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  • čas přidán 2. 05. 2024
  • Welcome to another episode of BASICALLY UNFILTERED with Alisha, Remi, Zane, and Heath!! In today’s episode the group discusses relationship and dating red flags! Is it a red flag if someone is a bad texter??
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  • @ZaneHijazi
    @ZaneHijazi Před měsícem +2528

    YO... you don't even understand the amount of issues we got into my GOD HAHAHA I'm just happy it's up by the GRACE OF GODDDDDDDD

  • @tarrahgaris
    @tarrahgaris Před měsícem +1648

    not Zane thinking that alisha’s drunk alter ego is schoolisha 😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @janellerod4865
      @janellerod4865 Před měsícem +21

      That had me dead 😭😂😂

    • @Karina_42
      @Karina_42 Před měsícem +4

      Dead 💀 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Chloenhawj
    @Chloenhawj Před měsícem +499

    That loading/buffer sign… OMG I thought it was my phone 😂😂 that was so good!!!

    • @kiramartinez2206
      @kiramartinez2206 Před měsícem +10

      lol same! Then I saw his arm move and was tripping 😂😂

    • @Karina_42
      @Karina_42 Před měsícem +3

      Omg SAME!
      I start checking my wifi

  • @kseniak8781
    @kseniak8781 Před měsícem +527

    I applaud Alisha for being the only one who brought quality red flags to the table

  • @AlishaMarie
    @AlishaMarie Před měsícem +2144

    SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG WOW SO MANY ISSUES!!!!!! COMMENT A 💞 IF YOU SEE THIS

  • @reginamoore6992
    @reginamoore6992 Před měsícem +699

    Zanes hairline looks normal. He’s gonna regret not embracing how it looks now once it’s gone again haha. You look great sweetie!

  • @Lynnee808
    @Lynnee808 Před měsícem +429

    The way Zane said “he’s been deaf for a long time” so confidently😂😂😂

    • @LynnzeNao
      @LynnzeNao Před 29 dny

      Omg hi I had to comment bc I thought I saw my name! Lol

    • @Lynnee808
      @Lynnee808 Před 29 dny

      @@LynnzeNao hahah hey twin

  • @saraelenaf
    @saraelenaf Před měsícem +185

    Okay OBBBVIIIIOUSLY I've been a stan since this pod dropped but yall seem so much more comfortable and the convos are flowing UGH I'm obsessed

    • @theresag.4188
      @theresag.4188 Před měsícem +8

      Yes! At the beginning some of it felt awkward and forced. But now they are more comfortable with eachother. It def has more flow! It's going to get better with time!

    • @mysteriousgal99
      @mysteriousgal99 Před měsícem

      facts

  • @Beautifulinside19out
    @Beautifulinside19out Před měsícem +205

    Heath is so cool and dad like , remi is so cute and relatable Zane is hot and funny and Alisha is so beautiful and adorable with her social anxiety . Everyone brings out the best side of each other .

    • @cinnabun11
      @cinnabun11 Před měsícem +7

      I love these summaries lmao

    • @CheyWeenie.
      @CheyWeenie. Před měsícem +8

      Zane would die if he saw this comment lmao

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 Před měsícem +225

    “Everyone compliment it when we start” 😭😭

  • @GloryHernandez514
    @GloryHernandez514 Před měsícem +533

    For a second I wondered how cold it was since I could see Zanes breath, but quickly realized it from the vape 😂

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 Před měsícem +18

      los angeles doesn’t ever get cold enough to see your breath lolol

    • @alinakarakay1011
      @alinakarakay1011 Před měsícem

      Sameeeee

    • @Galaxyy_Dee
      @Galaxyy_Dee Před měsícem +1

      @@jbnks1995only in the dusk morning

    • @plk.404
      @plk.404 Před 27 dny

      timestamp?

  • @IssaHudgins
    @IssaHudgins Před měsícem +239

    The new logo is iconic.

  • @Mmeeks187
    @Mmeeks187 Před měsícem +183

    Zane’s giving Ken vibes
    “he’s JUST ZANE,anywhere else he’d be insane “
    Don’t judge me , it just popped in my head lol 😎

    • @madayavalos1201
      @madayavalos1201 Před měsícem +3

      I thought the same 😂

    • @amybudafulldisaster3646
      @amybudafulldisaster3646 Před měsícem +1

      When the 🧠 adhd
      👁😜👁
      intrusive thought Wins 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @Mmeeks187
      @Mmeeks187 Před měsícem +2

      @@amybudafulldisaster3646 absolutely accurate lmao

  • @valugarciar
    @valugarciar Před měsícem +118

    I love how they're just waving the flags the entire time. Such a wholesome episode, love you guys!

