Stop Oversharing on Social Media (Part One)
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- čas přidán 17. 10. 2020
- In this video, I will be touching on a topic that some people don’t realize is an issue. Oversharing on social media. Yes, SHARING on social media is the purpose of these platforms; BUT everything doesn’t need to be shared. I think people don’t realize it’s a PUBLIC format and we’ve got to maintain some degree of privacy in our lives. I hope this opens up eyes and creates discussions that result in positive change. Thanks for stopping by my channel!
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The best remedy is not to be on social media.PERIOD
Exactly
I agree 💯
What you said is so true. It's so embarrassing when people publicly have on and off relationships because they really do seem dumb after they threw all this shade and talked all that sh!t online just to post a pic with them 2 days later. And they're the same type of people to post "Y'all don't know me, you know what I post" or "Y'all don't know my relationship."
😂 embarrassing is the perfect word for it. Thank you for watching
THANK YOU! It's really annoying when people put their relationship issues out there for public knowledge then get pissed when someone makes a comment they don't like. If they didn't want anyone to say anything, they should have kept it private.
I've learned the very hard way of being too open, vulnerable, trusting, and naive posting private things out of hurt and desperation. I deleted social media for a while and now set all my new accounts to private only showing small glimpses of my life. I mostly post my favorite hobbies and favorite topics/discussions. Online forums are a lot of fun to learn and keep my identity private or anonymous.
Very smart
I never overshare anything. I share memes. I like funny cats or music. Barely few pictures of me.
Smart
you know I quit them all and now I don't see these bad habit that people are doing in social media and I am really comfortable without knowing these things
That's great. I take social media breaks for my mental health
The fact that this should be common sense but its EVERYWHERE like how are people not embarrassed??? And GIRL YES those videos where couples wanna lick on each other, why do people share that nasty ish, forcing that PDA on us, it should be private
Yes, I think everyone’s common sense is different lol so I had to make this 😂
Common sense isn't so common after all
@@rtlau-mk4di Sadly, there are a lot of people who have zero idea what common sense is nowadays.
Lol people didn’t even know I was engaged cause there’s nothing on my Facebook that indicates I’m in a relationship. When people found out in real life I was actually in a relationship, they were hurt that I never shared it. I don’t see the point of posting pictures of my partner and my relationship online.
I love that. I wish more people kept their love life more private, it’s smart.
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I agree there is too much sharing on sickness, illness and death. Some people do it got attention and it’s a form of eliciting sympathy often to garner sympathy. This in turn is used to manipulate people into doing favors, and giving money and gifts.
Wow, I never connected it to being manipulative. Interesting point 🤔
THANK YOU. I also think when you post your relationship non stop this has been scientifically proven to mean that things are lacking in the relationship and these people are overcompensating.
I absolutely agree!
Romantic relationships. To be honest i dont want noone to be hating and judging on my relationships. Maybe if i was in a serious relationship i would post a 2,3 decent pics. Maybe.
Yes, I would share pics every once in a while. Gotta keep it private
What I also feel like is that social media is effecting toms of relationships nowadays..
I agree!
My new year goal for 2022. I really am realizing energy is a real thing and what you show there's so much energies being mixed in by your viewers and it can be good/bad
So I’ve had Instagram for about 12 years and seeing all my peers and their walks of life as soon as we got out of high school and we all had our phases, social media trends and what not, the whole #mcm, #wcw, #nationalboyfriendday, etc. we were so new to this platform we posted the same stuff others would post about relationships, first jobs, subliminal quote posts about drama or your mental health. Everything you said is true and I wish we all saved ourselves the embarrassment. Because I’m only seeing more TMI as we are pushing in our 30’s. I blame influencers who show and talk way too much about relationships, sex, postpartum, their kids (my gosh I don’t need to see your kid every day on my feed!) even exposing their kids and their mistakes. That’s another thing I feel bad for the babies of today is having their whole life told on social media by their parents. And jealousy is a horrible thing, comparison is the thief of joy. And while we have our own walks and achievements in life, we don’t appreciate it as much because we want it to be or look like the ones we see from our peers and others on social media. We wish them well but sometimes that insecurity does build the jealousy and no one wants to be the bad guy wishing harm or failure onto the person whose content with their lives. It is good to keep certain accomplishments to yourself to protect those successes.
Yes, us millennials were definitely the Guinea pigs and we didn’t know the long term effects. And influencers have set the standard of oversharing. And I agree people post their kids too much it’s annoying 😂. And children’s should have their childhood protected a little better. And yes, it’s very hard not to compare ourselves to each other! It naturally breeds jealousy and thank you for watching my video ❤️
Excellent , I totally agree
I think with over sharing about bad things is bad because we don’t know the whole story. People are getting canceled by society without society knowing the whole story.
