The POWER Of Walking Away & Why It's EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE
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- čas přidán 27. 12. 2022
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The number one biggest power move you can make is to actually walk away. When you walk away, you signify and signal value out and that is extremely attractive to other people.
And in this video, I'm gonna show you exactly why walking away is the biggest power move you can make. I'm gonna show you what not to do and why the opposite of that ends up pushing them away.
And also, I'm gonna show you the mistakes to avoid when doing this. Because when done correctly, not only will you feel safe within yourself, you feel like you don't need anyone else to come around and you'll maintain your power, and that changes everything as a reflection.
Now, this reminds me of a experience in my own life where I used to do the opposite of this. What I would do is, I would be in a relationship with somebody, and especially, I remember this in the first relationship I was ever in, where I would choose someone sometimes, that also wasn't entirely choosing me.
And what I would then do is if they would pull back at all I would then think there was something wrong with me. And I would try to change that and I would try to control the situation.
And by being overly like alert to what they wanted, to what they needed, by reaching out to them, it would then actually push them away and have the opposite effect.
But in the first relationship I ever had, I learned the power of walking away and it had the opposite effect of what I actually thought. So what happened was, this was one of my first relationships.
From seven to 15, I had like no freedom at all, wasn't allowed to date, wasn't allowed to go to school dances or anything like that, had a controlling ex-stepmom in my life, my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old.
All of a sudden, I have all this freedom. At about 17, that was when I had my first girlfriend. And it was a relationship where it was like I wasn't fully being chosen and I was okay with that. I was like staying in the relationship.
I remember at one point there was this school dance and instead of us going to the school dance together, she went with an ex-boyfriend and a lot of her friends and other people were like, "That's so messed up."
I didn't even think it was that. I was just like, "Oh, well that's just I'm not worthy," or something like that. And it was a dynamic where I felt like once again, there's something wrong with me.
And what ended up happening through this, is it was mainly because at that time, from seven to 15, I wasn't allowed to have friends. I didn't have as much social emotional maturity and I didn't have many friends at the time.
That was one of the reasons, I think, that relationship was so meaningful is 'cause I literally had no other friends or no other friend group for the most part.
What ended up happening is as her and I weren't really working out and we were like not together anymore, after a period of time, I started making new friends.
I started to expand my social circle. Then what happened is, there was another girl that I was interested in that actually liked me.
What ended up happening, ironically enough, is as I was moving into that, as I completely let go and I walked away from the situation because I started to understand my own sense of self-worth, and also at the time, I then would hear from other girls in high school and stuff that they were attracted to my brother and I, because we were actually then allowed to actually have our own look.
We grew out our hair. We were able to dress the way that we wanted because from seven to 15, it was very strict. We had to shave our head. It was like military almost. I started to realize, "Oh, I'm actually worthy," or not only am I worthy just 'cause of the external stuff but I started to feel more worthy within myself.
I remember that as I started to come to this conclusion, this awareness, I completely cut ties and let that go.
As I walked away from that, as I let that go, I remember at one point I got a call and this person was really desiring to get back together.
They really cared about me, It all of a sudden, brought all of this dynamic to where then they started to understand and become aware of my own sense of value.
And I'll never forget that, because it was when I completely let go and I started to choose myself, and then I started to recognize my own sense of worth within myself, and I started to expand my social group and I stopped putting all the attention on that, that's when the energy completely reverted and then all of a sudden that attraction was there again.
Even in a different way, at other times, even more recently, like the last five or six years, where I was in a relationship. - Zábava
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Can you make a video on how to be yourself.
What this man says is true. Walking away doesnt mean you dont like that person but you giving a chance for a genuine connection to be formed, through space and sense of value
Hi Aaron, how to walk away? Psychologically and emotionally, I mean.
If someone doesn't try to communicate through problems, it just makes me think they will walk away so they are not safe to trust. . . I find it manipulative and it makes me feel unsafe and lose attraction.
This only works if the person doesn't have fears of people walking out on them, because for me if you walk out I may try to talk it through, but then I will lock the door behind you if you go.
“Anytime you choose somebody else that is not choosing you: you abandoning yourself!” NEEDED THIS!!
One of the best quotes that I've never heard said till this video.
