5 Signs She Doesn't Want You (and Its Time to Walk Away)
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Do you still have a chance? Should you be persistent? Should you keep pursuing her, or has she totally lost interest? In this video, we're going to talk about five signs that it's time to move on and walk away. Hi, I'm Bobby Rio. I deal with clients every single day and I've dealt with this personally in my own life where somebody meets a girl and things go really well, and then all of the sudden things aren't going well anymore, right? She's pulled back her interest, her texts have slowed down. She's kind of busy all the time. A lot of times at that point there is the ultimate dilemma that we have as guys
As soon as you start questioning yourself... Run away, dude! Run fast, run far..
Wish I knew these things brother. Always find this information way too late...
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@bd3n21 It happened once; to me 5 years ago; so I know; relax bozzah😒😒
You got a kid now Earl?
Feel you bro
🌟✨🌟 Treat her like a queen... and she will treat you like a servant. 🤜🏼
so not true iam a women I don't want games and respect and reassurance and dates, that's all I want and she will treat you the same way..
True, women who say they want to be "treated like a queen" are imagining the treatment that a servant gives the queen, not the way the king treats her
diztiinct love her too much and she will take advantage of your extra kindness and she will stop trying on her part and start taking advantage of you. I’ve been there 2 times and watched it happen. I flooded them with “nice guy” and over time I got very little in return. Once I started to back off she felt that she was losing me and started treating me like a king.
In most relationships there is only one giver and the other is willing to be the “taker”. It’s rarely mutual.
Ruby Scallan hi Ruby. I’m not referring to games I’m simply referring to who is the giver and who is the taker. You are a rare catch and it’s rare that both give equally to each other. Keep shining on with your good self. 💫
The restraining order just means she's playing hard to get.
It just means you're not properly channeling your inner Chad. 😁😂
@@davidbolha you called?
FastZebra Zoom 😂😂😂
That is a sick joke.
Dying! 🤣🤣🤣
Just give her some space and do stuff for yourself, you'll see that you don't need her and regain some self respect which is more valuable then any relationship.
Having a relationship is fun but losing who you are is a terrible mistake that will take months to recover from
Wimpie Baars thank you for your comment
I made that mistake
@@fear4503 ye kinda made the same mistake again myself.....
Lol so true. They are basically cooking, cleaning and helping their mum in kitchen at home, and suddenly need queen like treatment when with you 🤣🤣🤣
Men are not made to understand the most complex creature ever made - WOMAN. Let’s have a life with great friends, one night stands and settling with someone who basically doesn’t throw tantrums and demands treatment like queen! 🤣🤣🤣
😭😭😭😭 you are so true brother
Best advice you can give is stay single! Less stress
Five signs to get out
1) when she says “I’m sorry” if she starts to apologize (for minor things) she subconsciously feels superior to you and pity’s you.
2) when she tries to change plans. This means she doesn’t see you as a leader. She wants control.
3) when she interrupts you in a conversation. She’s feels more dominant. Doesn’t want to sit through “your story”.
4) when she really into social media. I mean like glued to phone into it. She craves cheap attention and that her currency.
You will never satisfy her.
5) She unknowingly lies about little things. Her reality is not based in truth. She will always move the goal post.
all very true
Sounds about right great comment man.
does it have to be all five or just one?
4) when she really into social media. I mean like glued to phone into it. She craves attention and that her currency.
You will never satisfy her. Like a Social Media Game...When a woman tells you HELP ME get lost into the game...
My wife would NEVER accept our relationship if I tried to act as the “leader”. She doesn’t think of herself as just a soldier in my army.
One of the most powerful weapon a man have " power of walking away from toxic relationship"without giving any explanation
definitely true
@@BobbyRio You.contractict.yourself.so.much ..u idiot
Just say, "Wrong place, wrong time" and politely make tracks. Anyone who demands to know more is someone you need to be careful about letting them know you too well.
Yes!
@@georgenotsmith2804 okay so imagine if a girl does the same thing to you: "wrong place wrong time". You'd like that? That's bullshit
you dont need signs, just one simple rule:
is the interaction effortless, are you naturally drawn to one another?
thats it.