I love this video! EVERYTHING you said on here is so on point!!! Yes, I do know people who have photos of their loved ones in caskets. But to post them for anybody who's anybody to see is way too creepy! And when it comes to PDA (except for holding hands or a hug) that stuff should be kept behind closed doors.
And sorry, peeps, but who truly cares about how wonderful your kids are and family moments in photos online? Unless of course, you're related to those people.
Thank you for watching and I agree with keeping certain family photos sacred and private.
Am truly glad and elated that i came across your channel and particularly this video ! It was so accurate. You spilled all beans 💜
Thank you 😊
Great subject . You go Girl. 👋👋❤️
Thank you!
I am not over sharing there’s a ton of data breeches that others aren’t acknowledging
I am 100% totally agree with you on this. ❤️
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True...all true.
My take on this is 50-50. It's too lengthy for me to explain but what I want to say is about freedom of expression, motives of posting, the psychology behind the urge, right audience, platform, etc. It is always that there are envious or tired people online but there are also people who likes seeing what others don't want to see or seeing the positive from the negative & vice-versa. One solution is to curate your friends or change platform that meets your needs. Though, I'm not saying that posting naked pictures is ok. I'm just talking about being fair to everyone.
I understand. Personally, 70% of the people I follow I actually like to see what they’re up to. But the way social media is set up, you’ll always see things you don’t want to see. This is because of what the algorithm sometimes suggests and also who you follow (they) share posts from people that you don’t follow, and those ppl can post things you don’t care to see.
@@chaurielle Yeah. I used to be active in Facebook but lately, I deactivated one profile with relatives connected to it because some of them felt triggered with my posts when I don't mean to. I just want to raise awareness that something is wrong. that most people don't know. But people just like fun. They don't want real talk, psychology & making a change for good & if the audience are your relatives, they would overreact & in a dramatic way that isn't necessary. They think you are in the lowest point of your life & that you're being negative when you are not, just because they don't see you & hear your voice tone.
I created a new Fb account because I need Messenger. but I quit posting on feed. I didn't add any relatives, only open to strangers & like-minded people. Didn't even disclose my gender, age & nationality because most people choose friends based on these & I don't like these kind of people. Then I created Fb pages where I can post my creativity without being seen as braggy & proud. I am also creating my own blog/website where I can be the king & can be real & can rant anytime I want with class & without being a headache to anyone uninvolved.
Of course, CZcams is one of the best place for me to speak my mind like now. So much freedom here... 💙😊
@@meahtoday That’s smart and yes, CZcams is my favorite
@@chaurielle Thank ü
Girl you deserve more subscribers!!
thank you ❤️
This was lowkey funny 😂😂 new subscriber🥰
Thank you 😊 ❤️
Please make more videos!! I am hooked.
My next one is on the way! Thank you for watching ❤️
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This is probably one of the best videos I have seen, Chaurielle (and what a very pretty name and girl!) I loved this about "parsley!" Go to 6:16. "Relationship details should be like parsley. They should be the accent, not the main dish." I am very impressed by this video and I "Liked" it and "Subscribed."
Thank you 😊
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I also dont know why they need to post death.. it should be private for me.. but some of my friends post it toinform their relatives far away from them maybe.. some are asking help or donations that's why they post.
That's true
@Althea Art I think asking for donations is ok because funerals are horribly expensive. But photos of loved ones in their caskets (Trust me, I know people that have those kind of photos) are way too creepy to be posting online.
I do modeling but I often wonder, if I should try to do it without social media
That might be hard to do. Social media actually benefits models to get them exposure
@@chaurielle right! I’ve been holding off doing swimsuit modeling because I’ve been afraid if it’s showing too much, but honestly if it’s a job or a genuine aspiration then it shouldn’t matter.
@@WorldofDaisyFlowers as long as it’s tasteful; you gotta do what you gotta do 👌🏽
Great video! Keep working
Thank you 🙏🏽
This video needs way more views!
Hopefully soon 🙏🏽 thank you for watching though!
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Nice nice, nice content and video
Thank you!
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Chaurielle nice video beautiful. Good points and commentary on oversharing your personal life on Social Media. From Brian aka Shaka Zulu.
Thank you Brian!
Geez.. Glad somebody told it. 🤦🏾♂️
I had to lol
I must have watched this 2y ago. Otherwise I wouldn't have been here now.
A minute into the video and I already agreed
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I overshare too many quotes.. and I really want to stop that
It’s ok, being self aware is the first step!
I share about Bible verses on social media
Yeah that inspirational shit is so 2010 😂
Very good points
Thank you!
I post only positive stuff on Facebook not negative stuff anymore
That’s great! We need more people like you
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I couldn't agree with this video more, I've had ex's that have done all of these 🙉
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Fr ppl needs to get off
I actually went into this with an open mind but this just seems entitled af you come off as annoying I understand completely that they are opinions but this voice and the iMovie editing, and the music it’s just to much just saying cause no one is saying how annoying this is.
Thanks for commenting