How to Stop Breaking Promises To Yourself | Building Discipline

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  • čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
  • Tired of letting yourself down? Learn simple ways to keep your promises in this video. We'll show you how to set realistic goals, stay accountable, and build habits that stick. Say goodbye to self-doubt and hello to a more confident you. Watch now to start keeping your promises!
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    Timestamps
    00:00 Intro
    02:39 Ecclesiastes 5:4-7
    04:44 Proverbs 18:21
    04:55 Why you struggle to keep promises to yourself
    08:14 How to keep your promises to yourself
    14:12 Recap
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  • @kyliajackson
    @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +23

    Ready to live a purpose-driven life? Need help with time management and getting organized? Learn more about my 6-week life coaching program, "Drained to Driven" kyliajackson.com/drainedtodriven

    • @preciousmakeleni1895
      @preciousmakeleni1895 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I struggle with Stagnacy I'm always stagnant at doing things please help

  • @user-qz5tz2fc7l
    @user-qz5tz2fc7l Před 2 měsíci +139

    God directed me here. I stopped thinking these are coincidences because Kylia addresses almost everything I'm going through on my spiritual journey. Thank you Lord and thanks Coach K 😊.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +4

      The Holy Spirit always knows what we need to hear 🤍

    • @aletabugg
      @aletabugg Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yessss! My toes hurt with every video I watch! Always right in time!

    • @LifeWTrenaTwins
      @LifeWTrenaTwins Před 2 měsíci +1

      Girl yes!! Just ran across her page yesterday and I’m so happy I did!!

  • @KabeloEmilyNell
    @KabeloEmilyNell Před 2 měsíci +69

    the timing of this because I'm dealing with being frustrated with myself over this very thing!

  • @rebelwithapurpose
    @rebelwithapurpose Před 2 měsíci +19

    I struggle so much in this area and I want to be more disciplined in every area of my life. Thank you for sharing this word.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +4

      Having the desire is the first step now you just need a plan! Keep going! 🤍

  • @aweirdlife
    @aweirdlife Před 2 měsíci +11

    I have short-term memory (ADHD) so I tend to forget things A LOT! 😅 I forget a lot of my tasks and when I do, my brain bounces from one task to another and so on. I've been pretty good about reading my Bible and pray everyday. I've always lacked discipline and consistency. One thing that has been helping me is writing down a task with a completed date.

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti Před 2 měsíci +2

      Do you mind if I ask if therapy or medication you've tried helps with ADD? I told my PCP about my lack of focus, memory, etc she said ADD stops being treated or less when one becomes an adult🤨 I felt she was very dismissive but yeah just wondering

    • @shavontaemorris1132
      @shavontaemorris1132 Před měsícem +1

      @@Ashley-og9ti I know your not talking to me but i was recently diagnosed with adhd and my therapist recommended a psychiatrist. so i got one and recently we have been trying different ranges of medication to find what helps me from herbal (lowest concentration) to High concentration medication. If you have insurance see a psychiatrist not the pcp . My doctor did the same thing to me

  • @celiandimande8776
    @celiandimande8776 Před 2 měsíci +27

    Please never ever stop these videos!!! 😩😩

  • @Naswillshine
    @Naswillshine Před 2 měsíci +15

    I love how this was broken down. I’ve been convicted times before about not keeping promises to myself. I will skip hop and leap for others but find no progress in my plans. Intentionally working on my goals is rewarding.

  • @Mizzpinkperfect
    @Mizzpinkperfect Před 2 měsíci +5

    I am making a promise to myself that I will commit to improving 5% everyday and learn to give grace myself include 4/10/24

  • @LifeWTrenaTwins
    @LifeWTrenaTwins Před 2 měsíci +11

    This came right on time. I downloaded the Bible app and the verse of the day was Titus 2:11-12
    “For the grace of God has been revealed, bringing salvation to all people. And we are instructed to turn from godless living and sinful pleasures. We should live in this evil world with wisdom, righteousness, and devotion to God”
    Between your video and this verse. It was so needed. I have been battling something that has been taken me away from god. & now I know exactly what I have to do.

