DO NARCISSISTS TREAT THE NEW SUPPLY BETTER? Is the Narcissist Happy with the new supply?
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- čas přidán 4. 08. 2024
- If the narcissist in your life is flaunting a new supply shortly after your breakup, you might be wondering if narcissists treat the new supply better. And that leads us to the next question: Is the narcissist happy with the new supply? In this video, we answer both of those questions with an explanation on what's really going on with the narcissist's new supply.
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the narcissist treated you nicely until he didn't. they have just one speed. what the new supply has is temporary. just like you. don't envy them; don't be jealous. it's a waste of emotion. concentrate on you. leave the misery behind. look for the peace you deserve.
True. Everything is black or it's white ❤🙏
You paraphrased what I say to myself all the time. "It was fun while it was fun, and then it wasn't" Unfortunately "wasn't" was the reality.
sophie morrison 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
sophie morrison I love how you put your words 💯
@@CommonEgo what if their new supply is an overt narcissist and makes a decent amount of money? My ex narc left me because her and her family are broke and money is a dire essential for them. He lives in a different state and flies her out or will fly out to her. He get's to have his space and other women while shoveling a little money for another woman on the list
The new supply will be treated the same, eventually. They DO NOT change.
Narcissist are very dependent on others for happiness! They CANNOT be alone! They don't know how!!!!
This is true, they are serial daters most of the time. Moving on quickly, I ignored the red flags from her friend who told me she always needed to have a guy in her life for validation and self worth.
My EX would reminded me constantly how she was always lonely, and miserable when I wouldn't stay the night. She would remind me she always feels lonely and sad even after we had amazing day together.
If you truly know how the narcissist operates, you'll know that they cannot be happy at all! They are NOT happy with the new supply. They weren't happy with you. They are just unsatisfied individuals, incapable of connection and love.
You're channel blew up! Very Happy for you!!! Awesome!
I think that's probably one of the first things that's obvious. They *really* aren't happy people.
And thank you! Love your channel too! Congrats on the 2k milestone ❤🙏🎉
Thanks to you both for your channels. So much valuable information for us in this community ❤️❤️ Much love and healing to us all. Please keep the videos coming, they are so valuable and helpful!!!!
At the core, they are unhappy with themselves. And the only thing that makes them feel better is making you feel bad.
And its all your fault why she wasn’t happy. Nothing she did or didn’t do made her unhappy.
The lie i was also told.
I talked to my ex on the ph three weeks ago before i went no contact. And yes she is not happy. Has got nothing, yet.,
Her old guy new target is not treating her like a god
Yet.
But they sure pretend well...
I was literally crying my eyes out when I was watching this video. The narc and his new supply 'seem' so happy and loved up on social media and it absolutely broke my heart... so glad I watched this video. It made me feel comfort and reminded me that he will never change and he is not in love
Same here!!! And he never posted me on social media all 3 years we were on and off. I don’t think he’s posting her but she has their relationship all over her page. Little does she know, I her blocked voicemails and calls from his daily asking to see me again and hook up. Complete fraud.
@@sarahford5532 Omg same! my ex posted me twice in four years 🙂 fuck them! She will learn his true ways eventually! we are free from abuse and a life of misery!!
@@sarahford5532 word. It's the worst...
I wish to give you a hug because I went and felt the sane way as you, but I live and let love fly free I live by that.
@@Ayixlia ❤️❤️❤️
I went no contact for two year. The narc moved onto a new supply who he termed “his princess”. She got income cars and jewelry. One day we made contact to settle a health insurance issue. He told me all about her. I was jealous but didn’t let on. Before I knew it he was hovering me back and I fell if for no other reason but damage control for the financial chaos he was causing. One of the things that hurt me was a poem he wrote to her that was sensitive and deep. Deeper then I ever witnessed. Today I found the poem on line. It was plagiarized. Typical.
lol plagiarized! I had a similar experience. my former spouse liked to write very romantic poems to catch his prey. I feel unhappy with myself for falling for it, but no contact works great. I just wish all his monkeys would get a clue!
Dwyane and Deanne Garman At last my husband had a heart attack and died. Talk about no contact.
Wooow sicko
They gave romantic song for his new supply on FB..n made that new supply feeling as princes.. She mocked there
They are not particularly smart or talented, so of course he stole a poem and claimed it as his own. They are thieves in every sense.
Living well is the best revenge
Its so hard because my kids go over her house on weekends and always come back with a story buy im praying for healing
Yessss
Whenever you are feeling bothered by thoughts of the new supply, take a mind adventure to the past, to the beginning of your relationship with the narcissist. Remind yourself how great you felt initially and then remind yourself of how you are feeling *right now*. Remind yourself of all the things that happened to make you feel how you feel right now, of how your dreams turned to dust.
And know that the new supply will now have to learn the same lessons you did. There is nothing to be jealous or envious of here - just compassion and empathy for the devastation the new supply will ultimately endure.
Amen
This is a great comment. It went from 100 down to zero in two years.
this is so true, but u know, I can't help but blame myself for the failure of our relationship. My ex said that if I had acted a certain way and hadn't had sex with him too early in the relationship, he wouldn't have disrespected me and would've treated me better. I kinda believe him but I have my doubts, I low key don't know what's real and who's to blame anymore
@@anya4304 They will say whatever they have to in order to hit a nerve with their blame-shifting. "If only this, if only that" - don't listen to a word of it. It comes back to him - "if only he was more respectful, if only he treated you the way that you deserve to be treated". You are not to blame for his shitty behaviour, so please redirect it back to its rightful owner.
Be kind to yourself. Always. :)
@@anya4304 part of their game. Its just to hurt you and fill you with self doubt and take the focus of of THEM. You are wrong, do NOT blame yourself. Nothing was real. Nothing will ever be real for them, you have to pity them.
People have to remember that it's a never-ending cycle for the narcissist. It's just part of the patter that they repeat over and over again. Narcissists can't just move on. They have to always seek out attention from older sources of supply to build up their low self esteem. Also, the narcissist is ALWAYS in need of supply. They can never be alone. They are weak and butthurt individuals!
Omg yess exactly! Just went through this🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
💯 Down right true!
