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One other thing I forgot to say. Since you mentioned the Filipina Pea. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying I dislike her. However, she has reached a point in her career(Social Media) where she does not need a man. This happens all over the world when a woman becomes financially successful. She also has missed opertunities with high integrity men. Of that I have no doubt. At her age I'm not sure what's she's waiting for. And if she reads this I hope she's not triggered because she is a good person. But, societies are breaking down. And the social contract has been terminated. God made women to be a help mate for Man. The Philippines is a christian country, right? Regrettably, the only thing that will change this is some sort of calamity. Where there is no law enforcement. Remember Hurricane katrina in new orleans? Did Women need men? Or let's say a war. Is anybody paying attention to what's happening in Ukraine? God forbid if another Massive typhoon hits the philippines, Are the women Going to reconnect the power grid Just to be able to use social media. I'm just saying Mike. Men need women and women need men. That's the way God meant it. Re-read the story of Adam and Eve. The start of the problem is there. It's how it all began. Now that Artificial intelligence is here, It is the first stages of the end. Pay attention to some of the other young youtube bloggers from Dumagetti. There's a strong possibility that they will never be married. You can thank social media for that.
Bait and switch
She has an American boy friend but keeps her private life private.
@@Usefullinformationphilippines That's what I was gonna say. .... But Hey! The world is still coming to an end and all the girls need to go live on @acttemp6170 's compound and cook and wash and clean for him. This I Know... For the Bible tells me so. He's got a generator and a bunker after all. *On a side note: Just like acttemp6170 I did not do my due diligence before I made a comment so I am saying I do not dislike acttemp6170. I just being quick to judge like acttemp6170. But I do agree with acttemp6170 that women need men and men need women (to make more men) ;) . And there are waaaaay too many liberated feminist psycho B's who will not survive the armageddon and that will be a good thing for this planet.
@@Usefullinformationphilippines Thank you for that. Good for her.
There is a whole other dynamic involved with Filipina vloggers behind the veil of the CZcams videos. Many, if not all get money from men from other sources, sources which we all know of. The more popular the vlogger the more substantial the money from these other incomes, this amount may easily surpass your own. While I have no qualms with Filipinas making money and having large incomes at what price do they pay for this. The price they pay will be greater that the few pesos in the bank account. I think we all can agree that Filipinas are very beautiful but that can be said of women across the globe. Filipinas are known for their loyalty to family and by extension to their boyfriend or husband. And again, this could be said about women in varying degrees throughout the world. IMHO the mix of Pinoy culture, their socioeconomic situation produce some of the most sought-after women in the world, if not why are you here? When she is unburdened of the materialistic drive, she soon discovers the most important things (a gift in disguise) in life, her relationship with the cherished people in her life. This gift that the Filipina was given is priceless. When a Filipina trades in the priceless gift for some pesos she is giving away what makes her so special. At first, she may not know of this loss but there has to be a point where she knowingly trades in her gift for money. What is this trade? When she realizes that men are sending her money in hopes of gaining her attention and she hides the fact that she has a boyfriend or husband. She may tell herself that's my private life but in reality if these men found out her income would be dramatical reduced. So, she hides her most consequential person in her life for fear of money lost. And there is where the trade happens, given away a priceless gift for a few pesos. Maybe she thinks that this trade is not happening, but it has none the less. For those Filipinas that do let their followers know about their significant other, kudos to them. You really don't see this in male vloggers in the Philippines, while they may not showcase their better half you learn early on, they are in a relationship. Were female vloggers keep this a guarded secret, and it's this money over family IMHO makes these vloggers Filipina in name only.
Avoid women addicted to social media like the plague.
I agree
The problem is that SM is a young person's life and its going to get worse as time passes.
Men have the power to reduce it, but whilst there are uneducated, lonely desperate men out there, they will keep feeding these little lady gremlins.