I needed this too today. Fkn fantastic analogy
also, no to them is essentially a big yes to You!@@coudgeb
I don't get it😂
I though people continuelly message me i thought they needed me. But i guess i have put them more and myself on a hold to create a message for them. Hm. Me first, time for them when i have time
Note to self: STOP abandoning yourself 💕
It’s good advice but it’s not a simple choice for those of us with deep trauma and abandonment wounds unfortunately😭
Bro!
@@markkarma7392 specially for us
@@markkarma7392So true, it's hard for me but I'm trying...I'm tired of being/feeling hurt and abandoned
I go through the trauma bonding stuff. I don't think it's cool to ghost a woman just because as lovers, I didn't have sex w him on our second date..So he's been quiet. He lives 500 miles away too though, so the distance is an issue. I like him but had performance anxiety and now he says "it wasn't meant to be." That's hurtful. I am trying to put the attention back to myself.
That's solid information but don't forget...
When you walk away, you have to MEAN it! You're okay if that person never comes back. You will completely (physically and spiritually) stop chasing! This is not about getting the other person to act in a certain way you want them to act. Keep that in mind.
Stay true to yourself and stick to your boundaries. Love y'all ❤
Wonderful comment thank you ❤
Excellent and very important point. Thank you 🙏
I did this.. I knew she would be having sex with others that quick but u guess they ain't worth it if it's like that but it still gets to me big time that thought
Very good directing words
True words! ❤
I always have long-term relationships because:
1. I give Space
2. I'm Not needy
3. I can walk away anytime
secure attachment
I was needy stupidly even tho I was having a good time I shud of pulled back I didn’t read it I Haven’t really dated. Since forever I felt I cudnt love or didn’t know or Wud get it . It came I was trying to see an I knew I liked him something about him touched me inside we made out embraced and enjoyed togther his words stayed with me 😢 now it’s all gone so quick I wana turn the clock and see as friends to then see how it could go . I’m so stupid in love I can’t be in love it’s so sad
Girl I was dating told me I was too being needy because I was getting emotional and anxious about their actions. She said we shouldn't talk for a while and I'm really upset about it. I know I should probably walk away but I really want to make things work with her.
@@sschwartz1488if she is doing shit that makes you doubt (eg partying talking about other men etc) then ur being manipulated
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 none of those. Just telling me she can't deal with me being emotionally needy.
Walking away drew her back to me but when she came back I decided I was done for good. Stay strong partners.
I'm exactly in the same spot. I feel like the space of walking away also makes you realize if that person is worth it or not.
Love this
You never like her to begin with she should not taken you back!
Me too it's been over a decade still she can't get over me it's crazy. 😂
Frank, you're so handsome. ❤
This is so true. I walk away and really mean it. I don’t put up with foolishness. They either change their behavior and act like they have some sense or they leave me alone which is a blessing because I do not tolerate disrespect.
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Totally a win-win situation!
THIS!!!
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Happiness is an inside job.....I like that miss
Stop abandoning Yourself for others
If they walk away, then no worries....
Trust me the universe will send you your kind of person
So stop chasing them give them the space... ❤️
Universe always sucks
Walk away. And never ever abandon yourself, again.
It’s a power move. ❤
Walking away is one of the most powerful moves when we aren’t being valued and especially when the other person is actually the one w the low value‼️
Precisely this. ❤
Went through a breakup at the end of March.
Since then, I've focused on sobriety (41 days sober today) eating better (almost 20 pounds down) and working out.
She started seeing someone else, right away. But what I've realized, through focusing on myself is that I went from hoping that she'd change her mind, to knowing that I've changed mine.
Thank you, Aaron, for being there and contributing to a part of my growth.
(As of July 20th, I am over 30 pounds down and still doing and feeling fantastic!)
This is awesome! You should be proud! I can relate and it's not an easy journey.
Thats powerful!
@@sj4267 62 days sober, 27 pounds down and in the best shape that I’ve been in years!
💪🏽💪🏽
@@paul_romero_ keep it up brother, I’m 25 going through the same thing. This is day 1 of sobriety, and day one of shaping myself into a man that can be respected. Best of luck my friend you got this.
You’re amazing, well done
I walked away last night. I hope he wakes up, but I'm fully prepared to never talk to him ever again.
That's why I love my Lord Jesus, he always walked away from toxicity without even arguing.
Tf
Sir , this is a Wendy’s.