The problem is, nobody is drawn to me 🤔
When we’re in person, yes it’s kinda amazing. When texting, not so much.
@@Aynshtaynn get to know, and someone know you better. Innitial "drawn" is just for "beautiful" people and it's shallow and never lasts. my view at least.
No not that's it
It seems like you can easily erased that line between each other
Newer had that kind of expirience even when it kind of looks like that it is realy not it is all just work and gamble you have to be like this you have to do that make one litle mistake and it is owe it is all about what you can give if you have nothing you have no chance its all just plain
I'll say this from expirence. If she likes you...you would be with her and not watching this video. You text her,she texts you back. You invite her out,she invites you out. Smooth,nice and still exciting. That's what happend every single time when a girl actually liked me and saw me as he priority. They don't take forever to text back,they don't say I was busy,if they can't come out for a date,they will make sure to give you another time of date...even when you are with them you can just sense a different energy. If it feels like work,if it feels like you have to move mountains. You have to move on,because you will not be your natural self around them and you will subconsciously lose respect for yourself.
I agree. She doesn't want me.
@@dwightwilliams311 yeah bro but another one will
A friend told me something a long time ago that makes perfect sense.
Your heart is precious and extremely fragile. Only you can appreciate your own heart and what it does for you.
Therefor NEVER give your heart to another person. It isn't theirs and they will not care for it like you would.
Instead, LEND them your heart. That way it's still your heart and if you see they are damaging it, you take it back with no regrets.
Thank you for passing this along
One of the best advice I have heard . Thank you for sharing.
Holy shit that's smart
Awesome advice ..thanks for putting it out 👍
Very good advice! Thanks!
She came back to me after 6 months no contact, i was so stupid to take her back. Dont make this mistake!
blabla moekd what happened my friend?
yeah what happened, my ex-girlfriend is still in her rebound relationship right now and it has been 1 month of no contact
She came back to use you some more. She ran out of victims temporarily , and you make a easy convenient target.
Noted..!
Sorry bud. Marriage isn't that bad. ;)
She doesn't want you in the first place, only what you can provide...
#Hypergamy 😉
Basically a runner up
Someone's red pilled haha... hypergamy for sure.
We can still do well (at least in the short term) just off confidence though.
There's are some good books on that on UnbreakableConfidence, com..
If you come off like you don't give AF.. like you have a lot of options.. she'll be intrigued for sure, and she'll pursue.
If you can approach girls without hesitating and getting nervous.. you'll always have a steady line up regardless.
Womem don't love men. They love lifestyles
Tru dat
You cannot change the behavior of a woman even if you're so in loved with her. The best thing is do nothing. Do not contact her anymore and find a new one. You are worthy to be love again.
Aww i hate that an bar but ur probably right
Amen brother!
True, they just hit a retaining wall.
Be confident don't act like you need her and don't call her right away or constantly. She will let you know if she's interested .
Learn to LOVE YOURSELF first . nothing else matters.
I agree
chris arcanas dont know how to do that. Its like breathing in space.
@@marionmelia2962 Practicing Yoga has changed many people life for the better for real.This is what worked for me too.
If you cant look in the mirror everyday and be happy and able to love what you see you will never be able too completely love another.
Metalica was right hi-hi
If there is another guy, walk away. If she approaches you later, make clear you are no longer interested. These women who see other men while you are simply are not worth the effort.
Exactly...No sloppy seconds!
What if she has a 4 year old daughter and she went back to the father of the child after 10 months of being with me? I was really close to her daughter aswell. It's been almost a month. It's such a long story
@@mpmc2277 this is hard man. Nothing you can do..
Funny, to hear a man say that when they are the one who did that.
If you're in emotional quick sand, you should do exactly what hurts the most. Listen to the emotions and do the exact opposite.
wordddd
Is this professional or reliable in any way? What if you desperately lack love and start getting desperate for it, it's pretty much automatic. Do you just keep sitting alone by yourself and survive it?
Probably very true advice. I can't confirm because I am not very practiced at that lol but the opposite seems to not work that well
Niet P yep, you’re about to be alone anyways. May as well walk away with your dignity in tact and increase your odds.
