Studying abroad in Germany: My story

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • Video about our long distance story: • How we met (Story time)
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    Hi, I'm Uyen Ninh but please just call me Uyen!
    I moved from Vietnam to Germany 3 years ago for studying. I make silly videos about how Germany looks like through the eyes of a Vietnamese - on my way to be your favourite Ausländer! :D
    00:00 intro
    00:42 Why did I choose to study in Germany
    3:12 Fulfilling requirements
    4:53 Preparing for the trip
    5:22 Student life in Germany
    7:09 Studying in Germany
    8:19 What now?
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  • @HeisenbergFam
    @HeisenbergFam Před 8 měsíci +3610

    "now that I graduated idk what to do with my life" is most classic feeling after finishing college, congrats for graduating

    • @ismaela.6973
      @ismaela.6973 Před 8 měsíci +6

      Yeah I am kinda confused on that statement. Is it the point of college is to study a field you are interested in going into? Or did she use colleges as a way to stay in the country till she gets married?

    • @JedioftheRose
      @JedioftheRose Před 8 měsíci +140

      @@ismaela.6973 Just because you study a field you're interested in doesn't mean that a) there's only one career path to choose from, b) you still want to stick with the original career path that set you for a degree, or c) that there are employment opportunities for said degree immediately available. Also, accusing her of using college as a way to stay in Germany just until she gets married is kind of gross.

    • @c.m.8972
      @c.m.8972 Před 8 měsíci +53

      ​@@ismaela.6973She explained it all, didn't she? She has multiple options what to do next and hasn't made a choice yet. As she can pay her bills with her work in Social Media, she does not have to get another job anyways and could keep on doing that full time

    • @catherineallen6024
      @catherineallen6024 Před 8 měsíci

      @@ismaela.6973 it's probably both - as a couple, they're better off with Uyen studying in Germany in English with GB working in his field in Germany rather than Uyen starting her career in Vietnam with GB trying to break into his field in Vietnam. Particularly as he didn't speak the language yet! When I had a similar decision to make, we were both established in our careers, so we were choosing between taking the working-holiday visa in Australia (which would restrict my new partner's job chances significantly) and me taking a job that I'd found in Germany. Like Uyen, I originally wanted to stay in my home country, but moving to Germany was definitely the right decision. Maybe it's confusing because it's complicated: two people from very distant places want to live together and need some way of making that work financially.

    • @ismaela.6973
      @ismaela.6973 Před 8 měsíci +11

      I understand both of your views. To clarify, I wasn't trying to sound like an ass(which I do feel like you two took it to the heart). Just trying to make sense of what she was stating, especially since she studied to get a master's, no? That's a lot of dedication to not fully use your studies in the real world. For using her schooling as a way to stay in the country, I've seen a lot here in the states but that doesn't make the person a bad individual. I don't judge, unless you are doing something bad of course lol. I do wish her the best on anything she decides to do and again thank you for your insights

  • @amybugg001
    @amybugg001 Před 8 měsíci +810

    Uyen, first off ... congrats 👏 🎉
    You speak 3 languages, got a Masters degree in a foreign language, met your true love and are getting married ... and have a very successful CZcams !!
    WOW !! That's super crazy wonderful. You are successful in more ways than one.
    Again congrats to you both for making it all work, no easy feat !!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @dawnsamantha6728
    @dawnsamantha6728 Před 8 měsíci +706

    Wow! His family paid for you before even meeting you? How amazing. That shows they really trust their son’s judgment. Very cool. What a blessing. You definitely used that blessing wisely. Congratulations

    • @minonaano2763
      @minonaano2763 Před 7 měsíci

      He's a looser german women aren't interested in so they were happy at least someone wanted to be with him. They didn't knew she was just a social prostitute using them for moving to Europe.

    • @LM-he7eb
      @LM-he7eb Před 2 měsíci +5

      Riiiiiiight, that is the part that stood out for me.

  • @Marvininini
    @Marvininini Před 8 měsíci +1378

    Even as a German I can relate to the difficulty of making friends. I had lots of friends in University but then lived in Vietnam for 2 and a half years before coming back to Germany. But we now live in a new city where we know nobody and it's the same here. I make more friends with expats than with Germans because everyone here already has a solid group of friends and it's definitely hard to get in...

    • @derhauser
      @derhauser Před 8 měsíci +29

      Machs wie unser Lehrling. Der hat in der hälfte der Großstädte Freunde. Der quatscht gleichaltrige immer an der Bushaltestelle an. Haste mal Feuer, oder wo kann man hier was unternehmen? Und irgendwie schafft der das laufend neue Leute bei zu kennen. Teilweise kommen da richtig crazy Storys bei raus.