@@litedawg a Wendy’s….as in a Wendy’s? 🍔
@@youssefmikhael3044 I was thinking the same shit
Eh??
It's tough to move away, it hurts, but if you do, YOU WIN! Either they will see your worth & contact you (how you proceed is your perogative) or you never see them again, but you will know it wasn't meant to be 👍😊
I just walked away from a friends with benefits scenario, she rejected me wanting to go further but she still wanted to keep me around while she dates other guys. No way!
It’s been nearly 2 months but we didn’t really end on a truly sour note.
I still have a hunch that she will reach out to me at some point but I think I’ll politely decline.
At this point I’m not walking away from someone to be concerned about the other person, or to gain some sort of power. I’m doing this because I deserve to pour into myself, mind my own essence and enjoy my own world…. To show up for myself because that’s my responsibility. That’s my job. I’ve spent a lot of my life doing things for the world…. I just want to choose me without extra being attatched to it. whoever wants to be in my life, will simply be there because they love me, because they want to be. I don’t owe anyone a damn thing. And no one owes me anything. So anyone who wants to leave can surely go. As long as I don’t abandon myself to gain the world, I am fine.
Well said.
Inspiring
Stop abandoning yourself and choose yourself instead ❤
I believe this works. But something important to add, you have to have something to turn your energy to, when you walk away.
You have to be on your own mission, if you want others to join in.
This is some of the most unattractive traits that people can have, not being driven in any area of their lives.
I believe that it isn't even about the goals themselves. What I have realized recently is that I have my career and skills I want to learn, but I lack some higher goal.
My fiance left me at some point. I was a romantic soul, drawing a lot, illustrating and having some dreams that heavily involved her I also was a bit pragmatic learning how to program (love programming). Unfortunately, I was doing poorly with money. So I got a great job. I have my career now doing good money working with Silicon Valley-based big players. And what? I lost her, I lost myself. I feel that I am boring and emotionally lazy. What attracts people is sparkle. Don't lose it for money or other material things. I think this concept applies to both - males and females. Some women think that having a goal and being a career focus is sexy. It's not. Its the road to being lonely. Same for men. There is a need for balance
“Bring your energy back to yourself and stop trying to fix the situation.” Basically take those bricks out of your pockets and instead of trying to fix that broken situation use them as pavers back to you! ❤
There is no guarantee they’ll come back once they broke up with you and you walked away but it’s a guarantee you’ll find yourself along the way. ❤
This is so helpful, thank you. I'm in a relationship where the other person has way too much control over my emotions, and I'm experiencing a lot of breadcrumbing which is very painful. I really want to take back my own power and be happy with or without them.
Run, Girl!
Must be a damn narcissist. I just ran away from one. You run too. Remember, you haven’t met all the people that will love you. Chose yourself. Run
Stop following their breadcrumb trail. Don’t do it. You deserve the whole loaf.
Unbelievably painful, I know!
Run run run! It’s not easy, and downright painful at times, but you WILL get through.
I got tears in my eyes when you said "You're awesome! You're amazing!" Says at lot about my self-esteem.
Same here🥺🥺
That is the exact part I started crying, too. I cried though because I’m like if I’m so amazing and awesome then how come they never put in effort to keep me. I’ve dated hundreds of men and only 1 actual relationship. And he was just using me for a place to live.
I started to cry as well. I feel like a loser, alone. I don't want to be alone anymore. So much time spent by myself. I deserve to have someone by my side, but someone who will treat me well and respect me. I'm not feeling awesome, I'm not feeling amazing haha But anyways, it's way more complicated than anything.
Broken people need other broken people.. we should date 😂
When dumped and walked away from an ex suitor - I didn’t do it for mind games or to get him back, since he was already committed. God helped me to realize that I didn’t want or have to settle for any less. I’m glad I walked away because God gave me the freedom to choose and I don’t regret it. I took the time to heal from the love and enjoyed focusing on God and my career. A decade later, I met another man that I found to be a worthier man of my time and we, my husband Frank and I, are now married. :)
walking away gives you space in your life to magnetize what is more aligned instead...
When/if you decide to do this, go all in. Don't call, text, email and especially don't get on social media and look them up or post stupid ass quotes that you think relate to them hoping they will see it. Walk away and don't look back. If you're doing it to get someone back, you are defeating the entire purpose and you are chasing the wrong person.
