Build Strength From Struggle | My Story
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- čas přidán 13. 06. 2024
- This is my own personal story that I like to share with the world to show that it's possible to get to places in your life that you couldn't even imagine. It's not easy, but it IS possible.
The other personal video that I was talking about:
• My Struggles & Success...
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Hey guys. These videos are tough to make and release because they are so personal but I feel like it can really help some people to use me as an example of someone who was an absolute fuckup and was able to change things around. It is hard as hell, but don't give up and let your hardships consume you, no matter how bad your circumstances are.
I also want to thank every single subscriber, viewer, etc because without you, I would not be where I am today.
I have always known Traversy is a real dude! Much love master.
Thanks for sharing this with us Brad. Although I haven't watched the entire video yet, man I'm having the jitters and anxiety applying at companies. I come from the field of Accounting and sometimes I wonder, do I even belong in this field of work (tech). Impostor syndrome definitely kickin in and in high gear.. 🤣
It came to the point where I simply wondered, maybe I should just return to my Accounting profession and just stay there. I'm 31 and thought it's worth the risk and so I went for it. Not hearing from companies and getting some 'we have moved on to find other suitable candidate' mails from recruiters is really getting to me.. 🤐
K, back to the video. Once again, thanks a lot Brad for all that you do! ✌🏻
nice
I think you're awesome, Brad!
Thanks
I think this is the most important video that you've ever made!
I agree. This one really hit home 🏘️
I agree
Exactly. I am impressed.
U.K. You’ve made a living man, and YOU DESERVE IT Sir. I today owe my knowledge of Web Dev to you and although still struggling, I know I will get there eventually. I try to buy your Udemy courses just to show the LOVE because it’s your CZcams tutorials that kickstarted this my journey. I love you coolness in your presentation and above all this, you know where to start to get even a baby who can only speak to understand what you want to convey. These stories are mind blowing because drugs affect the mind and if those of us who have never tried a stick of cigarette still don’t know what to do, then we have a problem. We were NOT all made to be six (6) figure earners but at least we can all try to give our families at least a decent life. You are a 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Absolutely
You made me cry brother! not out of sympathy but out of similarity. I grew up poor in the ghetto, my father was In prison most of his life (died last year from drinking), my brother was a gang member, my house use to get shoot at all the time, everyone in my family were in the same mindset, I of course followed as a juvenile and because of a bad crowd i did 5 years in prison at the age of 17. I came out and had a son created a family and now I'm the first in my family to pursue education. I'm going to college & also doing a full stack course which I graduate in June. I'm still broke and struggling but! I can see the light! I believe in myself and I'm doing this for my sons future. Thank you for your story really lifted me up.
Lets goooo, full stack all the way
i hope you are in better place now and that your graduation went well
wishing you best..hoping things would have worked out well.
keep going
let’s get this!
"I think we live in a world where everyone wants to be some kind of victim" truer words have never been said 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I came here for this very comment. lol
very true word
I get what was being said, but I completely disagree with the wording. People don't _want_ to be victims, people want their issues acknowledged in hopes of finding help. Many people have legitimately troubled lives and want solutions, so they cry out. Disregarding this as some kind of attention seeking is a disservice to society and frankly a way to gaslight people.
In short, seek psychiatry if you can/need it, and don't try and bury your mental problems people. That leads to depression.
I work at a company with woke employees who are just like this.
@@n-0-1lol the people complaining about “woke” are the biggest victims I’ve seen lol
"The computer industry will have to wait for Mr. Traversy." I can't even begin to wrap my mind around this. I think the whole industry knows who you are now. Amazing story Brad, thanks for sharing.
Haha, I wouldn't go that far, but yeah I would like to write a letter to that judge. He wouldn't remember me or what he said, but I wish people in places of authority wouldn't count people that are in a bad place out so easily. Ofcourse he had no faith in me what so ever.
@@TraversyMedia - You should absolutely do it! He’d enjoy seeing your success. Might even be friends because of it.
The judge was an astrologer.
@@despareint lol.
