7 Surprising Habits You Might Develop Because of Depression

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  • čas přidán 24. 06. 2021
  • Do you consider yourself knowledgeable enough to spot the signs of depression when you see it? If you are someone who often reads our articles, watches our videos, and frequents other psychology-related self-help websites or journals, then you might answer yes. And while we’re certainly grateful for the recent mental health awareness movement that’s been happening all over the world, there might still be a lot left for us to learn about the true nature of depression.
    We also made a video on the surprising habits you might develop because of anxiety: • 4 Surprising Habits Yo...
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    References:
    American Psychological Association (2013). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders - 5th Edition. APA Publishing.
    Chen, X., Sykora, M. D., Jackson, T. W., & Elayan, S. (2018, April). What about mood swings: Identifying depression on twitter with temporal measures of emotions. In Companion Proceedings of The Web Conference 2018 (pp. 1653-1660).
    Glatt, M. M., & Cook, C. C. (2007). Pathological spending as a form of psychological dependence. British Journal of Addiction, 82(11), 1257-1258.
    Creasy, K. (2020). The Problem of Affective Nihilism. In The Problem of Affective Nihilism in Nietzsche (pp. 87-106). Palgrave Macmillan, Cham.
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Komentáře • 1,7K

  • @leia2437
    @leia2437 Před 2 lety +7496

    this woman could tell me a horror story and i would still feel calm

  • @oooooooooooooooo212
    @oooooooooooooooo212 Před 2 lety +5685

    1- Irregular sleeping and eating habits
    2- Mood swings/ outburst
    3- Making muted cries for help
    4- Overspending/ impulse buying
    5- Constantly searching for meaning
    6- Pondering about life and death
    7- Being more creative

  • @popscramble641
    @popscramble641 Před 2 lety +1838

    This reminds me of the quote...
    "Depression is like living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that trys to die."

    • @maxim_ssc
      @maxim_ssc Před 2 lety +199

      You remindet me of another quote...
      "Telling someone with depression how great the world is, is the same as telling a blind person how collorfull the world is"
      idk if I wrote it right :/

    • @hugnboba
      @hugnboba Před 2 lety +4

      overused quote

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před 2 lety +61

      I like that quote. I've never heard it before.

    • @acpiglet9059
      @acpiglet9059 Před 2 lety +15

      Yep I remember seeing this somewhere and always thought there’s never been a truer statement than this!

    • @aba22125
      @aba22125 Před 2 lety +11

      So true, the body's will to live is unmatched...

  • @catherinep7483
    @catherinep7483 Před 2 lety +830

    I hate that feeling of riding a high and having fun with someone and then they say some certain little thing that just kicks you right back into that depressed ass feeling

    • @hugnboba
      @hugnboba Před 2 lety +54

      I thought I was bipolar asf for being so sensitive...like when I'm actually having fun with my family they'd say shit about school and hAhA mY dOtEr's dEpReSSeD

    • @fernandopineda5503
      @fernandopineda5503 Před 2 lety +15

      @@hugnboba i also thought this about myself because this happens to me all the time but I was diagnosed with just depression, anxiety, and PTSD so it was a relief

    • @osheridan
      @osheridan Před 2 lety +14

      My friend is like that. I love her and all, but since I am always smiling, she says the most demotivating things in the world-- it's not worth it, if I win,I will lose in the end. She doesn't mean anything by it, but what she says makes my life so difficult sometimes. Love her tho 💖.

    • @Sloppyjoemamma
      @Sloppyjoemamma Před 2 lety +7

      Yeah, it happens to me sometimes. When it happens, I always hold back tears and pretend I'm fine just no to worry anyone

    • @marckenleu795
      @marckenleu795 Před 2 lety +1

      same😪

  • @itsjustluck8486
    @itsjustluck8486 Před 2 lety +2575

    Fun fact: Sea otters hold each other’s paws when they sleep so they don’t drift apart.

    • @Yuustu
      @Yuustu Před 2 lety +90

      I already knew but it gets me everytimeeeeeee 🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @andidede9909
      @andidede9909 Před 2 lety +37

      That is adorable!!!

    • @redsquirrel6131
      @redsquirrel6131 Před 2 lety +61

      They also try to mate with seal pups and typically drown them. They continue mating with the corpse, sometimes up to to week after death.

    • @CindyLou67
      @CindyLou67 Před 2 lety +8

      Awww🥰 Ty for sharing that. I'm an animal lover, I'm familiar with sea otters, had no idea they did that, the visual is beyond adorable and I really appreciate that visual today🥺😊

    • @monsev.arellano9125
      @monsev.arellano9125 Před 2 lety +9

      Omg I literally mention this all the time to my family members and they're like you've said this countless times🙄 but it's so darn cute!!

  • @user-1-800-Nobody
    @user-1-800-Nobody Před 2 lety +377

    “Depression is like drowning while everyone’s yelling at you to breathe”

    • @mariapaz2789
      @mariapaz2789 Před 2 lety +6

      Totally

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom Před 2 lety +23

      What if NOBODY'S yelling at you to breathe? What if you're totally isolated?

    • @traceytrotter9934
      @traceytrotter9934 Před 2 lety +16

      @@cjsmomom That's what I was going to say. There is no one to yell at me anymore.

    • @grammatikaat4329
      @grammatikaat4329 Před 2 lety +8

      No, it's walking through a sea of glue, knee-high, all day, every day.

    • @user-1-800-Nobody
      @user-1-800-Nobody Před 2 lety

      @@grammatikaat4329 yea

  • @d.1ghosh
    @d.1ghosh Před 2 lety +190

    Do any of you all get so tired of existing as yourself that you start crying at the idea of even having to fight through another day?

    • @emroski5784
      @emroski5784 Před 2 lety +1

      felt

    • @Himaryous
      @Himaryous Před 2 lety +7

      I have felt something like that. I got help and it stopped.

