The Convention for Women...By Men
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WOWZA! Today, we take a look at the 22Convention, which is a self-help convention made specifically for women...put on by a bunch of dudes! The whole concept of this convention was just so insane to me, so I decided to talk about it and see if they really know what they're talking about (spoiler alert: they don't). Enjoy!
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"fellas is it gay to treat women like human beings-con 2020"
Leah X lmao
Leah X same
Leah X SAME
It's only gay if you say women and men are equal 😔
Giving child support to female rapists yea sure "treat wahmen like human"
The fact that many of these men have daughters is disgusting
I don’t support kidnapping but in this case i don’t think it’d be wrong to kidnap them and give them to an orphanage
The Devs i also don’t support kidnapping but yes
ForevaLaTrelle Gosh those poor kids. I know this is the land of the free but some people really shouldn’t be allowed to raise tiny developing humans.
ForevaLaTrelle dad: “alright so what do we always say”
Daughter: “women are objects”
Dad: “very good. Now, you’ve been out of the kitchen for two whole minutes. If you stay out anymore you might grow a penis”
the fact that these guys remind me of my dad and all the men in leadership at my old childhood church is unsettling
You know what, i bet he's gonna take mom and little bro still living at home out to see this conference XD
He really went “women can be empowered but I can’t be racist??? Disgusting.”
“you say you like cupcakes huh? Now replace ‘cupcakes’ with murder, not so cool now”.
@@djdee6386 this is literally all their arguments are 😭
@@djdee6386 "sexual assault bad and we should stop that" and they respond with like "what if the roles were reversed??? huh??! answer that sjw snowflake"
those two things have absolutely no correlation what😭 the stupidity in some people is insane
@@djdee6386 Gosh, it hurts my brain knowing that this comment is basically a comment someone would make unironically
"Oh, so defending yourself from a killer is okay, but punching an 8yo kid in the face isn't? You liberals don't have any brain cell.."
One time my stepbrother said "if women are equal I can hit a girl then" and I told him he wasnt allowed to hit boys either because its literally illegal. His brain short circuited.
Hitting anyone isn't how it should be and yes it's assault either way. How about you act like an adult and solve your issues with words instead you monkey.
“unlimited babies”
someone wanna tell them what menopause is?
Get Real 💀 you’re 100% correct there
They wouldn't understand it
they did say "with the time you have left"
SO YOU ARE PART OF THE FEMINIST KKK?
We should just freeze all their sperm and kill them
I never understood the whole equal rights = you can hit a woman. Um. Do they not realise they legally can't hit a man either? Because that's assault?
snig222 EXACTLY!
AMEN
Yup! It should be looked at equally
snig222 ikr
It’s like they’re just looking for excuses to hit a women
as a woman, i can confirm we raised our femininity by 500%. I have spawned 728 babies this year!
oh please, I’ve spawned 1,456 babies!
Ive spawned 4. Problem is im a guy
@@Iamtherealaa2dontbelievetheoth good lord
@@Iamtherealaa2dontbelievetheoth 😨
@@Iamtherealaa2dontbelievetheoth👏👏👏👏
no way in hell that guy actually compared the womens right movement with the KKK? what planet is that man on?
Some people try to say anything to justify their hatred for another group
I have seen anti vaxxers comparing the social distance rules to the holocaust so I am not surprised by comparisons like that anymore
@@Brunette_2005 Jesus! Some people!
There's someone on youtube who compares people who are openly not straight as "The Gaystopo".
they're on jupiter to get more stupider lolz lololol
That awkward moment when a woman has her own personality and opinions 😳😳😳
Freddie Mercury lmaoooo ily
Freddie Mercury said women's rights
Wow good one from witch night show you gat this one?
total *bruh* moment 😳😲😂😳
Freddie Mercury oh god don’t even get me started on when a girl has her a sense of humor 🤢🤢🤮🤮
“we need something positive for women, destroying feminism is the key to that.” i don’t think i’ve ever heard anything more conflicting than that.
god I know 😂
GOD that made me so angry...
They just hate women finally having a voice of their own
(Not a single female voice in the crowd.)
I disagree
idk ??? He meant destroying 3rd/4th wave feminism which is literally hurting more women than it’s helping.
"until ~90% of their eggs are dead at age 30"
...do they realize that 10% of a woman's eggs is still TWO HUNDRED THOUSAND eggs?
I bet this information about woman losing most eggs by 30 isn't even true, it wouldn't make sense evolution-wise for women to have so little time to reproduce
No that would require 2 things they don't have. adequate sex education. Working brains.
Bold of you to assume those men know anything about woman biology 😂
not just that, but that “statistic” is a flat out lie
I don't think this dude realizes much, tbh.
16:37 My girlfriend is very into traditional femininity. Her aspiration in life is to be a housewife. She’s been like this since she was little, and made it well known when I met her. But she’s also a feminist who believes in equal rights. That can coexist. And no one is forcing these women to reject traditional femininity??? There are plenty of women who enjoy that, and choose that path.
THATS WHAT IM SAYING ⁉️⁉️
As long as that’s not the standard for every woman and they can choose to go down that path!! Exactly!!
Also with feminism - if someone (not you) was abusive towards her, she’d be allowed to leave, because being a happy housewife buzzing round the kitchen and cleaning up various fluids doesn’t automatically mean you sign up for a lifetime of abuse (or.. it shouldn’t, anyway)
I would absolutely love to stay at home and cook and clean all day and I’m a trans man
@@eldritchcupcakes3195 slay
bro when men are like “oh soo can hit a girl now?” bro why do you want to hit women so bad? you can’t hit anyone legally
@The Flying Dutchman what? It is acceptable to hit back and gender doesn't matter. It's funny how some men think, that women disagree with that.
@The Flying Dutchman Well those men don't speak for women. Feminism means fighting for equal rights and accepting equal responsibilities.
The Flying Dutchman the argument should be to not hit anyone. Point to the feminists who think men shouldn’t hit women in self defence. every feminist I know thinks gender doesn’t matter in self defence, because arguing otherwise is just arguing that women are too weak to cause damage, which is an anti-feminist belief.
@@isabellekh8112 why cant ppl just like not hit other ppl? regardless of gender...
Calm down it’s one sentence
man these guys are not ready to hear about lesbians
Yess
beth johnston
Who’s gonna tell them?
