Bro I need help my curls for anywhere but the back of my hair I use all products and no progress and I don't know what to do I use more products on the back than front and it still doesn't get curly PLEASE if yall have any ideas please tell me
Black women are attributed with creating the natural hair movement as a response to the workplace and school-related racism they faced. This included being labeled unprofessional or unkempt, and even having their carefully coiled locs requested to be cut off to participate in graduation ceremonies. This mistreatment has been a recurring issue for centuries and was exemplified through tignon laws in the past. The natural hair movement aimed to empower black women to embrace their natural hair without the need for weaves or perms in pursuit of professionalism and to combat racism. It is not the concern of the movement that white individuals style their hair naturally - those who argue this are misguided. However, it would be inappropriate for white individuals to invade and colonize the natural hair space, which was created as a safe space for black women. Doing so would involve stealing the language of the movement and depleting the products specifically made for African hair, whereas products for white individuals have always been abundant. It is essential to understand the nuance involved in this issue. Sources: - "The Natural Hair Movement: A Historical Perspective" by Krika Bradsher at The Huffington Post - "The 'Right to Be Natural': Deaths, Weaves, and Natural Hair Politics in the English-Speaking Caribbean" by Alaina Morgan at Contexts - "Why Black Women Are Against White Women In The Natural Hair Movement" by Taryn Finley at The Huffington Post - "Black Women and Identity: What's Hair Got to Do with It?" by Tamara Winfrey Harris at The Guardian.
People forget that curly hair products takes care of the curls and enhances them, it dosnt GIVE someone curls. Edit: oml I completely forgot about this comment but 61k likes thank you guys 💀
@nuriyah79 curl products definitely can help, but to a certain extent. It can only do so much when it comes to damaged hair. But it will definitely help
As a straight hair girlie: there is no amount of hair product in the world that would make my hair form/hold ANY type of curl pattern, it just ain’t happening. Hair products made for specific hair types do not TURN any hair into said hair type!!!
I used to have pin straight hair. Like even with heat and product nothing would hold. But after growing my hair back from a short “masc” cut my hair came back wavy borderline curly. Now even if I scrunch it without product it will curl/wave. Hair’s weird sometimes.
I loved hearing her say how people can have 2 different hair types, because I do lol. Wavy in the back and progressively gets curly’r as it gets to the front (my bangs are almost coily) and I’ve never actually heard someone talk about our existence 😭
As someone with pin straight hair who always wanted some curls, I wholeheartedly agree lol theres literally nothing I can do with products to cause curls
If you have straight hair, no amount of product will make them curl unless you use overnight no-heat curling methods or a curling iron. If I used those some products she used, my straight hair won’t budge
That's literally curly, that's the point of it being called curly, and it's super cute. I have curly hair and I'm not even offended, I'm actually happy to see people with curly hair
Curly hair community went from “Everyone embrace your curls” to gatekeeping REAL quick. Glad there’s girls like this who still keep the acceptance going
@@kdeet3566 only person shoving race in everyone's faces are you. you need to sincerely get some perspective. curly hair is found in EVERY race but apparently curly hair is only valid if you have tight curls. seriously go touch grass
Apparently only black girls can have curls. Anyone else who claims to have curly hair is a liar, racist, ignorant, and participating in culture appropriation.
I have straight hair on the top layer, wavy in the mid zone, and tight curls on the bottom. I literally have super dreds every morning. Good times with mixed texture hair.
I have different hair textures too. It's crazy how there's wispy, fine hair in sections and then the frizzy, zigzag hairs. So my hair does its own thing.
While technically not rude I've definitely gatekeeped my curls for a long time growing up because I was bullied for a long time when I was younger, think elementary to middle school. This was when having straight hair was the "mode" and while I didn't straighten my hair I also didn't really know how to take care of it like I do now so I kept it pretty short. But while everyone was burning their hair away I was just leaving it natural and love my curls as my hair has gotten longer and as I get older.
I have a very loose curl, but it still winds around itself in a spiral (just a big one) and people never believe me when I tell them I have curly hair. Mainly because my bangs are wavy. My curls are also being weighted down because my hair is pretty long (it reaches my waist) . I recently found out I had curly hair, but the curls barely showed up because I didn't take care of them. I found out I had curls because my hair always looked like a squirrel lived in it after combing. I just started taking care of my hair, mainly because of channels like yours and the girl you reacted to! Thank you!
Dude for people trying to say her hair isn’t curly I could personally use every product she uses and more and do it the same way and my hair will not be curly I have straight hair she doesn’t lol she spoke straight facts
Also different types of curls need different products and routines. I can't handle thick creams since mine r loose and too much oil. People who have more coily hair can use more nourishing products. They also don't always even need this "bowl method" and can go straight in with product on their hands
It's so wild how a community can be created around any harmless thing and end up with these toxic qualities lol. The chronically online people gotta settle down.
People do know that curls exist in all races, right? edit: I came back months after to see multiple replies saying "who said anything about race?" well babes - if you take a look at this short's caption and the original tiktok - everyone. also, funny how some of y'all just assumed my race. but please do act stupid.
WHY did this girl have to DEFEND her curly hair?!? WTF world are we living in!!?? Look at the extent this girl had to go to because some shmuck had the nerve to tell her she was being offensive calling HER OWN HAIR curly!!! She's giving a fricken dissertation on the nature of curly hair! As someone who has had curly hair my whole life (and hated it, especially since we didn't have social media and the whole curly girl hair routine)---I feel for her!
@@bobasleepsI think it comes from, people who actually have curls, spirals, corkscrews naturally, don’t need a “routine” to show it. The routine is, being born and existing. I think that’s where it comes from.
Exactly. People should actually mind their own business. It’s either disagree, agree, or ignore. Don’t fight if it’s just opinion. If it’s fact, racism, sexism, etc, you have to fight. But if it’s, my favorite color is red, why are you arguing? It’s a opinion that someone could have
As a curly haired gal, this lady 1000% has curly hair. Also, to the other curly heads, has anyone said to you they have curly hair but it’s actually straight📏?
There is nothing that a straight haired person can do to make their hair curly without serious manhandling-curlers, pins, or irons. Her hair is curly. I am jealous of all the curly girls.
Sammmeee. I have wanted a perm my whole life but am soo afraid to do it. And now my once waist length hair is brittle and shoulder length because of stress induced hairloss 😭
it's wavy. hence why she uses a diffuser to make it into ringlets. people with curly hair don't need it and if they choose to use it, it helps. but it's gonna curl regardless.
@Faerienice wavy is a type of curl. Ringlets are not the only kind of curl. A diffuser simply dries the hair without causing a ton of frizz, that's it. Both of my sisters use diffusers, it helps dry their curls faster, but it gives me more frizz so I air dry my curls - it doesn't make it any more curly. I have a mix of corkscrew curls and waves, no matter what product I use, those waves will not corkscrew (even if I twist them). If your curl pattern gets damaged (as this lady said hers did), it can take a long time to get it back.
My hair has been a 2c all my life because I was raised in a household of completely straight hair and we had no idea how to take care of it. After finally starting to take care of it, I've discovered I'm actually a 3b! Hair's crazy and I love it :]
My curls are a lot like hers. It went crazy after my hair all went silver (in my 20s). I didn't know how to take care of it so cut it super short. It's long now and I am learning!! Thank you!
It so funny, i have straight hair and even if i did everything in this video it would still be straight (maybe a bit frizzy). So if you do this and your hair becomes curly, then yes, you definitely have curly hair.
this is coming from a person with curly hair: that is 100% curly, people are saying “iTs BeCaUsE oF tHe PrOdUctS sHe UsEs” no, all hair products can do is enhance naturally curly hair. it’s curly and that’s that
As a woman with the straightest hair ever I can confirm. I even got a perm (yeah, I know) and within a week it was straight again. You can't get curls just by putting some products in.
exactly, I have thick wavy hair and have tried curly hair products before, all it does for me is reduce the frizz and keep the waves, it doesn’t make my hair curly whatsoever
exactly. cosmetology student here. i have pin-straight hair. so, of course i tried a curly hair routine +style to see if i could change up my hair. NOPE. my wavy hair clients can hold a finger coil- my straight hair? NOPE.
I have wavy hair with a LITTLE curl and that LITTLE curl is all any curly product will give me on its own. People are clowning thinking the products will magically make your hair curl smh
I Honestly think her hair is more wavy, if your hair is in the 1’s it’s straight 2 wavy 3 curly 4 coily. And if it was curly it would show being wet more. I think her hair is wavy and like a 2c
There was a black woman in our neighborhood that owned a salon. I remember when she invited me and my mom into her salon so she could teach us how to handle our curly hair, it was the beginning of my amazing curly journey.
Yip, when I was younger and when I cut my hair in a bob a couple years ago I had 3b/a curls now my hair almost touches my bum but it’s 3a curls they very loose.
@@Mellon99” The longer your hair grows, the heavier it becomes. This weight pulls your curls and elongates them, which can change the texture of your curls” My hair is definitely not wavy it’s still very curly it just more loose then when my hair is short. I have to put in more effort to define my curls if I want it to look nice because it’s long and also because I have slight heat damage. If I were to cut my hair in a bob now it will be extremely curly. We don’t mean our curls disappear but if ur hair is damaged or when u have extremely long hair that is type 3 ur curls will become a bit more loose but u won’t lose them.
As a biracial person I can confirm that you can have all kind of hair on my head. Depending on how much length you have it weighs your hair down mine happens to be really fine so it doesn't take much of any change to make it act differently. My hair types range from straight to kinky moisture plays a big part as well. It's beyond my shoulder as far as length right now but after I wash it I use a leave-in conditioner finger comb through it with my hair hanging down I throw it back I lean to the right and leave my head to the left and let that let the natural part form where it wants and I leave it and I end up four types of hair on my head. Now that I'm starting to go gray the hairs are a lot more coarse I have a feeling I'm going to end up just having waves when I go totally Gray.
“It’s disrespectful to people with curly hair” is the most hilarious thing I’ve heard in a while. I didn’t know people with curly hair were some kind of protected class but hey, you learn something new every day.
I would be willing to bet real money that the comment was made by a white person playing keyboard warrior, but too afraid to say POC or Black because "what if racist?!".
I feel so seen by her tbh. She emphasized how sometimes we can't even maintain our hair just due to life circumstances. Currently I have a baby and doing my hair is so hard because I have to get someone to watch her just to have the time and she's very attached to mama so I rarely get the time.
