Schedule an appointment with a sex addiction coach or counselor by calling 719-278-3708. Need help with sex addiction or just more information? Visit the Heart to Heart Counseling Center website at www.drdougweiss.com or go to www.sexaddict.com You can contact my office at 719-278-3708 or email us at heart2heart@xc.org ***CHECK OUT down below the list of resources and materials we created to help you deal with sex addiction and maintaining sexual purity: You can take the 6 types test at sexaddict.com available (which provides some recommendations afterwards). Click here to download our porn blocker: tinyurl.com/bdfa68fd To download our free app, The GamePlan, which has lots of useful videos and content, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/our-app/ You can also watch the free Clean Class you can watch which teaches principles on sexual purity: www.drdougweiss.com/class/ For books and DVDs, we have "The Final Freedom", "Clean: A Proven Plan for Men Committed to Sexual Integrity", and "Lust Free Living". www.drdougweiss.com/product/final-freedom-book/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/clean-a-proven-plan-for-men-committed-to-sexual-integrity/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/lust-free-living/ For female sex addiction, there's the book "She Has a Secret" : www.drdougweiss.com/product/she-has-a-secret-understanding-female-sexual-addiction-ebook/ If you are a teen dealing with this, along with porn and sex addiction, you can check out this video for additional guidance: czcams.com/video/hHA2A4-y9LE/video.html If you struggle with sexualizing and checking out others, check out the DVDs/Video Downloads of "Shattering Sexualization" and "Intrigue Addiction": www.drdougweiss.com/product/shattering-sexualization/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/intrigue-addiction-dvd/ For the book Emotional Fitness, which helps with emotional maturity, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/product/emotional-fitness-book/ If you want to know how much pornography is costing you in life, watch this video: czcams.com/video/n30ZdMxWbDc/video.html If you want more understanding into why you masturbate, watch the CZcams video, "Why Do I Masturbate?": czcams.com/video/q2JHvMYiSw4/video.html If you need support, you can try a phone counseling session, or join a phone group or local group to aid in the path of recovery. We don't get better by ourselves. Call us at 719-278-3708 to join or go to www.drdougweiss.com/groups/ To access the Sexual Freedom Class, a five session video course that provides excellent information and guidance in recovering from porn and sex addiction, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/product/sexual-freedom-class-3/ To sign up for our free weekly newsletter, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/#:~:text=SUBSCRIBE%20TO%20OUR%20NEWSLETTER
You're all mentally ill. Seriously. Not because you're masturbating but because you all seem to think that it's "wrong" or harmful. It's NORMAL human behaviour! Stop worrying, carry on without guilt and enjoy your lives.
@@MrOner07 that is a very good question has men sometimes it can leak throughout the day especially if there's beautiful women walking around or if you're thinking about it LOL but the other guys in this thread is right once you stop doing it it's not hard anymore and you actually don't want to do it. Your mind is that actually a lot clearer to
Man it's awful, hoy you put so much into it to achieve lasting some time without it and then you remind how easy to do it is that you just let yourself fall over and over or at least I speak for myself, hope you've done better man.
i’m really struggling, but i’m glad there are people like you who are here to help me with this. it’s a battle every day for me to stay off of it, and the most i’ve ever gone without it since i’ve started is three days. all of that changes now, and with your help, i think i’ll be able to stop. wish me luck, i’ll need it.
At 20 years old I said to myself I was gonna stop masturbating. I’ll be 30 by the end of the year and I still grapple with this addiction. I’ll go 3-4 weeks in a row without it and my life is so pure, genuine and I’m in greater touch with my creator. Then I relapse, and I find myself for 2 weeks straight having suicidal fantasies, throwing discipline to the wind, gaining weight and being filled with resentment and anger towards my upbringing for the household I grew up in, like how I’ve currently been for the last 10+ days. I can I will I MUST get this part of my life handled. To anyone reading this, I truly hope you find yourself in touch with who you truly are meant to be, and have the strength and courage to live that out for the rest of your life. God bless
Thank you man I may not be older but this does support me I hate having to get to this point where I stop masturbating for like a month or two and I get smacked what almost feels like a train. My life was all great I was talking very genuinely to girls getting nice dates. Then bam the train it happens. I lose my patience, argue a ton, which hurts me a ton and the only person I have to blame is myself your comment has helped me so much mentally I thank you so much.
I just failed yesterday but today my strength is renewed and the fact that we are here and watching this video is proof we are serious about getting over this addiction. My God helped me quit weed, tobacco, alcohol, fast food and many other things so he will help me with this as well. I do feel a strong sense of guilt after I masturbate and feel like I have failed my creator. I'm working on it but we need to give this problem to God to help us. If we go on our own strength we will fail.
I felt this because when I don't do it for at least 2 weeks I notice a difference in how I get along with others and how I look. I feel like I don't have to worry as much because I'm not sinning and I feel like God is happier with me.
im a 23 year old man and ive always thought i was to smart for addiction and over the past few years ive started to realize im not "too smart" for addiction because im SEVERLY addicted to masturbation and ive come to realize how much this addiction is fucking over my life i used to play games and watch movies, tv shows, anime etc and over these past few years ive stopped liking those things almost entirely that's it i have to beat this addiction because ive always hated myself cause i was extremely depressed but this year because ive been going to the gym and working on myself ive actually started loving myself again since at least middle school but with my addiction constantly taking over my life i cant progress anymore so today im GOING to stop it because i NEED to anyway thank you for this video even if you never read this comment and if anyone wants to please pray for me cause im most DEFINATLY going to need it this addiction is STRONG
Dear all Brothers 1) Don't live alone 2) When you get Erection then just close your eyes and breath out for 2 minutes and lightly breath in 3). Stay away from fielty or bad friends 4) Stop watching pron , 5) always be busy and put your focus, concentration in other work 6) pray to God
Why is this so hard to stop. One day I’ll feel likes it’s over, then the next, it’s back. Edit: It's been 10 months and I still haven't stopped it Edit 2: It's July 2022 and I still haven't stopped it but I think I'm getting closer
Starting from today 1. By shutting down all resources for 3 weeks. 2. Do some physical fitness. 3. Concentrate on hobbies 4. Eat fruits and vegetables 5. Pray everyday for forgiveness if this will help i will do again next 3 weeks
I’ve done 3 or 2 of those but I’ve been using the rubber band technique and I’ve gone 4 or 5 weeks in march but I just lost it after masturbation towards the end of march I was even so close to going a month
If you feel like doing it just use your imagination that Jesus is standing in your presence, because He is. He says He will never leave you or forsake you.
I am starting today may god bless me!! Im going to keep track of each day Day one:Completed Day two:Completed Day three: completed Day four: Completed Day five: Completed Day six : Completed Day seven: completed Day eight: completed
I honestly didn't expect myself watching this but thid helps me a LOT. The main reason on stopping masturbation is not because of addiction but because of my religion and conscience. I can manage myself on doing these stuffs but I badly don't wanna do this anymore because my conscience can't handle this thing. Btw, thank you for this session!