@@dumbgayenby not me
@@ANNA-wk9si being gay isn't a personality trait
No, it’s a sexuality. And a username.
I've always noticed that books written in and around the 1800s by WOMEN have always portrayed women's views completely differently than books by MEN.
In books like Jane Eyre, Pride and Prejudice, Little House on the Prairie, Gone with the Wind, ex cetera, the women are usually sensible, strong, intelligent and not just weak emotional wrecks who love to cook and clean. In short, they actually have personality traits besides being kind and nurturing.
While books by men usually portray at least one woman as a weak, stumbling idiot who has no purpose in life but to bear men's children.
Really? I mean negative stereotypes exist for a reason but usually the stories written by men also have a strong, sensible female lead (or sidekick). I specialize in roman/greek/german medieval history so the 1800s are not my expertise, but even in medieval stories you often have multiple good women and one bad counterexample (for example in "Wigalois", you have the princess who is loyal to her betrothed and does not give up on him even when he seems to be dead. or the antagonists wife (some duchess) who cunningly bargains for her husband to be released. the only negative stereotype is the wild fisherwoman who finds the protagonist unconscious and takes advantage of his state by stealing from him and later gaslighting him. - none of the women in the book had children or were mentioned for that purpose) A lot of medieval stories that I read were based around that structure: 2-3 good women and 1 bad example which seems about alright to me.
dont forget how they always gotta sexualize the women in the story too
@@wolfsmaid6815 both the examples you mentioned are still defined by their role in relation to their male counterpart (staying loyal to him, getting him released, etc). Not saying there's absolutely no independent women in all of history pre-1800s, but there's a massive increase once the masses became literate and publishing became a thing. A lot of medieval and ancient stories have been influenced by countless re-writes through pen or oral storytelling. This blurs the line of authorship, and they become the product of a community rather than a single person. However if you look at novels in the last 250 years, where we know who the author was so we can draw a clear line between male and female authors. And like OP said, those written by women definitely have more developed female characters than those by men
@@cutecakes2228 Because women in general are defined in relation to their male counterpart. I never claimed that they existed independently from their surroundings.
Just like a toddler would define a dog as "not a cat", we often use opposites and their relations to one another as one of the most basic forms of definition.
@@wolfsmaid6815 Speaking in terms of characters, they can be defined by what they do in the story. An abundance of female characters' sole narrative purposes are to support the males' journeys, rather than having their own.
“Women have been unhappy since 1970!” No, women have been unhappy the whole time. We just weren’t allowed to open our own bank accounts until the 1960’s, or open our own credit lines w/o discrimination until 1974. Meaning when we got financial autonomy, we started speaking out more often.
The thing is, women happiness indicators are going down since 1970. But you know which indicators go down as well? Men happiness indicators. They are just twistings statistics to "support" they ass backwards thesis. Life is getting a bit shittier each year for EVERYONE.
Wow must be so hard, try being roasted alive by Putins bombs
No. It’s a study that asked women. Not a study waiting for women to speak out
@@yusraaa4221 what the fuck are you talking about genuinely, please tell me youre trolling. The original comment was 8 months ago. Woman ask now “you happy?” Woman say no. Woman back then repressed and had no righty rights, you ask woman then woman say yes im happy, if my husband says I am.
@@microwavedforks First of all, youtube doesn't organize comments by date so it doesn't matter how old it was. Second, i'm explaining that what right-wingers are usually referring to when they talk about women's happiness is a particular statistic, and the nature of a statistic involves being asked, not waiting for the subject to "speak out", like the comment was claiming
And then men get offended when we say "toxic masculinity exists"
These men are just toxic in everyway
I agree that toxic masculinity exists. I just get pissed when certain people misuse the term and claim that any masculinity is toxic masculinity
Danny DeVito I’ve not heard people do that personally
Maisie Moo x no offense to you but I definitely have
Danny DeVito non taken 😂
okay but imagine this... you go through 9 months of pregnancy, give birth, which is a major body changing experience, and then raise a child for 18 years, and then that child turns out to be one of the misogynistic men at this convention... id die
Well if your a piece of shit mother that abuses her son yeah that might happen.
I wonder if they would actually say those things to their mother
oh my god.... i want to cry just thinking about this
@@xiii9154 Your right I feel like most of those men have major mommy issues
they absolutely have mommy issues lmao they lost all control of their life so they feel like they need to control women’s lives just to have control of something
as a single mom, it BAFFLES me that WOMEN are always blamed for becoming single moms 😂 like you know MAJORITY of the time it’s bc the *GUY* ….LEFT…..right???
LITERALLY!! Like why is the mom being shamed and hated on when the guy was the problem? ☹️
Fr
It's sad. People try and justify it by saying "she should have chosen her partner more carefully." Wait. Should they have chosen more carefully? Oh shit now I'm thinking blame actually lies on both sides.
It's both parents fault in my opinion. The man was a coward and ran. And sadly the mom did not do her due diligence as far as condoms and picking a good guy goes
@@sinjunmorris701 well in most cases (like mine) there’s a lot of manipulation involved pre pregnancy. my ex husband/baby daddy was an amazing boyfriend actually all the way through my first pregnancy & we even got married 4 months later & things were great. a month later i got pregnant with my daughter & the stress of it all (i was still going to college & working on the weekends as a server & he worked doing hvac installment which was decent money but not the best) caused a complete shift in character for both of us. we ended up becoming really toxic and emotionally abusive to each other until i decided to leave, 8 months pregnant with a one and a half year old. the first two years i tried and tried and TRIED to get him to coparent with me and be involved with his kids (he was a great dad with my son pre-divorce) and he just went MIA for months at a time then would pop up for a couple weeks and disappear again. there was absolutely no way for me to have known he was going to do that when i got pregnant the first time.
i will say, in the last year he has finally stepped up and started being more consistently involved but it took a really really long time & i never told him he couldn’t see them or anything i would reach out to him, take the kids to him, plan things for him that he would bail on, etc. although i wasn’t a great wife, i was never a bad mother.
as a woman watching this video actually brings me to tears. its so genuinely frightening and disheartening that men like this are out there :/ sometimes being a woman is so tiring
but kurtis!!! im new to watching ur videos but thank u for always bringing awareness to things/people like this & simultaneously being hilarious u are the best
@@literallyjustag1rllet’s not pretend like there aren’t millions of women who openly hate all men.