    • @grammatikaat4329
      @grammatikaat4329 Před 2 lety +7

      Yes, I do, but I can never think of anyone else I 'd like to be instead.

    • @amber_octopus4389
      @amber_octopus4389 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes

    • @myrasvlogs787
      @myrasvlogs787 Před rokem

      Me daily and that I'm wasting my all life/time at work🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @meIIohi
    @meIIohi Před 2 lety +1300

    *TIMESTAMPS*
    0:41 - Irregular habits of eating/sleeping.
    1:23 - Having mood swings or outbursts.
    1:47 - Making 'muted' cries for help.
    2:47 - Overspending or impulse buying.
    2:52 - Constantly searching for meaning.
    3:38 - Pondering about life and death.
    4:07 - Being more creative.

    • @scarletannelee2023
      @scarletannelee2023 Před 2 lety +34

      Thank you!! Angel 😇

    • @dream_y1000
      @dream_y1000 Před 2 lety +25

      I search for dream meanings….

    • @manboss52gaming30
      @manboss52gaming30 Před 2 lety +32

      bruh do i have depression?

    • @grmpEqweer
      @grmpEqweer Před 2 lety +32

      The irritability has just gotten to the point where I avoid people. I get tense around people-I have anxiety features.
      I'm lonely as hell. But people just stress me out.

    • @ragdoll0999
      @ragdoll0999 Před 2 lety +7

      Thank you 💖

  • @diiana3922
    @diiana3922 Před 2 lety +146

    because of your channel i figured out that i was pretty depressed.. finally told my mom and went to see a psychologist! they diagnosed me with depression, and im starting treatments soon! thank you so much for helping me😭

    • @dallincandland
      @dallincandland Před 2 lety +8

      Getting a good psychologist can really help a lot! It was really nice for me to share my thought patterns with someone else and learn what I could do from there. Wishing you the best.

    • @diiana3922
      @diiana3922 Před 2 lety +2

      @@dallincandland 🥰🥰

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +18

      Hey thank you for taking that step to better yourself :) Proud for you :)

    • @alienfriend4658
      @alienfriend4658 Před rokem +3

      I wish I had the courage to tell my parents…

    • @diiana3922
      @diiana3922 Před rokem +3

      @@alienfriend4658 try! I’m introverted and rarely talk with my mom about how I’m feeling so it was very hard back then to tell her, what I did was trying to show her I was vulnerable (mostly crying in front of her) and wait for her to take the initiative to say something. luckily she knows me well and understood quickly I wasn’t ok, but that can only happen if your parents see you suffering, if you are silence about it they probably won’t figure it out…
      Hopefully they’ll help you, im with you!! Be strong

  • @panlol9516
    @panlol9516 Před 2 lety +934

    "Having an irregular sleeping schedule is a sympton of depression"
    Me watching this at 2:40 AM: _Interesting_

  • @fairygore3526
    @fairygore3526 Před 2 lety +121

    Hello!
    With the muted cries for help, it can come in different variations:
    1. Struggling to talk
    2: struggling to type
    3: struggling to write
    These are like the main things. Why though? Like phych2go said, you might feel invalidated, misunderstood and compared to stereotypes. Or, you just don’t have the motivation to even say it.

    • @grammatikaat4329
      @grammatikaat4329 Před 2 lety +2

      Or waking up from a nightmare, feeling like I want to scream but no sound comes out.

  • @lan.azure.8597
    @lan.azure.8597 Před 2 lety +87

    She just described all my everyday activities. And my parents say I don't have depression even when I'm clinically diagnosed

    • @emroski5784
      @emroski5784 Před 2 lety

      @found the change name option lol ikr :/

    • @annatay3
      @annatay3 Před 2 lety +5

      My parents won't get me diagnosed I prolly don't have it and I'm just over dramatic

    • @Himaryous
      @Himaryous Před 2 lety +5

      It's so hard for parents to accept. My mother had depression and was in denial when I had it. The thought of me feeling like she did was more than she could take.

    • @strangewayfaringstranger
      @strangewayfaringstranger Před 2 lety +1

      These aren't "activities". Not some routine you do. But if you were _actually_ diagnosed, your parents are terrible.

    • @JustAngelika
      @JustAngelika Před rokem

      My mom told me then; "It was just your acts."
      Then, I have decided not to tell anyone instead.

  • @blueg7064
    @blueg7064 Před 2 lety +24

    "Suddenly crying for no reason or snapping at someone out of the blue, can actually be a sigh that someone mental health is actually falling apart."
    You didnt have to call me out.
    This whole video has me written all over it

  • @amberpasta9379
    @amberpasta9379 Před 2 lety +66

    My depressed habits consist of staying in bed all day, staying up till like 6 am then sleeping till like 4pm… only getting up to play an instrument/learn a new one.. occasionally eat when I feel like it and shower if necessary

    • @Addy81995
      @Addy81995 Před 2 lety

      Stop labeling... thats not depression.. having a rigid routine where you wake up at 6 am and goto sleep at 12 pm sharp.. well tbats monotonous

    • @ShellL
      @ShellL Před 2 lety

      Like after a week.

    • @NoThanksM8
      @NoThanksM8 Před 2 lety +7

      @@Addy81995 okay woah no need to be so rude
      You can't know from 1 comment whether it's depression or not
      They might be professionally diagnosed with depression, and their Dr might have said that these behaviours are stemming from that
      There is no set definitive list of depression behaviours, so just because it doesn't fit what you've been told depression behaviours are, doesn't mean that they aren't them.
      I'm not trying to come across as aggressive or anything 🥰🥰🥰 this just hits close to home as I have been told that my depression behaviours were just bad habits and laziness for year before my diagnosis, and even still by some people who don't understand. 😓
      Just trying to spread awareness that it can be experienced many ways and that support is the only helpful way forward ❤❤

  • @AzureCeleste
    @AzureCeleste Před 2 lety +182

    Everything but the creativity. My creativity has been utterly stifled by my depression, too exhausted to move or think.

