. If you've been married for 8 years & you're still wondering "What might have been" & you're still hanging around, then you need therapy & possibly Jesus.
Unless he can actually let go of his crush on her in a healthy way. He will never be able to love someone else.
Last story: That's REALLY sad... it's no wonder she shut down after realizing she was never anything special to her husband. That has to be the most heartbreaking thing, especially hearing his side of it. To be told someone you have loved and spent 10 years of your life with only settled for you because he couldn't have his "dream girl" is so awful, and then he just sleeps with her while you're dealing with the crack in your marriage that your husband caused...
The dream girl who he’s friends with and then sleeps with anyway.
I'm sorry but I feel like it wasn't just a one night stand with Amber I feel like it's been going on for a while why else would she try so hard to keep them together cuz if that was my best friend I told her I was getting a divorce she'd be all for it she probably help me move out that's what a best friend should do
@@lucar2293 do you have a link to the post.....I kinda wanna see his comments
the thing is almost no one is a first option cuz unless your there first ever crush your not the first so I have never understood why people go so upset at it
@@PrettyVulgar92 That's exactly what happened. He admitted in some comments that he and Sarah already had an affair for 4 years, then stopped when she got married to the other guy. Even had the nerve to lie in his post like it only happened once, the audacity.
Someone very close to me was in close contact with a registered predator. No one told her. So I did. She had no clue, but to me it’s so important to know what type of people you’re around when you could legitimately be in danger. As a mom, I can’t stand that another mother would throw her own babies to the wolves. It’s truly disgusting.
I feel sorry for you that you had to do that. It's horrifying.
damn l
@@morganemanueli6269 finish ur sentence
@@ellawowowow
I think they did!? Rendered almost speechless; in voice and in the literary, literally! Though, if you're going to tell others to 'finish' theirs, you should finish 'your' own. "finish ur sentence" needs closing punctuation (./!)...etc.
one of the things I absolutely envy about the American system, the sex offender registry. Unfortunately the laws around right to privacy are a bit too strict here so such a list isn't legal. It's such bullshit, if someone is a sexual predator EVERYONE should know.
but not for dumb stuff like peeing at a corner obviously, that's ridiculous
They say "the drunk mans talk is the sober man's thought" which makes the first story seem insane.
In Vino Veritas - In Wine Theres Truth
I have never believed that phrase because I'd tell me ex I loved her when I was drunk or high when in reality I despised her for hitting me and stealing my money.
Both of them are like that. Wtf
This is a saying I live by
@@Fatso97 that's absolutely horrible, I'm happy that's just a ex now and I hope you found someone who cares about you
2nd story: Husband made himself look even worse. If you don’t feel the same way as another person, turn them down. They deserve your honesty and while rejection will hurt in the short-term, it’ll be far less harmful than when they find out you’ve been deceiving them.
I’m willing to bet money the husband’s post wasn’t real. It doesn’t give us another perspective, with like actual differently remembered details and thoughts he might have had. It gives us the same perspective with the pronouns changed.
To be fair, the beginning of the Story feels somewhat reasonable. If you get rejected, of course you can take a "No", move on and then find the next person you're interested in. Kinda depends on the time frame this all happened in.
But yeah, the rest feels really unreasonable. Denying communication is especially destructive in a relationship...
@@Tustin2121 And some worshipful purple prose about the best friend's looks. I can believe some people are this self-unaware.
Story 1: he’s been interested since she was a child, since he watched her grow up. That’s why he never adopted her, otherwise there would’ve been an undeniable lawsuit. Instead, he watched her grow up from a toddler to 18 year old, plotting what he was going to do with her an manipulating a bad mother into becoming a monster.
That first one stresses me out. The fact that he's been manipulating the mom for years to sleep with her daughter - that implies (to me, since she's 19) that he was doing this even when she was a minor. I can't stress enough that it's disgusting even without that context, but to be grooming a mother to allow him to sleep with her daughter since she was a MINOR. Gross. Gross!
I think a lot of people missed the part about him manipulating her mother for years into being ok with it. That requires amazing communication skills too get someine to do something that reprehensible and not get nut smashed at the very first mention of it
What do you want to bet that he has video cameras throughout the house without anybody knowing it? Bathrooms, the step-daughter's bedroom, the 16-year-old's bedroom, etc. It would not surprise me one bit.