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If you need an expert to help you -- you're chasing the wrong woman.
an alpha doesn't chase women, it's weak beta if you are always pursuing - show interest but no to much interest. If you do everything right she will be chasing you. NEVER chase a woman
Heavy Metal last time i checked. Human beings arent dogs who rely on an alpha/beta hierarchy.
@@SKRooU2 if you are so perfect with women then why did you watch this?
Only people I've ever know to have women chase after them are rich trust funders and generous meth cooks.
Everyone else has zero luck.
@@Playboysmurf1 tryoffering to buy a woman a drink. That works.
When you FEEL like you need to move on, you NEED to move on. it's that's simple, no plan required. When someone is interested in you THEY will let you know it😉
100%..!
This is on the money. Once u feel something in ur gut it’s not rt… time to go
Agreed
I had walked away for two months now. It's hard but I respect and value myself.
johny rynjah how we used to talk so much and I really did like her and we used to text 24/7 and all of a sudden one day it’s changed she stopped texting me first like she used to and just not herself... I miss her so much I just don’t know what to do
@ThePatUltra when you said don't show her that you're strong. Can you give examples?
You mentioned mirror her actions. This I very true. I did this and she noticed that I don't fuck around.
@ThePatUltra ah, got it. It makes plenty of sense to me now. Thanks for the lesson.
Matt Allen she just told me that she still misses her ex and still loves him ... she said I didn’t do anything wrong I just can’t stop thinking of her and what I could’ve done differently and it hurts like hell. The hardest part for me is how for weeks everything was amazing and all of a sudden
@@itztoxicc7091 Heard exactly the same story after two months intense contact. Whatever she says as an explanation/excuse....See what she does....and most probably it really isn't about about you, but about her not being ready to trust a new relationship as soon as she develops feelings.
The "Right One" is not going to use how you feel about them against you...nor will they be interested in engaging in these childish/immature "ego driven" mind games of cat & mouse. There is no power struggle or manipulation between two people that are right for each other.
100.
All this bs is fir trying to get a girl who aint want u.
... so once u trick them then wat?
Do u play these games till you die?
Lol fuk thar
L G. Very well stated...
Facts
Everything is not that black and white. People's feelings change. I was asked out by a girl, she initiated everything, still I fucked it up.
Words so powerful, they have the capacity to leave a hand print.
Starts 1:38
1.Emotional Quicksand
2.Recoil
3.Disrespect
4.Other Guy
5.Turning Down Options
One thing that has always been consistent for me: when your gf/crush/some girl you're interested in mentions another guy who isn't a relative of hers, you're doomed. It's over and there's no way to save it. Move on NOW.
Yep.
Sometimes it's a shit test
elsquibbs This one girl mentions another guy she likes. On that same day, she asks Me "If I like her". She says the same shit on a different day, saying it's okay if you do. I confess to her and now she neglects me. That was definitely a shit test. I'm moving on, I actually do feel good right now.
This info is 5 years to late such a wasted early life
!!!!!!!
Never get attached, it's way of self harm
AGREED
The moment a woman sticks me in a corner is the moment I am done with her. Was married and put up with it for 12 years. No more.
What happened during the marriage if cool to ask?
@@highstakes1235 There was a lot of cheating, lying, and manipulation on her part. She's a narcissist. If she didn't get what she wanted, she'd cause problems, make me out to be the one at fault, and dishonestly play the victim. I don't deal with women like that anymore. I've walked out on several women in a span of 2 years. My bulls**t meter is so broken that when they start in with excuses or I feel like I'm getting played. Time to take a walk. That's fine, there are other women.
when she calls the cops on you its over
Pity from someone is the end. Losing someone's respect makes it difficult to get that respect back.
True
Gotta show another side to you at least then
In today's world girls treat guys the same way they treat purse or shoes. When your new she shows you off. She takes you everywhere with her. Tells everybody about you and why your so great. Wants to be seen with you. Then after all that wears off. She thinks you clash with her. No longer wants to be seen with you. May even hate you. Tells everybody why your not so good. Forgets about you. And moves on to the next purse,,,,,I mean guy. And just like her old purse she might even feel the need to still USE you now and then even if she doesn't like you. Welcome to being nothing more than a Purse. Don't be the purse!