    • @Withthia
      @Withthia Před 2 lety

      Hii..

    • @Amexella
      @Amexella Před 2 lety +20

      yeah art blocks are more constant and longer with depression, the only option is make drawing a habit but it’s hard

    • @namegoteeaten
      @namegoteeaten Před 2 lety +4

      when i listen to music i always think about music videos i would make to this song.......and i mostly die in the end o.O

    • @yanyan-nyinii
      @yanyan-nyinii Před 2 lety +5

      in my case... i somehow draw more w depression;; but ofc all the art that comes out are all angsty-

    • @acpiglet9059
      @acpiglet9059 Před 2 lety

      Yep I know this all too well

  • @liliandmckenzie5430
    @liliandmckenzie5430 Před 2 lety +252

    PsychToGo: This video is not a substitute for professional help
    Me with a toxic parent: I'm sorry but it is

  • @classifiedinformation6353
    @classifiedinformation6353 Před 2 lety +414

    Ok, I can't deny it anymore: I am depressed. I do not remember the last time I was depressed. I tend to get alittle meloncholy in Fall of the year, but it is a pleasant introspective feeling. This is different. Felings of dread, mild hopelessness. Not looking forward to the future. Thinking about the end of life, etc. I will ride this out. I do not think this is a brain chemical imbalance. I think it is the realizstion that I am, in fact, at the last decade or two of my life. My body is wearing out. I will most likely remain single, which is ok, but society says it is not. I will ride this out.

    • @bipbeedippy3954
      @bipbeedippy3954 Před 2 lety +48

      you got this. I'm rooting for you

    • @zairamatt7308
      @zairamatt7308 Před 2 lety +13

      You are strong, love. I too, am rooting for you. 💞

    • @savingfelvkitties7424
      @savingfelvkitties7424 Před 2 lety +29

      How old r u? If you need professional help please get it. You are not alone. I work at a psych center and there are lots of people that are seniors that have issues that are getting help. The past year has put more stress on people and made mental issues worse for lots.

    • @relaxdarling9301
      @relaxdarling9301 Před 2 lety +9

      @@bipbeedippy3954 same here. You’re not alone. We got this! We’re gonna be okay. 🌻

    • @vectorequilibrium4493
      @vectorequilibrium4493 Před 2 lety +2

      Tortured artist? Enjoy your ride. ☮️❤️🙏🏻

  • @KarenFoo
    @KarenFoo Před 2 lety +889

    I've been cyberbulli3d almost every single day and these are all the things I'm doing plus constant drinking. People dont know how much typed words can destroy a person. I have been recently crying everyday coz of it.

    • @matilda1505
      @matilda1505 Před 2 lety +110

      I know. I can relate. I wish I could give you a big “ who cares what they think kind of hug “. It’s quite astonishing how many people make themselves feel better by putting others down. It’s not you ! It’s them !

    • @sunshinespecial
      @sunshinespecial Před 2 lety +62

      God bless you dear. More positivity, power & love 🌼

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před 2 lety +63

      Take these words to heart. You are a wonderful, beautiful person. How do I know? Because bullies are jealous, petty people. They attack those who are better than themselves. They feel worthless, so they attack someone who has value. Unfortunately, they are attacking you. I care about you. I don't know you, but I care. I'll bet none of those bullies have people they don't know care about them. God bless you and keep you strong. We are with you. Just look. Check every day to see who writes to you. You're better than you think. Hugs!!

    • @meemman843
      @meemman843 Před 2 lety +28

      Then allow ME to tell you that i really love your work and appreciate you ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +104

      Thanks for opening up about this. Have you been seeing a therapist?

  • @yoboikamil525
    @yoboikamil525 Před 2 lety +233

    "being more creative"
    ah so it's normal for artists to get depressed

    • @anthonypayne1556
      @anthonypayne1556 Před 2 lety +6

      Yeah, being an artist is really competitive nowdays if someone willing to make it his/her profession. T
      Its a huge competition, and you have to be the best in case you want a good job in the industry. Pretty tiresome.

    • @LewisMcS
      @LewisMcS Před 2 lety

      @@edwardwrightlambert1608 pov ur a bot

    • @LewisMcS
      @LewisMcS Před 2 lety

      @@edwardwrightlambert1608 You seem like it then LMAO you're just plugging some dudes insta (which is more than likely yours), your account was made on the 25 of june 2021 which was VERY recently.. and to be honest your name seems like a bot name too..

    • @taylormomsenssidehoe
      @taylormomsenssidehoe Před 2 lety +1

      I think their point was that depressed people are more likely to be an artist but yea i see your point too

    • @Himaryous
      @Himaryous Před 2 lety

      Are there artists who don't? I haven't heard of very many.

  • @ayushreebarman5878
    @ayushreebarman5878 Před 2 lety +31

    This woman could tell me "everything's fine" while I'm in a burning house and I would feel calm.

  • @zandriaparker4785
    @zandriaparker4785 Před 2 lety +79

    I love her calming voice it makes me feel safe and I'm scared that I relate to literally all of these

  • @cameronvafai4866
    @cameronvafai4866 Před 2 lety +35

    I feel everything is pointless and repetitive a lot at times, and lack of hope for future. Deep down I know things may lookup for me in future with plans I've got going ,but I have a hard time believing it. It's unpredictable when I start crying, feeling worthless, breaking down episodes. Another symptom I have is predicting that things will not get better in future, even though I know I don't know. Is that normal? Also I get jealous easily.

    • @grammatikaat4329
      @grammatikaat4329 Před 2 lety

      Normal for depression, yes. Positivity just disappears.

  • @lorraine8306
    @lorraine8306 Před 2 lety +107

    What is the saddest? Friends and family will always say: you can talk to me anytime, you can rely on me, you can't things cropped up...
    So what happens?
    Judging
    Advice on how to fix it.
    Listen to how it is not so bad.
    Can I call you back.
    Don't be so gloomy.
    You must pick yourself up.
    .......... Yea right!

