Stoicism: Become Undefeatable

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    Stoicism helps us steer through past and present storms into calmer and more peaceful waters. And if our ship sinks and we all drown, we can take peace in the fact that we lived a good life, albeit not as long as we had hoped. Because remember, everything has an end.
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  • @rexfulgur8588
    @rexfulgur8588 Před 3 lety +45914

    Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times.

    • @henrymarks1632
      @henrymarks1632 Před 3 lety +658

      ...yes?

    • @acatwithafancyhat5782
      @acatwithafancyhat5782 Před 3 lety +3049

      Here comes the hard times. Good luck

    • @madmack6831
      @madmack6831 Před 3 lety +2455

      @@henrymarks1632 dyed hair moment

    • @Potatotenkopf
      @Potatotenkopf Před 3 lety +753

      Nah not really, strong men appear during hard times and weak men appear during easy times. I doubt they actually create those times.

    • @rexfulgur8588
      @rexfulgur8588 Před 3 lety +1848

      @@Potatotenkopf That's the point. Strong men arise from hardship, weak men arise from comfort.

  • @superchargedpetrolhead
    @superchargedpetrolhead Před 3 lety +20503

    So basically stoicism is " *It do be like that sometimes* "

  • @sinkuskidd
    @sinkuskidd Před 7 měsíci +839

    Can people like this so I can come back and rewatch? I need to periodically remind myself of this.

    • @nolanlaw2639
      @nolanlaw2639 Před 2 měsíci +3

      Ight I liked it u better comeback and watch it

    • @sinkuskidd
      @sinkuskidd Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@nolanlaw2639 of course brother 😤

    • @sinkuskidd
      @sinkuskidd Před 2 měsíci +7

      For real tho to anyone who sees this and likes it or for anyone who may have liked this before and sees this comment, thanks 🙏
      I dont usually get lucky enough where people would do this so im grateful that it happened for this video specifically ❤️🤙

    • @user-me8qv3ws7v
      @user-me8qv3ws7v Před 2 měsíci +1

      No problem buddy​@@sinkuskidd

    • @djwhyteryce3368
      @djwhyteryce3368 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Hey bro, Ik you came back 3 days ago but I would like to recommend Epictetus' Enchiridion. It's essentially the Stoics' handbook.

  • @TheUnboundedUniverse
    @TheUnboundedUniverse Před 3 měsíci +479

    "Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one."
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @KogemataDoesEdit
    @KogemataDoesEdit Před 3 lety +21942

    “The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem. Do you understand?” -Captain Jack Sparrow

  • @quoting8583
    @quoting8583 Před 2 lety +25153

    “We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.”
    - Seneca

    • @afigueroa0331
      @afigueroa0331 Před 2 lety +110

      Damn this is really good!!!

    • @lordAlgaiva
      @lordAlgaiva Před 2 lety +128

      i would say yes the total amount of suffering is bigger in imagnation. but the intensity of suffering is bigger in reality. a i see you added an often. in the video he didnt.

    • @Xccord
      @Xccord Před 2 lety +6

      Damn

    • @Lua0x07
      @Lua0x07 Před 2 lety +405

      We watched the first seconds of the fucking video too

    • @djjain4280
      @djjain4280 Před 2 lety +80

      We watched the first seconds of the fucking video too

  • @ziruxyt1817
    @ziruxyt1817 Před rokem +2024

    "A man who suffers before it is necessary, suffers longer than is necessary." - Seneca

  • @Zeno74
    @Zeno74 Před rokem +2419

    I am a very good trader, and I can confirm my boat did sink.

    • @Rohit_Rana11
      @Rohit_Rana11 Před rokem +79

      dude. zeno himself!!

    • @UkeoerD
      @UkeoerD Před rokem +101

      Zeno survived the fall of Greece, so he can publish youtube shots about minecraft. Most basic philosopher

    • @Zeno74
      @Zeno74 Před rokem +93

      @@UkeoerD I need to teach the young about minecraft

    • @ZenoIsOffline
      @ZenoIsOffline Před rokem +13

      No way

    • @theluftwaffe9066
      @theluftwaffe9066 Před rokem +8

      Oh man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheNeon-rh4kk
    @TheNeon-rh4kk Před 3 lety +4992

    Stoicism describes in one meme:
    "Oh no! Anyway..."

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 Před 3 lety +6270

    Stoicism: suffering isn't a bug; it's a feature.

    • @akshimjames5011
      @akshimjames5011 Před 3 lety +23

      Yeah man❤️❤️

    • @blackbokuto
      @blackbokuto Před 3 lety +17

      Lol well said

    • @owncraticpath
      @owncraticpath Před 3 lety +55

      It has to be said, some incredible features might come from bugs... so in that sense it's actually a good thing xddd

    • @warpedmine9682
      @warpedmine9682 Před 3 lety +49

      @@owncraticpath Like the minecraft creeper was a bug that turned into a gaming icon

    • @billyumbraskey8135
      @billyumbraskey8135 Před 3 lety

      underrated

  • @evilrusty1824
    @evilrusty1824 Před rokem +304

    "'Man cannot remake himself without suffering for he is both the Marble and the Sculptor''
    -Alexis Carrel

  • @Pathocracy
    @Pathocracy Před 11 měsíci +788

    Key principles of Stoicism:
    Dichotomy of Control: Stoicism teaches that some things are within our control (our thoughts, choices, and actions) while others are not (external events, other people's actions, and circumstances). Stoics believe that focusing on what is within our control leads to inner tranquility, while accepting what is beyond our control helps us avoid unnecessary suffering.
    Virtue as the Highest Good: According to Stoicism, the ultimate good in life is the development of moral and intellectual virtues. These virtues include wisdom, justice, courage, temperance, and moderation. Stoics believe that by cultivating these virtues, individuals can live a good and fulfilling life.
    Acceptance of Nature: Stoicism encourages individuals to align their will with the natural order of the universe. This means accepting the impermanence of things, embracing change, and recognizing that suffering and setbacks are inevitable parts of life.
    Negative Visualization: Stoics practice negative visualization, which involves contemplating the worst-case scenarios to develop gratitude for what one currently possesses. By imagining the loss of something or someone, individuals can learn to appreciate and value them more fully.
    Amor Fati: Amor fati, or "love of fate," is a Stoic concept that encourages individuals to embrace and love their fate, whatever it may be. Stoics believe that everything that happens, even hardships and misfortunes, is part of a larger plan and should be accepted without resistance.
    Tranquility of Mind: Stoicism aims to cultivate inner peace and tranquility by freeing individuals from negative emotions such as anger, fear, and anxiety. By practicing self-control, self-discipline, and detachment from external outcomes, Stoics strive to maintain a calm and balanced state of mind.

  • @matthisverschraegen6190
    @matthisverschraegen6190 Před 2 lety +11695

    "Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back."
    -- Marcus Aurelius, Emperor-Philosopher

    • @nimbledick9869
      @nimbledick9869 Před rokem +231

      "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
      -- Marcus Aurelius, Emperor-Philosopher

    • @matthisverschraegen6190
      @matthisverschraegen6190 Před rokem +13

      @@nimbledick9869 sums it up beautifully.

    • @leoaldiansyah
      @leoaldiansyah Před rokem +171

      "I came in like a wrecking ball, I never hit so hard in love, All I wanted was to break your walls, All you ever did was wreck me, Yeah, you, you wreck me"
      -- Marcus Aurelius, Emperor-Philosopher

    • @matthisverschraegen6190
      @matthisverschraegen6190 Před rokem +5

      @@leoaldiansyah 😂 sounds familiar

    • @manuellanthaler2001
      @manuellanthaler2001 Před rokem +12

      So many people will understand that as: just laugh the pain away.
      I understand it as: Yeah everyone dies literally nothing matters what anyone does right now in 1000 years everyone forgot.
      Then I think: thats awesome im completely free then.
      Idk how Marcus really meant it I could be the one that misinterprets it?