My one has no close friends. She is so low self esteem she took advice from an old couple, without telling them the full story. It was dumb what she has done in my opinion. I will sit back and watch the train wreck unfold.
Bad times are coming. Not just for her.
And I don’t want her back after what she did and said to me.
Am happy when she left she took my family demons with her.
Very try im still in the hurt process and why her and not me but I'm slowly adjusting to its all bs this new girl and it's now her crazy
@@lenda211 why her and not me? Keep reminding yourself...she's the one getting cheated on and lied to. Don't buy into the illusion. Behind closed doors he is giving her the silent treatment and disrespect. Bet he's on his phone watching porn and ignoring her. So think thank God it's not you. You deserve better.
trying to explain this to people make you sound crazy and delusional because they never been through this .
That's can be true! I wouldn't go out of my way to explain it to someone who hasn't seen it firsthand. It's too hard for people to understand the mind of the narcissist, and it's much easier for them to believe you're exaggerating. But most of us here have seen it and experienced it, and we know you're not crazy. It's straight out of their playbook ❤🙏
Common Ego thank god I am not alone!
@@FROSTYFEET874 Hey...trust me Karnell, your far from alone here and it's totally mind blowing just how many other's are going through similar horrendously debilitating and heartless situations likewise.
Obviously we've all heard of Narcissism, but I'd no idea so many even exist out there & the untold damage and purposeful heartbreak they are causing & yet just walk away and keep on starting over again & again.
I swear they are soulless monsters in a fake human body!!!
Take good care of yourself and any genuine loved one's!!!
Fastereft.com may help recovery also a fab Neuroscientist called Dr. Joe Dispenza is worth looking up!
shalowm 🌈🙂👍💜
Angie Jackson thank you
Angie Jackson thank you so much honestly , really have been a tough couple of months but what makes this so weird and unusual this isn’t the first time I was discarded but like the 2 or 3rd time . She never sees what she does wrong but loves to point the finger at you.
happy to be out of this ...
It's a great feeling 🙏❤
God bless you for having the strength and wish you nothing but the best moving forward
It’s all games. It’s so sad that narcs live that way. They are sad and depressed, anxious and stressed out, but in denial about all of it for their whole life. Keep no-contact everyone
Great advice for anyone who can swing it! ❤🙏
That is the most concise summary ever. Perfect. I think that troubled nature was always visible; drawing the "white knight" inside us into a rescue mission. Lesson learnt.
Imagine your whole life as a never ending defense mechanism. We all use them. But we don't become them. A denial so strong that makes you behave like a lunatic (narcissistic rage) whenever you feel it threatened.
NO CONTACT ova here !
Hard to go no contact with kids
When I broke up with my narcissistic ex, not even a month passed he already found new supply. He portrayed his new relationship as this "amazing" thing. He posted about her and bragged about her. But honestly little did he know that I actually don't feel sad at all about that. Because I know that his new relationship is just his try to make me feel sad and jealous. Why would I be? I literally found myself, educated myself, learned to set boundaries with people, learned what toxic people look like, learned how to love myself and respect myself. Nothing to regret about an abusive relationship
More love and power to you I just did the same !
@@kaylacharles4930 I am so proud of you, you can do it!
Naidza Sky thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing. I am in a good space finally and this gives me hope🙏🏽
He don't post her on social media but he do try to introduce her to are kids and keep bringing her up to his family and want everyone to meet her which indicates to me he's very much into het and has fallen in love what's bothering me is how fast he jumped in this relationship when we was together the entire 5 months we was separated we was very much still together he would invite me over say he miss me and then boom he cut off all contact and started telling people he in a relationship keep in mine prior before are separation we was married for 25 yrs so while its hard for me to move on and I'm still emotionally invested not because of my history with this man but to know through are 5 month separation he kep playing in my face telling me we can work on us and inviting me over for meals conversations and making me think he was very much still interested when in reality he has moved on but had me on the side in case it didn't work out with his new supply so I don't know if he's really happy if she's a rebound or if he's really inlove or was just using me until he was ready to be with her dud he really love me?? Why was it so quick for him to throw me away and completely cut off all contact he barley reach out to are kids anymore he's a completely different person he went out and brought all new clothes foot wear new phone he did a complete make over and for the 25 yrs I been with him he refused to ever wear any name brand sneakers or clothes im struggling with so many questions why?? How and I will never get closure because he told me it was all my fault he been hurting and unhappy for 25 yrs he been with me but the last 5 months of are separation he told me he missed me loved me and invited me constantly to his home even got mad sometimes when I would decline
My narcissistic ex, started another relationship when we were still together. After the break up I could see from afar that the relationship was a mess. But still something in me was telling me “what if thy are actually happy,” “what if he is actually changing” as the new supply kept saying. However, a few months after they broke up and the new supply came to me cause they wanted to talk about everything that has happened in their relationship. It turns out that my ex was driving them crazy. Their relationship was a fast and furious version of mine. Since the beginning they had a lot of labs for tris together and stuff. But things started to fall apart almost since the beginning. The was more gaslighting, more irritability, less respect for boundaries than in my relationship. I’m not going to lie hearing the new supply story gave me relief and closure!
He wanted me to stick around and fight for him, I ran away as fast as I could.
I did the same with my ex gf. They are very sick ppl.
Same here
Mine was furious that I did not stick around and was the one to petition for divorce almost immediately upon discovering his infidelity.
@Katrin Hoffmann my husband cut my credit cards cut my cell phone closed the joint accounts to hold the money out so I could have nothing
His main aim was to prevent me from getting a lawyer and to starve me out to force me to comply with his alimony demands but my twin sister sent me money and I now have a very good lawyer who is an expert at dealing with narcissists thank God
@@sylviaking8866 mine blamed me for everything
That Narc no longer has any starring role in my life....not even a BIT part, he walked in and was told to walk off. I’m the STAR of my life not some circus clown.
Amen
Got one already it’s tore me up
I dated a narcissist about 6 years ago. We broke up twice, and each time, he had a new girlfriend in about a week. And I don't even think he was cheating either - just that he had an addiction to love and attention. I thought I would never feel good about myself back then, but I've gone all in on my healing since, and today I feel happier and more confident than ever. Hang in there everyone, healing is possible and it's coming your way!