  • @amberrrdanielle
    @amberrrdanielle Před měsícem +162

    zane’s hair looking mad luxurious

  • @sammaniscalco384
    @sammaniscalco384 Před měsícem +47

    I feel Alicia was the most honest with her red flags everyone else was just corky lol

  • @jessicagibson5314
    @jessicagibson5314 Před měsícem +115

    Casually pitching the idea that Zane and Alisha go on one date just casually 🤭

  • @AbbiGrasso13
    @AbbiGrasso13 Před měsícem +41

    I am sorry, but everyone NEEDS an Alisha in the group to not just blindly love your new person!!! I needed one with my ex, and my friends were so afraid to say anything - Friends who care about you are never going to be the ones who trash a new partner, if the partner is truly good - and a GOOD friend and a GOOD partner will naturally get along just fine - because they both care about you. Every friend group needs an Alisha, just like we all need a Remi, and those two need to be best friends, lol.

  • @atiyasimmons5007
    @atiyasimmons5007 Před měsícem +57

    Honestly this was one of my FAVORITE episodes. I love the laid back conversations. And I tend to laugh ALOT more with these kinds of episodes! I much prefer this kind over the structured kind. I hope you guys do these regularly!!

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 Před měsícem +42

    Y’all got me at 50:07 I thought it froze 😭

  • @coldbrewbabyy
    @coldbrewbabyy Před měsícem +39

    a message for each of you!!
    Zane- your hair looks good. I think you can either keep the color OR the length. That length and color combined is what's giving cockateil. If it was a different color it would just be giving volume, and if it was shorter it would be giving 2000s which is very in right now. If I didn't listen to unfiltered I wouldnt even know you had work done.
    Heath- I've been watching Unfiltered since 2020 and have been so in love with your love with Mariah. You're so in sync and so meant to be. I have a 4 month old daughter, and I think you and Mariah are going to be incredible parents.
    Rem- You're an awesome aunt, but you're gonna be an even better mom. I hope you get your twins. It is a lot, but you also get it all out of the way at the same time. That's like at least a year of diapers off the timeline. Whatever you're blessed with, you will rock it. Fun doesn't end when you have kids, it just changes.
    Alisha- I'm so excited for your auntie era. You're gonna be the cool aunt they come to when they need advice. It's also been so nice watching you mature and grow in the last few years. You also inspired me to strengthen my faith. I was raised catholic, so I was admittedly weary to associate with Christianity again, but you're a prime example of how you can have faith (and express it) without it taking over your entire life. You have a balance I aspire to achieve.
    WHEW that was a long one, and you probably wont even read this lmao. Just feeling sentimental tonight, listening to this as I feed my baby :')

  • @AshleyRodriguez-pz9lv
    @AshleyRodriguez-pz9lv Před měsícem +61

    Zane’s hair is giving Ryan gosling 😂💕

    • @Yablahblah
      @Yablahblah Před měsícem

      That's funny cause Ryan gosling is also a Scorpio 😂

    • @edenmannon8686
      @edenmannon8686 Před měsícem

      “I’m just Zen!!”

  • @valentinaleal3011
    @valentinaleal3011 Před měsícem +99

    I love how Zane always brings up how Remi is Asian in every episode. It’s like he’s discovering something new every time

  • @danasettles9742
    @danasettles9742 Před měsícem +37

    LIPS OF AN ANGEL ASL NEEDS TO GO ON UNFILTERED PATREON😭😭😭

  • @Libertyyy.
    @Libertyyy. Před měsícem +306

    Zane and Alisha should AT LEAST go on a date together & see where it goes. I just feel like it would be perfect and nobody can convince me otherwise

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 Před měsícem +46

      if it’s meant to be, they will end up together !!

    • @Sincerelywendyy
      @Sincerelywendyy Před měsícem +2

      Yupppp😅

    • @LoganCarte
      @LoganCarte Před měsícem +42

      Ugh I wish I shipped! They give big friend vibes to me though.

