Whatever He Did, I'm Here Now [Boyfriend Roleplay][Comfort for Abuse] ASMR

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  • čas přidán 19. 09. 2020
  • Please don't be afraid to tell me.. I am here for you. x
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  • @tammyd3927
    @tammyd3927 Před 3 lety +1671

    this is what a boyfriend should be like.

    • @tammyd3927
      @tammyd3927 Před 3 lety +27

      AngstAudio i definitely agree sorry if that was worded weird

    • @talileonard2553
      @talileonard2553 Před 3 lety +9

      Totally agree

    • @kirierjiro6436
      @kirierjiro6436 Před 3 lety +21

      Boyfriend, girlfriend, signifinact other

    • @talileonard2553
      @talileonard2553 Před 3 lety +9

      kiri Erjiro k is a guy so that’s why we’re saying bf. Okay?

    • @kirierjiro6436
      @kirierjiro6436 Před 3 lety +15

      @@talileonard2553 i get that, im just saying that anyone should treat their partner like this no matter their gender

  • @oko._.o
    @oko._.o Před 3 lety +3123

    “she looks so cute rn”
    *me here with a bag of Cheetos sat on the kitchen counter like a racoon* 👁👄👁🤚🏽

  • @OwnyOne
    @OwnyOne Před 3 lety +1203

    When someone understands instead of being mad at you because of your reaction 😭

    • @rynsoo4310
      @rynsoo4310 Před 3 lety +46

      OwnyOne 😭 I always jump a little at sudden movements close behind my back. Coworkers have called me jittery and overreacting. Even my dad doesn’t understand, he’s just like “what, you don’t know I’m in this house too? Cut it out.” But I honestly can’t help it

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +17

      It means a lot that you felt understood by listening to the audio - your reactions are all valid! x Mel

    • @selenophile410
      @selenophile410 Před 3 lety +3

      @@rynsoo4310 didyou go through it

    • @isabellalesher8487
      @isabellalesher8487 Před 3 lety +11

      My parents/family hate me when I scream because I'm startled because I had PTSD from abuse haha

    • @corymorrow5329
      @corymorrow5329 Před 3 lety +7

      @@isabellalesher8487 that must be rough, I’m sorry you went through that but I hope you’re doing better and hopefully happy

  • @gaby-fv1sb
    @gaby-fv1sb Před 3 lety +3059

    think we all agree that k is literally the best person ever.

  • @naripark3491
    @naripark3491 Před 3 lety +2192

    Abuse is such a horrible thing, to everyone who suffer because of this pls stay strong dont be afraid to get help💖

    • @rayvenschreidell6585
      @rayvenschreidell6585 Před 3 lety +70

      How can i get help when everyone i turned to said the mental abuse wasnt real?

    • @Crym3ar1v3rx
      @Crym3ar1v3rx Před 3 lety +26

      Rayven Schreidell I feel you. I’m here for you 🥺💓

    • @naripark3491
      @naripark3491 Před 3 lety +34

      @@rayvenschreidell6585 This is horrible. I'm not an expert. But have you tried to ask an expert, I tried and for me it was the right choice. I'm sorry that I can't help💗

    • @rayvenschreidell6585
      @rayvenschreidell6585 Před 3 lety +28

      Nari Park The worst part is thinking i'm never going to be good enough even with my new partner. Sure we're about to celebrate four years but my mind is still stuck on 'if he proposes, he'll just flip a coin also and start to control you like the last one. No more friends. No more family.'

    • @Crym3ar1v3rx
      @Crym3ar1v3rx Před 3 lety +9

      Rayven Schreidell I get how you feel but I promise you’ll be ok.

  • @lexihinde858
    @lexihinde858 Před 3 lety +451

    “Whoever trampled all over your boundaries...” what a good/accurate way to put it, Mel.

    • @kawaii8669
      @kawaii8669 Před 3 lety +9

      Lexi Hinde I LOVE that line. It describes it perfectly.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +18

      I put it a bit different in words, so this is pure gold from K. Glad you found this line valuable! x Mel

  • @kc6675
    @kc6675 Před 3 lety +1551

    CZcams: Boyf-
    My hands: wanna see some real speed

  • @zainubq6019
    @zainubq6019 Před 3 lety +561

    “You know that I do respect you right? I don’t ever want to belittle you”
    I thought this audio was cute and all, and then this line comes in and so do the waterworks! As someone who has felt belittled A LOT, this felt really good to hear. Just take my heart already!

  • @gaby-fv1sb
    @gaby-fv1sb Před 3 lety +1056

    “ hey darling ”
    not me Turing into the biggest softie.

    • @Katerina8054
      @Katerina8054 Před 3 lety +1

      hi once can i ask something??? do you know if he posts on specific days or if he posts randomly??