Thank you so much for this post! It is helping me get through this Christmas. Broke up September of 21, Left Dec. 12th 21, Last Contact (an accident he showed up to my ex husbands and was shooed off eventually) anyway been NO Contact since July 22, the pain IS starting to pass finally, but still struggling with the aftermath of the abuse. So thank you for these words of encouragement!
It is always a game with narcissists. They don't ever change and believe me what they did to you they WILL do the the next.
it's a game for sure. my ex overt narc used to tell me "the one who cares more, loses." what a sicko. he was infatuated with WINNING at all cost. he went on to get multiple new "supplies" until his early death. karma got him! i have no doubt.
@@fooled_twice4668 how'd he die
@@joey_youtube he started going schizoid- alone in most ways- plus he had alcohol abuse, probably narcotic abuse, bad hips requiring surgery followed by falls, multiple hip infections, a post-op complication, anoxic brain injury, then another 4 years in nursing homes. seriously ironic, as he had been an orthopedic surgeon in life! he literally self-destructed. and alienated his wife (me) then our 3 kids as his ship sank.
@@fooled_twice4668 holy fucking christ BABAHAHAHAHA THIS MAN WENT THROUGH LIKE 10 PEOPLE'S KARMA JESUS FUCK
I feel sorry for the narcs ex before me. I see how she felt after they broke up and he moved onto me after one months. I was just being used to make her jealous.
Yep we unknowingly perpetuate pain.
I actually "bonded" with my narc's ex-boyfriend to learn how he dealt with the smear campaign. She'd been running the same smear on him for years that she was now running on me. I told him "I think she's cluster B", and he chuckled and told me all about it....he had become a walking encyclopedia on this subject. Now her new supply is a former friend of mine, so that's how she tried to hurt me- by taking away a friend circle. I have her blocked on social media so can't see them doing anything to trigger me. He should be joining our little club soon, although he's lasted a bit longer than I have
Im the ex who put aware to the new girl, of my covert narc but they are calling me crazy, I just left that as it is and move on...she will learn with experience!
I apologized to her. I really felt bad. She was one of the people that helped me move on and to feel better. She knew what I was feeling. She helped me a lot.
Exactly
It looks like they are treating them better and giving them everything you thought you wanted from the narcissist, because they are doing it to get under your skin. But like with you, they can never be happy because they don’t even like themselves and they are empty.
The more the NARC gives them, the more they will lose in the end and aftermath of the relationship, they give and get supply, they take each thing and destroy it for the negative fuel and supply !
I also think that the really intelligent ones learn and up their game with each victim. My ex definitely has psychopathic tendencies. He’s very controlled and plans things out. It’s like a game of chess with him.
I definitely agree..... And foolish me taught him so much about narcissism.... Guess what is more dangerous than a narc??
An educated narc.....
HD Tudor states that the average narc does what they do as defense mechanisms or instinct. There are those who know who they are and what they do and they don't care how they impact others. The rest act out of instinct that they developed as children to get a small percentage of the needs the adults in their lives were not meeting met. Do to George Simmons material I had adopted the belief Narcs knew exactly what they were doing and did it on purpose. I think there are those who indeed do, but the large number of them do not. I do think they do know what has worked to get them their way and they do some things with the knowledge, but it's more because they are entitled to get their way and have things there way because their way is so superior. They are aware that society doesn't approve of their behavior, but that's because society just understand.
Yessss!!! I agree, manipulation at it's finest!
You made such a profound point when you said "he may treat the new supply better because there's some benefit there for him". I remember when I was dumped out of the blue for someone else. I almost died, all I kept asking was where was this person all the time we where talking, what does she have that I don't? I had so many questions and no answers all he would do is stonewall and try to even shift blame to me. It blew my mind when I saw him put up pictures of them or her on his social media, I mean as far as I knew just a minute ago I was his everything I had no idea there was anyone on his radar. Then 6 months in they got married, all their friends and family congratulating them, I was so devastated. She was getting everything I wanted. And I didn't even know anything about narcissism but I started looking up the way I was being treated in order to understand what was happening to me, the lack of empathy especially. That's when I learned that what he was doing to me had names like gaslighting, stonewalling, blame shifting. But he wanted this person to file for him to migrate to another country. So she filed thinking she was chosen because she was better. The marriage lasted 1 year, 4 months after he landed he dumped her and later divorced her. Now he's dating other people and I suppose that "wife" is now looking up videos about narcissism in order to understand just happened to her. But the people he's trying to date seem smart because one of them just dumped him citing "red flags". They don't seem to change and they don't treat anyone great unless there's something in it for them.
Omg same as my experience
Same. I learn that too. I was like I'm way prettier and smarter than this clown. They always go for downgrades sometimes. My thing was she did real estate and she wasn't really good at it what I seen not to say just because. I just could tell from the editing and stuff. Yes I was the why and what was he thinking? But, it all started to make sense now. Do not get me wrong some can make good money and some don't make good money but, settle what they got. She settles what she got and she already had 4 to 5 kids before then. She was looking for a figure for her kids. She pick the wrong one. He only using her for a place to stay because I kicked him out. Plus, she believes his lies. She end up pregnant like a fool she is acting like they happy now? He abandoned the kids he had and she knew about me before I knew she even existed. She was a side. 🤔 A back up plan he not into but, uses when needed like the rest. He also, had 3 kids before me and I had one. We had two later on. I found out I was pregnant he knew and didn't bother to help out but, play fake family with her now. It's wild. I hope she knows she a homewrecker and he ain't nothing. He uses her for things he needs and now act like he has a business all of a sudden? He is using her. She will learn. I'm free from it. Thank you moron. Me and my kids will just be fine. Who's laughing now. Don't be surprised he leave one day and get more fools like you pregnant. I had to learn the hard way. She knew better then I did. She knew about me and knew not to get involved.
Years ago, in grade school, there was a girl who always brought a bag of candy to school and she would pick out someone from amongst a group standing around her and share the candy with her/him while those of us stood around begging her for a MOJO or a Sweet Tart. She got off on it. That's what narc's are like. Narc's are pathetic individuals. You don't need a narc's "candy".
