The Dangers of Over-Glamorizing Purpose | How to truly find your purpose

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  • čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
  • #christianmotivation #purpose
    We'll discuss how to really find your purpose, the dangers of over-glamorizing purpose, how to stop comparing your purpose to others and find peace in your season.
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    Timestamps
    00:00 Intro
    00:34 The Over-glamorization of Purpose
    01:38 Comparison
    02:18 My personal testimony
    06:34 Living a surrendered life
    07:25 Matthew 16:24-25
    08:52 What it means to follow Christ
    09:55 Isaiah 43:6-7
    10:01 Managing hidden frustration and comparison
    10:36 Why do you really want a platform?
    12:04 Feeling like you're not enough
    17:57 Prayer
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Komentáře • 181

  • @mimismegalife4976
    @mimismegalife4976 Před 4 měsíci +57

    I am a 60 year old widow. I thought when my husband died 5 years ago that I would be able to serve the LORD and help in the church. That did not happen at all. I have been busy with my daughters and grandchildren financially, spiritually, emotionally and socially. They are my ministry and I have been single and not dating anyone. I pray 🙏 whatever You want me to do I will do LORD.

  • @Greatboldness
    @Greatboldness Před 4 měsíci +35

    "We were not made for our own glory." This discourse for the kingdom is so NEEDED. Social media certainly painted a picture that we've allowed to trump the word of God. This is a realigning word. I had a rude awakening when I entered this transition season and realized it was not the experience others were sharing. Them bold dangerous prayers really do let God put it in that work on us lol. Such poignant points were made.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Heavy on the dangerous prayers! They are so important.

  • @shantiwanti_
    @shantiwanti_ Před 2 měsíci +7

    I just want you to know how much of a blessing you truly have been. I am so thankful I came across your channel. For the longest I’ve been struggling with knowing/figuring out what my purpose is. And you’re absolutely right, my purpose is to serve God. We tend to make things more complicated than it should be. So again, thank you for bringing me closer to Christ. God bless you ❤

  • @tonyacanada
    @tonyacanada Před 4 měsíci +18

    You got me on this one!! Thank you God for bringing these things to the forefront to help us to surrender and live totally for you. I needed this word and prayer.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +2

      God always knows what his people need to hear!

  • @lavishdeeva
    @lavishdeeva Před 4 měsíci +12

    I was scrolling, and in MY MIND I said “God , i need to figure out my true purpose. I’m overwhelmed trying to do so many things to gain financially “ and out the blue your video popped up 😮 God I don’t know if it was this device reading my mind or Holy Spirit doing his thing and showing me what i needed to see

  • @virtuouslyQuiet
    @virtuouslyQuiet Před 4 měsíci +5

    As a single mom of 6. I’m so grateful that God lead me to your video. Thank you for your healing words ❤

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Im so happy this message was helpful to you!

  • @lynm9903
    @lynm9903 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Kylia, I don’t think you understand, every word that came out of your mouth was for me. I mean every word! I just want to thank you for the bottom of my heart. I feel like God used you to speak to me because I was battling with this topic all week.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Im so happy this message was helpful to you!

  • @nondumisomabaso4044
    @nondumisomabaso4044 Před 4 měsíci +21

    "If that does not happen, are you still going to serve the Lord with zeal?" I honestly answered, "No" and my heart instantly broke... Thank you for this message.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +8

      Hey its ok! Its important that feelings like that are revealed to us so God can help improve us even more.

  • @tjiarrikapayne2251
    @tjiarrikapayne2251 Před 4 měsíci +19

    Thank you for this message!!! I prayed for a job only to support myself and my family but every time I get a “job” I feel unfulfilled but I know if I don’t have income my family don’t eat I just feel stuck Lord!!!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +16

      Definitely go on a fast! Whenever you need clarity on your situation, fasting is the answer. It forces you to focus completely on God and when you are that focused on him and close to him, you can hear him clearer.