OH MY GOSH, that is exactly what is happening to me!!! Why do women treat us like that!!!
Maybe women don’t like or respect you because you come across as the kind of person to have no respect for them?
@@alexbennet4195 Lol!!. Funny you should say that. In todays twisted culture of self glorification and affirmation for superficial reasons, if you are a nice respectful guy they claim they want?, you will get run over like a truck fairly quickly. The culture of self esteem based on affirmation makes them seek a relationship that is abusive and or neglectful. Usually a guy that is indifferent, disrespectful and treats them like shat, or what they like to call " a bad boy" Why? Because they are that desperate to get validation from everyone, which is why they destroy nice guys. Because with a decent respectful guy, they get that validation almost immediately. They are addicted to the cycle of it, and just have to fix that guy so he can fill her with validation like the rest. The shattier you treat them, the more they are attracted. It is a very saddening cultural trend infecting the world.
I would suggest to be really purposeful and genuine with women. Ask yourself why you really like her? I think men like women for the wrong reasons half of the time. Sometimes you have to take a look at yourself. This is from a woman's perspective. Some men like shoes and handbags, treat women like an accessory instead of someone they really love.
Don't carry her purse in the shopping mall either like those poor listless souls
If he/she stops showing interest in you, don't waste your time. Dating is a friendship first, if you are serious about marriage. When you stop feeling the friendship, it's time to walk away. The sexual attraction will never make up for the lack of friendship and chemistry. Some, if not most, friendships, take time to grow. If your friendship with a date continues to grow over time, even if slowly, and you always have something in common, lots of chemistry, and good feelings every time you see each other, then you have something worth pursuing. If the feelings of chemistry, friendship, and urge to be with each other diminish over time, walk away.
It’s simple WE make time for what WE want to make time for. If some one isn’t making time for you they aren’t interested in you.
You don’t need a plan. Be yourself and the right one will never have you guessing where you stand with them. If you have to guess, it’s time to leave
No person is worth chasing ! If it’s for you it will not pass you up ! If it passes you up it wasn’t meant for you !
Why do I always find this shit ,when it's 3 yrs to late ?
4 yrs
Never too late. 2 years for me and she’s fallen back in love
I got lucky found it today
Three yrs whow
@@silverdragoon27 ya lol
I walked away, love myself even more now
Yep, it's called masturbation🌈💲✔
I just ended my one year relationship today with my ungrateful fiancée..
I know it’s been a while since you posted your comment but I hope you have moved on and found somebody better for you. If not, don’t despair just keep being your best self and the right girl will come into your life eventually.
All the best bro!
Two years on, how much better is your life?
If I had a could write a letter to my 25 year-old self I would have told myself everything in this video. It would have saved me a lot of money, time and mental struggles over the years.
I will die before I ever take an ex back again.
Thank you. I almost made a mistake by calling her back. She was very disreputable to me. I broke it off. I felt she was just playing with me all along. Something in my gut was telling me that. I guess i just did not want to see it. So thank you again for this video.
Jorge Hernandez
After constant belittling and disrespecting in public and in front of her friends, I learned that lesson the hard way. Such a bad person she was.
So true but harsh
Keep moving bro, l feel you
You are a good person Jorge!
And you certainly did the right move. I myself have been in the emotional quicksand more than once, fucking hate it. Decided to not give my "heart" to a girl anymore...bcoz they just toy with before crushing.
Dude, same shit here
Like there aren't enough girls out there to just obsess over one, ditch the limiting beleifs and adopt an abundance mindset, trust me you'll find a girl just like you want her.
You nailed it with the need for personal boundaries when it comes to being disrespected. Not enough people consider just how much that represents where you rank in that person's mind. Thanks for sharing this!
Mmm..!
Your describing attachment styles. Anxious, Secure and Avoidant. When you really like someone your dominant style prevails. Self-awareness is key. Staying on your life’s purpose and path is key.
The best way to get her attention back is to removes yours...
Great content as always bro🔥
so true, its really the best way
That’s Craig Kenneth’s Quote 👍🏻
lalo rc how bro we used to talk so much and be so close 24/7 and all of a sudden she stopped and really had been dry with her texts and I really care for her too much, idk what do do
Itz Toxicc
May I say something ?
