Living Interracial: Paul and Jessica Vallet

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  • čas přidán 13. 07. 2024
  • Paul and Jessica Vallet were married on July 3, 2010. Paul is 29 years older than Jessica, but says that he has been waiting on her all of his life.

Komentáře • 227

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 Před 8 lety +60

    Wow the look of disappointment and disgust on the faces of some of the women in the background of the wedding picture is so real smh

  • @rorschach162
    @rorschach162 Před 8 lety +83

    This can work even with age difference. She loves him. He loves her. Some women love older, wise and mature men.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +3

      rorschach162
      Some younger men want to benefit from expertise of an older then them woman avoid drama, game playing , insecurities etc🤜🏻🤛🏾

    • @OBIANUJUAKU
      @OBIANUJUAKU Před 5 lety

      I am one of those women

    • @OBIANUJUAKU
      @OBIANUJUAKU Před 5 lety

      I prefare older men.

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 Před 4 lety

      @WusPopN Mane? And? White women and biracial women use rich black males for money all the time. Why is it okay for other women to want a man that's a provider but when black women do it then it's bad???? FOH

  • @somerealshit
    @somerealshit Před 10 lety +60

    I cried watching this video. Because this reminds me of my husband and I.. I love my husband so much..My husband is the same age and I will be 25 next year.What a beautiful couple. This truly inspired me, Im in love with my husband alll over again. I wish you all the best!

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +4

      Klove xoxo oh Gosh!
      You too?!
      I thought I’m a softy ...LoL
      It is beautiful!

    • @Sergio-fu7mv
      @Sergio-fu7mv Před 4 lety +4

      Don’t worry! Love is love. We’re all of the human race. That’s it.

  • @mariefrazier9920
    @mariefrazier9920 Před 5 lety +19

    Have to say, I’ve watched many of these interracial relationship videos, this is the most fascinating one because of the lessons about overcoming resistance from family and friends.

  • @antunesiaharris32
    @antunesiaharris32 Před 5 lety +24

    Every person deserves to have their happiness. Thanks Sis! Blessings to you both.

  • @MsTemptation
    @MsTemptation Před 10 lety +15

    Your wife has an old soul. I am so happy for both of you.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes she does gmhave an old soul and was so drawn to her. Congratulations on your marriage!

  • @angel29616
    @angel29616 Před 5 lety +17

    He said he had been waiting on her all his life...WOW!!😭💖

  • @HOUSEOFHONL
    @HOUSEOFHONL Před 3 lety +12

    This is pretty much our story so I can relate: interracial age gap marriage. God bless you two.

  • @leolaanifowoshe3024
    @leolaanifowoshe3024 Před 5 lety +15

    People are haters. Shes a grown woman..she knows what she wants. He clearly adores her. That's all that matters.

  • @amiiwhite8602
    @amiiwhite8602 Před 8 lety +16

    After ALL is said and done, I BELIEVE IN LOVE! Thanks this concludes all things for me!

  • @paulkendal1
    @paulkendal1 Před 8 lety +23

    really beautiful couple- so happy for them. I wish them the best of luck !

  • @glenbutler9611
    @glenbutler9611 Před 6 lety +6

    Beautiful Love Story!! "Persistence overcomes resistance" That's a classic phrase that needs to be patented somehow.. May God continue to bless their lives, love, and their families..

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +1

      Glen Butler I love the quote as well .
      The other one is “ you don’t marry you want to be with but you marry someone you can’t be without “
      🤟🏽

  • @reshemaewerse4022
    @reshemaewerse4022 Před 8 lety +19

    I am still in love with my husband after 9 years.We are best friends in every sense of the word.Even if we fight it never lasts long because we can't avoid that we are "besties".Guess what? he is 54 and I'm 33 and I can't keep up with him.Age says nnnnnnnnnnnoooooting!...only love respect and happiness!