@@artofambra girl, I have that issue too but that still isn’t an excuse to go around hating on other people who have curls that are simply easier to handle. Just because her hair is less curly than someone else’s, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have curly hair. There is nothing to disrespect. Some people just have different curl types and that’s okay! I’m mixed, and most of my black genetics went to my hair. I struggle immensely with it, but I’m not gonna get upset about someone just because I’m jealous of the ease this particular girl handles her hair with. Life doesn’t work like that. Some people get beautiful curls that are a nightmare to deal with, and others get lucky and have different hair types. We just gotta adapt to what we have and learn to love it.
I can't believe people actually argue over this and people actually take the time to prepare such an intricate answer. And not that she was wrong but like I'm just going to call my hair whatever I'm going to call my hair and you can go kick rocks
People also fail to realize length plays a huge part in how curly your hair looks. With longer hair, the weight tends to pull on the curls and make hair look less curly than it actually is. It’s the reason why some people who cut their long hair are surprised to suddenly have waves or curls present because they thought it was straighter.
Yep. If I go for a bob, I have very loose curls. If I grow to midlength I have waves, longer than that and I have straight hair with some body to it. Back when it was all the way down my back you'd think I had absolutely no texture at all.
My curl pattern is the same whether it is .5 inch long or 30 inches long. It starts from the root. Wavy hair starts to wave/ curl further from the root. Wavy hair has curls that "fall" and curly/ coily hair just gets more curly or coily after a day or two.
Definitely! My hair’s normally wavy, with a weird little curly piece at the base of my neck I’ve had since I was a baby (dad had pin straight hair, mom had super curly hair). When my hair was shorter, you could see more waves to it or it would end up poofed out at the ends. Now that my hair’s super long it pulls everything straighter. I imagine if I did something with it you’d see the waves again, but I usually just put it up cause FL 😅
Even when I use a curling iron & hair spray my hair just goes immediately back to being straight. I got a perm once & my hair just fell out instead lol.
Same! Imagine my disappointment in the 8th grade when my curly friend showed me how to “scrunch” her hair like hers only for mine to turn into a stringy sticky mess from all the product we pumped in it. My Hair is so pin straight it can’t even hold a heated/overnight curl 😅
@@ingy291my hair is incredibly straight. Whenever I wave or curl my hair, it tends to drop within a few hours, unless I hairspray it until it crunches. The one thing that does help, is French plaiting my hair overnight and that seems to keep the wave.
i have very slightly wavy hair and it only really shows on the ends. i tried multiple variations of curly/wavy routines and nothing really worked. so if her hair ends up like that it's definitely curly to some degree. idk why it's such a taboo for her to do whats normal for her hair texture. just because she's 'white'..?
Literally! I have curly hair but it’s been so long my whole life and I never took care of it that it was straight and maybe a bit wavy, but my hair is shorter now and I’m starting to learn how to actually take care of it and the curly hair products I use do help my curls! The longer it gets, the more my curls fade, but I am determined to get my hair back to being full on curly.
well you actually can because hair is a fiber and flexible meaning you can make it do wtv you want it to do. so if straight hair ppl twirl it enough, use curly products, and scrunch enough they’ll get some form of ringlet. this is why a lot of people think they have curly hair just because it eventually curls after like an hour of scrunching. if your hair gets wet and doesn’t immediately bounce back or form a ringlet, your hair isn’t curly, if you have to do excessive AND I MEAN EXCESSIVE twirling and scrunching, you don’t have curly hair.
I have wavy/loosely curled hair and have tried my curly products on my boyfriend with pin straight hair and it does absolutely nothing for him except make his hair smell like coconuts. People saying that it’s the products just genuinely don’t know how hair works.
So, one way to see if I have straight hair or just damaged curls/loose waves is to try a routine for like a week and see if it changes anything? Idk how to take care of my own hair because my mom has pin straight thin hair and my dad doesn’t do hair care and I have a thick, dense, tangle prone mess. (I need an undercut or short hair all over to prevent weight migraines, when my hair is short all over it tends to be fluffy sometimes but I can’t figure out what makes it fluffy vs uncooperative and flat.)
@@jayce1850It might take more than a week. Your hair sounds kinda like mine (wavy/loose curls), and I know the big tip offs for me were: 1) When I was little, I had lots and lots of curls and lost them when my new hairdresser didn't know what to do with my hair and thinned it wrong 2) when I am in the shower and let the water drip for a while while I space out thinking, it'll turn into almost little-orphan-Annie-type curls.
@@jayce1850I deal with the same problems if my hair isn’t cut a certain way. I go for a shag style with a lot of layers. You can also pretty much guarantee curly or wavy hair if you brush it straight while wet and it dries into a frizzy mess of either a triangle or strangled curls. It can sometimes take a while to see the real texture thru any damage but straight hair stays straight all the time, even with a curly routine. Definitely find one that suits you. I’d go for lightweight products and satin bonnets or pillowcases.
@jayce1850 oh yeah no you have textured hair. Straight hair doesn't do fluffy, I can do literally anything to it I can neglect it brush it under all conditions dry it out and damage it and it has never been fluffy. If you start doing a curly hair routine it'll come up curly or wavy
It’s also ridiculous because people also always ignore the straight haired people in the comments saying it’s impossible to get straight hair to be anything other than straight without heat and hairspray
As a black girl with 4c hair, i'm so sorry they are giving you trouble. The curly hair community is always toxic about people with loose curls who use hair products or bonnets or silk caps (which can also be for straight hair) and I am embarrassed to think they also have 4c hair like me, so please continue on with your journey! It's nice to know people will take on the struggle and appreciate the beauty of their natural hair like most people like me! Lots of my white friends, because of the curly hair movement, have started to define and embrace their hair because of the new information from tiktok and other places! Im so happy to see those healthy curls so please don't give into the haters! I also want to say that we also don't need to blame all black people or all 4c people because there is only a loud minority that is causing issues but I see so many people shame all black people in general about our hair it is sucks because lots of people with 4c hair don't give a fuck about that lol. Please continue to take inspiration and expand on your hair care routine!
I am a korean girl with 2B-2C hair. curls are not exclusive to one race and can come in very different varieties. I would never get offended by someone calling their hair curly, either. She clearly has defined curls. Very pretty hair!! 😊
Oh same I’m a Korean too. My dad’s hair is very short, but he told me in college he used to have it long and it was very curly. My sister inherited it, I did not 😂
"It's disrespectful to the people who have curly hair" As a person with curly hair I can say it is absolutely not and yeah she does have curly hair contrary to popular belief you can be white and have curly hair
Yeah, my mom had curly hair, and my brother got it from her 😂 their curls aren’t as tight as I guess what people think of, but they’re still considered curls
If u gotta scrunch your hair to make curls it’s not curly hair curly hair girls don’t gotta scrunch their hair it forms at the touch of water she doesn’t have curly hair she has waves
@@AllCelebzTea I can't tell what your trying to say but I know those hair products only brought out the curls and she already had them the product only brings out what's already there and scrunching up the hair mainly does nothing in my experience
Ye duh. Women are humans. Humans are never left alone. U make it sound like every man and woman is against other women’s ass and that women should just have their actions happen in a vacuum
Hold your horses. This isn’t a women problem this is a people-being-idiots problem. I assume that the commenter is another woman and even if they aren’t this isn’t a matter of sex it’s a matter or ignorance.
@@angelapologistexcept this is true. Girls want to treat their curly hair? Rude to people that "actually have curly hair" want to be a "vsco girl"? Now you're a joke and a Halloween costume. Want to like Taylor swift? Cringe, looks like a cult. I could go on. It is a problem, don't pretend it's not.
I've had people tell me my hair "wasnt curly" when in reality, it is, but ive severely damaged my curl because i jad no idea how to care for it. I straightened it for many years of my life and ALWAYS brushed it when dry (never wet) because i just thought my hair was just funky. Never paid attention to the fact when brushed wet then aired dried, my hair actuality had curls. Now im trying to learn how to nurture them and get them healthy to actually see how curly they truely are when NOT damaged. There are so many different curl types out there. It baffles me when people will be rude to people over it.
@@MomentTumIsForTheBestI wouldn’t really say this situation is racist, but i have seen and heard a lot of people who have 4c curls saying that “white people can’t have curly hair” referring to only 4a+ hair is curly whitest anything lower than 4a or maybe even 3c are just wavy and that white people shouldn’t be using curly hair products because it’s only for black people hair.
She was saying that her curly hair looks different from other curly hair types and was explaining that… it wasn’t racial per se just a lack of knowledge on the accusers part that she is politely educating them on.
As a girl with curly hair, she is 100% correct that curl patterns can change, loosen, etc due to a bunch of different things. I'm still getting my pattern back from years of straightening my bangs. Also, she definitely has curly hair and using products isn't going to just make curls happen. You have to have something to start with, which you can see the curls starting at the bottom of her hair after shes brushed them.
Agree, I had a really curly hair since I was born but no one in my family had it and no one teached or even allowed me to take care of it, so while I grew my hair was always a mess and now that I'm an adult I'm trying to gain back the curly hair I once had because mine no matter how I take care of it will keep looking like I just brushed it dry
If u gotta scrunch your hair to make curls it’s not curly hair curly hair girls don’t gotta scrunch their hair it forms at the touch of water she doesn’t have “curly hair” she has waves!
@@AllCelebzTea but it did form. You can see at the ends that it started to form little curls before product. Also there are many types of curly hair. About 6 I believe. And if she had wavy hair, those curls wouldn't have stayed
I've literally been licensed as a hairdresser, and I've ripped people apart for arguing and being ignorant about it saying that someone doesn't have curly hair when they do. There's a scale of curl pattern for a reason. Anyone with real education in the hairdressing industry knows that. Waves are curls. I have pin straight hair, and desperately wish that I had even an ounce of the waves that a lot of my family has.
I've had the curly hair police telling to stop curling my hair... My hair is naturally this way and even looks curlier without hair products. Some people really think only they can have "real curls". (Also she truly has curly hair and its gorgeous)
I have a mixed friend who has pale skin and a natural curly afro and people tell her all the time in person that she's racist like.....this is her literal hair though? Wild.
@@MissImpoliteMy brother is as white as snow and he's always had a fro. I never even thought anything of it.. it is super weird to see this as a race thing since he's been my brother his whole life. 🥲
@eden1909 fr like...hair is hair and anyone can have it. I mean genetics as far back as 30 generations can randomly pop up at any point. Such a weird thing for people to be so bent out of shape over.
This really speaks to me, I am white, I have very very curly hair, I sometimes use products found in the “African American Hair Care” section, people constantly give me looks and stuff, and I’ve been called racist for even being in that section for products I know my hair likes and needs. Hair shouldn’t be claimed by a single race or culture, it should be something we embrace and let everyone try out, especially when that might be their natural hair texture!