    • @vomm
      @vomm Před 8 měsíci +50

      It's easy to make friends in Germany once you realize that you just need to adjust a bit. Don't wait for others to invite you or immediately include you, but take the initiative and invite others. Share that you'd like to do this or that, like sports, but don't have anyone to join you. In a pinch, even be honest if you can't find any friends, like being open about it with your colleagues. Ask colleagues if they want to go for lunch with you or something. Sometimes you need to come out of your shell a bit more. That's all.

    • @StandAloneSoul
      @StandAloneSoul Před 8 měsíci +27

      Well, not quite everyone has already a set group of friends. I am 27 and found all of my current friends within the last 1-2 years. I literally had no friends from 2017-2021. It is hard to find others, definitely! But I just wanted to give some hope to you that there are still other lonesome people out there, since I was one of them.
      What worked for me is to focus on myself. It sounds clichee, but it worked out, because the people that are similar to me in basic things like core values and principles, viewpoint, life experience, communities of interest, etc, where mainly staying at home alone when I still was.
      I started with believing that i would eventually meet the peoole that share enough with me to agree on my understanding of morality and need of kind of social interaction naturally as long as I would work on do the things that I love and build whatever I need to be able to do that. And thats what actualky happened. I started to do therapy because that is sadly a main thing about my life since early childhood. And i went through years of it until i was open to jkin an ambulant group therapy, there i met 3 out of my 5 close friends, and the other two at a specialised clinical therapy. Im not saying go and meet people at therapy. But if you di what YOU want and need, you will meet people right there. Im sure of it.

    • @akim2154
      @akim2154 Před 8 měsíci +13

      I think it’s important to realize there are other lonely and friendless people out there too, so maybe be proactive if you want to find friends. I also don’t have many friends left since I’m married with kids, but I made a few in previous years through church or joining other organizations, and from going back to school (for nursing). The nursing program didn’t work out for me but I met some cool people that way who were eager to socialize and go out for drinks, so that was a fun experience. It also helps if you have that 1 friend or two that are proactive and always reach out to you, if you’re more reserved and introverted like me. Now, my daughter is becoming my best friend as she gets older, lol, but it definitely helps having more family around, like a sibling you’re close to, or move back to your hometown if that’s an option for you, and reconnect with some old friends maybe? Hope all the socially awkward people like me out there or just the busy people who’ve lost friends over the years/moved, etc., are able to find new and lasting friendships! 😊🙌
      And on a side note: I would tell all the younger couples who are dating or engaged, not to lose your friends because if you think you don’t have any friends now, it’s going to get much worse once you get married and have kids! Unless you make “mom friends “. 🙄Good luck, it’s a tough world out there! 😅

    • @janesmy6267
      @janesmy6267 Před 8 měsíci +9

      I find you have to excel at a hobby. They show interest in you. I think that’s a universal approach to getting close to Germans. They really respect discipline.

  • @vanessaschoettle3380
    @vanessaschoettle3380 Před 8 měsíci +1044

    I really appreciate your transparency about your life/ college:
    I returned to college at age 48: it was hard as I ruptured my Achilles, was pre menopausal (TMI😮!)and...just took my youngest child to an addiction recovery center😢
    LSS: I survived and my son has been drug free (since then!) and very healthy/successful. I've been a RN now for almost 10 yrs and wow, you inspire me.
    I love your channel and your German humor (you can see I'm German AND married a German here in the USA🇺🇸)
    Do not ever change: you are real and super smart/creative! IMA FAN❤

    • @chebtremb2244
      @chebtremb2244 Před 8 měsíci +17

      Hi, where did you study to become RN? I’m also 48 and wanting to shift career but old for actually doing it.

    • @viktoriaberg8706
      @viktoriaberg8706 Před 8 měsíci +50

      Well done! 😃 I was also 48 when I started nursing school. First semester I got cancer, then my mum-in-law died, then my best friend died, but I got through it all and now all my life lessons are serving my patients.

    • @viktoriaberg8706
      @viktoriaberg8706 Před 8 měsíci

      @@chebtremb2244 You are not too old. It´s hard but worth the struggle. Go for it! 😃

    • @vanessaschoettle3380
      @vanessaschoettle3380 Před 8 měsíci

      @@chebtremb2244 here in Ohio, USA. I attended a community college with no regrets❤ I encourage others to work on pre requisites first as it is good practice and lightens your load once you are admitted to the program. I found the community college here very receptive to 'seasoned' adults😊

    • @shaquandrawilliams448
      @shaquandrawilliams448 Před 8 měsíci

      im sorry but germans don't have humor coming from a dutch

  • @elihez1758
    @elihez1758 Před 8 měsíci +426

    The way you prepared everything before coming to Germany, like the getting all the paperwork from your university, your English certificate, the course you took for that, applying to universities - and all of that without your family knowing you even have a German boyfriend! Thats so brave and determined!

  • @timmerk7363
    @timmerk7363 Před 8 měsíci +886

    So his family gathered 10k on short notice for his foreign girlfriend to come live in Germany? That must have taken an enormous amount of trust, if a friend told me they were doing this, I would assume it is a scam. Glad it worked out though.

