Abuse comfort: In a healthy relationship after a toxic one (Boyfriend Roleplay/Boyfriend Asmr)

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  • čas přidán 26. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 114

  • @surabhiseth1616
    @surabhiseth1616 Před rokem +94

    When you said you don't yell I teared up you're such a good person and I absolutely agree yelling is the worse and Definitely affects you as a person 🥺💔

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +27

      it does it breaks you down on so many levels

  • @_Maya.
    @_Maya. Před rokem +34

    you have summoned me
    anime quote of today
    "Feel The Rage. The Powerful, Pure Rage Of Not Being Able To Forgive Will Become Your Unswerving Drive To Take Action.”
    ~ Giyu Tomioka (Demon slayer)

  • @Daniella70
    @Daniella70 Před rokem +25

    Finally recovered from food poisoning. sometimes I'm so used to agreeing with what families and friends say and I'm used to being shut down, ignored and always having decisions made for me without even me getting included.....sowwy

  • @nobodyknows4800
    @nobodyknows4800 Před rokem +8

    I'd like to thank you for putting this out there; these types of videos make it so much easier for me to move on after what I experienced in my first relationship.
    I made the mistake of meeting a guy who'd not only take his anger out on me whenever he got angry, but also threatened to h'ng and blackmail and insult me if I wasn't going along with what he was doing. What's embarrassing was that would usually be roleplay he'd set up, where he'd play different characters, and he'd just... "gave" one of his characters to me to date because "that character living inside him thought I was hot". I thought it was just some weird roleplay until he got serious, and I was dumb enough to fall in love. He'd actually believe fictional characters were within his consciousness whenever he'd get hyper fixated on them (no, he didn't have DID, or anything of the sort. He admitted it to me and just said he'd like disassociating "for fun" and could go back to his "original self" anytime, as he phrased it). It'd gotten to the point where he'd fake ptsd breakdowns about fictional wars and make me comfort him, giving me all sorts of anxiety because he insisted so much that it was real, and I was stupid enough to believe that I'd be in the wrong if I didn't help him. I was just a side partner he "gave a character to" and used to cheat on their other partner, and when I tried to talk him into setting things right, he had the childish response of insulting me in an outburst and celebrating that he got rid of me. I knew they had another partner, but I was so stupid to believe him when he said he had a bunch of characters he liked living inside his body. That lead me to constant confusion and jealousy for months, and it completely ruined my emotional and mental state
    Thankfully, I'm doing much better now. I'm still embarrassed that I let this sorta thing happen to me, but now that I'm finally moving on, I can live life in peace again. I hope you're doing the same as well, and thank you so much for giving us this content 💜💜💜

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +3

      I am proud of you and I love you
      please take care of yourself
      you are strong and brave don't give up

    • @JuneCreat.r
      @JuneCreat.r Před 8 měsíci +1

      What a guy. He sounds like an anime weeb 💀

  • @abrianimals1731
    @abrianimals1731 Před rokem +13

    Well my parents fight a lot so I usually use music to calm myself down and when they get loud I flinch but I am too scared to tell them to calm down now I don’t really have to deal with it because they’re not together anymore and tomorrow’s my first birthday without them not being together with me but I’m still excited that it’s my birthday yay

  • @ariannasaintjohn369
    @ariannasaintjohn369 Před 9 dny

    The little bit you did in the beginning about staying on your tippy toes melted my heart.
    I replayed it over 100 times it's so cute and sweet.
    Im glad there's people like you out there trying to help however they can. Thank you. You're doing great!

  • @Alles2007
    @Alles2007 Před rokem +4

    The bit that talked out expectations was really amazing. I agree that this is something no one talks about and it should be discussed. That was a really good talk and I’m glad someone spoke about it.

  • @merleahhh
    @merleahhh Před rokem +4

    I've found it difficult to show alot of emotion as when I show too much I'm judged but when I don't show it I'm called werid.

  • @masturo9246
    @masturo9246 Před rokem +30

    Getting out of this toxic marriage pretty soon

  • @bunnygirlproductions6221

    I was in few that were back to back. They suck it took almost a full month to get out of the one. Its never easy to leave an abusive/toxic relationship.

  • @kynamarwah
    @kynamarwah Před rokem +16

    The community post you put out few hours back now makes a lot more sense. I like the little teaser!
    Thank you for the video Yami, I love you, I'm proud of you and Take care💖💖💖
    As for the bare minimum being a rare minimum these days...I completely agree with your statements. And it is very difficult sometimes to stand up for yourself even if the other person is screaming at you, even if it is hurting you, that is not easy to overcome. It takes time, but those are changes you have to push yourself very hard to make. It is sometimes draining to make these changes but it is all worth in the end.