  • @Whatchasayin
    @Whatchasayin Před 2 lety +12084

    Back then I mistook apathy as stoicism, but stoicism isn't ignoring emotion. Stoicism is a way of managing emotions.

    • @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE
      @SAMSARALIVEEEEEE Před 2 lety +397

      And controlling how you feel about life in general, it’s honestly insane how simply thinking about it can make you realize everything.

    • @mohitadlakha982
      @mohitadlakha982 Před 2 lety +13

      Thanks

    • @salazam
      @salazam Před 2 lety +20

      No, you're wrong. It's not ignoring emotions, it's the abscence of emotions all together. It's called "growing up".

    • @i6lakk
      @i6lakk Před 2 lety

      Excellent

    • @General12th
      @General12th Před 2 lety +346

      @@salazam Ignoring your emotions and striving to not have them at all isn't "growing up".

  • @connorhopson7024
    @connorhopson7024 Před 11 měsíci +352

    I watched this video 2 years ago when I was struggling to get sober for what felt like the 9 millionth time. This video got me into stoicism, and I fully attribute my sobriety to finding stoicism and the tools that it gave me. I was 2 years sober in May. Thank you for this video.

    • @rohitchougule3803
      @rohitchougule3803 Před 8 měsíci +3

      I am 69th like

    • @peterj.fallon4327
      @peterj.fallon4327 Před 8 měsíci +2

      F’n dope brother!!

    • @ethelmalama128
      @ethelmalama128 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Don't forget that you have a sister who will celebrate with you in May for third year of sobriety.

    • @TehRaZzHD
      @TehRaZzHD Před 3 měsíci +4

      Respect brother i am in the Same place in the moment and i hope i can find somekind of Control. God Bless

    • @retrogoon7182
      @retrogoon7182 Před 2 měsíci

      Congrats bro, hope all is well

  • @sloth8866
    @sloth8866 Před rokem +201

    Unironically, I may have adopted stoicism unintentionally. Being a person born in the fine line of poor and middle-class, I've learned how to accept the life I was given. I recognize my situation and instead focus on the gifts rather than the misfortunes we had. It is not as if I don't feel sad about it, I do. But I don't dwell on it and I just wish for the best. I am also a very timid person, often times I get dragged to my friends and other people's shenanigans. I can't do anything about it, I may feel annoyed or pissed off, but I don't let it affect me. In a way, it is kind of the same as the voluntary discomfort exercise. And to be clear with you all, I am not saying I can't feel emotions, I can feel just as much pain, anguish, sadness, happiness, etc. as all you guys. It is just that my standing in life has led me to learn how to control my emotions better than others. I remember being a kid frustrated about other kids having things that I don't, I had a talk with my dad about it, we cried and reconciled. My point being, is the fact that I unknowingly adopted a similar mindset to Stoicism might just prove that Stoicism really works.

    • @mhamadattieh2526
      @mhamadattieh2526 Před 6 měsíci

      wow, Stay strong brother

    • @manojdamala3111
      @manojdamala3111 Před 6 měsíci +5

      thanks dear brother, I can relate with you on the same level of attaining stoicism unintentionally and all those aspects of life that you've mentioned. Keep up the good work and hope you're doing well

  • @josem3366
    @josem3366 Před 3 lety +3563

    You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.―Marcus Aurelius

    • @lightsshadow8020
      @lightsshadow8020 Před 3 lety +76

      No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Eleanor Roosevelt

    • @lemon6780
      @lemon6780 Před 3 lety +2

      Momento XD

    • @splashnskillz37
      @splashnskillz37 Před 3 lety +5

      Recently, i felt the opposite is true

    • @Kyoto99952
      @Kyoto99952 Před 3 lety +17

      It is confusing. Because you hear the quote "you don't have control over your mind & emotions, but you can however choose how to respond to them." In essence it's true we don't know how thoughts enter our mind and how much of that is involuntarily, science hasn't caught up yet. You think about something and you feel good, but another thought comes up and it make you feel bad. Why? Because some rules you agreed on of what is good and bad? For example, in Europe burping after eating is rude and people might look at you with anger, but it is appreciated in China because it means you liked the food. So you can also say "whatever happens, good or bad, i will always choose a positive interpretation." It sounds simplistic but if you just practice that often enough you start to believe that and it becomes your new belief. So then we cán control our thoughts and emotions if we can deliberately insert new thoughts which create positive emotions.

    • @titusjames4912
      @titusjames4912 Před 3 lety +4

      I need to read this guy's books. Anyone know a good one to start with?

  • @gabesweats
    @gabesweats Před 3 lety +27029

    "The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one's negative experience is itself a positive experience." -Mark Manson

    • @samdimery
      @samdimery Před 3 lety +320

      “and that is why the universe and everyone you love has already been blown up around a billion years ago and you’re actually just a formless conscience in a coma drifting through the endless and unforgiving void of space” ~GabeSweats (probably)

    • @carlosadurt6153
      @carlosadurt6153 Před 3 lety +70

      @@samdimery Such an atheist and meaningless quote. Sad for the people who believe such things. Don't believe in trash philosophies and look for ones which will help you grow and have meaning and purpose.
      (I am not referring to Stoicism)

    • @samdimery
      @samdimery Před 3 lety +181

      @@carlosadurt6153 dude i’ve been a devoted christian my entire life i was making a joke about how loads of GabeSweats’ videos are existential crises

    • @firstnamelastname6148
      @firstnamelastname6148 Před 3 lety +125

      people be making shit up and mix some words. there you go a quote. -Genghis Khan

    • @samdimery
      @samdimery Před 3 lety +145

      @@firstnamelastname6148 “hmm that looks like a nice nation. i wonder how flammable it is” -also genghis khan

  • @sebastianalvarez6006
    @sebastianalvarez6006 Před rokem +81

    I am currently battling depression and anxiety and it has been hard to come to terms with it, but hearing and studying the philosophy of stoicism really resonates with me. life at times has delt a some what hard hand at me, horrible break ups, traumatic abuse, and addition to harmful practices. but i really wish to be stoic and be the best version of me and overcome the torment the my mind sometimes plays at me.
    i really hope to one day come back to this video and see my comment and be able to genuinely be able to say i did it.
    not only for me but for the people around me that i love.

  • @NickNotas
    @NickNotas Před rokem +70

    I’ve always found it fascinating how this ancient philosophy still holds such relevance today. Just like Zeno, we all face situations beyond our control. The ability to discern between what we can and can't control in our lives is so incredibly profound.

    • @paullewis1418
      @paullewis1418 Před rokem +6

      I think that the simplicity of their lives compared to that of our own is the reason why they were able to develop such strong ideologies. Without all the distractions that we have today, they were able to do a lot of introspective thinking that brought philosophies like Stoicism.

    • @asadullah1478
      @asadullah1478 Před 2 měsíci

      Yeah I love the principle of dichotomy in stoicism

  • @Belief_Before_Glory
    @Belief_Before_Glory Před 2 lety +8033

    “You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this and you will find great strength.”
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @GivzzProductions
    @GivzzProductions Před 3 lety +4525

    “Don’t seek for everything to happen as you wish it would, but rather wish that everything happens as it actually will-then your life will flow well.” - Epictetus

    • @game-enjoyer13
      @game-enjoyer13 Před 3 lety +38

      that makes no sense. Philosophy is whack lol

    • @sumosumo8146
      @sumosumo8146 Před 3 lety +149

      “Pee is stored in the balls.”-Sun Zoo

    • @Kid98.
      @Kid98. Před 3 lety +89

      @@game-enjoyer13 It does makes all the sense. For e.g. You always take your Girlfriend is loyal and loves you deeply but you came to know she's been cheating on you with your brother and then right there, at the moment, disappoinment, hatred and sadness fills your mind. So yeah sadly we don't possessed the power to change all things according to our will, good or bad we gotta accept it's act upon us

    • @rumimollick6723
      @rumimollick6723 Před 3 lety +27

      @@game-enjoyer13 lol. i guess you couldn't wrap your mind around it. Not really your fault though. Aperture could've done a better job in this. Stoicism isn't exactly rocket science, but his analogies and core concepts were ALL around the place and i personally find it kind of annoying when his voice makes that eery low pitched noise at the end of every word.

