A Do-or-Die Artist, Celebrating Her Blackness: Tarriona ‘Tank’ Ball

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  • čas přidán 5. 02. 2017
  • Musician, poet, and frontwoman for Tank and the Bangas, Tarriona ‘Tank’ Ball’s outsized hair matches her huge personality. But the New Orleans native wasn’t always so expressive. Her life changed dramatically when she fled to Indianapolis during Hurricane Katrina, where her life became both the best and the worst of her life. Though desperately missing the rich culture of her hometown, she was ecstatic with suddenly no longer being required to wear school uniforms. This, combined with the hoards of donated clothing that she was being offered, helped Tank to find her style mojo. As Tank says in her interview, “I was able to literally redefine who I wanted to be.” While she still battles with the unspoken rules of being a ‘Big Girl,’ (and recoils at being in a separate category from regular ‘girls’) she feels the most beautiful when she is using her style to exaggerate and celebrate her black features. As she puts it, “To have so much melanin is so special. I have to make it count.”
    Thank you to Ace Hotel New Orleans for providing us with a location to film Tank’s episode!
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  • @ems8717
    @ems8717 Před 7 lety +477

    i could listen to her all day

  • @IsabelleMN11
    @IsabelleMN11 Před 7 lety +602

    what hurts me most is the way we sensor our pain instead of letting out. the way she scolds herself right in the beginning, because she assumes she's not supposed to cry so early in the video, if at all.
    I wonder what it would look like if allow all our emotions to be, come in and go as they need, without censoring

    • @HLB313
      @HLB313 Před 7 lety +18

      YES. EXACTLY. I have only just learned this and it is glorious.

    • @onamiilove777
      @onamiilove777 Před 4 lety +4

      We are program to be self conscious of every emotion and word, because we've been taught that eyes are always watching our behavior 👀........

    • @christinaholawore1796
      @christinaholawore1796 Před 4 lety

      @@onamiilove777 hello

    • @christinaholawore1796
      @christinaholawore1796 Před 4 lety

      👌 kok

    • @mariacarvalho4783
      @mariacarvalho4783 Před 2 lety

      @@christinaholawore1796 gccgffxxxxxxfc

  • @pres5634
    @pres5634 Před 7 lety +828

    "...cause at the end of my days, I don't want anything in my hands. I want to have given it all." She's so precious and I keep replaying the first 10secs to hear THAT VOICE!

    • @aeivivi
      @aeivivi Před 7 lety +15

      "I don't want anything in my hands." ugh that stuck with me too. Also, thank you for reminding me to replay so I can hear that again!!

    • @alakinamann2069
      @alakinamann2069 Před 7 lety +7

      that stuck with me too, so beautiful!!

    • @teezytwochins4775
      @teezytwochins4775 Před 7 lety +4

      Pre Smith Yo !!!!! that part !!!!!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @lmsalim
      @lmsalim Před 7 lety +5

      yes. this. she is such a beauty and an artist.

    • @constructinjoy
      @constructinjoy Před 6 lety +3

      OMG THE BEST THING I HEARD IN A LONG TIME.

  • @sarakyoutube
    @sarakyoutube Před 7 lety +994

    Stunning woman

    • @Sunnipoo
      @Sunnipoo Před 7 lety +10

      Sara K Sara love your videos , I feel like u would be good at doing one of these style like u videos , your very interesting and inspiring plus u have a wonderful voice to listen too and I feel like u would have a great story to tell .

    •  Před 7 lety +5

      Uncle Shaun I really agree Sara is very interesting and inspiring 😍

    • @sarakyoutube
      @sarakyoutube Před 7 lety +6

      I was supposed to lol, for my acne but they changed their minds I guess

    • @TennehSillah
      @TennehSillah Před 7 lety

      Omg Hi SARA!!

    • @mindyperez7778
      @mindyperez7778 Před 7 lety +2

      StyleLikeU start that shit up!!! We all wanna see Sara!!