@@Masenken Honestly, some women would do ANYTHING to cling to a relationship, including putting their kids at risk. He was manipulating the mom sure, but it takes a certain kind of woman to be willing to cave to that I feel. I was very close to a girl who had a similar parent. Mom was with a super abusive guy (her Dad) who beat her and the siblings. She made all the money, he didn't work, and refused to acknowledge the abuse to her kids until she found another guy (this is how she told the story mind you, she met another guy who "showed her what love was") and jumped ship. Sadly next guy was a child predator and when my friend told her mom he had started molesting her nightly. She firstly didn't believe her and said it was "Satan" putting thoughts in her head. Then got a weird bout of jealousy...Yeah. The girl's aunt told her mom to leave him because he was obviously a creep and the mom's defense was "No, I can't keep starting over. I know he's the one for me!" etc. etc. She passed away a little over a decade ago when my friend was 14 (this started when she was 8 mind you). Believe me when I say we're both happy the one willing to enable the abuse is gone just as much as the abuser.
Yeah this is a pedo stalker type they link to a minor generally a easy target like one attached to a single mom then they love bomb,gaslight,and entrap the mom in a conartisty way to get to be close to their target this one was aware of law so waited until his chosen victim was legal.
Many more can't control their fantasy obsessions thus didle and the obsession moves to the next kid etc hence why many kids report it being more then one victim.
Its basically the main male con in relationships
Like the baby trap being the female to con.
And is a big reason both single moms and single men fear getting into relationships these days because all the good ones are either hermits or already taken so those who are left tend to be creep conartists.
@@GuardianMomoku oh, it takes all kinds. Like the ones who threaten self deletion of you leave. I dated a girl with borderline personality and it took me forever and tons of my friends and family to drill it into me how I was being manipulated. So now I just tend to believe all scenarios are possible even when it flies in the face of logic. And it sucks because at the end of the day, without brute force, the only one that can help the victim is the victim
*First OP:* Wow... I'm not a drinker, but after this story, ...
*Second OP:* Poor Amber wasting 10 years of her life with this butthole. Hopefully she'll find the right therapist and can start her healing process. At least her ex and Sarah can be together. 🤷🏿♀
I would love to see how brutal the comments were on his pathetic part of it.
Ex and Sara will get bored of each other too. An affair is fun here and now, a marriage is about planning a life future together which means Gasp! Working and saving.
Tbh I hope OP ends up with the ex friends ex husband because they both were wronged by people they thought they could trust…
1st story makes me want to go back on drugs again 😫
For the second story, in the husband's post he admitted somewhere in the comments that this wasn't the first time he slept with his wife's "best friend." He said they slept together roughly 6 years ago, so 4 years into his marriage. He basically tried to blame his wife and deleted all the criticism before deleting his account.
Lmao. Not surprised, I have known other narcissists before, and his mindset was practically textbook.
Little did he know his dumbfuckery would be immortalized by rSlash
I rarely call a man this but... what a wimp. He couldn't handle the RIGHTFUL ire of Reddit so he tried to delete comments then his account. What did he think most people would be on his side after he made himself look like an @ss?
What a gross “friend”
What makes it so much sicker was the fact that he been _convincing the mom for years_ to be accepting of this situation. He's been thinking about her in this way for freaking _years_ and the mom _allowed it_ . The two of them deserve each other and I hope that the aunt and grandparents succeed in taking the girls out of that household.
that first story was a lot to take in. I really cant blame the OP for being confused and not knowing what to do with what just happened since she's probably in shock. I was also almost SA'd by an older distant relative (my grandmother's partner's cousin) when I was a child and I remember feeling so confused and hesitant to tell anyone because it was shameful and disgusting... I'm glad OP's aunt is helping her and she's out of that household. Hoping for the best for her sisters though. Also the mother also deserves to rot along with the stepdad
Im sorry that happened to you! I'm glad you're doing better.
As vomit inducing as that story is, I was browsing reddit and there is a group, a dangerously growing group who actively believes incest is ok, it's an unbelievably horrid deplorable degenerative movement that would make anyone scream "NOAH, GET THE BOAT!"
@@Josh_the_jester 😰
@@Josh_the_jester the recent rise of ppl excusing sexual crimes / misogyny in general and uniting themselves around that is honestly so scary
🙏🙌
I really feel bad for the first OP. Not only does she have to deal with this creep "wanting her" but she also had the sick realization that the man she considered a father never really saw her as a daughter. Now, when she is thinking back to all the "happy" times together they are painted in a different light... "Was he just nice to me so he could eventually get in my pants"... SICK!
Not only that, but her mom encouraged it too. Completely sickening an unforgivable.
Story 1: OP also mentioned that her mom was going through a high risk pregnancy. What’s going to happen to her sibling after they’re born? Because there’s no way in hell I’d let them stay in that house!
The fact that Scott and OPs egg donor basically groomed her is especially sickening. Good on her aunt for getting her siblings out of there.
I'm so thankful to Reddit and rSlash for constantly reminding me "It can always be worse."
Where there's a will, there's a "What in God's green life filled clusterfuck is wrong with you?"
Story 2: I don't even know if the husband's side is supposed to be a defense, but it definitely solidifies how much of a bad person he is. Like, I hope OP gets therapy as promised.