    • @chii07chobits
      @chii07chobits Před 3 lety +9

      @@rumimollick6723 then why do you watch him?

  • @TheApproachChannel
    @TheApproachChannel Před rokem +70

    As someone who struggles with anxiety, I found this video incredibly helpful. The stoic practice of imagining worst-case scenarios and preparing for them has already helped me feel more empowered and less overwhelmed by my worries.

  • @C4rnee
    @C4rnee Před rokem +44

    This gives me so much hope and destroys my anxiety. It's truly incredible how much of my suffering comes from my distorted view of the world

  • @iesuenkei310
    @iesuenkei310 Před 3 lety +5681

    "Just because everyone wrote a quote doesn't mean you should too"
    - random guy with anime pic

  • @amardeepsingh3914
    @amardeepsingh3914 Před 3 lety +1572

    "Ask yourself at every moment, Is this necessary." - Marcus Aurelius

    • @zombiekiller7101
      @zombiekiller7101 Před 3 lety +77

      Is this necessary to ask is this necessary, and is that necessary.
      Endless loop

    • @shubhxms
      @shubhxms Před 3 lety +21

      he didn't say what to do after asking, so continue 😂😜

    • @kyetexe954
      @kyetexe954 Před 3 lety +1

      It’s possible

    • @user-qn5yr3wv6f
      @user-qn5yr3wv6f Před 3 lety +1

      I felt it is

    • @jakubkonecny5679
      @jakubkonecny5679 Před 3 lety +4

      this is more of a minimalist quote than a stoic one tho

  • @mind-blowing_tumbleweed
    @mind-blowing_tumbleweed Před 9 měsíci +4

    I come back to this video, rewatched it many many times. Mostly when I feel overwhelmed by emotions and helpless. Makes me feel little bit better, like I'm not a total failure.

  • @InspireBeyondLimits01
    @InspireBeyondLimits01 Před 11 měsíci +12

    This video reminds me why I started my journey into Stoicism. It's a powerful reminder to stay grounded and focused on what truly matters.

  • @jacobrodriguez4133
    @jacobrodriguez4133 Před 3 lety +2217

    "Spongebob I can't see you, It's too loud" - Patrick Star

  • @Raboy13
    @Raboy13 Před rokem +8444

    "you should judge the success of your work based on the amount of effort you put in, and not on the outcome of your external hopes".
    This hit hard

    • @sriketkomali937
      @sriketkomali937 Před rokem +9

      amazing dude

    • @user-lo9cw6pq7j
      @user-lo9cw6pq7j Před rokem +4

      Love this!!!

    • @reasonerenlightened2456
      @reasonerenlightened2456 Před rokem +23

      Minimum effort, maximum outcome. The real measure is the difference between effort and outcome. Therefore, socialise costs , privatise gains. Offer minimum possible quality for the maximum possible price. Always take more than what you give otherwise when life hits you in the solar plexus you are not in control of your reactions anymore thus stoicism is just wishful thinking.

    • @atulmichael4723
      @atulmichael4723 Před rokem +20

      No, I don't know if this is right. I think you should put the right effort in regardless of the outcome and live with it and be content.

    • @Ayogenius67
      @Ayogenius67 Před rokem +2

      But I didn’t know that I was practicing stoicism am I wise or something

  • @user-xx1cf6pc1v
    @user-xx1cf6pc1v Před 6 měsíci +4

    I always kept quotes from the video in my notes on my phone so that whenever I’m going through a hard time I can remember how to practice stoicism and feel less when there more to gain.
    After being lied to for 3 months by someone I felt truly attached and connected to. It’s hard to keep a cool head but I will always come back to listen to this.
    Thank you for this video.

  • @SelfMasteryLife
    @SelfMasteryLife Před rokem +33

    To anyone who reads this, I see you and I know you'll make it. Don't give up. I'm rooting for you :)

  • @mubu98
    @mubu98 Před 3 lety +2506

    The ad after the "advertisements are constantly being shoved down our throats" was, honestly eye-opening.

  • @pieterlindeque7798
    @pieterlindeque7798 Před 3 lety +2986

    Genuine stoicism is not about feeling nothing, it's about feeling everything and thinking nothing of it. A lot of people put on an act of stoicism in the form of "I'm not upset, I do not care, I'm not bothered, I'm not emotional." The point of the philosophy is not to act like you do not care or tell yourself and others you are not affected. The point is that as a human you will care about certain things, but you shouldn't care about the fact that you do care. Look at the Zeno example. He said, you cannot control the things that happen to you, but you can control how you react to them. Does that mean that you must put on a facade that nothing happened? No. It means you accept what has happened, you feel what you feel, and then you carry on despite that. If you're angry then you're angry. If you're sad then you're sad. Acting like you're not, is not stoicism. It's more self delusion. Accepting the fact that you're angry or sad, and then leaving it at that and moving forward, not letting those feelings affect you beyond simply feeling them, THAT is the philosophy of Zeno. He didn't say he unbreakable. There is no such thing in existence. He said, it is better to bend than to break, and accepting the fact that life is going to bend you plenty, and accepting the fact that you don't have to think anything of it, is the essence of stoicism.
    I prefer Musashi's philosophy myself. Stoicism is something that can be put on when it's not properly understood. The "I'm rubber you're glue" understanding instead of the "if it sticks then it sticks" understanding. Musashi's philosophy is more concrete. It's about what you do, and do not do. Not what you think or do not think. It's genuine by definition.

    • @Dan-lu5qd
      @Dan-lu5qd Před 3 lety +40

      Could you tell me where I could read more on Musashi's philosophy?

    • @db5094
      @db5094 Před 3 lety +19

      @@Dan-lu5qd

    • @rodriguezian_mcmuhammed3185
      @rodriguezian_mcmuhammed3185 Před 3 lety +8

      thankyou

    • @hirofumi3123
      @hirofumi3123 Před 3 lety +9

      Life is meaningless tho

    • @pieterlindeque7798
      @pieterlindeque7798 Před 3 lety +101

      @@ngpainter If free will does not exist then having any sort of discussion is pointless because our points of view have already been ordained by determinism. Nor can you attempt to cite logic or reason because any lack or presence of logic or reason would be predetermined and set in stone. So the will in your words, in a world without will, would be absolutely nothing at all. Just noise on the wind, without purpose, influence or ultimate meaning. That's what saying "free will doesn't exist" ultimately implies. After all, how can you change anyone's mind, or anyone change they're own mind, if they've been predestined never to do so? It's a bit like talking to a wall innit? But I guess that wouldn't be your choice after all, if free will doesn't exist.
      🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @user-zs6wt9tv8m
    @user-zs6wt9tv8m Před 5 měsíci +4

    Pretty thankful to this video. I have suffered from anxiety for about 3 years, and the reason why I always feel anxious is that I keep being afraid of the things I cannot control like the past and the future. And I always blame myself for my failures even if they were caused by the others or some uncontrollable factors, which is the fact that I didn't notice for these years. This video is really inspiring for me, especially I'm still struggling with mental diseases. Maybe I can try to practise to be stoic, and just let the things go.