@@TraversyMedia u r famous in middle-east devs community almost all my friends know who u r and they really appreciate u
I appreciate your story. After years of learning I finally landing a salaried position. To me this is a dream. Like you, I have a hell of a past. Been in the feds 3 times, the state once, and grew up in a Juvenile Prison System in Texas (TYC). Now, after learning to code, we live in the suburbs, credit turned out good (somehow) and actually work with "normal" people. Thank you for your story and your inspiration. I'm 38 and never thought I'd live what looked like a "normal" life.
That is so awesome man. Congrats on being able to rebuild your life. I know exactly what you mean about working with "normal" people lol. It took me some getting used to.
You deserve it my friend :)
i’m 38 too. brad definitely helped me get land my first salaried dev position as well. i am extremely grateful ❤
Right there with you man
I am struggling with my mom's death and I feel that I lost interest in everything including developing software, thanks for this video, it is very motivating for me.
Sorry to hear about your loss Juan. Sending you love
@@pranoychow3808 thanks so much!
@Ville Pakarinen I'm trying, thanks!
sorry man.
Stay strong bro, indeed everybody has to go later or sooner.
To that judge who laughed, Brad is the reason why I got a 1:1 in my degree and now doing better than ever.
Thanks for sharing this Brad, I know a lot of people will relate and benefit from your story. Even though you and I had very different backgrounds, you were still one of the people that made me believe I could do something big with my life.
Thanks Dennis 👊
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@@TraversyMedia I am touched by u this video today after i follow you on CZcams 2 years ago
I remember when you first talked about this stuff back when I was just getting started with programming. That helped me a bunch and it let me know that there were people like me who were able to accomplish big things from learning how to code. It's good to know we're not alone! Thanks for sharing your story Brad! Also recently found out about UnderDog Devs, seems like they're doing really good things for people who are trying to improve their lives by learning to code!
Dorian, your own story and channel aren't less inspiring! Big fan.
hey
I know this a couple years old now, but I need you to know how much this video meant to me. I’m cleaned up now, but Im a heroin/opiate addict myself, have a criminal record albeit not quite as serious as yours, and have my first kid on the way. I’ve been cook/chef for a long time, and it’s just not going to cut it where I live having a baby, plus I hate this industry I wake up every day and dread going to work. I started learning programming about 6 months ago now, and have used a lot of your tutorials, but I think that this video helped me more than any other I’ve watched. I’ve been terrified that even if I learn it I still won’t be able to break in the industry. This gave me hope.
Wish you success, God bless you.
I've been studying web development for the past two years. Right now, I'm in the deepest rut I've ever been in, seriously struggling with mental health issues. I really needed to hear this. Thank you, Brad. You have a heart of gold.
hello maina
howve you been doing with your mental issues
Im a GEMA like you lol
Thanks for sharing this, Brad. I hope your story can inspire other people to pursue their dreams, whether in tech or other things.
I'm also in recovery. I went from age 20-35. 5 years and 5 months clean from all opioids and benzos, hoping to make it 5 years and 6 months soon and learning how to code to transition from IT support to web development. I'm still at the start of my journey but your videos have helped me so much. Thank you for sharing your story, trust me I know how hard it is to open up about this stuff.
All the best bro 💪
heyy I'm also transitioning from tech support! good luck to you :)
Congrats on your sobriety. It's not easy.
Year 2017: I started to learn programming from one of your videos and a few days ago I landed my first full-time Dev job. There were times where I felt this was not the right gig for me, or felt like I was not smart enough. I was almost about to give up on that dream when you had released another video similar to this talking about your struggles and how you overcame them. That had really motivated me to not give up and I am really thankful for what you do Brad because without stumbling on to your videos and advice, I would not be where I am today.
42 and wanted to learn how to code. I found your videos and have learned so much. Being from Mass, I think we speak the same language and that has made it easier to absorb the material! Keep up the awesome work, and thank you!
Very inspirational story! Seems like programming saved your life
yoo florian hows it going
@@robloxiansexclusive1781 Fine and you?
You are great Brad. I really feel these videos and I value humans like you tremendously. Thanks for doing what you are doing and I wish you and your family all the best.