By having some self respect and valuing yourself
It’s hard I know
I’ve been there and suffered greatly more then anyone
You will get through this
It just takes time
I’ve just found someone 💯 x better then my LDR Ex.
Matty Kay thx bro and she just told me she misses her ex and still loves him and I can’t get over it I miss her she always made my day, she was the person I always looked foward to talking with
This was a great video. He talks about stuff that happened to me very recently. The wounds are still fresh but the advice on recognizing a woman's disrespect is invaluable. Walking away is hard for me, but I can't be tolerating any woman's disrespect and warped thinking against me. That's when it's time to move on.
I'm in a similar situation tbh, in what ways did she disrespect you and what led you to walk away?
The problem I had when I was younger was that if there were other guys, I would try to be "the winner". And both times I "won" a bad woman to be my wife 😀
Ditto
That moment when the lifelong outcast realizes he wasn’t missing out on much.
I made that mistake, and eventually a different guy won my sack of trash. It's obvious in retrospect.
Bobby is saving you a heartache. So true.. walk away is actually a better chance and choice. The "Recoil" is the dreaded sign been there done that hahaha
yea too many women out there to waste time chasing a loss. And yes, the "recoil" is heartbreaking lol
I speak from experience. Save you dignity.
Bobb
Sign nr. 6 = You're watching this video
Classic, lmao!
Hole in one !!
hahahaha good one
Jesus Christ youre a real douche rocket, arnt cha?
Hi-hi spot on ... I just wanted to laugh so i clicked on the vid .
My opinion never let an undecided woman waste any more of your time.
Moral of the story: Waaalk away 😁 and she will come running back to you. Cheers!
Thank you for this advice. I wish I would've had someone like you by my side when i was a young man in my 20's. It would've saved me a lot of money, pain, heartbreak, and confusion. The world is a better place because people like you are in it that are willing to help the inexperienced and the lost. Thank you.
A man's only saving grace is time. As time goes by hormones calm down and you find out that you don't need women as much as you thought you did when you were in your 20's. And because you have more experience and you've accomplished a few life goals, you have a better idea of your own value and no longer go into a relationship with a "needy" mindset. Be with someone only if they respect you. A lady is an investment of time, resources, emotions, and mental energy--- don't go after a bad one.
We may have differences in our cultures, different colors and more importantly different countries But when it Comes to love, we all feel it regardless of whatever the differences might be. Bobby Rio has always been my go to dating coach because when he talks, my heart listens. This girl is trying to hurt my feelings even more by constantly posting about the other guy, a very specific target i initially thought was her past . What a time to be alive! Saludos desde Uganda
i have to be honest. this guy is actually a brave man he understood a lot
Hands down the best video about dating, did most of these without even thinking but they're sooooo true. The most important aspect being, be focused on you and make your life an adventure, someone will surely tag along that likes you. Never make them the focus of your life(Unless it's a marriage).
Bobby gives great advice. The date other girls is what gets her back says so much about true female nature. No use complaining about it, it is what it is.
We don't like it. We get jealous. Just our nature
@@supersarah5673 Yeah esp when the other girl is better looking lol
@@SFBay69 😂😂 well duh
Word of the day, "Walk away!". Thanks for the advice, Sir.
There will always be one of the conditions you mentioned to Walk Away, so I will always be Walking Away.
If she cancels the date by text. The best response is silence. The second best response...
Text: OK
(Wait 15 minutes)
Text: "hey, my schedule opened up. Want to hang out"? (Send)
Then text: "woops, wrong number.... nevermind".
Respond to nothing for 48hrs.
The 3rd idea to text her by mistake but on purpose is horrible idea. Someone whom I wasn't in love with used to do that and just thought they were so pathetic, and believe me I didn't care, so why do that? They don't care which is why your first 2 ideas are great. It's obvious when someone pretends to text you on accident, and painfully pathetic. Don't be that guy who's acting like you have boundaries but still emotional trying to get a reaction out of her. No no no..just move on without a word.