Its not walking away. Its not choosing yourself. Its choosing to enjoy life and putting energy in something you enjoy to do. To put the energy back in your body, to enjoy it and to enjoy your life
I really needed this as I do have "abandonment issues."
My ex broke up with me 9 months ago without a warning. I wouldn't think that he would be the person to come back. I decided to come back to myself and focus on my own happiness and future. The moment I closed our chapter he texted me again to meet up. It's strange but it really works like that
Did you take him back in ?
Perfect timing, literally did this less than an hour ago, this girl I was hanging out with started acting up out of nowhere, so I verbally checked her and told her if she didn't listen to me I was going to leave, she didn't comply so I left. Less than an hour later she called my phone trying to get back into my good graces. This works really well, I think one major key is to leave without thinking or projecting feelings of negativity towards the other person and walk in your power with abundance on your mind.
Needed to hear this. My girlfriend essentially told me I was smothering her emotionally yesterday.
I’ve realized that I’d been neglecting myself and pushing her away by overcompensating.
I like what you say about letting go of the outcome. I do love her, it’s only been a few months but there’s definitely a spark there.
I’m in the process of pulling away and remembering how I spent my free time instead of fixating on the relationship completely.
Thanks Aaron.
This is legit. I stop calling, texting and I started going to the gym. She ends up calling me later. The miss factor plays a huge role, even with family. When I lived with my family we fought more, had less space and there was too many voices. You don't have clearity in your mind anymore that you start to miss them less. When I moved out and visit them. There was so much love and things reconfigure. Space is key, we only take so much.
The dog comparison is really fun, actually, when I was a young teenager I had a dog that was pretty wild, I used to walk him without a leash and I found that the best way to get the dog to come to me if he was running and not listening was not just to walk away but to HIDE away! I went hiding behind trees or bushes lol - and the dog ran to find me. I suppose the analogy would be to walk away and be out of sight, no contact
YES! I always say this! Our dog used to take off running so, when we chased him, he ran faster. But if we turned around and ran away from him, he started to chase us.
That's also known as playing cat and mouse. That's all that is tho. Games. I don't see how that sets the ground for healthy grown up relationship.
@@sunbeam9222neither do I, but I guess if people show this avoidance behaviour, it’s best for us to let them be
I remenber once this girl was chasing after me and it put me off her. I couldn't understand why she was chasing me. I thought if she is so desperate about being with me, she must be hiding some sort of problem. She was good looking, smart and the thing is I did fancy her. But because she was too keen about me, I kept away from her. Thanks to your video I understand this dynamic now.
For anyone going through this... You are not alone! I just dealt with everything here. It was devastating. Please remember it wasn't your fault. You cannot change these people, they use and abuse and manipulate. They are masters of deception and do not care about you or others. So please, watch these videos and get some understanding but listen to this brilliant human and STOP researching when you get to that point. Move on, be the best version of you because we all deserve that. Don't let this haunt you. Thank you so much Lisa for your help and videos. These are brilliant and so relatable to so many of us. Remember, you got this everyone!
The universe allowed me to watch this. Divine and Perfect timing. I just recently blocked an ex. I walked away with the pure intention of getting myself back and getting the peace of mind I so deserve.
I think, of all your videos, this one resonates with me the most.
I have taken him off of the pedestal and put myself back on it. I know he needs to win me over, so I am giving him space to think and miss me.
I have taken my energy and focused it on myself by doing things that make me feel happy, healthy, peaceful, and productive.
In my heart I know he’s planning how to win me back but if I never hear from him again I will be just fine.
Thank you for validating my choice to walk away from his avoidance.
I’m so happy to see you are on your on mission to honour yourself by focusing all of your energy on you! Did you notice any positive effects yet? It’s another example for me to actively work towards my own path and passions as well. I believe with all my heart that you are a gem and he should be proud to have you on his side. If he hasn’t reached out yet I think he is contemplating the pros and cons of reaching out. I believe most of men are afraid of rejection at this point. You made yourself clear as to what you tolerate and the same applies for me. I was with an avoidant and inconsiderate man that was weak and dependent on me to have fun until I couldn take it any more and snapped. I walked away and trying to make a statement that he eventually must level up.
well said.. that’s how i feel about it..
I did exactly the same. Gave him a piece of my mind and doubt he will be back and that’s better for me. God is only protecting me.
