Help! I hate my wife’s disabled mother! | But I'd Never Marry A Blind Woman

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  • čas přidán 3. 06. 2024
  • This week we’re talking about disabled parents! Answering another question from Reddit. Is his mother-in-law taking over or is it all in his head?
    Remember to send your own Disabled Dilemmas to help@lucyedwards.com
    See you next week!
    #BINMABW #ButIdNeverMarryABlindWoman #Podcast
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Komentáře • 20

  • @kdogW-iw6oq
    @kdogW-iw6oq Před 5 měsíci +12

    It is okay to walk away from a narcissist parent. There is no winning with a narcissist.

  • @Orlak3lly
    @Orlak3lly Před 5 měsíci +5

    Lucy! I have to say this: you have a gorgeous voice - you and your sis definitely have to sing together!

  • @FightingIncorrectStereotypes
    @FightingIncorrectStereotypes Před 5 měsíci +10

    You two are couples goals!

  • @vasilisalife4788
    @vasilisalife4788 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Hi Lucy! I am a blind girl from Ukraine and I am inspired by your work!
    You can show your life on CZcams!
    I also want to do it because some people do not know how life can look like

    • @devadatta0
      @devadatta0 Před 4 měsíci

      Im not trying to be rude at all when I ask this, but how do you navigate and use a computer or phone when you’re blind? How did you type this comment I would genuinely like too know. Thanks. Btw your English is really good

    • @vasilisalife4788
      @vasilisalife4788 Před 4 měsíci

      There are thinks like “voiceover” and other digital assistive technologies that can help blind people to navigate through the phone or computer. There are lots of video that can tell you more about it.

  • @georginafg3626
    @georginafg3626 Před 5 měsíci +4

    As a disabled girl I love the relationship between you and Olli, it’s really similar to the relationship I have with my fiancé 🥰

  • @ritikakhanal8247
    @ritikakhanal8247 Před 5 měsíci +2

    “I can’t believe you’re throwing it back in my face when I’m writing you gorgeous words.”
    “All jokes aside, you have really bad jokes.””that sparkling water tastes like sour poison.”
    “No it doesn’t. It tastes like bitter poison.”
    “I think you’re a stupid idea.”
    “I thought when you looked at something, you just looked at it.”
    “We will be there listening in your ear lobes.”
    Omg I love you guys so much lol

  • @fridawarnemyr6025
    @fridawarnemyr6025 Před 5 měsíci +6

    It's actually "blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb", meaning chosen family trumps biological family. Of course, blood family can still be a part of your chosen family, but it is not a given.

  • @heleninglis9961
    @heleninglis9961 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I might sound harsh here, but that mother sounds like an awful person, regardless of her disability. I think it would be a huge mistake to let her move in. I understand the wife wants to help because it's her mother but it sounds like all the help in the past hasn't made her a better or more grateful person. I think if the wife still wants to help, help from afar. It's not fair on your kids to allow the cycle of abuse to continue.

    • @PredictableEnigma
      @PredictableEnigma Před 5 měsíci +1

      The issue is the mother in law being banned from care facilities for bad behavior, and her husband (the bad father in law) neglecting her. There's nowhere for her to go other than maybe Adult Protective Services? Obviously her fault for treating her carers and daughter and grandchildren terribly.

  • @libbybaker86
    @libbybaker86 Před 5 měsíci +1

    My mum has an older sister with the menral age of an 8 year old amd substance misuse history. My nan (her mum) was also mentally ill amd had early onset dementia. She has always had to be their carers. I really feel for her

  • @peterhagan8454
    @peterhagan8454 Před 5 měsíci +3

    families are always squibling you are all loved i ranted at my sisster xmas morning and resloved in 10 mins and understood each other and solved our mums stair lift, that day and we even joked it took a phd sis and a software engineer to resolve and we are thick in so many departments

  • @aianimations101
    @aianimations101 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I enjoyed listening to you in my earlobes 😊
    On Spotify using my new headphones.

  • @peterhagan8454
    @peterhagan8454 Před 5 měsíci +2

    you both got great voices fraiser quality

  • @MisguidedKreations
    @MisguidedKreations Před 3 měsíci

    I feel for the first guy. I was beat amd raped by my mothers BF when i was younger and he BEAT BEAT my mother also. She denied it all. Still does. I was rescued by my grandparents. A few yrs later my mom finally left him. Fast forward 30yrs to last week and my mom tells me she is moving back in with this man. Im scared to death that he will kill her this time. 😢😢😢

  • @aimesfin05
    @aimesfin05 Před 5 měsíci

    Do you have any advice for a first time guide dog user? Nothing in particular just general advice ❤️

  • @gluttonikitty
    @gluttonikitty Před 5 měsíci

    💜💜💜💜

  • @VulcanOnWheels
    @VulcanOnWheels Před 5 měsíci

    I even had a hard time getting through the first minute of this video.