Narcissists and Codependents-What Unites Them? | Thriver TV

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  • čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
  • Ever thought narcissists and codependents are just opposites?
    The bottom line you haven’t been told the TRUTH about this!
    Think again!
    In a Quantum universe, like attracts like. It's their similarities, not just differences, that create their magnetic, yet often traumatic, unions.
    Join me as we uncover:
    The surprising similarities that draw narcissists and codependents together.
    The contrasting behaviors and motivations of each group.
    How codependency fuels these relationships and practical steps to break free.
    What co-dependency TRULY is … and how bad and good people can be co-dependent.
    PLUS - you will find out the REAL reason codependents and narcissist get enmeshed together - as well as HOW to break free from this!
    Much Love,
    Mel 🦋

Komentáře • 81

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 Před 14 dny +6

    What I’ve learned is to take care of my within and the outside flows with that.

  • @toddjacksonpoetry
    @toddjacksonpoetry Před 13 dny

    30:00 I'm going to remember this, as someone close to, and trying to supportive toward, a survivor - but not a survivor myself. It's too tempting to want to share the latest brilliant Sam Vaknin observation, when I see now that doing so might not actually be *helpful*.

  • @lamata2013
    @lamata2013 Před 14 dny +1

    This was Chock Full or powerful insights and wisdom! It's like a gong going off when you talk about addiction, codependence and authenticity as the most powerful energy especially. Thank you Mel for this update and courageously leading the way💫 Thrive on!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny +1

      It's awesome this all resonates deeply with you! Thrive On! ❤️ 🦋

  • @debbiegent7084
    @debbiegent7084 Před 9 dny

    This was eye opening and made me feel there truly is help in healing

  • @willowway42
    @willowway42 Před 14 dny +1

    This was excellent clarification. And why I'm back at it, Narping away! 🙌💗🌿

  • @vampireslayer1989
    @vampireslayer1989 Před 14 dny

    Melanie, I first learned about this concept of codependency from one of your videos several years ago when I was in the painful throes of cutting a narcissist out of my life. While none of us deserves being the target of narcissistic abuse, we all need to come to terms as to why we are susceptible to these sociopathic manipulators.
    Thank you for helping me understand this. I am pretty much healed these days with no narcissists (directly) in my life. These days I'm more disturbed by these "political and religious cults of personality" . It is a very disturbing trend in our modern world. I fear that sensitive and creative humans are losing this battle and worry about the direction of the world.
    Love you Mel........your work is very valuable!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Please know how welcome you are - and I love that you have taken back your True Self! I believe the Light has one - we have won - it's just going through the throes 😘

  • @brendasmith7345
    @brendasmith7345 Před 9 dny

    Outstanding Mel!!!!
    Love 💕 you so much!

  • @tonydutoit3914
    @tonydutoit3914 Před 14 dny

    Thrive on!

  • @PaulGoingGreen
    @PaulGoingGreen Před 15 dny

    Thanks for your honesty and all that you do to help people heal. ❤

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      It's my pleasure! I am so passionate about this. Mere information is not transformation ❤🦋

  • @traceyscott8273
    @traceyscott8273 Před 9 dny

    Makes sense completely
    NARP is an amazing tool in healing for real 🙏

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      So pleased you love NARP as much as we do, Tracey! www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤🦋

  • @WeirdSalad101
    @WeirdSalad101 Před 15 dny +3

    Does anyone have any thoughts about a malignant narcissist, obsessed with pedo’s? Watching shows about them, constantly accusing other people of it? Everybody and anybody? Seriously fixated on it?

    • @JesuisLord
      @JesuisLord Před 14 dny

      They are perverse and project

    • @JesuisLord
      @JesuisLord Před 14 dny +3

      But I also am suspicious of everyone being a perve , these days the demons and sin is everywhere

    • @WeirdSalad101
      @WeirdSalad101 Před 14 dny +4

      @@JesuisLord I am also wary of people and far from naive, but this narcissist suspected almost everyone in our lives at some point, from family members, to work colleagues, to Facebook friends, neighbours, would immediately jump to that conclusion for example if someone had lots of nice holidays or a brand new car he would say “I bet they’re involved in a pedo ring” it was utterly bizarre. Makes me think about projection and mirroring.

    • @tmking7483
      @tmking7483 Před 14 dny +1

      I was pedoed as a kid _ today they come out of the shadows_ show their face and confess to me_ I'm throwing up everywhere _ I can't eat _ the world is so sick_ abusers everywhere
      Jesus keeps reminding me_ only 33 percent will be saved _ radical acceptance.