    • @seasins660
      @seasins660 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Katerina8054 I think random, when he has something to post

    • @Katerina8054
      @Katerina8054 Před 3 lety

      @@seasins660 okayy tysm

  • @Van-zl3mw
    @Van-zl3mw Před 3 lety +255

    the way you hug her, rub her back and lightly pat on her back is just so comforting. i like this audio a lot, especially this line "i want home to be comfortable for you, i want you to be comfortable around me". as always, your soothing voice calms me down. and when you give her forehead kisses, then you chuckle and tell her you love her, it feels safe. like you've found someone to rely on and catch you when you fall

    • @bri_rebecca
      @bri_rebecca Před 3 lety +14

      I wish all men could be this comforting and understanding! I mean u never know what is going on in some else’s life ya know! great audio, everything is so genuine and true! Ily

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +7

      @@bri_rebecca I am glad K could convey the comfort and understanding so well and it felt true and authentic to you. x Mel

  • @arianna1489
    @arianna1489 Před 3 lety +305

    i have now come to the conclusion that k’s full name is king. a respectful king to be exact.

  • @lucy-yi8oz
    @lucy-yi8oz Před 3 lety +1768

    k: i never wanna hear you talk bad about yourself
    me: *honey you got a BIG storm comin*

  • @okaykels
    @okaykels Před 3 lety +312

    K literally deserves the best human ever award for doing this 🥺

  • @shaunamolloy7816
    @shaunamolloy7816 Před 3 lety +600

    i’ve been abused but not physically, it wasn’t a boyfriend or girlfriend it was a cousin. thank you for what you do it really means a lot and helps me ❤️

    • @mayra628gw73
      @mayra628gw73 Před 3 lety +16

      If you ever need someone to talk to, let me know❤ I'm here for you

    • @shaunamolloy7816
      @shaunamolloy7816 Před 3 lety +8

      Mayra Rovers thank you ❤️

    • @the.shadow897
      @the.shadow897 Před 3 lety +1

      ...

    • @lamaa788
      @lamaa788 Před 3 lety +9

      You’re so strong remember that 💛

    • @viola8856
      @viola8856 Před 3 lety +16

      The. Shadow what’s the point in commenting if ur just gonna type “...” either I’m interpreting what you wrote wrong or you’re being rude.

  • @taylorjohnson7693
    @taylorjohnson7693 Před 3 lety +626

    K: “Can I hug you?”
    Me: yes, of course you can!! Please hug all my worries and pain away until I am filled up with love and happiness!!🥺

    • @surrik-i
      @surrik-i Před 3 lety +7

      Literally me on the inside ^

  • @connorskicks1961
    @connorskicks1961 Před 3 lety +189

    As someone who has gone through an abusive relationship. Something like this means the world to me.

  • @aubriescorner9276
    @aubriescorner9276 Před 3 lety +351

    "hey darling"
    hey...
    "whats the matter"
    ...someone ate my food
    i know abuse is a horrible thing my mom was in a abusive relationship with my dad he wasnt abusive towards me and made me completely oblivious for 12 years she finally divorced him and we are trying our best to get back on our feet... that also gave me major trust issues ive always had trust issues but now they are way worse

    • @Lisa-hk9ol
      @Lisa-hk9ol Před 3 lety +9

      I....👁️👄👁️

    • @gibbybyby
      @gibbybyby Před 3 lety +14

      if u need someone to talk to im here :))

    • @ida4899
      @ida4899 Před 3 lety +1

      Stay strong❤

    • @ash8590
      @ash8590 Před 2 lety

      I hope that your doing well

    • @rosebell2849
      @rosebell2849 Před 2 lety

      She did the best thing😊

  • @ineedapicklenow2785
    @ineedapicklenow2785 Před 3 lety +340

    The fact that his voice is so relaxed it’s cute

  • @paishencejoi679
    @paishencejoi679 Před 3 lety +331

    K stans are the best stans and it’s not up for discussion

  • @easv3236
    @easv3236 Před 3 lety +443

    me coming here listen comfort BECAUSE MY SISTER EAT MY CANDYES
    sorry everyone who has experienced something like that * hugs *

    • @Lovi1628
      @Lovi1628 Před 3 lety +8

      I rlly like your pfp UuU

    • @easv3236
      @easv3236 Před 3 lety +6

      @@Lovi1628 thx! i like your's to

  • @joehannahcarian2802
    @joehannahcarian2802 Před 3 lety +1790

    K: **sneaks up** HeY darling!
    Me: **accidentally smacked him with a frying pan** ohsh-
    edit: i’m very easy to scare alright😀

  • @sexxiidiamond4lyfe
    @sexxiidiamond4lyfe Před 3 lety +85

    My heart goes out anyone that has dealt with/are dealing with abuse

  • @Jordan-ge9hi
    @Jordan-ge9hi Před 3 lety +114

    This video actually made me sad not in a bad way. Its honestly hard to find someone who will stand by your side through this... speaking from experience... because its to much for them. Your amazing for making this to help people out who don't have that person to get that emotional support.