Idk how he thought posting that was a good idea
I feel like he wrote it cause he wanted to get it off his chest, not to make himself look better. He would have put excuses if he wanted to make himself seem better.
I hope so too. What gave him the idea that it was ok to just play with someone else's feelings just because you didn't get the girl you wanted? What the fuck? That other cheater friend didn't show interest in him? Then why didn't he just try harder? Or just look for another girl to love?
This is completely infuriating and I feel so sorry for the wife. people just hurting somebody else because they don't know how to deal with their own shit.
Honestly that response from the husband, is kinda sus.
I dont know, it just kinda doesnt make sense? Why would he write that if he had an intervention to safe his marriage?
Also, if both people in a relationship use reddit, feels like theyd find this post sooner?
The post reads more like the wife using it to defend against people in the comments who are defending the husband
@@TheBenole Not at all. The writing styles are completely different. OP seems to talk in an almost clinical way, while the husband seems to use more gilded language to encouch his shittiness. Also, OP used a throwaway it seems, and just because two people who know each other both use Reddit, it doesn't mean they both follow each other.
But most importantly, it doesn't appear that the husband _wanted_ the intervention. That appears to be sarah's idea. Even his participation in it and description of it sounds more like "My life is comfortable how it is, and I have an excuse to be around my true love, and I don't want to lose that" as opposed to "I fucked up, I fucked up bad, but I love my wife dearly and couldn't imagine being with any woman other than her."
I'm willing to bet that if sarah opened with "Would you rather have an intervention to save your marriage, or to sign your divorce papers and marry me?", the husband would have called OP and BEGGED her to contact a divorce lawyer ASAP and he'll agree to any terms as long as he can move in with sarah that night.
The first story is deeply disturbing... shame on both of those 'parents' for what they did. The best thing Scott did was not hide it afterwards to his 14 yr old daughter. At least that gave all of the girls a push to be free of them. I hope the courts side with the children. I've been through family court getting kids of family members away from bad situations, and even with all the proof in their hands, they still "re-united" the kids with their parents..... If there's ever another update, I'd like to hear it.
You're excellent at conveying truly righteous indignation on their behalf reading this out. Thank you.
It's messed up that CPS will remove kids from homes that have a few problems like lack of food or unsanitary conditions but the parents clearly love their kids and are trying their best but just need some help. And then they'll leave kids with horribly abusive pieces of garbage who should never be allowed around another child for the rest of their life.
I hate "but fAmIlY!" I lived with some cruel relatives for 5 years of my childhood and it's left me absolutely fucked up ever since.
Hey rslash I found the post about the cheating husband of 10 years. Apparently he had been sleeping with Sarah before she was married for 4 years of HIS marriage. The only stopped because she felt she had to out of "respect" for her husband.
Who needs enemies when you have "friends" like Sarah
Sarah wasn't interested in him until AFTER he was married to amber. Whatta capital C... I hope that op and the "friends" husband wipe the floor with those cheating d-bags and they get taken for every last penny they boringly saved
Step dad = old enough to be dad.
I hope she gets over her misplaced loyalty and spreads the truth as far as she can. He was doing this intentionally. He had this in mind for a while. It didn't start the day she turned 18.
I don’t think the age gap matters. I think what matters is the fact that he’s known her since 2 years old. Also not only did he try to groom his stepdaughter but he *failed* at it, what a loser.
@@bestpiss it's not about the age gap. It's about him wanting to do those things with his step daughter he raised from when she was 2 years old, and then calling her a wh0re when she rejects the proposal.
@@bestpiss The age gap doesn't matter here, yes.
But keeping it in mind (the fact that he was in a relationship with OP's mom when she was TWO, for example) makes the whole situation even worse than it already is
@@shadeaubetoile9799 you only read the first sentence, huh…
@@bestpiss That third sentence is fucking HILARIOUS. Like, part of the thing that makes grooming so scary is the fact that hugs and kisses, candy, and even just spending time together can all be part of grooming, how do you fuck up THAT badly?
First Story: OP needs to bash her parents. I’m so glad OP managed to get her sisters out of there. Scott is a creep and needs to be in prision. Like Scott is horrible but OP's mom is worse for even considering allowing this.
Second Story: OP’s husband sounds like a prick and I would’ve divorced him too if I was OP. I couldn’t imagine finding out my marriage was based off being second best to someone else. Him making his side of the story made him look even worse and the fact that he cheated on OP is insane. So not only did he ruin his relationship, he ruined someone else’s relationship
those cops are useless af
He didn't ruin someone else's relationship all by himself. She's a crappy friend, too.
drowning people tend to drag others down with them
Story 1: Why should he be in prison? He did not touch anyone underage so nothing was illegal.