Same girl! Sending you love because holy crap this is tough ❤
Update?
I've been pondering this for a month. As you say, its not enough to go non contact. If you are thinking about them you will just keep pushing them away. But more importantly, you are blocking the opportunity to meet someone, who you wont actually need to walk away from in the first place.
So I'm not only practicing non contact, I'm actually purging them from my mind. From my very system. Because if we're thinking about someone who doesn't reciprocate, this is very unhealthy. The mind can rebel against this new discipline, as it has needy patterns it thinks it needs to survive. Dreams of them may be very strong. This is not love, its obsession. Tell your mind no, they have to go. You have to meet someone out of the billions of people on the planet, who may just serve your growth and purpose more effectively.
So what I've learnt here is walk away, and work on yourself. Not just no contact but as you rightly say, REALLY walk away. As in you aren't even going to be thinking about them.
Yes, they may then come back. But in my experience they'll need someone emotionally unavailable, to keep them in their chosen state of misery. Such people don't make the best partners.
How do you purge them from your mind? Do you focus on something else when the thought about them pops up? Thank you
“I Gilda Given, I choose myself.” Thanks for this Aaron. 100% I needed this today. ❤
so true. I left my gf of 6 years after a 1 year push/pull cycle.. Its been a month and I havent been this happy in a very long time.
Yes, sometimes people just literally need space and it's nothing personal. Or it really is just not energetically compatible, now or in the future,which is okay, and there is no choice but to walk away in order to save yourself. Aaron, I read burning a candle in a small enclosed space will give you monoxide poisoning! Please meditate with the candle in a bigger room. I love you, and don't want anything bad to happen to you! Xxx
Yesterday I had break up.. And today I opened CZcams and your video was in my front page.. Is it like universe is trying to help me.. 🙂.. Thank you.
I literally just went through this process. So crazy…
I am going through this process now. New year new changes. Oh, I just subscribed to your CZcams channel and signed up for the free affirmation. Great content. I’ll be following. Thanks 🙏
@@Ry77x thanks so much. Let me know how you like it. 💜
@@Cristinashubin I will! And thanks!
What this man says is true. Walking away doesnt mean you dont like that person but you giving a chance for a genuine connection to be formed, through space and sense of value
This is so hard to do, especially being codependent and diagnosed with a terrible case of MS. But I want to change my life so I walked away dispite the fear of not being able to take care of myself because of my disability. I'm learning life isnt much different without them, less stressful and a bit lonely. Scary mostly. But I will NOT give up on myself.
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Zoe - I’m really proud of you. You go girl. You are first best and don’t ever forget that well. Also … see yourself as well and not shoving MS. Visualize it all day every day and ignore what is in your face and watch yourself heal. It’s just DIS EASE in your body from your past - and you can heal it!!!! Best of luck.
I can feel what you’re going through, I’m facing the same thing but i didn’t tell him about MS fearing he would reject me .. at the end i choose to walk away because he’s not worthy and definitely won’t be by my side through thick and thin 💔 i honestly don’t know when and how i share such information while dating without them running away so for now i keep it to myself and focus on my health . Stress and heartbreak triggers relapses , so we have to take care of ourselves until we meet the one 🤍
Get well soon🤲❤
I have mild disability cognitive delay i more issue with myself mentally I have blocks and deleted all social media platforms and starting new slowly
I definitely needed to hear this, thank you so much!
I've been watching your videos for years (your guided meditations are amazing and have helped me through some very bad times) - I'm so glad this popped up in my feed today because I NEEDED THIS SO BAD right now!! Having a very hard time in my 13 plus year relationship....at my wit's end....nothing is working....I think this is the ticket. Thank you so much xoxoxo
Walked away from a three year relationship a few days ago. I really need these words and have been doing the opposite of what has been said. I'm going to stop abandoning myself from now. Need to choose me. Be in my own energy!
I normally don’t comment on CZcams videos but I have to say that a few weeks ago a guy I was seeing ended our situationship, for a valid reason I will say, but I was pretty sad about it. I watched Aaron’s CZcams channel , I totally moved forward with my hobbies, work, exercise, going out with friends etc. we hadn’t spoken in weeks, he messages me to get a coffee, I meet him, he tells me he cannot stop thinking about me and he kept feeling like I was completely doing fine and he was struggling not to reach out to me.