Literally so sad and frustrating. I might burst into tears from how these idiots are exploiting poor women who attend these sexist conventions 😭
"equal rights mean i can hit women then?" no Johnathan, assault is illegal
Starberrys Yea the same if she hits you
Black Knight Fool hitting someone out of nowhere is considered assault tho??
Unless, we are in Seattle where mutual unarmed combat is legal
They say that as if anything is stopping misogynistic men from hitting women now. We've seen the domestic violence statistics.
Why do they instantly think of hitting women??? Like we arent being beaten by men already
I hate when people say "oh I can hit women now??" Like who said you could hit men? How about no one hits anyone
Exactly
Exept for self defense, obviously
Right? It's still assault, you can't assault people.
That’s a big point men make. They’re like ‘if women want equal rights and they want to be treated as equals, that means we can hit them’. It’s like, is that really your big takeaway from this?
Ms. Makerspace
Actually, yes. If a woman wants equality that differs from historical traditions, why then do majority of women admittedly continue to engage in slight and light assault upon men?
There are so many stories of women not being believed when they report marital rape to LEOs but there are just as many stories of domestic violence against men in traditional romantic relationships and police laugh, literally.
If women want equality then they will suffer the consequences of my jujitsu and military training because that’s how I’d treat any other male combatant.
Gone are the days of “I was just playing” when I receive a dick punch or “I’m sorry. I was emotional” when I’m slapped for looking at another woman or didn’t communicate.
Equal rights = equal fights! May the best trained human win.
"So I can hit women then?" Do these guys get randomly assaulted by women in the street or something? Like I've never been hit by a woman, so how would hitting them be equal treatment?
Because hitting women back after they start a fight will be equal rights thats what these women pathetically say they want not only that there is video evidence of women attacking men and never being held accountable for their actions.
@@justinmathew8097
With the risk of justifying violence, which I'm not trying to do, here is a comparison.
Assuming a woman is drunk, large and she picks on a smaller, physically not-so-strong guy. She has no reason for this, he's just there on the wrong moment.
And she bends over, grabs his arm, throws a slur in his face and slaps him. He has my permission to slap her back immediately, yank his arm away and run off. As anyone would.
Self defense, that is. Clearly. She could've really hurt him.
Now, we take another of the genders.
A man, drunk and large, picks on a smaller, physically not-so-strong girl. He has no reason for this, she is just there on the wrong moment.
He bends over, grabs her arm, throws a slur in her face and slaps her. She has my permission to slap him back immediately, yank her arm away and run off, as anyone would. Self defense that is. Clearly. He could've really hurt her.
Now, we set the scene differently. There is a large man, and a petite woman. She is drunk, upset and picks on him, while he is physically larger and stronger. She has no reason for this, he's just there on the wrong moment.
She stands on her tippytoes, grabs his arm (he likely moves away, since he's bigger) and then she throws a slur in his face and slaps him.
He has my permission to push her back immediately, yank his arm away and walk off. As anyone would. Self defense that is. Clearly. She slapped him.
If you are physically a lot stronger than your opposition, you may still defend yourself if they come with force (if a woman attacks a man, he must defend himself) but since we're talking a face-slap here, the best thing to do if you don't fear for your life, is just walk off.
As a woman, I have been face-slapped by quite some men, though usually it was punched with a fist or beaten otherwise. I was bullied severely in class.
I have tried to fight back, but usually there were more than one. It was very unsafe. I never felt "irritated" or "annoyed", because they were bigger than me, I felt unsafe.
In certain cases, it also led to sexual assault.
I do not condone hitting a man. I do not condone hitting a woman. I don't condone hitting someone with glasses/in a wheelchair/with dwarfism/etc.
If they relentlessly attack you, ofcourse you attack back. If you feel your life is in danger, you fight for your life. If you face rape, death or torture, you fight!!!
Hell, if a 5 year old attacks me physically with a knife, I'll whack the crap out of him. But since famously, most men are a lot stronger than women in comparison, there is a difference in slapping a woman and a man.
Not to mention, I have never seen a woman slapping a man (apart from when I hit my teacher, when he assaulted me) so I wonder what these men do that causes women to hit them. Have you often been hit by a woman, Justin?
THIS COMMENT IS GOLD
the sad thing is that most of these men do know that feminism stands for equal rights. the problem is that they genuinely don’t want women to be equal under the law or in society.
When you're put on a pedestal for so long equality feels like oppression-funkyfrog
The kind of guys that go to these conventions are the kind of guys that say “let me play devils advocate here” in an argument about some important shit like abolishing slavery.
Holy crap that's accurate.
I really need you to go to this video czcams.com/video/rfAvTTGDSUQ/video.html and check out a specific comment under the name SugedaBoss1. The replies are making me sad... And disgusted.
AlyssaBars14 god that’s disgusting. I didn’t know misogyny was so accepted by CZcams. Men like that are pathetic
@@Recyclable89 right?? It's so common, it seems like I see them everywhere
Jealin Nicole they be like “lemme play the devils advocate” like they not the devil.
**a woman that cant have kids exists**
*those guys:* *is she even female?*
infertile? you mean *u s e l e s s*
fEmAlE. nice touch.
Wouldn’t that just prove that a woman’s only job ISNT to just birth children ?? Like then why would god or whatever u believe in even bring her to this earth if she doesn’t have a purpose😂
they honestly prob think that smh
This is for Rachel To SeDuCe aNd bE a FaLsE rOll ModLe ObvIosLey
I've actually been to a vacuum convention, it was hosted in the same convention center I was going to another con at. I didn't stay long though, kinda sucked
i can't tell whether the setup to the joke actually happened or not lol but i like it
Well you"re going to both anyways so suck it up
you graduate pun school
@@elisecode2212 It did actually lol and what's better is I didn't even know it until I stepped into a large hallway with, I shit you not, those science fair project boards on tables with pictures of vacuum cleaners on them, mixed with the lack of any people there and it was.. bizarre to say the least 😅
The word con describes the shitshow you attended more accurately than the word convention
A convention for women run by men is like a Black History Month event being hosted by Mel Gibson.