  • @KatherinePeters-j3d
    @KatherinePeters-j3d Před 13 dny

    Thrive on

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 Před 14 dny

    Thrive On!♥️

  • @Superlacy21
    @Superlacy21 Před 6 dny

    Thrive!!!!

  • @chooseadynamo
    @chooseadynamo Před 14 dny

    BB. Clarity!!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      So great this gave you clarity! Here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @davidblackwell9401
    @davidblackwell9401 Před 15 dny

    Me!!!

  • @LeanneGonzales-i5u
    @LeanneGonzales-i5u Před 3 dny

    Why is it so hard to see my ex as a narcissist?

  • @doriannemosich232
    @doriannemosich232 Před 14 dny

    I am a survivor. I am thriving !

  • @JesuisLord
    @JesuisLord Před 14 dny

    I have a desire to love him selflessly, he’s triggered a mother instinct in me. I have not given him anything in 7 years only focused on loving my self and needs. We have a two year old and I’d like to see him do some healing work 😢 I am whole and not trying to get anything ❤ so at peace but not full if I want him to join me in partnership . Pride of his comes before a fall and that’s what it’ll take . I’ll be moving on just sucks still

  • @CarolynHu70
    @CarolynHu70 Před 8 dny

    BB

  • @BarbraMarshall-pl4nx
    @BarbraMarshall-pl4nx Před 15 dny

    Thrive

  • @JeaninneWarfel
    @JeaninneWarfel Před 14 dny

    Has anyone had theirs pick on your tone while on the phone or talking to others ?

  • @debbiegent7084
    @debbiegent7084 Před 9 dny

    BB 45:31

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      Thank you for writing "BB". You can find the details here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @rosemaryevans6052
    @rosemaryevans6052 Před 6 dny

    bb

  • @ritathompson4288
    @ritathompson4288 Před 9 dny

    Bb

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      You can find the details here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @mariadowney1928
    @mariadowney1928 Před 15 dny

    Thrive on

  • @maryquinn6661
    @maryquinn6661 Před 13 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 13 dny

      The promotion I speak of is in its last hours! There isn't time maybe to watch the presentation here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken You may need to go straight to the special offered here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤️🦋

  • @casandrahicks1473
    @casandrahicks1473 Před 14 dny

    Thrive on

  • @chrisbacheller675
    @chrisbacheller675 Před 13 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 13 dny

      The promotion I speak of is in its last hours! There isn't time maybe to watch the presentation here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken You may need to go straight to the special offered here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤️🦋

  • @jessicalawrence7036
    @jessicalawrence7036 Před 13 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 13 dny

      Hi Jessica the promotion I speak of is in its last hours! There isn't time maybe to watch the presentation here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken You may need to go straight to the special offered here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤️🦋

  • @alandry6872
    @alandry6872 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Please find your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @sumitagopal5322
    @sumitagopal5322 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Please find your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @caroltaylor8337
    @caroltaylor8337 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Hi Carol, here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @aileenbeale88
    @aileenbeale88 Před 13 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 13 dny

      The promotion I speak of is in its last hours! There isn't time maybe to watch the presentation here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken You may need to go straight to the special offered here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤️🦋

  • @misi3360
    @misi3360 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 13 dny

      The promotion I speak of is in its last hours! There isn't time maybe to watch the presentation here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken You may need to go straight to the special offered here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp ❤️🦋

  • @JG-ll3io
    @JG-ll3io Před 13 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      You can find the details here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @traceysimpson9397
    @traceysimpson9397 Před 12 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      Thank you for writing "BB". You can find the details here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @cinditheodorson7521
    @cinditheodorson7521 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Please find your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @tonydutoit3914
    @tonydutoit3914 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Hi Tony please find your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @eileenpreston3730
    @eileenpreston3730 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny

      Hi Eileen, here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @TracieGroom
    @TracieGroom Před 12 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      Thank you for writing "BB". You can find the details here www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @davidblackwell9401
    @davidblackwell9401 Před 15 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 15 dny +1

      Hi David here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 Před 14 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny +1

      Hi Nancy here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

  • @coralmccrystal4606
    @coralmccrystal4606 Před 15 dny

    BB

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 14 dny +1

      Hi Coral, here is your link to register for my free Beyond Broken recording www.melanietoniaevans.com/beyond-broken ❤🦋

    • @coralmccrystal4606
      @coralmccrystal4606 Před 14 dny

      @@MelanieToniaEvans Thank you. It's all very interesting!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před 9 dny

      ​@coralmccrystal4606 it's my pleasure! ❤🦋