Handling Temper Tantrums - Conscious Discipline Skills

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[@JUPITERAA]

I have a two ur old and this is very helpful . Thankyou ! My child will never attend public school so I’ll be his teacher and this is going to help me tremendously...you are appreciated 🙏🏼

[@jodihoover2074]

Great video!! I learned that my calmness will help the child get through the temper tantrum. I also need to remember to not take it personally.

[@melissahepinstall5231]

I see these skills work everyday in my classroom!

[@mariabarraza4871]

Thank you so much Dr Becky for all your teachings. God bless you!

[@colleenseifert8275]

I really needed these skills this year. I need to practice this more. Keeping myself calm. Breath with them. Tell them they are safe helps them and you.

[@MaryChilderston]

We use Conscious Discipline at Heartland Montessori School in Omaha, NE.

[@patriciafuentes6805]

Another beautiful video and so much to learn, what importance when we face a complicated situation do what you mention, breathe, offer empathy that we need so much in these times to be able to handle temper tantrums more with the children who are learning to drive their feelings and what they don't like ! ty Dr. Becky Bailey

[@AntPet999]

When she was saying that we should tell to a child "you can handle this" I realised that a child has the feeling that he cannot handle something, some strong emotion, that is hard to cope with... That's interesting how some adults still cannot cope with their emotions, and how parents can actually help their children, the future adults to handle their emotions and feelings.

[@SarahHodgins]

I'm 49 and I still feel this way!!

[@toniahess9796]

Very informative video. I learned to add calmness to the chaos happening.

[@amywood5689]

I enjoyed this video and I learned some great strategies to help a child get through a temper tantrum.

[@SarahHodgins]

I would love to hear your views about these skills with children (or even adults) with ADHD

[@Valarietennille]

Wow this is very encouraging I will definitely have the opportunity to try this the next time we are in the store.

[@brendasalico3610]

Does anyone remember the video with Becky Bailey singing to her grandmother? I'm trying to find it to share with staff.

[@caseyhalbert4731]

So any tips on how to handle a tantrum from a two-year-old child? Who also happens to be somewhat non-verbal? And the fight is getting him/her off the bike he/she was playing on?

[@sherryadkins3118]

Even medication can affect a child’s feeling, temperament & reaction. Trial and error! Try until something works.

[@Cassibales123]

What about adults having temper tantrums? Are the solutions the same for young kids as it for adults?

[@ConsciousDisciplineVideos]

Cassi Bales Conscious Discipline teaches new skills to the adult first and the children second, empowering adults to become the mindful parents they want to be. With Conscious Discipline, we can learn to discipline differently than we were disciplined, break the cycle of “do as I say, not as I do,” and discipline our children without permissiveness, aggression or guilt. An adult who is having temper tantrums is a person who did not learn how to express their wants and needs appropriately during their own childhood. Additionally, their ability to self-regulate was most likely not developed as well. Self-regulation is the ability to manage your emotional upset and behavior, and is a prerequisite skill for life success. The way adults handle emotional upset when children are throwing fits, backtalking, name-calling, being defiant and withdrawing will either foster or inhibit their ability to develop self-regulation. Our book Managing Emotional Mayhem lays a conceptual foundation, explores limiting beliefs, presents new adult skills and teaches us how to coach children in this transformative self-regulation process. This book is very helpful for an adult who wants to have a transformational behavioral change if they are willing. consciousdiscipline.com/store/pc/Managing-Emotional-Mayhem-4p158.htm

[@leciaa2987]

@Anaclara See if you can find a good DBT Therapist in your area. If your son won't go sometimes it can be helpful for family members to attend DBT and use the skills with the person struggling and teach them when they are ready. DBT stands for Dialectical Behavioral Therapy.

[@dannybastoslifecoach5091]

You are amazing! I applaud you and your kindness. I love when you tell people to breathe and send good and calm energy to a chaotic situation. You are an enlightened being.
I have a channel on youtube as well: Danny Bastos TV
God bless you and your life!

[@phyllisfeulner7275]

This was great. Thank you!

[@yup2602]

only if they dont kick my head off when i try to cuddle them. Not as easy as the video to calm them down

[@matthewturner639]

They prob don't want to be cuddled if they kick you...

[@mynineandi]

Trust is such an important part of parenting. That’s why she said, “tell the child they are safe”. And at the height of the tantrum, the child needs space.

[@juniorsimon1376]

She said They Funna?

[@joannsnipe7600]

Some time when a child don't get something that they want is not a temper tamtrum but just soiled by most parents.

[@ufosrule]

Where the %^& is the love?? lol

[@Lisa58999]

Sean Dillard Isn't validating the child's feelings, hugging them, and telling the child they are safe showing love?

[@lisamartin5645]

😂 ooook