LMAO
Mel Gibson's Holocaust Awareness Month lol
👏👏👏
the only positive of corona is that this event is cancelled now
My thoughts exactly
For a second I thought that you guys were the same people-
@@Salthat oh hahaha
mother earth knew what she was stopping
Sonic The Nicholas Cage still be cancelled or delayed probably
“get pregnant and have unlimited babies” sounds like a threat, i actually screamed.
Same 😰
@@nunpho reminds me of that thing during WW2 Italy(5+) and Germany (4+), where if you had a lot of babies, you got an award...
it sounds like a really weird promotion at dave and busters
When me and my friend were talking about this thing we literally said the same thing. Also, aren't we already able to have "unlimited babies." Like, who's limiting the amount of babies we can have?
It's so funny how in the paragraph below that they said "have as many babies as you want" like. So then what if I want to have none. What now.
Get pregnant and have unlimited babies sounds like a black Friday deal at michaels.
it sounds like a Sims cheat code
Imagine spending long grueling hours trying to give birth to a kid. You raise and teach it, making tons of sacrifices along the way so that your kid can have a good life, only for ur kid to grow up and say “make woman great again”
To be fair, bad parenting is often the reason people like this exist. It doesn't have to be full on abuse, but also not preparing them for important things liike how to treat other people.
@@olivercharles2930that is a valid factor and tbh I wish parents would teach it more. But that still doesn’t give u the right to diss an entire gender (expecially if one of them gave birth to u) because ur an insecure loser
Your son says "Make women great again" and you just tell him you're about to make him an infant again because he clearly needs a do-over
@@Pragabond amen to that!
i love that women openly saying they deserve rights is “acting like men” and men expressing genuine emotion and caring for the people around them is “acting like women” like my dudes i dont think those traits are gendered i think it’s just called being a functioning human being
Why do you love it?
@@shoopshoop7650 its called sarcasm
Im pretty sure most pickup artists are soulless manipulative psychopaths, just look at the speakers expression, somethings not right there
FACTS
@Suffer No Fools ok boomer
Also, can we talk about how the website has a 25% discount for "young women ages 18-25"? So, so gross! My skin is crawling ugh
I'm LITERALLY dying.
🤮🤮🤮🤮
Saving my money so I can go and kick their ass
Wow! Gross!
ozzie pants that’s a yikes from me dog
the white hat-pink hat thing is like saying “imagine if i said i hate mondays but instead of mondays i said jews. THATS TERRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!” like. its not the same. 💀
You can tell by how only one side felt the need to have their uniform obscure their identity
I once visited a modelcar-race with my ex, who owned a modelcar. I was 21, but decided to behave like a stereotypical 'wifey' that day.
Packed him some food and (overly) supported him in everything, taking pictures of him and his modelcar, trying to actively understand what was going on.
He seemed to appreciate it, though I really felt like some sortof motherfigure hovering in the background, which is when an older guy came up to us.
I politely introduced myself and stuck out my hand, but the man didn't shake it. He said; 'Why did you bring a woman?' He didn't smile, he was serious.
My ex shrugged his shoulders and could not find a single cell in his body that was strong enough to stand up for me.
I smiled and said; 'Oh, don't worry sir, I've been updated on the cars and the races. I've been taking pictures..I know a little bit about racing too."
(This was half-a-bluff. My ex always made me sit through Formula One, which I hated, so I was up to date on the recent developments.)
The man silently stared at me and I said; 'Since we're talking about that, what did you think about McLaren suddenly pushing the RedBulls off the track with his lastminute trick, yesterday? Many people were divived over whether that was a legit move...I'd say he could've waited until the tunnel. Raikkonen had a good one though, first that bit with Fernando Alonso, then Jensen Button and that close call with Schumacher. Interesting race, hm?"
He kept staring and I waited. He then looked at my ex, without a hint of a smile, gave him a shoulder-pat and said; 'Nou, die heb je goed afgericht" and walked off.
I'm Dutch, and what he said is difficult to translate, but it is a very degrading version of; 'You've trained that one well."
But instead of training, it's more like a dominating kindof taming. Like "she has submitted herself to you' in a way.
You say it about wild dogs, sometimes horses, but mainly about wild animals that "require a whip" (or so they thought, in the old days.)
When the man walked off, I looked at my ex, who nervously giggled, waved and with an empty facial expression said; 'Oh eh..thanks! Goodbye!'
I hissed; 'Are you crazy? Didn't you hear what he said?! Afgericht! He insulted me...'
My ex looked very uncomfortable, shrugged his shoulders and said; 'Maybe it was a joke..let's just..it's...it's okay, let's just continue, alright?' and walked off.
I don't recall my ex ever standing up for me, in any situation, no matter how dire the need was.
(Just FYI I'm currently (actively) learning to stand up for myself and not depend on others to help me in these sortof situations. I hope he's actively learning the same and then also _how to stand up for others_ because I think he should sometimes.)
Glad to hear he's an ex and very glad to hear that you're working on standing up for yourself! It's a challenge but it's worth it!
@@yaboicolleen Thankyou. Coincidentally I spoke to my therapist today and she said the same thing and noticed I was a lot more comfortable during fights* when I stood up for others and shared my opinion.
Thanks again, have a good day tomorrow! :)
* In a few sentences, a trouble teen was angry with the world and provokingly started insulting his caretaker, during an artclass that I has also joined.
She didn't say anything back, neither did we (the painting women) until after a few minutes, when he sneered; 'What if I start wishing incurable diseases onto you and tell you to fuck off?! What then huh?! What if I say that I wish you had an incurabl-"
Which is when I turned around (still holding my paintbrush) and told him loudly, but politely; 'We are still here and we do not appreciate you using this tone. If you choose to behave this way, we'd rather see you leave, you can sit in the canteen and wait over there!"
He was already halfway through the hallway after the first sentence, haha. I did not realise a simple sentence had so much power.
I also spoke to the caretaker about this and mentioned to her that this method of 'hoping and ignoring" wasn't working and that he can't mess up the class out of boredom. She decided that next time, she'd find an activity for him that he actually enjoyed. The women around me admitted that they had been too scared to tell him to stop, and one said; 'Last week he kept talking to me about stabbing and knifes and wounds. He's a trouble teen, but he really makes me nervous and it bothers me during the artclass."