    • @hey_people4290
      @hey_people4290 Před 2 lety +8

      Exactly 😭 where do we go ...to whom do we actually express our feelings

    • @marielabmen5835
      @marielabmen5835 Před 2 lety +6

      Same. these issues makes me more anxious 😓

    • @lillianloveee28
      @lillianloveee28 Před 2 lety +3

      My mom gets so sad when I tell her...I can't stand that look on her face...
      For this exact reason I love therapy (privilege having it paid for in my country, I know😬)

    • @ningningshining2831
      @ningningshining2831 Před 2 lety +3

      Lmao Ik I'm like weighing them down with my petty problems

    • @miraclespring3762
      @miraclespring3762 Před 2 lety +1

      I am just scared of myself..
      Like it feels like I might have depression but it also feels like I am lying..

  • @therisingrainbow251
    @therisingrainbow251 Před 2 lety +35

    I have been diagnosed with many different mental disorders including depression and I relate to most of these and it makes me happy that someone understands how depression can affect someone’s life. I have been having a long depressive episode and no one wants to help or are busy. I watch these to feel like someone actually understands how I feel.

  • @whoami4534
    @whoami4534 Před 2 lety +36

    The 'denying that anything's wrong' part is quite accurate for me.
    Once my mum tried to talk to me about what's going on with me (because my grades were going down A LOT. They still are) and I kept on insisting that it's just me being an introvert whenever she'd bring up the point that I don't socialize with anyone. I'm pretty sure she figured out that I was (and still am) feeling down but wasn't able to phrase it well, and I still tried to deny it. She asked if I needed help, and I said no. When my dad entered the conversation, he insisted that I am strong and nothing is wrong. Even though that is what I tried convincing my mum, it hurt to hear it from someone else. It's like I was crying for help.
    That was in March. We haven't talked about this since then and I'm pretty sure they forgot, which breaks me. I regret not telling her but I am pretty sure I wouldn't be able to do it if I wanted to.

    • @rueskil
      @rueskil Před 2 lety +2

      i know i might not help alot but, dont give up yet please u need to talk to ur mom about it she cares about u and i dont think she forgot about it she just doesnt want to pressure u, im trying my best to talk to my mom about going to a therapist too so u are not alone ♡ u can do it I believe in u, it may be hard but u can do it she will listen to u so please take ur time to tell her this is for ur mental health u are more important! take care of urself and sorry english isnt my first language ♡

    • @whoami4534
      @whoami4534 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rueskil Well, last time she brought up my grades she seemed to have given up on the idea that something is wrong and settled on the fact that I was simply lazy and not even trying (which is true, actually)
      I really appreciate your advice, but it's actually quite difficult to do so... I don't want to ruin the mood.
      I'll try when I can though.
      Good luck, I hope you can do it
      Stay safe ❤️
      Also, your English is good. It's not my first language either.

    • @rueskil
      @rueskil Před 2 lety

      @@whoami4534 im having the same situation with u, depression makes me unmotivated to do ANYTHING all day i cant even walk, i showed my mom my scars twice and my dad convinced her i need vitamins lol and now i keep lying that im ok and it seems she doesnt worry anymore and im glad even tho im having a hard time dealing it alone but i cant make her worry and im kinda scared she wont do anything- but hey u can do it ik its hard but u will feel better when u talk about it ♡ she will understand why ur grades dropped, try and trust her more! remember that she cares about u so much! Just take ur time but please dont give up yet
      I hope the best for u ♡ if u want to talk im here i’ll listen to u

  • @scarletannelee2023
    @scarletannelee2023 Před 2 lety +46

    This channel has helped me so much from a past abusive relationship 🤍

    • @bigttheory
      @bigttheory Před 2 lety +5

      oh damn. i know a lot of people in your position and i just hope you’re alright now 👍

    • @annatay3
      @annatay3 Před 2 lety +1

      I hope your doing better

    • @scarletannelee2023
      @scarletannelee2023 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bigttheory thank you so much

    • @scarletannelee2023
      @scarletannelee2023 Před 2 lety

      @@annatay3 thank you you’re so thoughtful

  • @ade684
    @ade684 Před 2 lety +68

    Can relate. I really wanna stop my mood swings but for every tiny thing I feel like I'm losing my mind, like I can't control myself. In a minute I can cry and judge myself for every stupid thing I did, in another minute I can just throw things and harm myself or even just stop doing anything and find a meaning in living because sometimes it just feels like nothing is gonna get better.
    I don't remember last time I didn't have to worry about everything, didn't have to hide behind my smile, behind excuses and didn't have to feel like everything is for nothing, like my future doesn't exist and I better end this. But even these times, I can't stop thinking about "what will happen if I die?" "I don't wanna be a burden to my parents then".
    I really wanna say that I love your channel so much, I always feel understood and there are so many people like me out there and I know I'm not alone.
    Praying for all of you! ❤

    • @Jasmine-hw3qh
      @Jasmine-hw3qh Před 2 lety +13

      I literally felt every word you said. We're gonna be okay ❤️

    • @foughtflea1961
      @foughtflea1961 Před 2 lety +4

      Same. I will also add that I feel numb on good days and REALLY depressed on bad days. I don't know what TRUE happiness (joy?) feels like. I only feel tiny bits of positive emotions. I don't even remember the last time I felt excited. I don't have any friends and hate my step dad's children. The closest thing to a friend I have is my cat (not the cat in my current pfp, I just thought that he was adorable:)

    • @ChantelleSherise
      @ChantelleSherise Před 2 lety +1

      The Lord wants you to Cast all your worries and anxiety’s onto him because he loves you! Love is patient and kind. Let our Heavenly Father take those Burdens off your shoulders. Prey, read and obey and he will bless you beyond belief and make your paths straight! ❤️

    • @LtRee96se
      @LtRee96se Před 2 lety +1

      I'm so glad you posted this. I just saw a teeshirt that I'm going to buy myself. It says "the chain on my mood swing just broke-run" which fits me so well. Don't harm you! Don't kill yourself. Don't do these things. Look at those of us who write on these posts. We keep going and encouraging each other. This week was very hard for me,, but I'm better now. I did the self-harming, it doesn't get rid of the emotional pain. Please, you are a precious soul. Take care of yourself. You are important. Please take care of yourself. God bless. I really care.

