The Female Narcissist in YOUR FAMILY

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  • čas přidán 30. 05. 2024
  • The female narcissist in your family. #narcissist #femalenarcissist #jillwise #theenlightenedtarget #gaslighting #narcissisticfamily
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Komentáře • 47

  • @angel772921
    @angel772921 Před měsícem +29

    My mother and my sister...I left them to it 6 years ago !..thankfully..thank Jill..much love ❤

  • @Harmonious-jm3sy
    @Harmonious-jm3sy Před měsícem +20

    Yep, my narc ex wife. The smartest, prettiest, wittiest, and most vile person on the planet to her family.

    • @tazzygeoff621
      @tazzygeoff621 Před měsícem

      My X is like that but no longer pretty, after 25 years divorced she looks very ugly.
      And no friends apart from those she can manipulate.

    • @iconsnart
      @iconsnart Před měsícem +2

      And my sister 🤯 happy its ur ex wife 🎉

    • @richardchavez985
      @richardchavez985 Před měsícem

      You have t met my wife. 😢

    • @MC-mk6gs
      @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem

      ❤️

  • @cheryllynn2583
    @cheryllynn2583 Před měsícem +24

    Exactly!!!My mother is 85&still doing this.very sad

    • @tazzygeoff621
      @tazzygeoff621 Před měsícem +6

      Mine is 92yoa and will never change apart from being more blatant about the lies.

    • @mjcoulliette6438
      @mjcoulliette6438 Před měsícem +3

      Mine is 92 and worse than ever.

    • @michelepascoe6068
      @michelepascoe6068 Před měsícem

      Yes, mine did all that till she died at 80. Scary, but acting harmless.

  • @danieljohnson2349
    @danieljohnson2349 Před měsícem +14

    My "mother" .

  • @lindaguy1808
    @lindaguy1808 Před měsícem +17

    My covert sister in law to a tee. Especially the competitiveness. When we had family get togethers, she would always have to pull out games and made sure she was the winner at all of them. Thank God Ive gone no contact. Thank you Jill ❤

    • @audbaltzersenrameckers8832
      @audbaltzersenrameckers8832 Před měsícem +4

      And my sister in law always has the best presents, the best dinners, the best everything and I don't know my brother anymore.
      She belittles him, riducule him not only behind closed doors but infront of everyone. He is so traumabonded to my mom who is all about status... and he has status so my sister in law will keep him for her own supply. It's horrible. I have lost my brother 💔

    • @lindaguy1808
      @lindaguy1808 Před měsícem +4

      @audbaltzersenrameckers8832 Hi...I'm sorry to hear about your brother. Unfortunately that's what narcs do...break up families and cause nothing but trouble.

    • @audbaltzersenrameckers8832
      @audbaltzersenrameckers8832 Před měsícem +2

      It's weird. Thank you for your answer. Having less and no contact is actually the most safe thing I'm feeling now. And looking for a trauma based therapist ❤️

    • @deannamartinez7233
      @deannamartinez7233 Před měsícem

      @@audbaltzersenrameckers8832
      Hello, Yes!! No Contact- Keeps you, Healthy and Sane….. And not only any therapist- But a
      Christian therapist - they are your Cheerleaders❤
      John 3:16 KJV
      Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV
      🙌❤️✝️

  • @Mike_Cosentino
    @Mike_Cosentino Před měsícem +13

    I went full NC back in June 2016-eight yrs ago-and have never looked back. The female narcissist abused my father with physical abuse and erratic behaviors. Too much stuff to go into detail but she threatened to go off and talk to other men at the bar during the honeymoon in Hawaii. There were cops called all the time. I was traumatized as a kid. I asked my dad later in life, why didn’t you press charges and he told me “because you needed a mother figure” even though I had plenty of other, non-toxic mother figures on his side of the family like my grandma (R.I.P.) and my aunts. Worst of all, as with any narcissist, they can’t take the word no. Despite blocking her on my phone, she’s stalked my new addresses within the last 5 years or so and has attempted to send cards around my birthday and around December, so she definitely ruined my days many times. But it always has to be about the narcissist. They don’t take no for an answer either from me, my lawyer, and I’ve even had to file a police report back in December 2023. If I get one more hoover, I’ll be petitioning the court for an order of protection.

    • @MC-mk6gs
      @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem +3

      Yep NO is not in there VOCABULARY

    • @wayneelliott1180
      @wayneelliott1180 Před měsícem +2

      They seem to think “No” is an invitation to pile on thick and fast.

    • @MC-mk6gs
      @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem

      @@wayneelliott1180 💯💯💯💯💯

    • @Mike_Cosentino
      @Mike_Cosentino Před měsícem

      @@wayneelliott1180 they’re not entitled to closure just like how the narcissist/s can never provide closure. It’s a one-way street to Destructieville.. and the more they attempt to Hoover or violate our boundsries, these lowlifes keep proving our point that they cannot be trusted. If they can’t respect your boundaries or wishes, especially within in the family-and I’m a grown man-who the h3ll do these people think they are? Blood isn’t always thicker than water.
      Also, being related to me doesn’t excuse someone from being a total pos.. they want to make up AFTER the fact? We e literally tried working things out with the narcs but they were unable/unwilling back then because we were their fuel source. Our cribs could be supply to them, the strollers they pushed us in in public settings can give them supply, the new car they drive to and from the wine store From gives them supply. No longer am I anyone’s lapdog.

  • @suef5417
    @suef5417 Před měsícem +4

    And when you go no contact they become the victim. No more supply for them.

    • @reesedaniel5835
      @reesedaniel5835 Před měsícem +3

      Yep. You are always the "bad" one, no matter what!! (According to the narc narrative).

  • @Cassie-pt7mt
    @Cassie-pt7mt Před měsícem +9

    You've described my Golden Child older sister.

  • @ninamontrosse5588
    @ninamontrosse5588 Před měsícem +15

    Facts.

  • @suriaprebavaratharajoo6866
    @suriaprebavaratharajoo6866 Před měsícem +8

    My mother in law was case on point to the T 😢. Thankfully she passed on at 91 last Dec 🎉

    • @MC-mk6gs
      @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem

      My ex mother and father in laws is as psycho as my ex, keeping it in the family so to speak

  • @user-qv9nw1dq2f
    @user-qv9nw1dq2f Před měsícem +5

    True. Spot on!

  • @etaokha4164
    @etaokha4164 Před měsícem

    My mother and my elder sister. I saw her in town centre looking miserable and depressed . I just walked pass and continued my destination not offering a single word

  • @robeastwood2093
    @robeastwood2093 Před měsícem +2

    Thanks Jill. Such clarity and wisdom with the way you deliver this stuff. The best.

  • @MC-mk6gs
    @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem +4

    I have two female narc daughter's

  • @MC-mk6gs
    @MC-mk6gs Před měsícem +3

    I have just left my male narc defacto😞

  • @jacintoj7893
    @jacintoj7893 Před měsícem

    My mom and sister... They sabotage stuff on the sly under the guise of competition and jealousy.

  • @marycampeau9378
    @marycampeau9378 Před měsícem +8

    when did you meet my sister?

  • @realbaddie8421
    @realbaddie8421 Před měsícem +1

    Thank u

  • @mariefaulkner1940
    @mariefaulkner1940 Před měsícem +4

    My mother

  • @michelepascoe6068
    @michelepascoe6068 Před měsícem

    Yes

  • @melkerner
    @melkerner Před měsícem +1

    My Mother.

  • @jessmason2112
    @jessmason2112 Před měsícem

    ✌️😎💯