    • @cripplingdepression8219
      @cripplingdepression8219 Před 3 lety +3

      Yess I appreciate K so much,his audios help so much honest to god such a cute and kind person

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +3

      Speaking from experience myself: yes, it is hard. But never forget: you´ve always got yourself and you are strong! x Mel

  • @courtneyy21
    @courtneyy21 Před 3 lety +166

    This audio hit way to close to home, but beautifully done **Chefs kiss**

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +4

      Hope you are doing okay! And that despite the audio being close to home you could still feel comforted by the content! x Mel

  • @alessa._.1673
    @alessa._.1673 Před 3 lety +59

    K is literally the person I needed the most in my childhood. Someone who I feel save with and who calms me down, someone who is there for me and not just manipulating and mentally and physically hurting me

  • @bts4ever472
    @bts4ever472 Před 3 lety +55

    Nearly cried when he said 'I think you're worth it'. No one has ever said that to me.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      "You are worth it" - don´t forget that, even if no one said it to you yet. And you can also start with saying it to yourself. You deserve to hear that daily. You´ve got this! x Mel

    • @radish2079
      @radish2079 Před 2 lety

      Hi

    • @I.love.my.boyfriend09
      @I.love.my.boyfriend09 Před 2 lety

      Same

  • @ch3micalslaught3r45
    @ch3micalslaught3r45 Před 3 lety +343

    Gosh, last time I was this early, Todoroki had a happy family and didn't have his scar

  • @idalissabrina808
    @idalissabrina808 Před 3 lety +174

    this title only made me think of one song lyric:
    *yooooooure heeeere there’s nooooothing i fearrr”

  • @ashkayvlogs
    @ashkayvlogs Před 3 lety +116

    me editing:
    boyfriendaudio: posts
    me: clicks on notifs 🥰

  • @raincl0udz
    @raincl0udz Před 3 lety +150

    K: do you want a tissue?
    Me a snotty, crying mess: yes please 🥺

  • @Yal1nnnn
    @Yal1nnnn Před 3 lety +121

    bro how do u knowww???my dad shouted and called me "idiot,depressed girl" and ur supporting me and cheering me up.lets say im so glad i found u here. :D

    • @midnight1548
      @midnight1548 Před 3 lety +5

      Sorry to hear that :( I hope your ok now

    • @Jess-mh8uu
      @Jess-mh8uu Před 3 lety +3

      I am insanely sorry that happened to you, you don’t deserve that happening to you, I hope you’re ok now :(

    • @hiheyhru
      @hiheyhru Před 3 lety +4

      Just know ur worth it. And ily😀✨❤️

    • @seonamjoo
      @seonamjoo Před 3 lety +1

      I want you know your self worth and no one, not even relatives should ever make you feel terrible about yourself. Wishing you all the love

    • @Yal1nnnn
      @Yal1nnnn Před 3 lety +2

      @@seonamjoo thank you so much, u made my day better❤❤

  • @fadedpurple7434
    @fadedpurple7434 Před 3 lety +122

    BF AUDIO: "I don't want to hear your talk bad about your self"
    ME: "Well heck now I can't....man! "

  • @electraheart6250
    @electraheart6250 Před 3 lety +87

    why have i become emotionally attached 🧍‍♀️

  • @jacelyn2623
    @jacelyn2623 Před 3 lety +44

    “ where he did, i’m here for you “
    i feel like this a sign i should stop talking to my ex and stop letting him hurt me and control me

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +5

      You deserve more than pain; you matter very much. Do what you have to do to be and feel safe. All the best! x Mel

    • @jacelyn2623
      @jacelyn2623 Před 3 lety +4

      SheWolf_M i really need this today :) thank you

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +5

      @@jacelyn2623 I am glad I could offer you some support. You know what you need, so don´t be afraid to act on that. You´ve got this! I am rooting for you! x Mel

    • @melmoscarosaa6114
      @melmoscarosaa6114 Před 3 lety +3

      i know its been 3 months since u commented but ummm YES. YES YES IT WAS A SIGN AND IM HOPING U STOPPED AND IF NOT STOP 🛑 RN STOP! LMAOO

    • @jacelyn2623
      @jacelyn2623 Před 3 lety +3

      @@melmoscarosaa6114 i did and thank you :)

  • @teddyaed3219
    @teddyaed3219 Před 3 lety +62

    “She looks so cute”
    *Me with my mouth full of marshmallows looking like a dark bunny in my dark af room and muffled* “thank you!”