Story 2: There are more marriages that are based on things other than looks. How did he ruin someone's ese relationship? You seem to be a man hating woman or should say a new-aged feminist. Please take your toxicity somewhere else.
Ikr?! I was screaming, "Bash them! Go ahead and bash them!".
Story 1: I hope that stepdad gets whats coming to him. What an absolute monster.
Story 2: I also expected some context, like husband saying “yeah I was struck by Sarah because of how hot she is, but then found out how amazing Amber is and how we matched personality. But then after a decade Amber just seems distant and unloving, so I snapped and said something stupid “. But nope it’s worse.
A similar situation to the first story happened to people I know. My best friend's dad was a sex addict and tried coming on to my friend's half sister, excusing it with the fact that he wasn't her father. He'd been involved with her mother and in her life since she was 13.
The flags from the final story are all over the place, she thought their marriage was perfect while he found it boring, I think I know which one wasn't putting in any effort. Also what was that part about regretting it? Was his ten year crush not all it was cracked up to be? Isn't this the part where he gets with his dream girl? Why does he regret that both their marriages are ending? Was he planning to force "amber" to put up with him forever?
Just cause he slept with his dream girl doesn't mean the dream girl is interested in him.
I don’t trust the husband’s post to be real. Sounds like someone read the second story and attempted to write something from the husband’s point of view, and failed in the dullest way possible.
@@OneEyeShadow my question was rhetorical
Also, why did she sleep with him if she wasn't interested
@@OneEyeShadow they actually had been sleeping together 4 years into his marriage with amber. Sarah only broke it off when she got married "out of respect for her husband"
@@Tustin2121 While that does happen, something about the way he described the "girl of his dreams" sounds like an original poster and not a fake. Redit is filled with people who start their stories with how they used to view their spouse before things went bad and that sounds pretty similar.
"Bash the ever loving sh!t out of your parents" is a beautiful line, I love the delivery on it.
Bash physically and reputationally (I know that's not a word), if you ask me.
“She told me she’d be okay with it, and she’d be in the room as well.”
I honestly just involuntarily blurted out “Oh, Jesus Christ!” right in the middle of work. 🤮
Luckily I was the only one in the room. 😂
That line just showed she's just as bad as her husband. What kind of parent would want to be in the room while their kid is bumping uglies, much less with their own spouse?
Yeah, that part made me a little sick to my stomach, not gonna lie.
i want rSlash to see!!!
My fiancé finally found your channel and started watching from the beginning allllll day at work to catch up with me. We’re officially an rSlash household!!!!
OHOHOHO. Two uploads in a row with possible demonetization? Getting bold rSlash. But these stories need to be heard.
Good on you.
Story 1:
I unfortunately am going through a similar issue. Instead of my stepdad, it’s my step brother. I have pretended to be okay with his presence for years since he s*xually assaulted me (when I was a minor, he was in his late 20s)
The night it happened, I called my actual brother and he came over with a golf club. My mom was literally acting conflicted and trying to defend him saying he’s drunk and just lost his wife.
I’m 21 now, I’ve finally started being strict with my boundaries with my parents. It’s hard. It’s so hard. They aren’t supportive. My mom has told me to let go of the past so many times and how I’m dramatic, even going as far as saying what happened didn’t happen. He’s invited to all family events and I know it’s going to be extremely hard with this. I’ve tried making boundaries the first year I moved out, but I just wanted to keep the peace. I had to see him recently bc my grandparents hold a Christmas thing. Nobody else knows what he did to me, other than my parents and my actual brother and his wife. I’m too afraid to talk about it. I know if I did and they were to stop inviting him to stuff, my mom would be blaming me left and right.
I have so much abuse stories. It’s extremely hard setting boundaries because I know how abusive my dad was to her and my brother (will absolutely not get into that.)
I don’t wanna be around my stepbrother at all, he made a gross comment about my chest last Christmas in my own house. I’ve legitimately pretended to be okay with being around him for the sake in not losing my parents and to keep the family at peace because I cannot mentally handle what would pursue.. I finally did, he isn’t invited to my Christmas, i ignored him and stayed far away from him at my grandparents and stuck by my brother and his wife. (Also my brother currently has my mom cut off completely, and mom makes that my problem all the time by constantly trying to get me to talk for her and get his new address and just shit I will NOT do.)
I love my mom so much, she’s a very generous woman and tbh I’m mentally attached to her her but she’s so awful and she doesn’t respect me. My mom and stepdad help me with groceries sometimes when I struggle, I tell them not to but they send money which makes it harder for me to know what to do about anything. She allowed me to be abused by another family member physically for the entirety of my teen hood because she didn’t wanna lose them. She denies any abuse ever happened, unless when she’s the victim, then it’s important.
I just wanted to relate a bit with the story since I’m currently going through hell with my parents regarding boundaries. I don’t wanna cut them off but I may end up having to and that crushes me.