@thewannabevlogger71 I agree. And I might add, the only man the young filipina woman will attract is that of low quality. No man of high integrity and values will even consider her. By the time she figures it out, she will have 2 babies, no marriage, and will have aged out. A woman's highest value is from the ages of 18 to 25. It's all downhill after that.
i follow wife tik tok i never had to ask her take any thing down. It
acting it not who she is she play a drunk but she dont drink you may see a bar girl she a good dancer but no bar girl it a act. She not looking for guys im on some of REELS tiktok you cant tell a filpina wife no she might cut your big head off😅
Ps most filiipna are addicted to social media at a young age your a lucky man if she not on that phone most of the time 😅
A honest filipina will want you to visit her home town and meet her family. If she tells you it's best to meet her outside of home town , more than likely she is hiding something. A secret boyfriend or husband. Also, a honest filipina likes to stay in constant communication with her man. If she has a fix scheduled for you or is unavailable for hours or days, other men is on her roster. Sometimes intense lust and infatuation clouds our judgment and we miss the red flags.
Too me, a social media addiction is a huge red flag.
Easy to get caught up in it
Agreed, many women, especially under 25 have their faces in or on their devices at every free moment. How boring is that. Almost every woman here now has a device.
@@free2roam674so what who doesn't in the world 🤔
@@clyoest It is not the device that is the issue, it is how a person uses it. A woman that is staring lovingly into her device at every free moment is not one that I wish to date. To each their own.
@@free2roam674the sad part is parents are using them as a baby setter 😢 our 4year old granddaughter that's all she wants😢, they even gave her one,
Another sucker, if the girl does not want this guy to meet her family, it’s a big Red Flag.
I agree with that most want the family to meet you soon as possible
He was not necessary a lonely man she play him he took the bait with sex that how any women hooks you. this guy ignored red flag many girls are on tiktok my wife still is that mean nothing it a number game they like give them something to do their all on fb
@@mikesphilippineretirement I met Christine’s Mother after 3 days of video calling. Her Father after 2 weeks (he was busy, at the time). Then I began meeting her siblings. So glad that Christine shared her life with me, from the beginning. It helped to get to know each other, and open our communication
The red flag was in the beginning. Social media and a single mom and sending money to someone you never met 😅😅😅😅😅
Don’t fall for a social media girl! I bet Deedee makes a GOOD INCOME between TT and all her “bf’s” she chat with.
I would agree
Tik tok a game for views most dont make money thing are not what they appear they do it for fun or views not for men necessarly u tube a business were you make money or REELS on facebook. I met my wife on facebook she told me she was on tic tok she still is she was never on dateing sights she said that were scammer go cant judge a book by it cover
It's the new business model for girls around the world. They're cashing in on the millions of lonely and desperate men who are willing to splurge on fantasies and illusions. It's catching on like wildfire in the Phillies, many of the girls in our neighborhood have substantial "online income" and regular "sponsors".
Even in the end when he knows, she's still trying to squeeze more money out of him. Learn to think with your big head.
lesson learned I hope
I wont date anyone into social media. Too many temptations!
yes so many to both parties
In addition they have very limited interpersonal skills, after the sex what else is there? Nothing.
She takes his money, lies to him, cheats on him and leaves him waiting in the mall for hours and he is giving her another chance. WTF is wrong with him?
DD baby DD
He is in love…… correction…… he is in lust
😂😂😂😂😂😂it's called stupid old fart white foreigner
simpin!!!
Finding a woman who is wife-material is the most important decision a man makes because it impacts every other aspect of his life. To put in the effort this man did on a woman who is clearly not a long term prospect indicates he lacks very bad judgment. If he has reached his 40s and is this naive, and gullible, it won’t be the last time this happens.