  • @Rana-mp4fb
    @Rana-mp4fb Před 3 lety +37

    I love how you ask her what's wrong just to comfort her knowing that it's hard to open up and trust people telling her she doesn't have to go into much detail and you just giving her comfort.
    The way that you hug her , rub her back and kiss her forehead is just everything that is needed in this case, my favorite line is "I want home to comfortable for you, I want you to be comfortable around me".
    Thank you K for being a comfort zone to most of us ❤️
    And thanks Mel this script is so we'll written ^^

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for your lovely comment and the compliment for the script! x Mel

    • @Rana-mp4fb
      @Rana-mp4fb Před 3 lety

      @@shewolf_m4851 no need it is a great script ❤️

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      @@Rana-mp4fb Thanks again! x Mel

    • @Rana-mp4fb
      @Rana-mp4fb Před 3 lety

      No need x

  • @vamitchell2013
    @vamitchell2013 Před 3 lety +166

    Who else watched Cardlinaudio's 5 year anniversary stream and heard him say yes he would do a collab with K? Someone write a script they would love and let's get it done! Please!

    • @KimCarter
      @KimCarter Před 3 lety +12

      I’m on it! I just have to finish part 2. Poke at me so I finish it!

    • @onlineextrovert5842
      @onlineextrovert5842 Před 3 lety +6

      how would that work tho? two boyfriends in one audio?

    • @maplebooth1818
      @maplebooth1818 Před 3 lety +5

      onlineextrovert the more the merrier 💗

    • @KimCarter
      @KimCarter Před 3 lety +4

      One is the Listener's brother! ^_^ That's how I'm going to do it anyway.

    • @maplebooth1818
      @maplebooth1818 Před 3 lety

      KimCarter omggg kim i can’t wait to read it c: will you be posting it anywhere?

  • @Akikixo
    @Akikixo Před 3 lety +186

    My quarter grades are due tomorrow and I'm behind on a bunch of assignments...
    *_They can wait a little longer_*

  • @smileymel07
    @smileymel07 Před 3 lety +68

    The one thing that got to me was when he said, “You are not defective.” The amount of times I've said that to myself... I've really been my own worst enemy over the years.
    Any kind of abuse emotional or physical. It takes a toll on a person's body and self worth. To anyone who needs to hear this, healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives.

    • @kawaii8669
      @kawaii8669 Před 3 lety +5

      Physical abuse attacks one’s dignity. It’s humiliating.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +2

      I know that hearing and believing in such a statement are two different things. I hope him saying "You are not defective" helps you to believe it. Thank you for your kind words - and I totally agree: We control our lives. Stay strong! x Mel

    • @smileymel07
      @smileymel07 Před 3 lety

      @@shewolf_m4851 Its not that simple. However, I am working on believing it to be true. Thank you for the extra words of encouragement. I will be okay. I promise! I'm very good at smiling my way through it. :)

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety

      @@smileymel07 I know it isn´t easy. I didn´t meant to imply that. The truth is: everybody has to do the work for one´s own sake. But sometimes it can help to be reminded and be told that this statement can be true - even if the accepting still takes time. Take all the time you need. You are brave - you really are for working so hard on yourself! I am rooting for you! x Mel

    • @smileymel07
      @smileymel07 Před 3 lety

      @@shewolf_m4851 Of course! It's very helpful to be reminded! Speaking words of encouragement to one another is so important. For me, I didn't realize such a statement would hit me so hard. I think that's part of the healing process. Also, I never intended to come off defensive. This kind of communicating is difficult because you can't see each others expressions behind the words being conveyed. Thank you truly, for your *Kindness!* I really do appreciate it. :)

  • @paishencejoi679
    @paishencejoi679 Před 3 lety +112

    K: She looks so cute right now
    My heart: 🥰✨♥️🤪💕😘🌸😍❣️💫

  • @_starlight_614
    @_starlight_614 Před 3 lety +39

    I wasn’t abused but sexually assaulted by my ex best friend(who is a guy) and this made me feel better about my whole situation since I’m being blamed by almost my entire school

    • @sleepycryptid8275
      @sleepycryptid8275 Před 3 lety +10

      Hey, everything is gonna be okay. It was not your fault. The people saying it is are WRONG. They are victim blaming. You are strong and I believe in you. To make your day better here's a cookie and flower!!! 🍪 🌼 Not sure how else I can help, but I hope you feel a lot better!!! Remember. You're a survivor. You can get through this. You are smart and amazing and it wasn't your fault, it was his fault. Remember that.

    • @_starlight_614
      @_starlight_614 Před 3 lety +4

      @@sleepycryptid8275 thank you so much. I really appreciate the cookie and flower

    • @sleepycryptid8275
      @sleepycryptid8275 Před 3 lety +2

      @@_starlight_614 your welcome!!!