Again, there’s so much context and a lot of stories I have. But I just wanted to share something I relate with a little. I’m glad I’m not alone but at the same time, it’s awful. Nobody deserves to of through any of this sort of thing. (Also apologies if my grammar or anything was shit, I’m sleep deprived and it’s hard to type right now. Thank you for listening)
"In a drunk stupid mistake we ended up sleeping together."
The funny thing about being drunk is that the first part of your brain the alcohol shuts down is the rational part that would stop you from doing stupid things that, deep down, you always wanted to do (also, primal instincts, such as reproductive ones, kick in). He always wanted to be with Sarah, and being drunk just gave him the push he needed.
That wasn't a mistake. It was a CHOICE.
Yo hey rslash, I just wanted to say thank you for always uploading daily, you’ve given me enjoyment early in the morning from my freshmen year in high school to o getting me thru my now full time job, your videos are always the perfect thing to listen to while I do other things
Rslash Always uploads, 11:30 pm my time so I usually have to wait till next morning
@@sytherwusky I wanted to dislike the comment cuz that sucks but that's not how dislikes work here lol but yea that sucks. It's 9am my time so I'm usually waiting an hour/half hour for the upload lol
Story 1: What the hell is wrong with this man? He needs to either go to jail or therapy, because this behavior is just…NO!
Jail no, he did nothing illegal. Therapy yes we all need it.
He should have thought of therapy before shacking up with a woman to get to her daughter. Anyone with attraction towards kids needs to do that and just stay away from kids as best they can.
@@akl2k7 I don't think he has an attraction for kids those types of people don't go for adults. They stay going for kids. He needs therapy for grooming behavior and the mom needs it as well.
@@xeedflarian9748 Sometimes they do, unfortunately. Have you ever heard of a book called Lolita (I never read it, but understand the gist of its plot). It's exactly about that sort of thing. The most common molesters are adults related to their kids such as parents or stepparents.
@@akl2k7 yes it can happen but it is not the norm. They usually dispise and are disgusted by adults.
Story 2; husband's story: I like that he was trying to defend himself, how do you justify wanting someone better because you believe your marriage is boring, and then got dead drunk with another married woman and had passionate hugging, he's right, it doesn't make him look worse, what the husband did ruined and destroyed his 10 year marriage, in the span of 6 months, beyond repair.
If you're the type of person who openly says you settled for less, I consider you a shitty spouse no matter what you justify it with
Story 1: Wow. Just . . . Wow. I can't imagine being that mother or being the step parent in that scenario and just being okay with it. That is disgusting beyond belief.
Story 2: You see this, this is why you don't get married that young. Even after two years of dating. Me and the man in my life confessed when we were 19. As of this November, we'll have been in the talking stages for two years. We're going much slower than one would suggest, but we're still taking it slow. If we had started dating when we were 20, I wouldn't be jumping into marriage at 22. I also don't know what I'd do if my husband was cheating on me with my best friend. Personally, my best friend doesn't have those kinds of standards but just hearing your partner or spouse say, "Oh, your best friend (or even family member) is more attractive than you but because they had someone else, I settled for you," even without the cheating just shatters your self esteem, your whole world. They're supposed to be the only person's opinion you care about, the person who's supposed to love you inside and out and who'll want to tell you how wonderful you are. They're not supposed to make you sound second fiddle to your best friend or even their own.
Story 2 the husband's side: Sir, what you say makes you sound worse in comparison to your wife. Also, why don't you just talk to her. Get your face out of your screen and just talk and explain things to her like a normal human being. Granted, your first bad move wasn't not saying anything. IT WAS OPENING YOUR MOUTH AND SAYING HOW YOU SETTLED FOR YOUR OWN WIFE, YOU JERK!!!! The man is an idiot.
Some dug through reddit....and apparently in the comments of his post he admitted that he and Sarah had been sleeping together during like 4 years of their marriage but it stopped when Sarah got married. (Which explains why she handled things the way she did...cuz I initially found the "intervention" odd) and he said a number of other things that showed him to be a completely self absorbed narcissist who legit thought his post was putting the blame on his wife. (He truly thought the world would see it as her having done him wrong by not being exciting enough for him...he thought the world would agree he didn't need to participate in his own marriage to make it work) His main character syndrome had him thinking that people not catering to him would be seen by strangers around the globe as awful. 🤣🤣🤣 so you are more right than you ever could have guessed by calling his intelligence into question. Lol.
My wife recently went through some major surgeries, which made sex a no go for many months.
Not once did I think I needed someone else to fill that void. Went to the bathroom and handled things myself while I patiently waited for her recovery.
What an absolutely disgusting person to demand your step daughter to have set with you!