Let us hope he has a happy ending
💯
You meant he lacks "good" judgement
This guy was incredibly naïve. So many red flags, with her never being available and having all these excuses. A girl who actually likes you will want to be with you as much as possible, not avoiding you like the plague. He probably knew but just wanted to believe the fantasy.
maybe, his love was a one way street
@@mikesphilippineretirement At least he got lucky a few times some guys make big payouts and get nothing in return lol
Agree. Love can hurt sometimes. But prioritise one's self
you are right at 200% !
i know it perfectly because i was this man too.
But i have understood fast enough, and now, i can laugh about me 😅😊
The opposite also happens. I went on a Filipina dating website years ago and got 1,000 contacts in 3 days.
what site was that Troy
@@mikesphilippineretirement ~ Think it was called Filipina Heart. Filipina Cupid now.
thanks Troy
@@mikesphilippineretirement ~ Tried to post the link. I guess CZcams doesn't like that.
it was in my Held for Review file
Another fool and his money and dreams....i should know i got the Tshirts
hahaha love to get that T-shirt
LOL Joe, excellent comment. I have been there as well, but it is like gambling, only bet/spend money you can afford to lose, because the odds are against you.
@@free2roam674 could`nt agree more, cheers for that my friend
Another good video Mike
thank you John
She’s not yours it’s just your turn. Understand it and enjoy yourself.
Hmmm your turn?
@@mikesphilippineretirement Yes, because after you, the male, is done or dead, she is on to the next guy after she cries for days/weeks/months. At that point, it is the next guy's turn and your turn is over. It's always been that way. Men fall for women because, during the relationship, the woman claims she will NEVER be with another man if something happens to her current boyfriend/husband but that is an emotional lie. We all know this.
Great video once again Mike.
☝️☝️👍👍 Truth! Enjoy the short time and move on…Or have a plan to roap her in and bring her back if you are not ready to relocate.
Mike, no long-distance relationship should ever be started without an end time. The closer you can make the end time, the better chance of it working.
Very true LLL
Wow, that was hard listening too. Steve needs to get some self respect and also don’t act like a psycho. Who flies 10,000 miles to “surprise” someone after they specifically told you not to come? WOW.
A man in love
Level of stalker already. If she says no then no
Always appreciate your advice and videos you do an awesome job 👍
I appreciate that!
Good words, Mike. The problem is "obsession". It fills in the gaps, makes you overlook obvious, rational signs you'd normally avoid. Like I say "never shop at a grocery store when you're hungry. You spend too much time wanting and spending". The same goes when looking for love.
DD very appropriate 😅😂😂
hahaha do you know Deedee or just the cup size
D*D*
Good video Mike
hey Danny thank you
Mike, a great story, narrated with your comforting warmth and charm ... among your viewership, you certainly get to know some colorful characters
everyday a new story
Sad Story! Thanks for sharing Mike
Thanks for watching!
Great story Mike. The mind boggles.
thank you
Great story, Mike! Perfect title! Deedee and her DDs. lol
Glad you enjoyed it
Wow, what a massive lack of self respect!
This is a great lesson Mike, thank you.
Glad you liked it! Brain
Forest gump: stupid is as stupid does.
Tom Hanks Fan
You are a good story teller
thank you so much
So true
Im Eve . Hell yeah interesting , That's what I tried to tell you guys before 😂 sad but so f*king true . 😢
Ahh Mike to bad your taken. lol. That was great!!!!
Yes I feel all the love touching my wallet
Im not worried. i know my one is different. Every story is different.
Great video mike 👌
Thanks 👍
You're a lucky guy dating her ....😁🤣
These celebrity women not needing a true relationship with a man is somewhat similar to trying to have a relationship with a “bargirl”. The man is just treated as a tool and discarded when no longer needed.
true I agree with that
Yeah it was an expensive lesson for him but still cheaper than it would have been if he married her.
lesson learned I hope
People fall for people they see on line because they are visible to them, if they would only visit the Philippines they would see millions of beautiful young women who are looking for a serious relationship. Any time that you are on a dating site, which you should not even be on until you are in the Philippines, and a woman try’s to get you off of the sight with WhatsApp or Facebook messenger and they put you on a schedule talking to you the same time every day you’re dealing with a scammer.
