"BTS, Help Me Get My Girl Back" | EP.140 | The BTS Podcast

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  • čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
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    0:00 I Want My Girl Back
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    21:27 Exes spinning the block
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Komentáře • 68

  • @TeachYourMrs
    @TeachYourMrs Před 7 měsíci +52

    He should move on and leave her alone. He doesn’t like her, he just feels entitled to her. She was never “his girl” te begin with. He has no regards for her feelings and does not respect her. Broke contact in uni, went out partying and was with girls. Suggesting to meet up, then to ghost her while it was his idea.
    Now that he sees she’s doing good, he wants to come back into her life?? He’s an opp.

  • @ayomidedareabel5525
    @ayomidedareabel5525 Před 7 měsíci +81

    I'm not for it sha. Bro is trapped in his delusions. "My girl?" Bffr😭😭🤣. She doesn't deserve to be an after thought and someone's sloppy seconds. I'm sure he's single and lonely that's why he is chasing her. Cause when he had options he was ghosting her up and down partying up and down. Nah he doesn't deserve her

    • @lcalvin20
      @lcalvin20 Před 7 měsíci +10

      The same thing I said… “my girl” bro get it TOGETHER. If you really wanted to, you would have. Point blank. Leave that girl and her peace alone.

    • @Chokani
      @Chokani Před 7 měsíci

      i agree

  • @sessih1302
    @sessih1302 Před 7 měsíci +70

    he doesn’t really want her at all. he just has a sense of entitlement and his ego is hurt by the fact that she’s no longer making an effort despite being the one that would always make an effort - even just expecting her to dm YOU so that you can avoid the vulnerability of reaching out and potentially being rejected - you still want her to make the effort and continue that pattern of being the one to put herself out there. pls she’s not ‘your girl’ and she may not be single in any event. i hope she sees it for what it is

    • @sessih1302
      @sessih1302 Před 7 měsíci +13

      i actually think doing it through a podcast is really cowardly considering you have her socials and you aren’t blocked. it’s one thing coming here for advice but you weren’t (genuinely) asking for advice, you wanted to put her in the position of reaching out to you (as always) while benefitting from plausible deniability.

    • @Chokani
      @Chokani Před 7 měsíci +1

      word

  • @IkaneishaJenkins
    @IkaneishaJenkins Před 7 měsíci +164

    Hi from North Carolina USA! Yall are everything! I literally have changed the way I pronounce "dilemma" and my husband is like, "You ain't from Essex!" 😅😅 Yall are proof that us black people are the same everywhere, we all speak the same slang 😅

  • @lexifresh1552
    @lexifresh1552 Před 7 měsíci +97

    Tammy’s hair is always on point 😍😍😍

    • @kdgem9354
      @kdgem9354 Před 7 měsíci

      U not lyin but she looks extra good js 💜💜💜

    • @Sarah.f524
      @Sarah.f524 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Facts she always looks good and put together ❤

  • @AnyaEsma
    @AnyaEsma Před 7 měsíci +10

    The audacity of him saying "my girl" and "we basically broke up" even though they've never been together... Sounds like he's reading a lot into it and claiming her without her agreeing just because they were close friends and she asked him on a date. Presumptuous in my opinion.

  • @sinalojaca8927
    @sinalojaca8927 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I hear you Sharon, if someone does me dirty, I forgive but i don't forget and i will put am at a distance from me because I need to protect my space. I am believe in the notion of, "if a person shows you who they really are, believe them", even when they say they have changed, I have a hard time believing that. i still put them at a distance to avoid being hurt and being disappointed by them.

  • @sanrihoe777
    @sanrihoe777 Před 7 měsíci +26

    Woke up at 6AM here in California with zero motivation. but listening to the pod first thing on Monday helps me wake up and prepare for the day ♥️♥️

  • @xxblackbellexx
    @xxblackbellexx Před 7 měsíci +12

    Beatrice’s hair thoooooooooo ❤ Idk how I missed it last episode.. And Tammy’s makeuuuuupppppppp 😍

  • @jayw4
    @jayw4 Před 7 měsíci +25

    Loving the crew harmony took me out 😂😂 love you ladies!