My first thought with that first story was "Tell them! Who do you think he's going to target next after you're gone?!"
EXACTLY
As someone who was not assaulted but was family with a sexual predator I relate to the ops younger siblings. I was 14 when I got pulled aside to be questioned and told, and I absolutely needed to be told. It sucks and life suck but you have to know to be able to protect yourself.
The first story/updates to it genuinely sound like a failed attempt at grooming considering his plan all along was to wait till she was legal. Incest aside which is bad enough on its own, this is textbook grooming, manipulation and abuse.
While I haven't agreed with you for a while now, I do agree with your assessment of this.
Story 1: What the fuck.
I can understand OP not wanting to tell her sisters for the exact reason her fourteen year old sisters reacted. Speaking out about abuse is never easy, and I can’t imagine what OP was going through.
I just… what the actual FUCK.
Edit: Just when I thought “…didn’t Dabney warn about transphobia?” HOLY SHIT THERE IT IS. Toss Scott in the garbage, please.
Ugh the 14 year olds are like let's destroyed our older sisters' belongings before find out the actual truth.
The police and some of the CPS workers make me sick in that story. They don't intervene until it's too late.
Story one: "bash the ever loving **** out of your parents."
R/slash. I think Scott wants that
Mm yes, bash them. With a table.
The first story hits close to home for me. My sister was abused by my mother's partners (including my biological father) for years. I didn't know any of this because I was a baby (9 year age gap), so when I turned 18, I told my sister I wanted to find my biological father (he left when I was 6 months old) and she sat me down and told me truth. I remember feeling distraught and helpless cos there was nothing I could do to change it but it made us closer as sisters
In that first story, I really feel for the fourteen year olds. I was fourteen just a couple years ago and I was like that too, doubtful of the words of others. It's a good thing they were safe in the meantime and that they weren't further fooled
Especially cuz, this is your dad, your dad wouldn’t do that, that’d make him a monster, and your dad can’t be a monster. God those poor girls, can you imagine?
Story 2: Not to be that person, but funny how "amber" or op is the funny and kind good friend. But Sarah, nah she just the pretty dream girl with no mention of her personality. Like how does this dude like enough to want a relationship, but have nothing to say about her personality and what makes Sarah better for him than Op. HIS OWN FREAKING WIFE MAN.
You're totally right! And then Amber says she thought they had the perfect marriage, and he's sitting there saying its boring and "just like a friendship". This dude just wants s*x and doesn't have the nerve to admit it
Thanks for covering this sub, This may just be my favourite sub since most of the time there's a definite conclusion rather than the story leaving us hanging
I can totally relate to OP in the first story. Only they didn't ask, he just did it. From 6-12, and my mom never knew but when court happened she didn't believe me and sided with him.
My dad did, and he took me in, saving me from foster care.
I’m so sorry, what an absolute evil person he was. I hope you’re doing ok
That's so sad
Even went you were in court (in front of a juge a place where can't Denie the true) your on mom still side wiph him so to me not only she din't belived you but she obviously didn't wanned to!!!
Your mother as chosed her man over her on child.
So Bigup's to bilogical father to step up for you and take you under his wing [now we all know why left her]
So i hope your dad continue to help you to move on (and remember not all man are bad)
@@morganorangerjean-noel1946 My dad left my mom because she had a big gambling addiction. Not because she would believe her husband over her own kid... Plus she never knew about the abuse in the first place and she denies it was my step dad who did it but does believe I was abused by someone. It's stupid I know, but that's one of the stages of grief after all. Plus whenever I see her she's actively gone out of her way to, in her words "Make sure I never have to see him again" and she's been the one to help me find an actual doctor unlike my dad unfortunately. So... Both have their pros and cons.
@@moxyalternis2016 well im sorry for misundersantding the whole situation (i just hope if in a relationsship someday you will not relive the same nithgmare and see there's still well behave boys and grils out there) good luck to you 💖💗💝💓💝💞💝💗💖
I am so sorry that you were violated and betrayed by people who were supposed to love and protect you. I hope you know - with every cell in your body and fiber of your being - that none of what happened to you was your fault. Your dad is a hero. And you are a SURVIVOR. Wishing goodness and happiness for you from here on out!
Story 1: what the hell is wrong with this stepfather?! What he did was sooo wrong in so many ways, Op’s mother should’ve seen this coming and divorce him!!! Asking your daughter to sleep with her stepfather that’s just 😨😨!!
Story 2) To everyone who has ever said "we're getting one side of the story" to excuse and/or defend abusers, cheaters, and generally toxic people. HERE'S YOUR PRECIOUS OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY. IN. ALL. IT'S. GLORY.
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The first OP asking if she should break her sister's heart was absolutely sad.. she never did anything wrong, all she would be doing is telling on a monster and his absolute manipulation..
