Why Does the Narcissist's New Supply Get Everything I Wanted | Thriver TV

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  • čas přidán 15. 05. 2024
  • Narcissists come out of the same cookie-cutter!! (It's incredible how they MOSTLY do the same behavior!)
    Join me for an important LIVE about one of the most PAINFUL aspects of narcissistic abuse - and ONE of the most COMMON!
    Worse than discard, and even replacement …
    THIS …showering the NEW supply with what you wanted!
    Maybe this happened to you years ago, and it STILL hurts like hell … or you are going through this emotional torture now.
    Or, perhaps you are terrified of someone in the future getting the DREAM life you believed you could have with this person.
    If you relate to or know someone who is suffering from this, this is a must-watch Thriver TV episode!
    I trust you will gain great clarity, perspective, and relief!
    Love Mel ❤
    Experience trauma energy clearing to not just survive but Thrive after narcissistic abuse with my Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program™ melanietoniaevans.com/narp

Komentáře • 54

  • @Boyhowdy875
    @Boyhowdy875 Před měsícem +10

    The most important thing that I ever learned about narcissists is that they will never change. The take away is… Save yourself!

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 Před měsícem

      I agree, same for me

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem +1

      So true. Nobody changes behaviour unless they change beliefs. Ns don't believe they need to do inner reflection or change! ❤

  • @taghazoutmoon5031
    @taghazoutmoon5031 Před měsícem +15

    I was the new supply. Found out he destroyed his ex. He didn't treat me any better.

    • @RC-eb5hq
      @RC-eb5hq Před měsícem +1

      Mine had an "angry ex-girlfriend"..always a bad sign...but was "good friends" with ex-wife, which threw me. She was on other side of the country tho, so... discovered later that he'd been stringing her along for 20 years, implying they might get back together.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem +3

      Correct ... the same pattern over and over 😮

  • @lindaallotey6257
    @lindaallotey6257 Před měsícem +6

    Melanie thank you.. you are one of the people that opened my eyes to the narcissist and narcissm , you deserve a million followers and likes, keep the good work up, love ❤️ you

    • @redredrubyred9
      @redredrubyred9 Před měsícem

      Same here Linda, this program changed my life with awareness why I was attracting narcissists from my own place of over caring and neediness.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem +1

      Thank you Linda I'm really happy my work has helped you. Much Love and many Blessings to you ❤

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop Před měsícem +4

    Yes... It's happening right now.

  • @lesliejohnson9893
    @lesliejohnson9893 Před 14 dny +1

    I needed to know this many years ago. I have been dealing with this for over 50 yrs. Here is how it will leave you. 78 yrs old in Sept, 6 months ago had a quadruple bypass and my aorta is at a 4.6cm in size. When the size gets to 5.0cm, it is opening up my chest again. I refuse that as a choice, so if I can keep the stress down will determine how long that I will live. I still get around, much better than most 60 year olds that I know. Still active, installed 2 air condition units a couple months ago.
    I could write a book on this subject.

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop Před měsícem +5

    THRIVE ON.

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq Před měsícem +4

    TIME FRAME
    Year 1: Love Bombing and promise of marriage.
    Years 2-7: Hoovering and promises to change every time I left
    Year 7: I left for umpteenth time, but this time moved across country
    7 MONTHS after I left: Married to another person he met on-line. Not dating, not engaged, not living together. MARRIED. With "the big, beautiful diamond ring" that I never received...even after helping him through his career changes, his mother's cancer, her death, cleaning out her house...Basically "playing role of wife". Amazing how the hoovering suddenly ended once I was "geographically undesireable". What a great guy. 🙄

    • @Charleen-nb9yu
      @Charleen-nb9yu Před měsícem

      I feel for ya. Similar situation here, but we can always do better and we did, right?

    • @shebasan13
      @shebasan13 Před měsícem

      Count your blessings you got far away!!! You are strong and claiming your own power…that is awesome!
      They are truly parasites that cannot live or even truly care about anyone…. We were all just accessories to them ..nothing more

  • @minzasjourney2367
    @minzasjourney2367 Před 6 dny

    THRIVE ON❤

  • @user-fx3sj1vf5q
    @user-fx3sj1vf5q Před dnem

    My ex narc husband abandoned me leaving me with a child, now adult child with a disability. Almost 20 years and he’s still with the same supply, and doesn’t help financially with our son

  • @nancyadams4358
    @nancyadams4358 Před měsícem +2

    It’s a dance we were taught to go along to get along….. I now focus on my heart and what’s healing with in me. Love you dear Woman Mel for helping me on my way🫶

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem +1

      You so have! Healed, survived, and then Thrived! Love you, Dear Nancy! 😘😘

  • @pattirowe
    @pattirowe Před 21 dnem

    My ex narc's new supply is more controllable than I was ...neither of them looked happy despite the act

  • @redredrubyred9
    @redredrubyred9 Před měsícem +1

    The NARP program really helped me learn so much about myself and it has been over 5 years. I could not care less about that narcissist or who he is or isnt with! such a relief. These videos are great " touch ups" ... BTW: cute cheerful outfit Melanie.

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem +1

      I'm so thrilled NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp has helped you so much! Glad you are enjoying TTV coming back. Grateful too for your lovely comment ❤

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Před měsícem

    Yes...literally chased him down the drive

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Před měsícem

    Thrive on

  • @ladyvirgo9514
    @ladyvirgo9514 Před měsícem +2

    Spot on Wisdom you shared here. Heal On Survivors & Thrivers

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu Před měsícem +2

    My ex of 11 yrs is now engaged to the new supply after he cheated but convinced himself he didn't. After a lot of pain and work, I'm back to myself!!!!!!

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Před měsícem

    Yes

  • @sagadut6371
    @sagadut6371 Před měsícem

    Thank you for this. ❤

  • @sallyjane9111
    @sallyjane9111 Před 6 dny

    Thrive

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu Před měsícem +1

    Ty so much for this episode!!!

  • @newhope4me
    @newhope4me Před měsícem

    Me. Hands up

  • @paulinefourie1103
    @paulinefourie1103 Před měsícem

    Thrive on🤩

  • @RC-eb5hq
    @RC-eb5hq Před měsícem

    THRIVE ON!!!

  • @nicolagrace3667
    @nicolagrace3667 Před měsícem

    Thrive on!! ❤

  • @amyoverthetop
    @amyoverthetop Před měsícem

    And yes - they did it with me. I did not understand while it was happening.

  • @Naturehealingperspectives33

    I'd love the Intel on the narc I was dating when it ended he ran into a love relationship with his therapist and they are making their relationship very public! So sick. I wonder who is manipulating who!

    • @MelanieToniaEvans
      @MelanieToniaEvans  Před měsícem

      Many therapists have fallen for n's. They believe the "it was ny ex who had all the issues" narrative and are love bombed and charmed. I've also had therapists this has happened too who have been n-abused come firward to start NARP healing. It's all the same pattern. Many therapists are wounded healers. Relief from this and healing from abusers requires self inner healing. ❤

  • @natasharichard3900
    @natasharichard3900 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 Před měsícem

    Why do you even care?

    • @ladyvirgo9514
      @ladyvirgo9514 Před měsícem +1

      The information helps people heal, especially from long term exposure to these toxic people. Ultimately, indifference comes with healing

  • @jaslyn5501
    @jaslyn5501 Před měsícem +1

    Thrive on

  • @Charleen-nb9yu
    @Charleen-nb9yu Před měsícem

    Yes

  • @annbouchard6564
    @annbouchard6564 Před měsícem

    Thrive on