The internet tracks your moves every single thing you do in your life, now it’s easy on the same phone cuz since you just typed your favorite porn site and then went back to CZcams inorder to search for something else, it automatically recommends you to a related stuff bout what you were searching for online, look forget bout searching online have you ever imagine why Socail media recommended to you some phones to buy or something you really wanted but wonders how they knew it? Well they track not only your internet movement but your physical movement, if you hold your phone on your hand and you just talking to a friend bout how you wanted to buy an IPhone and an hour later you get Ads or recommendations bout the phone and you wonder how? That’s it they track your movement even stuff that you say even if your phone is off it’s listening to what’s over you are saying and the camera never sleeps 🛌 shit is crazy bro we live in the world where global surveillance is more important than personal privacy.. NSS have your nude pictures that you deleted from your phone for security purposes and for blackmailing specially when you are a celebrity
I've star started at the age of 25 and now I'm 37..and so far since the beginning of June 2020 I've been over coming it thanx to God and thank you too..God bless.
Sincerely, I regret and curse the day a friend and a neighbor introduced me to masturbation!!! This this is so addictive that you feel bad when you don't partake. But thank God, I managed to control and stop it for now 6 years. I feel delivered and better!
I'M a 16 year old teenager battling this for almost 2 years and today I'm proud that I'm gonna leave this shit out of me.And once again thanks doc,I finally got a purpose to do something instead of this and hope I'll do fine.
@@bonnyverry6615 I got a strategy watch a nasty video that will make you wanna gag and then it will make you from horny to disgusted if you cant fine any I'll be happy to find videos for you
I’ve been trying to stop for years and I think I’m finally going to reach out and tell someone about it. I’ve always thought about and that’s it but it’s really become a problem in my life. I want to do other things but I can’t enjoy them when I know I’m doing all these bad and horrible things. It’s like a weights on my back and the thought of “if everyone knew what you’ve done would they treat you differently” it crosses my mind so often and it’s just a hassle. I’m putting this here for some sort of accountability I guess not to sure. I just needed to lay my emotions onto the internet. I hope I won’t have to come back to this video and I’ll be able to move on with my life.
Where there is a will there is a way. Make it a prayer item. Addiction of whatever kind is the work of the devil :his work is to steal, kill and destroy. God will deliver you immediately.
I’m starting my journey today and will update every day!! Day 1: I feel fine, but a very slight urge Day 2: I got a couple of urges but the rubber band thing helped a lot Day 3: Got a really big urge but I controlled it by rubber bands Day 4: I was urging bad but I somehow controlled. Idk if I can last another day Day 5: starting to lose urge. I feel better
Arektic here is how. I just don’t think about it. I always do homework or something else to occupy the urges I get. I noticed that I would do it when i get bored so I would just try not to get bored
I have an addiction. Like most of you, i've come to this video for help. I am so confused in this time, in where I can't seem to stop with my porn/masturbating addiction. I have become ashamed of who I am, and keep relapsing. But, tommorow, i will fight for my life, and fight for control of who I am, not ketting Satan take me down to the gates of heck. I am sick abd tired of who I have become, but I will change it, abd try my hardest. God bless all of you, and i wish for all of you to overcome your challenges with this addiction!
honestly, everytime i do it i stop after like 2 minutes because i feel too guilty. Tbh its not even it its just the temptation thats ruining my life. Today marks the day where im gonna stop.
Man, it made me cry.. i remember those days back when i was in highschool when no one acknowledge me :( And now i learned a lot thank you so much doctor you help me a lot.❤️ I'll change my life starting today.
@@DrDougWeiss Hey. I wanted to ask you .. Im just a 11 yr old. And im under a lot of stress because of this addiction.. Its not porn that keep urging me. Its youtube videos and i need help.. First off, Once i turn off the "show explicit content" or disable my youtube app to stop the sources of my addiction.. i would just reenable these options when i get an urge. Second, Im too scared to talk to a family member nor to a friend about this because im a bit young and im afraid that they will think im a bad child. Third, I would always look at YT videos on how to stop this addiction.. but none really seemed to work. Ive been at this since the start of 2020 and this was the first time ive said this out to the public. Please help me
@@tir9767 The best solution would be to talk to someone about this, someone who can encourage you and hold you accountable to do better. You can ask your parents to control your app features and that you only watch positive things on CZcams since it isn't all positive. You could also talk to a youth pastor or school counselor since they are more confidential.
@@tir9767 hey, I know how it feels, I am 15 and struggle too. One thing thats been helping me is ignoring the temptation. When you start getting tempted, just say no to it. It isn't easy at first, but you just gotta keep going. It is just practicing self control. Eventually (At least for me) you are going to get better at resisting it and it doesn't have as much power/control over you. When you do mess up, just learn from it. Its kind if like a hard level in a video game. Once you learn the boss's weakness Its much easyier to win the battle. This addiction is not impossible to overcome, with time and accountability, we can overcome this addiction.
Thats a Great start.....i deleted all my bookmarks, all pornhub, xvideos, and so on and threw away all old DVDs and praying about it and problem was solved.....not a single urge in 5 months
I started this addiction at 4-5 years old, very early. Now I am 31 years old. I think I started it out of emotional needs, even trauma, growing up in a chaotic environment at home. Plus once (I didn't tell anyone until now) I felt that my father had dirty thoughts towards me and touched Me in an incorrect way once. I was very little. This memory is so vivid and I am ashamed to talk about it. Then, as a teenager, I was mocked a lot by my high school classmates and some teachers(!) because they realized that I have this addiction after the fact that the vein on one of my hands is prominent. And since then it's been harder for me. I lost, because of the stigma, the relationship with the community, they point the finger at me, I developed social anxiety and I have no one, I am completely alone. I'm afraid of people, they hurt me too much. How do I get out of this hell? They laughed at me and judged me, but they don't realize that this is not a pleasure, it's an addiction. Which I want to get rid of. 😕
Me and my friends normally talk about masturbation.We talk about how we are addicted.Normally we give each other tips on how to stop masturbating.We tell each other to do something that will make you tired such as doing push ups,Play soccer or run around.So those are the things we do to stop us from masturbating.I also hope these things that my friends talk about will also help other people in this comment thank you guys for reading.❤
I started out just before I turned 12, and it has recently been 5 years of doing it at the very least once a day, but most days it has been more. I try to stop but I break after just a few days, never going a week without it for the last 5 years. I made a promise to myself that I would stop at 17 but it was not that easy as I broke immediately. The times I didn’t do it for a few days I felt I was happier then I was then. I just hope I have these thoughts still after I wake up. But I want these lustful thoughts out of my head once and for all so I can finally find my true self, not overshadowed by these thoughts and try to get my life together so I can prepare for the long future ahead of me.
Benjamin Franklin once said, “Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today.” What helps me is to watch a video like this to remind me that I don’t want to each time I’m about to in fact I’m doing this now. Each time I try to have a one off I remember that if I don’t stop now when will I. I started out at around about the same time as you did and have done it for just as long I normally do it the same amount of times a day as well I hope that we can both stop and get on with life.