    • @glowwithsandra
      @glowwithsandra Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@kyliajacksonGreat suggestion! I feel like I need to fast myself. I’m in financial stress, been overeating out of anxiety. I’ve been wanting to know my purpose, for years now…but I have too many ideas and I start and don’t finish projects due to feeling incapable and overwhelmed. I suspect I have ADHD as I’ve always been a distracted person, I forget and lose things, my time management is terrible and it took my confidence down as people point out constantly 😢

  • @ohitsjai_
    @ohitsjai_ Před 4 měsíci +8

    This was such a blessing 🤍. Thank you for allowing God to move through you. Glory to God!

  • @ColleahG
    @ColleahG Před 4 měsíci +4

    “Self-help is no help at all” 🤯, wow this is on time. The false idea of purpose is so selfish! This was on time, thank you JESUS!

  • @ColleahG
    @ColleahG Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have constantly gone to conferences, meet and greets, dinner group meetings, ALL kinds of things in search for purpose and to learn from others that said they were living in their purpose. I attend the event to only feel that something was still missing from the message. It seems like the glorification of man is the main theme of the event. The most confusing part of it all is that EVERY one is a good speaker now, and what they don't say is that they've learned a lot from self-help books, self-help coaches that are nonbelievers. I have been super unimpressed when asking a headliner for an event about the books that they've read and they lead me to some weird self-help author. I have so much to say….but I am very grateful that you obeyed God and went through your pruning. I, too, want to take that narrow road and love my Savior all the way to the end, in obedience and in faith. AMEN! I love you JESUS!

    • @ColleahG
      @ColleahG Před 4 měsíci

      I want to add that I had an idea of what God’s purpose for me was already. The conferences were not where I discovered my purpose. Yet, I sought after things to show my faith with my works and trying to connect with those that seemed to be walking with Christ in their purpose.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +1

      And you will do it too! God is so gracious!

  • @user-ej3nj5kd3j
    @user-ej3nj5kd3j Před 3 měsíci +2

    "I chose you because I am good, and I will get the glory out of your life..." 😮‍💨

  • @Mercyofgraceministries
    @Mercyofgraceministries Před 4 měsíci +6

    This message is for me. God has told me over and over to let go of my make. God has told me that makeup is not included in the plan he got for me. God has told me he has a bigger plan for me. He created me for a bigger plan. But I am very good at makeup and everybody knows me to be to do makeup. I know with makeup I will get can get dream life faster with brands deals and other kinds of stuff. I am battling with this so hard.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +3

      It is hard letting go of our desires and ideas for our purpose but we have to humble ourselves and realize that God's purpose for our life is even greater than what we have in mind.

  • @yerkongyang
    @yerkongyang Před měsícem

    I have been listening to your teachings and you are gifted. Thank you for what you’re doing and speaking to my spirit and encouraging me to do what our Lord God commands of us, to be obedient and faithful.

  • @simaiyajack7281
    @simaiyajack7281 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Praise God . I’ve been saying this for so long . So glad this was brought to light .

  • @ErinGrime
    @ErinGrime Před 4 měsíci +6

    The way you hit the hammer on the nail EVERY SINGLE TIME. The Holy Spirit is definitely working through you. It’s crazy cause I’ve been stuck on James 4:3 that reads:
    ”Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.“
    ‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭3‬ ‭KJV‬‬
    Amiss in the Bible means: improperly, wrongly. According to google the definition is:
    Amiss: not quite right; inappropriate or out of place.
    This got me thinking, are my prayers amiss? Am I praying from the right heart posture? Why am I asking for certain things? Am I just going to use them for my lusts (pleasures)? Am I praying for certain things such as influence for the right reason? I don’t think I can confidently say yes, and that’s a problem. A problem that I have to seek God about.
    Thank you for being obedient, I know I say that a lot, but these videos are very helpful. Happy to see your channel growing and all that God is doing through you ❤️.

  • @fanisefabre334
    @fanisefabre334 Před 4 měsíci

    Praise God for this video sis and thank you. I started to cry because you was talking directly to me. I’m a mother of 5 we bought a home in a new city and I did pray and ask God when we were in the process I said Lord if we not supposed to move please stop this whole process, let something goes wrong. But everything ended up working out. Now that I’m here with no job my husband is the only one working but overall God has been providing just fine. I begin to feel like I don’t have a purpose I would go on social media and saying to myself look at so and so they are doing so good they have a great jobs but as for me I have nothing going beside taking care of my kids. I fasted asking God what is my purpose here on earth? I need to glorify you through my purpose. I can watching your video God has answered my prayers. Thank you so much sis.

