12 Habits EVERY Stoic Should Avoid to Become Your Best Self

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  • čas přidán 9. 04. 2023
  • Discover the 12 common habits that hold back even the most devoted Stoics from reaching their full potential. Avoiding these habits is essential to achieving your best self and living a truly virtuous life. Don't miss out on this insightful guide to becoming a better Stoic.
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Komentáře • 237

  • @genelbanks3212
    @genelbanks3212 Před 11 měsíci +305

    I have done everything wrong. Will strive to become better.

    • @Add_Account485
      @Add_Account485 Před 11 měsíci +8

      Me too.. find it strange like I'm being spied on that this video would even know... Ha ha ha

    • @dleonardo3238
      @dleonardo3238 Před 7 měsíci +8

      That's the right mindset!

    • @Grendel-td5nf
      @Grendel-td5nf Před 5 měsíci +1

      Me too

    • @MadBadSadAndGlad
      @MadBadSadAndGlad Před 5 měsíci +3

      Hey U have Not done ething wrong! We're human, not perfect & Evryone is entitled to make human mistakes.
      It takes time to become our confident selves when life can b v confusing all by itself, but we Adjust...
      Everyone cheeryeup!!
      It's Xmas Afterall.
      Let's make 2024 a little nicer perhaps??

    • @user-fj5bd6qt4c
      @user-fj5bd6qt4c Před 2 měsíci +1

      No one does everything wrong. We all make mistakes and sometimes bad ones. The trick is that God did not create us perfect but human. Life is our growing time into full bloom like a rose begins asa bud and ends asa glorious spectacle of scent and colour. The things we screw up for one reason or the other, are the thorns on our way to blooming. You will bloom too! Just give yourself time and ask friends to support you on your journey. Sending a hug of support.

  • @WisdomLight-of6st
    @WisdomLight-of6st Před 11 měsíci +133

    "Success is not in what you have, but who you are."

  • @user-fh5pc9md3z
    @user-fh5pc9md3z Před 6 měsíci +14

    COURAGE, TEMPERANCE, JUSTICE, and WISDOM

  • @FromageFantasy
    @FromageFantasy Před 9 měsíci +6

    A lot of good ideas packed into this short

  • @LuckyStoicism
    @LuckyStoicism Před 4 měsíci +7

    Work on becoming mentally stronger everyday 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @outlaw_80
    @outlaw_80 Před 10 měsíci +40

    Being great is not what you have but greatness is in how you treat others and yourself..

    • @EnviousExplorers
      @EnviousExplorers Před 2 měsíci +2

      ❤️

    • @GODofStoics
      @GODofStoics Před 24 dny

      Absolutely, greatness lies not in material possessions or external achievements, but in the way we treat others and ourselves.

  • @roldany1301
    @roldany1301 Před 11 měsíci +39

    Wow, I've been humbled and challenged 👍🏾🙏🏾

  • @ShanmobymoBe-nr8rj
    @ShanmobymoBe-nr8rj Před 11 měsíci +4

    I really don't thank you for reminding me I just didn't know talkin a long was talking to everyone have a blessed day

  • @Laurendaw
    @Laurendaw Před 6 měsíci +6

    Don’t sleep the day away. I love this ❤

    • @GODofStoics
      @GODofStoics Před 24 dny +1

      It's a great reminder to make the most of our waking hours and embrace each day with purpose and enthusiasm

  • @omeriomeri8456
    @omeriomeri8456 Před 11 měsíci +5

    This is excellent reminding advice ❤ Thank you 🙏

  • @Just-Jill
    @Just-Jill Před 11 měsíci +24

    I love that each item is attributed to the author ❤

  • @thankgodwobo8898
    @thankgodwobo8898 Před rokem +10

    Word on the street!

  • @thementalone7289
    @thementalone7289 Před 11 měsíci +3

    If you must know, and learn about my improvements, it will be disclosed through my actions. Well done ..much better than well said.

  • @Bundybooboo123
    @Bundybooboo123 Před 11 měsíci +13

    Excellent advice 👌

  • @chrisr8610
    @chrisr8610 Před 11 měsíci +17

    So helpful in today's environment.

  • @renaldoawesomesauce1654
    @renaldoawesomesauce1654 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I definitely have a few of these I could work on. 9 especially.

  • @GeorgeousGeorgeousGeorge
    @GeorgeousGeorgeousGeorge Před 11 měsíci +17

    Not putting on airs about your self improvement 💯

    • @Ignirium
      @Ignirium Před 9 měsíci +2

      What does "airs" mean, I've never heard it before and it doesn't make sense to me

    • @Mikeanium
      @Mikeanium Před 9 měsíci +7

      @@Ignirium means act superior, or in a manner of superiority

    • @Cheaps928
      @Cheaps928 Před 6 měsíci +3

      ​@@Igniriumbasically stay humble :)

  • @sheromanysooklal775
    @sheromanysooklal775 Před 11 měsíci +5

    Awesome.