So, I did the right thing by putting up a boundary and it won't happen again. :-)
Oh my god I would have cried!
i wouldve punched that dude on the spot tbh
What a coward he was, good that he's an ex!
“unlimited babies” wait until they find out about menopause
I don't think they know anything about women to he honest😂
Them after finding about menopause: *I go crazy*
and overpopulation, "unlimited babies" would be horrible
@@hauntedhotel8565 Yeah!
@@hauntedhotel8565 well... these guys don't care about overpopulation... as long as it's THEIR (read: white) babies. They want the rest of us (including lefty white folks like me) to somehow both be sterile AND be forced to carry to term. Yeah, I don't get it either.
why pay a thousand dollars for men to talk down to you when men on twitter will do it for free
Kyle Walt +
Yeah how it's so Handy :D
(This is a joke, just in case someone takes a wrong way)
Kyle Walt
And the twitter guys are way better at it
TRUE LMAO
It's their fav hobby lmao
jokes aside it's really scary how aggresively outspoken these misogynistic podcasts and youtubers are. that really makes you realise what will happen if you don't keep fighting for your rights :(
edit : roe vs wade overturned today. just great.
Absolutely! Like even though said thing is hurting me mentally, If I don’t stop it has worse consequences. It’s crap like this that makes me hate being here
What’s even worse is that these terrible misogynistic dudes have a massive audience that AGREES with them. It legit keeps me up at night dude
Some people in the USA vote for this dude who makes his entire campaign about being an incel and wants to legalize having nonconsensual s*x with your adopted minors so you can start human breeding farms. I sincerely hope most of them were just eeny meenie miney mo-ing when they voted him and do not actually have faith in his policy ideas.
Jun 24. Major fucking oof
fourth of july today. i wore green and protested and i will continue to do so until we get federal legalized abortion or until the day i die :)
My bio dad wouldn’t let my mom go to school or get a job because of his stupid pride even though he didn’t make enough to support us, on multiple occasions he’d quit his job without having another lined up, and he refused to work multiple jobs. My mom had to covertly go to job interviews and then act as if she had just gotten a random job offer just to keep food on our table, until my dad just up and abandoned us when I was about 12. Single motherhood isn’t usually the woman’s fault in my experience
I think it's somewhat rare that it's on the mother. Especially at a young age I imagine the fathers are more likely to wanna avoid responsibility becaue they're not emotionally and romantically mature enough. This ofc goes both ways but I imagine it's easier for the father since he's not the one carrying and giving birth to the child.
Just look at the kids Kyle and Jason from the TLC show Unexpected. They're around 16, I think? and he's not mature enough to be a parent and he winds up mentally abusing Kyle and blaming her for his stupid actions.
there are only 2 genders:
1. worky work
2. cooky cook
Abby Chandler this is beautiful
Best comment so far 😂
im CCTWW (cooky-cook to worky-work)
prageruwu I love you and your name
chefs have ascended the human binary
"And have unlimited babies!"
Wait until they learn about menopause....
Menopause is murder, haven’t you heard? (I’m joking, these ppl just make me want to shoot myself 😎)
Menopause is MUR-TER
10:40
And infertility too! They’re gonna be *SHOCKED* 🤠✌🏻
I think it's turn off when you raise your femininity by 500%. So then they can have an infinite amount of babies. At least if the math was right. And I think it even works if you are a man because then you will be a 400% woman.
"We need something positive for women, and destroying the movement that's fighting for their equality is the key to that" how did he say that with a straight face, I just went through like 35 different emotions while hearing that sentence😭 Definitely the dumbest thing I've heard in a while, I don't even know if I should cry or laugh at that😭
It's so disgusting that they are targeting vulnerable women and say things to manipulate them into thinking abuse is just how it should be.
it's awful, it's predatory really. These men are predators, they just think being open with their intentions separates the people who groom their victims for abuse secretly. (and yeah you can groom adults)
All of these men are just upset that misogyny isn’t socially acceptable anymore
Why cant i hate women for existing anymore AUUUGHHH
Why can’t a give a women’s father a goat for his daughter anymore?!? WAAAAAHHHH
Wolverine FTW 😂 BRO
I wish i could retweet
No, they're mad that women won't sleep with them, get it right.
I thought the whole point of being straight is to like women...
Exactly-
Yeah,
Actually the problem is that they want a girl who is willing to agree with everything you say and do what you want them to do also. So less like a person and more of someone held captive.
Y’all help me I’m related to one of the men that agree with this and I constantly want to throw him off a cliff everyday
@@toenail997 i feel so bad for you omfg just stay away from him
The more I read about feminism, I'm convinced that 90% of the argument against it is "Please, for the love of god, you used to believe in doing childcare and housekeeping for free because you had a uterus and we need you to come back to that, because it was so, so great for us."
What's the 10%
@@Ducket "Women are sluts and not sucking MY dick so we need to punish them."
The other 10% is pointing the leniency towards female pedophilia, domestic abuse, sexual assault and in some cases female crime in general.
Don't get me wrong, most domestic abuse and sexual assault is done by male criminals, I am not doubting that. I just think there are some issues worth taking into consideration that don't fall into the usual misogynist spiel from MRA clowns.
That’s true, but this video isn’t about that @@olivercharles2930
So if I, as a trans woman, go to the 22 convention and raise my femininity by 500% would I suddenly be able to get pregonat?
I am 88% sure, however I am a cis woman so my calculations may not be completely accurate
@@BlazzyistryingDamn, if only you went to that convention by the time you left with 500% more femininity you wouldn't even be able to add at all unless it was adding another baby to the family
I'm glad I didn't go if I went and got 500% more masculine I'd just die of heart disease before I left the building
I wish I could raise my femininity that high and get pregnant 🥺
@@Pragabondbut what if you add 500 north american...ity
I fully support your struggle to become able to get prrrreganté
My biological urge as a woman is to take a nap
MOOD! 😂
Same sis same...
Couldn’t have said it better myself
Me too sis me too
I feel that
“the men have arrived to help”
*o h g o d*
*trying not to roll eyes*
they just have to feel needed...
for some reason that made me want to throw my phone as if it was burning my hand.... what
I physically gagged, ugh
That sentence actually made me feel so gross I had to pause the video and take a minute to recover
"men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos" im fucking dead....also of course they made the website pink.