    • @attaullahkhan4742
      @attaullahkhan4742 Před 2 lety

      Try containing your emotions first. Then try playing games where patience and calculation (prediction) is vital like chess. If you play fps games then try stealth play. Try to think reasons behind your and others actions. Try reading books on facial expressions and try to figure their thinking pattern (be cautious of the words one use try to find motive ) , also borrow different books to find the story type u like ,don't get hooked to social media . After some time trust me you can predict the possible actions both of you and people around you this is much more fun then you think and it feels awesome when you realise that their actions were within your calculations .

  • @AngelBX-qj7pi
    @AngelBX-qj7pi Před 2 lety +11

    I can relate, Childhood, Friendship's, Abandment problem, the list goes on and I still wonder why I'm on this planet.

  • @blazeplays5097
    @blazeplays5097 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for mentioning oversleeping and overeating. I go between undereating and overeating, and I'm always tired even if I get enough sleep. I'm medically diagnosed with depression, and this made me feel a little better.

  • @pandarou_pd
    @pandarou_pd Před 2 lety +421

    Ther is currently one dislike
    Its probably from someone who never depressed

    • @jonathangaming1163
      @jonathangaming1163 Před 2 lety +12

      Will I nvr feel depressed too but I didn’t dislike lol

    • @skaldlouiscyphre2453
      @skaldlouiscyphre2453 Před 2 lety +31

      No, it's someone who's both depressed and stewing in their own toxicity.

    • @jonathangaming1163
      @jonathangaming1163 Před 2 lety

      @@skaldlouiscyphre2453 idk bro wait is that mean everybody here is depressed or sum fr question

    • @skaldlouiscyphre2453
      @skaldlouiscyphre2453 Před 2 lety +1

      @@jonathangaming1163
      If one doesn't have mental health concerns why would one pursue help for mental health concerns?
      They might only be understood subconsciously, but that's not the same as them not existing.

    • @ilpats
      @ilpats Před 2 lety +2

      it’s actually bots that do that so yeah technically the bot never has been depressed 😂

  • @jeffk7734
    @jeffk7734 Před 2 lety +45

    I am currently in therapy and have been for many years, and right now things are a little uncertain. However, I’ve checked on all 7 of these habits. I spent some time reviewing medical notes from therapy on line with my own personal chart, and am getting a greater incite as to what all is going on.

    • @jeffk7734
      @jeffk7734 Před 2 lety +1

      @@edwardwrightlambert1608 I’m already on medication for all of this, and know that it won’t work 100%, but it is helping.

    • @jeffk7734
      @jeffk7734 Před 2 lety +1

      @@edwardwrightlambert1608Are you on medication for any of this, and how is this working with your current meds if you are on any?

  • @kaviarasanganesan36
    @kaviarasanganesan36 Před 2 lety +14

    Recently I have been looking for an art related works which I wasn't really interested before... When i bought a puzzle with a beautiful drawing, i felt so pumped and even ready for overspending in it... It gave me confidence and felt grateful for myself that coped everything that happened...

  • @oenwilson2486
    @oenwilson2486 Před 2 lety +8

    The muted cry for help hit me so hard because of how much that is exactly me.

  • @alonaali3261
    @alonaali3261 Před 2 lety +13

    • How to stop overthinking?
    • How to avoid/stop bad thoughts?
    • How to deal with anxiety attacks?
    • How to overcome depression?
    • How to love yourself?
    • How to overcome social anxiety?
    • How to stop being insecure?
    For the stream!

  • @chrisw207
    @chrisw207 Před 2 lety +18

    Everything but the spending. My anxiety keeps that impulse in check.

    • @Aubreon
      @Aubreon Před 2 lety

      Lol sammmeee

    • @Das-hf4cv
      @Das-hf4cv Před 2 lety +2

      Mine doesn't unfortunately, I just get extremely anxious about it after the fact, which prevents me from enjoying anything I bought myself 😅

  • @stevengrantods3803
    @stevengrantods3803 Před 2 lety +12

    Can you do a video on how to control your anger. I think I have anger issues because even the little things makes so angry and I can’t control my temper at all especially when my family have anger issues too

    • @juliakay7446
      @juliakay7446 Před 2 lety +1

      Armyyy

    • @grmpEqweer
      @grmpEqweer Před 2 lety +2

      Try taking up a meditation practice, 20 minutes, 2x day.
      You do that, and in addition, when you feel the physical tension of being angry you (a) relax the tension by deep belly breathing (deep and slow) and/or (b) get yourself out of the situation if possible.
      If you live at home, you may need to stash shoes/umbrella by the door so you can go for a walk you were not planning on.
      You don't have to stay and get screamed at. If you walk out when someone starts treating you like crap, you're showing them you won't stand there and take it.
      Take whatever is useful for you of this advice, leave the rest.