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Your testimony is so beautiful! I’m so happy this video gave you the clarity you needed💙

  • @allfactstho
    @allfactstho Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for the word and prayer

  • @imani9102
    @imani9102 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Girl.. the way you allowed God to use you and be obedient to make/post this video.. I am just in awe of how He works. Thank you for being obedient and providing me with a confirmation message. May God bless you ❤.

  • @BNT1130
    @BNT1130 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow!! This is right on time!

  • @KaylaDelores
    @KaylaDelores Před 4 měsíci

    This was good!! Thank you 💕

  • @brittneydito5177
    @brittneydito5177 Před 4 měsíci

    This has been such a blessing! Thank you ❤

  • @AllDayEloquence
    @AllDayEloquence Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you!

  • @nikkimd78
    @nikkimd78 Před 4 měsíci

    Sis!! What a mighty Word! Blessings!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +1

      So glad it was helpful! My pleasure!

  • @Inabundanse
    @Inabundanse Před 4 měsíci

    The entire video blessed me but the prayer touched my heart ❤️ ty Kylia!

  • @moniquecahn213
    @moniquecahn213 Před 4 měsíci +1

    God Bless You!

  • @womenofgodunited
    @womenofgodunited Před 4 měsíci

    Excellent and sobering message ❤ much needed!

  • @Sulanboujetbeauty
    @Sulanboujetbeauty Před 4 měsíci +2

    sis you are not lying at all

  • @Brenda_Selina
    @Brenda_Selina Před 4 měsíci

    This was such a blessing ❤

  • @taradillard9618
    @taradillard9618 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @juliae.8237
    @juliae.8237 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Lots of food for thought. Thank you for bringing this forward. God bless you ❤.

  • @JShontaDior
    @JShontaDior Před 4 měsíci

    So well spoken 💗

  • @tolulopetomiisin2215
    @tolulopetomiisin2215 Před měsícem

    I needed to hear this. Thank you so much Kylia, God bless you!

  • @kimn1402
    @kimn1402 Před 4 měsíci

    God bless you!

  • @ItumelengDithipe-rj6hp
    @ItumelengDithipe-rj6hp Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are highly appreciated thank you for the video❤🙏

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      I appreciate you guys more than anything! Thank you for watching.

  • @brookejeffery1787
    @brookejeffery1787 Před 4 měsíci

    This was so timely.

  • @ShawnMagolo-uv5vq
    @ShawnMagolo-uv5vq Před 2 měsíci

    Amen

  • @Hopefilledhomemaker
    @Hopefilledhomemaker Před 4 měsíci

    Amen!

  • @ProudlyHer
    @ProudlyHer Před 4 měsíci

    Timely and relevant ❤️

  • @dominiquesmith4323
    @dominiquesmith4323 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you ❤

  • @Juanita101
    @Juanita101 Před 2 měsíci

    im so happy i found your channel... i just binged like four vids and they all related to and gave me a refreshed perspective for this season im in thank you and God bless you

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 2 měsíci

      Im so glad these videos could be helpful!

  • @nadeje_montes
    @nadeje_montes Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow, there were so many things said that I found so relatable. The trials are pruning season.

  • @EmeldaChizoba
    @EmeldaChizoba Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for this message
    Love you

  • @LiliBlossom
    @LiliBlossom Před 4 měsíci

    Amen! Doing it all for the glory of God.
    This has been such a blessing. Thank you! ❤

  • @TaylorRene_
    @TaylorRene_ Před 3 měsíci

    THANK YOU JESUS!!!!!!!!!

  • @Ijeomanwabunike
    @Ijeomanwabunike Před 2 měsíci

    God bless you. You just took the words out of my mouth. The things the Holy Spirit has been teaching me lately.