I think they misspelled vampires there.
Some of my family members are overweight but they still always eat healthy, stay active and of course beauty is subjective but I still love them inside and out. Some people just have bad metabolisms or have physical ailments that prevent them from being perfect and skinny and that shouldn't be considered ugly!
that’s not how it works, they might seem to eat “healthy” but if they’re overweight they’re eating more than they’re supposed to
@@falling_awayyy than why does my mom eat half the daily recommended calorie intake and still get insulted by retarded doctors for being overweight
@@SoftFryMildlyOverSalted as long as one is active and not worsening their health no one has the right to shame them, actually we have no say in anyone's personal business at all. I'm not obese per say but have PCOS which makes losing weight a bit more difficult than usual (am gradually losing weight not just very drastically),
I'm only ridiculed for my chubby features which should not even be considered death threatening now, no one is caring about my health when insulting, they are only hating the way I look. Someone who cares would be much more kinder.
I don't get this argument regarding body positivity at all like no one is saying that bad health is okay and should be looked at in a positive light they're just saying not to be a dick and disrespect people who have certain body types.
@@falling_awayyy just say you dont understand medical science and still think bmi is an accurate and important metric, it looks marginally better than what you said.🙄
ironic that they’re asking for 1G when they can’t even find the G-spot
I DIED 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THIS COMMENT!!
😂😂😂
this needs to be the top comment-
KSBABAJV IM CACKLING
They can't even find the clitoris 😂
I love how they complain about single motherhood as if men have no part in that
like they wouldn't be single if men didn't leave them
Yeah I was literally just about to point this out... the reason they’re single is usually cause the man left 😒
Lmfao just don't be single loser
@@doodle9495 don't be single? ahhh yes, if you don't have a house, just don't be homeless
@@jahnaviraman5411 lmfao just get the joke it's not that hard lmfao
It’s so telling with men like this that they’ve never actually listened to a woman explain what feminism means to them. They just have their own crazy assumptions, and assume everyone agrees with them.
"Equal rights equal fights"
Fun fact! Fighting is actually illegal (In court they call it assault)
God sent corona for the sole purpose of canceling that convention
@Free Agent well fuck
@Free Agent nooooo
Yup, I think even Satan was appalled by this demonstration of what the antithesis of human decency would look like. Jesus I bet that convention hall just stank of cheap aftershave, thinly masked shame and unfulfillment.
@@5ooP_sOUp 😂
God really said ¨cap¨ to the convention
"women act like men and men act like women! it's so confusing!" wow it must be so hard to have to treat others like individual human beings ?
Cici Calamity lmfaoo what these idiots mean when they say “women act like men” is that women are getting jobs
right. I cant tell you the last time someone else's gender or expression made me confused bc it makes 0 difference to my life. youre a dude that "acts like a girl"? ok, how does that effect me? or you? or anyone besides him? I just don't get it. thon what planet is this such a pressing issue?
Jahnavi Raman what’s crazy is that these are the same type of men who are the first to call a woman a gold digger for wanting anything...women can’t work, they can’t be housewives and be taken cared of...what CAN we do?? Jeez
Luna nothing. That’s the point. They hate us for everything we do that isn’t sucking their dick, popping out babies, cleaning up after them like children, or making them a sandwich.
“Make Women Great Again” uh I think you meant “Make it socially acceptable to abuse women and treat them as sub human again”
To be fair, I guess the second one doesn’t have as much of a ring to it.
it’s almost like traits aren’t solely based on gender.... nah can’t be that
“Men act like a women, women act like men, everyone’s confused, and nothing “works” anymore.”
Looks like someone is in that phase. It’s okay, it takes time to realize your true color 😌💅
right, "everyone's" confused...well, someone is
LMFAO
Huh ?
To them, a woman being free and having an opinion is them “acting like a man”
The way they refer to single mothers like the absent fathers aren't the problem in that equation lol 😂
Men: We don't need feminism anymore
Also Men:
A+ girl This 😭😭😭
HONESTLY
and some men dont know that women arent treated the same in every country. sure america is very liberated but do they know shit that goes on in India? Jordan? Iran? geez
But not all men tho
@@grunkersTTV Not all men,Rowen.
Not all men.
Just some idiots
Someone should tell these dudes that the Handmaiden's Tale wasn't a how to manual
That dude who gave the speech looks a little bit like Fred Waterford, not gonna lie.
This is a little too accurate-
Terrifying future predictions
*handmaid’s tale
@@lynseyread6163 AMAZING contribution and correction bruh!!!
im a trans man and the first thing boys did when i came out in 5th grade was tell me that they can beat me up now.
I'm also a trans guy, and I've had similar experiences. Kind of shocking how violent some people are
You just know these guys got rejected by the popular girl in high school and kept that grudge going pathetically into adulthood
funny how he says “equal rights means i can hit women” like not having equal rights stopped them in the first place
Katherine Moss right
did you know technically you’re kate moss
aya winslow no it’s not like it’s my name or anything
OH MY GOSH R O A S T E D I'M STEALING THIS
Katherine Moss sister kate is short for katherine most of the time technically your screen name is kate moss but okay
“Why are women so scared of men?”
“Because men like that exist? Why kinda question....”
Democrats are cunts I don’t think it’s because of simply “disagreeing” that makes women scared of men....
@Democrats are cunts "disagreeing with you"?
You spelled "invalidating and disrespecting your individuality and being sexist and creepy fucking assholes" wrong.
We're not scared of all men. We're scared of men who are like you or these clowns or could potentially be like you or them.
Democrats are cunts bruh read a book or somethin get out of these replies 😂
Democrats are cunts what
Prolly just a troll ignore em
The argument of "Oh, if women want equal rights, does that mean i can beat them" is so dumb. Like??? Were you beating men up before?? No! Is it illegal to beat someone up, regardless of gender? Yes! The "equal rights, equal fights" crowd never claims that they beat up men, so why would their first go to argument be like "well, does that mean I can beat women up now?"
Like?? No, incel; you got issues. Go. To. Therapy!