  • @brandonzapata4910
    @brandonzapata4910 Před 22 dny

    Still one of the best videos I’ve seen on this site, i come back to it every year

  • @gofres
    @gofres Před 3 lety +3553

    I've suffered 2 house fires in my life, both due to electrical faults. Both of which I lost everything, over 10 years ago. I'd never heard of stocisism until recently. But I guess life has taught me this lesson the hard way.
    The things I've lost were mostly replaceable, except for family photos. However, I've found myself talking and reminiscing about those lost moments with my family recently, and I've come to realise, the photos didn't contain the memories, we do. As hard as this was to deal with at the time, it's made me the person I am today. Very little phases me. I want less in life, I'm more grateful for what I have. And ultimately, I'm happier.
    I don't wish this on anyone, but life has a strange way of teaching you what you need to know.
    Good luck in life too everyone.

    • @sgretzki9537
      @sgretzki9537 Před 3 lety +96

      Glad you and your family survived the fires.

    • @gofres
      @gofres Před 3 lety +61

      @@lucalalsie5653 thanks, but it's taught me the valuable philosophy of "meh" 😂

    • @kullenmontgomery1210
      @kullenmontgomery1210 Před 2 lety +18

      Keep taking that shit then get some more stuff and hire a better electrion

    • @giggukbangbangbang1874
      @giggukbangbangbang1874 Před 2 lety +26

      So simply put, life can be full of shit, so have low expectations to not feel betrayed

    • @majincheer
      @majincheer Před 2 lety +23

      "Life has a strange way of teaching what you need to know." kinda teared up on that

  • @kshiprantsisodiya8025
    @kshiprantsisodiya8025 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Thankyou for this video, i have been living like this since childhood and always wondered why i was like this. After watching this now i know what my patterns are all about and why everytime when something bad occurs or i loose I'm not sad or angry. Thankyou ❤️

  • @mohammedmohsun9128
    @mohammedmohsun9128 Před 2 měsíci

    I came across this video by accident. Recently, I have been changing in all aspects of life because I always say that I am not good enough. I have deleted all social media except CZcams to learn how to find the right way to live a happy life. But always when night comes, I lose everything I have learned and everything I have become convinced of because of the things I cannot change from the people in my life, such as academic and financial problems, etc. This video gave me an outlook on life that I will never pay attention to in my life. It is one of the greatest sayings that I have heard. I believe that this video will be the first step to living happily. Thank you very much for this masterpiece.

  • @huzaifazulqarnain6636
    @huzaifazulqarnain6636 Před 2 lety +3150

    I believe someone who’s been through tough times in life , somehow reaches a point where he’s already a stoic , whether he knows it or not. That I believe is the summit of maturity.

    • @georgitetimov4910
      @georgitetimov4910 Před 2 lety +127

      I can't agree more. When I was 15 I had a really tough time with addiction, but I overcame it. Over time I developed the philosphy explained in the video on my own. I began thinking in the exact same way as stoics without even knowing that's what they're called. My first understanding was that we percieve reality through our senses and these senses create emotion, but emotion is simply controled by the brain and the chemical reactions that happen there. So, since we are able to control our brain, we can actually manipulate emotion and perception in a way that benefits us the most or at least hurts us the least. After that, I developed almost every other idea showed in the vid. By the time I was 16 I felt like I have already made the transition between a child and an adult in maturity. Every day I felt a bigger and bigger difference between me and my peers, because I felt that they still treated everything as careless kids and hadn't realized a lot of things. Now I am so glad I found this video and this comment so that I can learn more about Stoicism!

    • @nishantk9023
      @nishantk9023 Před 2 lety +7

      @@georgitetimov4910 but dont u guys feel that being stoic is very difficult..............

    • @georgitetimov4910
      @georgitetimov4910 Před 2 lety +31

      @@nishantk9023 if it's difficult and you have to force I'm not sure you're doing it correct. Or it's simply not for you.

    • @nishantk9023
      @nishantk9023 Před 2 lety +1

      @@georgitetimov4910 maybe u r right...anyways thanq

    • @georgitetimov4910
      @georgitetimov4910 Před 2 lety +15

      @@nishantk9023 honestly, what I can tell you is that the first step is to not get frustrated that you can't do it that's part of controlling your feelings.

  • @pinkfloydguy7781
    @pinkfloydguy7781 Před 3 lety +7108

    Spoiler for Stoicism: life sucks, everything’s fine.

    • @zorog6540
      @zorog6540 Před 3 lety +248

      No make the best out of what you have never fold or give up stay true and solid be your greatest at your worst

    • @lapcsanka
      @lapcsanka Před 3 lety +44

      If life sucks it sucks. Everything sucks.
      Just because it doesn't matter in the end or in some planetary- universal scope I still feel like shit.

    • @jasonennis4905
      @jasonennis4905 Před 3 lety +113

      Life doesn't suck, it's the way how you live it does.

    • @genoveus
      @genoveus Před 3 lety +43

      In short, SNAFU.
      Situation Normal All Fucked Up.
      If something catastrophically wrong happens, it’s normal; because it happens ALL THE TIME!

    • @vladthecoldone8804
      @vladthecoldone8804 Před 3 lety +14

      @@genoveus This is all basic stuff, have you ever heard of existential nihilism kid? Pretty great I tell ya

  • @climax050
    @climax050 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Going through a tough time and a bit of an identity crisis and I’m glad I’d heard of stoicism and found my way to this video

  • @RustyRed17
    @RustyRed17 Před 7 měsíci +2

    There was a lot of things I struggled with varying from chronic pain, trauma, and depression.
    Instead of accepting what I experienced, I fought it for years and found myself right where I started time and time again.
    My mindset shifted from an endless struggle to the nihilistic mindset of nothing matters which made my struggles easier by negating value I allowed struggles to possess, but I still felt that way of life was unhealthy.
    It was then that I realized how I felt was something I could learn to control.

  • @MustSparkJoy
    @MustSparkJoy Před 2 lety +4673

    Stoicism is understanding that everything in life is neutral, unless we give it meaning. The goal is to just experience everything with all our senses. There's no need to add meaning to this experience. No need to judge, label, or define it. If you can't help but add meaning, add positive and colorful meaning to it.

    • @hakimdiwan5101
      @hakimdiwan5101 Před 2 lety +45

      You really nailed it.

    • @Chiungalla79
      @Chiungalla79 Před 2 lety +15

      That's just a part of stoicism.

    • @victorjun2421
      @victorjun2421 Před 2 lety +7

      Your name holds true to your self.

    • @goldmantis5850
      @goldmantis5850 Před 2 lety +49

      If you can appreciate just existing and experiencing the world, then you will always be happy

    • @MustSparkJoy
      @MustSparkJoy Před 2 lety +5

      @@goldmantis5850 yes

  • @metanick1837
    @metanick1837 Před 2 lety +1497

    "If you desire 8 things in your life and you get seven of them , the regret and anger of not getting that one thing will always frustrate you and you'll never enjoy those 7 things..."
    -A wise man

    • @marsyasthesatyr
      @marsyasthesatyr Před 2 lety +17

      Ironic being Nietzche n stoic LMAO

    • @Get_FREE_ROBUX_655
      @Get_FREE_ROBUX_655 Před 2 lety +1

      Lol you nihilism how do you know there is good?