I'm glad that you are choosing to stop this behavior. It can be a challenge, but it is possible. I have seen thousands of people break free and you can too. The rubberband method and having an accountability partner are the best tips among the ones I've listed. Accountability helps you have someone to confide in and for them to encourage you and hold you accountable. Also, check out my video for teens on sex addiction. This is informative and has a bunch of free and helpful resources you can use: czcams.com/video/hHA2A4-y9LE/video.html
Also me, Am experiencing the same exact problem, I've been really trying to stop but each time am relapsing after a few days less than a week, it's been 5-6 years since I started, it's really haunting me man, sometimes I just lose confidence, am hoping one day I'll stop it for good
Every time I always do it I feel like I’m in a ocean and I’m drowning and I can’t breathe but once I break this addictive state of mind I’ll feel like I reached the surface of the ocean and I’ll be able to breathe
i do it to escape and relieve anxiety and it’s because i’m lonely most of the time to be honest with you i hate it that i do it i wanna stop but i feel like i’m addicted but ima make a promise or / bet to someone that i will stop and i’ll listen to your advice. thanks a lot
@@heart7427 how about now.??? To be honest im exactly like you, im trying to stop. I was on a streak then I felt lonely maybe the biggest mistake I did is going to a gentleman club just to forget about being lonely, later that night I began doing it and on a 3 days in a row
I really feel bad for my self because I’ve been doing it since I was 12 before I hit puberty and I got addicted to it and I do it 2 - 3 times a day I’m now 15 and have not did it for 5 days it’s really tempting but I need to hold my self in because I know it’s a really unhealthy addiction that you can’t let go of easy it feels like a sort of drug or alcohol or cigarettes where you try it a couple of times and all of a sudden you can’t stop
Cool man , we are in it together , I'm starting today and il let you know my news each day ! Keep at it and trust me , just focus on something else , like workout and stuff ! Good luck !
Thank you man, I’m starting to get emotional and stuff, I’m so glad I found you and i really do look forward to a better me. You’re right, I can’t keep doing what I’m doing and expect to change. You have me a lot of good advice and motivation and I’m so grateful for this video. Thank you.
@@erikherrera6492 Its hard at the beggining, when you have urges try to focus yourself on something else, like taking walks.. After few weeks it will be easier. Do not trust those who say that after 3 months the urges will be gone, that is not true. Stay strong, dont be fool like me and relapse after 4 months....
I will start my journey today coz I've been in this addiction for almost 4 years and I can't stop it, but thank you Sir for sharing your thoughts and recommendations..I will update everyday on my journey...
Aye man I'm gonna do this thing with you brother. FCK masturbation. Starting today I'm done with this internal war with masturbation. Good luck brother we will beat this battle.
Doc. You have reached me many things but I never thank. I'm writing this to tell that I'm so grateful God and earth have a person like you a saver to people that can't control their emotions,and cant control themselves....... Today till till the day die I will not be doing it anymore...... And I will always remember you.
I’ve gone two months without it and today I was aroused and did it again I felt nothing which made me feel bad and I already was feeling guilty I really am trying my best I want to stop forever not just for months
Me too man, the problem for me is whenevet im alone or bored i always fail to control my urges especially at night cause thats where i feel alone the most...
I really want to stop. Masturbation makes me have trouble focusing, something that's never really been am issue for me before. Every waking moment I find myself thinking about it. It's affecting my studies, my job, and life in general. Feels like I am never really at peace. What's worse is that I don't have the courage to talk to somebody about my struggle because of the shame. I'll go clean starting today and never go back. When I have the urge I'll make sure to shut it down and direct my focus to whatever task at hand
I know you are scared to talk to someone about this, but I believe it would be best to meet with a counselor or a join a group for support. Having someone to talk to about this and how it's been affecting your life helps to relieve the pressure of keeping this bottled up. Plus, they can work with you to create a proper plan to stop this behavior as they encourage you and help you be accountable to truly change. We don't get better just by ourselves. You could do so locally or call us to get scheduled with one of our counselors at 719-278-3708. We also have plenty of helpful resources that you might find useful listed in my pinned comment at the top of this video's comment section.
My ceiling used to always be the 7th day and i always would relapsed now i have officially broke it I’m now on day 9 and I’m gonna keep going I blocked all pornography material and spent time outside spending time with God. and focusing on other things I’m proud of myself and how far i have made it. it just takes dedication and motivation..Keep it going guys we going to beat this addiction and take our life back.🔥🔥🔥🔥
I appreciate this man...I am 15 & think that’s why I can’t control it...I will grow out of it!! I’m blocking sites removing products... everything’s gone ..!!
Gentleman, today I make my proclamation of my bringing of end to masturbation. It has plagued me for years and I’m ready to be rid of it. May God help me.
I'll restart today after alot of failures I won't give up neither should you so stay strong and LESSS GOOO with this long journey for being a better healthier person ♥
This video didn't get me much of a solution BUT it helped me finally diagnose my problem and fixed an issue of my social trouble, this guy made me a good favour which I will probably wont forget.
I’ve been struggling for years but I have a girlfriend I love now and I don’t want my addiction hurt out relationship. Todays the day I take control of my emotions and urges !
@@DrDougWeissi tried to contact but its not connecting....if there is any possibility we can talk please help me to contact you i will be really thankful💫
@@farkhandahussain2453 You can call our office at 719-278-3708 and my team can get you booked with a counselor to help you with whatever you're dealing with. You can also send an email at heart2heart@xc.org
Adult here. I keep doing it and every time it just feels good but then the shame of what you did hits you. I keep telling myself that Im not going to do it but I always break down and do it. It is so disgusting and I want it to end.
There’s so many small reasons to make masturbation seem ok and that’s the biggest road block for me. The biggest one for me is when I rationalize it by saying I haven’t done it in two weeks so it’s OK if I do it this once! Then my once a day cycle starts all over again! Honestly though, when I hold out for a week or even 3 days I only imagine how good it’ll feel to get one off because I held it so long.............and those are always the best ones! Smh
yeah and after you feel unmotivated, depressed, at least that's the case for me, I've been on some long streaks, always I find some reason to get back to it again
From this day one I will do what is right, I see the future and the future is bright, staying away lasts harder at night, but God’s on my side and I’ll win this fight.
I've found about sex in a child book I read when I was 8 years old. It planted a fantasy in my mind that stayed with me for all these years, that is being dominated. It's what excites me the most, but when I think about it after masturbating I feel disgusted about that, and feel regret for the rest of the week. I wanna stop this, I will, and confessing this here is the first step of this difficult but freeing journey. We all can do it, we can all be stronger than those thoughts.
I get triggers all around me, what am I gonna ? I discipline myself for almost a 5-6 days and the next thing I know I see a trigger on a movie, music videos, on the internet, on TV, hot neighbor next door. It's like the universe is challenging me.
@@memerforviews1564 you put a rubber band on your wrist and when you start to think about watching bad stuff or touching yourself just pull the rubber band and let it hit your hand.
Everyday since I was 15 I've said to myself today is the last time I do it..I'll be 27 after 4 months and still stuck on that last time which have lasted for 12 years....
For years I've been addicted to this stuff, but now it's time fight back for greater good. I'm so thankful for this video , it has given me confidence and positive sense of humour.👍👍👍👍👍
You can try taking our 6 types test at sexaddict.com Having an accountability partner or someone to talk to like a counselor or pastor helps as well. We don't get better on our own.
Thank you, Dr Weis, for your video. For the recent two years, I have encountered great problems with that habit. I took the tests on the website and I was helped in determining the classification of addiction that I am suffering from. From today, I have subscribed to your programme on CZcams. Hope I can quit masterbation soon as I feel ashamed to be doing that habit. Thank you, Dr Weis, and God bless you.
My problem is, though masturbation is morally wrong to me, the moral and psychological repercussions make me feel bad but they don't stop me from going through. The benefits of going without masdurbationalso helps but that only goes so far. Preventive habits only go so far because after a while, if I don't practise them for just a moment then as soon as an urge comes then I immediately relapse. I really need tangible, on the spot consequenses but I never really knew what to do. This video has really helped me get an idea more so than any others I have seen and I'm definitely gonna put these to use.