Now hes doing the kabuki dance for her..😅😅
the girls here Love to do TikTok
@@mikesphilippineretirement girls love attention
A lot of wisdom for what should be common sense. There are many cuties, and easy to fall for them, but the men should realize there are always younger, richer, more handsome men going for the same girl, but she will be glad to take your money.
it is only a loan. Hahaha
That is so true with social media the competition is so large
Yes it is Barry
Looking for anyone or anything outside yourself for something that is missing within can only bode badly for one’s self. It’s the image not the person that entices.
thanks for your insight Rebecca
@@mikesphilippineretirement Thanks for making the video Mike as quite unbelievable how people are baited/ hooked into such temptation that leads nowhere
You broke a lot of young Filipina hearts (probably some Filipinos too) when you said you were taken and off the market. LOL
hahaha I do not think so
Sad story Mike, poor guy was rebounding from a divorce and got taken. Hopefully he learned his lesson. Yes, I agree with some of the other comments, if she is all over social media stay far away.
I knew a guy who met a TikTok star (250k followers and video with 800k views) - you may know him too 😂
She was the exception that proved the rule.
He met her on a dating site and initially there were many potential red flags but they all proved to be unfounded and she has shown herself to be 100% loyal and dedicated to him. That is not to suggest the relationship has been perfect but it's a very committed one on both sides and entering its second year soon.
Good story Mike - poor guy ... we all know how it is to be in love with someone and you just want to believe ❤
Yes i wonder who that lucky guy is. Hahaha
Tiktok isn't her business...
Tricking is her business...
And there will always be John's like this dude who fall in "love" open their wallet and get played.
What he didn't tell you is that night she invited him out with her friends he payed the tab all night long...
Sucker...
Thanks for sharing
There is no one more gullible than the lonely guy. He sends her money for a party and a Tiktok girl doesn't have the time to take a picture? I was surprised and wondered was this the real DD or some guy in Lagos? She doesn't treat him well but he throws money at her!
Being lonly is hard and you are open to all kinds of scams
We dont know he a loney at 44 not all men are lonely that a sterotype only a expat woud say maybe stupid but not necesssry lonley giving money dont mean your lonley you can be lonley being in a relationship or married. The pea many like but she full of crap on many subjects
@@garrylafferty100 But there was no relationship, the girl never committed to him despite the money he threw at her.
@@johnp4000true many red flags
A filipina party without pictures or videos. Sorry that does not happen.
only if your hiding something
I've noticed a big influx of subcribers to several of the Filipina vloggers. Several had 10k and are already up around 45K subscribers. Also, their channels now aren't as conservative showing more skin. They found the recipe.
Thanks for the info! They get the subscribers from going live.
Wow…
wow wow
By the time you said “midnight came around,” I thought you were referring to another boyfriend.
hahaha
A very sad story. A lonely man can be blind and a fool. He created a fantasy world that he shared with this girl. Was blinded to the reality that there was no way this was going to work. Even now he is still blind to the truth. Sadly there are so many Filipinas that would love to be with. Moving her into her own apartment was just another way of enabling her to see and entertain other men. If she truly care l/loved him she would have wanted to spend all the time she could with him. And to be told by her she is with another guy and can’t be with him. Do you have to be hit by a bus to see it coming right at you. So much wasted time, money and energy! So very sad!! Thank you Mike for sharing.
It's been my experience with alot of Philippina girls that lying is ok with them as long as they are lying and not you.
I have noticed that William
So many red flags wow. That’s what lust does to you when your eyes aren’t open
lust is love in many of the guys eyes Ted
@@mikesphilippineretirement It most certainly is. Always have an open mind and keep your guard up and mostly never send cash to someone you haven’t met in person like wifey doo told us
He actually got 3 amazing weeks with her, that is better than most.