    • @kyoto5657
      @kyoto5657 Před 8 měsíci +19

      With Asian culture, most of the time they have extended family to back them up. Also, from the moment kids are born parents will already have savings specifically prepared for their kids college in the future.

    • @timmerk7363
      @timmerk7363 Před 8 měsíci +112

      @@kyoto5657 It was his family who gathered the money, though.

    • @kyoto5657
      @kyoto5657 Před 8 měsíci +25

      @@timmerk7363 my bad dude, clearly I misread what you wrote.

    • @minime7375
      @minime7375 Před 7 měsíci +87

      Their son was going back and forth to Vietnam for 3 years, at that point they probably felt like they need to help them move in together or their son aka “German boyfriend” would’ve had to move to Vietnam. After 3 years his parents were most likely convinced it was a serious relationship.

    • @barbsmart7373
      @barbsmart7373 Před 6 měsíci +27

      Wow, this beautiful lady moved away from her cherished family, lifestyle, and awesome culture and language to be with a German??!! He is so lucky to have such a happy, positive, popular, brave, selfsacrificing, caring, friendly, talented girlfriend.
      The family helped out for a reason. I can see he has grown a lot since being with her.
      It wasn't until she went to Switzerland before a stranger smiled at her. That had never happened in Germany.
      He gets his own way rather often, and she does many things he wants her to do. The habits are very particular and not important, but she does them. She is amazing. It is very wise of them all to support such a source of joy in their lives.

  • @karonmcgregor4753
    @karonmcgregor4753 Před 8 měsíci +82

    Uyen - as a woman who went back to school at 53 starting with my Bachelors, and getting my Masters when I turned 60, my best advice is to give yourself a well deserved break. Just chill out for the rest of this year, enjoy time with your fiance with no time restrictions anymore, and have fun on CZcams. You have a FABULOUS sense of humour with great comedic timing. If you do want to keep yourself busy for the rest of this year, start planning out your content for the channel for next year - just do stuff that's fun til next year!! Well done on the Masters - definitely deserved!!

  • @DestinyR7
    @DestinyR7 Před 8 měsíci +511

    I felt the same way after graduating college and I know it’s not uncommon. I wish more people made content on this subject. Congratulations! Excited to see what you do next

  • @tdb7992
    @tdb7992 Před 8 měsíci +160

    I'm so proud of you Uyen. I might be a dude in Australia who has never met you, but I'm still so proud of you! It's normal to be a bit scared when starting something new in life.

  • @snowdest
    @snowdest Před 8 měsíci +252

    I love how transparent you are about finances. We don't like to talk about money where I live, but recognizing your limitations and benefits is really refreshing. I'm happy that you've found some help and are grateful for it. It really shows how stable your relationship is.

  • @tapwater2237
    @tapwater2237 Před 8 měsíci +159

    Hi Uyen, I'm also a fellow Vietnamese, and I'm still in my last year of university. I've been looking for a good country to study in and have been torn for such a long time. But I found your channel, I found the mundane and normalcy I want to know when living abroad as a Vietnamese student. Thank you so much, I'm beginning to learn German and also looking for a suitable school there. It's not entirely because of you (that'd be weird), but you definitely make me feel more confident choosing Germany over other options. My future is for myself to decide but I'm glad to have you to be an inspiration and a positive influence in my life 😊

    • @susanbryant6516
      @susanbryant6516 Před 8 měsíci +12

      I hope you have a happy and successful next part of your life!

  • @hernandoandriantowillyren3259
    @hernandoandriantowillyren3259 Před 8 měsíci +14

    Studying while working + learning Germany + proficient english + building successful CZcams channel. practically a super hero!

  • @ivonne5261
    @ivonne5261 Před 8 měsíci +65

    “Im marrying him anyway” Lmao

  • @distancego8983
    @distancego8983 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Congratulations to this fellow Asian. You are doing great. Such an inspiration! Thanks for making us all smile and even laugh!

  • @cel2460
    @cel2460 Před 8 měsíci +87

    I definitely think that you did the right thing on not immediately marrying the german fiance, bcs at the time A) you might not know 100% if marriage is an option and B) should something happened, a master's degree from Germany is highly valueable in developing countries like Viet Nam. My cousin (Indonesian) was in the same situation as you, and studied in France even when her bf at the time was offering marriage. She would end up marrying her French BF but overall is satisfied with her life choices.