So the point of this comment is, THIS REALLY WORKS!!!!!!
This video couldn’t have come at a more perfect time for me personally Aaron. Big fan of your channel, your videos have helped me grow, learn more about myself and work through a lot. You’re also helping me maintain a relationship with my soulmate that I nearly ruined by smothering her too soon. Very powerful lessons that you teach, great work mate, you’re a legend!
Your videos have been helping through this winter. I’ve been wanting to let go and accept for a while. The best solution was for me to walk away. I am a Capricorn and this season was waiting for me. I hope you continue in your brilliant path this new year! Stay shining 💎✨
3/4ths of the way through the video and im crying. This struck a cord in a big way, thank you so much for making it
This is absolutely spot on , I’ve stepped right back from a relationship that was becoming increasingly one sided , in the end I spoke to her and sensed she was getting fed up with my attentions which in truth was all about making me feel better . I said to her that I’m going to leave her completely alone and I have, instead focusing on myself. I absolutely will not contact her first now , I realise that would be a big mistake. I’ve no idea if she’ll come back but if she doesn’t then the answer is right there……… she came back 😁
Great but be careful you don't repeat needy behavior.
@@GUITARTIME2024that’s down to your own self concept how strong you are within yourself
Very wise words, Aaron. We are all worth the high value we should place upon ourselves and not let anyone make us low value...especially us!
Oh I needed to hear this, my life is changing so much since I started to feel, to stay with me, to stop thinking about him so much (ok, i still think but much less) I'm on the process and so glad you're helping me with this process, thank you for sharing ☺️☺️
preach! 🔥 you are sooooo on freakin point, giving them space without you projecting your energy on them constantly is the best advice ever! and all of it is perfect🤘
This is pure gold ❤ when you love you and choose others will surely follow suit!
I like the content on feeling worthy, because sometimes I have no idea why I don’t feel good enough or where its coming from. Thanks Aaron! ❤️
Thank you Aaron. This is an amazing video i needed to hear and continue walking away and valuing myself ♡
I’ve watched so many videos like this for years to remind me. But you are hands down my absolute favorite thank you so much for sharing yourself with us!
I so needed this reminder today, so thank you. For 2023, my goal is to completely dedicate myself to prioritizing my own love for myself.💖
Hey I'm going to steal this idea. Happy new year :)
I too share in this goal ♥️
How has it been so far?
Confidence is attractive to others. Insecurity is not.
.. this video is SO ME that I'm overwhelmed.
It's a life changer.
Thank you Aaron. Thank tou so much. So enlightment. Happy 2023. MuchLove from Brazil
Thank you Aaron! This is gold. I feel lighter and more secure knowing im doing the right thing. I need to chose me and heal ❤
Thank you for this impactful video. Self-worth is so important and sometimes we forget how important we are. I am so glad I saw this video, definitely worth watching more than once.
Hey Aaron,The most powerful statement in this video for me was " Choosing Yourself sometimes means saying No to an energy dynamic that is Not a representation of my self respect!!!!!!!!!!" that is absolutely amazing statement such great insight! Thank you for this. I will meditate on this word! Great vid keep up the good work.
The best explanation about “letting go” and the reaction from it. Thank you 👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🥰
I hope your next relationship is someone so loving and awesome Aaron. You are helping so many people feel worthy of love etc
This is so important. I realised that I couldn't save my family and no matter how burnt out and depressed I was trying to help them and make them happy it was never going to fix them. I put myself lat every time and got depressed myself but I'm putting all my energy into healing and helping myself. I wish it for everyone here
This can apply to family members as well. I'm the giver of the family and it's only recently that I came to this conclusion and now aaron has confirmed it for me.
This is so true. I used to be too nice, and help supports others, but then forget to support myself.
Thank you i needed this. The guy that i liked picked someone else. I was sad but everything happens for a reason
Just went through a breakup which was tough. I swear this post was for me.
This video is so spot on!