    • @Simon0501
      @Simon0501 Před 2 lety +2

      I used to get angry easily, too. Thank you for this idea. 👍

    • @jaydenkelly2108
      @jaydenkelly2108 Před 2 lety

      @@grmpEqweer I call bullshit

    • @jaydenkelly2108
      @jaydenkelly2108 Před 2 lety

      Attention seekers

  • @ihav4kats982
    @ihav4kats982 Před 2 lety +21

    Me: 'Wow, these symptoms are really bad...'
    Also me: *has all of the symptoms*

  • @SegaDisneyUniverse
    @SegaDisneyUniverse Před 2 lety +7

    Being depressed makes you more creative? If anything it made me less creative. For the past year or so I've had little motivation to post any art. And wasn't just because of the pandemic, it was lots of other personal things as well. I feel like I've been too attached to my video games anyway.😅

  • @rat-1567
    @rat-1567 Před 2 lety +75

    Overspending and impulsive buying
    Me on animal crossing: *I didn't hear that*

  • @loneshewolfTNF
    @loneshewolfTNF Před 2 lety +31

    This is going to be so helpful. Thank you for all your help

  • @btsforever3895
    @btsforever3895 Před 2 lety +25

    “Having an irregular sleeping habits”
    Me watching kdrama til 6 am

  • @yukimiyazaki7381
    @yukimiyazaki7381 Před 2 lety +27

    The voice is so calming as always✨

  • @gen8878
    @gen8878 Před 2 lety +1

    I have all of them, but thank God I get myself free ,I believe the main reason we're here is to know ourselves and why we are who really we are. Thank you very, wish you all the best ♥..

  • @i_dontreallycare
    @i_dontreallycare Před 2 lety

    This video instantly popped into my recommended. I just got off of Facebook and crying my eyes out silently at pictures of my mom, who passed away in April. Our phones really are watching and listening. Miss you mama, not a second goes by without wishing I could be with you, wherever you are...

  • @Cloudiday
    @Cloudiday Před 2 lety +18

    I LOVE UR VIDEOS! THEY HELP ME A LOT! THANK YOU! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @sabereizenberg2964
    @sabereizenberg2964 Před 2 lety +6

    me being diagnosed of major depression with psychotic feature but still denying it. also keeping it from my friends and family afraid to tell them

  • @Heejujujuju
    @Heejujujuju Před 2 lety +2

    I relate to so many of these. Reached the rock bottom during the last two years of graduate school. I had atypical depression, which manifested with oversleeping and gaining weight (which in turn significantly damaged my self confidence). Had to seek an emergency therapy because I had a suicidal thought out of blue. Fortunately, I’m in a much better place now, thanks to the strategies and methods I learned from therapies. To everyone who are currently struggling, it DOES get better. There IS help and you are so, so valuable the way you are 💕

  • @kesslermontijo6304
    @kesslermontijo6304 Před 2 lety

    Want to say how wonderful these postings are! Being much older than most here (74) this is a real plus. Was actually born feet first on a Fri the 13th!!, escaped an alcohol fueled childhood, with a younger brother with serious health issues and became the "whipping boy" & "Red Crosser. " At 18 joined Army volunteered for Viet Nam, ultimately spent 116 days in hospital. Turned to substances, at times homeless, been in counseling forever, been with a lady who has been a godsent, last 12 years (of 23) have been her caretaker (was a paramedic once) as a Cancer survivor. Am a "career caregiver"!! and am an empathic type, crazy for someone emotionally shut down since childhood! Learned to break thru and started crying bout 10 years ago.(lot of friends and families dying, was overwhelmed!) Feel that I've been to hell and back. What I want to say is learn to stop negative feedback on yourself, keep your head up, and BELIEVE in better days ahead!!! For the young here, these kind of dialogs simply did not exist now years ago. There is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking help, information is key to understanding and moving forward. Bottom line is no matter how bad it may be there is always worse!

  • @dodonodens8802
    @dodonodens8802 Před 2 lety +27

    I just made some random goals for myself
    Sometimes I feel angry ,sad and hopeless for no reason.
    Sometimes I make dark jokes about myself.
    I Try to get out of. I often search on the internet for some inspiring quotes or story’s and learn much about the depression maybe I could relate to the genesis ship in ark.
    And I got more creative about things I also an storyteller I make tales about depression and trying to make the best out of the situation

  • @audiogob9392
    @audiogob9392 Před 2 lety +4

    I have all 7 of these and I can't really control myself. Just crying a couple of times a week

  • @_nevercommit
    @_nevercommit Před 2 lety +32

    I told my mom I have depression but she told me “it’s that damn phone”

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse Před 2 lety +14

      My dad used to say, "what do you have to be depressed about? You don't pay any bills around here or have to work!!" Well, how about both of my parents being alcoholics and getting into fist fights every weekend? He just didn't want to do anything about it.

    • @daisy3006
      @daisy3006 Před 2 lety +3

      Wow and I thought I was the only one

    • @Mattitude82
      @Mattitude82 Před 2 lety +1

      @@daisy3006 same

    • @Manglet762
      @Manglet762 Před 2 lety +1

      Thing is, she may be right to some extent. I'm 20, use CZcams every day, and there have definitely been days where my experience on CZcams pisses me off for long periods. With all the shit people argue about, most of the time unprovoked, the shit gets to you.
      Another example was Quora, I had to deactivate my account on there because the rabbit hole I dug myself through looking at controversial subjects kept me angry consistently, as reading long detailed paragraphs about an issue or question and being frustrated at how many people on polarizing ends with their feelings on the subject matter insulting each other, being completely blind to issues the others face, etc, will turn you bitter and angry. I deactivated my account from that shit around a year ago and I'm STILL trying to get over it.
      Thing is, I haven't fully Immersed into Social Media. I don't have a Twitter, Instagram, Skype, and likely many other sites I can't remember, yet even then I can still see the impact "that damn phone" has. It may not be the root cause, but it's probably a few of the roots.

  • @boop5679
    @boop5679 Před 2 lety +5

    taking notes

  • @millenabatista215
    @millenabatista215 Před 2 lety +13

    my god i'm shocked because i identify with ABSOLUTELY all the facts

  • @rubyjulivre1136
    @rubyjulivre1136 Před 2 lety +8

    I'm more convinced than ever that this channel has telepathic mind. Too many times their video coincides with my life struggles

  • @aldrich2991
    @aldrich2991 Před 2 lety

    This now all makes so much sense to me… I’m so glad I’m reaching out for professional help on this! Thank you!!👏🏼❤️

  • @deborah4969
    @deborah4969 Před 2 lety

    Wow, nail right on the head. That's amazing! It's a long journey but these signs I'm sure will help many. Thanks!