Thank God, OP and her sisters got out safe! People like Scott should never be a stepdad or a dad in general.
You know someone messes up real bad when rslash swears without censoring
I think her parents "Accidentally" stumbled across something on a certain website that they shouldn't have and now are trying to reenact them👀
oh what are you doing Stepdad?
So I'm not the only one who keeps refreshing at 9 am?
It's 7 am for me
for me rslash posts at 2am lmao. And since it's the school holidays i just wait for this
6 AM for me
15:00 for me and im always waiting
8AM
OK so with the first story, my uncle was a child predator, has been for years but none of us really knew until he attacked my 2 younger cousins. He never did anything to me because my dad literally would've killed him. His exact words to me were "If he ever did anything to you I would bash his fucking skull in"
At the end, it sounded to me like Dabney called it "messed up redditor updates."
That would definitely have been a good title.
Dude I'm not going to lie that first story was so disturbing and sad to hear at the same time because I just feel bad for the original poster in her siblings because of the fact that they were raised by a sexual predator and it's just like so disgusting like how far the situation went but thankfully the original poster had her and an uncle there to back her up and get her siblings out of that situation and man that was just hard to listen to
Oh God I literally just got out of the shower.... I think I need to turn right the hell around and take another after that first story. 😳
Story 1: OP needs to have a cape because she is clearly a hero here. its good to know that she and the other family had her back, that creep probably would have tried to have his own daughters later in life or their friends after/during a sleep over or something. I would make sure that guys computer, emails etc got a good look at too.
“We drank and in a drunk stupid mistake we ended up sleeping together.”
*You got the STUPID part right.*
Be me:
-At work, relaxing and with free time waiting for this video to pop up
-All call on the radio “Fuel spill in the hanger”
-Be me waiting for the “This is a drill”
-Silence … … … …
-BE ME, GETTING FULLY BLOUSED GRABBING MY CRANIAL AND RUNNING.
I've been listening to rslash every morning without fail for years, I think this might be the most crazy compilation yet.
I feel for story one, my step-dad didn't even wait until I was 18 and molested me and my sisters for YEARS. He's still on the run from the cops and it's infuriating.
Story 2 - when the ex-husband’s side of the story was announced, I was very curious on how he’d be able to defend his action. Turns out the answer was “horribly.” In what universe does that guy think that any of what he did was even remotely ok?
My stepdad has been around since I was 11 and I’m in my 30s now and he’s never done anything inappropriate and I’m pretty sure if he’d heard the story he’d be disgusted like to his core that seems like the kinda guy he’d beat up. And probably get my mom to beat up the mom for cosigning that request. You raised despite blood or not that child as your own the fact that he can see her as anything but is disgusting
I have been having a weird sleep schedule where I go to bed around your posting time, and literally the first story made me take a stiff drink. Jeez
That means you are a normal functioning human having a completely normal reaction.
Have one for me!
I really really appreciate you naming what the specific trigger warnings were, I have noticed some podcasts/CZcamsrs will say “trigger warning” but don’t give any sort of information about what is triggering, so I just really appreciate that from you ❤
Second story reminded me of something that happened to me. I dont think mine was as serious as a marriage, but it was shitty and it shattered my world nonetheless. I emigrated with my bf at the time in search for a better future and basically running from the Venezuelan crisis. I was working crazy hours at night in a very exploitative job so I ended up getting very sick after almost a year of that. My bf suggested I quit my job and he supports me while I get healthy. Days later I find a text on our phone with his ex gf about how much he regrets not fuckin her. I was jobless, depressed, sick and knew nobody in this new country. And this, and that second story is why I dont trust people to actually love me.
I hope things are better and wish you the best
@@SoManyRandomRamblings I still have stuff to heal and work through but Im much better. Thank you for your wishes!
The number of times I’ve been called a whore, slut, skank etc. for saying no to sleeping with men is ridiculous. I’m not surprised whatsoever that that was the step dad’s response.
Second op: The husband needs therapy, he’s an asshole for leading her on but he got some toxic defense mechanisms, like completely ignoring her question. If he wants to redeem himself at all he should work things out with himself.
Y'know, one thing that gets me is that in Story 1, even if OP *was* a wh*re, that still doesn't entitle Scott to access to her body. Who she decides to sleep with and how many people is entirely up to her.
First story reminded me of the reddit story where a daughter walked in on their parents doing stuff while the mom was wearing the daughters clothes and it turns out the mom roleplayed as the daughter while the parents did it.
The first story in this video is by far worse but either way I'm glad my family isn't the type to do...well anything close to this kind of thing.
Omg🤢
The first story is absolutely insane and I was holding my breath every time you said there was another update I am so thankful that some progress has been made for her. It is so disgusting I could literally throw up
You've never gotten drunk and thought "hey my cousin is very handsome man" lolol
If I got drunk and started thinking about hitting on my cousin, I would never get drunk again.