  • @Godshonestruth
    @Godshonestruth Před rokem +24

    I listen to this as Stoically as I can. I have been trying to make myself a stoic honorable man through my disciplines and actions most of my “sentient” life. Last 5 years I have kicked it all into maximum overdrive. Part of living a Stoic life is accept ones shortcomings, weaknesses, laziness, apathy etc. Hearing some of these brings me pride ( jury is still out on me for pride) and others I want to pretend I didnt hear. But I have come face to face with all my shortcomings in recent years- they are still poking their heads in more than I would like, but I am intent on becoming a man that would be a cross between Jesus, a Stoic and Mike Tyson.

    • @stoicwisdomquotes
      @stoicwisdomquotes  Před rokem +10

      You are on the right track. Keep it up and never give up!
      Thank you for your comment 🙏
      "The roots of education are bitter, but the fruit is sweet." ~ Aristotle

    • @waskyhenry6306
      @waskyhenry6306 Před 11 měsíci +6

      That's what I'm 🤔 talking about.

    • @danielparrado7893
      @danielparrado7893 Před 7 měsíci +1

      The mike Tyson one goes hard

    • @MadBadSadAndGlad
      @MadBadSadAndGlad Před 4 měsíci

      Seems yre living a strong and examined life. A strong mind is one that watches itself. Good luck with everything...
      Happy happier 2024.

    • @Martyn_Wolf
      @Martyn_Wolf Před měsícem +1

      Stoicism isn't the absence of expression or feeling or not showing. Stoicism in its simplicity is being able to express and feel everything in life in moderation.
      To accept what comes your way and to learn from it. Some lessons take multiple experiences to fully understand.
      Most of these YTbers and other people who spout Stoic says take the parts they identify or choose to express most.
      Read Marcus's Meditations there's a difference to what he actually says to what is quoted and the interpretation of it actively changed to suit the speakers needs.
      Taoism and Buddhism are slightly similar to Stoicism in certain ways too.

  • @MusaGiandra
    @MusaGiandra Před 11 měsíci +10

    I dont know why, i really like seneca's words of wisdom

  • @davef1548
    @davef1548 Před 10 měsíci +4

    These are great, thank you

  • @doristorres4752
    @doristorres4752 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Note::u
    It’s not what you have it’s what’s in your heart nd soul that’s the honest truth. Amen 🙏

  • @marinaarsic8334
    @marinaarsic8334 Před 9 měsíci +3

    Thank you very much for the information. God bless you 🙏💚

  • @marlinmath8408
    @marlinmath8408 Před rokem +10

    Thank you god AMEN

  • @timdegroat17
    @timdegroat17 Před rokem +19

    WISE HABITS FOR LIFE !!!

  • @JoeZenArt
    @JoeZenArt Před 2 měsíci +4

    When one tends to neglect friendships, question the need to continue in them.

    • @GODofStoics
      @GODofStoics Před 24 dny

      Neglecting friendships can indeed strain the bonds we share with others. It's natural to question the value of relationships when they feel neglected or unfulfilling.

  • @lmGod
    @lmGod Před 4 měsíci +3

    6 should actually be recommended but just make sure the clothes you wear and the things you own are actually what YOU like and not a persona or style your trying to perfect in order to fit in or achieve something in return.

  • @janierobinson6512
    @janierobinson6512 Před rokem +13

    Yes thank you amen 😇🙏

  • @jusnakhan5569
    @jusnakhan5569 Před 29 dny

    Thank you for sharing these Inspiring Messages❤😊

  • @KitaraAlex
    @KitaraAlex Před měsícem +1

    True in the heart jell

  • @johnscott7195
    @johnscott7195 Před 11 měsíci +2

    All 12 are committed daily on a large scale...

  • @tooru9387
    @tooru9387 Před měsícem +1

    I would consider myself a stoic but there are certain things about it that I don’t agree with like emotions. I think it’s good to show emotion, and to not blame yourself for feeling emotions but to also control those emotions and not let them go overboard.

  • @fernandoparedes780
    @fernandoparedes780 Před 28 dny

    so well said thank you

  • @deborah9384
    @deborah9384 Před 11 měsíci +6

    great list. TY❤

  • @UpgradedConsciousness-eo3hc
    @UpgradedConsciousness-eo3hc Před měsícem +1

    Stoicism is hard but it will pay off, so stay the course!