Great info. Everything u said, I can resonate with.I eventually, walked away, now 5 months, cause of the negative behavior & toxic patterns.. Thank you bro.👊
I really felt your coaching in this video. I was once treated like a trash until I noticed I'm emotionally affected. I learned that not all you wanted you can get or meant for you. I was nothing before and no special thing to offer until I focus on the things I love, work hard on my my desire job. I can't blame woman if they see nothing to me. Years goes by I myself into nobody to somebody.
Love your brutal honesty. Really helped to get me out of the needy zone
Credit to this man , you have opened my eyes.
Wish i knew this when i was young fella. Your words are 👌🏻, doing great job helping others. Been there, done that in my youth, misinformed, immature, stupid. She left me a blessing in disguise. Met my present wife, happily married 29 years. So glad we never married back then/had children/home etc...would have been a disaster. Good lord works in mysterious ways. 👋 🇦🇺 .
A lot of women are attracted to what they cannot have.
So are men.
Great points here. Don't let it get to where you lose respect for yourself. If you see the signs, maintain your dignity and walk away. Calls, emails, professions of romance and remembering the good times will be to no avail. It's a hard lesson I learned myself but have grown emotionally since she left and am a stronger version of myself.
Great video Bobby! I love that expression 'emotional quicksand' Yeah we've all been there. Not for a long time now thankfully!
Just started walking away 2 days ago... And looks like this advice is actually working 😎😎😎
Holy shit, awhole lota grief and pain was brought to the forefront. All 5 are on my list and I didnt even know, my reasoning was because of my insecurities and lack of experience. I couldnt and would not want to move on. This has single handedly saved me from future unnecessary pain. Truly thank you! Subscribed. Ps I had to let go and forgive alot stuff, which stem from my issues with my mom.
Listening to your video really opened my eyes. I realized I was doing a lot of the mistakes that you mention. I now feel a lot more confident going forward in my situation.
I just walk away. Thank you for this video. There are plenty of so called “PUA” and advisers who are just funny. You are a good one.
I look at my phone 24 days a week.
Great advice as always B Rio and team! 👏🏾 trust me, we’ve all been there.
Man, you're better than my therapist. And I'm not exaggerating. You really studied human psychology well. Thanks.
I just broke up with my daughter's figure skating coach, and I was a little vexed, but after a week, my productivity increased ten fold. I was getting EVERYTHING done, and that's when I knew it was a healthy agreement. She ran backwards to an unfavorable relationship, and that spoke in volumes in regards to her internal strength. I NEVER go backwards..... She swore she didn't either, but I digress, I have total well wishes for her, but when the mask falls off, believe what you discover.
So true.
I definitely noticed that the "unavailable" girl does like that I'm seeing other chicks in my life. The thing I'm doing, is avoiding worrying about her, and just keeping the follow-up's casual (service improvements at local bars, etc). Approaching new people is becoming a quick addiction of mine!
Such a great video! I have walked away successfully thanks to the insight from this video.
Walk away and become a billionaire lol she'll come around
yea then tell her to get fukked LOL
if you don't improve yourself and learn how to handle them.. you will only attract gold digger with that mindset...
@@holehearted3723 exactly -she will use then divorce and take half your shit
MrMoss786 Well said bro, Best comment I’ve read👏🏽
@@kxngsanjay1683 how is that the best comment ?? if a guy has to have $ to get a woman that's about lame as fuk and a beta cuck -I wouldn't let a bitch talk half my $
This guy is super straightforward this is interesting
i think your advice is great and that your a really intelligent guy you have good names for things eg.Chaseing the loss .
It's amazing when you just like ohh watever and don't care if she comes or goes
This hit the nail on the head and I hate that, I really hate when it does.
This was very helpful. Wished I saw this a few days ago.
Thanks BR, watched many of your videos, this one here was so dead on accurate in my experiences. I wished I'd seen this years ago but going through these things on my own and experiencing what I had certainly opened my eyes to what not to do. The experience I had and again what I learned from it, I can only speak from my experience that again your advice is dead on accurate...thanks for sharing!
yea sometimes you need to go through it to fully learn the lessons. The key is not to make the same mistakes again...
Want love, then love yourself. It’s contagious
Facts especially the ''Recoil Sign'' lack of Intimacy means the Spark is gone in Her Eyes, No Intimacy no Point of continuing
The point about dating other women is soo true. We get jealous, even if we don't like the man. If he is chasing after other women, due to our nature, we get really, really jealous.