Thank you so much every time I do it I feel so sick and I hate myself cause I feel like I let my family especially my parents down not only did you help me fix this problem but you really helped me get control of my life
@@mikeysmith8619 really good, I feel like a better person it’s the best decision I ever made. It affected my life more than I realized. I’m glad I got control over it
This video is so true. My secret has held me back. This motivated me to sign up for therapy. Thank you. It makes so much sense. I'm excited to see this next step
I am writing this because I’ve been incredibly weak for my whole life mentally. I started at a young age and was clueless and confused. I’m going to end the addiction right now. I swear to god
This really gave me hope... I am 31 years old and I am addicted to masterbation. It's something I do throughout the day from morning thru night. I don't feel motivated to do anything and spend countless hours looking at my phone, mindlessly scrolling social media, and touching myself the whole time. Idk if I even climax, I'm so detatxhed from my body, but it's that constant stimulation I crave. I'm embarrassed and feel helpless, but this gave me hope. I'm seeking out therapy and going to start getting really honest about this, because it's ruining my life. I'm in debt, still live in my parents house, depressed, and I can't see a way out. It's painful because I'm an artist, musicians, I have many god given talents that are going unused... This video did give me the hope and inspiration.. I'm going to try the rubber band method and really reach out to therapists in my area. Thank you
For me, I had to get rid of my computer and have my roommate pray deliverance over me before I finally broke free. I want to let everyone know here that freedom isn’t the absence of temptation, and it’s not the absence of something. Freedom is the presence of someone, and His name is Jesus. I’m still tempted, but it’s not as overwhelming as it was because the Holy Spirit has set me free! 😁 May this encourage you to search your life and see if there is anything you know could be a stumbling block in your life and to get rid of it, repent, and ask the Lord to start healing your heart and invite Him in for deliverance.
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To download our free app, The GamePlan, which has lots of useful videos and content, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/our-app/
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For books and DVDs, we have "The Final Freedom", "Clean: A Proven Plan for Men Committed to Sexual Integrity", and "Lust Free Living".
www.drdougweiss.com/product/final-freedom-book/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/clean-a-proven-plan-for-men-committed-to-sexual-integrity/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/lust-free-living/
For female sex addiction, there's the book "She Has a Secret" : www.drdougweiss.com/product/she-has-a-secret-understanding-female-sexual-addiction-ebook/
If you are a teen dealing with this, along with porn and sex addiction, you can check out this video for additional guidance: czcams.com/video/hHA2A4-y9LE/video.html
If you struggle with sexualizing and checking out others, check out the DVDs/Video Downloads of "Shattering Sexualization" and "Intrigue Addiction":
www.drdougweiss.com/product/shattering-sexualization/
www.drdougweiss.com/product/intrigue-addiction-dvd/
For the book Emotional Fitness, which helps with emotional maturity, go to: www.drdougweiss.com/product/emotional-fitness-book/
If you want to know how much pornography is costing you in life, watch this video: czcams.com/video/n30ZdMxWbDc/video.html
If you want more understanding into why you masturbate, watch the CZcams video, "Why Do I Masturbate?": czcams.com/video/q2JHvMYiSw4/video.html
If you need support, you can try a phone counseling session, or join a phone group or local group to aid in the path of recovery. We don't get better by ourselves.
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You're all mentally ill. Seriously. Not because you're masturbating but because you all seem to think that it's "wrong" or harmful. It's NORMAL human behaviour! Stop worrying, carry on without guilt and enjoy your lives.
damn 30 years, hes a hero.
I know thats nuts lol
After the first few months it isn't hard anymore
but how does he handle himself...like does he change it to having it with his wife?...are you telling in 30years.his semen never left his body?
@@MrOner07 that is a very good question has men sometimes it can leak throughout the day especially if there's beautiful women walking around or if you're thinking about it LOL but the other guys in this thread is right once you stop doing it it's not hard anymore and you actually don't want to do it. Your mind is that actually a lot clearer to
hard to believe
Just did it few minutes ago and now i'm watching this 🙂
Same lol
Same lol@user-id8et3lg8x
Same😂
Same😢
Same 😢😅
I only lasted for 2 weeks and after that i’m back at it again. I’m struggling. God pls help me.
Man it's awful, hoy you put so much into it to achieve lasting some time without it and then you remind how easy to do it is that you just let yourself fall over and over or at least I speak for myself, hope you've done better man.
Same here.
Now it's one or two days and collapse again
@Roland Prinsloo
Could we exchange numbers so we could discuss about it
Yt should have it's own messenger
i’m really struggling, but i’m glad there are people like you who are here to help me with this. it’s a battle every day for me to stay off of it, and the most i’ve ever gone without it since i’ve started is three days. all of that changes now, and with your help, i think i’ll be able to stop. wish me luck, i’ll need it.
Same boat bro, it’s really hard. It’s hard when u live alone man
Good luck to all of us
Wish you luck
Bro l did try 2x l stopped for 10 days but yesterday l went ryt bacc in l was disappointed man l just wanna stop damn
Don't give up brother! Keep fighting-it will get better and better if you don't give up even though you have slips. If you give up you'll get nowhere.
Every day I'm like "last time!"
Then my lube looks at me weirdly.
you use lube? tf
@@PlanetRugbyRCT well lube goes under as moisturiser and stuff
@@liamconnor8116 that’s still weird lmao, that means it’s like a planned event
Hide it or throw it
Same🤣🤣🤣
At 20 years old I said to myself I was gonna stop masturbating. I’ll be 30 by the end of the year and I still grapple with this addiction. I’ll go 3-4 weeks in a row without it and my life is so pure, genuine and I’m in greater touch with my creator. Then I relapse, and I find myself for 2 weeks straight having suicidal fantasies, throwing discipline to the wind, gaining weight and being filled with resentment and anger towards my upbringing for the household I grew up in, like how I’ve currently been for the last 10+ days. I can I will I MUST get this part of my life handled. To anyone reading this, I truly hope you find yourself in touch with who you truly are meant to be, and have the strength and courage to live that out for the rest of your life.
God bless
Thanks
You been good since this?
Thank you man I may not be older but this does support me I hate having to get to this point where I stop masturbating for like a month or two and I get smacked what almost feels like a train. My life was all great I was talking very genuinely to girls getting nice dates. Then bam the train it happens. I lose my patience, argue a ton, which hurts me a ton and the only person I have to blame is myself your comment has helped me so much mentally I thank you so much.
I just failed yesterday but today my strength is renewed and the fact that we are here and watching this video is proof we are serious about getting over this addiction. My God helped me quit weed, tobacco, alcohol, fast food and many other things so he will help me with this as well. I do feel a strong sense of guilt after I masturbate and feel like I have failed my creator. I'm working on it but we need to give this problem to God to help us. If we go on our own strength we will fail.
I felt this because when I don't do it for at least 2 weeks I notice a difference in how I get along with others and how I look. I feel like I don't have to worry as much because I'm not sinning and I feel like God is happier with me.