@@Cutiepie0111Some bigots on the internet claim it's cultural appropriation for ww to wear their hair curly. That's where the need for her to post a video addressing it stems from. It's like everything white people do is somehow racist.
But it is claimed by certain cultures. People say that white people can't have certain styles, but what if their hair is naturally like that? Or what if they are mixed race and "passing" that's what I don't understand about the curly hair gatekeeping people.
@@Cutiepie0111She’s probably exaggerating. No one would call you racist for standing in an aisle. It’s like when yt girls on tt lied saying they were kicked out of Sally’s beauty cause they were yt 😭
The older I get the curlier my hair becomes. I've always had different level curls at different levels of my scalp, the top being almost straight so I have to cut it in a layered shag for a more uniformed look. My hair is also very thick so the weight pulls out the curl at the root like she mentions.
i damaged my curly hair a couple years ago (multiple hot showers/shampoo a day for months stemming from germphobia) and i shaved my head because i was just so upset seeing my sad limp hair. Such a freeing experience, and now using proper products on it and learning to look after it, my hair has never been happier :)
Growing up, I felt a lot of pressure to excessively brush my hair and straighten it because a lot of people (including some family members) made snide remarks about how my hair was so weird. When I went to college, a girl told me to just wear it how it is. It took me a while to feel confident like that. When I started dating my now husband, he said “I love your curls. When we have kids, I really want them to have your pretty curls.” And that honestly felt great to hear that someone loves me the way I am.
It's great to hear that you're able to love your hair the way it is. I grew up hearing a lot of negative things about curly hair, too (it's straightened in my picture, lol). I was convinced that straight, blonde 😬 hair was the prettiest. It took a long time for me to love my hair, too. Congratulations on finding your lovely husband, and for the beautiful family you will have! ❤
Same here though I didn't have someone to complément my hair but when I saw girls with the exact curls as me and they look pretty , I understood that my here doesn't look good 'cause I never learned how to care about it
@@bundleofbasilI used to bleach and straighten my hair for years.. my split ends were ridiculous. Let my hair grow out and now embrace the dark brown wavy/curly mess. It's not uniform curls either 😢
THIS. I got bullied for having curly hair. My now husband loves curly hair and prayed that our kids had curly hair because he’s obsessed with it. Looking back I had the cutest curls and seeing our son (only child who took my curls) with his curly hair and my face just makes my heart melt. He has the most precious hair and I wish I could undo all the damage I did to it so it could be as curly as his is again.
On my first date with my now husband, I didn’t have enough time to straighten my hair and just wore it curly. He loved my curls from day one and when I would wear it straight he told me he preferred it curly. 5 years later, I wear my hair curly nearly every day. It’s very rare for me to straighten it because I know how much my husband loves my curly hair. It’s wonderful that he’s embraced the curls!
As someone with stick straight hair. We could use everything she used, do everything she did, and not have curly hair. The products don’t form the curls, they just help the curls form.
Ive got the same thing I didnt know how to take care of my hair till a few months ago as a kid i woukd just brush it out never use product or diffuse. I now know how to look after my hair but its not super curly like others because i havent looked after it for such along time and its damaged. So now if i say i got curly hair everybody says "no you dont because you hair aint like others" . people need to stop crytisising as people know their hair type better you would. 💚
“Rude to people who have curly hair.” We really need to talk about that more often. Scalpism/Hairism is not something I made up a few seconds ago! It’s real, and people need to stop doing that.
@got_rats Her hair wouldn't do that without being curly in the first place. She's just helping it be healthy. Someone with 4c hair will literally have the same hair routine, and it would be considered natural. If I did this routine the best I would get is loose waves.
@@got_rats By that logic should I stop using conditioner because it's not natural? What about shampoo? In fact why even wash at all? I could use all of those products and techniques and my hair would be straight, because my hair is not naturally curly. Victorian women had this issue too, so they burned their hair or left it to dry overnight to achieve the look this woman can pull effortlessly (in comparison). This shouldn't take an explanation, but just because you don't understand the purpose of her routine doesn't mean you have the right to criticize it. Next you'll say a woman's natural beauty is not natural because she used a face cleanser, a moisturizer and some sunscreen before she stepped foot outside.
Thanks for not gatekeeping curls! 💕 there are too many people out there that act like people don’t have curls if they look any different than their curls. It’s refreshing to see people supporting eachother.
@@littlepurple175exactly! Lol! It HAS to be white people bc I’ve never in my entire life heard a black person be offended when a white person says their hair is curly. This has to be one of those situations where white people are tryna check other white people about racism but they’re doing way too much... 😂😂
As a person with naturally pin-straight, 1a, do-nothing hair, I can assure you that this is a very different texture than what I am working with. My hair would not hold even the slightest bend when wet.
I love how she mentioned that one scalp can have multiple types because my hair does a weird thing where (at it’s current length) it goes from semi/flat, then it starts to get wavy, and the closer it gets to the bottom the more it becomes a mix of curls and ringlets. How do some people still not realize that natural curls aren’t just tight curls? There’s like a whole variety of different types of curls 😂
Same! I air dry my hair too! I end up looking like mowgli from the Jungle book. Or like I’ve simply given up on life. I have ringlets, S patterns AND the front lays stick straight. 🙄 it’s also fine. So a lot of the curly/moisturizing products are way too heavy. But the volumizing leave my hair dry. The waves and curls only began to creep up in my 30’s. Now my hair is a shit show. 😂
fr! glad she mentioned that. if my hair is medium/long, it's almost stick straight almost down to the bottom but then it gets slightly wavy. it gets more wavy when it rains/snows but it's still pretty straight
As a person who wakes up with annoying curly and wavy hair that has a mind of its own...those of us with curly hair dont get offended bc we truly understand the struggles. Life is too short for this shit.
Fr like, we. don't. care. It's just funny when people said something trying to defend or get offended for someone else when the people who actually have it is just ok with it lol
Her hair is beautiful! I dont get why people have to gatekeep these kinds of things. Curling cream only enhances, never makes curls, so doing a curly hair routine would never work on straight hair
I swear people get mad and say everything "offends" a community or group of people. Then you ask people that are actually in the community and they say they dont care.
There is actually a black female creator on here who slags off any woman who is or looks white reacting like this to their TikTok’s/reels/shorts so it’s not always people who aren’t in those communities sadly
I dont understand how wanting or pretending to have something others have is rude I would just feel more special and grateful that i have that thing naturally
Someone got mad at me for saying I thought I had curly hair because of how my hair dries before it is brushed, they have an “s” shape and group together in bundles in that shape, they said i was culture appropriating and being racist 😢
@@T.O.A.S.T.E.R.D.A.D.Some people seriously think curly hair is exclusive to one culture?? Scots have curly hair sometimes, lots of people around the world have it too. How could they accuse you of such a thing??
@@falcon_arkaigthis. like do they just not... socialize with people from different parts of the world 😭 i mean even taylor swifts hair used to look like a blonde merida and she's white af
Exactly! No-one with tighter curls is getting offended that my looser curls are curls. Hair care is meant to be tailored to your individual needs, and sometimes it's just easier to look up methods for curly hair because, unsurprisingly, a lot of hair types can benefit from curly haircare methods. It's such a pointless war!
Gatekeeping curly hair must be one of the weirdest things I've heard in a WHILE. I used to think my hair was straight, even tho my entire family has curls. I dyed it a lot when I was younger and about a year ago my mom was like "ok your hair looks like cotton candy pls stop", helped me cut it all off and it's been growing healthily ever since. I have actual thicc, bundled curls now and I use hair products for curly hair because otherwise they turn into fluff. Hair types are diverse, just like people are.
it's actually a quite common thing in these kind of spaces. or defining what's "curly enough" and often excluding people with wavy hair, or if it's only curly/wavy at the bottom but not the top like hers at the end of the video bc they get accused of being fake. it's a stupid issue but some people get really offended over nothing
For years curls were seen as unkempt. You may have curls, but you aren’t a curly girl if you couldn’t hide your curls. The difference is that we had two curl products and every celebrity had straight hair. There was no representation for white curls, and black curls would be seen as rebellious. It’s not rocket science.
@@tomokokurokiirl that's so weird?? Honestly lots of wavy hair could still be considered curly lol. My hair is mermaid-wavy, but there's times when it very much looks more curly. I had natural tight curls when I was little! In middle school I HATED my waves and would straighten it to "fit in". Part of it was not knowing proper hair hygiene at that age lol. Now as an adult I loveee my hair. The waves make it so fluffy and soft! And I can do all the styles that I miserably failed at back then lol
The fact that there’s actually people out there who get offended and personally attacked by someone just calling their own hair curly, need therapy, not social media
I’m mixed and get my curly hair from my dad’s side of the family. They have tighter curls (the are black) and I have looser curls. Unfortunately I never learned how to take care of my kind of hair :( my mom tried but she has straight hair and doesn’t understand what my hair needs (neither do I) but im starting to learn now! You’re never too old to learn how to care for your hair
I can assure you she has curly hair. I have did this exact routine with similar products and my hair would be straight as a stick! I WISH my hair would curl. My hair doesn’t even hold curl with heat styling tools. 🙄
Can i ask if you are of asian descent? Im Vietnamese and Somali. Unfortunately I definitely got my mims hair and I swear it doesn’t curl. I can get a hold for almost an hour if its not humid outside. Otherwise they drop before i am even done styling.
@@ilyaalister8193I’m asian and I have natural curls yes most asians have straight here more than many race but we still have some who have natural curls
So you have what is called as a glass hair texture in the hairdresser lingo (at least in Finland we call it that). The straightest it could be and utterly difficult to work with!
As a person that has eyes to see and ears to hear and has the ability to learn- she has curly hair. One doesnt need to have curly hair to confirm or deny a simple fact. Look, listen, learn if unsure, and then judge based on the facts not popular opinion, pop culture, traditions, stereotypes, etc. Thats not just for hair thats for everything in life.
I have curly hair that can be really tight ringlets, but if I brush my hair out and down take care of it for many days, my hair turns wavy. Hair changes overtime depending on your level of care too. I don’t get people gatekeeping stuff like this. I find it endearing and complimentary when people try curls or say they want hair like mine.
Yes my sister has strait hair and she got a perm one day and it did not even last a week before it was almost straight of hair curls this easy it is curly hair
she is 100% right especially about having different curl patterns in your hair. ppl curl patterns can change over time with age (for example a baby hair can go from straight to curly as they grow up) or due to how you take care of them. for example, my natural hair is 4c but due to heat damage in the past the curls in the back of my head have changed and became more 4b or 4a.