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +2

      if someone's version of love is to scream and yell at you
      that isn't love and leaving is best
      showing them you won't put up with it -

  • @snowykitsune5907
    @snowykitsune5907 Před rokem +13

    This is kinda sad. The truth is at times I'm scared to say how I feel. I'm not talking about a relationship. One my friend and I get into agreements because the things she would say. She was talking about how depressed she was and stuff. So I try to talk to her to see what was wrong and I told her maybe she should get help and start taking medicine again. She got pissed off at me and started yelling at me saying things like ' you don't understand shit going on with me ' ' I'm better off just killing myself than talking to someone'. I started crying and snapped back at her. I did yell at her and told her she shouldn't say things like and I only wanted to help her. But somehow the conversation turned to something that didn't have anything to do with it. She said I'm a horrible friend and I hate everyone she dates if I really cared I would support her. The truth is I don't hate the people dates I'm only looking out for her and the guys she hooks up with are not good people they are abusive, controlling, and aways ask her for something. I don't like see my friend get used. I am not going to lie to her if she asks me my opinion. Maybe I am a horrible friend. Now I'm not going to say anything because no one really wants to know how you feel.

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +5

      the truth is taking the first step in being honest clear and a better you is always better than hiding it all away and suffering alone

    • @cathyvigo656
      @cathyvigo656 Před rokem +1

      That's not right I want to hear how you doing , how everyone in this community feel. And it's as also absolutely wrong that you a to e a terrible friend. You are great and I wished I had someone like you in my life. But sometimes the people don't want help, even if they are in pain. Sometimes he people just want the pain and the heartbreak so they don't see that you only want to help. You only care. And you can try it multiple times. But you have to know where to stop trying it. You have to look up to you and what you need and it's really sad but you only able to help if they want you'r help. Speak clearly about it, and say that you really like her but you need a break because they don't want you to help them. That doesn't mean that you are not there for them, you are and if they want to talk and want help you are also there. But YOU need a break. That doesn't make you a bad person or something you just have to set boundaries in any relationship. Remember I like you a lot. Huggies 💞 (sorry for my bad English, I'm German)

    • @snowykitsune5907
      @snowykitsune5907 Před rokem

      Thanks alot. That's helps.

  • @philly_viv
    @philly_viv Před rokem +14

    my ankle is getting better. the bruises starts to show. but im doing good now. the pain has gone away so yea.😊

    • @kynamarwah
      @kynamarwah Před rokem +5

      This amazing! Hope the bruises go away soon too. Take care lovely

    • @ak4l145
      @ak4l145 Před rokem +4

      I’m glad! I hope you’re doing okay, take care!!💗

    • @philly_viv
      @philly_viv Před rokem +4

      @@ak4l145 aw thank you

    • @philly_viv
      @philly_viv Před rokem +4

      @@kynamarwah awwww thank you ☺️i hope the bruises go away too.

    • @cathyvigo656
      @cathyvigo656 Před rokem +2

      That's very good I hope the bruises will go away soon. Huggies 💞

  • @luvvmin2592
    @luvvmin2592 Před rokem +8

    I love this audio…Its really good,as always.

  • @Luna-nz3ev
    @Luna-nz3ev Před rokem +8

    I have not been in a good mood lately and the made my happier

    • @cathyvigo656
      @cathyvigo656 Před rokem +3

      Oh no I hope you will feel better soon 💞

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +3

      I hope you feel better soon cutie

    • @Luna-nz3ev
      @Luna-nz3ev Před rokem +1

      @@cathyvigo656 thank you 💕❤️

    • @Luna-nz3ev
      @Luna-nz3ev Před rokem +1

      @@EthernalYami thank you❤️💕

  • @CoreLabb
    @CoreLabb Před rokem +4

    So cuuuuuute 🥰"stay on your tippy toes"😊

  • @Lina-sg3yk
    @Lina-sg3yk Před rokem +34

    Sure this is gonna be amazing as always!! Really love all audios on this channel like they never disappoint

  • @Hope-cv4uo
    @Hope-cv4uo Před rokem +9

    I'm out now but I will listen to this important audio when I will be back home 💜☀️

  • @animeweeb3260
    @animeweeb3260 Před rokem +9

    Thank youu for making this 💜 also I'm new and I just subscribed ☺️💜 ook have a Beautiful day☺️💜💜

  • @cherylmchugh-hall-3778
    @cherylmchugh-hall-3778 Před rokem +3

    Yami I found out today my favorite actress Olivia newton-john from grease whom played sandy 🥺 passed away today from cancer and I'm taking her passing extremely hard😭 why is everyone leaving this beautiful planet :( 🤲

  • @nathaliesanchez9065
    @nathaliesanchez9065 Před rokem +5

    Hi everyone, I hope you all have an idea day. Remember to take care of yourself the best you can and that iove you very much 💖💞

  • @Male-YN.
    @Male-YN. Před rokem +1

    Me where in my home saying 'no' is a form of disrespect: 👁👄👁⁉️

  • @storiesforyou777
    @storiesforyou777 Před rokem +3

    You do such a great job on your videos. Please keep going, never stop. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍💓💓💓💓