    • @rat7570
      @rat7570 Před 2 lety +16

      True, I got a lot of the things I wanted before and now I get more and more greedy about things I don't have. I used to be insecure af, started doing self-improvement, and got the friends and random people being attracted to me. i developed an imposter syndrome because I though I was being fake for learning how to be better perceived, then I met a girl I like who helped me with fixing that and some other insecurities which came with the self-improvement journey, after her I made a lot more connections and I began doing even better things for myself like reading and overall be more on a schedule to be more efficient, got motivated again to workout after a 2 years break and now for the first time I actually enjoy it, BUT I don't have her love or attention and I'll probably vanish from her life by the next year even if she's kinda enjoying my company currently, just because she's moving and also she's such a type of person to let go easily even if she says she's not, simply because she's not interested in the things "she does not let go of easily". And that is literally the only reason I've been sad recently and I knew beforehand that it probably wouldn't go my way. And I used to say to myself that I was happy with just ever knowing her even she'd vanish from my life in the future but now that it's slowly happening it's not as good as I thought it would be. I am still grateful for her but I really dislike the fact that we probably won't ever keep in touch after a year.

    • @alejandroabad8529
      @alejandroabad8529 Před 2 lety +4

      It's like short-term gratification, when You eat a burger, You Will ve 'Unhappy' Every Time You don't eat one

    • @MechaKnuckles
      @MechaKnuckles Před 2 lety

      @@rat7570 Hello there, I can see that you're struggling with a scenario that the video described, which is placing your source of happiness/contentment in others instead of placing it in yourself, your life, and your positive actions towards others. The proposed solution to this is tweaking your mindset so that you're more content with the uncontrollable nature of life, which includes situations such as yours... However, as someone who's been doing a lot recently to overcome depression, improve myself, and be more stoic, I think that trying to not be upset over failed romantic plans or failed friendships is one of the hardest parts of stoicism. It seems so difficult to be callous to the pain of a failing romantic relationship, especially if finding a partner is one of your long-term goals.

  • @256threst8
    @256threst8 Před rokem +4

    "We should instead focus on improving ourselves, for ourselves. We should do things, for ourselves and only for that reason. Attaching any external hope or secondary attachments to the actions we take almost always lead to to disappointment"

  • @lukelavelle6670
    @lukelavelle6670 Před 22 dny

    Love that I was already living like this. It truly makes a change. I remeber struggling for so long..now I'm happy although I'm going through horrible things. 🖤

  • @sai_0821
    @sai_0821 Před 2 lety +1197

    As Malcolm Merlyn once said: "Pain is Inevitable but Suffering is Optional"

    • @RavinderNayak_oo7
      @RavinderNayak_oo7 Před 2 lety +5

      ARROW web series

    • @alexander27ja
      @alexander27ja Před 2 lety +2

      Power words

    • @errebusaether
      @errebusaether Před 2 lety +6

      Life is pain, but pain is what shapes real men while continuously thinking you are suffering is uncalled misery. *SIKE*

    • @Ghrainne
      @Ghrainne Před rokem +3

      @@alexander27ja the phrase is just something to try to look smart. LOL It means nothing let us be serious

    • @mimic612
      @mimic612 Před rokem +17

      @@Ghrainne 🤡

  • @ChrispyCheerios
    @ChrispyCheerios Před 3 lety +642

    “Always read the comments, for that’s where wisdom can be found” - Meowth

  • @yaynay2182
    @yaynay2182 Před rokem +1

    never cared much for philosophy, but stumbled on your channel and watched a few videos on the topic. everything said about stoicism is how i try to navigate life, i even see myself as a cosmopolite, zero empty checkmarks. that's so weird to one day find out that your thoughts and ways are actually an antient philosophy! thanks for the video

  • @JoostArchives
    @JoostArchives Před rokem +1

    I want to thank you for this video. It filled me with a sense of joy through acceptance of whatever happened and whatever is to come. Thank you, you have gained a subscriber.

  • @qtfy
    @qtfy Před 2 lety +6013

    being a stoic literally means you tell sadness "no u"

    • @sheesh9050
      @sheesh9050 Před 2 lety +226

      i feel like its the cure to depression

    • @adityayadavx447
      @adityayadavx447 Před 2 lety +124

      @@sheesh9050 BECAUSE IT IS!, TRUST ME BEEN THERE DONE THAT...

    • @sheesh9050
      @sheesh9050 Před 2 lety +39

      @@adityayadavx447 yeah others are weak for letting depression to decide the amount of sadness and anxiety they get rather than u decide if u want to have depression in the first place

    • @Yumyum-yo6op
      @Yumyum-yo6op Před 2 lety +270

      @@sheesh9050 bruh that's a pretty ignorant comment

    • @sirughjk903
      @sirughjk903 Před 2 lety +184

      @@Yumyum-yo6op extremely ignorant. when will people realize that we arent all carbon copies of eachother. some people have an easier time than others to deal with certain things, we should all strive to be better always however.

  • @FBread-xj8qk
    @FBread-xj8qk Před 3 lety +483

    "He who becomes untouchable, inevitably touches himself", -me

  • @stoicguard
    @stoicguard Před 6 měsíci +8

    This 'Stoicism: Become Undefeatable' video is a game-changer! The way it encapsulates the core principles of Stoicism in such a motivating and empowering manner is truly inspiring.
    The idea of becoming undefeatable by mastering one's own mind aligns perfectly with the Stoic philosophy. The call to focus on internal strength, resilience, and self-mastery is a powerful reminder in today's fast-paced world.
    Thanks for this empowering dose of Stoic wisdom. It's a video I'll keep coming back to for a boost of motivation and mental resilience!

  • @tirthrajgandhakwala6201
    @tirthrajgandhakwala6201 Před rokem +1

    Never knew I was stoic until today. No wonder this video kept popping up in my suggestion and after years I finally threw the towel and watched it ! Boy am I glad to see it’s a rare trait I have.

  • @loserpacman
    @loserpacman Před 3 lety +2456

    "Changing guns is always faster than reloading" -Sun Tzu, The Art of War

    • @bullwarfare922
      @bullwarfare922 Před 3 lety +28

      Captain price also said this 😤🔥

    • @saul1121
      @saul1121 Před 3 lety +52

      @@bullwarfare922 it was Gaz actually

    • @MrFriendlyCsgoContent
      @MrFriendlyCsgoContent Před 3 lety +15

      @@saul1121 You just made the world a better place

    • @ll-yy6ui
      @ll-yy6ui Před 3 lety +6

      true, Cpl. Dunn says so too

    • @56pjr
      @56pjr Před 3 lety +3

      God controls everything

  • @yakijacob
    @yakijacob Před 3 lety +2356

    “The one who becomes untouchable also becomes unable to touch”-idk some guy probably

  • @superhawtfire4875
    @superhawtfire4875 Před 7 měsíci +18

    CZcams should create a ‘Must Watch’ list on the homepage and include this video in it because it deserves to be watched by everyone, it’s like a need.

    • @botonddeli6181
      @botonddeli6181 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Although it isnt necessarily a way of life, it helps people, who need to, view it better , more positively and help them through the hardest moments.

  • @dirtyeffers2914
    @dirtyeffers2914 Před 3 lety +715

    "Sometimes people will write whatever, put it in quotations, and claim me or Einstein said it"
    -Marcus Aurelius

    • @redleg2380
      @redleg2380 Před 3 lety +98

      "You can't believe everything you read on the internet."
      -Abraham Lincoln

    • @Iron-Bridge
      @Iron-Bridge Před 3 lety +29

      " Me too. Sometimes" - Gandhi.
      " Me three. But seriously, if you can't handle me at my ya know... . " - Marilyn Monroe

    • @kuleshwar_verma
      @kuleshwar_verma Před 3 lety +22

      "sometimes people will write my quotations as some stoic people said it"
      -seneca

    • @Aadhitiya_Murali
      @Aadhitiya_Murali Před 3 lety +12

      "society
      BOTTOM TEXT"
      -johann kaspar schmidt

    • @herimen3153
      @herimen3153 Před 3 lety +10

      "I've found that male genitelia has a quite sour flavor."
      -Marsus Sourelius

  • @Okiemono
    @Okiemono Před 3 lety +1197

    “Do not pray for easier lives gentlemen...pray to be stronger men.” -J.F.K black ops zombies

    • @leviporter480
      @leviporter480 Před 3 lety +22

      Underrated comment

    • @leviporter480
      @leviporter480 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Thomas-nc9fz the psyche comes first.