  • @ritagilmer5389
    @ritagilmer5389 Před 4 měsíci

    Amen 🙏🏾

  • @SnowFamily707
    @SnowFamily707 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you, God bless

  • @Nevertold23
    @Nevertold23 Před 4 měsíci

    I needed this, thank you lord for speaking through you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @uguruchiamakaeunice3821
    @uguruchiamakaeunice3821 Před 4 měsíci

    Amennnnnnnnnn,thank you Jesus 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @eunicemuchai672
    @eunicemuchai672 Před 4 měsíci +1

    1st Corinthians 13:5….love is not self seeking
    Love this ❤

  • @kelinadaniels3730
    @kelinadaniels3730 Před 4 měsíci

    You are a blessing. I don’t know how I found your channel but this message was on point and straightened me back up real quick! I’ve been struggling these past couple of weeks because I came off a fast and wanted the answer to be good and pleasing to me. Whole time I just wasn’t listening to what is best for me according to the word and will of God. Thank you. I’m currently working and just came off break but this brought me to tears!

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Im so glad this video could give you some clarity!

  • @priscillaamankwah3046
    @priscillaamankwah3046 Před 4 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing 💕it's such a blessing, may we walk in God's purpose 🙌🏾

  • @loriefuller9928
    @loriefuller9928 Před 4 měsíci

    That prayer was absolutely beautiful thank you for praying for us ❤❤

  • @treluvstrees999
    @treluvstrees999 Před 3 měsíci

    Love this video and the honor you give to your mother!! God is so good to choose us!! ❤

  • @beanbae2224
    @beanbae2224 Před 4 měsíci +1

    That's what I am in right now waiting season

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +1

      We learn so much about ourselves during this season!

    • @beanbae2224
      @beanbae2224 Před 4 měsíci

      @@kyliajackson You right about that

  • @Withmegoodnessofficial
    @Withmegoodnessofficial Před 3 měsíci

    I love you kylia thank you so much ❤

  • @hxnnxh.y
    @hxnnxh.y Před 4 měsíci

    Listened to this while I went on a walk ooo chile the way God is breathing on this podcast!!
    Keep shining sis

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      So grateful you can feel His presence! That’s an answered prayer for me

  • @MrsBrown2021
    @MrsBrown2021 Před měsícem

    Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @dosageofdemi
    @dosageofdemi Před měsícem

    This was so good, had to listen to this thrice!! 💛🙌🏽

  • @NoaHouse-cv9eg
    @NoaHouse-cv9eg Před 21 dnem

    The timing of this word Kylia😊❤

  • @cheniselittle3485
    @cheniselittle3485 Před 4 měsíci

    This was so good ❤

  • @diamondbridley8505
    @diamondbridley8505 Před 2 měsíci

    I Really Like You ❤ thank You God Purpose For Me Is My Children. Confirmation ty all This Is Beautiful. Love And Kindness Draws And You Are Drawing Others ❤

  • @saidaespy1579
    @saidaespy1579 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for this ! This is so right on 🔥. I appreciate you and your obedience to God! Blessings to you❤

  • @derrickjames3841
    @derrickjames3841 Před 4 měsíci

    This change my whole purpose in life. I was so stuck on the worldly purpose and not God's purpose hr have for me. This opened my eyes up to really knowing what my purpose is. You are God sent thank you

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Im so happy this message could help you!

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia Před 3 měsíci

    This message hits hard...

  • @nanaaboagyewaaantwi6356
    @nanaaboagyewaaantwi6356 Před měsícem

    im so blessed with your videos, God bless you sis❤❤

  • @blessinggx
    @blessinggx Před 2 měsíci

    SO GOOD! I've turned on your notifications

  • @lorindaearl33
    @lorindaearl33 Před měsícem

    Thank u

  • @sylviachester8263
    @sylviachester8263 Před 2 měsíci

    Halleluah!! Thank you Jesus. Ms. Jackson, thank you for your obedience to God and the awesome way in which you delivered this message to His people. Every WORD was for me and I cried through the whole thing. BUT God!! Even His chastising is done with Love and for that I thank Him. May God continue to Bless you and may Heaven smile upon you!

  • @pamelahayes5160
    @pamelahayes5160 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for such a precious prayer. I have thought and questioned myself. Am I truly serving God? Am I doing the right thing. Etc. I recently retired. I have more time to really spend with God now. Thank you sooo much for tonight.

  • @Peaceofky
    @Peaceofky Před 4 měsíci

    THIS !