    • @doodahgurlie
      @doodahgurlie Před 8 měsíci +27

      Yep. Women should never depend on marriage alone as that is extremely unreliable whereas education, skills, knowledge, etc., can get you out of situations such as a nightmare marriage. LOL

  • @callitags
    @callitags Před 8 měsíci +81

    My husband, who's Norwegian, moved to the states to be with me via a student visa at first, and while it wasn't quite as involved as what you had to do, listening to your process brought back some old memories of waiting for paperwork, wondering if things would work out, all the stress and anticipation. I'm glad you're sharing your stories. 🙂

  • @UntotesSchaf
    @UntotesSchaf Před 8 měsíci +60

    I remember after master graduation I sat together with two friends. I didn't really get it yet when it suddenly came over me and I said full of surprise: "I'm free!" But what to do next was not really a question since I already was working in a full-time job. It was so much pressure which all of a sudden went away.
    Congratulations Uyen! It's a really great achievement!

  • @Coracle-GmbH
    @Coracle-GmbH Před 8 měsíci +29

    Hi Uyen,
    Coracle here, as we are dedicated to supporting students moving abroad, it is so great to see your honest video about your time here showing all of the highs and lows, its the beauty called life! We will be following along to see where life takes you next and wish you the best of luck!.

  • @anitas5817
    @anitas5817 Před 8 měsíci +72

    Everyone has different talents and strengths. Not everyone fits perfectly into the academic student mold. You are obviously very very intelligent but also very artistic and creative, and now you have successfully completed a graduate degree! You will find your way! It isn’t easy figuring out life, especially in a new culture. Enjoyed the chat!!

  • @natroxy295
    @natroxy295 Před 8 měsíci +16

    I admire you. You survived being on the another continent, surrounded by such a different culture and language, away from everything and everyone familiar. You took the best from the both worlds and made a lucrative business. If I were you, I would celebrate myself 🥰 Good luck, you can achive anything you set your mind on 🍀

  • @rfugy
    @rfugy Před 8 měsíci +15

    Congratulations on your hard work. My wife and I wish you continued success in whatever you may want to pursue. We are happy that you are going to be sticking around and doing more social media like you have been doing as we have thoroughly enjoyed your channel.

  • @barba5537
    @barba5537 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Sounds like boyfriends family are absolute treasures.
    Supporting you both ..
    What a blessing. !

  • @passaro1791
    @passaro1791 Před 8 měsíci +70

    YOU DID IT!!!❤ du kannst so stolz auf dich sein!

  • @marvinsantana
    @marvinsantana Před 8 měsíci +22

    Congrats Uyen 🥳🎊🍾
    Honestly all the options you laid out for yourself sound wonderful. You have so many options now and you'll forever be able to say you have a masters degree. But who says you have to limit yourself? You can do ALL those things because your future is limitless now! I just hope us viewers get to see your next goals in life!

  • @mihaelapadurean5344
    @mihaelapadurean5344 Před 8 měsíci +19

    Congratulations lovely human! Enjoy the feeling of having accomplished yet another goal. Your channel is so refreshing, warm, informative and real. I can relate to not knowing what to do after graduating (14 years later and I still don't know). But considering you have been working all those years - whether creating content or other jobs, you will do great. On a more selfish note: more time for content creation and your viewers so yeyyeye! Take care, the both of you and wishing you all the best! Ohhh, and not to forget: congratulations on getting married and good luck with all the preparations! :)

  • @MM-TheEnd
    @MM-TheEnd Před 8 měsíci +5

    Congratulations on successfully overcoming so many obstacles and completing your masters and lots of luck for your future endevours. May your fiancé and you forever be happy together. You are an inspiration!

  • @jennk3ladybugs647
    @jennk3ladybugs647 Před 8 měsíci +89

    Thank you for sharing your experiences with German university. My sons are currently learning German and hope to study over there when they graduate high school (sorry I am unsure what it is called universally, in the US it is high school). Your channel helps me to understand what their life will be like. Thank you for sharing your world with us.

    • @KarMa-ws3ll
      @KarMa-ws3ll Před 8 měsíci +12

      Hi, die you check entry requirements for German universities? A USD usually does not qualify. Only under certain conditions (3.0 Average as well as regarding certain academic units) can you apply for Studienkolleg which is the 1 year prep for entering the university programm. If they are in high school now,it's worth it to make sure these requirements are fulfilled. Check the anabin system for more info.

    • @user-df2ue1tw2r
      @user-df2ue1tw2r Před 8 měsíci +8

      I would recommend looking into the difference between "university" and "university of applied science" and what that means for degree equivalences with US, in case they want to go back to the US afterwards. This is super important as not all degrees are recognised in all countries in the same way. As uyen said, the applied one is more practical while university is really very academic.

  • @lucy8950
    @lucy8950 Před 8 měsíci +19

    Congratulations on your degree! Bravo for your hard work and persistence. Your education is a treasure that stays with you your entire life.