True! As a baby/toddler, my hair was very curly. Then I hit around 5 years old and it was stick straight until I reached puberty where it curled up again majorly and has stayed that way since
@@AuroraNCSinger ok so it's normal to have changing texture, the same thing happened to me! I had ringlets until I was 4, then my hair became super straight. It then became wavy again in my teens, and now that I'm an adult I saw them straight again when I got long covid, now that I'm finally recovered they're wavy again! Isn't hair incredible?
My hair was really straight as a kid, but by the time I was in Jr. High it was curly. However, I didn't really realize it because it was extremely long until I was 8. Like, down to my knees. Then I got it cut really short until I finally decided to grow it out in 6th grade which meant lots of tight pony tails. Then I permed it for 7th and 8th. For 9th grade I decided I was done with perms and would let it go straight again...but it stayed curly. The perm really was permanent! lol. Eventually I realized this is why I could brush the back of my short hair and it would naturally curl under like I'd used a curling iron. My mother would ask me how I did it and I'd just shrug. I honestly didn't know because I didn't know I had curly hair. 😅
Your race does not define if you have curls. I’m mixed half English and half Nigerian, and my mum and my dad’s mother’s both had curly hair. Also there is more than 9 different types of curls 💯 love all curls they are beautiful
Yes!! I'm a white woman with curly hair. Yes, curly hair. Loose curls not tight ones, but they aren't waves. And yes, white people have curly hair too.
I have wavy hair that wont even hold a medium loose curl for a few hours, so she definitely has natural curly hair. Products dont give you curly or wavy hair, just enhance it and help it look better
As someone with 1a hair. This girl has beautiful curly hair. It would be more curly if it was short, but it's long and thick. The weight changes the curl a bit.
Fun fact, curly/wavy hair is wavy/curly because the hair shaft isn't perfect round but more elliptical. So if you took a cross section slice of the hair shaft you would see an oval instead of a circle. The more elliptical your hair shaft the more curly your hair is! So wavy hair (which I have too) is just a little bit elliptical
@@Lucifer-XOXthe actual individual hair itself. the “shaft” just encompasses everything between the root and the ends. think of it like a pencil; there the writing end and the eraser, the yellow part is the shaft of the pencil
My hair changed three times over my lifetime till now. As a kid my hair was straight, as a teenager I had pretty curly hair and this year I cut my hair short and now have pretty dramatic waves but no real curls anymore. I wonder why that happens
My mum is white and has always had super curly hair but she never knew how to manage it. She always ends up brushing it out and causing it to become frizzy and poofy - she’s damaged it quite a lot due to her straitening it so often. I’ve started to introduce her to more ways to enhance and mange her curls and her hair is starting to look great and a lot healthier!
Passing this onto my daughter one day. My curls were permanently straightened by bleach, heat, damage, and bad brushes because my family had no idea how to care for my curly hair. No way she’ll go through the same thing.
Everyone around me has always had some sort of wavy curly hair but has no idea what to actually do with it. My grandma would keep her hair short and did have the proper brush white curly haired people are suppose to use but that’s been lost to time and my mom also keeps hers short and then perms the top just so she doesn’t have to deal with it as much. Now my hair is curlier than both of theirs and down to between my shoulders and I have no idea what to do with it so I just don’t do anything
And even if she _were_ "faking" her curls or whatever dumb thing they think (using products doesn't mean you're faking curls, plenty of people the commenter are thinking of when they say "actually have curly hair" probably use plenty of products themselves to maintain their curly hair in the way they want to, they just have never seen them get ready so they don't know), people with curly hair all over the world (of all races) straighten their hair all the time with no backlash (other than people telling them they don't "have to" straighten their hair, and while some may feel societal pressures to do so, many just _like_ having straight hair) but god forbid someone curl their hair. Hair is hair, the texture of your hair does not care what color your skin is, where you were born/grew up, and does not care what society says; whatever curl pattern your hair has, it is natural, no matter what your skin looks like, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And if you have straight hair and want to curl it- you SHOULD be allowed to without fear of being accused of "appropriating" something, something that doesn't "belong" to one "type" of person to begin with. That's like accusing a natural redhead, who is full Irish, with big curly hair of appropriating black culture because her _natural hair_ happened to be curly, and she didn't straighten it to "fit in" with people that "look like her". Or telling a person of color that happens to have straight hair, that they "must" be straightening it, and implying that straight hair can't be "natural" unless it's on a white person. You hear how stupid those sound?? Exactly.
bonnets : ccminkhair.com
Bro I need help my curls for anywhere but the back of my hair I use all products and no progress and I don't know what to do I use more products on the back than front and it still doesn't get curly PLEASE if yall have any ideas please tell me
Black women are attributed with creating the natural hair movement as a response to the workplace and school-related racism they faced. This included being labeled unprofessional or unkempt, and even having their carefully coiled locs requested to be cut off to participate in graduation ceremonies. This mistreatment has been a recurring issue for centuries and was exemplified through tignon laws in the past. The natural hair movement aimed to empower black women to embrace their natural hair without the need for weaves or perms in pursuit of professionalism and to combat racism. It is not the concern of the movement that white individuals style their hair naturally - those who argue this are misguided. However, it would be inappropriate for white individuals to invade and colonize the natural hair space, which was created as a safe space for black women. Doing so would involve stealing the language of the movement and depleting the products specifically made for African hair, whereas products for white individuals have always been abundant. It is essential to understand the nuance involved in this issue.
Sources:
- "The Natural Hair Movement: A Historical Perspective" by Krika Bradsher at The Huffington Post
- "The 'Right to Be Natural': Deaths, Weaves, and Natural Hair Politics in the English-Speaking Caribbean" by Alaina Morgan at Contexts
- "Why Black Women Are Against White Women In The Natural Hair Movement" by Taryn Finley at The Huffington Post
- "Black Women and Identity: What's Hair Got to Do with It?" by Tamara Winfrey Harris at The Guardian.
@@kenia4ever you probably have 2 different hair types
are bonnets only beneficial for curly hair or straight hair too?
Ok who the heck would say “ur faking ur curly hair and it’s offense to people with curly hair” like I’m sorry but wtf
People also forget straight hair would not hold a curl no matter what products you use.
So true!
I keep desperately trying to curl my hair with a curler and they only hold for a few hours! So true!
frfr
curls are never permanent on straight hair
and it can only last longer with hair spray
So true. My straight hair can’t even hold a curl for an hour
but my hair is way more than wavy but less than curly and it doesn’t hold a curl 🥹
People forget that curly hair products takes care of the curls and enhances them, it dosnt GIVE someone curls.
Edit: oml I completely forgot about this comment but 61k likes thank you guys 💀
RIGHT
would you say it would enhance mine considering it's become more wavy-curly throughout the years (most likely from damage i'd presume)?
@nuriyah79 curl products definitely can help, but to a certain extent. It can only do so much when it comes to damaged hair. But it will definitely help
do people seriously think that oh my god (i haven’t looked at all the comments yet)
thats…. that’s so stupid
@@soosona this discourse happens every few months on tiktok. There are lots who think that 😖
As a straight hair girlie: there is no amount of hair product in the world that would make my hair form/hold ANY type of curl pattern, it just ain’t happening. Hair products made for specific hair types do not TURN any hair into said hair type!!!
I have every type on my head idk what to do right now with my hair (mostly straight hair+wavy in the back+curly on my bangs)
I used to have pin straight hair. Like even with heat and product nothing would hold. But after growing my hair back from a short “masc” cut my hair came back wavy borderline curly. Now even if I scrunch it without product it will curl/wave. Hair’s weird sometimes.
@@Lee-rn9mz this is why we go bald 😃👍
I'd kill for straight hair.
@@ChrisAndCats and I’d kill for curly hair lol
I loved hearing her say how people can have 2 different hair types, because I do lol. Wavy in the back and progressively gets curly’r as it gets to the front (my bangs are almost coily) and I’ve never actually heard someone talk about our existence 😭
The underlayer of mine is like ringlets curls and the top very sublt waves but mostly frizz because I'm awful at hair care😂
My hair is extremely curly on top, to the front, kind of straight around the sides. It's really weird😅
My curl pattern is the same. Coils around the front of my face and back of my neck, then wavy on the top part of my head 🤷🏽♀️
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Mines pretty straight on top, wavy underneath then the spot directly behind my ears is curly
Products do NOT make your hair curly. It'll only enhance what is *already* there.
As someone with pin straight hair who always wanted some curls, I wholeheartedly agree lol theres literally nothing I can do with products to cause curls
@@ashleyprysko5755except a perm 😅
Hello!
Can confirm no amount of curly girl method made me get waves, let alone curls
her hair look like it was permed like look at the bangs they are straight af
Imagine getting offended and gatekeeping hair just because someone has a different curl pattern than you. First world problems
😂 right
I wouldn’t call it gatekeeping, but those people are dumb for harassing her.
The term gatekeeping doesn't specifically match this scenario. but I see where you were trying to go.
First world problem for real. Like who cares people😂 we have world hunger to solve😢
Facts 😂
If you have straight hair, no amount of product will make them curl unless you use overnight no-heat curling methods or a curling iron. If I used those some products she used, my straight hair won’t budge
That's literally curly, that's the point of it being called curly, and it's super cute. I have curly hair and I'm not even offended, I'm actually happy to see people with curly hair
Do you what she used for her hair. Not the products but the electric thing.
Curly hair community went from “Everyone embrace your curls” to gatekeeping REAL quick. Glad there’s girls like this who still keep the acceptance going
Yeahhh they weren’t speaking on WW “curls”.
This is such a weird hill to die on.
Genuinely who cares? - miss extremely curly hair speaking
@@kdeet3566 only person shoving race in everyone's faces are you. you need to sincerely get some perspective. curly hair is found in EVERY race but apparently curly hair is only valid if you have tight curls. seriously go touch grass
Right?? I haven’t really touched the community even though I have curly hair because why would I deal with all that
Apparently only black girls can have curls. Anyone else who claims to have curly hair is a liar, racist, ignorant, and participating in culture appropriation.
if someone can get offended by someone's haircut at this point, i am just giving up on the human species
Right lol This was me a while ago when *people* started to try and own a hairstyle 🤦🏽♀️
Same! Like wtf cares hair is hair!!!
exactly .
not even cut!! hair type, which is genetically chosen for her!! so weird for someone to get mad at her for it
All y’all slow
I have straight hair on the top layer, wavy in the mid zone, and tight curls on the bottom. I literally have super dreds every morning. Good times with mixed texture hair.
I have different hair textures too. It's crazy how there's wispy, fine hair in sections and then the frizzy, zigzag hairs. So my hair does its own thing.