"If somebody really knew me they wouldn't love me". That hit me hard.
im a 23 year old man and ive always thought i was to smart for addiction and over the past few years ive started to realize im not "too smart" for addiction because im SEVERLY addicted to masturbation and ive come to realize how much this addiction is fucking over my life i used to play games and watch movies, tv shows, anime etc and over these past few years ive stopped liking those things almost entirely
that's it i have to beat this addiction because ive always hated myself cause i was extremely depressed but this year because ive been going to the gym and working on myself ive actually started loving myself again since at least middle school but with my addiction constantly taking over my life i cant progress anymore so today im GOING to stop it because i NEED to
anyway thank you for this video even if you never read this comment and if anyone wants to please pray for me cause im most DEFINATLY going to need it this addiction is STRONG
Dear all Brothers 1) Don't live alone 2) When you get Erection then just close your eyes and breath out for 2 minutes and lightly breath in 3). Stay away from fielty or bad friends 4) Stop watching pron , 5) always be busy and put your focus, concentration in other work
6) pray to God
Thanks
helpful my guy
The 5 and 6 worked for me
(Goal- 30 days)
Day 1- gonna keep updating for as long as I can
thanks for help
Why is this so hard to stop. One day I’ll feel likes it’s over, then the next, it’s back.
Edit: It's been 10 months and I still haven't stopped it
Edit 2: It's July 2022 and I still haven't stopped it but I think I'm getting closer
truuee😭😭😭
Try going to sexaddict.com and take our 6 types test and follow the provided guidance.
The dopamine rush
Sameeeee
@@DrDougWeiss is it free?
Let's just pray for each other
@SantyGSL I’m not the original commenter but my name is Ben and I can try praying for ya, do you think you could do the same?
@@nebx2127 can I join?
@@fredo_4x628 Ofc! What’s your name
@@nebx2127 Sorry I didn’t see your comment, my names Fredo
Pray for me also
I start today somebody to like so that ill remember one day 🎉😢
Starting from today
1. By shutting down all resources for 3 weeks.
2. Do some physical fitness.
3. Concentrate on hobbies
4. Eat fruits and vegetables
5. Pray everyday for forgiveness
if this will help i will do again next 3 weeks
I’ve done 3 or 2 of those but I’ve been using the rubber band technique and I’ve gone 4 or 5 weeks in march but I just lost it after masturbation towards the end of march I was even so close to going a month
If you feel like doing it just use your imagination that Jesus is standing in your presence, because He is. He says He will never leave you or forsake you.
Amen
Amen
Amen!
Hebrews 13:5
For He Himself has said, I will never leave you nor forsake you
@@FC-gl4ul Satan I rebuke you in the name of JESUS!
@@Linda-bj3bb jesus peace be upon him is a prophet my friend!!
I am starting today may god bless me!! Im going to keep track of each day
Day one:Completed
Day two:Completed
Day three: completed
Day four: Completed
Day five: Completed
Day six : Completed
Day seven: completed
Day eight: completed
Are you still going
@@jalengames2323 yes
So far so good, I’ve tried avoiding it and blocking anything related to porn
@@BagelsTheGoat ok I believe in you stay strong 💪
@@jalengames2323 ty bro
Don’t go on tik tok, that’s one of the main reason I can’t stop
I honestly didn't expect myself watching this but thid helps me a LOT. The main reason on stopping masturbation is not because of addiction but because of my religion and conscience. I can manage myself on doing these stuffs but I badly don't wanna do this anymore because my conscience can't handle this thing. Btw, thank you for this session!
You're welcome and glad that this was helpful.
You know it's bad when this is the first thing CZcams recommends when you type in the search bar, "How to"
Fr🤣
Same
umm help plz
The internet tracks your moves every single thing you do in your life, now it’s easy on the same phone cuz since you just typed your favorite porn site and then went back to CZcams inorder to search for something else, it automatically recommends you to a related stuff bout what you were searching for online, look forget bout searching online have you ever imagine why Socail media recommended to you some phones to buy or something you really wanted but wonders how they knew it? Well they track not only your internet movement but your physical movement, if you hold your phone on your hand and you just talking to a friend bout how you wanted to buy an IPhone and an hour later you get Ads or recommendations bout the phone and you wonder how? That’s it they track your movement even stuff that you say even if your phone is off it’s listening to what’s over you are saying and the camera never sleeps 🛌 shit is crazy bro we live in the world where global surveillance is more important than personal privacy.. NSS have your nude pictures that you deleted from your phone for security purposes and for blackmailing specially when you are a celebrity
HAHhahaha
I've star started at the age of 25 and now I'm 37..and so far since the beginning of June 2020 I've been over coming it thanx to God and thank you too..God bless.
I started when I was 11 😬😳
@@guineapigtv5122 me 2 can't stop I will try
@Setting Goals thats cap because I literally did start at 11 also and now there's no turning back
So you havnt over come it yet in 12 years? Im confused
Also does the anger go away?
Sincerely, I regret and curse the day a friend and a neighbor introduced me to masturbation!!! This this is so addictive that you feel bad when you don't partake.
But thank God, I managed to control and stop it for now 6 years. I feel delivered and better!
Can you help me bro just same way a friend introduced me too it now I have battling this for 8 yrs now I fell ashamed of myself pls help a brother
@@kingze9342😂
I'M a 16 year old teenager battling this for almost 2 years and today I'm proud that I'm gonna leave this shit out of me.And once again thanks doc,I finally got a purpose to do something instead of this and hope I'll do fine.
How you doing so far man ? Just checking in 😢
How's Things Now
Ig dude just fapped 😂 and bcz of failure after all that cool talk, he's not coming here anymore lol
@@gambler2865it's not easy to stop masturbating unless you get a girlfriend who will fill the gap
It consumes me. I've stopped for two days and it's all I think about.
Dude it has ruined me
I need to stop as well
@@richmonddavis1197 I’ve been trying to figure out what temps me and try to fight it so i can try to kill it
You guys aren't alone.. We can do it. Meditate and pray. Stay in the Word. But we can't give up.
@@bonnyverry6615 I got a strategy watch a nasty video that will make you wanna gag and then it will make you from horny to disgusted if you cant fine any I'll be happy to find videos for you
PRAISE GOD, I am so happy that I found this channel, I've been struggling lust for 3 years now, but my mind has learned to stop
Wonderful, I'm glad that you have been working towards freedom!
The first 10days i had really low motivation i needed it but when i overcomed the days everyday i got more energy and dicipline and just feel better
I’ve been trying to stop for years and I think I’m finally going to reach out and tell someone about it. I’ve always thought about and that’s it but it’s really become a problem in my life. I want to do other things but I can’t enjoy them when I know I’m doing all these bad and horrible things. It’s like a weights on my back and the thought of “if everyone knew what you’ve done would they treat you differently” it crosses my mind so often and it’s just a hassle. I’m putting this here for some sort of accountability I guess not to sure. I just needed to lay my emotions onto the internet. I hope I won’t have to come back to this video and I’ll be able to move on with my life.
Thanks for taking a step towards recovery. You might want to get in a support group to heal and be encouraged in moving forward.
Where there is a will there is a way. Make it a prayer item. Addiction of whatever kind is the work of the devil :his work is to steal, kill and destroy. God will deliver you immediately.
It takes away your energy so annoying
It Doesn’t Feel Right anymore 😢✝️
@@justinjanysek9247 it is not right!!
Just pray to Allah for forgiveness and never commit that sin again!!😀
@Back Woods sorry but I am not a Christian!!
I get that it’s a funny topic but this is truly one of the hardships of being single for too long.
wait how is it a funny topic
how is it a funny topic its a legit addiction just like any other
@@BlessedDominic A lot of people dont take it seriously. That's why it's a "funny" Topic.