  • @jademarin9197
    @jademarin9197 Před 2 lety +3

    I wish I would heard this years ago but even there I’m still not sure what I would’ve done at that time to make the outcome different. I’m glad I know this know so that I may help others and myself. I will forever miss you Zayne 🕊💙

  • @nithyasreesathyanarayanan5611

    I'm trying to get my life together but my childhood memories of constantly being misunderstood makes me depressed and worthless. I can't force myself to forget them nor can I not cry when I remember them. Only thing I can do is understand and heal myself slowly and steadily.

  • @mariafemieposadas4970
    @mariafemieposadas4970 Před 2 lety

    Thank you much.. you're videos helped me a lot and also the comments of others..More power

  • @valentino-no1gy
    @valentino-no1gy Před 2 lety

    This video is very straightforward....thank you so much....

  • @spooki8925
    @spooki8925 Před 2 lety +19

    Perfect timing

  • @ashbae007
    @ashbae007 Před 2 lety +8

    I love this. Especially the end because i am also an artist

  • @datdamoon2134
    @datdamoon2134 Před 2 lety +2

    I love these videos so much they feel like a safe space and they're really relaxing I've noticed after watching a lot of your videos recently my productivity has gone up a lot

  • @_.shapeshifter._
    @_.shapeshifter._ Před 2 lety +1

    your animations are so clean and your voice is so calming this channel is amazing. i love how professional and educational you are, you really make my anxiety go away for a short time. thank you :) 🖤

  • @everlastingmind8603
    @everlastingmind8603 Před 2 lety +76

    To whoever is reading this: Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines. You will get through your problems and gain a valuable lesson!❤️

    • @amet575
      @amet575 Před 2 lety +2

      You have no idea, not a clue.

    • @matilda1505
      @matilda1505 Před 2 lety

      In a contrary to above comment ! Your post inspiring !

  • @proudally6662
    @proudally6662 Před 2 lety +17

    "Constantly searching for meaning"
    When this line came I was kinda surprised.because lately I always feel that I am wasting most of time being lazy and I always try to find meaning for everything 🙂

  • @ReemyBleemy
    @ReemyBleemy Před 2 lety +1

    HIII !! I’m early I just wanted to say that this channel has helped me extraordinarily!! It’s helped me be more self aware and in touch with myself,, I just wanted to thank you all for making the content you make!! You mean the world and I’m so thankful to have this outlet

  • @yupokyeah
    @yupokyeah Před 2 lety

    Content of the video aside I truly appreciate listening to your voice with my head phones. It’s so calm and reassuring.

  • @juliakay7446
    @juliakay7446 Před 2 lety +15

    7 Surprising Habits You May Develop Because of Depression:
    1) 0:37 Irregular sleeping/eating habits
    2) 1:09 Mood swings/outbursts
    3) 1:43 Making muted cries for help
    4) 2:23 Overspending/Impulse buying
    5) 2:49 Constantly searching for meaning
    6) 3:35 Pondering about life and death
    7) 4:04 Being more creative
    I’d recommend watching the video for more information and subscribing to Psych2Go!

  • @blackdark000
    @blackdark000 Před 2 lety +25

    When you're to depressed to watch psych2go 😥

  • @bethwiegand2957
    @bethwiegand2957 Před 2 lety

    Your fun fact is so focused and awesome. You guys rock it!

  • @angelartamesia2
    @angelartamesia2 Před rokem

    "I want to be great or nothing." - Amy March
    This is what keeps me going and dreams of the future, although the future seems out of reach. My dreams seem impossible so all I can do is chase and run and keep going after my futile dreams...

  • @AlyssaVierneza
    @AlyssaVierneza Před 2 lety +5

    I relate to this a lot. Wish I could get help. Can’t afford it. It’s exhausting. Thanks for the video.

  • @lukaweisseisen9851
    @lukaweisseisen9851 Před 2 lety +43

    The feeling when you check the 7th square and realize you're not playing bingo. 😐

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety +2

      What are your plans for the weekend?

  • @loveiozxowo3710
    @loveiozxowo3710 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the info. I really love your uploads. Keep it up!

  • @janmots2829
    @janmots2829 Před 2 lety

    This was very insightful, I could find myself relating to the points you made in the video. I'm already seeing a therapist but recently I've been overeating, sleeping odd hours & so forth. Glad I'm not the only one who gets like this, thanks for a very good video. 👍

  • @artsypanda9342
    @artsypanda9342 Před 2 lety +19

    I’m struggling with depression and my mom knows, but I’m afraid to talk to her about my episodes. I don’t know if I can trust her or not.

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn Před 2 lety +3

      Try it

    • @Natalie-yg5rn
      @Natalie-yg5rn Před 2 lety +2

      Try to tell her

    • @savingfelvkitties7424
      @savingfelvkitties7424 Před 2 lety +2

      Why r u afraid? I can think of lots of reasons why too. If you can't talk to her find someone else you can trust to talk to. You can even call a help line if it gets really bad. Just know you matter and the world needs you

    • @artsypanda9342
      @artsypanda9342 Před 2 lety

      @@savingfelvkitties7424 thank you, it feels nice to know that people are there for me. 🙂

    • @seaurchinwithahat7559
      @seaurchinwithahat7559 Před 2 lety

      @@artsypanda9342
      Just a word of advice, rely on people you know irl instead of strangers online. :)

  • @gingerbear5148
    @gingerbear5148 Před 2 lety +9

    When I hear music, sometimes suicide thoughts come to my mind in a... 'unique way. Is it normal?

    • @daisy3006
      @daisy3006 Před 2 lety +3

      Idk but it happens to me to

    • @mile6955
      @mile6955 Před 2 lety

      It’s not normal, sweetie, it’s not okay to have suicide thoughts, how are you? Are you perhaps seeing a therapist?

