Bachelorette Charity's EPIC FINALE Recap - Did She Make The Right Choice?

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  • Bachelorette Charity's EPIC FINALE Recap - Did She Make The Right Choice?
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  • @jross9787
    @jross9787 Před 10 měsíci +58

    Joey handled this with class and maturity. Love him!

  • @madamepaulettes5337
    @madamepaulettes5337 Před 10 měsíci +71

    Charity's Mom was wise to not choose a side. I predict Charity and Dotun will be like Trista and Ryan. They will totally make it. Mark my words.

    • @dianasimeon1386
      @dianasimeon1386 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Disagree. They come from two different cultures. This will not work

    • @dixiematias3130
      @dixiematias3130 Před 10 měsíci +2

      They wont

    • @nancymaclean8979
      @nancymaclean8979 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@dianasimeon1386, both grew up in America. I don't see your thinking, sorry.

    • @madamepaulettes5337
      @madamepaulettes5337 Před 10 měsíci

      People from different cultures can work out if there is an openness to appreciating and understanding both cultures.@@dianasimeon1386

  • @jenmurphy7777
    @jenmurphy7777 Před 10 měsíci +35

    As soon as I saw Joey, I knew he would be the next Bachelor. He totally had that polished bachelor makeover they always give them. He looked good!

    • @sq3004
      @sq3004 Před 10 měsíci +4

      If she picked Joey, Tanner definitely wouldve been the next Bachelor. He looks like the classic bachelor along with some possible drama.

    • @jenmurphy7777
      @jenmurphy7777 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@sq3004 who Is Tanner?

  • @joannas2533
    @joannas2533 Před 10 měsíci +33

    Dotun was so nervous at the family meeting! I don't know what swag they saw or prejudged 🤷‍♀️

    • @RyanTT0714
      @RyanTT0714 Před 10 měsíci +10

      Yes! I didn’t get it at all.

    • @qusan
      @qusan Před 10 měsíci +6

      She apparently has a type and Dotun fits the bill.

    • @RightStickRob
      @RightStickRob Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@qusanbut she said Xavier was her type and Dotun and Xavier are very different personalities

    • @lalaa8653
      @lalaa8653 Před 10 měsíci

      Exactly..

    • @qusan
      @qusan Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@RightStickRob They are very different but initially they fit a similar profile. Same with Aaron.

  • @SKimilku
    @SKimilku Před 10 měsíci +10

    Thank you Dave for continuing to remember the families and the sadness Hawaii is feeling for the families burned to a crisp embracing each other in their homes.

  • @Rocky_the_cat_sitter
    @Rocky_the_cat_sitter Před 10 měsíci +17

    Joey seems nice but he is so one dimensional. and he always seems to be trying to say just the right things. i hope we see more of his personality when he is the bachelor

  • @taramorales8790
    @taramorales8790 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The giiiirrlll “ she don’t know” reference killed me 🤣🤣🤣 the audio hhahahah

  • @herscepter5263
    @herscepter5263 Před 10 měsíci +19

    Charity's Mom mentioned that Dotun was similar to the men she dated in the past. According to Charity, these relationships didn't work out. So I'm interested to see how this is going to go.

    • @RyanTT0714
      @RyanTT0714 Před 10 měsíci +9

      Yeah that threw me, because he really doesn’t seem like a player at all, which is what I felt like she was getting at.

    • @smilechynwa
      @smilechynwa Před 10 měsíci +9

      Maybe she meant the height lol. Am probably just reaching. Pun intended.

    • @MsCCarolinee
      @MsCCarolinee Před 10 měsíci +8

      He has shown nothing but kindness and his family says that he is faithful. She doesn't know him or his history to be able to compare at such a deep level. Maybe she dated mostly back men.

    • @lalaa8653
      @lalaa8653 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Her mom was giving Charity’s dated black guys before and let’s just judge this guy that I don’t even know odd

  • @CindyHavanese
    @CindyHavanese Před 10 měsíci +6

    Why was Peter the Pilot’s parents there and why did they get so much camera time ??

  • @msbond700
    @msbond700 Před 10 měsíci +9

    Chartiy and Dotun 🥂🌹💍

  • @adb7771
    @adb7771 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Joey didn't seem to be that broken up. These last 3 all handled themselves with such class. I think it all worked out for the best.

    • @ilovegoodsax
      @ilovegoodsax Před 10 měsíci +1

      I didn't see where Joey was really that much in to Charity. His somewhat nonchalant reaction was no surprise imo.

    • @laram8255
      @laram8255 Před 10 měsíci +3

      his eyes looked red in the hot seat, i think the producers suggested he stay strong so he can be the next bachelor

    • @KKTanaa
      @KKTanaa Před 10 měsíci +2

      What!? On the way to the car he had that bubble holding his breath moment and then he cried in the car. He was beginning to tear up when she was turning him down and when he looked at the recap with everyone his eyes were red like they were in the car. When he saw Charity for the first time after the rejection his eyes were dilated and his body language was open to her. He seems to STILL be in love with her but he's respectful to Dotun. I have looked at it, rewind and looked at it again. He was not faking and I wanted to find that he was faking so I could feel she made the right choice, but no, he was not faking.