  • @k.a.r.m.i.n.a5477
    @k.a.r.m.i.n.a5477 Před rokem +2

    "up on your tipy toes" 😭🥺🥹

  • @chloelow8010
    @chloelow8010 Před rokem +8

    HEYYY! I’m back from being sick! I loved this video just like every other one❤ I hope you have a great day ahead and remember to get enough rest and stay hydrated

    • @cathyvigo656
      @cathyvigo656 Před rokem +2

      I'm glad that you feel better now💞

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +1

      awe I hope you feel 100% soon and thank yo u

  • @satansfbiagent4330
    @satansfbiagent4330 Před rokem +4

    i like that laugh

  • @PolytherianF0X
    @PolytherianF0X Před 11 měsíci

    Bro I started crying-

  • @notshilohatall
    @notshilohatall Před rokem +3

    SO EXCITED TO HEARRR

  • @ak4l145
    @ak4l145 Před rokem +3

    I love this!!

  • @samsamantha4743
    @samsamantha4743 Před rokem +7

    You are an amazing person 💙

  • @preppyaesthetic5704
    @preppyaesthetic5704 Před rokem +1

    Today was a tie.
    Yami:15
    Me:5
    Tie:10

  • @cathyvigo656
    @cathyvigo656 Před rokem +3

    You make me so happy I don't know how to thank so so ... THANK YOUUU **HUGGIES**🥰🥺

  • @leahc8347
    @leahc8347 Před rokem +2

    Sobbing

  • @-Esstefania
    @-Esstefania Před rokem +5

    Ahh this is ideal in a relationship🥺communication and trust, everyone are our own person and have our likes/dislikes and it's okay not to agree on everything 12:50 water? Lol idk I like fruits and vegetables too I don't eat healthy all of the time honestly but I try😅 I am proud of you for try your best to change and grow like that Yami!💟

    • @SHUJIIIIIIII
      @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem +2

      I don't eat healthy but I've been trying to starve myself lol

    • @-Esstefania
      @-Esstefania Před rokem +1

      @@SHUJIIIIIIII I understand how it's like but please don't do that, that could be worse, better to try to find a balance, it's not easy but you can do it💟

    • @SHUJIIIIIIII
      @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem +2

      @@-Esstefania don't worry I still eat I just don't eat very often (sorry I just realized it said way I meant to say eat)

    • @-Esstefania
      @-Esstefania Před rokem +1

      @@SHUJIIIIIIII Just be safe please

    • @SHUJIIIIIIII
      @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem +1

      @@-Esstefania my eating schedule is eating a meal every two days to help with my weight 👍🏻

  • @lydiacourtney3495
    @lydiacourtney3495 Před rokem +1

    ok, but why am I listening to this picturing a dressing room with a prison fence boxing it in and a slide inside the dressing room that leads to a ball pit? like what is going on in my brain right now

  • @Baby.tamz7
    @Baby.tamz7 Před rokem +4

    Amazing video

  • @88patchi
    @88patchi Před rokem

    Trying not to cry at work

  • @cherylmchugh-hall-3778
    @cherylmchugh-hall-3778 Před rokem +1

    By the way I was in a toxic relationship twice to where I never want to date again 😞💔

  • @KrayaFcknRiver
    @KrayaFcknRiver Před 3 měsíci

    I almost got hit by my dad because I set a boundary that I wouldn’t answer him when he would talk to me like that and he got in my face and went to hit me I dodge it

  • @beccalove2261
    @beccalove2261 Před rokem +1

    Hi guys it’s me Becca

  • @moonl1tex
    @moonl1tex Před rokem +4

    i wanna leave a comment cuz im early but idk what to comment so im commenting this so yeah hi 👍

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem +1

      awe thank you N

    • @moonl1tex
      @moonl1tex Před rokem

      @@EthernalYami omg hi again youre my favorite youtuber 😭😭😭

  • @DeathWishesXOXO
    @DeathWishesXOXO Před rokem +1

    HIII YAMIIIII IM BAAAACCCCCKKKKKK! :D

  • @minisapxrose3105
    @minisapxrose3105 Před rokem +2

    Finally not first

  • @amberrr_misss
    @amberrr_misss Před rokem +3

    👌👌

  • @SHUJIIIIIIII
    @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem +1

    Question can you maybe do a starving comfort

    • @EthernalYami
      @EthernalYami  Před rokem

      I can try

    • @SHUJIIIIIIII
      @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem

      @@EthernalYami omg thanks

    • @SHUJIIIIIIII
      @SHUJIIIIIIII Před rokem

      @@EthernalYami uhm I know you said you could try but are you going to it's fine if you don't I just wanted some comfort from starving myself for a week ofc you don't need to do it your metal and physical health is very important way more than mine I don't want you over working yourself

  • @minisapxrose3105
    @minisapxrose3105 Před rokem +2

    Early/late squad/ganggg😂
    (Day 193🤔)

  • @beccalove2261
    @beccalove2261 Před rokem +1

    Hi guys it’s me Becca

  • @beccalove2261
    @beccalove2261 Před rokem +1

    Hi guys it’s me Becca