  • @jessrc97
    @jessrc97 Před 7 lety +448

    She sounds so powerful and strong. An inspirational woman. I think these videos should be incorporated into education in secondary schools to teach boys and girls that everyone has a story that you can't see from the outside and that's it's okay to be emotional and talk about your feelings, and also that your experiences don't have to define you, but they will help you to grow

  • @A.l.e.x.e.a
    @A.l.e.x.e.a Před 7 lety +36

    "it's so specific that I have these lips, these eyes, this body... I have to make it count." her wisdom blows me away, she's so honored to be who she is and that's so rare to see which only makes the mindset more beautiful-- just like her Xx

  • @92Emeka
    @92Emeka Před 7 lety +266

    I'm a black man and I appreciate you my sister for this. ✊🏾✊🏾

  • @nathaliamercado9977
    @nathaliamercado9977 Před 7 lety +212

    "Fuck em'"👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @mstiff321
      @mstiff321 Před 7 lety +5

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @ArtleyDraws
    @ArtleyDraws Před 7 lety +398

    Her smile is so infectious. The way she spoke about music is so true tho. I hear those lyrics in my high school halls and always think "is this ok?"

  • @LadyDioRee
    @LadyDioRee Před 7 lety +72

    So important right now to hear a black woman showing love and compassion to herself. Her beauty and resilience are so inspiring.

  • @bellaboomz
    @bellaboomz Před 7 lety +106

    Every time she giggled or smiled, I couldn't help but do the same. 😊

  • @mayowasworld
    @mayowasworld Před 7 lety +98

    She is absolutely stunning. It's healing to hear her talk about her dark skin. I can relate. Thank you

  • @tae.natalie7647
    @tae.natalie7647 Před 7 lety +38

    This woman here!!!
    She changed the game for me, I am over here bawling my eyes out. She was genuinely, unapologetically, herself. Her truth, and rawness was perfect. I want to meet her. Thank you for one of the best episodes I've seen. She is beautiful, and perfect, and whole...the entire package. Keep shining that light, Sista!!!

  • @unajullien8085
    @unajullien8085 Před 7 lety +39

    I'm 15 and I feel like this series has had a great educational impact on me. I'd never thought as much about body image and it's impact on my mind.
    So thank you very much for opening my eyes.

    • @Theandara
      @Theandara Před 3 lety

      Same. I’m 32 I’ll be 33 next month and just discovering this.

    • @angelstar7656
      @angelstar7656 Před měsícem

      I'm reading your comment in 2024. You are 7 years older, a real adult. Please update and tell us how you think of your body image now. TY!

  • @thandolwethusiziba2445
    @thandolwethusiziba2445 Před 7 lety +77

    She is so beautiful. She is co colourful. She is black girl magic!

  • @pagethreemodel
    @pagethreemodel Před 7 lety +187

    She's so cute. And very beautiful.

  • @camishokrian7476
    @camishokrian7476 Před 7 lety +61

    she's fucking incredible....i had chills at her couple of lines
    "at the end of my days I don't anything in my hands, I want to have given it all."

  • @arthuriarossiii6332
    @arthuriarossiii6332 Před 7 lety +143

    The more she took off the more beautiful she became to me! I Love All of my sisters though some of us have been through some stuff! We are Mother Earth with her cracks, crevices and ruins! That voice moves me! I list this one as Favorite. I am better inside because she lives. She lives in me!

  • @alliewonders117
    @alliewonders117 Před 7 lety +24

    "It's so funny that I live my life in the most noticeable fashion these days, when before, I would do anything to blend into the walls" breaks my heart

  • @dirtpatcheaven
    @dirtpatcheaven Před 7 lety +109

    I loved when Tarriona took her hair down, she is so beautiful.

  • @Fatima-up8lw
    @Fatima-up8lw Před 7 lety +98

    She is so beautiful, in every sense of the word.