  • @Claudia_K.
    @Claudia_K. Před 8 měsíci +17

    Having graduated 15 years ago in the UK with a Master’s Degree I do not need any information on studying in Germany, however you’re so enganging and bubbly, I can’t miss any of your videos! Congrats! 🎓

  • @RobynChattopadhyay-ng8eh
    @RobynChattopadhyay-ng8eh Před 8 měsíci +1

    Uyen, your personality is just amazing. I hope you keep making content. There is purity and sweetness - and warmth and fun that you bring. All your followers probably leave with a smile as soon as they see your content.

  • @maurinedknyantika2289
    @maurinedknyantika2289 Před 8 měsíci +30

    Congratulations Uyen for yet another achievement in academics after your CZcams placard.
    You keep accomplishing things because your personality is easy going.
    Your english is better thanine in so many ways, despite it being my second language.
    God bless your German boyfriend and family for helping you settle in and now to your getting married eventually.
    Looking forward to see more and more of your fun videos.

  • @hufflepuffwannabe
    @hufflepuffwannabe Před 8 měsíci +6

    I love this video! I need this so much right now. I finished undergrad and I have no idea what I’m doing or what to do next. I really appreciate hearing the details of your masters application process as well as your struggles now. Thanks for making this video!

  • @brendabrownen6684
    @brendabrownen6684 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I so enjoy your content. You seem to be such a kind, honest person.
    Congratulations to you on your major life-change!
    I’m living a bit vicariously through your steps. This is a 1/2 American and 1/2 Deutschland girl. I understand your trials.
    Go girl!! 👍

  • @annavetrova8200
    @annavetrova8200 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Congrats! You've accomplished a major goal, feeling lost and needing time figure out the way is so natural. Thanks for sharing!

  • @joyceloyoutube
    @joyceloyoutube Před 8 měsíci +3

    I love listening to your life updates. It's feel like facetiming my friends from home country and they are sharing their life with me regardless the distance

  • @apples113
    @apples113 Před 8 měsíci +27

    I can really feel your passion about GPA. Thanks for being so honest and transparent about your life and experiences

  • @tessfairbridge
    @tessfairbridge Před 8 měsíci +91

    When I decided to do a MA after my BA and didn't think my GPA was high enough, I went back to do a few courses in the area of my MA to get good grades, meet the profs, and ensure it was the right program for me.
    I also thought I would never go back to school but a year and a half later I went back to college just for a certificate program and now (8 years post MA) I am applying to a PhD 😅

    • @betaririzqikaer2451
      @betaririzqikaer2451 Před 8 měsíci +1

      May i ask, how do you do the courses? From online courses or from university?

    • @barbsmart7373
      @barbsmart7373 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@betaririzqikaer2451No reply, that's strange. Maybe studying is the goal, not interacting with humans.

  • @kaipika
    @kaipika Před 7 měsíci +2

    Congrats!!! I glad you're continuing with social media cause I can't wait to watch more of your videos!

  • @LiterallyJustAnActualPotato
    @LiterallyJustAnActualPotato Před 8 měsíci

    I’m not shy to admit I’m super happy about the idea of you doing social media full time! I could watch your videos all day! 🥰

  • @AICoffeeBreak
    @AICoffeeBreak Před 8 měsíci +27

    Thanks a lot for sharing your story. Congratulations for making it so far! 🎉

  • @elinoreolsson4042
    @elinoreolsson4042 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Congratulations on completing your degree and thank you for another lovely video! I just started my masters degree (in Sweden) and I really felt that "I never want to study again!!!" after doing my bachelor's thesis... not very excited about my master's thesis but I am feeling inspired by your journey so I will use that as motivation!! I hope you and German boyfriend have a great fall and winter, I'm sure everything will work out for you in the end. 🍂🍁🌸

  • @acropora8
    @acropora8 Před 8 měsíci

    I absolutely LOVEE these longer videos

  • @amandadawn8603
    @amandadawn8603 Před 8 měsíci

    I randomly came across a video of yours one day, and now I watch quite often. I always feel like I’m listening to a friend. I hope whatever your next step in life is that it brings you happiness.

  • @Mickiwalk
    @Mickiwalk Před 8 měsíci +17

    🎉 Congratulations on your graduation!🎉
    I love the way you introduce the cultures of the countries you are in. Now that you have more time, would you ever consider teaching a beginning Vietnamese class on CZcams?
    Wishing you much happiness in your future!

    • @JDignum
      @JDignum Před 6 měsíci +1

      Good idea about the Vietnamese class.

  • @Nicki13Lover
    @Nicki13Lover Před 8 měsíci +23

    While my masters degree can transfer over many fields, I am definitely not doing what I expected when I first graduated. But three years later, I'm making more money, getting more responsibilities, and moving my career along in away I couldn't imagine. I'm convinced that "knowing what we're supposed to do for the rest of our lives" is not how people actually live their lives. Plus there's more to life than work!
    Congrats on graduating!

    • @sincerely4702
      @sincerely4702 Před 8 měsíci +1

      That’s great! I’m 25 and I’m so confused with my life right now… can you please share how you found your own path?