  •  Před 2 měsíci +9

    amen thank you Lord!!! for sending an angel like KYLIA JACKSON

  • @rdking0889
    @rdking0889 Před 2 měsíci +17

    I'm struggling with waking up early to get my devotional done before work, so that I am done by the time my kids wake up for school. Currently I do my devotion once they get on the bus, but by this time I've logged in for work. Devotion then gets distracted by work emails and teams messages. This ends up trickling down to missed workouts because I am trying to catch up on work or finish my devotion. I'm going to fix this by just getting up instead of hitting the snooze on my 5:30am alarm.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Love the action step! Come back and let me know how this goes. Rooting for you 🎉🎉🎉

    • @Kjoput
      @Kjoput Před 2 měsíci +3

      This has helped me so I wanted to share…before you go to sleep set your alarm and put your phone anywhere away from your bed. That way when your alarm goes off you have to get up in order to turn it off.

    • @aracelivargas4346
      @aracelivargas4346 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Mom life- Similar to mine.

    • @katarialeslie617
      @katarialeslie617 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Same. I wanna start waking up for 5am to do my devotionals but I’ve been struggling so bad with just getting up.

  • @promiserobinson5113
    @promiserobinson5113 Před 2 měsíci +11

    This was SO good and needed!! Thank you Lord!

  • @amandacharles435
    @amandacharles435 Před 8 dny

    I think this is the reason why I'm going through so much depression, anxiety and stress

  • @LaurynABrown
    @LaurynABrown Před 2 měsíci +6

    The title alone ate me up 😭❤️

  • @imanimorgan6940
    @imanimorgan6940 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I thank God for this message today. I have been dealing with an inability to trust myself, and it reflects in my relationship with God. I find that we tend to treat God how we treat ourselves. If you break promises to yourself, you break them with God and vice versa. May God continue to use you.

  • @Keba_sade
    @Keba_sade Před 2 měsíci +5

    This has been very helpful. I will put into practice fulfilling the promises I have made to myself before making more promises to self and others. I will do this by replacing my distractions with spending that time with God instead.

  • @user-kl2nu3tt5b
    @user-kl2nu3tt5b Před 2 měsíci +2

    I don't make promises at all. I help people when I can too much. So, when its time to for myself I'm exhausted or just don't want to do anything. But I don't make promises at all

  • @amandacharles435
    @amandacharles435 Před 8 dny

    I come to the realization that if we cannot keep the promises to God's word and the things that of God, it will be difficult to keep promises to the things that are not of Christ.
    God will help us to keep our promises once we are committed to him

  • @TanoshaRenee
    @TanoshaRenee Před 2 měsíci +4

    Thank you for this video, I really needed this. I’ve been procrastinating and making excuses when it comes to myself days turn into months and months have turned into years now. I’m done making excuses. I’m going to give myself 150% from now on ❤

  • @keyonnawright8964
    @keyonnawright8964 Před 2 měsíci +3

    The Lord definitely sent me to this video seconds after declaring out loud what the Lord put on my heart. After saying it out Loud I immediately thought of the long list of task that I need to complete for others. I keep my word when it comes to everyone else but struggle with keeping my word to myself. I thank you for allowing the Lord to use you to bring his word to his people! I will water my seeds 😊

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Love this! Looking forward to what you produce in this season! Thanks for watching 🤍

  • @thisisivyy
    @thisisivyy Před 2 měsíci +4

    I've silently been watching soo many of your videos but today i choose to comment...thank you Kylia for these videos.❤️

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +2

      Thank you for taking the time to comment, Ivy! I’m so grateful that the videos have been helpful! Hope to see you again soon 🤍

  • @SpankkssUntamed
    @SpankkssUntamed Před 27 dny +1

    I had long saved this video to watch later, today was my later. The timing couldn't be more perfect!❤

  • @nikyiavaughn6407
    @nikyiavaughn6407 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this video❤

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie77 Před 2 měsíci +1

    What stood out for me is giving God charge of my time.

  • @user-gy7ue8ku9h
    @user-gy7ue8ku9h Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much because i have been trying to do this

  • @iAMjasminerenea
    @iAMjasminerenea Před 2 měsíci +1

    This was soooooo on time and confirmation

  • @nouveaudepart0381
    @nouveaudepart0381 Před 2 měsíci

    Gratitude from Mauritius island 💛

  • @nokuthulasonjica3282
    @nokuthulasonjica3282 Před 2 měsíci

    I hear you sis thank you ❤❤❤

  • @diamondkeystv6771
    @diamondkeystv6771 Před 2 měsíci

    Great points! I’m currently struggling with consistency in the gym.