    • @gingerbear5148
      @gingerbear5148 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mile6955 In not going to a therapist... I don't want my parents to know it

    • @nameless--7650
      @nameless--7650 Před 2 lety

      Same happens with me:(

    • @leanneneville2431
      @leanneneville2431 Před 2 lety

      Music has a heavy effect on me. When listening to classical especially, I will just cry. It’s like it expresses a melancholy that is stuck inside me weighing me down, and when I hear the music the floodgates open and it’s like it understands what I am going through. I always feel like I am searching for something, that I can never quite grasp..🌸🇦🇺

  • @HalaHanz
    @HalaHanz Před 2 lety

    i can’t watch a video of urs without crying… it’s so painful to not be able to share ur feelings and keeping everything in.

  • @samysamyu08
    @samysamyu08 Před 2 lety

    I love this channel since the videos are relatable to our lives and the voice is very soothing 😍👏👏

  • @kwakays
    @kwakays Před 2 lety +9

    "overspending/impluse buying"
    me: *slowly closes online shopping site* HAHA WHAT IM NOT DEPRESSED

  • @nyxvoidess
    @nyxvoidess Před 2 lety +3

    Welp i already knew i had depression, but damn i check all these off with flying colors.

  • @mrpickles-hb6zx
    @mrpickles-hb6zx Před 4 měsíci +1

    2:02 the fear is often a reality, I told my parents multiple times how they ruined my mental health and all they did was yell at me, dismiss me and say everything in my life is my fault and not their problem.

    • @mrpickles-hb6zx
      @mrpickles-hb6zx Před 4 měsíci

      P.s, my own mother caused me to get touched when I was 5 because in her words "I made you I can touch you whenever I want" so I thought one of my uncles doing it was just regular annoying and not evil

  • @vidyakrishnan4542
    @vidyakrishnan4542 Před 2 lety

    What an awesome voice, I just want to hear you talk and I'm instantly calmer...

  • @muo.shui.
    @muo.shui. Před 2 lety +11

    me who relates to everything:
    *well sh-*

  • @chihuahuakween2085
    @chihuahuakween2085 Před 2 lety +6

    Hi

  • @bipbeedippy3954
    @bipbeedippy3954 Před 2 lety

    I relate to it all. thanks for being so helpful and letting us know we're not alone

  • @artisticalex1206
    @artisticalex1206 Před 2 lety

    All these videos she makes is so relatable. I have depression and anxiety and all these listed here is me 100 percent.

  • @lc0623
    @lc0623 Před 2 lety +5

    psych2ho can u make a vid on how to get ur romance feelings back, bc i don’t seem to have feelings for anyone after my ex, even tho i already moved on from her. (yeah it’s me again lol)

  • @etherealreal9076
    @etherealreal9076 Před 2 lety +12

    This makes me feel better, knowing that it probably is just depression and not something else. I am scared that I’m thinking warnaroexicly ( I think that’s how it’s spelled) and that I might have adhd, and dyslexia in the sense that I mess up reading and talking a lot (and or DID). I am probably thinking to much about this and yeah. If anyone thinks I should see someone I will add to reasons to. I’m scared of my parents laughing but I might actually be helped.
    I don’t know 😶
    I’m probably just a kid overreacting because I have depression and am confused

    • @kaeptn
      @kaeptn Před 2 lety +2

      Depression itself can give you many symptoms of being worse at something than usual. Like not being good at remembering or having bad attention (because you are so occupied with thinking about stuff internally). However it sounds to me that it would be best for you to get some professional help. I was overthinking my state myself while in the end I had a personality disorder because of how I was raised. While depression can come simply as a result of brain chemics being off , its also possible to have an underlying problem of any sort in life that causes mental illness, which then causes sideeffects like depression and the stuff you mentioned. Best wishes!

    • @etherealreal9076
      @etherealreal9076 Před 2 lety

      @@kaeptn Alright, thank you! This makes a lot of sense so I’m gonna consider going more

  • @paupaupau271
    @paupaupau271 Před 2 lety

    It was perfect. Thank you so much!

  • @Bella-jd5wx
    @Bella-jd5wx Před 2 lety +1

    im definetly depressed. Ive never taken time to really understand myself or my feelings and it really has led me to being severly depressed thank you for the educational video! im for sure getting a counsler this summer

  • @xingqiu3176
    @xingqiu3176 Před 2 lety +5

    When you realize you're experiencing exactly everything she said: *_panik_*

  • @perfectcreation4079
    @perfectcreation4079 Před 2 lety +3

    Loneliness is one ☝️ of the causes of depression.It is also the route cause of all evil deeds.So if U can beat ur Loneliness U can beat anything in the world 🌍.

    • @malikaamir417
      @malikaamir417 Před 2 lety +2

      exactly! Loneliness and free time should be used wisely.

  • @griik1236
    @griik1236 Před 2 lety

    Thank You for this. I really needed this today.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Před 2 lety

      You are so welcome! Did you resonate with this video?

  • @annaakosua6304
    @annaakosua6304 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your calming voice and found this video surprisingly calming 🤩. Especially with sleep and poor nutrition (e.g. highly processed foods) recent research is also looking into these possibly causing depression (as in the chicken and egg question: what was there first or is driving the depression). Of course it’s not always that simple but good nutrition, sleep and spending lots of time outdoors in natural daylight helped me lots with depression and anxiety.

  • @tseringdolkar4877
    @tseringdolkar4877 Před 2 lety +3

    Stay safe 😙😙😙 all

  • @clutzie2257
    @clutzie2257 Před 2 lety +3

    um, like this is my whole personality so...

  • @THATPLANET.
    @THATPLANET. Před 2 lety

    Storytime, I was gonna comment when one of your videos popped up on my recommended, and it was one about keep going and your channel has saved me since