I miss your videos
I was struggling financially 5 years ago when I started coding through your courses, now my life has completed changed and you're a big part of that. Thanks a lot Brad, you've inspired me to never be a victim of the circumstances and always turn the bad things into fuel to achieve my dreams! Cheers from Brazil!
here in China, it's really my luckness to come across your channels. Thank u so much sir for your kind and powerful voice that makes me feel much better. I have difficult in learning Front-end by myself from scratch. Every single word you've said fuels my persistence towards this tough journey.
You are my hero and you are an awesome human being with good heart💖.
Brad!!❤❤❤.
The computer industry waited indeed, and today, it is championed by Traversy on all fronts. Thank you for not only being human, but for being a human being❤😫❤❤
Thanks Brad for sharing this. My dad hasnt had a stable job since covid started and he is depressed sitting at home forever. Hope I will be able to start supporting my family soon.
1 year later, things have been a lot better. I have started freelancing and have got a long term client with decent pay. I also managed to land an internship at Microsoft next summer. Looking forward to graduate with a good job. Thank you for everything.
When you decide to come out of your mundane life or totally flip it into another to do something you never thought would do. You have my core RESPECT.
Brad, whenever you release a personal video like this, you kinda restore my faith in humanity a bit. Thank you.
Power to you Brad You helped me alot during initial stage of my carrier in IT 🙂💛
I know this video is a year old now, but it really spoke to me. I grew up in a low-income family, and struggled through most of my childhood and early 20s to find my path. I appreciate your vulnerability, and I hope others will find strength and motivation from your story.
I listened to your story and Im amazed by how some people can hit rock bottom and still find personal succes. Stories like this makes happy and feel more hopeful in life
I’ve been working as a developer throughout my 21 years of heroin addiction. Started at 17 and quit at 38 (I’m 42 now). Started programming at 13 and got my first paid job at 17. And your channel is one of my favorite man. Keep up the good work!
Wow. Congrats on your sobriety brother. As you know, its not like it used to be. These days its all garbage fentanyl mixed with God knows what that just can just put you in the ground in a second. Heroin is by no means safe, but it was a lot safer when I was using than now. Glad you made the right choice.
@@TraversyMedia you’re right about not being what used to be. And luckly, I never got into fentanyl. However, kicking methadone was an entirely new thing :)
@@AlexTrout79 Dude how did you get off of the methadone? I guess I can say it’s kept me off the street for 5 years which is amazing, but I feel like a slave to this stuff. Would do anything to get off it.
@@nateo7045 I felt the same way when I kicked it. I slowly tapered off until 4mg/day (from 16mg/day for about 10 years) and then withdrawals kicked in (I guess I should have tapered even more slowly). The next 2 months I slept only 1-2 hours per night and the 3rd month my sleep gradually improved until I got to about 7 hours per night which I considered the end of the withdrawal. I got a lot of RLS though, more than on heroin withdrawal, and I tried everything for it - selenium, magnesium, cbd, etc. The only things that worked, for me at least, was weed. I dont recommand it but I was desperate. Another thing, it’s not this bad for everybody. And if it is bad, know that it’s going to end. I was very worried that something was wrong with me that I have RLS after more than 2 months and I was afraid I was going to be stuck with it for the rest of my life. If you get to that point, know that it’ll end. Good luck!
@@AlexTrout79 I was on Methadone for 10 years. That is something I have not made public. I was on it until fairly recentley where I switched to suboxone and finally got off. Although it is hell to come off of, it saved my life.
You are such an inspiration and a reminder of something I heard years ago. "Discipline, will sooner or later, overtake intelligence." Thank you for what you do!
As someone in recovery myself, its such a relief hearing your story. I've never met another programmer in recovery
Thank you for making this video. I am 40, living back at my mum's, unemployed and learning to code in the UK. You inspire me so much and this was exactly what I needed to hear today. I often feel like I've made some poor choices in my life too but your videos and courses inspire me so much. Sharing your story like this is very brave and will help a lot of people watching. Thank you for everything you do.