  • @saeedawalimohammed1776
    @saeedawalimohammed1776 Před 8 měsíci +14

    Uyen Ninh, big congratulations! As someone who has worked in higher ed my whole life, what you are experiencing is very normal. But you shouldn't worry. It's very clear that you are a talented self-starter. Look at the success of your You Tube channel. Remain your authentic self, as you do in the videos you post, and you will go far in life. Also, your BF seems very supportive and caring. Along with such a good partner, you will accomplish much!

  • @gammabase
    @gammabase Před 8 měsíci +2

    It’s great listening to you while I’m cooking in the kitchen,,live long and prosper

  • @MMat-bs1qs
    @MMat-bs1qs Před 8 měsíci +3

    You are very humble. You are also very kind. Wishing you the very best.

  • @elle12390
    @elle12390 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Says the girl with over a million followers! Girl you’re a successful youtuber!

  • @thonghiem7635
    @thonghiem7635 Před 5 měsíci

    dein Video hift mir so viel, denn Ich kann die Motivation von dir finden. Danke!!

  • @samishkasingh8123
    @samishkasingh8123 Před 8 měsíci

    Thankyou for the honesty and sharing your thoughts openly Uyen, really appreciate it ❤

  • @zfwuyashi9546
    @zfwuyashi9546 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Really impressive by hearing your story. A lot of likes here from berlin. You will have everything amazingly done no what you do❤

  • @hostalbelllloc1734
    @hostalbelllloc1734 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Congrats Uyen. It must to be so so difficult to achieve that goal in such a different country from yours. It was tough for me eventhough I got my degree in my own country.
    Now I'm thinking on moving to German because its beautiful landscape. But the difficulty of making friends and learning a good-to-go german is dtoping me.
    Your sincerity about everything helps a lot. Thaaaank you

  • @beatrizcazorla419
    @beatrizcazorla419 Před 8 měsíci

    You did it girl! And I'm proud! always happy to see women accomplishing great things *-*

  • @michala2636
    @michala2636 Před 8 měsíci +2

    I totally felt the lost with purpose after I got done studying for my CPA. The world is your oyster, just focus on what makes you happy and keep making videos, we love your adventures!

  • @TastySchu4
    @TastySchu4 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Congratulations on graduating girl! I remember that exact feeling of, now what? But that was many years ago. I love this video, and it will be helpful to those who want to go to school there. You are always so honest & fun. Thanks for just being you girl 😁💕🩷

  • @fernberger6311
    @fernberger6311 Před 8 měsíci +6

    You found your niche in social media. CZcams pays you a small income. We Americans are fascinated about other countries and how people live. The differences between two very different cultures.
    That's why I watch you. Short at times funny and informative.

  • @daliamendoza7861
    @daliamendoza7861 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Congrats Uyen!!🎉 follow your passion 🫶

  • @ivikiwi06
    @ivikiwi06 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Congratulations on graduating! I'm looking forward to the content to come now that you can do this full time! I wish you the greatest success, you deserve it!

  • @christinabuesch3196
    @christinabuesch3196 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Congratulations Uyen!! It is really impressive what you have accomplished and you can be so proud of yourself. Me and my husband love your videos :D

  • @chilltarts
    @chilltarts Před 8 měsíci +8

    Congratulations on your graduation!!! You worked so hard and so long to achieve this goal! As for my humble opinion, I do recommend staying in the “working environment”, even if it’s just something part time. Social media is awesome while it’s generating income, but you can never know what to expect, and as you move forward in life (considering children or family trips and the like) having that reliable income will mean so much. Also it gives you something to fall back on (and keeps your job skills up to date). But most of all, just know that you don’t have to make these decisions alone. You have a wonderful partner who loves you and supports you. The TWO OF YOU need to sit down and figure out what looks best for your current life and your future goals together. I know whatever you guys choose will be just right for the journey you both are on.
    Xoxo ❤,
    a random fan

  • @nz7921
    @nz7921 Před 8 měsíci

    Yeah!! A long video with Uyen!!! Liked it even before viewing it❤

  • @Miminini79
    @Miminini79 Před 8 měsíci

    You are so brave!😍 a month to breaks the news to your family and organize everything and figure everything out. Today you bring inspiration and is bringing so much fun to our lives! I wish you a blessed life!❤

  • @jneill
    @jneill Před 8 měsíci +54

    I also felt lost after graduating university, especially when i finished my Master. The feeling of being lost will disappear after a while. Be proud of yourself! You've graduated :)

  • @adamcrapple6089
    @adamcrapple6089 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Yeah du bist einfach die coolste!! Viel Glück Dir und soon to be german husband für alles in der Zukunft!! Dein positiver, authentischer und oft mega witziger Content ist für mich eine unglaublich wertvolle Bereicherung in diesen sonst eher düsteren Zeiten. Herzlichen dank dafür und rock on!!!❤️🤘

  • @MsLila1507
    @MsLila1507 Před 8 měsíci

    I love your long videos, Uyen! Thank you.

