@@HeartofDating Hi gusy, I wanted to tell you about something. I'm 41 so I'm meeting a 61-year-old man. We're Christians and love to share lots of things in common. We met in a chat room last September and want to marry sometime in the future. What is your advice for me about that?
I am an older single Christian man. I have never met an available woman who ever showed me a green flag. I accepted years ago that I will never date or marry and remain alone and celibate for life. It's just not worth it.
It took me almost 3 years, matched with ~100+ women via Christian Singles event, 5 online dating apps, recommendation by friends, Meetup events, attending as many Christian events. Within two hours drive is supposedly 2.5 million people with ~38% Christians. Only ~10 dates eventuated. Only found 1 so far... but I found one. Never quit, never surrender, always forward.
Unhealthy. Priority 1 being the Lord and priorty 2 being family, is fine. But if you are not at least priority 3 and 4 semi-regularly, and you are fighting for her attention amongst recreation, friends, and career, you are almost certainly a doormat. You should be at least bringing her as much joy as recreation, friends, and her career. David Richo outlined 5 key things to a healthy relationship: attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, and allowing. If you are no.5, you almost certainly has zero appreciation and allowing, minimal attention and affection, and you're about as accepted as a car tyre to her. Cut and run.
Great job you two! Love what you are doing and thank you for the Heart of Christian Dating!
Thank you for watching! We love getting to do this!
you'll want someone who's agreeable, conscientious and open as opposed to irresponsible, ill-tempered and neurotic.
Hi Kait and JJ, may the Lord bless both of you from Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic! I really love this episode so thanks for sharing it.
thank you! so glad you enjoyed the episode!
@@HeartofDating Hi gusy, I wanted to tell you about something. I'm 41 so I'm meeting a 61-year-old man. We're Christians and love to share lots of things in common. We met in a chat room last September and want to marry sometime in the future. What is your advice for me about that?
@@anal.mendoza that's amazing! Remember to pace it out! Character shines over time! We have a few great episodes about pace you can check out!
@@HeartofDating Thanks for that, I really appreciate them!
I love this episode so much!!!❤❤love you guys
thank you! We LOVE you Michelle!
What a great episode
Thank you Jaime!!!
I am an older single Christian man. I have never met an available woman who ever showed me a green flag. I accepted years ago that I will never date or marry and remain alone and celibate for life. It's just not worth it.
It took me almost 3 years, matched with ~100+ women via Christian Singles event, 5 online dating apps, recommendation by friends, Meetup events, attending as many Christian events. Within two hours drive is supposedly 2.5 million people with ~38% Christians. Only ~10 dates eventuated.
Only found 1 so far... but I found one.
Never quit, never surrender, always forward.
@Amoki86 Sometimes, you do need to quit. Try 40+ years...
Unhealthy. Priority 1 being the Lord and priorty 2 being family, is fine. But if you are not at least priority 3 and 4 semi-regularly, and you are fighting for her attention amongst recreation, friends, and career, you are almost certainly a doormat. You should be at least bringing her as much joy as recreation, friends, and her career.
David Richo outlined 5 key things to a healthy relationship: attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, and allowing. If you are no.5, you almost certainly has zero appreciation and allowing, minimal attention and affection, and you're about as accepted as a car tyre to her. Cut and run.