    • @rniahxo647
      @rniahxo647 Před 2 lety +5

      i’m so sorry love

  • @gaby-fv1sb
    @gaby-fv1sb Před 3 lety +135

    k is the definition of bae

  • @littleone6927
    @littleone6927 Před 3 lety +31

    My abusive Dad tried comming back into my life again and i was like NOOOOOO and I really needed this rn. Thank you sm

  • @bambii7908
    @bambii7908 Před 3 lety +91

    Me: *knows he should posting the next video*
    CZcams: LETS GIVE HER THE NOTIFICATION 4 HOURS LATE! HAHAHA

    • @Mina-yx5rg
      @Mina-yx5rg Před 3 lety +2

      Same suga-

    • @caroline7079
      @caroline7079 Před 3 lety +1

      Does Daichi know about this ?

    • @bambii7908
      @bambii7908 Před 3 lety +1

      @@caroline7079 shhhhhhh dont tell him-

    • @-spade6542
      @-spade6542 Před 3 lety

      Siri add this to blackmail folder called “suga345”

  • @AnaMaria-qr2uc
    @AnaMaria-qr2uc Před 3 lety +46

    I seriously can’t thank you enough for being here, honesty I don’t know what kind of witchcraft it is but you voice just clams me down on a whole other level.hearing your voice today made me feel so much better. My whole day has been stressful I’m in the hospital but having your voice to help me fall asleep makes me feel like I’m not alone❤️❤️.Again just thank you so so much.you have no idea what it means to me your voice just makes me feel so much better like I don’t know what I would do without you keep being your amazing self. You’re great at your voice and your words make me smile when I don’t have a reason to. Keep doing what you do. Ily🥺❤️ I really hope you see this🥺.

  • @aesthetically1004
    @aesthetically1004 Před 3 lety +50

    I miss being loved ;(

  • @oko._.o
    @oko._.o Před 3 lety +40

    *Me here after searching boyfriend audio on da hub* 👁👄👁🤚🏽

  • @zoe-nt9bc
    @zoe-nt9bc Před 3 lety +66

    ur voice is addictive

  • @bakugoukatsuki4438
    @bakugoukatsuki4438 Před 3 lety +40

    Him:
    I just want you to look on my eyes
    Me:
    S-sir my anxiety doesn't allows that...

  • @shototodoroki1750
    @shototodoroki1750 Před 3 lety +6

    I love how comforting this is for people who actually go through stuff like this.
    We should all be supportive about what has happened to other people, this man proves that people can really be generous and kind in there own ways!

  • @jessrah
    @jessrah Před 3 lety +48

    "Life is.. really hard enough without you putting yourself down." This is something that I need to work so hard on stopping. :\ Honestly, everything from 7:18 to the end made me ugly cry.. 🥺 I know I'm deserving of a love like this, but sometimes it's hard to believe with everything I've been through.. But I know it will happen when the time is right. 🥺 The forehead kisses made me close my eyes lol, I love them. This was so friggin sweet and it tugged at my heartstrings so much. She did such a great job on the script and you delivered so perfectly. ❤️

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +4

      Thank you for being brave and sharing! Sometimes crying helps and it is good you know you are deserving of love like this. Hope you and your heartstrings are okay. Thanks for your kind words regarding my script! x Mel

  • @littlecloud2607
    @littlecloud2607 Před 3 lety +36

    Thank you ! Finally I’m tired of my abusive father always ruining my day 🥺

    • @Deeznutz08
      @Deeznutz08 Před 3 lety +3

      Awww I hope everything gets better🥺❤️

  • @lillypad_connor2729
    @lillypad_connor2729 Před 2 lety +4

    When you’ve been bullied, sexually assaulted by someone you thought you could trust when you were only 8yrs old, had a bf who moved away without telling you, and you broke a guy’s Heart by accident and feel extremely guilty about it, have severe general anxiety, problems with self hate/self harm… this is heaven and hits home harder than anything ever has.

  • @Kierstin_Waldow
    @Kierstin_Waldow Před 3 lety +9

    My dad has always mentally abused me, calling me bad names, sometimes hitting me, just overall I dont like him. And this helped, a lot, thank you!