Curly hair or not, I don’t understand how people can come for her without even checking her account. She’s overall a really nice person 😅
imagine thinking it's rude to people with curly hair to say you have curly hair 😭😭
Literally..wtf has the world come to.
People getting offended on behalf of people that are indeed indifferent about it. It's almost funny
After seeing that comment it made me feel like I was told I don't have curly hair, not like my "honor" was "protected"
While technically not rude I've definitely gatekeeped my curls for a long time growing up because I was bullied for a long time when I was younger, think elementary to middle school. This was when having straight hair was the "mode" and while I didn't straighten my hair I also didn't really know how to take care of it like I do now so I kept it pretty short. But while everyone was burning their hair away I was just leaving it natural and love my curls as my hair has gotten longer and as I get older.
Seriously. People get so offended for no reason 😂 imagine your life being so easy you have to look for problems.
“Its rude to people that actually have curly hair” …..? 💀
Is this the next thing that people are going to argue about now? If so, 🤮
These people just have nothing to actually do so they get upset at dumb stuff. Dont entertain them just ignore it
This is what happens when we let kids on the internet
@@minicaxotinho Unfortunately these are mostly adults without priorities
no its not but to have straight hair and make you hair curly and advertise that their natural hair is straight
Her curls are soo prettyy
I have a very loose curl, but it still winds around itself in a spiral (just a big one) and people never believe me when I tell them I have curly hair. Mainly because my bangs are wavy. My curls are also being weighted down because my hair is pretty long (it reaches my waist) . I recently found out I had curly hair, but the curls barely showed up because I didn't take care of them. I found out I had curls because my hair always looked like a squirrel lived in it after combing. I just started taking care of my hair, mainly because of channels like yours and the girl you reacted to! Thank you!
Dude for people trying to say her hair isn’t curly I could personally use every product she uses and more and do it the same way and my hair will not be curly I have straight hair she doesn’t lol she spoke straight facts
I could too, but to be fair I do not have any hair
Same with my hair. Flat as a board
I think they know their wrong but they're just trying to gatekeep hair
Also different types of curls need different products and routines. I can't handle thick creams since mine r loose and too much oil. People who have more coily hair can use more nourishing products. They also don't always even need this "bowl method" and can go straight in with product on their hands
When white people get perms their hair gets curly. When black people get perms their hair gets straight
Don’t tell me “curly hair appropriation” is a thing now😭😭
It's so wild how a community can be created around any harmless thing and end up with these toxic qualities lol. The chronically online people gotta settle down.
Everything is RUDE now wtf
@@maloryj7165 wym
😐bro the only ppl mad are the wavy hair ppl..
nobody of color said shit so stop projecting
The right side of my hair has beach waves, while the left side is just straight, and it is SO frustrating
Me with dead straight hair: **jealous but also a lil scared of curls**
People do know that curls exist in all races, right?
edit: I came back months after to see multiple replies saying "who said anything about race?" well babes - if you take a look at this short's caption and the original tiktok - everyone. also, funny how some of y'all just assumed my race. but please do act stupid.
I'm not sure if people know. apparently the commenter has never seen a white woman with curls 🤷
@@solala1312 Where did they put the race of the commenter? We agree that curls exist in all races. So why are you assuming the commenter isn’t white?
@@fayepatrice1672 no, sorry! I meant the commenter in the video. the comment was shown in the video and read by the tts voice!
??? no one mentioned race but you
Nobody mentioned race are we watching the same video
WHY did this girl have to DEFEND her curly hair?!? WTF world are we living in!!??
Look at the extent this girl had to go to because some shmuck had the nerve to tell her she was being offensive calling HER OWN HAIR curly!!! She's giving a fricken dissertation on the nature of curly hair!
As someone who has had curly hair my whole life (and hated it, especially since we didn't have social media and the whole curly girl hair routine)---I feel for her!
Just yesterday I saw a video about caring for 2C curls and the comments were vicious. It’s wild.
Idkk . This shyt don't make sense man. I guess I can't have straight hair or brown hair either 😂
I completely agree!
@@bobasleepsI think it comes from, people who actually have curls, spirals, corkscrews naturally, don’t need a “routine” to show it.
The routine is, being born and existing.
I think that’s where it comes from.
Exactly. People should actually mind their own business. It’s either disagree, agree, or ignore. Don’t fight if it’s just opinion. If it’s fact, racism, sexism, etc, you have to fight. But if it’s, my favorite color is red, why are you arguing? It’s a opinion that someone could have
I’m a blonde with straight hair and sometimes I will find thick, curly black hair on my head
As a curly haired gal, this lady 1000% has curly hair. Also, to the other curly heads, has anyone said to you they have curly hair but it’s actually straight📏?
Gurl literally said "ik my curls aren't looking great" while she has one of the most beautiful curls I've ever seen.
Her hair also looks super healthy
Be serious 😂
Yeah makes me wonder how she would think of my hair. Like the fuck. 🙄
There is nothing that a straight haired person can do to make their hair curly without serious manhandling-curlers, pins, or irons. Her hair is curly. I am jealous of all the curly girls.
also jelly.
i could fry my hair for weeks trying to get some sort of shape to it and it would 100% drop all curls within 4-6 hours MAX!
Sammmeee. I have wanted a perm my whole life but am soo afraid to do it. And now my once waist length hair is brittle and shoulder length because of stress induced hairloss 😭
your jealous of us? dang I’ve always wanted straight hair tbh
it's wavy. hence why she uses a diffuser to make it into ringlets. people with curly hair don't need it and if they choose to use it, it helps. but it's gonna curl regardless.
@Faerienice wavy is a type of curl. Ringlets are not the only kind of curl. A diffuser simply dries the hair without causing a ton of frizz, that's it. Both of my sisters use diffusers, it helps dry their curls faster, but it gives me more frizz so I air dry my curls - it doesn't make it any more curly. I have a mix of corkscrew curls and waves, no matter what product I use, those waves will not corkscrew (even if I twist them). If your curl pattern gets damaged (as this lady said hers did), it can take a long time to get it back.
My hair has been a 2c all my life because I was raised in a household of completely straight hair and we had no idea how to take care of it. After finally starting to take care of it, I've discovered I'm actually a 3b! Hair's crazy and I love it :]
My curls are a lot like hers. It went crazy after my hair all went silver (in my 20s). I didn't know how to take care of it so cut it super short. It's long now and I am learning!! Thank you!
i HATE when people say “your hair is only curly because you use products” oh really? explain that to the 2 hours it look to get my hair straightened
and then it goes right back to curls/waves 30 minutes later
@@yourmomcom-ng9kvthe pain 😭
It so funny, i have straight hair and even if i did everything in this video it would still be straight (maybe a bit frizzy). So if you do this and your hair becomes curly, then yes, you definitely have curly hair.
like yes obviously it does?🙄how elese would they be curly and healthy?
Istg even 3 hours
this is coming from a person with curly hair: that is 100% curly, people are saying “iTs BeCaUsE oF tHe PrOdUctS sHe UsEs” no, all hair products can do is enhance naturally curly hair. it’s curly and that’s that
As a woman with the straightest hair ever I can confirm. I even got a perm (yeah, I know) and within a week it was straight again. You can't get curls just by putting some products in.
@@ThundrGurl yeah if you put stuff in mine it'll probably be even STRAIGHTER
exactly, I have thick wavy hair and have tried curly hair products before, all it does for me is reduce the frizz and keep the waves, it doesn’t make my hair curly whatsoever
exactly. cosmetology student here. i have pin-straight hair. so, of course i tried a curly hair routine +style to see if i could change up my hair. NOPE. my wavy hair clients can hold a finger coil- my straight hair? NOPE.
I have wavy hair with a LITTLE curl and that LITTLE curl is all any curly product will give me on its own. People are clowning thinking the products will magically make your hair curl smh
I Honestly think her hair is more wavy, if your hair is in the 1’s it’s straight 2 wavy 3 curly 4 coily. And if it was curly it would show being wet more. I think her hair is wavy and like a 2c
There was a black woman in our neighborhood that owned a salon. I remember when she invited me and my mom into her salon so she could teach us how to handle our curly hair, it was the beginning of my amazing curly journey.
Her hair is curly. She obviously just tamed her natural hair right in front of us. Beautiful
as a girl w curly hair, i can tell she def has curly hair, plus it is veryy long so it is hard to define, shes a queen
Yip, when I was younger and when I cut my hair in a bob a couple years ago I had 3b/a curls now my hair almost touches my bum but it’s 3a curls they very loose.
@@zetavalentinethat happens to me too! I had my hair to my butt and it was hardly curly, then cut it into a bob and POOF
Curly hair doesn’t disappear with length. If it gets weighed down by that, your hair is most likely wavy
@@Mellon99” The longer your hair grows, the heavier it becomes. This weight pulls your curls and elongates them, which can change the texture of your curls”
My hair is definitely not wavy it’s still very curly it just more loose then when my hair is short. I have to put in more effort to define my curls if I want it to look nice because it’s long and also because I have slight heat damage.
If I were to cut my hair in a bob now it will be extremely curly.
We don’t mean our curls disappear but if ur hair is damaged or when u have extremely long hair that is type 3 ur curls will become a bit more loose but u won’t lose them.
@@Mellon99 why is a person w straight hair talking to me about curly hair😭
As a biracial person I can confirm that you can have all kind of hair on my head. Depending on how much length you have it weighs your hair down mine happens to be really fine so it doesn't take much of any change to make it act differently. My hair types range from straight to kinky moisture plays a big part as well. It's beyond my shoulder as far as length right now but after I wash it I use a leave-in conditioner finger comb through it with my hair hanging down I throw it back I lean to the right and leave my head to the left and let that let the natural part form where it wants and I leave it and I end up four types of hair on my head. Now that I'm starting to go gray the hairs are a lot more coarse I have a feeling I'm going to end up just having waves when I go totally Gray.
her hair is so gorgeous 😍
The person on the left looks really compassionate and understanding. It’s so nice to see that!
Idk if your joking or not💀💀
@@menaceX666it's not...her demeanor and the way she nodded and smiled
Looked really compassionate
God ain’t no way she stole someone’s content and did literally nothing to make it better or different and then got COMPLEMENTED FOR IT
@@pandagaming6469 she reacting to someone getting hated on. It shows support.
@@pandagaming6469Touch grass weirdo, it’s not that deep 😂
“It’s disrespectful to people with curly hair” is the most hilarious thing I’ve heard in a while. I didn’t know people with curly hair were some kind of protected class but hey, you learn something new every day.
I would be willing to bet real money that the comment was made by a white person playing keyboard warrior, but too afraid to say POC or Black because "what if racist?!".