@Larry Carter men are difficult too! One minute they're obsessed with you and driving across the country to spend time with you. The next minute they hardly have any time for you! Jesus. This is why we have to act uninterested because otherwise, you guys will lose interest!
So true when a women looses interest or moved on they can get quite disrespectful..
Yeah because they get thier confidence because they have plan B already lined up.
I just went through this and although painful I will never allow that quicksand to take me down again.
This guy is absolutely brilliant. Have listened to so many people but this guy is the best.
Another excellent vid Bobby, cheers. Pretty damn applicable to my current situation, which I've made a real mess of.
Made a big mistake a couple of weeks ago in particular and have since backed right off (while in the "emotional quicksand" you spoke of) and now need to see if it's salvageable, or a write-off.
It's a write-off. Go elsewhere. If she sees you do that, she may track you down.
I've watched probably 100 videos about my ex of 4 years left me for her ex within one month, you nailed it in this video, its exactly what she did and how I reacted.. thank you bra, I'll subscribe now. To build up my mental tool box.
Did she mention him often..? She probably wasn't over him at all..
They have a 10 year old daughter together. So not really , they always talked about their daughter. That's all I saw.
Bobby, you are so right on point with this! You explain it better than anyone on youtube. I'm older with lots of experience with women, and what you are saying is spot on!!
"It is almost always the fault of one who loves not to realize when he ceases to be loved." Francios de La Rochefoucauld
Don't go on dating apps for a relationship guys, you'll regret it!!
Your right I've been on many sites and nothing but games .spent money . time and wasted thinking .it's funny in the end they are all gone and I feel better .I didn't realize how many women are crazy .wow
@@stevemellin5806 nice one Steve👍work on yourself and enjoy your freedom,been single for 6 years and I'm loving it
yeah tinder is just there to fuck and get some experience
I work with a girl, and we got along so damn well. We went on a couple of dates which also went well. We tried to have sex but sadly for me, I was suffering from erectile dysfunction. I told her recently that I like her more than a friend. She said she felt the same way. I even got flowers sent to her house, she loved them. Sadly, she hasn't wanted to hang out since. She still flirts with me at work and wants to sit next to me and chat at lunch but whenever I have asked her out she has politely declined. I was obsessing over her and telling myself I am worthless.
Thanks for this video, it has really helped me feel much better about walking away.
I feel relief anytime I watch your video for some reason. It helps me to see some things from the distance. Thanks mate!
glad the videos help!
Its amazing seeing man helping man like this
The proper term for “chasing the loss” is actually Escalation of Commitment. If you are suffering from this, you will convince yourself that you can recoup all losses on an investment if you just commit more resources instead of cutting your losses. Just like with gambling...if you’re not willing and able to lose what you put in the table, you shouldn’t be playing the game.
Another term for it is "sunk cost fallacy".
Admiral Ackbar Yessir, it is however that is more an expression of the same phenomenon when applied to the area of economics and business decision making where as escalation of commitment is more of a psychological reasoning methodology (so I’ve been told by people more knowledgeable in the field than myself). But, I agree with you 💯.
Sensible. 🤔😌
This is something I needed to hear.
This girl has made me seek out these videos! I was obsessed like you described! I still think about her but I've been letting go everyday gets easier that she doesn't say anything to me ty for your videos! Great advice!
Great advice. Walk away, and work on your self-improvement. I am making so much money now, it's incredible.
Fantastic!
6. She's married
And this doesn't have more likes for what reason again???? 🤔
7. She became ghost.
i'm in the emotional quick sand right now.
it sucks.
bradOLF pittLER I feel your pain.
man they all like to play us, wtf you want me or not?.
DROP HER!!
My men just fuck them and go away they dont want you well ok just fuck her and look for another one they dont deserve your attention just fuck them and leave until one day you find one that fucks you too and doesnt let you go away.
Bobby Rio, you really spoke to me today with this video. Especially with advice number 4. Now you have a brand new subscriber
Listening to this during the pandemic is very ironic :))
Everyone including myself became so needy after 3 months of lockdown and it doesnt look to good for social life in the UK in the fallowing months .