  • @avajohnson7865
    @avajohnson7865 Před 3 lety +8

    Ik I’m late but when he said “Baby Doll” my heart dropped-

  • @gigifam459
    @gigifam459 Před 2 lety +7

    My parents physically and emotionally abused me for most of my life and this audio is almost a year old but finding your channel has helped me feel so safe somehow. Thank you K

  • @jasminekoko6699
    @jasminekoko6699 Před 3 lety +6

    It’s not physical but I’ve always been emotionally abused and it’s more than accurate to say that I hate everything about myself. Thank you so much for this audio. Having someone who cares about me or for my well-being is just so rare actually no one has really cared about me at all

  • @telonulea7571
    @telonulea7571 Před 3 lety +8

    As a victim of abuse, thank you K for doing this audio, the communication and care in this roleplay are everything.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      I am glad you found the way I with the script and K with the audio with the topic of abuse authentic and relatable. Stay strong! x Mel

  • @ameliamoscarella587
    @ameliamoscarella587 Před 3 lety +35

    Him- Hey darling😊😆
    Me-got so scared I slapped him with a slice of cheese😅😂
    Edit:thanks for the likes😁

  • @xx_itairy_xx9234
    @xx_itairy_xx9234 Před 3 lety +13

    I'm in church but just reading the title I know this will be strong. I want to cry, thanks K, this is perfect. 🤍
    I hope that the person who has gone through any type of abuse, everything will improve for you. I wish you the best of the best and much success in everything. You got this 🤍✨

  • @minmin-jw5ep
    @minmin-jw5ep Před 3 lety +51

    when CZcams gives you the video notification a minute late:
    🔪

  • @abbietroxler6844
    @abbietroxler6844 Před 3 lety +4

    When he is not toxic

  • @alexandria8186
    @alexandria8186 Před 3 lety +35

    Me:updating my phone
    CZcams: boyfriend-
    Me:I can wait🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @mimimi4589
    @mimimi4589 Před 2 lety +1

    this is instantly making me cry because no one ever in my life has been this caring and careful with me

  • @nayuu666
    @nayuu666 Před 3 lety +6

    i have been through an emotionally abusive relationship and honestly this video just helps a lot it makes me realize that there's people that would care even if i think that what's bothering me is dumb, i'm so glad that this is such a comfortable channel where people can just open up about stuff, thank you K for creating such an amazing community 💗

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      I am glad the audio helped you. That means a lot! You are not dumb; you are brave for sharing. Stay strong! x Mel

    • @nayuu666
      @nayuu666 Před 3 lety

      @@shewolf_m4851 omg thank youuuuu for telling me this 🥺💗💗

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      @@nayuu666 You are most welcome! You deserve love and care as well as every other human being. I am sure this world and people are going to surprise you. Chin up and keep going! x Mel

  • @redactedlovebot5049
    @redactedlovebot5049 Před 3 lety +5

    when i was 12, i was harassed by a guy friend of mine and i never really trusted any male after that. i genuinely didn’t realise the severity of it until now and just thinking about it just dkakwndjsje it really messes with me, the part about being behind the listener hits really close to this whole video was just so special , thank you

  • @milktears9000
    @milktears9000 Před 3 lety +44

    _im afraid that i will never find someone like u_

    • @kazakukog
      @kazakukog Před 3 lety +8

      we probably won't ✊👊😎

    • @milktears9000
      @milktears9000 Před 3 lety +7

      @@kazakukog girlll dont say that im still havin lil hope 😭

    • @moonheart8199
      @moonheart8199 Před 3 lety

      @@milktears9000 your little hope DEEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP DEEP
      DOWN IN YOUR SOUL

    • @kei_leen
      @kei_leen Před 3 lety +1

      same 😔

    • @milktears9000
      @milktears9000 Před 3 lety

      @@kei_leen 😩

  • @Ieyyskyeykryidyi122
    @Ieyyskyeykryidyi122 Před 3 lety +2

    boyfriend of the year

  • @ohnoourtableitsbroken4415

    TW:
    my brother sexually abused me when i was around 9 or 10 and he's verbally bullied me basically my entire life.
    i tried telling my friends, they said to tell my therapist.
    i tried telling my therapist, she called cps.
    i tried telling my parents and they didn't do anything.
    cps isn't doing anything and he's not getting punished.
    im fucking trapped with him.
    im terrified around him and im not getting help.
    he hurts me with what he says every single fucking day.
    he made my already horrible mental health plummet.
    im not getting justice.
    im so scared.

  • @khfairy2771
    @khfairy2771 Před 3 lety +6

    What a great script by Mel! When you've been through some type of abuse, it can manifest in unexpected ways even long after you have done your best to come to terms with it. I thought this audio captured that reaction and how it can impact relationships really well.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words regarding the script! Yeah, it manifests sometimes in certain behaviours, even if the threat passed. I wanted to show that behaviours stay sometimes, but that there are people who care and understand. I am glad this felt authetic to you! x Mel

    • @khfairy2771
      @khfairy2771 Před 3 lety

      @@shewolf_m4851 Thank YOU for sharing your script. It is so important for people to see there can be a future after abuse. There can be happiness after abuse. You are not broken just because someone did some horrible things to you that you did NOT deserve. You can find the people who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and you deserve to be treated well. 💜

  • @sourcorx
    @sourcorx Před 2 lety +1

    If every man was like this, we would all be blessed. This is how men should treat women! With chivalry and respect, comfort and kindness, we need more of this in this world.