    • @alexcobb8766
      @alexcobb8766 Před měsícem +23

      Yall need to stop. Any time someone gets a long as a friend everyone wants them to date. It’s weird

    • @rosieoats
      @rosieoats Před měsícem +1

      Yes 100%

  • @kaylah9206
    @kaylah9206 Před měsícem +77

    I look forward to this podcast every week it’s so good

  • @Itstaniayanes
    @Itstaniayanes Před měsícem +29

    The flag waving while proving y’all’s points had me dead!!! 🤣

  • @minpd257
    @minpd257 Před měsícem +19

    love how yall would just keep waving the flag when answering, its so funny and cute to me😂😂

  • @livvyboone
    @livvyboone Před měsícem +23

    as a twin I can confirm that the comparison and jealousy is actually insane, because we are different on certain levels

  • @caitlinjoy2828
    @caitlinjoy2828 Před měsícem +17

    Alisha. We love hearing you talk!! You keep conversations moving and are such a light! 🩵🩵🩵🩵

  • @veronica-AM
    @veronica-AM Před měsícem +73

    tbh I couldn't wait so I heard the audio already but I am down to watch the visuals now... it's like going from an audio book to watching a movie

    • @madayavalos1201
      @madayavalos1201 Před měsícem +1

      Me too 😂😂 I heard it first and now I’m watching it I COULD NOT WAIT!

  • @kelseygomez258
    @kelseygomez258 Před měsícem +10

    1:02 I love how they said “innocent until proven guilty” for Alisha but really it’s “guilty until proven innocent” 🤣

  • @kylieduren
    @kylieduren Před měsícem +32

    “He’s been deaf for a long time.” MY UNCLE?"¿

  • @XWOAH_ITScrazy
    @XWOAH_ITScrazy Před měsícem +30

    🚩 my red flag is holding back emotions cuz I was never tought how to express them

  • @chloenaff9926
    @chloenaff9926 Před měsícem +62

    opened youtube and got so excited with only 4 minutes ago!

  • @mlalahful
    @mlalahful Před měsícem +14

    I thought my internet was going out with the buffering icon 😂

  • @arikihetet3747
    @arikihetet3747 Před měsícem +7

    Does anyone else find Remy's voice incredibly calming/pleasurable to listen to?
    Haha I need some audiobooks from her ❤

  • @k.grace_02
    @k.grace_02 Před měsícem +15

    I love this podcast!! It's just like being in a friend group, but you can just listen in and don't feel the pressure to talk. Love how you guys have a beautiful friendship! 💞💞

  • @hailyhouse4406
    @hailyhouse4406 Před měsícem +6

    okay unsolicited thoughts (from a designer's perspective) but the blurred/undone logo in the signage and the intro is honestly iconic and totally think you could leave it as is. fits the whole pod's personality so well - a big vibe

  • @RomneyRanjo
    @RomneyRanjo Před 29 dny +5

    waiiiiitttttt Alisha looks so good? Like she keeps getting more gorg every episode? not sure if it's her skin or makeup???? OR BOTH?

  • @SydneyKong
    @SydneyKong Před měsícem +7

    “That’s why I always have his back on these conversations because when I come running to the front door” LMAOOOO AHAHAHAHAHAHA 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @MadisonNikolis
    @MadisonNikolis Před měsícem +21

    zane saying maybe they could make an announcement to see if any deaf people are here had me dying laughing 😂😂

    • @KarlaMejia96
      @KarlaMejia96 Před měsícem +3

      THANK YOU!!! Like how would they hear the announcement 😂😂😂

    • @MadisonNikolis
      @MadisonNikolis Před měsícem

      @@KarlaMejia96 no one caught it and i was just cackling lmao

  • @anuheajai
    @anuheajai Před měsícem +6

    SO HAPPY THIS EPISODE IS UP!!! I COULDN’T WAIT A WHOLE WEEK. i’m also with remi on the eating things you shouldn’t due to dietary restrictions but having no self control 🚩

  • @iamokay516
    @iamokay516 Před měsícem +24

    I don't really have a friend group and this is one of the reasons I like to watch this podcast. It makes me feel like a part of a friend group ❤

  • @kingjames9306
    @kingjames9306 Před měsícem +4

    OMG‼️I fell out at Heath then Zane’s reaction when Alisha said she liked old salad. 😩🤣😭💀The confusion & concern on their respective faces. 😮🤨🤣 I had to rewind it back. Too funny.