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety

      Reshema Ewerse
      You have made me cry laugh and encouraged me to keep staying on the course of my love to my African love . He is younger but I’m the burst of energy and flash of light . He is the calm after the storm, the desert after a meal chocolate warm and mellow . Yum 😋!
      Best of love to your relationship !

  • @cdropable
    @cdropable Před 6 lety +6

    Great story. Paul, you express yourself very well.

  • @Sankines
    @Sankines Před 9 lety +11

    Wow! Brought tears to my eyes. How can anyone fault their love? This world :/

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 Před 8 lety +15

    People let things like age and skin color block them from connecting with people who can bring so much positivity into their lives. A black or white person could meet someone who shares the same interests as them but because the person isn't the same race or a certain age they'll think it won't work. That's bull.

    • @brendacarter4389
      @brendacarter4389 Před 3 lety +1

      If u find true love, go for it, chase it. Opportunity knocks once, don't let race stop you. See future happiness and not color.

  • @mrmagniffy
    @mrmagniffy Před 4 lety +2

    It is Good to see what King said for the content of character rather than the color of skin very nice!

  • @ceili540
    @ceili540 Před 10 lety +6

    I Love It, and I give Paul credit for being persistent, she's Beautiful and she has a beautiful smile.

  • @valeriegrimes8337
    @valeriegrimes8337 Před 10 lety +2

    You guys said exactly what is in my heart. Thank you.

  • @sarahharper21
    @sarahharper21 Před 10 lety +6

    Wow what an amazing relationship despite all those against you guys. Love is stronger than anything. You guys look beautiful together!

  • @rishona123456789
    @rishona123456789 Před 11 lety +3

    I love the fact, that you said, you have been waiting on her, all your life. You are a beautiful couple, regardless of the age difference. Love does not have an age, nor does it knows, the color of your skin. You both said, some positive things, and I like the idea, that you love each other, no matter what, others might think. May you have many more happy times together, being as one.

  • @neonelishuax1962
    @neonelishuax1962 Před 8 lety +25

    Well this was pretty coo. I wish this handsome couple the best.

  • @jurrisaddler8427
    @jurrisaddler8427 Před 4 lety

    thanks for sharing your story inspirational.

  • @AT.inbetween
    @AT.inbetween Před 5 lety +1

    I love your story!

  • @FX3user
    @FX3user Před 11 lety +2

    Simply incredible. I wish happiness for both of you.

  • @trice1456
    @trice1456 Před 5 lety +2

    I really like these videos they show the reality of interracial relationships/marriages it give hope and provide truth these couples truth

  • @dewalt7669
    @dewalt7669 Před 8 lety +12

    AWESOME COUPLE. SWEET

  • @wilmababygirl5629
    @wilmababygirl5629 Před 4 lety +2

    This world is soooo SAD I wish them nothing but the best People need to stop hating and love 1 another god love all his children REAL TALK 2020💖💖💕

  • @ismailmusa5598
    @ismailmusa5598 Před 4 lety +1

    Beautiful family, I'm happy for you guys, lots of love from Nigeria

  • @polasal0088
    @polasal0088 Před 6 lety +7

    Love is we need. Age is just a number. Jessica mentioned that her family already predicted that she would marry a white man who is perhaps older than her. So for both of them to be together, it's already predestined . May God your family.

  • @nyag1764
    @nyag1764 Před 6 měsíci +2

    He thought she was going to steal his phone. I'm done.

  • @royroberts1475
    @royroberts1475 Před 4 lety +1

    LOVE IT!!!

  • @sonyahferris5510
    @sonyahferris5510 Před 10 lety +8

    How beautiful!!!

  • @Nerobella2006
    @Nerobella2006 Před 10 lety +3

    Powerful

  • @Yemms
    @Yemms Před 10 lety +3

    Wow!! Amazing,...

  • @MrTubarr
    @MrTubarr Před 10 lety +8

    I think more people could find love if they wouldn't focus so much on little things such as race...