  • @yanuartquotes
    @yanuartquotes Před 3 měsíci

    Nice content, thank you 😌

  • @amyhankins1453
    @amyhankins1453 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you💯

  • @andreaslandgren1681
    @andreaslandgren1681 Před rokem +1

    Write it as do this.
    Do it today
    Be ok to disagree
    Be thankfull
    Eat stand up feel fullness.
    Feel emotion.
    Listen and speak in balance. Converse.
    Follow through plans with friends.

  • @DanielDistasi-fm8sj
    @DanielDistasi-fm8sj Před 11 měsíci +1

    Good luck

  • @troysandoval2731
    @troysandoval2731 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I need to work on #11 more

  • @jimmycosse289
    @jimmycosse289 Před 3 měsíci

    Powerful words

  • @Hummmminify
    @Hummmminify Před rokem +25

    I think I actually might be doing one or two of these things….I’ll work on the rest…..I promise…

    • @stoicwisdomquotes
      @stoicwisdomquotes  Před rokem +7

      You're already on the right track! Recognizing areas for improvement is the first step. Keep working on the rest, and I believe in your promise to become your best self!
      Thank you for your comments!

  • @Davewutsup
    @Davewutsup Před 4 měsíci

    Amen to that bro

  • @lynnedarling1135
    @lynnedarling1135 Před 5 měsíci

    Don go along just get along ❤

  • @SA_KB_JTC
    @SA_KB_JTC Před rokem +2

    Thank you

  • @williamwatson580
    @williamwatson580 Před rokem +4

    Frfr needed to hear this

  • @thementalone7289
    @thementalone7289 Před 11 měsíci

    Difficulty??? That one we working on. I have to pick and chose my difficulties. It is woven in the fabric. So seeing if I should use, ..gain. Or tide. Or perhaps..some dry cleaning...is a must

  • @pauldeatherage6112
    @pauldeatherage6112 Před 9 měsíci

    For me 7, 8 has gotten me into trouble but I still stand by them, all 12 of these are good

  • @zahraofficial4681
    @zahraofficial4681 Před 5 dny

    Sukses selalu untuk kita semua

  • @michaelgomez4526
    @michaelgomez4526 Před 11 měsíci +18

    I would be very very careful about who you think your friends are.....😢😢😢

  • @marcusyan7595
    @marcusyan7595 Před měsícem

    13. Don't go gentle into that good night

  • @walboyfredo6025
    @walboyfredo6025 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Great stuff from which we should all learn from.

    • @theta3302
      @theta3302 Před 11 měsíci

      You only need to declare 'from' once

  • @katesorenstam9427
    @katesorenstam9427 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hey, 2 of 12!

  • @latonyamorris2208
    @latonyamorris2208 Před rokem +4

    Thank you for sharing this information

  • @paulinaflores3414
    @paulinaflores3414 Před 4 měsíci

    Yes women too ❤

  • @anthonythomas6506
    @anthonythomas6506 Před 5 měsíci

    Much needed to hear.

  • @anginlelana
    @anginlelana Před 6 měsíci

    good, i like it

  • @ritabecerra3059
    @ritabecerra3059 Před 23 dny

    Very well put.

  • @KitaraAlex
    @KitaraAlex Před měsícem

    Thanks 🙏👍 for these reality it's open my reality to the Abit

    • @stoicwisdomquotes
      @stoicwisdomquotes  Před měsícem

      Thank you for your comments! We appreciate your support! 😊

  • @user-mw7cm9ox4f
    @user-mw7cm9ox4f Před 5 měsíci

    I affirm

  • @valubajaka4840
    @valubajaka4840 Před 11 měsíci

    Right and Right again.

  • @daleputnam8300
    @daleputnam8300 Před 4 měsíci

    Yes

  • @ngarakabirizi2280
    @ngarakabirizi2280 Před měsícem

    I agree

  • @masculinestrive
    @masculinestrive Před 3 měsíci

    Powerful

  • @user-gh4dl6lv2h
    @user-gh4dl6lv2h Před měsícem

    Oh wow🌹

  • @AncientWisdomQuest
    @AncientWisdomQuest Před 4 měsíci

    Cool!

  • @padstowphantom
    @padstowphantom Před 11 měsíci +5

    Bloody hell, I'm 0 for 12😂

  • @angelbulldog4934
    @angelbulldog4934 Před 9 měsíci

    #8...especially.

  • @Stoic_Mastery_
    @Stoic_Mastery_ Před 11 měsíci +1

    Where do you find the voice?