I needed this this morning. Thank you
I really enjoyed listening through the entire video. Favorite part is how grounded you sound and when your voice changed into a high pitch one lol I really like how your words express uplifting oneself. 🤍🙏🐛🦋 Blessings! ✨️ Ty
If someone doesn’t want me then I don’t want them. The problem is when they don’t make it clear what they want. When that happens the clock is ticking before I leave
@@text9439how can I directly message you
I like my ex still and knowing the fact he dosent want me back ...it's emotionally draining , I just want to get out of this feeling ...value myself nd my life over him
Omg! Same situation girl. My ex also doesn't want to commit to me. I already communicated him about what I felt and possible actions that I'll take if this continue. Coz he kinda wanna meet me first. But to me it's kinda confusing and really hard to understand coz wer in a relationship before even if wer far. But y now no? That makes me really feel unsecured coz what if we will meet after a year. So, I have to overthink for a year? 😂 then, I decided to walk away 2 days ago. Stating that reason to him. And today, he message and call me but I neither take the call nor read the message. Because deep in me, I have to work on myself. And they said, we have to listen to ourself, our intuition. So, I did. Perhaps, in the future if we both healed, both ready and both are free. We could try again. But now, I know, I have to change me first.
Thank you for this reminder! I've already made some notes for a new year's kick off ;) "Choose yourself" (in a healthy way you mean) will be my motto.
Chosing me was the best thing I ever did happy new year to you guys make sure ya let that toxicity Go !!
Thank you for this great video! It was something I needed to hear. I am going to apply this to my life today.
I'm here to wish Aaron and everyone on here a great and amazing, happy, healthy and successful new year! 💖
Thank you soooo much Aaron for sharing with us🙏
the fact that i gained so much energy from this video ; thank u, fr, u helped me a lot
You're awesome, Aaron. Thank you.
This timing was just spot on for me
I don't know how many times I already watched this.
This video is everything.
This is so needed! Thank you. I needed to hear this! Happy New Year Aaron!
Stay Strong Guys I Have Myself Been Through The Same Situation No Matter What Never Go Back To Them Stay Firm To Your Decision.Self Respect Is Most Valuable Thing One Can Have🙌💯
i knew this and i needed someone to remind me this. thank you~ im stronger then ever 🤗 i feel great
I finally got it!! It feels good to choose me 1st and give space to others. Luv ya Aaron💗
This is sooo true. Gonna keep watching over and over til this sinks in. This childhood need to get approval from others, just insane how it effects your whole life.
Watching this, was just the most absolute perfect timing for me. This was EXACTLY what i was needing to hear in order to move forward. Thank you so much.
Good for you
Same 😊Thank you !!
Man thank you so much I really needed this right now 🙏🏻
You are so worthy Aaron.
It's just time. People sometimes don't have enough time. They have their own stuff going on. Don't take it personally.
But you're right, in a romantic relationship, the one who is less invested wins.
GREAT advice, really needed to hear, thanks, Aaron!
This video is such a motivation 🎉
I needed this. I have been abandoning myself. I need to just focus on myself.
Thank You so much Aaron. The Universe made this video find me and I'm mighty glad it did😊
This is the most informative and helpful video Aaron for me. This really hit home for me and I feel so much better about finally choosing Me!!
You should do a video on how to not send the other person energy. Especially when that person is always on your mind. Even when you aren't necessarily thinking about them, you know they are always there in your mind. Help to explain how to escape that dynamic.
That the tricky part right?
You have to have an awareness and not follow your thoughts when the person enters your mind. Immediately change your focus. One thing I've done to get rid of unwanted thought is to say to myself, "Stop!" It's weird because when I say it's like I snap out of it. After you do that for a little while you'll notice that the thoughts don't come anymore or not as much. That's one way of removing your energy from a person or a thing. It works for me. Maybe you can try it and see if it works
@ErikisOfficial Reading Power of Now helped quite a bit. I got into that the habit of doing what you describe, and that's helped quite a bit. Still random pop-up thoughts every now and then, especially when you see things that remind you of them. It's no big deal to me now. I just think about my goals and where I am today.
@Steven Poffenberger that's a great book. I got 2 for you that you might like. Try "Attached" and "How Emotions Are Made." Both imo are great and necessary tools for self and relationships
You have changed the way i think Thank you man
Omg, I love your channel, I believe you are going to help me tremendously, I identify with your childhood experience, with me it was a stepfather, I was raise in a religion that didn’t celebrate holidays, birthdays, etc, I was literally not allowed out the house from 5yrs old to 16yrs old, then when I finally was free from his clutches I was a mess, thanks 🙏 for sharing your experience it helped me a lot to know I’m not alone