  • @Devonbroyles
    @Devonbroyles Před měsícem +21

    I comment this on every video but this is seriously my favorite podcast ever! The vibe of this podcast makes me feel like I’m in the room with y’all it is sooo good 😂❤️

  • @adaaleide
    @adaaleide Před měsícem +2

    zane was outdoing himself in this ep. hilarious!

  • @A.and.H.Adventures
    @A.and.H.Adventures Před měsícem +10

    Congrats on 100k! Been loving ever pod so far 😍 ya’ll are Killin it 🔥

  • @marielizperez7845
    @marielizperez7845 Před měsícem +5

    20:41 LESERATONIN! that is now their new name omg😂 Zane is a genius

  • @gigglyvibez
    @gigglyvibez Před měsícem +9

    thank you zane for making me feel good about my wrinkles.. love u 🥹🫶

  • @ashleyaba13
    @ashleyaba13 Před měsícem +6

    Not me taking the no friends red flag personally. I’m working through trauma

  • @marianagonzalez8029
    @marianagonzalez8029 Před měsícem +33

    best part of the night

  • @cyrenaflaherty3303
    @cyrenaflaherty3303 Před měsícem +11

    ITS UPPPPPP YAYYY so happy it all got figured out!

  • @yodeebs
    @yodeebs Před měsícem +5

    This podcast is such a treat :’) I’m so grateful ❤

  • @Cielstial
    @Cielstial Před měsícem +4

    Love ya’ll and I’m patient enough to wait for the video! So sorry you guys had trouble with youtube uploads lately😭

  • @Stephanie87x
    @Stephanie87x Před měsícem +5

    I’ve been waiting for this all week!!! Finally

  • @abdullahsofyan6958
    @abdullahsofyan6958 Před měsícem +8

    Alisha looking extra cute on this episode..(slowly falling in love) 🥹❤️

  • @kristinhawkins6491
    @kristinhawkins6491 Před měsícem +4

    Zane is sucha beautiful soul talking about those fine lines and wrinkles we all accumulate 🙃♥️

  • @wasupitzannie
    @wasupitzannie Před měsícem +1

    YESSS BEST TIMING !!! Y’all putting in work overtime 💞

  • @jamiecoppernoll
    @jamiecoppernoll Před měsícem +20

    Yay finally! Already listen to the audio but obviously got to watch the visuals lol! Love you guys 💞🚩

  • @jazzmercedes9789
    @jazzmercedes9789 Před měsícem +2

    zane's hair looks good either way!! i legit love this podcast so much. highlight of my day. 💜

  • @kallisoetidjo7902
    @kallisoetidjo7902 Před měsícem +2

    omg yay!!! i’ve been waitingggg i love the video pods 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @alysagaertner532
    @alysagaertner532 Před měsícem +3

    Y’all all have such friendly vibes n caring!

  • @Ellabrook21
    @Ellabrook21 Před měsícem +4

    just what i needed !!!!!!!!! i really liked this episode and would enjoy another red flag or not segments i love the opinions

  • @Yeajay3852
    @Yeajay3852 Před měsícem +3

    After a long day I’m so happy this videos up….. love yall

  • @AngelicaWalters
    @AngelicaWalters Před měsícem +5

    thank god this episode is finally out I cannot do just audio. I'm so audio/visual. I love you all so much! Thanks as always

  • @queenjojo96
    @queenjojo96 Před měsícem +5

    Heath pretending to be deaf I’m so deadddd

  • @noahrouble7608
    @noahrouble7608 Před měsícem +2

    I was waiting!!! Excited it’s finally up

  • @purpl3loverz
    @purpl3loverz Před měsícem +3

    This is my favorite podcast and I can’t believe I ever doubted the collaboration😭

  • @user-hb2oe2gr2i
    @user-hb2oe2gr2i Před měsícem +5

    zane looks so amazing in this episode like WOW

  • @no-zd8qs
    @no-zd8qs Před měsícem +5

    i love the unstructered ADHD episodes

  • @naylaiman5207
    @naylaiman5207 Před měsícem +4

    ALISHA LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL IN THIS EPISODE!!!!! Is it because of love hahahahahaha but for real Alisha looks so good!!!!❤

  • @samanviganga2056
    @samanviganga2056 Před měsícem +7

    Why did I not know Cal’s family was rich

  • @britt8099
    @britt8099 Před měsícem +6

    This one is for you Zane 🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @rachaelschena1622
    @rachaelschena1622 Před měsícem +1

    Love you all! I’ve never been this early!!! Just wanna say I’ve followed both of you duos for years and I’m so excited to see where this podcast goes and now I can finally say I’m an Og 😂

  • @stephanieeder4022
    @stephanieeder4022 Před měsícem

    Only in the first 23 minutes and had to comment on Heath knowing ASL!!!! I took a class in college (2013) and have been practicing ever since! I’ve had conversations with deaf families and to watch their eyes light up knowing that you understand is an incredible feeling!