  • @ShanajayeandEric
    @ShanajayeandEric Před 7 lety +149

    Wow this really hit home.! And her voice is so soothing!

  • @iamcatcopo4401
    @iamcatcopo4401 Před 7 lety +30

    She is BEAUTIFUL! Her personality, strength, face, those legs wow, a stunner.

    • @mimihollins9141
      @mimihollins9141 Před 7 lety +6

      I was Crying because she's so Deep .. . So Real and then I saw those Big Beautiful Leg's

  • @crybibaby
    @crybibaby Před 7 lety +23

    She has one of the most beautiful and haunting speaking voices I've ever heard 😍 what an amazing soul

  • @ropegirlz
    @ropegirlz Před 7 lety +33

    when saw this, it almost made me cry. I'm someone who doesn't know what her style is, who isn't comfortable in her body and really cares about what people think. seeing this, i got a bitchslap back in my face. this is not how you should life, this is not who you are. now I'm rewachting all of the other clips and i really think i know what to do, who i want to become, who i am. maby it's weird to say it here, and maby its also weird to say that so soon, but i find something here that made me really think who am i and that was what i just needed. so thankyou ❤

  • @CelinaLiya
    @CelinaLiya Před 7 lety +57

    Absolutely loved this, love her, love her face, vibes, wise words & mentality. YES mama. YES!

  • @rastamarleyjunior6490
    @rastamarleyjunior6490 Před 7 lety +57

    her spirit is beautiful

  • @SophiaLovella
    @SophiaLovella Před 7 lety +14

    We are our own worse critiques but I wish you knew how beautiful you are. Your body, shape, smooth chocolate skin and toned legs, soul, voice and symmetrical beautiful face. Bless you sis.

  • @rhoromeo
    @rhoromeo Před 7 lety +109

    When I tell you that this touched me beyond wordssssssss.... pure beauty, honesty, love I can go one and on. One of my top 5 favorites hands down keep shining and pushing through sista!

  • @DarbyAlleighaSite
    @DarbyAlleighaSite Před 7 lety +13

    I am in love with her and by loving her I am falling more in love with myself. Thank you for interview strong black women. You will never know how important this is!

  • @minaochoa2729
    @minaochoa2729 Před 7 lety +37

    What an inspiration coming from a young beautiful black women ❤️

  • @patricebeiste685
    @patricebeiste685 Před 7 lety +40

    I love her!! She is so cute and powerful and beautiful and her voice, there's somethng about the way she talks...amazing!

  • @JC-sb3bp
    @JC-sb3bp Před 7 lety +52

    LOVE her, what a beautiful, positive lady 💚💚💚

  • @hfd3308
    @hfd3308 Před 7 lety +38

    i love this channel because i feel so beautiful and empowered. i also love it because i can look at their outfits and get inspired about my own. like i want to go and create a outfit i feel great in right now.

  • @nayyirransome8477
    @nayyirransome8477 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for all you’ve done for the artists in south Louisiana. I know this video is old, but it was new to me.
    I remember seeing you feature at All City and Freshhh Heat and to watch your growth over the years has been a sense of hope and inspiration.
    Thank you. Watching this was healing.
    I’m grateful that you’ve committed to giving your gifts to the world.

  • @MedieTC
    @MedieTC Před 7 lety +48

    SHE IS AMAZINGGGGG! Absolutely stunning! Her last answer resonated with me💗

  • @isabellabornberg2153
    @isabellabornberg2153 Před 7 lety +64

    ohhhh her hair 😍😍😍😳 its amazing

  • @maishac
    @maishac Před 6 lety +3

    Tarriona!!!!!!!! Thank you for sharing. The 12-year old in me thanks you, too! 💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💖💖💖 Keep shining, sis. We need those beams of light you consistently radiate...yes, consistently!