I would never under any circumstances put my hands on a woman without her consent, much less in a harmful manner, but the equal rights equal fights stuff just means you can *fight back* if a woman hits you or if a woman (and before you say something retarded I know men can do this too.) does something really bad or harmful on purpose towards you
I'm just clearing things up again I would never hit a woman that's against like everything I stand for
@@LogShaw1587 You're so real for this
@@YourLocalNintendodon’t encourage it. This man’s an ass
Thank you for sharing a normal, commonsense take on feminism. Lol it has such a bad name now, mostly because of “menanist” movements like this 😂 my father thought he was all for equality but was actually always a huge misogynist- he just didn’t recognise that’s what it was. It was exhausting. I won’t go into it but it got really dark for us kids. He should never have been allowed to have daughters. But! He still thinks he’s a legend and all for equality. 🙄 Misogynistic ppl think misogyny doesn’t exist in the same way as racists don’t see how racism is a modern day issue.
equal rights ≠ you can hit men and women
equal rights = you can’t hit either cause that’s assault
edit: i heard y’all and changed the /= to ≠
And thats on period except if you hit in self defense
You could use '!=' for not equal to next time (。•̀ᴗ-)✧
True
Fucking thank you that's what I've been saying
YAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS
how did they unironically say "the men have arrived to help" WHAT LMAO
I know, I'm dying OMG
It hurts
Omg i love that movie(pfp)
"Cocaine's a helluva drug" - Rick James
to help what? the problems they created in the first place ..
They really thought they did sum😐
The 22 convention: Learn all about women (No girls allowed)
"women are being taught to act more like men and it's making everything terrible" is making me laugh cause like there is a huge reason for everything they listed and a huge part of it is women aren't staying in abusive family dynamics and the "female happiness report" is insane cause like who reported their happiness before when they were getting emotionally abused and used as maids?? their men?? but I also love the implication that women are "acting like men" by separating from the idea of a nuclear family, like you admit that you expect men to be homewreckers??
kurtis has been drinking sO MUCH respect women juice
soy milk?
@@bagel_bitez1 #SoyBoy
so much shamming language too against men
@@bagel_bitez1 imagine unironically thinking thats an insult
And we Stan.
Ok but... if they want women to stay in the kitchen, and not work... where are the women supposed to get the $1000 to go to the convention from?
Their worky-work husbands
Isaxism Their husband who walked out on them when they found out she was pregnant, duh
Isaxism their hardworking masculine husband obviously
asking the real question here
DeadMemes NeedToStayDead YALL ARE GETTING PAID?? Sign me up!! 😩
Imagine a man goes to that convention and then just leaving as a femboy in a maid dress surrounded by the most women women in the whole world
Heaven on earth
Great video and great comments from the men here who are supporting women. it's so nice and refreshing to see videos and read comments from men speaking out against misogyny and supporting women.
Sadly when women advocate for themselves they often still receive misogynistic responses and too often a woman's opinions are taken less seriously than a man's.
An example of this is a few years back when I lived in a small, very deprived rural UK town, i often took my then toddler son to the local community center as it was one of the few places that held toddler groups where I got to know the manager of that centre. Despite her good relationship with the local MP and being good at her job for many years, she sadly found that once she stopped refering herself as "Christina" but instead shorted her name to "Chris", she was taken more seriously in emails and got much better responses.
This was from 2019, not 1919 btw.....
Damn, I feel bad for her.
If this crap wasn’t $1000 I’d love to go there with a giant lesbian flag over my shoulder in the most masculine clothes I own.
honestly i absolutely love the sentiment and enthusiasm but even if this shit was free id be too scared to go lol
i'll join you
Laufie Na'l if enough of us go we could turn it into a pride convention
@@Laufie id go with you
@@ewils9753 oh my god id love that
So is basically an incel’s convention...
Yup. The assholes should stick to 4chan
Basically incels trying to preach to women and tell them how they should act/be treated.
Yes. Yes it is.
Must be lmao, I don’t even know who would attend, like I’ve never met a woman who was like “yeah I don’t think our sex deserves free will”
what’s incel
What's sad is that I go to school with people who actually believe this nonsense. You can't talk about things like feminism, racism, or LGBTQIA+ rights because everyone will hate you. If my classmates sense even just a hint of "liberalism" in your speech, in like say a class discussion, you will no longer be tolerated. You can't talk about those kind of things without fearing for your own safety. One person who said something against what they thought got death threats and had kids showing up at their house with guns. And when even teachers believe the far right nonsense that most of the students do, you feel like you can't participate in a discussion without your ideas being oppressed. Every time they say something like "fuck feminism", "I hate gays", "climate change isn't real", "the Black Lives Matter movement is a supremacy organization", or start talking about freaking conspiracy theories and "the capital riot wasn't an insurrection" I wanna crawl in a hole and never come out again. Long story short: Yes Kurtis, people like this do exist and are honestly that stupid. They are the children of the future, country kids who are so dumb they say they speak "American" and hate anyone and any culture or language other than white Americans who could care less about the Earth and the people on it other than themselves. I really hope no one has to encounter these people in their lifetime.
Sincerely, a girl from the Midwest
Honestly that sounds awful, I hope you, or anyone you care for has been at the other end of those idiots
@@hamsnub Thanks, it is awful. Unfortunately pretty much the whole of my mom's family acts like this. I absolutely despise family gatherings for that reason alone. Luckily my friends aren't like them! I chose to be around people who aren't idiots lol. And some of the threats were made to my older sister who now lives 2 hrs away because it became too much for her. People really suck.
I was grateful to have been in a small town (a former sundown town in Kansas with less than 2k people) with students that were generally chill or neutral with minority groups. I was in a relationship while there with one of the two other queer kids and rarely felt unsafe. Most of my discomfort was from faculty who couldn’t mind their own business. That was all before 45 was president, though. For the sake of our future, I really hope your school is an outlier.
I’m so sorry that your school and home environment was/is so putrid. My dad’s side of the family are full of “good Christian country folks” that either don’t read the Bible or cherry pick their literal interpretations so as to support hating anyone who doesn’t believe exactly as they do, so I know how that goes. Family gatherings indeed suck.