  • @iam.foreverblessed
    @iam.foreverblessed Před 4 měsíci

    This was 100% from the Holy Spirit! Definitely shook me up, thank you for being obedient 💕

  • @Just_F.e.e
    @Just_F.e.e Před 4 měsíci

    This is good 🔥

  • @immensebeaute5293
    @immensebeaute5293 Před 4 měsíci

    Coming across your content was a God thing . Thank you ❤

  • @fanchonfrancis
    @fanchonfrancis Před 4 měsíci

    Amen 🙏 ❤

  • @sherrysunshinefreeman3434
    @sherrysunshinefreeman3434 Před 4 měsíci

    I agree believe connect in faith and receive this word in Jesus name amen amen hallelujah hallelujah. God bless you!❤😊

  • @cherhonda
    @cherhonda Před 4 měsíci

    👏🏾Amen🙏🏾

  • @Vanessa-wd3lj
    @Vanessa-wd3lj Před 4 měsíci

    “This is not about becoming a Christian influencer and just posting cute pictures of your bible. What are you doing with what you are reading?”
    Wow..Thank you for making this video and sharing it🙏🏾❤️
    Thank you for the prayer at the end. AMEN🙏🏾

  • @barbiedior2914
    @barbiedior2914 Před měsícem

  • @sonyaphillips4634
    @sonyaphillips4634 Před 4 měsíci

    God help me to get back to the heart of You❤❤❤❤❤

  • @diamondkeystv6771
    @diamondkeystv6771 Před 2 měsíci

    Whew! Where do I find that message version from?

  • @AnonAnonUK2024
    @AnonAnonUK2024 Před 4 měsíci

    I just feel so lost😢 please pray for me pls

  • @mahoganyhunter205
    @mahoganyhunter205 Před 4 měsíci

    🙏🏾🙌🏾 My God this was right on time!! He sent me this message for a reason! I thank him for using you ❤️. I turned your 666 likes into 667 BUT GOD‼️

  • @user-fg2oy9sq4z
    @user-fg2oy9sq4z Před 2 měsíci

    How to one know when God replies about your purpose

  • @Kahlolelo_Dina
    @Kahlolelo_Dina Před 4 měsíci

    Which Bible did you read the 2nd version of Matthew's from🙏🏽

  • @Mercyofgraceministries
    @Mercyofgraceministries Před 4 měsíci

    oh I forgot to say God wants me to start a ministry but I am terrified of what my family and close friends will say.

    • @Upliftment7
      @Upliftment7 Před 4 měsíci

      Be of Good courage ...

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Its definitely not easy to start putting ourselves out there! But we have to be more concerned of what God thinks of us instead of the world. Definitely easier said then done, but God will most certainly help us to be more bold if we simply ask.

  • @stephanieangervil9055
    @stephanieangervil9055 Před 4 měsíci +1

    So everyone’s purpose is to serve the Lord it’s just the how is different

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci

      Correct! We all have different assignments in life that very from season to season. It's all about embracing what God is doing in the present

  • @prettylenn3304
    @prettylenn3304 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for allowing God to use you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @thekarencervantes
    @thekarencervantes Před 4 měsíci +1

    This video ❤🙏 this message ! Thank you so much for being obedient 🙏 in recording and sharing this message I felt every part of it 🙏 I finally obeyed the Lord in asking me to talk about Him on my social media 🙏✨ the first thing I said to Him was “NO I CANT” then I asked Him for wisdom and direction and said “Lord if that’s your will for me then please teach me” ✨🙏 Im a first generation Christian that grew up in a cult where bible reading was prohibited 🤯😩 but Jesus saved me last year and His Holy Spirit is alive with me 🙏😍 thank you for this video I have officially launched my new channel this week 😍🙏 @karencervantescoach

    • @kyliajackson
      @kyliajackson  Před 4 měsíci +1

      Wow what a powerful testimony!! May God get the glory through your life! Congratulations and thank you so much for watching!

  • @ohwarahuablessing4499
    @ohwarahuablessing4499 Před 2 měsíci

    Amen

  • @karenmitchell6654
    @karenmitchell6654 Před 4 měsíci

    Amen