  • @jappiemutezo4377
    @jappiemutezo4377 Před rokem

    Love this

  • @kayzon7
    @kayzon7 Před 10 lety +2

    May the universal love continue to teach us valuable lessons of life, through the experience of those who love with their whole heart, mind and soul.

  • @Yasmine1962
    @Yasmine1962 Před 10 lety +7

    Sweet!

  • @dumilegugushe7523
    @dumilegugushe7523 Před 6 lety +2

    Love is amazing.

  • @lilymax1297
    @lilymax1297 Před 5 lety +6

    The main challenge for them is not race but age difference. He could be her father.

  • @cheybroad106
    @cheybroad106 Před 3 lety

    That's so special. Happy Life💖

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl Před 8 lety +5

    the age difference is more concerning than the race difference, but in the end, the heart loves who it loves. i cannot help but think of Monsters Ball.

  • @hanankuehnle8857
    @hanankuehnle8857 Před 10 lety +13

    Wow!!!It's not so much a race issue for me here but the age difference is like....29 years!!!I'm in love with a young woman who is 26 years old and I am 45 so I guess it can work can it?You guys give me hope indeed!!!...

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 Před 9 lety +4

      Dating really young women is weird. You should probably try to find someone who is at least 30

    • @strongwoman2575
      @strongwoman2575 Před 5 lety

      Hanan Kuehnle sure you can

    • @ltalib6436
      @ltalib6436 Před 3 lety

      My grandfather was 32 years older than my grandmother, they were happily married and had 8 children. Wishing you both many years of happiness.

    • @ltalib6436
      @ltalib6436 Před 3 lety

      Oh and they were interracial 🙂

  • @eleanorgreen9780
    @eleanorgreen9780 Před 3 měsíci

    Saw this years ago and fell in love with them. Now 2024 the story still touches my heart.

  • @MSNOLLY1
    @MSNOLLY1 Před 6 lety +4

    Love is love . Age as long as it’s legal shouldn’t matter .

  • @giftmathebula4275
    @giftmathebula4275 Před rokem

    God bless you too 👏

  • @theleslieirving
    @theleslieirving Před 5 lety +2

    What a loving story.

  • @mounbakko5871
    @mounbakko5871 Před 5 lety +2

    ... the spirit of the LOVINGS visibly resides in you...

  • @sandiwalker8007
    @sandiwalker8007 Před rokem

    God bless you both.

  • @scarvega5189
    @scarvega5189 Před 5 lety +1

    Beautiful.

  • @marianserra8371
    @marianserra8371 Před 4 lety

    So sweet.

  • @mrswilliamstoyou3325
    @mrswilliamstoyou3325 Před 10 měsíci

    That is so sweet.

  • @dalegrays8053
    @dalegrays8053 Před 5 měsíci

    That's So Beautiful 🎉🎉🎉😅😅😊😊😊i!Thats genuine LOve You're Both Beautiful Couple from the Love of because GOD is Love and he wants All Creation to b Happy!! Again Congratulations Be Blessed

  • @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv
    @PARALEECulbert-kz6qv Před 5 měsíci

    Hello I'm late on this video but what it comes down to is the next best thing in life to you'll is Peace of mind and if you have that nothing can stop you❤.

  • @tecumsheaholmes9064
    @tecumsheaholmes9064 Před 3 lety

    You are right, you can’t live without the woman you truly love.

  • @ColRusSer
    @ColRusSer Před 5 lety +1

    Sooo sweeeet!💓

  • @maddiec7888
    @maddiec7888 Před 7 lety +2

    love works out everything, doesn't it.

  • @babyzorilla
    @babyzorilla Před 6 lety +3

    Best of luck to them

  • @Rishonable
    @Rishonable Před 4 měsíci

    Can we have an update on this lovely couple ?

  • @TheBrownIsland
    @TheBrownIsland Před 10 lety +2

    This is so Cute.

  • @GWENgb3B
    @GWENgb3B Před 10 lety

    beautiful

  • @jessicaaudate
    @jessicaaudate Před 5 lety +1

    That was one of the sweetest man I will never meet.