You may be right
It victimizes millions of men in relationships too. It’s not a single man’s dilemma.
I’m starting my journey today and will update every day!!
Day 1: I feel fine, but a very slight urge
Day 2: I got a couple of urges but the rubber band thing helped a lot
Day 3: Got a really big urge but I controlled it by rubber bands
Day 4: I was urging bad but I somehow controlled. Idk if I can last another day
Day 5: starting to lose urge. I feel better
Dude....please tell me how...Cause I can't last for 2 days
My band thing I forget really easily. plus I dont want my mom being suspicious
Ima start today man I hope to beat my last streak of 22 days anyways best of luck man we on this journey 💪
_nandoo7 good luck buddy we are all in this together
Arektic here is how. I just don’t think about it. I always do homework or something else to occupy the urges I get. I noticed that I would do it when i get bored so I would just try not to get bored
I have an addiction. Like most of you, i've come to this video for help. I am so confused in this time, in where I can't seem to stop with my porn/masturbating addiction. I have become ashamed of who I am, and keep relapsing. But, tommorow, i will fight for my life, and fight for control of who I am, not ketting Satan take me down to the gates of heck. I am sick abd tired of who I have become, but I will change it, abd try my hardest. God bless all of you, and i wish for all of you to overcome your challenges with this addiction!
Update us man, 11 months later how’s it going?
honestly, everytime i do it i stop after like 2 minutes because i feel too guilty. Tbh its not even it its just the temptation thats ruining my life. Today marks the day where im gonna stop.
Are you ok rn
It’s been 5 months since you said this, did you?
Did you stop ?
yeah i'm a big fan of xxxtentacion too bro
Bro I am masturbating since 4 years, my face lost all charm, got alot of marks on face it ruined my face. But we should stop it now
Man, it made me cry..
i remember those days back when i was in highschool when no one acknowledge me :(
And now i learned a lot thank you so much doctor you help me a lot.❤️
I'll change my life starting today.
Glad to hear that! I hope all goes well on your journey.
@@DrDougWeiss Hey. I wanted to ask you .. Im just a 11 yr old. And im under a lot of stress because of this addiction.. Its not porn that keep urging me. Its youtube videos and i need help.. First off, Once i turn off the "show explicit content" or disable my youtube app to stop the sources of my addiction.. i would just reenable these options when i get an urge. Second, Im too scared to talk to a family member nor to a friend about this because im a bit young and im afraid that they will think im a bad child. Third, I would always look at YT videos on how to stop this addiction.. but none really seemed to work. Ive been at this since the start of 2020 and this was the first time ive said this out to the public. Please help me
@@DrDougWeiss Im also very scared that i might end up like the people who have lost their families and friends because of this addiction.
@@tir9767 The best solution would be to talk to someone about this, someone who can encourage you and hold you accountable to do better.
You can ask your parents to control your app features and that you only watch positive things on CZcams since it isn't all positive.
You could also talk to a youth pastor or school counselor since they are more confidential.
@@tir9767 hey, I know how it feels, I am 15 and struggle too. One thing thats been helping me is ignoring the temptation. When you start getting tempted, just say no to it. It isn't easy at first, but you just gotta keep going. It is just practicing self control. Eventually (At least for me) you are going to get better at resisting it and it doesn't have as much power/control over you. When you do mess up, just learn from it. Its kind if like a hard level in a video game. Once you learn the boss's weakness Its much easyier to win the battle. This addiction is not impossible to overcome, with time and accountability, we can overcome this addiction.
I'm stopping today by unfollowing models getting rid of my recently deleted porn photos and removing bookmarks
Thats a Great start.....i deleted all my bookmarks, all pornhub, xvideos, and so on and threw away all old DVDs and praying about it and problem was solved.....not a single urge in 5 months
These insta models were main reason l failed
Ryan Kaufman me too lmao
I started this addiction at 4-5 years old, very early. Now I am 31 years old. I think I started it out of emotional needs, even trauma, growing up in a chaotic environment at home. Plus once (I didn't tell anyone until now) I felt that my father had dirty thoughts towards me and touched Me in an incorrect way once. I was very little. This memory is so vivid and I am ashamed to talk about it. Then, as a teenager, I was mocked a lot by my high school classmates and some teachers(!) because they realized that I have this addiction after the fact that the vein on one of my hands is prominent. And since then it's been harder for me. I lost, because of the stigma, the relationship with the community, they point the finger at me, I developed social anxiety and I have no one, I am completely alone. I'm afraid of people, they hurt me too much. How do I get out of this hell? They laughed at me and judged me, but they don't realize that this is not a pleasure, it's an addiction. Which I want to get rid of. 😕
Same but I'm a boy xd
Praying helps me stop for almost 3 months
How do pray I need help bro
I pray and it doesn’t work
@@bebashi8690 because you are not holy
@@erikherrera6492 pray to god and ask him to help you stop this. Repeat this every time when you get tempted to do it
@@MrMoney-gr3lb maybe god is fake . He dont help to all people But Lucifer helped me
Me and my friends normally talk about masturbation.We talk about how we are addicted.Normally we give each other tips on how to stop masturbating.We tell each other to do something that will make you tired such as doing push ups,Play soccer or run around.So those are the things we do to stop us from masturbating.I also hope these things that my friends talk about will also help other people in this comment thank you guys for reading.❤
Going into September, we’re starting cleaning, I really like the bracelet technique, if you’re reading this, you’re going to break this. God bless ❤️
Me to I’m going clean forever please pray for me
SCORPIOM Champfn we got this
You can do it!
Me I will be clean starting to day
I started out just before I turned 12, and it has recently been 5 years of doing it at the very least once a day, but most days it has been more. I try to stop but I break after just a few days, never going a week without it for the last 5 years. I made a promise to myself that I would stop at 17 but it was not that easy as I broke immediately. The times I didn’t do it for a few days I felt I was happier then I was then. I just hope I have these thoughts still after I wake up. But I want these lustful thoughts out of my head once and for all so I can finally find my true self, not overshadowed by these thoughts and try to get my life together so I can prepare for the long future ahead of me.
Benjamin Franklin once said, “Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today.”
What helps me is to watch a video like this to remind me that I don’t want to each time I’m about to in fact I’m doing this now. Each time I try to have a one off I remember that if I don’t stop now when will I.
I started out at around about the same time as you did and have done it for just as long I normally do it the same amount of times a day as well I hope that we can both stop and get on with life.
I'm glad that you are choosing to stop this behavior. It can be a challenge, but it is possible. I have seen thousands of people break free and you can too.
The rubberband method and having an accountability partner are the best tips among the ones I've listed. Accountability helps you have someone to confide in and for them to encourage you and hold you accountable.
