The Languages of Love | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi
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- Allah mentions in the Qur'an that He created for you, from you! Allah didn't have to do this but he created men for women and women for men. He knows that we are weak and needs something that the other can offer.
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I'm not even married but I'm noteing this down so I can make it work when it is time 😂
Make sure he listens too and wants to act accordingly. Otherwise you are just wasting your time.
Hi are you feeling with the cold me hazra Ali fromtrinidad keepgoodbye
Wish u a happy married life ahead.
When its time...
I hope my future husband is watching this, cause this the most accurate video that describes a woman. I don’t want an expensive gift, I just want to feel the love.
Marry ? :3
may allah give you the best😊
May Allah protect us from the modern atheistic disease of materialism. May He grant us true happiness in this life and the next. May Allah protect men and women from women and men who want expensive gifts rather than real expressions of love. May Allah grant us all from our spouses and offsprings the coolness of our eyes and let them be examples for the God-fearing. Ameen
I've always wanted love. Not anything else. Just love. May Allah grant me the husband who love me sooooooo much..
Ameeen
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته everyone ☺️
As noted in the live chat 👌
1) Positivity ☺️
2) Spending Quality Time ⌚
3) Gifts 🎁
4) Helping Out (Chores etc) 👌
5) The Human Touch ❤️
Father Sunglasses number 1: verbal words of affirmation (stating love/adoration, compliments, nicknames, etc).
4) actions or gestures of love (chores, financial contribution, division of labor, cooking, cleaning, errands, bills, child rearing, etc.)
5) physical touch
5a: non intimate touch (holding hands, back rub, hugs, kissing)
5b: intimacy
@@21972012145525 Thank you! ☺️
Jazaakallaahu khairaa
Our problems (most of us) is lack of implementation, we listen to lectures, but find it difficult to put into effect
May Allaah guide us aright
Muhammad Rahmat yes! So true. Communication is key
Some things i agree with u...its more difficult because there no khilafah ,no implementation of islam rules upon the land...look at the muslim world devided into nation states any in civil war and different regime
Tazboy I think the presence or lack of khilafa is related to marital issues. Two very different topics
This just changed my life MashaAllah,,,may Allah helps us to implement
As Salam ale kum. I need your prayers...I am currently separated from my husband. The problems between us are big, but not bigger than allah swt. Please pray that he changes and we are reunited. Ameen
Where u from?may Allah reunite both of u
و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته ☺️
So sorry to hear of that sister 😞. May الله make it easy for you both; improve the situation between you and reunite you آمين. 🙏
Tazboy ameen and Jazakallah. America
Father Sunglasses ameen and Jazakallah
May Allah bring the both of you united and inseperable insha Allah Aameen summa Aameen
May Allah continue to reward Sheikh Yasir Qadhi, bless him, protect him and increase him in knowledge and wisdom. Ameen
Thank you sheik for guiding me and my wife on the right path جزاك الله خير
Salam brother
Brother you should write Allah SWT has guided you through Sheikh
This lecture is a must for all our young ones. Mashallah how comprehensive is our faith. Mashallah.
Subhan Allah! This is sooooo true! Ma’sha Allah!!!!!!! May Allah bless our marriages.
Ameen
Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the advice of how men and women show love in many suttle ways. The romance of our Prophet Muhammad (saw) between his wives is such a beautiful example of how marriage should be. He was attentive playful, and equal. I love the story regarding Aisha ra and the prophet "saw" watching an activity together, embracing cheeck to cheek . Mashallah!
Alhamdulillah brother
Barakallah my dear brother it's true we have change our life🌹🌹🌹
Masha Allah Ameen. I enjoyed the talk very much.
Scuba diving, nice to hear this dear Dr. Qadhi🧜
Thank you so much, this is amazing
Subhan Allah, what an amazing eloquent lecture.
very good lecture, especially when he says that he mentions swahili
SubhaanALLAH Epic!!!
Ma shaa Allah...really amazing!!!
Im gonna translate it in sha allah in my language, persish, because most of my people cannot understand english and it is a important speech.
MaashaaAllah
Jakallahu khoyron ya sheikh. May Allah bless him☺️☺️☺️
Need this in arabic.
Such a great lecture
That's a nice halaqa
Jajakallahu khoyeer
Amazing insights on an important topic
Mashallah very very inspired by lecture.
May Allah(swt) increase our knowledge and Iman. Ameen
MaashaaAllah, syeikh Qadhi. You have a good sense of humor. Very insightful sermon, ustadz.