@@free2roam674 But was it worth what it cost him? Hell No!!
@@teds8928 Because he fell in love with her. If he went for the first 3 weeks and left it at that he would have had an amazing story, pictures and memories. A perfect holiday GF. If you fall in love with a good time girl you will lose your shirt. And it sounds like this poor fool is still paying. And continuing the trend of overseas men ruining SE Asia for we who are here.
Are you sure your taken Mike 😂😂😂
Hmmm I better check on that. Hahaha
@@mikesphilippineretirement I laughed pretty good with that one lol
Mike good story. Tough sinerio.
More stories to come as the mail bag is very full again
yes they will
they will
Beauty and popularity are from the same bloodline. A popular beauty in America is just as insane as a popular beauty in the Philippines. Thanks for the topic.
you're welcome
In this video, I have heard excuse after excuse after excuse from this lady. She is a master manipulator, greedy for the money 💰bag. Mike one of the greatest youtube story tellers of all time.
Luv Mike, but he is taken 😂
love you from afar
She sounds like she might be a bit of a narcissist. Good story Mike!
maybe or just a scammer
I have found the more a woman in PI is connected to socials 24/7- the more unstable she is.
I'm not sure about that
Yeah, same can be said for the girls on the chat sites as well. If she's attractive to you and is engaging in conversation, bet there's at least 20 to 30 other guys coming at her daily, you are not the only one she chats with.
most social media sites have girls scamming money from men. The men are giving them money freely
The girlfriend experience is fantastic. If you get what you wanted then it is worth the vacation splurge. Where else can you do this? Just know what you are doing and the reality of the situation.
The young pinoy have drove you old men crazy, Live and learn,
they are so beautiful and will drive many to drink hahaha
Not being old but naive/gullible.
Been with you since day one I think it'd be nice to have you relive when you left the states if you were interested or not and having your own channel and what got you to have a channel and so on it's been awhile??, how's the new house working out you like your neighbor so far?? I've heard that sad story many times before but very few of such a close age differential??, I wish everybody thought the way we do... CZcams is just entertainment people's experiences true or false and opinions... Tick tock same thing everybody knows this and yet men and women are still making the same mistakes... That's what being humans all about... Hope somebody took heed and learned from your story... Janet happy with the home?? The kid he can always adjust the resilient.. hope to run into you in a few months???
Oh yeah about Filipina p, she married her show her channel off 60 minutes.. it's a good thing, sitting in a chair upright speaking slowly and clearly.. any memories from 60 minutes Mike??
the news show 60 minutes. I just do Mike
12:27 “Are you still with Mike?” 😂. I may change my retirements plans to include part time work as a virtual Filipina 😂. But seriously these dude are dangerously thirsty. Alas, sometimes she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.
quote from other youtubers
This story just keeps getting worse and worse as it goes on, it is the most addictive drug on the planet.
can't help but kinda feel sorry for this guy....
he was very nice to Janet and myself
It's survival and he sounds like a little bit socially incompetent. A lot of the comments on the tiktok sights are vloger and thies girls become accustomed to it. To chase a girl across the world because you saw her on tiktok says a lot about a person's character. So does he get what he deserves?
you never know what a man really wants
So damn sad that these guys are so love starved and vulnerable. -?- Not a good idea to use any social media methods for a trustworthy relationship. -- Person to person - face to face is the way to form a meaningful relationship. -- He's an idiot to think otherwise ! -- Just my opinion.
yes I agree so easy to meet on line as you never have to leave your couch
you told it like it is......................