  • @ruthsrants8308
    @ruthsrants8308 Před 7 lety +3

    i like them

  • @gratitude5740
    @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +1

    You just made me cryyyy......damn!
    Your story is full of love courage humour wisdom, sadness the whole emotional shining !
    I am dating a man who is Tanzanian and loves there .
    I am Caucasian living in Canada .
    His family accepted me from the day he said he has a girlfriend in Canada . His parents wanted to see me on Skype the very weekend . I must add that I am 19 years older than him. His partners may hafe a little stirred up feelings about my age. Perhaps they want their son to marry someone younger and I understand them. Africans want big families and we won’t have our own children. I have a son and he has his . If we get married and remain stable we can adopt if he wishes to do so .
    I trickled the information to my family that I have a romantic feelings to a black man across the word in Africa. My sister was shocked , my nieces cautioned me that he wants to come and get his status in Canada then leave me . My son seems to be ok but he is the kind of man that holds his emotions within. He speaks to him from time to time briefly.
    I know that I may get some resistance from family and friends but I feel I need to do this for myself and follow my feelings . I love him . I decided to trust him and God . We date with a purpose to marry not to just kill time we don’t have . We date constructively discussing serious matters and creating scenarios. I am getting information from marriage counsellors, pastors and psychologists. I want to do this right .
    If we go the way we are, this older white woman may marry the younger black man .
    ( I can’t say I’ve ever dreamt about this as al little girl . I had never seen a dark colour skin person till I came to Canada as a grown up )

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach1971 Před 5 lety +1

    Their was a girl in the gym that had a crush on me. She was 22 years younger than me. I said young pretty but way too young for me. I'm glad she got the hint and kept it movin. No one will every accuse me of being some dirty old man like this dude.

  • @bhathornbarnes
    @bhathornbarnes Před 3 měsíci

    Persistence overcomes resistance

  • @TheNiloticEmpress
    @TheNiloticEmpress Před 8 lety +7

    I am 35 he is 49 :)

  • @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI
    @H.R.H-Amina_Bin_Shafiq-SHAKTI Před 5 měsíci +2

    He was STALKING Her and thats NOT NORMAL

  • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
    @user-ep4jo1ev3j Před 9 lety +14

    Not so sure about the age gap though

  • @Kiki-837
    @Kiki-837 Před 5 lety +3

    There is no problem with age, what profit does it have to be with a young man and full of problems. If she is happy thats what matters

  • @imankamara2766
    @imankamara2766 Před 2 lety

    increase your sound please i can't hear anything.

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 Před měsícem

    I love this couple

  • @rablair1966
    @rablair1966 Před 5 lety

    Listing to this man, I hear wisdom. Ijs

  • @Aboish1981nj
    @Aboish1981nj Před 9 lety +25

    at 0:24, no one looks happy at all in that pic...

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 Před 9 lety +3

      Lol didn't notice that!

    • @Aboish1981nj
      @Aboish1981nj Před 9 lety

      lol.. They are terrible people!

    • @buddhamedia7306
      @buddhamedia7306 Před 9 lety +2

      umm thinknot probably not, who's gonna be happy for a 54 yr old and a 25 yr old getting married

    • @zeezees.183
      @zeezees.183 Před 9 lety

      umm thinknot LMAO! They sure don't.

    • @mahletadanech
      @mahletadanech Před 9 lety

      umm thinknot
      Oh no! Our White Brother preferred Other Sisters (non-white women) ALL along!
      NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
      ROTF

  • @frankieclayton9303
    @frankieclayton9303 Před 2 lety

    A beautiful couple 💑

  • @mahletadanech
    @mahletadanech Před 9 lety

    I'm 31 and the Other Brother i'm seeing just turned 60.
    Other Brothers are where it's at...