  • @alexandriadatts6429
    @alexandriadatts6429 Před 7 lety +25

    super loved her...I love how special it is to be a black girl

  • @amye9060
    @amye9060 Před 7 lety +11

    I'm in awe of the beauty of your words. What you said about renting and owning at the same time, what you said about your hands being empty in the end because you want to have given everything away, that's going to stick with me for a long time.

  • @fieldsofspace
    @fieldsofspace Před 7 lety +9

    She radiates strength. Awesome woman.

  • @filibusterfirework74
    @filibusterfirework74 Před 7 lety +28

    These videos give me so much hope. They encourage me to be a better version of myself and love myself every step along the way. I am so thankful for the role models I see in these women and the honesty and collective love of this community.

  • @DaniellaDeutscch
    @DaniellaDeutscch Před 7 lety +2

    Her message to her 12 year old self is something I think we should all repeat to ourselves. Such a beautiful woman!

  • @florenciamayagoitia2312
    @florenciamayagoitia2312 Před 6 lety +2

    I love her 💗 i felt such a genuine light from her.
    Also I gasped when she let her hair down cause it was glorious 👑

  • @supernovadiva5000
    @supernovadiva5000 Před 7 lety +76

    So needed this this morning. ❤ Thank you!

  • @sarakerrison754
    @sarakerrison754 Před 7 lety +8

    This is incredibly beautiful, she made me feel really peaceful. If she could read this I would say thank you, what you shared helps more people then you realize. It helped me.

  • @ezlanpowers
    @ezlanpowers Před 7 lety +2

    It's not stupid to be emotional about your relationship with your body. I'd be crying up there one minute in myself, this was powerful. I loved this one.

  • @evapol2135
    @evapol2135 Před 7 lety +8

    she wears her skin so beautiful!

  • @arin6479
    @arin6479 Před 7 lety +4

    I could listen to Tarriona talk forever. Her voice is so calm. Everything she says is so powerful. Here's to being comfortable in our clothes and in our bodies.

  • @RickyHydeTV
    @RickyHydeTV Před 7 lety +23

    I don't know her, but I feel connected to her through her experiences and what she has learned. So much respect

    • @AM-AnitaM
      @AM-AnitaM Před 7 lety +3

      Ricky Hyde her music will blow you away! Wow

  • @krisy_87
    @krisy_87 Před 7 lety +3

    I literally cried the whole time watching this. beautiful.

  • @mswifeycatlady7583
    @mswifeycatlady7583 Před 2 lety +2

    2 minutes in and this woman is already my favourite interview I’ve watched. She’s absolutely amazing and beautiful.
    I watch so many of these videos and I just wish I had of been this self aware when I was younger. In my 40’s now and it’s only now I’m starting to really discover who I am as a person. Thank you all so very much for the work you’re doing 💐💐💐

  • @evaiskra11
    @evaiskra11 Před 7 lety +7

    Beautiful video. And she brings up topic that always shocked me. Why we, as a women no matter what colour or ethnicity we are, allow men to treat us in such degrading way? Why we tolerate this? And what's more why in English speaking countries girls address themselves as "bitches"?

  • @enseevee
    @enseevee Před 7 lety +29

    She is a god damn gift to this earth.

  • @noyodesigns
    @noyodesigns Před 7 lety +1

    your enchanting smile can melt the worlds pains. Thank you for the colors.... thank you for the words. . . thank you for the love.

  • @itzmelmel9363
    @itzmelmel9363 Před 4 lety +2

    Wow, this video has touched me in so many ways. Im also a black plus size, flat ass girl who grew up in New Orleans and has felt these words in so many ways. I’m so thankful for you for creating this video. It has and is continually helping me so much with embracing my self image even at the age of 36. I can’t say thank you enough! You’re truly a phenomenal woman Tank!

  • @TheTRIZZZLE14
    @TheTRIZZZLE14 Před 7 lety +7

    dudes! go check out her tiny desk concert with her band Tank and the Bangas, she is amazing

  • @MalikaBreadforks
    @MalikaBreadforks Před 7 lety +9

    this had me tearing up, AMAZING!!