That's an accurate description. Except narc candy is more like those BeanBoozled jelly beans. They look normal on the outside, but after a bite or two you realize you got swindled 😅
Their candy rots your teeth in nanoseconds
i’m 2 years free, i’ve learned so much and moving on. yet if i think of the way he ended us i still can’t get over the feelings of shock. it was the most heartless heartbreaking brutal thing i’ve ever experienced. it’s true what they say when the mask comes completely off. i saw the devil.
our community was in the midst of 2 natural disasters back to back, many people had died, our home was in the evacuation zone. he walked out while i was frantically packing to leave with a mountain behind me on fire. i went alone. 2 weeks later he came to one of the funerals, with his new girlfriend.
i am truly sorry for her, these people are pathological predators that cause devastation and pain and can ruin lives.
That's incredibly heartless. I'm sorry you went through that ❤🙏
Common Ego 🙏🏻thank you. i’m just so grateful to be free from him. never again!
Inbelievable, stay strong!
Rositsa Росица thank you💖 🙏🏻i am surprised to say i am! and grateful for the most difficult lesson, now i know it’ll NEVER happen again.
@@Alpinewild444 Well Done You "wildflower" 🌹🌈😍you can be very proud of what you've achieved!!!
Much Love 💝
I recall in the beginning my x saying to me how he would treat me so good that it would make others envious. I thought it was strange
Oh wow..mine said the very same thing...strange indeed..didn’t realize it then though..”I was being love bombed”..better believe I’m FULLY AWAKE NOW..and I’m also Divorcing that.
@@alesiafoster7750 yes, me too, divorcing after 26 yrs of lies. I know, I should have done it years ago but did not know there was a name for his abuse until after final breakup. They need to educate college students. Mandatory!!
yep mine always reminded me how good he treated me and how I won't find anyone to treat me as good
@@user-cf4jj8gb8p my ex said the same thing to me. Wow
I remember how angry the ex boyfriend acted towards me, and her.
She told me they had broken up, but he, like me now, would never have had closure.
Perhaps I expect, she been sleeping with him while she found me.
I'm so thankful for these series of videos. To understand what happened, and to be prepared for what's coming.
I'd have never believed someone could treat a lover so cruel.
at the end of our 35 year marriage, he told me he was only happy a few times during that time. While I recognize that we shouldn't rely on other people for our happiness, his condescending dismissal of me, telling me that "I shouldn;'t look to him for my happiness" chilled me to the bone. I realized then he never was happy and will never be happy.
The most healing act to take after a discard and/or break up either way from a narcissist, is to unfriend and either block or go silent. Don’t peek! Ever. Not knowing, not looking - this is so healing. This is the only way to have the last word with the narcissist and find closer. The only way. Keeping tabs is like pouring salt on a painful wound. Another way to speed up healing is to get out of the head where the rumination and addiction keeps one trapped. When painful withdrawals occur, transfer the pain to body and let the waves wash through U. Allow the temptation to text, call and/or peek at social media to pass and give it time . . . An hour or a few hours. You will realize that you are sooo thankful you didn’t give in. Little by little the healing happens. This is exactly like an addiction to overcome.
Thank you
He married his new supply that has 6 kids. He is 64..shes 42.
Bought a huge new home, car, etc. I know she will eventually pay for all of what he does for her especially since she is who he cheated on me with. Good luck....you got what you deserve.
This is helpful bc I still have cognitive dissonance issues.
My ex-husband married a woman he met while she was in medical school. He was in his 40s, with two kids, and in the middle of a child-custody trial. I feel so sorry for her, because I know he will destroy her. I am just thankful that when she is there, he pretends he is the perfect father, and thus treats my children better. She is now 28; he is 46.
It's so crazy how consistent these patterns are.
I just wish I would have never met this person. But I the same time it was a learning experience.
When my therapist told me he was lucky to have had me for as long as he did, and move on. With that one sentence I was able to cut the cord and realize that she was 100% right. I just had a narcissist that ghosted me 6 years ago reach out, of course I blocked him. He is still searching and always will be, they are to be pitied.
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"Don't fall into the trap". "Stand back and watch objectively" You diffused my emotional thinking with this. I super needed this today, thank you
i do. its easier to do this by sticking to no contact. & its easier to listen to her when she doesnt act like shes got sneaky alterior motives. easier but its still hard. me kind of... letting him & his fam. treat me like crap, now i just dc how his mom reacts when i keep my residency private. im not being crazy. its crazy to enable your son when u know hes been abusive in all the above ways. ill never forget the day when she asked me to do more of my part +and told me thats what it was like being a woman, a wife. i told her dont ever dare me what its like to be a woman when u couldnt ever teach your sons to be men. but im sure she had no part in that 1. if i wanted to be real ugly i shouldve said is thats y are your marriages failed? bc even tho id like to think im completely cut off & independent from my toxic family i def still think they affect me in alotta ways i didnt even see coming. like if they can make it work, sh anyone could. & even tho i dont like them tho, i do admire the courage they always had to face adversity. mustve been scary. but i guess when ur kids turn out to be like u... in ways. anyways, im just so bad at bold face lying, me in the moment, trying to be vague: describes what the whole damn n.hood looks like. & its like in the middle of no where ... :/ is that throw offish enough? bc i still said the city, ugh. i know his mom legit wont keep her mouth shut even if she claims she does. shes just the horrible liar type that cant even keep up w/ her own bs. the main thing for me is that i had a baby w/ this d.bag. anything relative to my innocent baby is like wth can i even do w/ out collecting charges? bc in all truth, thats the only tie i have to these toxic ppl .. if i didnt have this baby i wouldve been long gone not even bothering w/ his mom & them. unfortunately, im stuck thinking about these ppl for the rest of my life. as far as the other woman .. girl! she really ignorantly thought that by saying well youre the 1 whos stuck w/ him lol, was some come kind of knock. like youre a damn knock off is what u r. wearing stuff i threw to the side, listening to his same lines he prob tells everyone, giving him the experience hell prob ignorantly gain to use on someone else... bc no, were not actually all the same. so like what youre implying is that youre ignorantly desperate & easy, right? bc not sure which direction youre going w/ that. i bet it is easier "being" w/ her ... but good luck w/ that anyways. shes such a creep to me. no 1 asked rapey vibes. my kid would hate her, duh. like her own predictably will. bc as far as my side, my pov of things, them kids r not mine! i have enough of my actual Own responsibilities, you prob really wouldnt ever want to leave your kids w/ me knowing how they (him & her) operate. im not heartless but ill see it for what it actually is. stranger kids. id leave them at a daycare or shove em in a box at the fire dpt or something :/. im just overdue ranting now but im so sick of em. id be lying if i said i never had thoughts of just burning the bridge on them entirely. like im a runaway kid. this isnt new to me... yeah i can get caught up in my head. what my next move is tho... theyll find out .. hahaha w/ a hunded wives & kids tho. like nah dawg, send them to that cult place. like johava witnesses or wever. bc im out. these other bishes, more the power to ya .. bc yall deserve each other, truly. its laughable to me, the masks.