I have been going through lot of anxiety and imposter syndrome lately , this video really helps , thanks for being authentic. I am really thankful for you, you are the reason I got a job I have now , even though you are at the other part of the world, you help a lot of people in so many ways ♥️
I can relate completely I'm also going through the same phase
@@vishwasrv stay strong 💪🏽, hope we both pass through this phase quickly
@@keerthanaanandan6062 Thank you , hoping for the best :)
in Quran GOD says he never gives some one more duty+problem than what he capable
thank you for sharing your honest experience
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Brad you're my champion, Literally 90% of my front end skills is from you, Thanks champ
Chris Hawke, Stef Mischook, and Brad are my three biggest influences for sticking with programming. They are just solid, regular guys who find programming interesting and fun. All of their tutorials are great too.
same
Literally crying as I read this. I’ve had some really though weeks trying to figure out what direction to take my career and my business. And I honestly felt like giving up and just saying fuck it to everything. But I’m grateful for this video because I laid my head down tonight being so sick of everything and low key wishing to be done with life. Not sure exactly what my next step is but I gotta keep going. Thanks for being such a great inspiration to the dev community
Hi S N. For me, I was lost until I gave my life to Jesus Christ. Jesus gave me His Spirit and filled me with peace and joy I had never known. I was always deeply depressed before I surrendered my life to Christ. Jesus truly changed me and made me a new person and set me free from depression. Jesus will save you too if you let Him. He's alive and He cares about you deeply. The Gospel of John is a good book to read to learn about Christ's love for us. I just said a prayer for you. Hang in there.
The next step starts with the next foot forward. You've got it. It's not about the failures or the struggle of it, it's about learning from them, keeping your head up, and probably the most important, belief in yourself. Every moment in life, no matter what that moment is, it's a learning exercise in how to be better, get better, do better. You're laying a foundation, the bedrock of stability. So stay strong, keep your head up!
Hang in there buddy, we're on the same boat, I'm also struggling, I just moved into another country and I'm still struggling to find an employment with my obsolete tech skills, I basically thought of ending it all before, but the thought of my kid thinking I'm weak made me reconsider, I don't want to be a bad role model to her when the going gets tough. Tough times don't last, we will get there, all I want now is something to help me pay the bills while learning new techs. cheers
Bro I finished your React course 2 months ago and thanks to you I commercialized my first react app this month. You're one of my mentors and I truly respect you whatever your past is. Lots of love from Switzerland!
Hi broth...!
Thanks to share you little history..!
I am from Ecuador..!
Today i went to offer my little app ...but could not found any interested..!
But I know have to fight just alike yours..!
I love you man! Really needed this.
I needed this Brad. I actually am going through the same situation now, and have been in cycles, that you managed to get off of long ago. Love your story man.
“Grow through what you go through!”
Love you Brad!
Your tutorials helped me a lot on my coding journey. I found a great job as a web developer recently and my life has become better than I'd have ever imagined. Thank you so much!
That is great to hear! I'm glad the tuts could help in any way :)
Please help me to get a job as a dev.
Thanks for uploading this, Brad! I really needed to see this. You're an inspirational person, and a lot of what you say rings true.
Thank you for the inspiration brad! Thank you for helping us reach our dreams! 🚀
Thank you Brad! You’ve been instrumental in my journey of becoming a software engineer.
And thanks to all of you who have posted comments with your inspiring stories. 💛
Your story is inspiring. I watched this video when you posted some of this 2 years ago. Ironically it was right before I started my nursing program. I was in a similar boat to you crazy stoner dabs all day. Now I have a 4.0 in my bachlors program. That consistency thing you mentioned is key. And not giving up.
Awesome! Yeah, with anything that I have done that resulted in success, consistency is the one thing that has always been well... consistent lol
Man I needed this today. Thanks Brad 💪🏽
Been watching and learning from you since 2017, you are the goat Brad! I appreciate what you do
I am watching your videos since 2020, and I have found your content helpful. You are our mentor, and we are glad that you are uploading this type of content.
4:37 - for me personally, someone letting me down like that about my future was always the greatest and strongest motivation to get better and prove them wrong.