Masha Allah
Powerful advice. May Allahtala help me and my husband to understand.
Ya Allah make our heart soft
"Nothing more than that. You don’t expect more than that. Guess what? You might actually get more than you expected."
Al hamde li Allah
MasAllah
I think it's clear that Shaykh is in a part of the world/USA where men are still the 'breadwinner' and take care of the finances. The world has changed; our sisters are often doing both the housework and the finances, so balance is even harder to achieve.
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the author of the book, Gary Chapman, is also a pastor, he said the idea came to him after praying for his own difficult marriage
Gary Chapman. The five love languages
I hope that my husband will know this kind of things
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In today's world unfortunately the expensive weddings in some cultures, the unfair joint family system , and in Western cultures زنا zina has totally destroyed the meaning of marriage. The humanity in general has lost the purpose of the union of a man and a woman through the marriage contract is to have the Halal حلال children , otherwise the children are deprived of the true and legitimate identity according to the Divine Law.💔💔💔💔
Shaheen Abbasi more than zina, is social media (flirting), cheating, and porn. I feel like zina, it can almost be a one time mistake. It almost hurts more to see a spouse constantly and continuously fall into a sin that they know emotionally hurts or they do it intending to hurt you, makes you feel inadequate and unwanted. It messes with your brain and impacts you psychologically. Don’t get married if you have those issues, get help, get a second spouse, or divorce honorably without blaming your spouse for your shortcomings!!!
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Is there a French version of this videos
Jazzak Allahu khairan for that video. But I think you spoke here more about men and this should be also in the title. Because a women ends just up to be disappointed because she compares her husband to rasulAllah saw. There should be an extra video for women in sha Allah.
But if husband doesn't love his wife?
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who is the qari in the recitation in the beginning
Who is the author of the book
What is the title of the intro nasheed?
I hope this is not late. But I know the nasheed, its title is "Wipe Your Tears" and the link is m.czcams.com/video/Wl6wx0i4FTk/video.html
It's very beautiful and emotional.
Is this hard for man to do ?
I mean is it easier for a man to do that, is it in thier nature ?
Thanks
Did not get the name of the book written by a Christian author
Has someone the name of the author he mentioned in the lecture ?
Gary Chapman, The 5 Love Languages
@@Butterflyefffect BarakAllahu feek
Wa feek
Sorry he also mentioned another one: John gray: men are from Mars, women are from venus
Gary Chapman a pastor not a psychologist
What is the name of the book please
men are from mars, women are from venus
This 5 languages of love is from secular psychology sources. I've already learnt it before discovering Islam. Some of it e.g.wanting to be given gifts in order to feel loved... contradicts quranic principles. There's a subset in psychology for Islamic counselling which aligns with quranic principles.
Zahrah, there is actually a quranic verse that was revealed when the Rasul (sal.) have Aisha a gold necklace which she lost in the desert and he (sal.) asked everyone to search for it.. the group ran out of water and couldn't make wudu. That's when Allah sent down the verse, permitting traveling Muslims to make wudu with dust. That necklace was a gift from Rasullah (sal.) To Our mother Aisha (Ral.) so it is encouraged to buy your wives gifts. With this being said, buy your wives gift brothers! It didn't necessarily have to be gold. It could be flowers or oils, or coupons for a for message, but gift them with something... It's the sunnah!
Massage*
nope Gary Chapman is a Christian pastor
Assalam o aliakum.May Allah bless you. Great leacture.you don't look nice with out your hair
Honest question: If the Prophet s.a.w loved Aisyah so much, why did he marry his other wives? It made it sound like the others are just additional accessories...
KitsuneHikaru - Ayesha, may Allah be pleased with her, was known for giving hadiths, the others were not known for that. That is why we know about her marriage to him, pbuh.
Try to find the reason by yourselves rather than having a prejudice .
If you have one child and you love them so much, why have anymore children?
@@farhanapandor8335 this is a poor reply because children can only be produced in a certain fertile period and there are no guarantee they will live till you old. Some children died young. So it’s convenient to have more. This is not the same as wives.
@Awsan Awsan My question is, he didn’t need to do that. Hafsah had suitors before he proposed. But the suitors backed away because he wanted to propose. The widows are not helpless. That’s why I questioned.
YQ knows a lot but his understanding of this topic is extremely bias, to the point that he is clueless. Very difficult to get a women happy.....