  • @quitalanier564
    @quitalanier564 Před 2 měsíci

    This right here…Convicted😭😭 🙌🏽 I must subscribe now!!!

  • @B2tful
    @B2tful Před 2 měsíci

    thank you for being so candid!

  • @rochelle8809
    @rochelle8809 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This video was sent to me by God. I was looking for motivation, morning affirmations, and worship songs to listen to and this video came across. I saved it to my watch later list and by surprise I went back to watch it and I am very grateful I did that. Kylia you spoke on the issues I been dealing with for years. I was just speaking with my employees about this issue. Very informative video and I look forward to watching more videos soon.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      So glad it was on time for you! Thanks for watching!

  • @Amazingvocals
    @Amazingvocals Před 2 měsíci +2

    This was needed this morning I get so distracted easily. But the one thing that hit me was that promise to the Lord I struggle with that

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      So glad it was on time! Take it one day at time

  • @neshanelson8739
    @neshanelson8739 Před 2 měsíci

    Perfect timing. Thank you ❤

  • @siphofati
    @siphofati Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thnx I would rec the cast your cares to ..
    Cause remember I learned discipline from your podcasts on not to be lazy yes 🙂👍🏾

  • @TiaraJanee
    @TiaraJanee Před 2 měsíci

    This helped ALOT ! Thankyou ❤️

  • @elitesouthernscoutingtv8994
    @elitesouthernscoutingtv8994 Před měsícem +1

    This content is soooo good! I love how you are pressing us to really think about the commitments we made to God. Often times we want to hear the "sweet little sermon" but this right here is exactly what I needed.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před měsícem

      Thanks so much! Im so glad it was helpful!

  • @ashleyhutchinson8358
    @ashleyhutchinson8358 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this message

  • @treshawnte
    @treshawnte Před měsícem

    Mannnn I swear your videos convict me every tiiiiimmmmeee 😩😩😩😩

  • @sheenaflippen-trotty3544
    @sheenaflippen-trotty3544 Před 2 měsíci

    So glad I came across your channel! Thank you!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +1

      So happy to have you here! My pleasure!

  • @ketinawillis7907
    @ketinawillis7907 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Thank you for this video! Definitely speaking to me. My current issue is emotional and I think I've just gotten comfortable with that...BUT it has cost me missed opportunities & that is a cost I can't continue to pay. I absolutely know there is fruit on the other side.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      Awareness is the first step to healing. Looking forward to watching you become all that God has called you to be 🤍

    • @ketinawillis7907
      @ketinawillis7907 Před 2 měsíci

      @@kyliajackson thank you! I love your content. Keep inspiring us to take action

  • @TrendyT.
    @TrendyT. Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for your message! I needed to hear this.

  • @yerkongyang
    @yerkongyang Před měsícem

    Thank you! You are truly a friend.

  • @MarcieColeman
    @MarcieColeman Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for the advice needed to hear this.❤❤🙏🏼😀

  • @ILESTMERVELIEUXES
    @ILESTMERVELIEUXES Před měsícem

    So good! Thank you for this.

  • @Knynn
    @Knynn Před 2 měsíci

    The caption alone made me pause and reflect. Thank you.🙏🏽

  • @Xo_lifeaslala
    @Xo_lifeaslala Před 2 měsíci

    I needed this. Right on time!

  • @theprosperitylane
    @theprosperitylane Před 2 měsíci

    Such a timely message! Thank you!

  • @sylvianicholas5647
    @sylvianicholas5647 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you much Kylia.
    This was really helpful.❤

  • @officialsaintrockstar
    @officialsaintrockstar Před 2 měsíci

    Thank God for this video!