  • @krewecoumbite
    @krewecoumbite Před 7 lety +3

    I love her* big girls are Beautiful. Black women are wonderful. Thank you

  • @lee123dawn
    @lee123dawn Před 7 lety +1

    She. Is. Ah-Ma-Zing. I was crying watching her. Felt like she was telling my story too. Beautiful. Just beautiful.

  • @angie808.
    @angie808. Před 7 lety +15

    you did it & you ARE beautiful ♡

  • @Zoebrownings
    @Zoebrownings Před 7 lety +14

    I has goosebumps throughout this whole video !!! It was so beautiful to watch !! She is just amazing 😊

  • @Cheeseface108
    @Cheeseface108 Před 7 lety +1

    I saw her band play live about a year ago and she brought the house down. Such a powerful voice and beautiful presence. I'm so excited she's featured here

  • @ollynlola
    @ollynlola Před 3 lety +1

    Her music has always made me incredibly happy and watching this has me in tears. She's so beautiful and such a bright soul!!

  • @inkandmoontv
    @inkandmoontv Před 7 lety +6

    So amazing

  • @SupraSoulStar
    @SupraSoulStar Před 7 lety +3

    Wow I loved listening to her voice, she should be a narrator. I love how uncomfortable she was getting undressed (very understandable), but accepted the challenge anyway. It shows Courage. Thank you for being this vulnerable for us!

  • @pinkcoolkid7316
    @pinkcoolkid7316 Před 7 lety +1

    I can't wait to hear more of her music and more from her just period. She is an awesome poet/singer!!! Go girl!

  • @paulineharris6602
    @paulineharris6602 Před 6 lety

    What a JEWEL! Tarriona 'Tank' Ball is a QUEEN! Anyone in her presences should be honored. She is real and beautiful.

  • @AnnesLebenCH
    @AnnesLebenCH Před 7 lety +8

    What a beautiul woman - inside & out! 💖

  • @tracibartlow1
    @tracibartlow1 Před 7 lety +10

    Your personality is beautiful. I'm going to check out your music.

  • @isabelpichel2780
    @isabelpichel2780 Před 2 lety

    Charming and Strong Essencial Soul. Beautiful corage to speak and for TO BE herself. Beautiful hair and face having very expressive eyes and mouth, beautiful voice and very elegant hands and legs. She is a winner !!!Thankyou for your Presence and have Lots of Love and Joy😄😄😄😄😄😄

  • @catteadams
    @catteadams Před 6 lety +1

    Tarriona is a gorgeous woman, insightful, and proud.
    "I dont want anything in my hands when I leave, I want to have given it all."
    Absolutely brilliant thing to say and strive for.
    Yes ma'am. You have arrived. Fully formed. And perfect.
    You make me courageous.
    And that is a very big thing to inspire in another soul. :)

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 Před 7 lety +142

    Black girl magic ✊✊✊

  • @turtleshellz5289
    @turtleshellz5289 Před 7 lety +3

    she embodies beauty❤ thank you for being transparent

  • @R0gue86
    @R0gue86 Před 3 lety +1

    This is by far my favourite of these videos, the heart of this woman is pure gold, when she was asked when she feels the most beautiful, she said when she was all done up, but even in the simple items of clothing she had left, she was absolutely stunning to behold, in so many ways, all the way to the soul. So much respect for her gentleness and the way she moves through life.

  • @Rissy617
    @Rissy617 Před 7 lety +1

    she's amazing. her strength, confidence, her eccentrism and style. the way she speaks with such conviction and realness....
    damn, I needed this right now! ❤❤

  • @SophiaHoiseth
    @SophiaHoiseth Před 7 lety +5

    Amazing story, style, and soul!!!!!!!!! wow!!!!!!!!!

