How to Tell if They're REALLY The One For You | Should You Marry Them Episode 166, HOD Podcast
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- čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
- Kait & JJ discuss how you really know they are right for you, how to evaluate, discern and even reasons you shouldn't stay.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Introduction
05:55 Evaluation
13:15 JJ’s Evaluation and Story
23:50 Big Deal # 1
31:45 Big Deal # 2
38:40 Discernment
48:30 Reasons NOT to stay
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Amen!It's who we choose to commit to daily.I hate the whole finding your specific kingdom spouse.
Awesome and thorough info guys!! TY!
So encouraging ! Thank you for sharing your story !
I struggle with this when deciding who I want to date. Personally, I don't want to go on a date before I know someone.
I am so grateful for you both and your vulnerability to share your story. THANK YOU! SO SO VERY MUCH!
Thank you both so much. This is a God send. Love it ❤
Oh my!! So amazing!! So encouraging! ✨✨
Aw great!!! Happy to hear you enjoyed!!
This was so good 👍 it really gave me clarity. Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed!!!
Great podcast! The part about not dating in a silo and having mentorship from a Godly couple who can relate well to what you're going through is key! Also having someone who would still choose you even after conflict..that's it!
For sure!!! 💯
What about the story of Ruth and Boaz?
Major respect to JJ. We certainly need more male perspectives speak out
Kait brings out the best me in me too :)
@@jjtomlin Yes, shout outs to Kait for starting such difficult conversations and creating the perfect grounds for both perspectives as well 🙌
I'm new here
I married, but things didn't work out. I have emotional problems that I never dealt with that caused our marriage to break down. But my ex also was not compatible with me. So I am returning to the single life, and accepting that this is the final situation I will live in. Biblically, socially, and emotionally remarriage is not something that I can partake in.
Did you use a therapist for pre-marriage counseling or is that something you did through your church? Great idea!
We used a pastoral couple!!!
I don't have to know if she's the one. For me, there's no one because I want to be single. Not to serve, but because my life is a train wreck, and I refuse to bring someone into my mess.
You ok bro? Need some encouragement or support?
I believe in premarital before engagement
Wohooo