  • @rebirthshemyasharel3529
    @rebirthshemyasharel3529 Před 2 měsíci

    Shalom My Sista!! Just recently came across your Channel. I really enjoyed this video and look forward to upcoming videos. Peace and Blessings to you My Sista! APTTMHY

  • @ramyivon
    @ramyivon Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks for such needed message 🙏 ❤🎉

  • @chiziwali2664
    @chiziwali2664 Před 2 měsíci

    This was very insightful…Thank you 💕

  • @fleurlovetranspose
    @fleurlovetranspose Před 2 měsíci +2

    This is a great word. It's right where i am at this time. Thank you for the encouragement

  • @RozDid
    @RozDid Před 2 měsíci

    Really loving your channel & your delivery 👌

  • @Ebonii_grace
    @Ebonii_grace Před 2 měsíci

    You came with a word today!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @nestbuilderscollective
    @nestbuilderscollective Před 2 měsíci +1

    Entering a silent season. Thank you for this video. I’ve been asking God for direction regarding this. Thank you.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      My pleasure love! So glad it was helpful!

  • @jazmindaniel7237
    @jazmindaniel7237 Před 2 měsíci

    This was right on time !!! Thank You for sharing what God has given you !!!

  • @sarahtavares5734
    @sarahtavares5734 Před 2 měsíci

    Super pertinent, thanks you.

  • @LovelyTDT
    @LovelyTDT Před 2 měsíci

    Very strong and beautiful message Kylia ❤ thank you

  • @nicolegomezxoxo
    @nicolegomezxoxo Před 2 měsíci

    Been thinking exactly this the last 3 days.

  • @aleciad.9300
    @aleciad.9300 Před 2 měsíci

    Meee!! When I get home from work I can’t muster up the energy to go for a walk or anything that I want to do for myself. I’m constantly saying I’m going to try the next day.

  • @kimberleyannvega1403
    @kimberleyannvega1403 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this video. It really spoke to me and encouraged me for this upcoming week.

  • @lioness2090
    @lioness2090 Před 2 měsíci

    Perfect timing❤ I truly needed to hear this. I'm such a procrastinator

  • @Brenda_Selina
    @Brenda_Selina Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much Sis❤ for this video ... ❤

  • @flaviasisnande1971
    @flaviasisnande1971 Před 2 měsíci

    Girl definitely I really love your videos ❤ thanks so much , I wish with all my heart that God gives you all the support to continue always 💖

  • @nellynell1807
    @nellynell1807 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks needed this God Bless..❤😊

  • @Shapifanerzz
    @Shapifanerzz Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you so much for this word. God is truly working through you❤ Keeping posting videos like this luv! ❤

  • @vanessatorresxo
    @vanessatorresxo Před 2 měsíci +1

    God knew I needed this video today!

  • @diamonddeloatch6316
    @diamonddeloatch6316 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I needed to hear this message. Thank you. May God continue to bless you ❤

  • @latishaperry5765
    @latishaperry5765 Před 2 měsíci

    This videos was reallly good thank you I definitely need to do better at keep promises to myself and God

  • @StitchingDeb
    @StitchingDeb Před 2 měsíci +2

    Praying for you in this!

  • @ituesjesuswithkhutsomakuny9588
    @ituesjesuswithkhutsomakuny9588 Před 2 měsíci +1

    THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU PICKED ME UP, FROM SOUTH AFRICA

  • @carolp.6424
    @carolp.6424 Před 2 měsíci

    this is so timely. You earn a subscriber.

  • @nchedochukwuezeigwegbe6189
    @nchedochukwuezeigwegbe6189 Před 2 měsíci

    Passing through this now..more grace my favorite coach ❤

  • @nursekim6399
    @nursekim6399 Před 2 měsíci

    Man this is so very good. Thanks for sharing these ideas and practical keys.

  • @TheEmiAcademy
    @TheEmiAcademy Před 2 měsíci

    wow , this was amazing ! glory to God

  • @lahannah1224
    @lahannah1224 Před 2 měsíci +2

    oh I needed This. I am sooo guilty of this and knowing that God is angry makes me feel so foolish.

  • @LlynxPrana
    @LlynxPrana Před 2 měsíci

    Love it! ❤️More videos like this!!! X

  • @tawanamahoney2196
    @tawanamahoney2196 Před 2 měsíci +2

    WOW. This came right on time! Thank you so much 🫶🏾

  • @Abbas_Daughters
    @Abbas_Daughters Před 2 měsíci +4

    Every single Video is sooo timely ❤🙏🏾 Thank you Kylia ❤️

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci +1

      My pleasure sis! So glad it was on time for you!