Exactly. Like I said in another reply. I wish people would not dismiss others so easily. You can be an entirely different person in just a few years.
@@TraversyMedia thank you for so many things.....this is about the passion with which I watch you videos....you are so home with me .....your voice , your heart I always knew you are one of us....am aiming to better my life and you are an inspiration, thank you again
Amazing Brad! Thank you for sharinh, I needed this.
You inspire me so much Brad. Thank you.
Much respect to you man! We all have our battles(I also haved had my own problems), but you keep fighting and pushing forward to lift yourself up! That's very brave of you to bring this transparency. Thanks man, you're awesome and thanks for all the content!
Thank you Brad, I’ve met other students who’ve mentioned your tutorials and it makes me happy to see how you’ve helped me and others. You’re really brave and strong for sharing your story as it moves me to do better. I look up to you and your genuine intents and I hope you’re doing well!
Loved to hear your story, thanks brad as always
You're an inspiration, Brad. Thanks for all that you do for all of us.
Wow it's like the universe had this video pop up right on time for me to see it. Definitely the encouragement I needed to hear given the recent events I've been through. You're an inspiration brother and thank you for all that you do.
Bravo Brad. Your realness and honesty is something I really respect. I appreciate your struggle and story. You've been a huge part of my growth - from a bootcamp student, to an unemployed bootcamp graduate trying to relearn everything through your CZcams/Udemy courses, to finally an employed Developer (celebrating 1 year this month!).
That's so relatable, so inspiring, Thank you so much sir
Brad is such an amazing person, thank you for everything
man i love you brad, you got me a job,and this hearing your background actually makes me want to work even harder cos I know I've got potential - Thank you and know we appreciate you
Brad i got a lot of respect for you. Seeing where you come from and seeying what you have accomplished is just incredible. I follow you for many years now and learned alot of you. Most i do in my current job is thanks to you. If i not found you many years ago i probably not reached this far. You always inspire me and your way of teaching speaks to me the most. You are a true hero.
Thank you so much for sharing, and being vulnerable. I’m already a developer, but have found your videos to be the most clear for me to understand, and learn from. Keep up the amazing work!
Man I needed this video today. You’re the man
I grew up in Lawrence and have been through some serious lows as I’m sure you can imagine but also managed to climb out of it. Thanks for sharing your story
Thanks Brad ❤️❤️
Keep sharing videos like this
You have inspired me a lot 🙏
Great video Brad, I really appreciate to hear from your story. I think every programmer needs to hear that kind of stories.
Love you man. Thank you for your courses and thank you for this message.
Your story is inspiring and gives me hope as being a felon myself. Love your channel man!
You're an inspiration, Brad. You've helped a lot of devs in many ways myself included. Thank you so much for what you do for the dev community.
I'm right there with you man. I was never an addict, but I was a guy who sluffed off and partied all of the time and didn't have much until about a decade ago. I spend from the ages 18 - 31 waiting tables and working other shitty jobs and sleeping on people's couches not giving a shit about much and owning nothing but my clothes, a couple of guitars, my shitbox car that I had to climb in the trunk to get in because the doors wouldn't open, and a laptop.
After meeting my wife, I turned my life around and now living the best life with an awesome career and not wanting for anything. I love your videos like this dude, I can relate fully.
I absolutely love your teaching style, courses and tutorials Brad! Your breaking down and explanations of complex topics is second to none and the fact that you have come all this way from the hardships you speak of makes me admire your work even more. Thank you man! Hats off!
Brad, just one thing: You're a great guy period. Thank you for the inspiration.
Brad you just made my day. I've battling with depression and relationship issues for some months now but your words lightened me up. You've thought me a lots with all your videos and some landed me jobs. I don't know how I'm gonna repay you for the knowledge I've leanrt from you but God will surely reward you. Thanks man you'd the best 👌
You're awesome! You're changing a lot of lives as an inspiration and as a great content creator.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. So many of us have been affected in some way by addiction and it's generous and courageous of you to share this about yourself. Loving your tutorials as well!