    • @psynide8999
      @psynide8999 Před 3 lety +8

      I am here to talk about ur pfp good sir...

    • @prodbymazzini769
      @prodbymazzini769 Před 3 lety +3

      Bruce lee said that

    • @zubbworks
      @zubbworks Před 2 lety +1

      Man that was a good game.
      I still liked kindergarten better though. That elavator was too choke pointy.

  • @vandamn72
    @vandamn72 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Love it. I’m a practicing stoic for the last 25 yrs…. Now I’m 50, and still have so much to learn.

  • @kacmi6204
    @kacmi6204 Před rokem +2

    I see now that I have been practicing stoicism without actually being aware of it
    I truly love life for sending me down such an amazing path

  • @ramielamegarde
    @ramielamegarde Před 2 lety +5337

    Being stoic is just like pulling 5 uno reverse cards towards depression.

    • @dragon237
      @dragon237 Před 2 lety +10

      @airtatertot09 Pablo.

    • @ariq7167
      @ariq7167 Před 2 lety +5

      @airtatertot09 pablo

    • @redlock1815
      @redlock1815 Před 2 lety +47

      I think its more like not letting depression control you
      This is my first time getting more into this philosophy, soo i may be extremely wrong

    • @redlock1815
      @redlock1815 Před 2 lety +12

      @VaderxG
      Soo its about accepting that some things are inevitable, and once you've accepted that it becomes easier to face and it wont affect you as much?

    • @mohitadlakha982
      @mohitadlakha982 Před 2 lety

      Thanks

  • @SiixthSensse
    @SiixthSensse Před 3 lety +3505

    "Stop watching youtube at 4am and do something with your life"
    - Mom

  • @ThorKAH
    @ThorKAH Před 9 měsíci +4

    I had decided to finally workout and fix my health, but then I got my health report back. I had high cholesterol and diabetis 2. I had a day where I doubt everything around me, and everything I could and did. I then used that hard time to make it a motivation. I have lost 25KG/55 LBS in 3-4 months. Instead of giving up and let myself be consumed by it, I build it into something that I could move on from and learn from. Learning to be healthy, learning to eat well, working out and taking care about my body. I still have a good bit to go, but I’m glad I had this happen. I learned not to take my body for granted, to focus on me and learn from this experience. Many other things have also happend in my life, but I think that is a good example. I didn’t know I could relate with the ideals of stoicism untill this video. Thank you.

  • @kammychonga2418
    @kammychonga2418 Před rokem

    I stumbled upon this video randomly and I love it. I never realized my mindset is basically "stoicism". I have not mastered my emotions yet. I think this could actually help someone find happiness, as much as it sounds pretty depressing tbh.

  • @Ascertivus
    @Ascertivus Před rokem +2599

    An important fact to keep in mind: humans are wired to feel and process emotions. It is a part of our nature and it is healthy. Stoicism is not pushing your emotions down and pretending they do not exist, which is not healthy, it is instead feeling them without dwelling on them, then moving forward.

    • @codyrawiri-pettit5526
      @codyrawiri-pettit5526 Před rokem +17

      Sounds like rape.

    • @charlethemagne5466
      @charlethemagne5466 Před rokem +260

      @@codyrawiri-pettit5526 where did that come from?

    • @ballistikholo9645
      @ballistikholo9645 Před rokem +149

      @@codyrawiri-pettit5526 i don’t think this comment section is the right one for you buddy

    • @anonymouslearner2454
      @anonymouslearner2454 Před rokem +2

      Thanks OP

    • @AClaiderman
      @AClaiderman Před rokem +73

      I was raised essentially by my grandmother. She put it to me this way, paraphrasing, when I was 6 years old; “you can feel emotions, you just can’t act upon them.” Granny the ultimate Stoic.

  • @modarabokha1r
    @modarabokha1r Před rokem +1974

    What this man said in 12 minutes
    Took me 6 years to learn .
    This video is very beautiful and meaningful

    • @kunalnatesh
      @kunalnatesh Před rokem +17

      i feel you, i more or less got on the path of stoicism by making my life harder and learning to manage them... good video indeed

    • @reasonerenlightened2456
      @reasonerenlightened2456 Před rokem

      ​@@kunalnatesh You do know that stoicism is more of a wishful thinking than a real thing to master? When life hits you in the solar plexus you are not in control of your reactions anymore thus stoicism is just wishful thinking. "Whipping" yourself just to overcome the "pain" would not help you when "they" decide to put you on the cross and strip your skin with a whip.

    • @octagun9954
      @octagun9954 Před rokem +2

      Any books you would recommend on stoicism?

    • @eszmeletlen3023
      @eszmeletlen3023 Před rokem +7

      @@octagun9954 the obstacle is the way

    • @octagun9954
      @octagun9954 Před rokem +2

      @@eszmeletlen3023 Thank you!

  • @hxpponaut197
    @hxpponaut197 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I never realized that I had been practicing stoicism since I was very young. Now, I still try to do my best to practice this and I find that I am much happier because of this practice.

  • @user-oi8gj1mx7s
    @user-oi8gj1mx7s Před rokem

    Loved this video. I feel unconsciously due to experiences in my life it has shaped me to being stoic without knowing what it was. Learning about stoicism from this video helped me understand myself just a little bit better and want to improve myself even more. Thank you!

  • @stevenflogio684
    @stevenflogio684 Před 3 lety +2558

    "We're no strangers to love... you know the rules and so do I" - Rick Astley

    • @mrpopo9242
      @mrpopo9242 Před 3 lety +59

      the bold truth

    • @genoveus
      @genoveus Před 3 lety +41

      Say goodbye, BANG!

    • @notacutemf
      @notacutemf Před 3 lety +36

      Did you just...?

    • @mattakubodimasen10
      @mattakubodimasen10 Před 3 lety +17

      Never gonna give you up, never gonna let you downnn⤵️⤵️⤵️⤵️

    • @thomasrussell3351
      @thomasrussell3351 Před 3 lety +5

      "Who am I to believe in love? Ohh love ain't no stranger.". David Coverdale 🤣🤣

  • @noname2250
    @noname2250 Před 3 lety +678

    "Misunderstand philosophy but post quotes on CZcams to feel special"
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @nrh5643
    @nrh5643 Před 8 dny +1

    Thank you. I needed this.

  • @mohammedmijan8270
    @mohammedmijan8270 Před rokem +2

    The strength to control what we are capable of, the heart to accept what cannot be controlled and the wisdom to understand the barrier between them is what I understand stoicism to be

  • @self-inflictedphilosophy
    @self-inflictedphilosophy Před rokem +11633

    10 Ways to Be More Stoic:
    1.) Transform everyone into a teacher.
    2.) Say no to the easy way, seek out challenges.
    3.). Be strict with yourself but tolerant of others.
    4.) Allow the journey to be the thing.
    5.) Transform envy into emulation.
    6.) Stand on the shoulders of giants.
    7.) Forgive yourself and forgive others.
    8.) Fall in love with Fate.
    9.) Always practice courage, temperance, and humor.
    10.) Remember, the obstacle is the path.
    czcams.com/video/UpDZXiTxDGI/video.html

    • @laurituppurainen2357
      @laurituppurainen2357 Před rokem +65

      thank you.

    • @LeonineGoner
      @LeonineGoner Před rokem +46

      2, 8 and 9 are the only things that really matter.

    • @JuhaSalm
      @JuhaSalm Před rokem +76

      One way to be more stoic than stoic.
      1. Learn and realize your place in the Universum and you get an ability to see every non-human and human action or drama meaningless, meaningful or humorous if you choose to.
      ps. Side-benefits of finding your place in the Universum are knowing and understanding of yourself, appreciation of life and ultimate fearlessness.