  • @evelyn_in_paradise2526
    @evelyn_in_paradise2526 Před 3 lety +17

    youtube: *boyfriendaudio*
    me: “yes pleaseeee”

  • @karen98653
    @karen98653 Před 3 lety +4

    This was so sweet 💜💜💜- I've never been the victim of physical abuse at the hands of a partner, but I know what it's like to be so emotionally raw and open that everything just feels like too much; like any kind of stimuli is salt in an open wound, and it's not fun (anxiety and depression are awful). It takes a really special kind of person to be able to make space for someone else's trauma, and to put aside the time and energy to help somebody work through the parts of themself that they struggle with alone, and to know that sometimes they'll struggle even more with choosing to be that vulnerable with someone else too.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for your sweet comment and sharing your thoughts! Being vulnerable is being brave. Stay strong. x Mel

  • @kathymc6497
    @kathymc6497 Před 3 lety +5

    K, you are the most beautiful man on the planet! Abuse is a terrible thing to go through and the way you try to help is really nice. Your voice gives me hope.

  • @angelk2377
    @angelk2377 Před 3 lety +17

    Baby bear tensed up🥺
    *K bear defensive shield activated*

  • @crankymonkey139
    @crankymonkey139 Před 3 lety +19

    him:"that's it baby doll"
    me: AHHHHHHSKSNWWKK EEEEEEEE

  • @boutdataction9068
    @boutdataction9068 Před 3 lety +18

    I feel very comfy here😌💞 This channel is my safe haven.

  • @julliaprancheska2592
    @julliaprancheska2592 Před 3 lety +28

    u forgot to say breathe out im still holding my breath

  • @dramaticviky
    @dramaticviky Před 2 lety +3

    I didn’t get abused or something but I’m still here to say to the people that have been trough that, you are so so so strong ❤️ I’m sorry that this happened to you, this is not your fault and I love you I hope that you are doing better now ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you are so loved

  • @thatanonymouschocolate
    @thatanonymouschocolate Před 3 lety +9

    For those who have experienced abuse physical/emotional/mental I hope you are doing well. You don’t ever have to stay with your abuser 😞 and you deserve happiness ❤️😁 hope you have a good day.

  • @astrid.4248
    @astrid.4248 Před 2 lety +4

    If he’s not this
    *i*
    *dont*
    *want*
    *him*
    ✨🙄💅😌🤚

  • @Crym3ar1v3rx
    @Crym3ar1v3rx Před 3 lety +49

    I- I have never been abused per say but let’s just say a guy did something when I said no :/ so this made me have like a cold wash over me. I love you k thanks for this 🥺💓

    • @naripark3491
      @naripark3491 Před 3 lety +2

      I'm sorry hope you're doing good💖

    • @darkinside2203
      @darkinside2203 Před 3 lety

      ♥️

    • @Crym3ar1v3rx
      @Crym3ar1v3rx Před 3 lety +1

      Nari Park it’s fine I guess

    • @Crym3ar1v3rx
      @Crym3ar1v3rx Před 3 lety +1

      Dark Inside 💓

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +3

      I am sorry that happened to you! A no should always be respected - no matter what. I see you and think you are brave for sharing. All the best to you! x Mel

  • @_n3ll1
    @_n3ll1 Před 3 lety +47

    To the person reading this:🥺❤️
    Hey how are you,no truly how are you feeling?
    If you need someone to talk I’m here for you...
    In case no one said it yet today:
    you’re great!
    Have a wonderful day!
    You make the world a better place.
    I’m so glad you were born!
    Wow! You look stunning today!
    You are beautiful.
    You do an amazing job of being you
    I believe in you!
    You are enough!
    You are loved!
    Wherever you are right now, here’s a imaginary hug 🤗
    Please drink water and eat something
    I love you,stay safe
    Ok but who let you be this pretty
    Ur literally perfect,it’s unfair...
    Can I have your gorgeous eyes
    And your flawless hair oml
    Your eyelashes are beautiful
    How about your perfect body,I would kill to have this curves.
    Ur height is literally so perfect for you
    And your amazing personality!
    You have the most perfect teeth and lips
    Your smile makes everyone’s day
    People love being around you
    Your taste in style is amazing,I want your clothes
    Even tho I don’t know you,you’re literally flawless.
    NEVER LET ANY BOY OR GIRL TELL U OTHERWISE!!!
    YOURE ENOUGH,YOU DESERVE THE WORLD
    ❤️❤️❤️🥺 now have a good day

    • @-spade6542
      @-spade6542 Před 3 lety +1

      THIS IS AN UNDERRATED COMMENT
      Good job hun 🥰

    • @I.love.my.boyfriend09
      @I.love.my.boyfriend09 Před 2 lety +1

      Me whos a 5'10" 14 year old i know love my hight too

    • @kaisar_5956
      @kaisar_5956 Před rokem

      Hey ur the one telling us this but UNO REVERSE CARD! You are fabulous to inside and out :))