  • @eternalriver7866
    @eternalriver7866 Před 7 měsíci

    This was such a blessing to hear just a modicum of what your life has been like in Germany. I’m considering moving there and this was very helpful. All the best to you and thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @conigliana
    @conigliana Před 8 měsíci +4

    Girl, congrats!!! 🎉🎉 Don't worry about feeling a bit aimless right after the graduation, you live in an amazing country full of opportunities, you will figure stuff out. Sending you love ❤

  • @KS-lo7se
    @KS-lo7se Před 8 měsíci +3

    You are so precious! I retired from working at one of two land grant Universities in Texas. I had the pleasure of working with Undergrads, grads and post grads. Granted, this isn't International Studies, but I think your experience had many similarities to the students I knew. I also taught Elementary School for years before going into Higher Ed. I absolutely admire your tenacity and your sense of adventure. Major life changes come with anxiety and I've found the slow and thoughtful approach can yield very positive results. Also, take time to honestly enjoy everything around you. There were years where I didn't have that chance because life was FAR too hectic. Congratulations on a monumental achievement! Well Done.

  • @SonjaMGFX
    @SonjaMGFX Před 8 měsíci

    Love your insight on German student life. Keep going, you can do it! I’d love to see more long form videos like this, it’s really interesting.

  • @maryjaycena1593
    @maryjaycena1593 Před 8 měsíci

    Congratulations on achieving your goal of graduating! Let that sink in and yes try things that make you happy. 🎉

  • @angelinesim1006
    @angelinesim1006 Před 8 měsíci +21

    Congratulations, Uyen on your success in studies and life in Germany so far! I know the struggles myself, been living here for 12 years! Give yourself a pat on the back. Take your time to plan your next steps as, in Germany it´s not so easy to change Beruf so easily once you are settled in one. Dont worry about german friends, I have been living here for 12 years and I can´t say I have any REAL german friends. Lots of good german acquaintances but not really friends, definitely not like those back home. It´s a normal experience for many of us foreigners and, you know, it´s OK.
    Maybe if you haven´t had your german driving licence yet, you could think of getting one. It´s very useful especially when you have children later. All the best in your next steps. Hope you won´t give up social media in a long time as watching your videos always make me smile.

  • @andreatonz6078
    @andreatonz6078 Před 8 měsíci +5

    Liebe uyen für dein Master Abschluss und ich wünsche alles alles Gute für deine Zukunft alles Liebe von Andrea ein grosser Fan von dir aus der Schweiz du machst tolle Videos❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

  • @soapypancakex2692
    @soapypancakex2692 Před 8 měsíci

    Uyenn whatever you decide to do in life we support and are very proud of you and dont give up on us because we love your content ❤

  • @kathleenpriestman553
    @kathleenpriestman553 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am only watching this now, after discovering and enjoying your more recent content.
    Congratulations, you have much to celebrate!

  • @user-hv6ee4yf8o
    @user-hv6ee4yf8o Před 8 měsíci +3

    Thank you for sharing your experience with your studying :) Congratulations on your graduation!!🎉🎉🎉

  • @symbelmine
    @symbelmine Před 8 měsíci +3

    HI Uyen, it's absolutely normal to feel lost after such a challenging and focused time if your life! It's just a sign that something new is starting :) I'm sure you'll do great. I'm moving out from academia in Germany after not only a PhD but also a postdoc, and I have the same strange feeling. You get used to it once you notice that always better things come afterwards :) You're incredibly grounded for your age, highly functional and everyone likes you clearly, so I wouldn't worry too much

  • @daynatyhurst3750
    @daynatyhurst3750 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Congratulations on graduating!! I love your videos, thank you for sharing your journey with us! The videos comparing the German & Vietnamese cultures are my favorite, I love learning about both.

  • @doris2793
    @doris2793 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Many congratulations!!! Graduating school is a huge achievement 🎉👍
    Honestly I love your channel you are candid and balanced giving pros and cons for people to think about and at the same time you have a feel good personality that is so uplifting.

  • @maryalicemeaneymeaney4551
    @maryalicemeaneymeaney4551 Před 8 měsíci +3

    It might be a confusing time, but please remember all that you have accomplished! So so many people just give up and think that their circumstances are permanent, but you just keep plowing ahead and it's so much fun to watch. You have a great sense of humor that transcends different cultures. Congratulations on your graduation! What is your degree?

  • @annafink6217
    @annafink6217 Před 8 měsíci +16

    Congratulation! I can't imagine how hard it is to study in a country abroad. My language learning skills are very limited (i try to learn french and even after more than a year of daily exercises it is still very poor) so i'm deeply impressed of your courage, resilience and humour. I enjoy your videos/shorts very much! Thank you for sharing your experience and point of views!