    • @Sincuttiere
      @Sincuttiere Před rokem +26

      @@LeonineGoner No, 3 is extremely important.

    • @reystudio4317
      @reystudio4317 Před rokem +17

      ​@@Sincuttiere There are many things that cannot be tolerated like crime and any evil side of human nature that disrupts the society and most individuals in it.

  • @wirklichhaltsmaul
    @wirklichhaltsmaul Před 11 měsíci +9

    I always wondered, what was wrong with me. I always felt unhappy, feeling like life is useless and unlogical. One day, I downloaded an app called "The Stoic". I opened it and read the first few citations from Marcus Aurelius and so on. Immediately, I understood that the way of them thinking reflects exactly my point of view on everything we can control - ourselves. The way we treat ourselves and others around us is not the key for binding to people, yet it is an important part of being happy - and making other people around one happy as well. Thanks to the philosophers from 2000 years ago, I finally understood who I am: a Stoic. I am not confused anymore and very proud of who I have become, without knowing Stoicsm at all.

    • @tRicky198181
      @tRicky198181 Před 11 měsíci +1

      We are all different, it can be liberating and comforting to find like minded people. Being different and rare makes finding those people more difficult, it is sometimes lonely. But we are out there.

  • @endribega3792
    @endribega3792 Před 10 měsíci

    This video literally changed me thank you very much. I finally understood how to be happy on my own :)

  • @nathanjones1932
    @nathanjones1932 Před 3 lety +1390

    this guy and morgan freeman would make an amazing collab🙌

    • @roses3226
      @roses3226 Před 3 lety +8

      Yesssss

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku Před 3 lety +3

      WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide. Take the hint, dear m4

    • @arnavtandon2814
      @arnavtandon2814 Před 3 lety +44

      @@AxxLAfriku stop acting like anyone fucking cares

    • @svy5394
      @svy5394 Před 3 lety +1

      Agreed

    • @PrinceShehzad
      @PrinceShehzad Před 3 lety +7

      Well, have you ever seen this guy and Morgan Freeman in the same room? I rest my case.

  • @seansmith6377
    @seansmith6377 Před 3 lety +323

    I've been homeless for a year. Through practicing this. I have survived. And thrived without feeling too bad about it. Thanks for giving me a name for what I did

    • @nickllanes8030
      @nickllanes8030 Před 3 lety +25

      Thank you for sharing this, Sean. Hope you're doing better now.

    • @pauloh9818
      @pauloh9818 Před 3 lety +2

      when you werent homeless anymore dit you lose this way of thinking about life? Just wondering

    • @Iceman_HSV
      @Iceman_HSV Před 3 lety +9

      Hey Sean how do you watch CZcams? I have this preconceived notion about homeless people not being able to afford internet or access to the internet. Peace be with you :)

    • @CloudxOut
      @CloudxOut Před 3 lety +14

      I m homeless too since 2 years. I am not gonna say you be strong or whatever bc I know how you exactly feel. Keep enjoying life pal :-)

    • @gratedradish6699
      @gratedradish6699 Před 3 lety +20

      @@Iceman_HSV people with a phone/laptop or even a library card can connect to the internet at a library and what not, its pretty much an essential resource now because people need internet to apply for jobs and stuff these days.

  • @chrisanthony3560
    @chrisanthony3560 Před rokem +56

    I've heard about this 'gaming' approach to rewards. Like in games if you kill a boss you get a better sward to kill a bigger boss. So you get something that will allow you to improve your progress in this area. Taking this into account, an appropriate reward for investing consistently and with discipline would be a better MacBook or a new car - something that would allow you to make your investing more effective or joyful, or at least something to encourage you to work harder

    • @jerryscotfield6913
      @jerryscotfield6913 Před rokem +1

      recently started in stocks and I don't mind investing a substantial sum, i'd like to know how to start, you seem like you know what you’re talking about?

    • @chrisanthony3560
      @chrisanthony3560 Před rokem

      @@jerryscotfield6913 I have some knowledge yes but i’ve been able to scale from 6 figures to 7 figures in this red season because my Financial Advisor figured out Defensive strategies which help portfolios be less vulnerable to market downturns.

    • @victoriaaldrin
      @victoriaaldrin Před rokem

      @@chrisanthony3560 Is there any chance you could recommend who you work with? I've wanted to do this for a very long time now, but I've been very hesitant about it. I'll appreciate any recommendation.

    • @chrisanthony3560
      @chrisanthony3560 Před rokem +2

      @@victoriaaldrin certainly, he goes by James Fletcher Brennan. run a web search to connect with him

    • @xxbggam3rxx421
      @xxbggam3rxx421 Před 5 měsíci +1

      This is a bot conversation don't fall for it

  • @domenico_ginny6164
    @domenico_ginny6164 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I don’t expect anyone to believe this or care. But this is like finding the word on the tip of your tongue I’ve looked at the world this way my entire life.

  • @itsteej
    @itsteej Před rokem +3401

    i have been so emotionally stable and unwavering ever since I have practiced stoicism. Never felt more peace in my life. Never felt more in control of the present. Never felt more alive.

    • @mrwan5348
      @mrwan5348 Před rokem +36

      What advice would you give me to start practicing stoicism

    • @itsteej
      @itsteej Před rokem +204

      @@mrwan5348 separate emotion from action. Write down stoic rules to live by and read it everyday to reinforce it into your mind. You must remember this: its not about how you feel that will make you a man of substance, but about how you act.

    • @tunatheillest
      @tunatheillest Před rokem +7

      happy for you brother

    • @miamobeachgoddess
      @miamobeachgoddess Před rokem +6

      Thank you 🙏🏽 I truly feel this is my answer to balancing my emotional responses in life. I’m curious which books helped you along this path?

    • @illogical001
      @illogical001 Před rokem +2

      I’m going through the same thing right now and I hope I can keep it up! :)

  • @aneshkarpasupathi8168
    @aneshkarpasupathi8168 Před 2 lety +1884

    About a year ago i went through a phase in my life where i was severely depressed,like rock bottom depressed.I just came upon a video about stoicism in youtube randomly when i was just mindlessly watching videos.That video basically gave the spark that changed my life.I haven't done anything remarkable yet.But my life has gotten a lot better. Im working towards a solid goal,work out regularly,have well balanced relationships.I still got work to do though.For anyone going through tough times.Its all about the first step and consistency.

    • @jagrutijadhav4580
      @jagrutijadhav4580 Před 2 lety +4

      Which video?

    • @tamasmalovecz7905
      @tamasmalovecz7905 Před 2 lety +49

      "I haven't done anything remarkable yet.But my life has gotten a lot better." I'm not an expert or anything, but I think that is the whole point. You felt shit over nothing, (no offense) not because the exact things what happened (or not happened) with you, but because the way you where thinking about them. I wish all the best for you!

    • @nimbledick9869
      @nimbledick9869 Před rokem +6

      "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best."
      -- Seneca

    • @manuellanthaler2001
      @manuellanthaler2001 Před rokem +17

      Yo wtf same... three or four years ago a random yt video with 200.000 clicks not very popular basically cured my 5 year long depression... kinda cringe of my psyche to get fixed by basically just one wise sentence... really kinda cringe ngl

    • @nikolais2788
      @nikolais2788 Před rokem +13

      @@manuellanthaler2001 it’s not cringe at all, if it works, it works. The end goal is what’s important, I’m glad you’re doing better. :)

  • @emilroenneper3630
    @emilroenneper3630 Před rokem

    Thank you so much for this video, I often times come back to rewatch it because it is so good.

