A Loving Choice: a mom shares her story of termination for a T21 diagnosis

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2020
  • Rebecca shares her fertility journey, starting with her 1st pregnancy that ended in miscarriage, then her second pregnancy (which is her living daughter) and her 3rd pregnancy which resulted in a baby boy with a T21 Down's Syndrome diagnosis and heartbreaking termination. Rebecca also shares about her journey with pregnancy after TFMR.
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    Keywords:
    NIPT, Panorama testing, CVS, FISH results, 1st trimester abortion, Chorionic villai sampling, poor prenatal diagnosis, TFMR, termination for medical reasons, Abortion in Massachusetts, abortion doula
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Komentáře • 6

  • @skibax3
    @skibax3 Před 3 lety +17

    I am currently going through this and everything that this woman said resonates, especially the bit about still being pregnant and feeling movement and wanting to honour the baby still inside you, whilst knowing that it wouldn't be for much longer. 😔 it is the most heartbreaking experience of my life and I wish no one would ever have to deal with the grief that this kind of situation brings.

  • @kmac9889
    @kmac9889 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Going through this right now and it is the hardest thing I have ever been through. Thankfully I have a a wonderful husband who has been by my side through everything. I really appreciate being able to hear another story so similar to mine…T21 is not a fatal diagnosis, so I feel that some people judge the decision to terminate…maybe judge isn’t the right word, and obviously it shouldn’t matter what others think as long as we did what was right for us, but it is a difficult situation that people really don’t talk about. Really feels good to hear a story I can relate to almost exactly…I think it’s important to just feel my feelings to start the healing process, and this helps. Thank you.

  • @esornart
    @esornart Před 3 lety +10

    I am currently going through this and it’s the most heartbreaking and painful experience I’ve to go through right now.

  • @gruebsy1979
    @gruebsy1979 Před 3 lety +9

    Thank you so much for sharing this! When I went through this earlier this year there were hardly any videos about TFMR on CZcams, and even less about a non fatal diagnosis. This helps women/parents going through this horrific time and it certainly makes me feel less alone.

  • @aliemay02
    @aliemay02 Před 3 lety +3

    You are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @sammiex3211
    @sammiex3211 Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you so much for sharing, i have recently gone through a very similar situation and its just the most heart breaking thing. These videos help so much, so thank you x