  • @chiharubakugou130
    @chiharubakugou130 Před 3 lety +22

    Me sensing that K posted from the kitchen.
    Me doing a little hay dance while walking to go to my bedroom: "🎶~Making my way downtown~🎶"
    My Brother: "Mom am I adopted?"
    Mom: "No, why did you ask?"
    My Brother pointing at me: "There is no way I'm related to that weirdo"

  • @julliaprancheska2592
    @julliaprancheska2592 Před 3 lety +10

    i wish we all get someone who will shine light to our dark past experiences

  • @janhaviharshey
    @janhaviharshey Před 3 lety +31

    You return like autumn
    And I fall everytime
    (Read this somewhere and it fits perfectly in this case)

  • @jesusitself654
    @jesusitself654 Před 3 lety +4

    mine is a pretty difficult situation, and it’s been for years now, but i’m glad i found u, thank you so so so much🥺♥️

  • @Loveuourself3224
    @Loveuourself3224 Před 3 lety +7

    I just got called damaged by a guy who felt what happened to me was unfair to him since I have physical boundaries with people. Thank you, I wish everyone reacted this way. 🥺🥺

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +2

      You are not damaged. Having and setting boundaries is a healthy coping mechanism, when you were hurt in the past. Stay strong. You´ve got this! x Mel

  • @mindyourownbusinessmaam8415

    "she looks so cute rn"
    *Sighs painfully*

  • @ana.11256
    @ana.11256 Před 3 lety +13

    Whoever’s watching this needs a hug 🤗 🥺 Love you, guys, hope you’re alright 💕

  • @insertnamehere9309
    @insertnamehere9309 Před 3 lety +6

    Getting therapy for my abuse, but God if hearing these words doesn't break a little part of my heart. It's been 4 years since the bad things happened but it's still really needed to hear someone say it's not my fault, even if at least some of it feels like it.

    • @shewolf_m4851
      @shewolf_m4851 Před 3 lety +2

      I am glad that this audio could provide some of the things you needed to hear. I am saying it again: "It is not your fault".
      I think it is brave and strong to get therapy - helped me personally a lot. No matter how long the "bad things" are over, you are worthy of help. Stay strong! x Mel

  • @run_vsan_4826
    @run_vsan_4826 Před 3 lety +9

    I alone now can't sleep without hearing his voice before going to bed..?

  • @Justherelol69
    @Justherelol69 Před 3 lety +11

    “She looks so cute right now”
    Me: ✌️😗✌️

  • @trist__
    @trist__ Před 3 lety +3

    K, I've thought this before but I've never said it. Ur a savior to all of your followers. The audios you produce are top notch and help so many people including myself. Keep making such great content! We love you K!

  • @bkgkatsukiirl
    @bkgkatsukiirl Před 3 lety +34

    Me: *scrolling thru the comments while listening*
    Also me: *sees funny comment and trys not to smile or laugh*
    Edit: its in the playlist. I think I need help tho I have a playlist of just K's audio

    • @cripplingdepression8219
      @cripplingdepression8219 Před 3 lety +1

      I literaly downloaded 73 (to be exact) of his audios to my phone oml I am obsessed,I admit it

  • @sasha2794
    @sasha2794 Před 3 lety +1

    I’m new here ( and now joined your Patreon) and with the way the world is right now, it’s triggered a lot of my anxiety and I cannot put into words how much this calms me down and allows me to do normal things like eat and sleep. Love that there is no description at all and I can use my imagination quite a bit which makes it more enjoyable and probably why it calms me. I also wanna say you probably have a more dominant cause I’m kinda a little and I feel those undertones in what you speak. Basically love everything and border jealous because I couldn’t write things like this but I’m happy with my poetry but there is so much within writing realm that you wanna attempt everything. I know people can’t be perfect but damn when I listen to these I do hope I get be someone similar who understands emotional baggage, have similar values and accepts me regardless.

  • @oko._.o
    @oko._.o Před 3 lety +18

    *me here after searching Boyfriend Audio on the Hub* 👁👄👁🤚🏽

  • @lifegoeson2991
    @lifegoeson2991 Před 3 lety +13

    Every word he said made me melt even more
    I'm now a puddle

  • @wassawissu2385
    @wassawissu2385 Před 3 lety +6

    I appreciate the fact that you take time to make these audios that really help and motivate the most of us, thank u sooo so much for your great work k, I LOVE U

  • @sharnimaree13
    @sharnimaree13 Před 3 lety +4

    I’m going to have to add this audio to the long list of your audios, to listen to when I have anxiety. These are ✨ therapy ✨