  • @chouchouILUVU
    @chouchouILUVU Před 7 lety +19

    cryyyyiingg i love her

  • @thebeardedgaymer4888
    @thebeardedgaymer4888 Před 7 lety +1

    I LOVE TANK!!!! this was so revealing and not even in the stripped down interview way. I feel like she is an open book for anyone to come and read. She will be a grammy winning artist come next awards season.

  • @carleecurry1550
    @carleecurry1550 Před 6 lety +2

    I just LOOOOVE her man! ❤️ She fell in love with herself all over again ✊🏾 I love you Queen!!

  • @Nikki-bo8to
    @Nikki-bo8to Před 7 lety +5

    i love her thoughts so much.. what a beautiful soul

  • @OddWomanOut_Pi81
    @OddWomanOut_Pi81 Před 7 lety +18

    "...this spirit is childish & old at the same time..."
    Mmmmm... Those are ancient words, my dear.

  • @mia1256785
    @mia1256785 Před 7 lety +1

    Did anyone else cry? This was so beautiful.

  • @Harvarddoll
    @Harvarddoll Před 7 lety +2

    Every word you spoke, permeated my spirit. I know that pain and I'm working towards that peace. Thank you Queen for your wisdom

  • @holisticmaya
    @holisticmaya Před 7 lety +14

    Discovered this channel through Sammi (beautycrush) and i love it. This was my favorite episode. This woman is amazing.

  • @LLawrah
    @LLawrah Před 7 lety +32

    I want her to narrate my life

  • @aliciakeyslover83
    @aliciakeyslover83 Před 7 lety +1

    She spoke for so many of us and still her story is unique! Loved this!

  • @orphansparrow2
    @orphansparrow2 Před 7 lety

    I absolutely love what she says at the end. "In the end, I want to have nothing in my hands. I want to have given it all." Wow. Thats exactly it. So powerful. What a beautiful woman.

  • @shanikarussell3049
    @shanikarussell3049 Před 7 lety +11

    Love love love love love love her omg 😘😘😘

  • @isabellatannock7784
    @isabellatannock7784 Před 7 lety +6

    Amazing what a beautiful human!!!!

  • @breekwhal
    @breekwhal Před 7 lety +1

    "(The way I look) is so specific" man this just boosted my self esteem

  • @Eklectic_Afro
    @Eklectic_Afro Před 3 lety +1

    She is so beautiful. So many of her words made me smile.

  • @joside1282
    @joside1282 Před 7 lety +35

    My favorite so far! And those legs...I'm in love!

  • @pulengkoneshe
    @pulengkoneshe Před 7 lety +5

    I love her. So beautiful.

  • @kefiloesiwisa3732
    @kefiloesiwisa3732 Před 7 lety

    "at the end of my days I don't want anything in my hands, I want to have given it all" - she is beautifullllll- powerful... she is doing the 'work' that honours her soul... those words I will carry with me...

  • @SweetMegg
    @SweetMegg Před 6 lety +1

    This was beautiful. What an inspiring woman. At ten minutes in when she was talking about how her clothes made her feel the most beautiful it was ironic because she looked the most gorgeous at that very moment with her hair down in barely anything, just raw and herself. This was incredibly moving, thank you for doing this.

  • @timeyinoritsesan6803
    @timeyinoritsesan6803 Před 7 lety +3

    That was very inspirational. Getting some slight Jill Scott type vibes from her. Love it

  • @liv7492
    @liv7492 Před 7 lety +5

    Im in love with her. What a beautiful soul.

  • @frankieadorni5513
    @frankieadorni5513 Před 7 lety

    "You're wrong, you're so wrong about me dude. And I'm so happy that you're wrong". Is the most empowering quote I've ever heard. Thank you so much for being so inspiring, you have put the fire back in my heart.

  • @rosecalderone7083
    @rosecalderone7083 Před 7 lety

    I was mesmerized by what she said....and her looks and smile and body are gorgeous and amazing...and that laugh! oh my goodness. she is luscious in every way. Queen!