  • @passivepanda3656
    @passivepanda3656 Před 7 měsíci +13

    I don’t why, but i feel like it’s because it didn’t work out with other women that he think about her now, like a plan b.
    And also, you asking her to DM you ??? Be a man and court her properly my dude.

  • @itsetosanerewa9222
    @itsetosanerewa9222 Před 7 měsíci +9

    I don come mark attendance for today💃

  • @kezia-priscillavalentine1274
    @kezia-priscillavalentine1274 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Tammy and this JetBlack hair😍👏🏾

  • @SabrinaLydia
    @SabrinaLydia Před 7 měsíci +21

    SOOOOOOOOOOOOO soz, but Tammy.... ooooooof, girly!!!! you loooooook flyyyyyyyy todaaaayyyy hun!!

  • @naaisyahs
    @naaisyahs Před 7 měsíci +14

    aaaah YES! My weekly therapy has arrived 🤗🤗🤗 Keep doing what you doing girls! Your podcast keeps me in check on what to avoid when looking for a potential partner! much love from Malaysia!

  • @margaretgarret164
    @margaretgarret164 Před 7 měsíci +8

    BTS dayyyyyyyy !!!💃💃💃Now the week has began 🤓

  • @samariamungaila8871
    @samariamungaila8871 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Tammy’s hair and makeup 😍

  • @sabrinastaten1121
    @sabrinastaten1121 Před 7 měsíci +11

    this pod is the highlight to my Monday!

  • @AligwaraChimere
    @AligwaraChimere Před 7 měsíci +6

    The way this episode ended sha.😂😂

  • @CEOMinerva
    @CEOMinerva Před 7 měsíci +8

    I agree. I can forgive, but once you have done the crime, i can never disassociate. If you should do the same thing again, my mind will rush back to your previous offence. I wouldn't see it as a unique situation that i never expected. Instead, i would be like, you have done it before, you did it now, you will do it again. I can forgive you, but i expect this from you going forward. In my eyes, you can not be the same as before, even though i have forgiven you. That doubt will never extinguish, although i am not dangling the offence above your head.

  • @Crowned_ladyd
    @Crowned_ladyd Před 6 měsíci

    15:56 😅 ❤❤❤ Its TIMMMMEEEEEE

  • @FaithWalks
    @FaithWalks Před 7 měsíci +2

    Naaaahhhh we clowning Nick Cannon, Future, and Leonardo DiCaprio over here. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sivuyiledhlula7958
    @sivuyiledhlula7958 Před 7 měsíci +11

    notification gang!!!!

  • @zoejaiattoh1243
    @zoejaiattoh1243 Před 7 měsíci +3

    So y’all gonna drop that bomb and walk away 😂😂😂😂

  • @nkems_space
    @nkems_space Před 7 měsíci +1

    Sharon: we having fun 🎉🎉😂😂, got Lori Harvey on my wish liiiiiiiiist! 😂😂😂

  • @genevievearseneault1887
    @genevievearseneault1887 Před 7 měsíci

    Hey from Canada ladies! 💖💖 love the podcast so much! You girls are having me giggling alone at the gym in the morning! Definitely the highlight of my mondays! xx

  • @TaminoemiDiri
    @TaminoemiDiri Před 7 měsíci

    Beatrice,Tammy and Sharon… you guys are absolutely amazing. Superb energy and absolutely great advice. 10 across the board 🎉

  • @lashandawear2907
    @lashandawear2907 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love you ladies podcast. Please keep the episodes coming.