OMG!!!!!! My ex husband of 23 years just got married yesterday and our divorce isn't a year old. I found this video this morning and it answered nearly ALL my questions and gave me a sudden sense of peace, self-approval, and so much more. I was once the pawn, myself, and didn't even remember; but reflecting back, now I see it. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! Let the healing begin!!!!!!!!!
My husband moved on while we were separated. Didn’t bother to get a divorce. I had to divorce him
Same here, boyfriend of 18 years is marrying not even a year after our separation… he abused me badly the last 10 years. Ive been so depressed about this but after watching all theese clips I feel sorry for the new girl.
Yep new supply was already being groomed even before the divorce proceedings started. Got the divorce in April he married in May. Pathetic parasites.
Same omg she's great right on time
Just think about how it was in lovebomb.. yes they are being treated "perfect"... for now.. as soon as that supply completely lets their guard down and feels secure it will stop and they will go through the confusion, the bizzare health issues, then comes the devalue and they could be stuck in that god knows how long before discard and we all know those parts are not pretty, so whats to envy.. a temporary high that is destined for hell?
The most difficult battle (for me) is figuring out why I didn't see, or act on the red flags, how I bought into the most ridiculous gaslighting explanations, how I reconciled contradictions in her narratives, how I smoothed over gaps between words and actions. Yes, it was crazy-making (that word again) but I thought that it was me. That I was being sensitive and overthinking. That all that Law of Attraction stuff meant that I was responsible for my own 'negativity'. If only I could be more 'positive'. Regaining control of my cognitive abilities has been tough, but such a worthwhile battle. In fact, it was (and is) essential.
Same. It's a fine line between taking ownership for your role and taking responsibility for things you don't own. And when you're trauma bonded, that line is very blurry ❤🙏
@@CommonEgo thank you for that! Yes it was trauma bonding even though it was a long-distance relationship, meeting perhaps 8 days a month. I tied to break it off probably 6 times over the year. But she did just enough to keep me trapped. That juju was powerful stuff!
The problem is that the individual who is showing up is so far different then the person in the love bombing stage who we thought was a real individual, and the decline into devaluation is a slow one, with minor small incidents that seem so tiny and inconsistent with who we know them to be we explain away the behavior as accidental. We all know that at times we are inconsistent, and we so want to believe the person we thought them to be that to resolve the cognitive dissonance we explain away things, until finally the behavior is so inconsistent it hits us like a ton of bricks and we can see everything clear as night and day. What I've learned is if someone is treating me in a way that is stressful, regardless of the reason why ( abuse, bad childhood), I need to cut them from my life or give them a wide birth by not allowing them to be part of any type of intimate relationship. That was my bad explaining away the last narcs behavior due to her "childhood abuse."
The narc picked you! They picked you because you are a strong, good, kind, caring, empathetic person. Because you were a very good supply for them. Yes, you must look at your part in it. Whatever it may be. I will tell you though. If you were only in the relationship for a year. Thank whoever it is you pray to man!!! And consider yourself very lucky! I spent 7 years with a Covert narc. And she destroyed my life in every way possible, before a truly horrible discard. Remember , especially with a Covert narc, that the good traits in you will attract a narc. Because they don't posses those traits, or the ability to cultivate them. And the person they presented to you wasn't a real person. Only bait, to convince you to care for them. If you are a good trusting person. You wouldn't think of doing anything like that. And therfore, don't typically consider someone else to be doing that to you! Hope you're doing well.
@@barthk3640 I spent 6yrs and have 2 kids and was engaged and I felt every word they will fuck you up
He took her to Dubai and when I was on a trip with him, he was flirting with other women on phone and in hotel and didn't touch me once. He's also told me stories about their intimacy & how kinky they are together.. & expected me to unconditionally love him.
U are gorgeous n deserve better
They like to rub the new person in your face. He sent me a text a couple of weeks after moving out to let me know that he had meet someone new and they were so much happier. They were married a couple of months after that. I feel so sorry for her, she had no idea she was inviting a demon into her home. I hope she wakes up to her reality but they have a kid now so who knows. Great video! Excited for a trauma bonding video as that is my favorite topic! I really think everyone should have education on trauma bonds.
It's so sad when kids are involved, but I'm glad to hear you're out. I find the trauma bond fascinating too. Wild how this all works ❤🙏
What is trauma bonding?
@@lilaclavender1989 The video went out yesterday, so you can watch for an explanation ❤🙏
Thank you i'm actually watching the video right now!
@@lilaclavender1989 awesome... hope you like it! ❤
Nope not my crazy anymore, but I have to say sitting back and watching has been interesting. It makes me so thankful I’m out and I have really good real life. Watching him live his best fake life makes me feel sad and the new supply has no idea what is coming down the pike at her.
That backend hell.. Big price to pay
are we even talking about a person ? or the devil himself? This is sick, how can a person exploit another to such an extent? 😔
Watching this, I'm convinced that the guy I used to date before is really a narcissist. After such a very small misunderstanding, and not able to lend him money like what I used to before, he left me with a new supply. Did everything we planned with her, leaving me feeling like a garbage 😪😔..until now I am still healing. Please pray for me
Hope you better now
Same happened to me refused to lend him money like usual then he left
I’m going through it now I don’t have social media but I find myself just trying to find out what’s going on why was I not enough if I gave my all . I’ve just started watching these videos and I’m learning slowly thank you !