I laughed at the comment 😭
Some people are so--fr
@@sassyhassy I would also like to point out that I have extremely curly hair that is a nightmare to deal with. And I still stand by what I said lmao
I feel so seen by her tbh. She emphasized how sometimes we can't even maintain our hair just due to life circumstances. Currently I have a baby and doing my hair is so hard because I have to get someone to watch her just to have the time and she's very attached to mama so I rarely get the time.
@@artofambra girl, I have that issue too but that still isn’t an excuse to go around hating on other people who have curls that are simply easier to handle. Just because her hair is less curly than someone else’s, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have curly hair. There is nothing to disrespect. Some people just have different curl types and that’s okay! I’m mixed, and most of my black genetics went to my hair. I struggle immensely with it, but I’m not gonna get upset about someone just because I’m jealous of the ease this particular girl handles her hair with. Life doesn’t work like that. Some people get beautiful curls that are a nightmare to deal with, and others get lucky and have different hair types. We just gotta adapt to what we have and learn to love it.
Her curls are beautiful
I can't believe people actually argue over this and people actually take the time to prepare such an intricate answer. And not that she was wrong but like I'm just going to call my hair whatever I'm going to call my hair and you can go kick rocks
People also fail to realize length plays a huge part in how curly your hair looks. With longer hair, the weight tends to pull on the curls and make hair look less curly than it actually is. It’s the reason why some people who cut their long hair are surprised to suddenly have waves or curls present because they thought it was straighter.
Yep.
If I go for a bob, I have very loose curls. If I grow to midlength I have waves, longer than that and I have straight hair with some body to it. Back when it was all the way down my back you'd think I had absolutely no texture at all.
That's me
My curl pattern is the same whether it is .5 inch long or 30 inches long. It starts from the root. Wavy hair starts to wave/ curl further from the root. Wavy hair has curls that "fall" and curly/ coily hair just gets more curly or coily after a day or two.
Definitely! My hair’s normally wavy, with a weird little curly piece at the base of my neck I’ve had since I was a baby (dad had pin straight hair, mom had super curly hair). When my hair was shorter, you could see more waves to it or it would end up poofed out at the ends. Now that my hair’s super long it pulls everything straighter. I imagine if I did something with it you’d see the waves again, but I usually just put it up cause FL 😅
No lol that happens with wavy hair. Curly hair stays curly regardless of the length
As a girl with the straightest hair of the straight world of hair, can confirm this routine does not do a thing on my non existing curls 😂
Even when I use a curling iron & hair spray my hair just goes immediately back to being straight.
I got a perm once & my hair just fell out instead lol.
Same! Imagine my disappointment in the 8th grade when my curly friend showed me how to “scrunch” her hair like hers only for mine to turn into a stringy sticky mess from all the product we pumped in it.
My Hair is so pin straight it can’t even hold a heated/overnight curl 😅
@@xxTheLocketxx same, I used to envy all the girls and boys with volume. Now I’ve accepted the fact that we all want what we don’t have 🫣
@@ingy291my hair is incredibly straight. Whenever I wave or curl my hair, it tends to drop within a few hours, unless I hairspray it until it crunches. The one thing that does help, is French plaiting my hair overnight and that seems to keep the wave.
i have very slightly wavy hair and it only really shows on the ends. i tried multiple variations of curly/wavy routines and nothing really worked. so if her hair ends up like that it's definitely curly to some degree. idk why it's such a taboo for her to do whats normal for her hair texture. just because she's 'white'..?
That’s my hair exactly! I used to fuss with it and my mom would say, “ just scrunch it and let it do what it wants!” Lol!
My hair is like that but siblings and parents have 3c-4c so they just say mine is straight lol and I beleived them for the longest time 💀
You can’t create curls with product, only define what’s already there. She has beautiful curls
yep if I did this, my hair would still be straight. no matter how much product
Tell that to those waivy hair sprays and setting gels
Yea you can. They aren't natural, so they don't last forever, but you can still create curls with products and materials.
Literally! I have curly hair but it’s been so long my whole life and I never took care of it that it was straight and maybe a bit wavy, but my hair is shorter now and I’m starting to learn how to actually take care of it and the curly hair products I use do help my curls! The longer it gets, the more my curls fade, but I am determined to get my hair back to being full on curly.
well you actually can because hair is a fiber and flexible meaning you can make it do wtv you want it to do. so if straight hair ppl twirl it enough, use curly products, and scrunch enough they’ll get some form of ringlet. this is why a lot of people think they have curly hair just because it eventually curls after like an hour of scrunching. if your hair gets wet and doesn’t immediately bounce back or form a ringlet, your hair isn’t curly, if you have to do excessive AND I MEAN EXCESSIVE twirling and scrunching, you don’t have curly hair.
I have wavy/loosely curled hair and have tried my curly products on my boyfriend with pin straight hair and it does absolutely nothing for him except make his hair smell like coconuts. People saying that it’s the products just genuinely don’t know how hair works.
So, one way to see if I have straight hair or just damaged curls/loose waves is to try a routine for like a week and see if it changes anything? Idk how to take care of my own hair because my mom has pin straight thin hair and my dad doesn’t do hair care and I have a thick, dense, tangle prone mess. (I need an undercut or short hair all over to prevent weight migraines, when my hair is short all over it tends to be fluffy sometimes but I can’t figure out what makes it fluffy vs uncooperative and flat.)
@@jayce1850 if you have the money and time, sure but the products can be expensive.
@@jayce1850It might take more than a week. Your hair sounds kinda like mine (wavy/loose curls), and I know the big tip offs for me were: 1) When I was little, I had lots and lots of curls and lost them when my new hairdresser didn't know what to do with my hair and thinned it wrong 2) when I am in the shower and let the water drip for a while while I space out thinking, it'll turn into almost little-orphan-Annie-type curls.
@@jayce1850I deal with the same problems if my hair isn’t cut a certain way. I go for a shag style with a lot of layers. You can also pretty much guarantee curly or wavy hair if you brush it straight while wet and it dries into a frizzy mess of either a triangle or strangled curls. It can sometimes take a while to see the real texture thru any damage but straight hair stays straight all the time, even with a curly routine. Definitely find one that suits you. I’d go for lightweight products and satin bonnets or pillowcases.
@jayce1850 oh yeah no you have textured hair. Straight hair doesn't do fluffy, I can do literally anything to it I can neglect it brush it under all conditions dry it out and damage it and it has never been fluffy. If you start doing a curly hair routine it'll come up curly or wavy
I have straight hair but when it's wet it's wavy for some reason even when it's fully brushed out 😅
It’s also ridiculous because people also always ignore the straight haired people in the comments saying it’s impossible to get straight hair to be anything other than straight without heat and hairspray
As a black girl with 4c hair, i'm so sorry they are giving you trouble. The curly hair community is always toxic about
people with loose curls who use hair products or bonnets or silk caps (which can also be for straight hair) and I am embarrassed to think they also have 4c hair like me, so please continue on with your journey! It's nice to know people will take on the struggle and appreciate the beauty of their natural hair like most people like me! Lots of my white friends, because of the curly hair movement, have started to define and embrace their hair because of the new information from tiktok and other places!
Im so happy to see those healthy curls so please don't give into the haters! I also want to say that we also don't need to blame all black people or all 4c people because there is only a loud minority that is causing issues but I see so many people shame all black people in general about our hair it is sucks because lots of people with 4c hair don't give a fuck about that lol. Please continue to take inspiration and expand on your hair care routine!
I also have 4c hair!
Thank you for your compassion and understanding.
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I am a korean girl with 2B-2C hair. curls are not exclusive to one race and can come in very different varieties. I would never get offended by someone calling their hair curly, either. She clearly has defined curls. Very pretty hair!! 😊
Oh same I’m a Korean too. My dad’s hair is very short, but he told me in college he used to have it long and it was very curly. My sister inherited it, I did not 😂
@@keckingrabbit354 I’m korean mexican, my korean mother has 2C and my dad has wavy hair. So I got this mess 😂😂
Shut up bro nobody cares💀💀💀💀
Your profile picture is amazing
@@ilovebeef18 thanks queen
Her hair is beautiful!
If I did my cousins curly hair routine my hair would still be straight maybe more moisturized but straight/kinda wavy like my normal hair.
"It's disrespectful to the people who have curly hair"
As a person with curly hair I can say it is absolutely not and yeah she does have curly hair contrary to popular belief you can be white and have curly hair
Yeah, my mom had curly hair, and my brother got it from her 😂 their curls aren’t as tight as I guess what people think of, but they’re still considered curls
yeah, waves, to tighter curls are all curls generally, I don't know what uneducated person wrote in that comment 😶
If u gotta scrunch your hair to make curls it’s not curly hair curly hair girls don’t gotta scrunch their hair it forms at the touch of water she doesn’t have curly hair she has waves
@@AllCelebzTea I can't tell what your trying to say but I know those hair products only brought out the curls and she already had them the product only brings out what's already there and scrunching up the hair mainly does nothing in my experience
@@AllCelebzTea North West scrunches her hair for her curls to come out well, so she doesn't have curls?😶
basically the lesson learnt here is that no matter what women do online, they will never be left alone.
Ye duh. Women are humans. Humans are never left alone. U make it sound like every man and woman is against other women’s ass and that women should just have their actions happen in a vacuum
Hold your horses. This isn’t a women problem this is a people-being-idiots problem. I assume that the commenter is another woman and even if they aren’t this isn’t a matter of sex it’s a matter or ignorance.
Lmaoooo stop trying to make women look like victims
Pointlessly gendered
@@angelapologistexcept this is true. Girls want to treat their curly hair? Rude to people that "actually have curly hair" want to be a "vsco girl"? Now you're a joke and a Halloween costume. Want to like Taylor swift? Cringe, looks like a cult. I could go on.
It is a problem, don't pretend it's not.
I've had people tell me my hair "wasnt curly" when in reality, it is, but ive severely damaged my curl because i jad no idea how to care for it. I straightened it for many years of my life and ALWAYS brushed it when dry (never wet) because i just thought my hair was just funky. Never paid attention to the fact when brushed wet then aired dried, my hair actuality had curls. Now im trying to learn how to nurture them and get them healthy to actually see how curly they truely are when NOT damaged. There are so many different curl types out there. It baffles me when people will be rude to people over it.
Those curls are really beautiful! That's an awesome job taking care of them
she just respectfully told people that they are racist and judgementel 😂
How is this racist when it’s about hair 😂
racist no, ignorant yes
@@MomentTumIsForTheBestI wouldn’t really say this situation is racist, but i have seen and heard a lot of people who have 4c curls saying that “white people can’t have curly hair” referring to only 4a+ hair is curly whitest anything lower than 4a or maybe even 3c are just wavy and that white people shouldn’t be using curly hair products because it’s only for black people hair.