Also, check out my video for teens on sex addiction. This is informative and has a bunch of free and helpful resources you can use: czcams.com/video/hHA2A4-y9LE/video.html
Bro we’re in the same boat, but today I’ve decided to stop. Wish me luck, and all the best with your journey to stop🔥
Also me, Am experiencing the same exact problem, I've been really trying to stop but each time am relapsing after a few days less than a week, it's been 5-6 years since I started, it's really haunting me man, sometimes I just lose confidence, am hoping one day I'll stop it for good
Every time I always do it I feel like I’m in a ocean and I’m drowning and I can’t breathe but once I break this addictive state of mind I’ll feel like I reached the surface of the ocean and I’ll be able to breathe
Bro same u just wrote exactly what did i think
Until we drown again. And again. Aaannnndd again.
i do it to escape and relieve anxiety and it’s because i’m lonely most of the time to be honest with you i hate it that i do it i wanna stop but i feel like i’m addicted but ima make a promise or / bet to someone that i will stop and i’ll listen to your advice.
thanks a lot
Did you make it?
ban :D
@@Anonymous-zl6xr no sadly lol
@@heart7427 how about now.??? To be honest im exactly like you, im trying to stop. I was on a streak then I felt lonely maybe the biggest mistake I did is going to a gentleman club just to forget about being lonely, later that night I began doing it and on a 3 days in a row
I am from India respectable doctor. .I am having total faith on you .. starting from today wish me best
I am starting from today too do you have a insta gram
I'm going to used the rubber band from today on thank you Doc for helping people with sex addiction God bless you
I have been stuck with this problem for 11 years 😢
I really feel bad for my self because I’ve been doing it since I was 12 before I hit puberty and I got addicted to it and I do it 2 - 3 times a day I’m now 15 and have not did it for 5 days it’s really tempting but I need to hold my self in because I know it’s a really unhealthy addiction that you can’t let go of easy it feels like a sort of drug or alcohol or cigarettes where you try it a couple of times and all of a sudden you can’t stop
Cool man , we are in it together , I'm starting today and il let you know my news each day ! Keep at it and trust me , just focus on something else , like workout and stuff ! Good luck !
Bro i think one of the best long term ways to stop is to just pray and get your priorities straight
Good luck!! You got this
I'm really proud that you are addressing this issue so early.
Damn thas so relatable :(
Thank you man, I’m starting to get emotional and stuff, I’m so glad I found you and i really do look forward to a better me. You’re right, I can’t keep doing what I’m doing and expect to change. You have me a lot of good advice and motivation and I’m so grateful for this video. Thank you.
Thank you may God bless you
Tanks
I start it today i need it
@@szrequ8283 me too I need more tips plz guys
@@erikherrera6492 Its hard at the beggining, when you have urges try to focus yourself on something else, like taking walks.. After few weeks it will be easier. Do not trust those who say that after 3 months the urges will be gone, that is not true. Stay strong, dont be fool like me and relapse after 4 months....
Thank, you too
I will start my journey today coz I've been in this addiction for almost 4 years and I can't stop it, but thank you Sir for sharing your thoughts and recommendations..I will update everyday on my journey...
Day 1: it meant to be the easiest 😅
Aye man I'm gonna do this thing with you brother. FCK masturbation. Starting today I'm done with this internal war with masturbation. Good luck brother we will beat this battle.
@@guy393 @Lil Timmy Yeah We can do this! This is the battle that we must Win, Goodluck to you brother😎👊
Count me in aswell
Today is the day i stop Ya Allah help me....
How old are u
Ameen
Ameen
Help me amen
aamiin
Doc. You have reached me many things but I never thank. I'm writing this to tell that I'm so grateful God and earth have a person like you a saver to people that can't control their emotions,and cant control themselves....... Today till till the day die I will not be doing it anymore...... And I will always remember you.
I’ve gone two months without it and today I was aroused and did it again I felt nothing which made me feel bad and I already was feeling guilty I really am trying my best I want to stop forever not just for months
I did it today after 7days but am OK with that
Me too man, the problem for me is whenevet im alone or bored i always fail to control my urges especially at night cause thats where i feel alone the most...
@@calmakopomasadiano6445 bro I am on my 11days streak
After 1 day I’m happy
I can’t even last a day
I really want to stop. Masturbation makes me have trouble focusing, something that's never really been am issue for me before. Every waking moment I find myself thinking about it. It's affecting my studies, my job, and life in general. Feels like I am never really at peace. What's worse is that I don't have the courage to talk to somebody about my struggle because of the shame. I'll go clean starting today and never go back. When I have the urge I'll make sure to shut it down and direct my focus to whatever task at hand
I know you are scared to talk to someone about this, but I believe it would be best to meet with a counselor or a join a group for support. Having someone to talk to about this and how it's been affecting your life helps to relieve the pressure of keeping this bottled up. Plus, they can work with you to create a proper plan to stop this behavior as they encourage you and help you be accountable to truly change. We don't get better just by ourselves. You could do so locally or call us to get scheduled with one of our counselors at 719-278-3708.
We also have plenty of helpful resources that you might find useful listed in my pinned comment at the top of this video's comment section.
My ceiling used to always be the 7th day and i always would relapsed now i have officially broke it I’m now on day 9 and I’m gonna keep going I blocked all pornography material and spent time outside spending time with God. and focusing on other things I’m proud of myself and how far i have made it. it just takes dedication and motivation..Keep it going guys we going to beat this addiction and take our life back.🔥🔥🔥🔥
I'm gonna try, I'll soon share my testimonies here.
I need prayer.....🙏
Good luck man, don't let it get to you. Break free from it
I’ve been Christian my whole life but I was curious one day and I can’t stop I’m going to fight it with God having my back
We can do it kings i failed like 4 times but still keep trying not to do it 💪
I appreciate this man...I am 15 & think that’s why I can’t control it...I will grow out of it!! I’m blocking sites removing products... everything’s gone ..!!
Ni you won't. Age won't help you, Only you can help you.
@@damanredarnishu5509 hmm
Lol you feel like blocking it now but when you have urges you will unblock it. Blocking won't help
It's all about your will
Gentleman, today I make my proclamation of my bringing of end to masturbation. It has plagued me for years and I’m ready to be rid of it. May God help me.
How has this journey gone?
@@emmetfettig9196 🤷
Day one guys..I'm going to update y'll on my progress after every week..i must slay this giant!!
XD the way you say it
How you doing
How you doing
i think he didt do it
I'll restart today after alot of failures I won't give up neither should you so stay strong and LESSS GOOO with this long journey for being a better healthier person ♥
This video didn't get me much of a solution BUT it helped me finally diagnose my problem and fixed an issue of my social trouble, this guy made me a good favour which I will probably wont forget.
I feel guilt every time I do. My grandparents died and I feel like they are watching over me. I have tried to stop so much
Same... I too think the same.. But still i can't stop....
I'm starting the journey. Please send prayers
I’ve been struggling for years but I have a girlfriend I love now and I don’t want my addiction hurt out relationship. Todays the day I take control of my emotions and urges !
I just can’t stop, I’m finally taking steps to finish
congrats hope you will be stopped
I wish you luck
Today is the day I start and you will help me, at my young age everyday I feel horrible everyday even if it relieves me, thank you sir. Thank you.
Every day I say I’m not going to do it...
And then I see something on social media... I gotta delete it or I’ll be depressed forever
I deleted Facebook and Instagram, best choice ever
Thank you Dr Weiss for the tips I am in therapy but still struggling, my therapist is helping me through this to stop.
You're welcome and I hope all goes well with you.
Hello@@DrDougWeiss
@@DrDougWeissi tried to contact but its not connecting....if there is any possibility we can talk please help me to contact you i will be really thankful💫
@@farkhandahussain2453 You can call our office at 719-278-3708 and my team can get you booked with a counselor to help you with whatever you're dealing with. You can also send an email at heart2heart@xc.org
It is more difficult than quitting drugs, alcohol or smoking. 😆🤔🤔🤔
Lol I'm just here for the comments and they are funny
@@agentvenom8592 Lol. Bro, the rate has even increased with the lockdown.