  • @davidmacan9704
    @davidmacan9704 Před rokem

    These 12 minutes passed like 3 to me. This helped me try to see world from different perspective as it is what I need the most rn

  • @set3837
    @set3837 Před 3 lety +685

    Everytime I watch aperture, I feel like I know everything, at the same time like knowing nothing

    • @stephencurry3502
      @stephencurry3502 Před 3 lety +5

      ye same

    • @baticadavinci3984
      @baticadavinci3984 Před 3 lety +10

      You people who eat this non-insightfull, non-profound nonsense baffle me... True knowledge comes from giving your entire being to something, whether it's a passion or a person it doesn't matter, through that active sacrifice understanding arises. God himself could write a book about philosophy and it'd be meaningless, because people, in reality, can really only learn through personal experience.

    • @IsiahStfleur
      @IsiahStfleur Před 3 lety +38

      @@baticadavinci3984 I mean 100% correct on the matter but what you say contradicts to the point of his videos. He isn’t trying to educate people but more like inspire them to educate themselves.

    • @set3837
      @set3837 Před 3 lety +2

      @@baticadavinci3984 its a joke my guy

    • @maeg598
      @maeg598 Před 3 lety +1

      ok gojos domain chillee

  • @jackvandenberg8942
    @jackvandenberg8942 Před 3 lety +440

    This man changing lives with that smooth voice alone

    • @therealvierz2687
      @therealvierz2687 Před 3 lety +6

      That's Gay lol

    • @jakewaller9700
      @jakewaller9700 Před 3 lety +26

      @@therealvierz2687 fellas, is it gay to listen to another man's voice?

    • @oobabaque793
      @oobabaque793 Před 3 lety +13

      @@therealvierz2687 That ain’t gay.

    • @oobabaque793
      @oobabaque793 Před 3 lety +2

      Ur so right tho🤚🏻

    • @qed3318
      @qed3318 Před 3 lety +1

      He kinda sounds like Carl Sagan ngl

  • @harendrasinha3722
    @harendrasinha3722 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Well I got no reason to not claim it as the best vdo I have ever watched in the 25years of my life. Hats off to the creator!

  • @alihasnain3280
    @alihasnain3280 Před rokem

    Stoicism has to be the best self help book I ever encountered, I think it's way more than that, It's a way of life and the only one you need. I am right now on my journey to become a stoic, I can already feel changes like not getting in arguments frequently, not getting offended easily, being indifferent to a lot of things in life such as pain and rejection.

  • @leviporter480
    @leviporter480 Před 3 lety +323

    “Imagine you’re dead, you’re thinking of what you should’ve done in your last moments. Now live like that day to day”
    -some quote I heard.

    • @srinidhiacharla1766
      @srinidhiacharla1766 Před 2 lety +1

      Something like what Don draper said in the mad men.

    • @zynk2504
      @zynk2504 Před 2 lety

      More so hedonism less stoicism

    • @zynk2504
      @zynk2504 Před 2 lety +11

      @@person-no2zs if I lived my life everyday like it was my last I’d be a fucking meth addict

    • @contagonist8478
      @contagonist8478 Před 2 lety +1

      @@zynk2504 people out here purgin`Morty 😅 😅 😅

    • @dislikereporter2271
      @dislikereporter2271 Před 2 lety +3

      @@zynk2504 I think that says a lot about you as a person, if all you crave in your final days are carnal pleasures

  • @brodothedodo
    @brodothedodo Před 3 lety +894

    "if you are dumb there is a high chance you are not smart" - Anonymous

    • @dartthenightlight3840
      @dartthenightlight3840 Před 3 lety +22

      And yet... not being smart is still being smart... in your own way.

    • @lorenzsanjuan
      @lorenzsanjuan Před 3 lety +24

      Water is wet - anonymous

    • @thesecondsage
      @thesecondsage Před 3 lety +16

      'if you are breathing, then there's a good chance you're alive' - anonymous

    • @MortySmith
      @MortySmith Před 3 lety +14

      If you are reading this then you can read
      - anonymous

    • @PrototypeLightLight
      @PrototypeLightLight Před 3 lety +7

      hm yes the floor here is made out of floor
      -some random meme

  • @fantawhore69
    @fantawhore69 Před rokem +1

    im 89 and this video is SERIOUSLY life changing... helped me cure my smoked meats addiction.

  • @antonioorive1373
    @antonioorive1373 Před rokem +6

    This is what we need, our generation lacks direction and channels like this will give it further purpose.

  • @swaggermcjagger4266
    @swaggermcjagger4266 Před 3 lety +497

    “in our modern society advertisements are shoved down our throats, we’re taught we need to have the latest and greatest thing in order to-“ (video gets cut off by an ad break)

    • @oldslowcoach
      @oldslowcoach Před 3 lety +40

      @riser it's called totally missing the irony of the joke

    • @DylanR2910
      @DylanR2910 Před 3 lety +2

      Got a sad ad about world hunger

    • @3lit3gn0m3
      @3lit3gn0m3 Před 3 lety +1

      @riser Thanks for making me lose the small hope in humanity I got from the video.

    • @cinemaphar
      @cinemaphar Před 3 lety +2

      @riser that’s some irony coming from you, my guess is you’ve secretly learned nothing from this video.

    • @cccsss123
      @cccsss123 Před 3 lety

      hey bud u can download a youtube ad block at google web store lolol but yea nice joke i laughed 😂

  • @doncorleone6221
    @doncorleone6221 Před 2 lety +595

    "if you ugly, you ugly. stop talking bout inner beauty"
    ~ Master Oogway

    • @yuriijam
      @yuriijam Před 2 lety +40

      Man does not carry X rays to see your inner beauty or whateva he said XDDD

    • @xiijinpingthesupremeleader1349
      @xiijinpingthesupremeleader1349 Před 2 lety +6

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @behindyou666
      @behindyou666 Před 2 lety +35

      Talking about inner beauty is a very stoic thing to do. What is not stoic is focusing on you being ugly

    • @BlackCat-yt4gp
      @BlackCat-yt4gp Před 2 lety +11

      You might call me ugly but I focus on myself so I am still very pretty :33 My mother agrees!

    • @goggins6121
      @goggins6121 Před 2 lety +2

      nah thats mugabe school of quotes

  • @TheIndigenousFolkist.
    @TheIndigenousFolkist. Před 3 měsíci

    I visit this video from time to time so i can realize no matter how hard life gets we'll make it through

  • @zoomin9397
    @zoomin9397 Před rokem +7

    I think I have followed the practice of stoicism without knowing it, I had never heard about stoicism before clicking on this video yet I resonate with most things brought up. I guess I have just taught myself through experiences in life; I’ve learned to forgive myself and others, I’ve learned not have many expectations and take things as they come and I have learned that stubbornness leads to downfall and that you should always hear both sides out before reaching a conclusion.

    • @lucasa.203
      @lucasa.203 Před rokem

      you might like brittany simon on yt

  • @aadikochhar4028
    @aadikochhar4028 Před 3 lety +159

    Today I escaped from anxiety. Or no, I discarded it, because it was within me, in my own perceptions - not outside.
    - Marcus Aurelius

  • @angelevergreen999
    @angelevergreen999 Před 3 lety +130

    "you should judge the sucess of your work based on the amount of effort you put in not the outcome of the external hope"
    This hits hard..

    • @fatimaroshan7108
      @fatimaroshan7108 Před 2 lety +1

      THAT ACTUALLY HIT HARD

    • @alextombagaa
      @alextombagaa Před 2 lety

      fr my quiz is sometimes like bad like zero goddamn math bruh like I won't be using it forever😩😭✋..

  • @LANSCE
    @LANSCE Před rokem +2

    I always prepared for the worst outcomes not because I'm being pessimistic but to prepare myself to not be disappointed. I don't know if that's part of being a stoic but I just do it everytime.