Perfect video, buddy! You prove it's possible to change your life and turn it in a positive direction. No matter what happened. Hats off!
I have learned a lot of things from you and now I have a good tech job. This type of video from you always inspired me to keep going and don't give up. Thank you so much, Brad.
Been getting help from you for a few months now through your videos. Mad love and respect to you for this, dude. We live in an age where everyone wants to come across perfect and to be able to share this is just powerful. Happy to hear you overcame where you were to become the greater version of yourself. Keep up the amazing work!
Brad, you have been one of my inspiration. I once thought about quitting, but your videos and stories give me hope.
Thank you
Man, this resonates so hard with me. Almost exactly my situation, except it's taken me a little longer in life to get into tech. I've been in construction and making just enough money to keep my head above water. My story has just begun, and I hope to be telling a similar success story to yours when I'm finished.
Being a 22 year old 4th year college IT student, who also work as a front end dev on a small company, watching your video makes me deep in thought. To realize that the guy i've been watching countless hours-long tutorials actually stood on such a low point, and then gracefully rise up to this current point.. I'm actually speechless, it really does bring tears to my eyes. So far i've been had not even a fraction of your struggles, and I live in a third world country. Even then, I dont think i can ever be as amazing as you.
Thank you Mr Brad, you have my utmost respect.
Wow, Brad, being so open about such a struggle. Lots of respect, man!
Brad, Thank you for sharing this!
it`s personal but u came out telling us your story and I really appreciate it , you have no idea how bad I wanted to hear a story like this that could motivate me so much to keep going!
I so relate. I also grew up on food stamps and have turned everything around later in life. You are inspiring and provide some of the best content to Developer's.
Recently, I was struggling with coding and development and everything... Lost passion for studying...but you just made my day....This video will be kept in my heart...Thx Brad.. I'm going to be famous to meet you in person. Thx Thx
Mad respect man for sharing your story!
Thank you for sharing Brad! One of the reasons that I follow you, other than great tutorials, is your ability to be vulnerable and share your story. Very inspirational
Thankyou Brad, You're the reason why I have a job because of your dope tutorials.
You are one of the best tutors for web development Brad. Great guy.. Learn a lot from your tutorials ♥️
Brad , you are a great inspiration on so many levels! Thank you
This video means a lot for many and one of those. Love your work man!!!!
Thanks for these videos Brad. I have been following you since 4 years ( since my college), your videos helped me get into web dev. Thanks for everything. May god bless your family ❤️
Thanks so much for following me that long. Seriously. Many come and go and I always appreciate the people that stick around.
I've been riding with you for a YEARS at this point, and when I found you, you made me a friend out of me. I've never found another person who would be willing to cuss in a training video! You could have edited it out but you didn't. All these years later something so simple and HONEST made me believe I could too. You being honest then made me better so thanks Brad.
Thanks Ricky. I appreciate anyone that has been around that long.
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thank you for sharing Brad! Really appreciate it
Thanks for the video Brad. I’ve been following for a while and appreciate the realness
Thank you Traversy for this video, I was almost giving up on my career as a software engineer but this video has motivated me a lot and I’ll keep pushing till I get to where I want to be. Thank you for all your amazing videos
Maybe try and switch it up a little. If you have spent a ton of time trying to break into one area of tech, maybe try a different area or different approach. Trial and error my friend.
I started freelancing last month and made some money for the first time in my life. All thanks to you and all the other youtubers. I still remember following your tutorial and making the to do app in react when I started web dev.
That’s a great feeling. Even if it’s just a few bucks, you earned it. I still remember that feeling.
@@TraversyMedia Yuppp. Telling my parents about this was my favourite part 😂
Hey Brad, thank you for sharing your personal story and where you come from. I think it's an inspiration for so many people. I've been learning a lot from your youtube channel for quite a bit. Keep doing this wonderful job man...!
Brad,
A big 'thank you' for opening up in this way. Your story really is inspirational.
I listen to your training because you go through things both slowly and methodically, and give as much explanation as you can. Your presentation style of voice is also very soothing and easy to listen to. Congratulations on a well-deserved success and really well done for turning your life around.