Sabrina Fletcher
Sabrina Fletcher
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Holoprosencephaly diagnosis and termination of wanted pregnancy
Kate, a TFMR (termination for medical reasons) mom and mom to two living kids, tells her story of her baby's holoprosencephaly diagnosis, a brain abnormality. In this episode of Our TFMR Stories, she shares her mental health story around the death of her baby and then a subsequent pregnancy (sub-pregnancy) after loss, and the trauma of a prolonged hospitalization/NICU stay in said sub-pregnancy.
****If you are a bereaved TFMR parent, I invite you to check out my upcoming grief support group (Ascend: A TFMR Grief Circle) to see if this could be the group for you: www.theTFMRdoula.com/ascend-apply
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Resources mentioned:
My free Facebook group for termination for medical reasons (TFMR) parents which you can apply to join here: www.thetfmrdoula.com/facebookgroup
Ending a Wanted Pregnancy (mentioned as E W P in the interview):
www.endingawantedpregnancy.com
And if you would like to share *your* TFMR Story on "Our TFMR Stories," email me here to find out more: sabrina at theTFMRdoula dot com
Music clip:
Pamgaea by Kevin MacLeod
Link: incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/4193-pamgaea
License: creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
zhlédnutí: 744

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zhlédnutí 124Před 3 lety
Chat with author and photographer Suzie Jay Goldsmith on her new book The Rallying Cry (link below to buy) all about how living a creative life helps her in her grief after not one, but two TFMR (termination for medical reasons). Pick up her free self-care planner, and free photography tip downloads here: www.mylittlemuse.co.uk/ Links/Books mentioned: THE RALLYING CRY: Healing the Hardest Parts...
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A Loving Choice: a mom shares her story of termination for a T21 diagnosis
zhlédnutí 4,9KPřed 3 lety
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Termination of wanted pregnancy for severe omphalocele: a mother's story
zhlédnutí 1,1KPřed 3 lety
Amber tells her story about her son's poor prenatal diagnosis. His intestines, kidney, liver, stomach, and a portion of his heart were developing outside of his body. No diaphram could be found on the ultrasound. She traveled out of state for care during her termination. Would you like to share *your* TFMR Story on "Our TFMR Stories?" Email me here: sabrina at thetfmrdoula dot com & for more su...
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New channel with weekly TFMR stories and pregnancy loss support

Komentáře

  • @valm8976
    @valm8976 Před měsícem

  • @slaviapolandia7541
    @slaviapolandia7541 Před 2 lety

    So glad to see you back on youtube!

    • @sabri224
      @sabri224 Před 2 lety

      Glad to be back. Thank you for watching my story ❤

  • @kmac9889
    @kmac9889 Před 2 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. Going through this right now and it is the hardest thing I have ever been through. Thankfully I have a a wonderful husband who has been by my side through everything. I really appreciate being able to hear another story so similar to mine…T21 is not a fatal diagnosis, so I feel that some people judge the decision to terminate…maybe judge isn’t the right word, and obviously it shouldn’t matter what others think as long as we did what was right for us, but it is a difficult situation that people really don’t talk about. Really feels good to hear a story I can relate to almost exactly…I think it’s important to just feel my feelings to start the healing process, and this helps. Thank you.

  • @esornart
    @esornart Před 3 lety

    I am currently going through this and it’s the most heartbreaking and painful experience I’ve to go through right now.

  • @emmao8477
    @emmao8477 Před 3 lety

    This woman seems so lovely, I lost my baby to the same diagnosis. Thank you for sharing.

  • @skibax3
    @skibax3 Před 3 lety

    I am currently going through this and everything that this woman said resonates, especially the bit about still being pregnant and feeling movement and wanting to honour the baby still inside you, whilst knowing that it wouldn't be for much longer. 😔 it is the most heartbreaking experience of my life and I wish no one would ever have to deal with the grief that this kind of situation brings.

  • @mrslucienlove
    @mrslucienlove Před 3 lety

    Thank you for being so brave and sharing. You have know idea how much it helps. Thank you

  • @sammiex3211
    @sammiex3211 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing, i have recently gone through a very similar situation and its just the most heart breaking thing. These videos help so much, so thank you x

  • @gruebsy1979
    @gruebsy1979 Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing this! When I went through this earlier this year there were hardly any videos about TFMR on CZcams, and even less about a non fatal diagnosis. This helps women/parents going through this horrific time and it certainly makes me feel less alone.

  • @csepanik
    @csepanik Před 3 lety

    Much love to you! So awful to even have to be in that position.

  • @aliemay02
    @aliemay02 Před 3 lety

    You are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story. <3

  • @viellen
    @viellen Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for sharing your story, Dana. You made such a difficult and loving choice for your baby.

  • @nmshimabuku
    @nmshimabuku Před 3 lety

    Thank you so much for doing this. ❤️

    • @sabri224
      @sabri224 Před 3 lety

      Thank you for your support <3

  • @katymarie7
    @katymarie7 Před 3 lety

    This is wonderful and will be so helpful to do many families! ❤️

    • @sabri224
      @sabri224 Před 3 lety

      I so hope so! Thank you!

  • @emmadweck2523
    @emmadweck2523 Před 3 lety

    Thank you for this! So important to share stories and bring awareness for those who have had to go through this heartbreaking decision. ❤️

    • @sabri224
      @sabri224 Před 3 lety

      Yes, I hope it will help <3