  • @kira43ver
    @kira43ver Před měsícem +5

    Zane looks so good without a hat!!

  • @allysonherrera5141
    @allysonherrera5141 Před měsícem +4

    i still think allegedly unfiltered was so good too 😭

  • @annecampbelllucas5681
    @annecampbelllucas5681 Před měsícem

    I have been checking all day!! And this was the best time for it to come out :))) love yall

  • @taylornonnenberg9882
    @taylornonnenberg9882 Před měsícem +4

    Zaynes comments on little face lines being beautiful was so sweet and genuine🥹

  • @jessgroves2847
    @jessgroves2847 Před měsícem +6

    Loving this pod❤️❤️❤️

  • @Urhottea
    @Urhottea Před měsícem +2

    I actually like the weekend upload because usually by the weekend I’ve watched all my favorite pods & shows 😂

  • @halobaby8064
    @halobaby8064 Před měsícem +1

    I sware to god this is the only podcast I can’t watch where I need to watch! Not listen but WATCH you guys are everything I can’t help but sit and laugh 🫶🏼

  • @sabrinacastillo8582
    @sabrinacastillo8582 Před měsícem +3

    best podcast ever!! keep killing it yall 🤍

  • @yeseniarosales1710
    @yeseniarosales1710 Před měsícem +8

    Twin mama here! So fun, so hard during the newborn up like 1 year.. Now 3 years old and they are so independent. Love watching them grow up together, be the bestest of friends and just the way they love each other 🫶🏻💕
    Also, fun fact they are identical twins and there is not a single thing that they don’t do the same it’s CRAZY!!

  • @alyssademas9197
    @alyssademas9197 Před měsícem +4

    50:07 i thought my phone froze, i really rewinded it just for it to do the same thing😂

  • @tarrahgaris
    @tarrahgaris Před měsícem +1

    Yay!! Just in time for a podcast before bed 🫶🏼

  • @mfcarpena
    @mfcarpena Před měsícem +5

    😂 Alisha’s red flag…. Her just bragging she looked good

  • @samantha3094
    @samantha3094 Před měsícem +2

    So excited to watch!!! 💞

  • @evelinzavala2167
    @evelinzavala2167 Před měsícem +1

    Loving this podcast format 🎉

  • @0fficial.savanna2006
    @0fficial.savanna2006 Před měsícem +1

    Congrats on 100k subs!! 🔥💜 W podcast

  • @mfcarpena
    @mfcarpena Před měsícem +6

    Heath… as someone who has ADD… your red flag scream ADD… love ya!

    • @jbnks1995
      @jbnks1995 Před měsícem +1

      lol when he said that i was like sir that is adhd 😭

  • @ariyanabustillos9876
    @ariyanabustillos9876 Před měsícem +3

    loved this week’s episode, and love all of you even more ! 🚩

  • @LenaHillOnTour
    @LenaHillOnTour Před měsícem +2

    Zane asking if pineapple was a melon is a red flag for me 🫡🚩

  • @bk7728
    @bk7728 Před 28 dny

    i’ve been in asl for two years and i’m taking it for another two, i actually love it, and being able to sign to people is genuinely such a sick experience and it’s actually really useful

  • @anabelemmaldonado1611
    @anabelemmaldonado1611 Před měsícem +4

    Alisha is such a combo of zane and heath!! Im sure zane and Alisha will end up together!!

  • @MitzuyaMiyo2
    @MitzuyaMiyo2 Před měsícem +5

    Zane your hair looks great! Just listen to Alisha!

  • @Ella1297
    @Ella1297 Před 21 dnem

    Omg the flag game was so fun and entertaining!! Please do more!!🤗🫶💗🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @MsAlestaa
    @MsAlestaa Před měsícem +4

    IVF stands for In Vitro Fertilization! So the fertilization happens in a vitro dish and then it gets inserted in the uterus afterwards

  • @elisabethzibers2326
    @elisabethzibers2326 Před měsícem +3

    worth the wait 💕💕💕