  • @haveyougotyourtowel
    @haveyougotyourtowel Před 8 měsíci

    I always enjoy all of your videos and watch most of them multiple times. Thanks for all you do!

  • @xaresv
    @xaresv Před 5 měsíci

    I love your honesty and how you keep things real. Now you are free, just enjoy it for a while 🎉

  • @Damage_Inc
    @Damage_Inc Před 8 měsíci +3

    Uyen I hope you figure out what you want to do and I hope CZcams is one of those things so we can continue to watch your journey. A Vietnam vlog or even a popup store would be interesting to see!

  • @ButacuPpucatuB
    @ButacuPpucatuB Před 8 měsíci +6

    I really appreciate hearing your uni journey. I think it’s okay to not know what to do after graduating. You will find your path soon. And personally, I think some of your path is here on CZcams. You bring laughter and good thoughtful conversations to us. You’re inspiring the next generation 🧡🧡🧡🧡 I’m so glad I subscribed to your channel 🥰

  • @jyf.7551
    @jyf.7551 Před 8 měsíci

    You’re my favourite social media creator at the moment! Congrats again on meeting your goals and best of luck for the future 🎉

  • @IloveJesusChristNowandForever

    Congratulations. Your channel is so relatable. I hope you keep up the social media. Always look forward to your hilarious content.

  • @julesheart4784
    @julesheart4784 Před 8 měsíci +12

    I’m still shocked by the 10000 requirement... luckily you managed! Interesting recap of your experience and very useful for everyone who’d like to study in Germany. After my master’s degree I felt exactly the same, I was DONE with studying like “please never show me a book again” and quite lost, it’s nice to see that we’re not alone!
    Congrats for the big milestone 🎉 and I’m happy you’ll keep making videos, they are the perfect mix of funny and informative!

    • @Engy_Wuck
      @Engy_Wuck Před 8 měsíci +5

      you don't actually need that money, but you have to show you can afford your living expenses including medical insurance, housing, ...
      So if you manage to show your parents have enough income, you show a stipend by someone who is well-known, you get someone in germany to guarantee he pays what's needed if you run out of money or sth like that you won't need that money beforehand.
      The amount is based upon what a german student can get at maximum as a sort-of-loan from the government (Bafög) to allow them to study if their parents are not well-off. That's 934€ at the moment or 11.208€ per year. Since a german student is expected to need that amount of money to survive it's only logical to expect foreign students to show they have the same amount. Also you may live from that amount - but only so that you always have enough money to live the remainder of the year.

    • @ManiyaVinas
      @ManiyaVinas Před 5 měsíci

      Same for Austria
      I knew a woman from georgia (not the us state) who just have her father beg a friend to lend them the money just for her show the bureaucrat she can afford it before sending it back

  • @iepthanh5413
    @iepthanh5413 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Những lo lắng bình thường của những con người bình thường, cám ơn vì những chia sẻ thật lòng này. Đồng cảm vô cùng 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @sps7959
    @sps7959 Před 8 měsíci

    Congratulations!!! It is so nice to follow your and your bf's life!

  • @shelbystorme
    @shelbystorme Před 8 měsíci

    Congratulations Uyen!
    You are an inspiration. Don't worry, you'll figure out what you want to do!

  • @voyance4elle
    @voyance4elle Před 8 měsíci +3

    Your nerdy wall with all the figurines and books have me a big big smile 😁 and it's so true what you Said: closing a big life chapter can evole strong feelings (feeling confused, lost or other things)

  • @siriuslyunsirius
    @siriuslyunsirius Před 8 měsíci +3

    so proud of you uyen!! your entire journey has been such an inspiration to people and you bring a smile to everyone’s faces

  • @Magical_Thinking
    @Magical_Thinking Před 5 měsíci

    Oh my goodness, you are so delightful! Keep making your CZcams videos they’re really great!

  • @RFMvids70
    @RFMvids70 Před 8 měsíci

    Your perseverance paid off; CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 👏 🎉

  • @helenvarv1543
    @helenvarv1543 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Congratulations for your graduation!! You studied in a different country, away from family and friends, had your lectures in a different language than yours (English) and at the same time you were learning that country's language (German). And you did it!! Wow!! You did an amazing job, be proud of yourself!!!

  • @fiora5643
    @fiora5643 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Your story shows everyone how sometimes life has a plan for us even we don’t see coming. Your resilience and love and talent for sharing your life with the world in a comedic way have opened and will open so many doors for you.

  • @ryusmm928
    @ryusmm928 Před 8 měsíci +1

    You're such a blessing, Uyen! Your videos make me so happy! Please make more wholesome and meaningful videos 🤗🤗

  • @perveezm8535
    @perveezm8535 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you Uyen.. .we need more people like you in this world....i feel so humbled and privileged to know about your experiences.
    Thank you for sharing.. we also have grown with you ❤❤