@@MomentTumIsForTheBesthair usually links to your bakcground yk that
She was saying that her curly hair looks different from other curly hair types and was explaining that… it wasn’t racial per se just a lack of knowledge on the accusers part that she is politely educating them on.
As a girl with curly hair, she is 100% correct that curl patterns can change, loosen, etc due to a bunch of different things. I'm still getting my pattern back from years of straightening my bangs.
Also, she definitely has curly hair and using products isn't going to just make curls happen. You have to have something to start with, which you can see the curls starting at the bottom of her hair after shes brushed them.
As someone with a similar curl type to her, I agree
Agree, I had a really curly hair since I was born but no one in my family had it and no one teached or even allowed me to take care of it, so while I grew my hair was always a mess and now that I'm an adult I'm trying to gain back the curly hair I once had because mine no matter how I take care of it will keep looking like I just brushed it dry
As someone who has like straight ass hair. Even I knew curl pattern changes and the weight of your hair if it's long enough could make them looser.
If u gotta scrunch your hair to make curls it’s not curly hair curly hair girls don’t gotta scrunch their hair it forms at the touch of water she doesn’t have “curly hair” she has waves!
@@AllCelebzTea but it did form. You can see at the ends that it started to form little curls before product. Also there are many types of curly hair. About 6 I believe. And if she had wavy hair, those curls wouldn't have stayed
her hair is STUNNING 😍
I've literally been licensed as a hairdresser, and I've ripped people apart for arguing and being ignorant about it saying that someone doesn't have curly hair when they do. There's a scale of curl pattern for a reason.
Anyone with real education in the hairdressing industry knows that. Waves are curls. I have pin straight hair, and desperately wish that I had even an ounce of the waves that a lot of my family has.
I've had the curly hair police telling to stop curling my hair... My hair is naturally this way and even looks curlier without hair products. Some people really think only they can have "real curls". (Also she truly has curly hair and its gorgeous)
I have a mixed friend who has pale skin and a natural curly afro and people tell her all the time in person that she's racist like.....this is her literal hair though? Wild.
@@MissImpoliteI’m also mixed and get a lot of confusion for my hair
@@MissImpoliteMy brother is as white as snow and he's always had a fro. I never even thought anything of it.. it is super weird to see this as a race thing since he's been my brother his whole life. 🥲
@eden1909 fr like...hair is hair and anyone can have it. I mean genetics as far back as 30 generations can randomly pop up at any point. Such a weird thing for people to be so bent out of shape over.
This really speaks to me, I am white, I have very very curly hair, I sometimes use products found in the “African American Hair Care” section, people constantly give me looks and stuff, and I’ve been called racist for even being in that section for products I know my hair likes and needs. Hair shouldn’t be claimed by a single race or culture, it should be something we embrace and let everyone try out, especially when that might be their natural hair texture!
How tf r u racist for that 💀 there's nothing racist about using products designed for black peoples hair texture if it works for u then great
@@Cutiepie0111Some bigots on the internet claim it's cultural appropriation for ww to wear their hair curly. That's where the need for her to post a video addressing it stems from. It's like everything white people do is somehow racist.
But it is claimed by certain cultures. People say that white people can't have certain styles, but what if their hair is naturally like that? Or what if they are mixed race and "passing" that's what I don't understand about the curly hair gatekeeping people.
@@Cutiepie0111She’s probably exaggerating. No one would call you racist for standing in an aisle. It’s like when yt girls on tt lied saying they were kicked out of Sally’s beauty cause they were yt 😭
I have actually seen someone say that white people literally can't have curly hair and I'm over here with the spirals my Irish grandpa gave me....
The older I get the curlier my hair becomes. I've always had different level curls at different levels of my scalp, the top being almost straight so I have to cut it in a layered shag for a more uniformed look. My hair is also very thick so the weight pulls out the curl at the root like she mentions.
i damaged my curly hair a couple years ago (multiple hot showers/shampoo a day for months stemming from germphobia) and i shaved my head because i was just so upset seeing my sad limp hair. Such a freeing experience, and now using proper products on it and learning to look after it, my hair has never been happier :)
Growing up, I felt a lot of pressure to excessively brush my hair and straighten it because a lot of people (including some family members) made snide remarks about how my hair was so weird. When I went to college, a girl told me to just wear it how it is. It took me a while to feel confident like that. When I started dating my now husband, he said “I love your curls. When we have kids, I really want them to have your pretty curls.” And that honestly felt great to hear that someone loves me the way I am.
It's great to hear that you're able to love your hair the way it is. I grew up hearing a lot of negative things about curly hair, too (it's straightened in my picture, lol). I was convinced that straight, blonde 😬 hair was the prettiest. It took a long time for me to love my hair, too. Congratulations on finding your lovely husband, and for the beautiful family you will have! ❤
Same here though I didn't have someone to complément my hair but when I saw girls with the exact curls as me and they look pretty , I understood that my here doesn't look good 'cause I never learned how to care about it
@@bundleofbasilI used to bleach and straighten my hair for years.. my split ends were ridiculous. Let my hair grow out and now embrace the dark brown wavy/curly mess. It's not uniform curls either 😢
THIS. I got bullied for having curly hair. My now husband loves curly hair and prayed that our kids had curly hair because he’s obsessed with it. Looking back I had the cutest curls and seeing our son (only child who took my curls) with his curly hair and my face just makes my heart melt. He has the most precious hair and I wish I could undo all the damage I did to it so it could be as curly as his is again.
On my first date with my now husband, I didn’t have enough time to straighten my hair and just wore it curly. He loved my curls from day one and when I would wear it straight he told me he preferred it curly. 5 years later, I wear my hair curly nearly every day. It’s very rare for me to straighten it because I know how much my husband loves my curly hair. It’s wonderful that he’s embraced the curls!
As someone with stick straight hair. We could use everything she used, do everything she did, and not have curly hair. The products don’t form the curls, they just help the curls form.
I always thought i had straight hair but my hair are actually wavy. It blew my mind. They also look way healthier now
Ive got the same thing I didnt know how to take care of my hair till a few months ago as a kid i woukd just brush it out never use product or diffuse. I now know how to look after my hair but its not super curly like others because i havent looked after it for such along time and its damaged. So now if i say i got curly hair everybody says "no you dont because you hair aint like others" . people need to stop crytisising as people know their hair type better you would. 💚
“Rude to people who have curly hair.” We really need to talk about that more often. Scalpism/Hairism is not something I made up a few seconds ago! It’s real, and people need to stop doing that.
What
@@atlasbread It was a joke,
Wow her hair naturally does what people were trying to achieve in Victorian era. So beautiful.
The genes were selectively past down for 1000 of years
"Naturally" with 5 different treatments/products and styling
@got_rats Her hair wouldn't do that without being curly in the first place. She's just helping it be healthy. Someone with 4c hair will literally have the same hair routine, and it would be considered natural. If I did this routine the best I would get is loose waves.
@@got_ratsbruh, it only looks like that because she has naturally curly hair.
@@got_rats By that logic should I stop using conditioner because it's not natural? What about shampoo? In fact why even wash at all?
I could use all of those products and techniques and my hair would be straight, because my hair is not naturally curly.
Victorian women had this issue too, so they burned their hair or left it to dry overnight to achieve the look this woman can pull effortlessly (in comparison).
This shouldn't take an explanation, but just because you don't understand the purpose of her routine doesn't mean you have the right to criticize it. Next you'll say a woman's natural beauty is not natural because she used a face cleanser, a moisturizer and some sunscreen before she stepped foot outside.
Thanks for not gatekeeping curls! 💕 there are too many people out there that act like people don’t have curls if they look any different than their curls. It’s refreshing to see people supporting eachother.
That’s like gatekeeping genomes 💀
Who’s gate keeping a hair texture??💀
@@littlepurple175exactly! Lol! It HAS to be white people bc I’ve never in my entire life heard a black person be offended when a white person says their hair is curly. This has to be one of those situations where white people are tryna check other white people about racism but they’re doing way too much... 😂😂
@@littlepurple175This can't be a real question. Literally the entire reason for OP making the video is because of it.
As a person with naturally pin-straight, 1a, do-nothing hair, I can assure you that this is a very different texture than what I am working with. My hair would not hold even the slightest bend when wet.
Curls are curls.. that's crazy. Thank you for standing up for all types of people. Amazing lady❤
I love how she mentioned that one scalp can have multiple types because my hair does a weird thing where (at it’s current length) it goes from semi/flat, then it starts to get wavy, and the closer it gets to the bottom the more it becomes a mix of curls and ringlets.
How do some people still not realize that natural curls aren’t just tight curls? There’s like a whole variety of different types of curls 😂
Same here my hair would be all straight but up until the bottom and that’s where the curls start
Same! I air dry my hair too! I end up looking like mowgli from the Jungle book. Or like I’ve simply given up on life. I have ringlets, S patterns AND the front lays stick straight. 🙄 it’s also fine. So a lot of the curly/moisturizing products are way too heavy. But the volumizing leave my hair dry. The waves and curls only began to creep up in my 30’s. Now my hair is a shit show. 😂
fr! glad she mentioned that. if my hair is medium/long, it's almost stick straight almost down to the bottom but then it gets slightly wavy. it gets more wavy when it rains/snows but it's still pretty straight
@@mariarivera1340it sounds more like bad ends.
It might be more curly with a shorter cut .
As a person who wakes up with annoying curly and wavy hair that has a mind of its own...those of us with curly hair dont get offended bc we truly understand the struggles. Life is too short for this shit.
And the battle you have with yourself on wash day that yes washing your hair is important
When I wake up its like a behive hairdo.
Fr like, we. don't. care.
It's just funny when people said something trying to defend or get offended for someone else when the people who actually have it is just ok with it lol
Her hair is beautiful! I dont get why people have to gatekeep these kinds of things. Curling cream only enhances, never makes curls, so doing a curly hair routine would never work on straight hair
She’s totally right. The products you use don’t make your hair curly. You must naturally have curly hair. The product just help it stay that way.
It’s true. I have curly hair, and always will, but my hair gets REALLY frizzy. Thus, me using product in order to keep them tight and luscious.
I swear people get mad and say everything "offends" a community or group of people. Then you ask people that are actually in the community and they say they dont care.
Yea, how is miss identifying their hair type offensive?? It's hair, and not everyone knows everything about hair, or their hair.