I always try
I would love to meet the pea she's the most beautiful gal on the planet but I know show would never give me the time of day lol
Do not say that she does meet people. She is very nice
Another great story Mike. I do wonder how many sponsors she has. The dude is 44 and realistically won’t br coming to the Philippines for years. He probably has a job and no consistent income stream if he quits his job. So how long will this guy pay for the apartment before he realizes he has been played again?
renting a girlfriend
You are supposed to learn these lessons in your early 20s. I'm embarrassed for these guys.
you do not know him why be embarrassed for him? He understands everything
What. Is. Wrong. With. Him. RUN
Run Forest Run
@@mikesphilippineretirement ha ha like a bat outa hel
These women are the same in the West or the East
yes they are
The difference is that there are significantly more good women here.
He was thinking with the other head. Never lead into a relationship with that. The intimacy is better when you do it with someone you care about and love. Also when send money to a fililina she will show what she bought with the money if not she's lying.
I do not think she lied about what the money was for as I have seen so very big birthday
@mikesphilippineretirement oh okay I see buy he shouldn't be with her there's other fish In the sea
It's not her fault he sent the money, Filipino girls are like gambling the odds are against you,
if they are a TikTok star
Any guess around how many guys paid for that Birthday Party?
each month is a new birthday
I hear ya because I was infatuated with Weng
and what happened?
@@mikesphilippineretirement we had a coversation that I dont remember what it was about but evidently didnt sit right with me and i unsubbed from her channel,plus i had her on fb messenger and blocked her there
He is going to get played like a drum and left high and dry.
That is possible
Hi
hello
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Stop being a simp guys ..
so what is a simp?
whos know the tiktok?
here is a clue DD____
I got to see what all the hullabaloo is about this DD!!
Oh she runs that scam all the time.
do you know her?
Real traditional Filipinas are focused on family, partner, friends. CZcamsrs/Tiktokers and Western women are focused on me, myself and I. They will likely be tons of fun in the short term, but very unlikely to be a good long term partner. A holiday GF, amazing if you can get it. Long term. NO.
great point
I'll bet her babies daddy was there.
maybe you will never know. I think more about other men giving her money showed up not so much a Filipino
Did you iron your shirt with a rock?
we wash them on rocks and dry the shirts under a tree
Hot rock
Philippines is about nothing but money,
same with most countries
you are correct Mike most people like money that's why they work, I would say with my experance 99.9999 of Filipinos are scammers,
Mike are you still with janet? Lol kidding . The problem is alot of western men are so out of touch with women and dating because of how most of the women are in the us.
I tried to leave her in San Carlos but she got on the bike and she had all the money
Catfished
go fish
Nah, he wasn't - she was the real-deal girl in her vids. And he got his rocks off with her, for three weeks straight ... plus for another couple of nights on his encore visit. He just wanted "more" than she was able to give
sucker. I've been there. done that and wised-up. Dont bother with one who's making more than 5k per year, cause she doesn't need you.
5k USA
WoW some of the young High School guys on Tick Tock are super cute . Im on Leyte now with Chad , we are having a super fun time . I took a cute guy for a ride on the back of my motorcycle and went super fast. The guy was holding on tight and i was getting super excited. I was nervous and asked him to spend the night . What a super night i think i found the one .
The moral of this situation please don't fall in love with anyone because your one of many trying to receive her attention ? They will likely lie to everyone they chat with 🤔
thanks NYCPAT
I have a feeling that this is just a made-up story for content purposes...
Thank you for thinking I have the talent to make up goods stories. I should have been a writer
What’s her page on TikTok? I need to see what this unicorn looks like to have a man fly 10,000 miles….hahaha
hahaha
What’s her TikTok account ?
I will not share that. You need to look for yourself it is DD_____
Mike you had me on the edge of my seat 🪑 the entire video. What a story!
so glad you enjoyed it
That's why she chose him 😂😂😂😂she found a sucker..red flag. Social media accounts and single mother 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I married a single mom. But that is not the point. Someone on Social Media is in the eye of many men not just one
I m sure Janet gets lots of messages. It must really take a lot of trust on the part of the foreigner to be with someone that everyone else knows and wants.
yes many are to lazy to get off the couch and want to talk to someone they see on the screen