  • @abdulibrahim2565
    @abdulibrahim2565 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I have to comment about the men who find out they lost 'the one' years later. Sometimes, you need to venture outside to appreciate what you have at home. I can only speak from my point of view. There is that added pressure of not being ready or feeling like you are not good enough for that person at that time. That's my two cents anyway. Love the pod, keep it coming ladies. 😁

    • @ayomidedareabel5525
      @ayomidedareabel5525 Před 7 měsíci +1

      No man or woman deserves to be am afterthought. Y'all treat the girls who do the same thing like crap and insult them. Every small thing "nice guys always finish last" or "you are done picking all the bad boys" and then use the for sex only. Don't expect grace when you wouldn't do the same if you were in her shoes

  • @0AriesFire0
    @0AriesFire0 Před 7 měsíci +2

    this dilemma 😂 imagine this the only episode she doesn’t watch

  • @kkapesh
    @kkapesh Před 7 měsíci +3

    This is my first time coming across this podcast...but let me tell you girls you are absolutely amazing 😍😍 I really love this big up girls 😍😍💖 I have loved you so much

  • @user-eh1hf1dj8m
    @user-eh1hf1dj8m Před 7 měsíci +1

    Spot on advice as always ! and Looking Beautiful

  • @qxy7440
    @qxy7440 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I love that I am early for this. So excited

  • @patriciafernandez6690
    @patriciafernandez6690 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I love this podcast so much! I emailed you guys a dilemma but 48:30 made me question if it was too much tea 😂

  • @kdgem9354
    @kdgem9354 Před 7 měsíci

    I am loving these back in the days adds lady's. 😍🔥💯 Y'all bring me back I am for IT 😏 Here are some of my favs I couldn't help but share.
    J Holiday- Bed, Suffocate
    Avant- Read you mind, Makin' good love
    Keep being fabulous lady's 💜💜💜

  • @littleetor
    @littleetor Před 7 měsíci

    Love you guysss❤😊

  • @vangileseroto-mabitsela6628
    @vangileseroto-mabitsela6628 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Notification gang gang!!🤎

  • @Chatzonepodcast
    @Chatzonepodcast Před 7 měsíci

    All favs 🇯🇲❤

  • @JustShaye
    @JustShaye Před 7 měsíci +1

    Come on product placement !!!

  • @ayoolaesho9461
    @ayoolaesho9461 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Like we all know there are some men that would want to be with you, won't want to date you, and will not want to see you with another guy. I feel he's not happy with the fact that she has moved on without him being part of her tale.

  • @xxblackbellexx
    @xxblackbellexx Před 7 měsíci +2

    I feel like I can’t send in no dilemmas bc ya’ll are 10 years younger than meeeeeeeee 😂 I'm 33..

  • @Crowned_ladyd
    @Crowned_ladyd Před 6 měsíci

    He wants access to his oatmeal again and thats on Degrassi.
    I hope she sees this and blocks him again. Or lets him see her happy somewhere else

  • @flomo1334
    @flomo1334 Před 7 měsíci

    African aunty approval❤❤❤

  • @avie365
    @avie365 Před 7 měsíci +3

    She needs to ignore him. He seems like a horrible person. She’ll get hurt.

  • @blackbeaty1000
    @blackbeaty1000 Před 7 měsíci +1

    PRESENT 🙋🏾‍♀️❤

  • @thecarterfilez
    @thecarterfilez Před 7 měsíci

    can you guys have Trish from Big Brother on your podcast ?

  • @Itsmargaretta
    @Itsmargaretta Před 7 měsíci +1

    Ngl I love lori. She is not gonna settle and lower her standards. It’s like one mistake ya done. Men are evil and self centered and can only see their own self interest in things. Lori pulling their cars threatens their egos

  • @ShawnieakaLadyC
    @ShawnieakaLadyC Před 3 měsíci

    Hmmm... has he grown? Because trying to get this girl back and you're still immature and tryna live life and airing her messages sounds like he hasn't matured or grown into the man SHE needs. Also if she's the ray of sunshine for him what is he to her? He could be an inconsistent nonsense goat that she's had to heal from and doesn't want to go put herself back into that situation. I dunno man, guys always let the good girl go and then try come back later disrupting their peace because they realised too late she was the one kmt🙄😤 I say leave her alone. She needs a King that's gonna bring out her Queen energy, not someone trying to lessen her worth.

  • @Sarah.f524
    @Sarah.f524 Před 7 měsíci +3

    Tammy always looks 10/10 and her hair is alwayyyyssss on pointt😍😍