I was dating a narcissist for about six months until it started to seem as though everything I did would annoy or anger her. One day I brought to her attention the fact that we weren't getting along like we used to and she blamed me for it. I told her that I felt that our relationship was toxic and I was breaking up with her. Unfortunately, it took an additional six months and a restraining order to get her out of my life completely. Breaking up with a narcissist is a difficult task and you have to do it very carefully.
That's true, and I'm glad to hear you're out now 🙏❤
This is known as calling their bluff. Narcissists need to blame someone for their own self loathing. Once the victim realizes the narcissist seems to hate everything about them they suggest the only sensible thing to do which is end the relationship. The narcissist can't have that. They need a scapegoat.
It's really crazy when you think about it. The narcissist needs a person to fill a specific role as human punching bag because they can't face themselves.
Does anyone else feel like she lived your exact relationship, or is it just me? 95% of what she talks about (only 3-4 videos in), is what I have lived for the past 4.5 years. I'm in disbelief.
Because all narcissists are following the same pattern that’s why they are so predictable and can easily read them if you look closer!
Thanks for this Christina. I was in a situationship with my “bestfriend” for 7 years where it was a one sided love from my side. He discarded me last year for someone new he met a month ago. It’s almost a year now and its hard seeing them post and act all loved up. Makes me wonder how come I didnt get that despite me giving him everything, and what does she have that I dont. He took her to our secret spot where we used to meet which I specifically told him not to take her and seeing him take her to our spot in his stories, it broke something in me today. It’s hard and wish the pain would just stop.
Currently going through this! My ex boyfriend for 2 years is dating a ex coworker of mine! He brought her over to his family a month after we broke up. He cheated on me numerous times! That is his new supply because she runs right behind him like a sad puppy. He uses her and this confirmed that
How did he even get you in the first place? What qualities did you fall for?
Not my circus. Not my monkeys! Fits very well with the conclusion of this.
I needed to hear this. My soon to be ex husband's new Girlfriend is posting their happy couple pics all over SM. We've only been separated for 2 mos after 25 years of marriage and manipulation by a covert narc. Today was the first day I haven't cried. He's basically reliving our life, our haunts, our favorite places and activities with his new supply..
I’m so sorry. Check out Rejoice Marriage Ministries or Standers United for another page that’s helped me.
That makes me sad. I hope you are doing better now.
@@amyw4216 much better!
@@BC-dm5bi Glad to hear it!💕
I’m writing this a year later and went through exactly the same thing this year. Social media is his playground and he just married his affair partner. I’ve been learning about NPD for 6 months and I’m finally letting go of the trauma bond. Bottom line: the new supply is with HIM! I know him and he’s moody and an alcoholic with sex/porn addictions. I’d never wish to be in her place. She wanted him so bad,,,,, she won! 🤣
The narc ex in my life took up with a woman who lives just down the hall from me, so I have a front row seat to their antics. I'm thinking the first discard should be coming soon but this woman is so needy that she will suffer anything and everything to keep him. Starting to pop the popcorn as this is going to be a doozy.
It's such a great feeling when you can sit back with the popcorn because it means they're out of your life ❤🙏
@@CommonEgo Yes it is. I've been enjoying the lies they're putting out. I also just saw him as I was walking to a friends apartment next to the new supply, and he turned and watched me walk down the hall for a few moments. They are so predictable and they totally underestimate us
@@warriorempathshealingfromn5625 so incredibly predictable!
Ugh, I'd move. Even if it doesn't bother you, why would one want to remain in the same physical proximity as a narc. They're like a black cloud hovering.
@@aquariusrising7019 Yes, I should but my 92 year old father has an apartment here and that is why I am still here. This narc is nefarious and he has many flying monkeys here. I have been harassed, verbally attacked by these individuals and as of Sunday I realized that he has manipulated a mentally disabled woman to use a key for my apartment that went missing about a month and a half ago to come into my apartment when I'm gone. This woman has stole 2 debit cards from me in 2 seperate episodes. My inhaler and some hand cream went missing about a month ago and the inhaler suddenly appeared in plain site on Saturday night. I had my new debit card on Friday evening and on Sunday when I was out I noticed it was gone. This woman has been going in when I am doing laundry and or when I am at my dads or visiting a friend in the building. Locks were changed yesterday, I called the police when I noticed the new card missing again but of course I am not believed by the police but they took the report and suggested I get a order of protection and management has now assured me that I can brake the lease under these circumstances. It certainly is unfair that I need to move again because of this asshole and his flying monkeys but I am looking and tying to figure out what the best answer is for me. I feel violated and they are not using the debit cards they are doing this to play mind games and keep me unbalanced. My father is unwilling to move so even if I move I will have return almost daily to make sure he is ok. These narcs are sick, sick SICK.
Imo new supply is just a means to an entitlement of immediate gratification that quickly dissolves. Rinse off, resupply, narc disappointed again. Building object constancy is not possible nor the rewards of it.
The narc thinks with each new relationship that maybe they have met the perfect person. They take a snapshot of us in their mind of that perfect person, and from then on they relate to that perfect snapshot of who they believe us to be. Inevitably the new supply ends up disappointing them, and showing them they are not the perfect person who will love them regardless of their horrible behavior.
@@brendakauffman2222 The comparison to that "snapshot" does happen early and that's when by any standard one is at their best. Not unrealistic, just well groomed, dressed, etc. Still the suggestions start yet I or we do not return the banter. Its impolite and usually and should be a turn off.
It may be why they keep a harem. A little bit of every personality and type. I kinda think the serial cerebral narc can reflect somewhat yet the habituality, probably ingrained from childhood of living on a pedestal has done them more harm than good. But I'm sure that's not their opinion, it's always everyone else inadequacies. But, you do get educated in the early clues not to miss again.
Part of no-contact was removing myself from social media altogether once his smear campaign erupted. Once you do that, they can't get at you. I haven't missed it a whit. I connect via email and in person. This and a protective order keeps him far away from me, howling in the wind. It's a very peaceful place.
The new supply lives next door to me. I can hear EVERYTHING that’s going on.
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Oh my god
Same here 😄😄🤪✌
Is it bad
Are they still together?
No they don't. I was a new supply and it was so terrible. It has scarred me for life.