    • @Abbas_Daughters
      @Abbas_Daughters Před 2 měsíci

      @@kyliajackson ❤️❤️🫶🏾🙏🏾Yesss Beautiful!!! Truly on time 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @chibalemutakila6392
    @chibalemutakila6392 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I came across your channel last week and I must say you are a blessing to me.Continue what you doing.love you from Zambia

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      Thank you so much! Welcome to the family!

  • @cristinalangridgepersonals5196
    @cristinalangridgepersonals5196 Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is just what I needed to hear today! I’m a new subscriber and every video is like you’re talking exclusively to me and is exactly what I need to hear at that time. I’m so happy that I’ve found your channel!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      So grateful to hear that! Welcome to the family 🤍

  • @prudencemwangalika
    @prudencemwangalika Před 2 měsíci

    I needed to hear this today 🥺🥺

  • @stephmichelle399
    @stephmichelle399 Před 2 měsíci

    Swear you had a new subscriber after one minute in 😂😂❤❤…keep doing what you are doing. I resonate with everything you are saying 😊…thank you for being authentic and allowing God to speak to you and thru you!!!

  • @MYRAJAY527
    @MYRAJAY527 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Omgosh sis I'm so happy to have found your channel! You have a lifetime subscriber here❤❤

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      So happy to have you here! Thank you so much for subscribing!

  • @denish1
    @denish1 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow, this video reflects Godly timing for me. Thank you❣️🙏🏾

  • @shirleyadaniels6572
    @shirleyadaniels6572 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Thank you for bringing these stumbling blocks to my attention. God bless you.

  • @ARI-ty7wz
    @ARI-ty7wz Před 2 měsíci

    Just like the last video I watched form you, I needed this! Stuck is the perfect word to describe where I’ve been. I haven’t even finished the vision board I started in January😭 but I believe if I truly follow your tips I will be free!

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 Před 2 měsíci

    I’m half way to my ten k goal and almost self sabotage shit out of myself today but! This video is on God’s timing honestly.

  • @jasminbernaldez1403
    @jasminbernaldez1403 Před 2 měsíci

    you are so gifted !! This video is perfection don’t ever stop 🤍🤍

  • @angelablake6136
    @angelablake6136 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank You I needed this....God sent me here I was just looking and ur content popped up

  • @Blessingogianyo
    @Blessingogianyo Před 2 měsíci +1

    Today I pushed past my fatigue and kept the promise of studying God's word. For the first time I didn't dose off and I was on the word for almost 5hours.
    I'll be keeping more promises this week by God's grace 🎉
    Thanks for your yielding to God, you are touching lives.

  • @KimMakumbe
    @KimMakumbe Před měsícem

    The timing! Thank you for sharing, and I don’t know if you realise it but you’re evangelizing in such a powerful way. Thank you for heeding God’s call❤

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před měsícem +1

      So glad it was on time for you 🤍 Thank you so much for your support!

  • @MazzyRSA
    @MazzyRSA Před 26 dny

    The main promise I made to myself is to get my own place this year, I just want it to be God, me and my son. I do not know how or when but I am trusting God for a space of my own in 2024.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 24 dny +1

      Standing in agreement for your new place!

  • @coreykelly526
    @coreykelly526 Před 2 měsíci

    Hi Kylia, this is exactly where I am in my life, learning to keep promises for myself. I love the tips you gave and suggested by starting small and definitely writing them down and dating that task or goal. I have already implemented a few. The key point you made is spending and making time for God is definitely a FACT! Thanks for the confirmation encouraging words that I’m on the right path to being better for myself and showing up for God❤

  • @tayslays8805
    @tayslays8805 Před 2 měsíci

    Amen thank you for sharing this message I needed this 😢😢😢 also a new subscriber ❤

  • @unathimkangala1576
    @unathimkangala1576 Před 2 měsíci

    This is so true😭😭♥️

  • @Poetiksoul
    @Poetiksoul Před 2 měsíci

    Just came across your channel. And I had to subversive because everything you were saying spoke to me. Trying to build a relationship with God but I don’t even keep the promises I make to myself. Thank you for all the insight!

  • @amirah9518
    @amirah9518 Před 2 měsíci

    Wow this was so needed. I watched your other video on How to break the cycle: overcoming unhealthy patterns + making better decisions and girllllll both has convicted me and helped me gain so much clarity. Thank you ❤❤❤