I hope that you’ll be able to get out of there soon, or have already been able to. Recovering from the stress/trauma of being in such a situation is a process for sure, but just being away from the BS is so nice. Best wishes fellow Midwesterner ❤️
Feminists: Hey we want some human ri-
Misogynists: FeMaLe SuPrEmAcY!!!1!!1
feminists:we want the same ri-
misogynists: Oh my gAwd thats lIke kIll¡ng blAck people (KKK)
This man really just compared the KKK to feminism lmao
got tea unfortunately that’s not the first time i’ve seen that. i saw someone say that in a comment (not on this vid tho) despite saying that they support women’s rights. needless to say, i was mortified
because third wave feminism is slowly morphing into something like the KKK
touchie my coochie no its not dude those are just extremists why is this concept so hard for ppl like u to realize....
touchie my coochie u do realize the kkk lynched people right? i dont see waves of feminists in girl power shirts with torches lynching men for existing??
@@huh_rinii feminists are going around trying to hang and lynch people? Dumbass
These dudes don't like women's rights because that means women have the _right_ not to be with them. I'm sure that's a liberty that women nationwide are taking full advantage of.
U killed me, I'm dead
These dudes are mad because they feel like they lost a possession they previously owned and could use whenever they wanted
@@sarahbarabe8470 So true.
They’re actually upset that women are setting higher standard, these are the same men who tell woman to set higher standards when they have any complaints about men. Or the answer is always for women to be more ‘submissive’.
What? How do women these days NOT have the right to be with men they don't like? Women can leave a relationship anytime
I just found your channel and I'm going through your videos related to feminism, PUA etc and I'm so glad they exist. Thank you. Idk who raised you but they did a great job.
hey kurtis if everyone acted like you i probably wouldn't be afraid to walk outside at night as a woman
So if everyone was gay? I mean yeah that would be a result of that
@@LogShaw1587kurtis isnt gay my guy
@@Yourhandleneedstobeatleast Couldve fooled me he sure acts the part
@@LogShaw1587He isn’t gay 😭 Even if he was he wouldn’t make me feel uncomfortable so yeah sure.
@@Mirrored33 Oh I wasn't aware you knew him personally
I went to the vacuum convention... it really sucked...
Stop
HAAA I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE
LMAOSOFI
Jason I swear to god
LAMKDODJSJD
"The men have arrived to help"
Let's just change the "to" to a comma
The men have arrived, help
PleaseI'vebeenstuckinhisbasementforeightyearsmakehimletmegoplease-
💀💀💀
more like a period lol
The men have arrived comma help
Dont forget the exclamation point at the end
imagine comparing feminism to racism…
"Hmm, there's this thing liberating a group of people, but I don't want them to be liberated. Why don't I compare it to A THING HARMING A GROUP OF PEOPLE! YEAH!"
16:27 I think no one should hit anyone.
Kurtis town is full of women because we feel safe here
Ali Oleary exactly
Ali Oleary and I must be one of those damn “men acting like a women” so I guess I’m female now
I'm moving to Kurtis town
This is true and scientific
Indeed
"Women are acting more like men which leads to more broken families" Translation- because women have jobs, they aren't forced to stay in a toxic relationship and have the power to leave :(
Alyssa Rae THIS
Exact same thing happened in the late 19th century. History is just repeating itself.
Alyssa Rae it’s so annoying when women feel empowered and know their rights as humans >:(
Madi Skarratt isn't it just so frustrating that my wife leaves me when I sleep with other women 😭😭😂
“Women are acting more like men which leads to more broken families” hey at least they admit men acting like men is the leading cause of broken families eh? 😉
I think the fact that they dont have any women speakers for the conventiom prooves that they dont think women should be allowed to make decisions for themselves and aren't humans
proves*
Kurtis screaming GIRLS CAN'T BUST GHOSTS is still one of my favorite things ever. I come back to watch this all the time
these are truly the kind of men who hear you say "im a lesbian" and reply with that "i can change that"
cyberwiife oof my spouse’s twin brother is one of those 🤢
There's literally a guy in the comments who responded to a lesbian and said "stop faking"
FUCK YOURE SO RIGHT
"I can fix that"
oh my god exactly
He rlly said a feminist march was worse than the literal kkk with his whole ass chest n thought he did something there..
Danet Garcia the kkk bruh raped and hung ppl from trees...this man said open supremacy like throughout history women have always been treated has the lower race..good god my man has no brain cells
It's good to know which protest he'd rather go to and support, though :/
i always love my misogyny with a side of some piping hot racism
Danet Garcia guess I’m a proud female supremacist then.
he’s so fucking stupid I cannot BELIEVE
Ummmm love how they say “being sick is not beautiful “ like dang , where my chronic illness babes @? It’s also sooo general like , just sick …
I, a chronic illness babe, am here. I’m so sick (lol) of being told “being unhealthy is NOT attractive!!”
@@uglysongsforuglysouls thank you !! As though everyone else is so fucking healthy lol
I really want to go to the vacuum convention now
You might run into Marge Simpson!
“Girls can’t bust ghosts”
- an adult virgin
This is the comment I was searching for thank you
Reminds me of that "I'm an adult virgin" vine.
Young & Funny hmmmmmmm I wonder why 🤔🤔🤔
@@youngfunny1824 It's almost as if that was the joke
@@ababy5334 Yea..I know.
"Men want debt-free virgins without tattoos."
Incidentally, I am a debt-free virgin without tattoos, but I don't want any of these men.
The real male fantasy is having sex with a virgin, getting them tattooed, and putting them in crippling debt.
Hell yeah.
@Glenna Smith Actually, it's a joke about the desire to corrupt innocence, and it's consumptive nature.
They don't want to date a virgin. They want to consume her virginity and have her end up a needy (but loyal) slut. They want her to be a virgin first so they can feel special, and therefor valuable AKA everybody is insecure.
It's a weird but understandable conflict.
@Glenna Smith its pretty obvious that most of them want virgins so virgins don't have anything to compare them to. not too much different from incels who complain about girls not wanting them while not being worth anything themselves.
@@seigeengine you definitely misused aka, also Bruh you in multiple comment sections doing this.... smh
@@seigeengine sounds like a niceguy/whiteknight thing to say ngl...
Seeing what regular art school rejects are, historically, capable of doing makes me quite scared of the idea of pickup art school.
Bro, don't go to the Vacuum Cleaners Convention, it sucks
Bro did you go
@@maxisgorgeous4008it’s a pun
@@ambermolina6412 OH I JUST GOT IT LMAO 😭