What my covert narcissist ex partner does with her life I really don't care anymore. It was one big façade she performed. My ex is also someone who doesn't use social media because she acts 'under the radar'. Otherwise she will be exposed very quickly. It is sad that narcissists keep using (most of the time) honest people who want the best for the other in a relationship. I had a relationship for eight months but it felt in the end as if it was for five years or more. Certainly the last two months. What some experienced during a long life relationship with all the positive and less positive moments, I had them in eight months. I am so happy I have my life back. All it takes is to take a first step. It is your life. Good luck.
I'm so glad you've made it there. It's a great place to be 🙏❤
Was married to one for 26 years, and thought his behavior was "normal" until I caught him cheating. Then he turned everything back on me. I think I watched a different video of yours that described this. His new supply is so different from me. They do all the things I wanted to do with him, but never got to do. I LOVE the way you describe the new supply as a "pawn." Thank you for breaking this down in terms that I can understand.
Brenda Hoel I was married for 21 years to a narcissist. In less than 3 months had new pawn. In less than 6 months had bought a house together. I am pretty sure he was cheating on me cuz before we split he accused me of cheating. I didn’t put 2 and 2 together until later. But just wanted to comment that my ex and his new pawn are traveling around and going to places I wanted to go but we never did. Now I’m thinking he only held back traveling to hurt me cuz it was what I wanted to do. Now he is trying to hurt me by doing it with his new pawn. Maybe that’s what is happening to you too.
Same here Brenda, after 26 yrs, finally filed for divorce. I did not know this term narcissist until I threw him out. Thank goodness for these videos, now I know and can move forward. Peace
My ex has tried to keep it as secret as I can (he’s so sneaky) so he can try and keep me on the side as well - the new supply is someone I was cautious of when we were together and ended up being the reason we broke up because he thought I was ‘too paranoid and untrusting’ - I’m sure he is a narc but then little doubts creep in and I worry that maybe he isn’t and maybe it was just me 😭 maybe they will be happier 💔 I’m so glad I listened to my intuition but Jesus this hurts. 💔
This is so interesting. I was in a relationship with someone who, from watching your videos, was an ABSOLUTE covert narcissist, and I would block them on my social accounts so I could detox from them, but they would get so angry and challenge me on why I did that as if it was so unreasonable and immature. I would eventually unblock them after feeling bad, but they didn’t necessarily follow me. It was like they just wanted access to me and my life. And now that I have seen these videos, I realize they wanted to stay in my line of sight in order to stay on my mind, even if I wasn’t on theirs.
Im absolutely shocked and happy at the same time that I had found your work. Spot on, same scenario. I was destroyed emotionally and mentally for almost 8 months. Really really tough path. But I never stopped working on myself.
Good job!! Hope you are doing even better now❤
And unfortunately, my children are the long-term victims of this.
OH MY.....I wish I could hug you right now. Together 32 yrs and he left me for a girl 2 years older than his 1st born! I am just now beginning to recognize how narcissistic he is. I needed to hear this so much! Thank you for the validation! xxx
It is just a matter of time before the new supply is being treated as badly as you were during the discard.
Great explanation of THE TRAP that they are trying to bait you in, exactly! "All in your face" is what stings the most. Yet like you say, Cristina, be thankful you are not in that, you've been there before... You can walk away! Absolutely. Thank you for the reminder, and the importance of cutting any emotional connections to them & their crazy ; )
They treat them better temporarily. My narc ex-wife had trouble keeping a relationship when she dated locally, so she started doing long-distance relationships. That way they don't have time to really get to know her and that way the relationship lasts longer! It's easier to keep the mask on when you only see someone on weekends.
“My life is over here and it’s good.” 🤠
I thank you very much for posting these videos. I've been stuck in a loop with a narcissist for almost a year now and i'm finally learning about what's been going on.
I just found out that my ex is already in a relationship 🤣 weeks after we broke up, but I don't know why I cried 😂 maybe it's tears of anger hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 but literally deep inside of me I can finally say" I am fully aware now that it's the narcissist pattern" maybe his new supply thinks that she hit a jackpot but actually she found a piece of sh*t hahaha 😂😂 I feel stronger now because I am moving on without using someone , while him being in a new relationship right away so he don't have to deal with the heartache hahaha 😂😂 such a coward 🤣
Any update?
A great lesson I was taught, what you see on social media is a snapshot of what's really going on. It might only be 10% of the real story. It can also be staged or sending a message rather than a real reflection of that dynamic/experience.
Excellent! What a relief it is to stay feeling out of this mess,
This is one of the most helpful video I've seen. Thank you for sharing.
Wow I needed to hear this today, common era you are on point
So informative 👏. Thank you so much for this video. These types of videos are helping me recover from this severe narcissistic abuse. I am not jealous i feel bad for his new relationship.
you are such a lovely person and so strong and gifted!!!using your own experiences to hep others is so Devine!!! everything you say in your videos is so accurate and so helpful!!! am so blessed that i cam across your videos! its my job to treat personality disorders.....but as a natural empath getting involved with a true narcissist was such an amazing experience!!! no university can teach you what it really feels like to be in a relationship with these people.....thank God i stopped it sooner than later and i am still me!!! your experiences validate what i experienced and i can use it in order to help other powerful loving people to heal. thank you!!!!!!
Wow you have explained it so well!! Thank you for this video and helping us all!! I am definitely out and realized how horrible his behavior was and can’t believe I was stuck in it but so relieved I am out of the hell
This is so true . I’m not on social media and live in a totally different city - so he had no way , for months , of rubbing the new girlfriend in my face . 6 months after getting with her - he must have been desperate for me to see her or know her name . Which I never ever wondered or cared about . Then WHAM an email AND a what’s app on the same night .... ( new number obviously) ramming her name and face into my life when I’d not even spoken to him for months and was no contact . As I type that - it’s so obvious reading it what he was trying to do . It came with a cleverly written email , crafted to look like a response . Begging me not to break them up !?! I had not even contacted him and knew nothing of her ?!?? I couldn’t tell you if they’re still together or not . What I can tell you is - she was welcomed into his family in a way I was not . I now know that I was isolated from them because he’d told me so many lies about himself I could have said something and his mum or sister would have thought ‘what!??’ He lies from waking to sleeping and it made me go insane . Even faking stories and tears about a selling a house he actually hadn’t owned for many years . Lies lies lies .... I feel sorry for her if she’s still in it ..... because If she is ..... the mask is yet to slip. It slipped fast with me because I started answering back . Started questioning lies . Didn’t match to his beat ( said no to a marriage proposal in week 3). As I type this ...... I am in no doubt that I was dealing with a very needy , disordered , manipulative individual. I was just clever enough to know it . I came of my pedestal fast . The new girlfriend has much higher to fall than me ........ I hope she’s okay and isn’t sat there now absolutely wringing her hands or taking daily abuse and stalking . My being stalked stopped abruptly. Because she arrived as fresh supply . How can I possibly be wrong that this guy is a narcissist. And narcissists DO NOT CHANGE. Even if it’s 6 years from now - I could hear from that lunatic . It only takes for her to shun him for him to open his toy box to see who he can play with . He’s done it before with others before me. Once you’re out . Stay out !!!! Even if it’s years that have passed and they come crawling back . Never bend . 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
What was I thinking.......so true. You’re right. It is like being in an emotional haze. And it is a relief to get out of their drama. Thanks again. Not sure how you make crazy so easy to understand.