It's easier to have access, all it takes is being alone with a fucking internet connection or good imagination
tthe reason its way harder is because its so ez to do with no effort
Ong i quit dope for a year already and can't quit this
Stopped on 13 December 2020...I give all Glory to God.
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😂how is it so far
My highest streak is 19 days and currently I'm on 8 day streak hope i beat it 😓
Good luck
Just don't be like :"i will stop before i cum" because thats not gonna happen just don't start at all
You make it sound like it’s a game
Adult here. I keep doing it and every time it just feels good but then the shame of what you did hits you. I keep telling myself that Im not going to do it but I always break down and do it. It is so disgusting and I want it to end.
There’s so many small reasons to make masturbation seem ok and that’s the biggest road block for me.
The biggest one for me is when I rationalize it by saying I haven’t done it in two weeks so it’s OK if I do it this once! Then my once a day cycle starts all over again! Honestly though, when I hold out for a week or even 3 days I only imagine how good it’ll feel to get one off because I held it so long.............and those are always the best ones! Smh
yeah and after you feel unmotivated, depressed, at least that's the case for me, I've been on some long streaks, always I find some reason to get back to it again
From this day one I will do what is right, I see the future and the future is bright, staying away lasts harder at night, but God’s on my side and I’ll win this fight.
20 May 2021 today I stop I lasted 2 weeks before but I’m gonna stay for as long as I can tired of feeling like shit everyday
I've found about sex in a child book I read when I was 8 years old. It planted a fantasy in my mind that stayed with me for all these years, that is being dominated. It's what excites me the most, but when I think about it after masturbating I feel disgusted about that, and feel regret for the rest of the week. I wanna stop this, I will, and confessing this here is the first step of this difficult but freeing journey. We all can do it, we can all be stronger than those thoughts.
I wish u the best in ur journey. I am suffering from thesame addiction too but I’m trying my best to stop it.
Thanks Dr Doug...I'm on the path to freedom from my bondage.
There's authority in your voice, amazing.
I am on day 15. I feel great!!!
I get triggers all around me, what am I gonna ? I discipline myself for almost a 5-6 days and the next thing I know I see a trigger on a movie, music videos, on the internet, on TV, hot neighbor next door. It's like the universe is challenging me.
The rubber band trick really works doc👍
What's that?
What’s this ?
Yea
@vivian fernandaz what is that trick? Tell me pls
@@memerforviews1564 you put a rubber band on your wrist and when you start to think about watching bad stuff or touching yourself just pull the rubber band and let it hit your hand.
30 years. This guy is awesome!
Everyday since I was 15 I've said to myself today is the last time I do it..I'll be 27 after 4 months and still stuck on that last time which have lasted for 12 years....
For years I've been addicted to this stuff, but now it's time fight back for greater good. I'm so thankful for this video , it has given me confidence and positive sense of humour.👍👍👍👍👍
Did you stop it?
How’s it going
Still trying to keep away from it... but due to lack of insecurity of job alot of temptation and anxiety keeping me to remember about pornography..
I've told God I will stop 2 times and I have failed and from now I will pray everyday for him to help me
You can try taking our 6 types test at sexaddict.com
Having an accountability partner or someone to talk to like a counselor or pastor helps as well. We don't get better on our own.
Me to I struggle to this is why I am here
i just started and i’m watching this so that i wont get addicted👁👄👁
Don't even start, it isn't worth the risk
Thank you, Dr Weis, for your video. For the recent two years, I have encountered great problems with that habit. I took the tests on the website and I was helped in determining the classification of addiction that I am suffering from. From today, I have subscribed to your programme on CZcams. Hope I can quit masterbation soon as I feel ashamed to be doing that habit. Thank you, Dr Weis, and God bless you.
My problem is, though masturbation is morally wrong to me, the moral and psychological repercussions make me feel bad but they don't stop me from going through. The benefits of going without masdurbationalso helps but that only goes so far. Preventive habits only go so far because after a while, if I don't practise them for just a moment then as soon as an urge comes then I immediately relapse. I really need tangible, on the spot consequenses but I never really knew what to do. This video has really helped me get an idea more so than any others I have seen and I'm definitely gonna put these to use.
How's it going?
Wow this helped a lot! The one I loved most was the rubber band one. That was pretty smart
Did you relapse?
Thank you so much every time I do it I feel so sick and I hate myself cause I feel like I let my family especially my parents down not only did you help me fix this problem but you really helped me get control of my life
How’s it going for you?
How’s it going now ?
@@mikeysmith8619 really good, I feel like a better person it’s the best decision I ever made. It affected my life more than I realized. I’m glad I got control over it
I have struggled many times I feel guilt every single time I builded good habits but I can't stop.
I'm taking off every source I can
I appreciate your wisdom. This information is a blessing. Thank you🙏🏼
Glad it was helpful!
This video is so true. My secret has held me back. This motivated me to sign up for therapy. Thank you. It makes so much sense. I'm excited to see this next step
You're welcome and I hope all goes well for you on your journey.
I want to stop so bad, but my body tells me to do it everytime I don't want to
I am writing this because I’ve been incredibly weak for my whole life mentally. I started at a young age and was clueless and confused. I’m going to end the addiction right now. I swear to god
I swaered same thing but bro ended in it again but now am free from it let us do it together to help you conquer it
It is Christmas eve I started my down hill battle in June. I feel sick.
I started when I was 11...
I started when im grade 9😢 to grade 12
I started when I was 12
@@jjhack3r same, i cant stop fr and im trying i hate it..
Thank you Dr you the king man stay blessed,, and i wish whos watching get successful
This really gave me hope... I am 31 years old and I am addicted to masterbation. It's something I do throughout the day from morning thru night. I don't feel motivated to do anything and spend countless hours looking at my phone, mindlessly scrolling social media, and touching myself the whole time. Idk if I even climax, I'm so detatxhed from my body, but it's that constant stimulation I crave. I'm embarrassed and feel helpless, but this gave me hope. I'm seeking out therapy and going to start getting really honest about this, because it's ruining my life. I'm in debt, still live in my parents house, depressed, and I can't see a way out. It's painful because I'm an artist, musicians, I have many god given talents that are going unused... This video did give me the hope and inspiration.. I'm going to try the rubber band method and really reach out to therapists in my area. Thank you
Am zhad l was in same situation but I am now off l can help you do same bro
Dr you have open my eyes today I hate masterbaution and I will put a Change in my life and end the addiction thank you doctor god bless you
I just did it before watching this video.
How did you leave it
Pathetic
@@memerforviews1564 Was it nice
Thank you very much for reaching out to us,many may deny ur message,same as many will appreciate ur message.God will continue to bless you.
I juess you are not married
mary jones what getting married isn’t a simple task
What the fuck has God got to do with it
@@trey3xxxxx inbox me
For me, I had to get rid of my computer and have my roommate pray deliverance over me before I finally broke free.
I want to let everyone know here that freedom isn’t the absence of temptation, and it’s not the absence of something. Freedom is the presence of someone, and His name is Jesus.
I’m still tempted, but it’s not as overwhelming as it was because the Holy Spirit has set me free! 😁
May this encourage you to search your life and see if there is anything you know could be a stumbling block in your life and to get rid of it, repent, and ask the Lord to start healing your heart and invite Him in for deliverance.
It like fighting with a demon. Always kicking me down when ever i wanna stop