  • @bigone4311
    @bigone4311 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I think I shall sleep the day away anyway

  • @umanglunia2194
    @umanglunia2194 Před 11 měsíci

    #7... Need to work on that

  • @panizzuttilifts
    @panizzuttilifts Před 11 měsíci +5

    what if im bulking lmao

  • @stallion0099
    @stallion0099 Před 11 měsíci +1

    And then we wonder why we all suck. 🤦‍♂️ maybe we should think about these things more often.

  • @lifefact.m
    @lifefact.m Před 10 měsíci

    life is full of pain sadness in heartbreak,

  • @Ancipreneur1
    @Ancipreneur1 Před 8 měsíci

    Right

  • @meevang8500
    @meevang8500 Před 3 měsíci

    AMEN

  • @user-uc6ui5zw6d
    @user-uc6ui5zw6d Před 8 měsíci

    The understanding of why you shouldn't do these requries looking closer at them for what they are and that understandng is very important, as there is no need to blindly believe any opinion.

  • @trjberg
    @trjberg Před 11 měsíci +1

    No 7 has caused many deaths, often with horrendous torture.

    • @waskyhenry6306
      @waskyhenry6306 Před 11 měsíci +1

      I don't know if it's totally correct 💯. Concealing what you really believe can be interpreted or explained in a couple of ways. (1) you are scared of the consequences.(2) you don't really believe it. You're actually lying or you're a hypocrite.

  • @user-fj5bd6qt4c
    @user-fj5bd6qt4c Před 2 měsíci

    Acknowledging your ability to change and grow is fine, as long as you thank those, including the Creator, who gave you the light and warmth to do so. False pride is when we figure we did it all by ourselves.

  • @Swayz790
    @Swayz790 Před 10 měsíci

    Damn 11 going to be hard

  • @Conver-kq9js
    @Conver-kq9js Před 5 dny

    Sana natun an kog ing ani sa una

  • @betterlifewisdom
    @betterlifewisdom Před 4 měsíci

    Don’t complain in public. That shows signs of weakness and defeat 🚀👑

  • @opporeno6648
    @opporeno6648 Před 11 měsíci

    I also have done everything whats Bad for you .. ITS hard to Stop

  • @JRomanGonzalez
    @JRomanGonzalez Před 5 měsíci

    Almost fooled me with the "don't sleep the day away" 😴💤💤💤

  • @user-fc8ol2dv4w
    @user-fc8ol2dv4w Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this wonderful message ❤

  • @common_suprise8
    @common_suprise8 Před měsícem

    Amen 🙏

  • @rolandchambers8692
    @rolandchambers8692 Před 3 měsíci

    There's still some room for errors for me that i need to work on and implement those stoic values in my mind and life

  • @GODofStoics
    @GODofStoics Před 24 dny

    This are the principals:
    Excessive Materialism
    Indulging in Hedonism
    Negative Self-Talk

  • @rosemarietolentino3218
    @rosemarietolentino3218 Před 11 měsíci +6

    All the things that humans naturally do if you don’t remind yourself not to.

  • @burgundyjayde
    @burgundyjayde Před 11 měsíci +1

    1. Is hard 😅

  • @lindasue8719
    @lindasue8719 Před 8 měsíci

    I wish there were a way to save shorts to our playlists!

  • @thehardestworker69
    @thehardestworker69 Před 11 měsíci

    Damn I was good for 11of these

  • @annemariegombert7603
    @annemariegombert7603 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Le blond lui va bien hello......hahaha

  • @lutrueson9000
    @lutrueson9000 Před 11 měsíci

    The fact with philosophy and stoicism is that some of these contradict each other, very philosophical.

  • @unclep1660
    @unclep1660 Před 10 měsíci +1

    OMG 😳😲

  • @Pkilla80
    @Pkilla80 Před rokem +5

    I'm a Stoic

    • @stoicwisdomquotes
      @stoicwisdomquotes  Před rokem +2

      Congratulations! We look forward to seeing you in our community if you haven't subscribed yet!
      Thank you 🙏

  • @cindycraven1927
    @cindycraven1927 Před 11 měsíci +1

  • @snowworld1641
    @snowworld1641 Před 2 měsíci

    These are the things that my parents, especially my mom, taught me. But after I left my parents, started my own life, got married and had kids, I became the worst person I could become. Always yelling, complaining and overthinking.

  • @thementalone7289
    @thementalone7289 Před 11 měsíci

    Yo, I'm quite fashionable . Presentable, I will say.. 90% is visual. However, I have been learning how to totally dress down. Down brush my hair, old this , old that. No cologne, and bask in the realm of humility. It's cool comforting

  • @dj1830
    @dj1830 Před 8 měsíci

    Why this a matching my personality