Reminds me of the guy who dresses in ethnic costumes and asks if it’s racist and everyone just seems happy to see someone embrace their culture
@@johnsimpsonii108 hahah, exactly! I can always tell someone has never been around or grew up with Hispanics based of what they call "offensive" 😂
There is actually a black female creator on here who slags off any woman who is or looks white reacting like this to their TikTok’s/reels/shorts so it’s not always people who aren’t in those communities sadly
Cause we don't 😂😂😂 I don't even know what's going on here 😂😂😂
I dont understand how wanting or pretending to have something others have is rude
I would just feel more special and grateful that i have that thing naturally
My hair is this way and I have 3 different types of curls. I feel ya sister!
Someone literally got mad at me for calling my hair wavy once 😭
They’re stupid 😂
Someone got mad at me for saying I thought I had curly hair because of how my hair dries before it is brushed, they have an “s” shape and group together in bundles in that shape, they said i was culture appropriating and being racist 😢
@@T.O.A.S.T.E.R.D.A.D. some ppl want to cancel someone so bad
@@T.O.A.S.T.E.R.D.A.D.Some people seriously think curly hair is exclusive to one culture?? Scots have curly hair sometimes, lots of people around the world have it too. How could they accuse you of such a thing??
@@falcon_arkaigthis. like do they just not... socialize with people from different parts of the world 😭 i mean even taylor swifts hair used to look like a blonde merida and she's white af
Exactly! No-one with tighter curls is getting offended that my looser curls are curls. Hair care is meant to be tailored to your individual needs, and sometimes it's just easier to look up methods for curly hair because, unsurprisingly, a lot of hair types can benefit from curly haircare methods. It's such a pointless war!
THANK YOU. COULDN'T BE ANY MORE BETTER SAID THAN THAT. lol
She has my type of curls except i mostly straighten my hair but she's motivated me to let my hair be natural 😍
She has beautiful curly hair! I wonder how it’s going to look like when it has recovered 👀 ❤
Gatekeeping curly hair must be one of the weirdest things I've heard in a WHILE.
I used to think my hair was straight, even tho my entire family has curls. I dyed it a lot when I was younger and about a year ago my mom was like "ok your hair looks like cotton candy pls stop", helped me cut it all off and it's been growing healthily ever since. I have actual thicc, bundled curls now and I use hair products for curly hair because otherwise they turn into fluff.
Hair types are diverse, just like people are.
it's actually a quite common thing in these kind of spaces. or defining what's "curly enough" and often excluding people with wavy hair, or if it's only curly/wavy at the bottom but not the top like hers at the end of the video bc they get accused of being fake. it's a stupid issue but some people get really offended over nothing
For years curls were seen as unkempt. You may have curls, but you aren’t a curly girl if you couldn’t hide your curls. The difference is that we had two curl products and every celebrity had straight hair. There was no representation for white curls, and black curls would be seen as rebellious. It’s not rocket science.
@@tomokokurokiirl that's so weird?? Honestly lots of wavy hair could still be considered curly lol. My hair is mermaid-wavy, but there's times when it very much looks more curly. I had natural tight curls when I was little!
In middle school I HATED my waves and would straighten it to "fit in". Part of it was not knowing proper hair hygiene at that age lol. Now as an adult I loveee my hair. The waves make it so fluffy and soft! And I can do all the styles that I miserably failed at back then lol
I'm with you. So weird.
I’ve been frying my hair since before puberty and after letting it grow for a year, turns out I also have curly hair!!!
The fact that there’s actually people out there who get offended and personally attacked by someone just calling their own hair curly, need therapy, not social media
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HER HAIR IS SO BEAUTIFUL THOUGH
I’m mixed and get my curly hair from my dad’s side of the family. They have tighter curls (the are black) and I have looser curls. Unfortunately I never learned how to take care of my kind of hair :( my mom tried but she has straight hair and doesn’t understand what my hair needs (neither do I) but im starting to learn now! You’re never too old to learn how to care for your hair
I can assure you she has curly hair. I have did this exact routine with similar products and my hair would be straight as a stick! I WISH my hair would curl. My hair doesn’t even hold curl with heat styling tools. 🙄
Use a curler or flat iron and immediately put a roller on each curl, sit for a few hours, use holding products and you'll be good
Can i ask if you are of asian descent? Im Vietnamese and Somali. Unfortunately I definitely got my mims hair and I swear it doesn’t curl. I can get a hold for almost an hour if its not humid outside. Otherwise they drop before i am even done styling.
@@ilyaalister8193I’m asian and I have natural curls yes most asians have straight here more than many race but we still have some who have natural curls
Yeah same. Mine would get wavier for a day after washing but will become straight the next day and will stay that way.
So you have what is called as a glass hair texture in the hairdresser lingo (at least in Finland we call it that). The straightest it could be and utterly difficult to work with!
As a person that has eyes to see and ears to hear and has the ability to learn- she has curly hair. One doesnt need to have curly hair to confirm or deny a simple fact. Look, listen, learn if unsure, and then judge based on the facts not popular opinion, pop culture, traditions, stereotypes, etc. Thats not just for hair thats for everything in life.
I have curly hair that can be really tight ringlets, but if I brush my hair out and down take care of it for many days, my hair turns wavy. Hair changes overtime depending on your level of care too. I don’t get people gatekeeping stuff like this. I find it endearing and complimentary when people try curls or say they want hair like mine.
Yes my sister has strait hair and she got a perm one day and it did not even last a week before it was almost straight of hair curls this easy it is curly hair
she is 100% right especially about having different curl patterns in your hair. ppl curl patterns can change over time with age (for example a baby hair can go from straight to curly as they grow up) or due to how you take care of them. for example, my natural hair is 4c but due to heat damage in the past the curls in the back of my head have changed and became more 4b or 4a.
And with different weather.
True! As a baby/toddler, my hair was very curly. Then I hit around 5 years old and it was stick straight until I reached puberty where it curled up again majorly and has stayed that way since
@@AuroraNCSinger ok so it's normal to have changing texture, the same thing happened to me! I had ringlets until I was 4, then my hair became super straight. It then became wavy again in my teens, and now that I'm an adult I saw them straight again when I got long covid, now that I'm finally recovered they're wavy again! Isn't hair incredible?
I started as a toddler with curly hair and the rest of my life with straight
My hair was really straight as a kid, but by the time I was in Jr. High it was curly. However, I didn't really realize it because it was extremely long until I was 8. Like, down to my knees. Then I got it cut really short until I finally decided to grow it out in 6th grade which meant lots of tight pony tails. Then I permed it for 7th and 8th. For 9th grade I decided I was done with perms and would let it go straight again...but it stayed curly. The perm really was permanent! lol. Eventually I realized this is why I could brush the back of my short hair and it would naturally curl under like I'd used a curling iron. My mother would ask me how I did it and I'd just shrug. I honestly didn't know because I didn't know I had curly hair. 😅
Your race does not define if you have curls. I’m mixed half English and half Nigerian, and my mum and my dad’s mother’s both had curly hair. Also there is more than 9 different types of curls 💯 love all curls they are beautiful
I'm half black and half native and I don't have curly hair, so i agree it really isn't just a race thing!
Yes!! I'm a white woman with curly hair. Yes, curly hair. Loose curls not tight ones, but they aren't waves. And yes, white people have curly hair too.
Race does determine your hair type. Your hair has evolved to suit your environment hence why black people have very coily hair
@@rattatui2474you flew over the other comments
Nobody cares stfu and watch the video
I have wavy hair that wont even hold a medium loose curl for a few hours, so she definitely has natural curly hair. Products dont give you curly or wavy hair, just enhance it and help it look better
As someone with 1a hair. This girl has beautiful curly hair. It would be more curly if it was short, but it's long and thick. The weight changes the curl a bit.
Fun fact, curly/wavy hair is wavy/curly because the hair shaft isn't perfect round but more elliptical. So if you took a cross section slice of the hair shaft you would see an oval instead of a circle. The more elliptical your hair shaft the more curly your hair is! So wavy hair (which I have too) is just a little bit elliptical
What is a hair shaft 👁👄👁
@@Lucifer-XOXI think it’s where your hair line starts
@@Lucifer-XOXthe actual individual hair itself. the “shaft” just encompasses everything between the root and the ends. think of it like a pencil; there the writing end and the eraser, the yellow part is the shaft of the pencil
My hair changed three times over my lifetime till now. As a kid my hair was straight, as a teenager I had pretty curly hair and this year I cut my hair short and now have pretty dramatic waves but no real curls anymore. I wonder why that happens
@@uNkrEaTIvArTshormones can do that, so can meds
My mum is white and has always had super curly hair but she never knew how to manage it. She always ends up brushing it out and causing it to become frizzy and poofy - she’s damaged it quite a lot due to her straitening it so often. I’ve started to introduce her to more ways to enhance and mange her curls and her hair is starting to look great and a lot healthier!
Passing this onto my daughter one day. My curls were permanently straightened by bleach, heat, damage, and bad brushes because my family had no idea how to care for my curly hair. No way she’ll go through the same thing.
Hasnt anyone seen brave? i dont understand how people think skin tone has 100% effect on your hair type like it dont
Everyone around me has always had some sort of wavy curly hair but has no idea what to actually do with it. My grandma would keep her hair short and did have the proper brush white curly haired people are suppose to use but that’s been lost to time and my mom also keeps hers short and then perms the top just so she doesn’t have to deal with it as much. Now my hair is curlier than both of theirs and down to between my shoulders and I have no idea what to do with it so I just don’t do anything
Omg same for me hahaha 😂
@@JessiRose420no
And even if she _were_ "faking" her curls or whatever dumb thing they think (using products doesn't mean you're faking curls, plenty of people the commenter are thinking of when they say "actually have curly hair" probably use plenty of products themselves to maintain their curly hair in the way they want to, they just have never seen them get ready so they don't know), people with curly hair all over the world (of all races) straighten their hair all the time with no backlash (other than people telling them they don't "have to" straighten their hair, and while some may feel societal pressures to do so, many just _like_ having straight hair) but god forbid someone curl their hair. Hair is hair, the texture of your hair does not care what color your skin is, where you were born/grew up, and does not care what society says; whatever curl pattern your hair has, it is natural, no matter what your skin looks like, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. And if you have straight hair and want to curl it- you SHOULD be allowed to without fear of being accused of "appropriating" something, something that doesn't "belong" to one "type" of person to begin with. That's like accusing a natural redhead, who is full Irish, with big curly hair of appropriating black culture because her _natural hair_ happened to be curly, and she didn't straighten it to "fit in" with people that "look like her". Or telling a person of color that happens to have straight hair, that they "must" be straightening it, and implying that straight hair can't be "natural" unless it's on a white person. You hear how stupid those sound?? Exactly.
I have curly hair and its SO LOOSE especially the ones in the front so it looks more like a wavy type in the front