Honestly as OP I’d probably have told my sisters something along the lines of “You’ll never believe me if i tell you what’s wrong, not in a millions years, because honestly….. I still don’t believe it. And it happened TO ME.”
This isn’t good advice but it’s just what I would have said in the situation
I was listening back on older RSlash episodes and its wild to listen to these newer ones and hear how things have changed. Like both the reading style, the expressiveness, the pacing. Its wild to see how much can be different despite the fact that the visuals are still generally the same.
The first story is disgusting. The mom is just as bad as the pathetic step dad. Im glad she and her sisters got out of the situation. Honestly scared for the baby the mom is about to have, what if the same thing happens to them? I hope the second story escalates into a prorevenge story.
Before watching RSlash: "Man, my sleep was great, my breakfast was good, life is perfect!"
After watching today's video: *furious drywall smashing noises*
In the last story where the husbands like "Now for my side of the story" and then shows himself as even worse! is funny AF
Story2- op husband literally said yea I just dated her cuz she seemed interested, he never truly liked her he literally just married her because why not, like he didn't even try to find someone he would actually care about, just took an easy road because why not
Hey rslash, you're the best CZcamsr for always uploading at the same time, whenever i see one of your videos just went up or are about to go up i always get happy to watch them, so thank you for always uploading and being the best CZcamsr out there
This is just a theory. But what if he doesn't see his step daughter as his real daughter (not even as a relative or related to him in any way) and thinks it's morally okay to do so? Not that it makes it any better but it's at least better for the other children in the house.
Given his reaction to the younger daughter asking about it, he almost certainly does think that.
Pretty sure he's thinking more about legality than morality. In a moral sense she's basically his daughter, in a legal sense she's not.
@@octosquatch. It's a mix of both. He might think it's moral for him because she's neither legally nor biologically related to her.
I lost it when he said "Grandpa Grandma you gotta get me the hell out of here"
I hope he keeps an eye on those last two stories from the husband and the wife because I am quite curious how it truly ends
That last part wasn't the husband's side of the story. He talks about the same event and describes them the same. Those "2 sides" were written by the same author.
I've been drunk multiple times, even to the point of being blacked out, I've never initiated any form of sexual contact with anyone any of those times.
Being drunk is a lame attempt at an excuse.
For the second story, i though that you had read the story before, then there's the husband's side. To be honest, I love it when posts intertwine like this. More drama + entertainment
It must have been so terrifying for the first OP. Those people were her parents. She already had to learn her stepdad was a creep, and then her mother encouraged it? Even though it was the only right thing, telling her sisters would inevitably traumatize them and there was the huge risk of them not believing her, which meant losing even more of her family members.
Why did he want to passionately hug his stepdaughter instead of an alternative? She’s there, she’d be free, and he’s probably been lusting after her for years.
I am so happy to hear the conclusion of that first story. Not every country has the same laws surrounding it, but I believe that trying to have sex with someone to who you are the caregiver is illegal.
Abuse of power, grooming, all that and more. Even if someone is above the age of 18, this is still a form of child predator even.
And as the story unfolded itself, it appears that he's been setting something like this up ever since she was like 14. The scariest part is that if op was a bit more malleable and insecure, and stepdad was smarter about it, he might have gotten away with it. 14 year olds are more impressionable then they think after all.
And if he's actually trying to influence those girls at age 14, then it's a good thing that they are all out now because he'd just continue on to the next one.
That last story: "that's my first mistake", boy I was already at like 4 at that point?
First story hits close.... My stepdad molested me for years, i did it so my sisters wouldn't suffer, my mom didnt believe me when i said it and now i get the joy of watching him slowly suffer for all her did.
In happy bow that he's out if my life, i made a family that loves me and will protect me.
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the first story just breaks my heart, its horrible how OP's mom is so okay with it. And i know how much it hurts to have that happen with people you think you could trust... its horrible and im so glad that they all got out okay. Any survivors of SA that see this just know that you aren't alone and there are people that will help you, even if it does take a while, and i hope you are doing okay now.
The step dad in the 1st story reminds me of my mom's ex... and my mom also just said that it's just how he is 😬
Only thing that makes it even more insane is the fact that her mom said that she'd be in the room as well... like... whats?!?!
(Also calling someone a whore for *not* sleeping with you- How does that make sense?!)
That "whore" thing is a typical part of gaslighting.
That first story - WTF. I think a base ball bat needs to visit the step dads kneecaps.
One of my favorite lines I've heard ties into story 1:
"Incest is best when you keep it in the family!"
Last story I hoped he's gonna clarify like "At first I liked her friend, but after getting to know OP I realized I actually love her, not her friend" or something along those lines. But NO. He made it even worse.