This was such an honest and reassuring video!!! thank you. You are right, they are still controlling us if we allow ourself to think about them.
You're wonderful. You are so empathic towards the victims of narcs, you have such an amazing understanding of how we feel. Easiest subscribe ever. TY so much!
I can’t tell you how much this video helped me 💗 thank you
This video is probably the best video I’ve ever seen about the situation. I wish I would’ve seen it last night when I saw social media. I couldn’t sleep all night but this has really put it into perspective. Thank you
Your vids are eye opening and helps knowing not alone. Saving my life one vid at a time. 🙏
Love your channel, your calm and gentle demeanor, and the way you explain things simply and clearly. Thank you.
Wow I just come across your channel and it's helped me so much , I have removed myself from all mine and his mutual Facebook groups but people still tell me about what he is posting with all his new women. Like you say it's a crazy game that I don't need to take part in because I am much more high value than that train wreck
I’ve been in such a bad space for the past month but watching your videos have helped me so much, I finally feel like I’m getting somewhere. You are amazing. Thank you ❤️
Any update?
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for your channel! I'm going through a spiritual awakening, and even after being in recovery, the childhood blockages still come up! I do think this is blocking me from abundance consistently because I keep getting pulled back by my ego or events in life. I ditched all my toxic frienships and relationships for good and can usually spot signs early and am learning to have better boundaries. Now I've realized I have to deal with a narcissistic colleague. 🤔.. this is very helpful and insightful. ❤🙏🏼
Your videos has explained all I need to know to help me move forward and feel more secure about my self, I am 5 weeks out and have no intentions of going back, thank you.
So well explained! Thank you so much! I am recovering from my recent discard and it’s so hard to deal with the fact that I’ve been deceived and my ex narc is supposedly happy with his new supply. Now I have a better understanding. 🙏
Wow! 😮 I wish I’d of come across these videos 3 months ago would of saved me many many tears!! My ex who after watching these is most certainly a narcissist left me 3 times in the 14 months we were together, 3rd time she didn’t come back (which I thank the lord for every day) within two weeks she was with someone else and it was all over social media, telling each other they loved each other a week later 🙄 absolute madness!!
Your trauma bond video also hit home to me and I still show a lot of signs of still having a trauma bond but your videos have definitely come to me at the exact time, the universe has been my biggest support throughout this time and I have no doubt they guided me to you ❤️🌎💫 thank you!
Such a fabulous video and very right! Thank you for your content. Subscribing now!
So helpful - thank you! Helped me not loose it tonight!
I remained "friends" with my nacisist, and she would text me saying for example "hey I'm talking about alchemy with my new partner, what do you think about the subject" or "hey, whats the name of that movie that you always talked about? We're looking for something to see". Everytime she did that it hurt me so much. At the beginning I thought that I was getting triggered too easily but now I realize that it was really fcked up...
sounds like she was trying to make you jealous & hurt you. With my ex narc-my pain was his pleasure
Thank you Christina. You are right that from a distance we see the crazy and luckily for us, it is not our problem to deal with any more.
This video makes sooooo much sense. Thank you ❤
When I'm done I'm done. O don't peek in to see who he's playing for a fool now. The only place he exists is on my phone. Not enough.
A narcissist never stops narcissistic traits when going new supply the narcissist observes their character type finding weaknesses where they could take control there they may alter narcissistic behavior rhythm and if they reconnect also previous source they usually try control both and play both against the other using both different character traits using demoralizing traits and gossip weaknesses it’s awful I had this with a ex partner and tried reconnecting as a friend thought it would work ok but it was awful he used to say his girlfriend is very lazy he was very heavily critical of her. He did same about me to her it wasn’t pleasant it’s very difficult to deal with that bombshell of the other. It was difficult to be friends with his girlfriend or his girlfriend to be friends with me but I was good with mindfulness I actually ignored his patronizing behavior play off his girlfriend was a good person she could cook good meals she wasn’t lazy she was had a mental disorder that she fear going out. I looked upon her from my own observance not his I see her differently from his version and could see clearly he was targeting a weaknesses area twisted it nature
You helped me a lot tonight! Thank you for your insights. ❤
Good luck, Rocky! You are warned.
We live in the same Apt Complex, he started dealing with a new supply who lives on the same floor that I live on, so I see them regularly. It was difficult at first, but after the past three months of studying and following Narcissist videos I've grown much stronger. I know now what really happened and what is happening now. Thanks for this video !
It is irrelevant how they are treating others, block them on social media, don’t keep up with what they are doing. Get them out of your life for good.
Thank you for being you. You do a great job at making videos 😊
Thank you so much, I will take as my new mantra … “ that is not my crazy “ … love it 🙏♥️
Thank you for your videos. This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning. I know it’s all a show and that he’s fake, but when I see a new picture of them or hear something I always worry that it was me and that he loves her more. I don’t know why I even care, but these videos help ground me and give me strength to keep moving forward 🤍
they dont even give a f about their own kids ... sad thing, mines going through her da da da da phase bc its just easier to say. but its like ahhhh, of course. why cant momma be easier to say. but everything about her is so precious, just her entire existence is stil just awww. baby babble. she switched to lala as i type this tho w/ rasberry bubbles in between ha