The Truth About Newlyweds and Sex: Our Intimate Confessions | Episode 180, Heart of Dating Podcast

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  • čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
  • Join Kait and JJ as they start season 10 out with talking about how they prepped for sex during engagement, the wedding night, honeymoon, and post honeymoon.
    TIMESTAMPS:
    00:00 Introduction
    10:00 Background
    18:30 Prepping for Sex During Engagement
    28:10 Wedding Night
    44:30 Honeymoon
    48:05 Sex Post Honeymoon
    53:20 Biggest Issue/Challenge With Sex
    57:17 What advice would you go back and give yourself now?
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Komentáře • 21

  • @maximusdecimusmeridious3784
    @maximusdecimusmeridious3784 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I feel JJ deserves an award
    Being ok being a virgin when your spouse wasn’t but made you wait … impressive man

  • @mariettamiller9264
    @mariettamiller9264 Před rokem +9

    Really appreciate your vulnerability and realness. Kait, your deep healing moment together before sex profoundly impacted me. And I’m so so grateful for redemption!! I too have been healed from sooo much and have yet to experience marriage and holy moments that I know are Fathers heart for me and sex. And to hear you both talking about it gifted us a little glimpse into that holy moment. Thank you 🙏

  • @heavencamedown
    @heavencamedown Před rokem +4

    Wow, this is a phenomenal biblical and loving discussion. I love that statement- do not let sex be on the throne of your marriage.

  • @art_strings
    @art_strings Před 9 měsíci +1

    I've experienced that redemption you speak of. God is a God who restores.

  • @rachelleantoine4819
    @rachelleantoine4819 Před rokem +3

    Thanks so much for sharing and being honest & vulnerable! This is so encouraging and practical! Thankful for you guys serving us singles in this way!

  • @wearejustdating
    @wearejustdating Před rokem +2

    Much respect to you both for being honest about this so early on! ✊🏾

  • @ry2yb
    @ry2yb Před rokem

    Thanks for sharing your story and being so vulnerable. Excellent video.

  • @Nbrolfiwriting
    @Nbrolfiwriting Před rokem +1

    Awwww love you guys! Sorry I couldn't be at conference but hopefully next time!

  • @katherinegreen4712
    @katherinegreen4712 Před rokem +5

    Thank you so much for the gift of your vulnerability. This was such a beautiful story and a beautiful lesson. I learned so much I know that this video will bring so many blessings to you guys and to others.

    • @jjtomlin
      @jjtomlin Před rokem

      we love you girl!! thank you for the kindness!!

  • @tfrizz2050
    @tfrizz2050 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for this episode and for this series! 🙏🏻

  • @jessicatuttle3022
    @jessicatuttle3022 Před rokem +2

    Thank you both for your humility! This was so healing!

    • @jjtomlin
      @jjtomlin Před rokem +1

      SO awesome!! glad it served you well and it was HEALING!!

  • @CS_JavaDev
    @CS_JavaDev Před 9 měsíci +1

    That was so helpful and encouraging. Thanks for sharing such relatable, biblical and considerate content on a frequent basis 👌🎉

  • @MHTownsend57
    @MHTownsend57 Před rokem +2

    That was cool guys. I appreciate that you guys shared and also have the wisdom to say you are still learning. From my experience every marriage, person, and couple is different. What works for you may not work for someone else. Its nice to take the things into consideration of what did work for you guys though. Its funny on some of the things I found myself relating more with you Kait emotionally and with expectations and then on other things I found I could totally relate with JJ. I couldn't predict lining up 100% with say just JJ, that was interesting. Good stuff and good food for thought.

    • @jjtomlin
      @jjtomlin Před rokem +2

      so awesome!!! we love the difference in our stories and how we are wired today, it is a great blessing to be able to speak to a spectrum of experiences and people!! glad you enjoyed, hope it challenged and encouraged you!

  • @THERSC216
    @THERSC216 Před rokem +2

    Kait I am a man but I read your book and loved it. Thank you both for honesty.

    • @jjtomlin
      @jjtomlin Před rokem +3

      she killed it didnt she!!

    • @THERSC216
      @THERSC216 Před rokem +1

      @@jjtomlin you both did

  • @mjj4780
    @mjj4780 Před 5 měsíci

    Who is Papa Diwa?