  • @kendramarco9357
    @kendramarco9357 Před 11 lety +1

    DAMN! That is a huge age difference!!!! Race is the least of your worries. I guess age ain't nothing but a number. Good luck to guys:)

  • @animes399
    @animes399 Před 11 měsíci

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cind8347
    @cind8347 Před 5 měsíci

    I bet he IS happy. He’s 29 years older! Too old. And stalking is NOT normal and should never be acceptable

  • @trent031991
    @trent031991 Před 8 lety +1

    OH MUH GOD

  • @Sergio-fu7mv
    @Sergio-fu7mv Před 4 lety

    His dad is the real MVP.

  • @lucyavarda1742
    @lucyavarda1742 Před 9 lety +16

    To me it looks as if he has some black in his ancestry. He looks very much like my close friend, she looks white but there's more to her history.

    • @rawlawgirl
      @rawlawgirl Před 8 lety

      i thought EXACTLY the same about him.

    • @lucyavarda1742
      @lucyavarda1742 Před 8 lety

      Raw LawGirl yeah he's defo got some black blood there

  • @fallindowndrunk
    @fallindowndrunk Před 4 lety +2

    Man that story was awesome, it’s always beautiful to see a white person that gets it, I wish you both the best!

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl Před 8 lety +5

    he should his ancestral tree. he seems to have quite a bit of mmmm...

  • @esperanzagonzalez5440
    @esperanzagonzalez5440 Před 3 lety +1

    ❤❤❤👌👌👌💖💖💖

  • @siletamus2016
    @siletamus2016 Před 5 lety

    😥

  • @NarnianLady
    @NarnianLady Před 2 lety

    Intense approach is fine! as long as the guy is honorable, he can approach me :)

  • @donaldtrump1008
    @donaldtrump1008 Před 5 lety

    😊

  • @lthomas8515
    @lthomas8515 Před 8 lety +11

    the age gap tho??

    • @1JokerOne
      @1JokerOne Před 8 lety +3

      +lolly Parkside Probably has a whole lot of money! Lmao

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety +1

      Me and mine are 19 years age difference and I’m in debts after divorce. It is he who went after me! He know s everything about me and that including my debts . It took me to get used to the idea that he would desire me as he does . And it is not sex either as we decided to remain celibate till marriage.

  • @eloiseramsey9276
    @eloiseramsey9276 Před 3 lety +1

    Interracial relationships is becoming more widespread these days. Hopefully as this trend continues, racism will end. I think, personally, that's the purpose.

  • @katerinagiannioudi401
    @katerinagiannioudi401 Před 5 měsíci

    I live in a country with very few black people.
    My parents would have freaked out if I dated or married a black guy!

  • @sbeach1971
    @sbeach1971 Před 5 lety +1

    He's way too old for her.

  • @jayjones8856
    @jayjones8856 Před 7 lety +1

    Lol, Yo...He must be loaded.

  • @Phoenix-yh6ec
    @Phoenix-yh6ec Před 5 lety

    I like this channel and the perspective it brings but maybe let the black spouse speak more. This is the first I’ve watched with a white husband so initially I thought it was a wife thing. But let both sides speak equally and tell their stories equally.

  • @9lemonlime
    @9lemonlime Před 9 lety +4

    I no issue with their race but I'm not sure that I could be with someone that much older than I am.

    • @vanessajones7087
      @vanessajones7087 Před 7 lety +2

      9lemonlime It's not the age that count,it's the love.

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 Před 5 lety

      If you are with someone for looks ( lust) don’t expect your relationship or marriage to last! Tall skinny or old , the emotional connection that counts . You cal that love . Die for yourself to live for your partner .

  • @HippieMosquitoQuatro
    @HippieMosquitoQuatro Před 7 lety +2

    hmmmh...i think this is less of a race-issue and more of a stockholm syndrome issue...

  • @brineted1010
    @brineted1010 Před 9 lety +3

    age doesn't matter

  • @caritogarcia24
    @caritogarcia24 Před 10 lety +1

    awww, is so cute¡¡¡

  • @ThelastJohnSilver
    @ThelastJohnSilver Před 11 lety +1

    probably you are...