  • @stayceaagerman7694
    @stayceaagerman7694 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I am very happy with the outcome of this season. I think Charity and Dotun will make it longterm. Them choosing each other was the right choice.
    I hope Joey finds his true love too.

  • @readingtosoar
    @readingtosoar Před 10 měsíci +1

    Popcorn ceilings had me rolling 😂

  • @realitytvtherapy
    @realitytvtherapy Před 10 měsíci +8

    Dave, you have excellent points; Yes, 100% she made the right choice. I always thought it would be Charity and Dotun. They have excellent communication skills, and Charity and Dotun have what it takes for a successful long-term relationship.

  • @jannettemorris7540
    @jannettemorris7540 Před 10 měsíci +13

    I thought it was Beutiful and Joey will be an awesome bachelor ❤

  • @marianschiltz850
    @marianschiltz850 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I appreciate the formality and the jokes were popping this morning, thanks Dave! 🎉 😉

  • @CultureGirl77
    @CultureGirl77 Před 10 měsíci +10

    I was waiting for either Layah or Joey to say something about Hawaii and the fires, or even Jesse Palmer as the host to acknowledge it, but I was disappointed that nobody did. It could've easily been brought up.
    But other than that, I'm glad that Charity chose Dotun. I'm happy that the Bachelor is finally celebrating Black love! ❤
    (Although, I was very sad that it was Joey that stepped out of the van first at the proposal site).

    • @katieholmgren186
      @katieholmgren186 Před 10 měsíci

      Wasn't the finale filmed weeks ago tho?

    • @laram8255
      @laram8255 Před 10 měsíci

      its live, men tell all is filmed prior ro airing @@katieholmgren186

    • @CultureGirl77
      @CultureGirl77 Před 10 měsíci

      @@katieholmgren186 No, the studio part was live on Monday.

    • @katieholmgren186
      @katieholmgren186 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Ugh. Then yeah, no excuse 😒

  • @arabaarhin4686
    @arabaarhin4686 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Yay! First to post. Been subscribed to your channel for a few months ❤!

  • @jessicaalbright7429
    @jessicaalbright7429 Před 10 měsíci +2

    They seemed extremely and authentically happy to me.

  • @robinyourpsychicgirlfriend
    @robinyourpsychicgirlfriend Před 10 měsíci +2

    I didn't get to watch the finale.. you spared me 3 hours. Thank you, Dave. Great recap!

  • @mytrishy1
    @mytrishy1 Před 10 měsíci +14

    But WHY was Barb there?!

    • @thatgirl9532
      @thatgirl9532 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Peter went to paradise 😂

    • @laisanibale2154
      @laisanibale2154 Před 10 měsíci +1

      She paid her seat to be there

    • @ilovegoodsax
      @ilovegoodsax Před 10 měsíci

      And dragged her poor, long-suffering husband with her lol. Barb is a latina "drama-mama" who loves attention!

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad4574 Před 10 měsíci +17

    Yes. She made the right choice ❤❤

  • @CraftyComeLately
    @CraftyComeLately Před 10 měsíci +8

    Dotun seemed more nervous and she with him. But apparently they had goofy play time which they didn't air because she told that to her sister. The part I didn't like or worry for Charity is how sge couldn't make up her mind at the 1159 hour and she was putting it on her mom to decide. If you could flip a coin, you shouldn't be engaged to either. Too indecisive.

  • @WenD1908
    @WenD1908 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Dotun was my first choice, so glad she picked him. Her mother…her reaction was muted. Definitely not the same as Dotun’s mother when she met Charity.
    I was wrong, I didn’t expect her to pick him at all even though he was my choice. I wish them the best and hope they don’t put their relationship on social media. It’s for the best.

  • @thatgirl9532
    @thatgirl9532 Před 10 měsíci +14

    Charity chose Dotun they look so happy together!!!
    I am quite disappointed they chose the obvious guy instead of giving us something different.
    There’s no Asian bachelor lead still & I really wanted John B to be first!

    • @thatgirl9532
      @thatgirl9532 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@trudytriad4574 Latino??? Huh?

    • @thatgirl9532
      @thatgirl9532 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@trudytriad4574 he is white though & I’m just saying about time we got an Asian bachelor. You need to relax, yourself.

    • @thatgirl9532
      @thatgirl9532 Před 10 měsíci

      😂

  • @ewolfgirl
    @ewolfgirl Před 10 měsíci

    My husband had to renovate a big 9:41 house with all popcorn ceilings (and make them smooth). Total nightmare

  • @susiekidd9183
    @susiekidd9183 Před 10 měsíci

    We found it perplexing why they didn’t take the opportunity to recognize the Hawaiian fire tragedy too! And perplexed as to why they’d send Charity & Dotun to Greece where they’re now dealing with so many devastating fires as well… hopefully they can delay their trip.

  • @trinavictor6088
    @trinavictor6088 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Can you do a video on who was picked to date Joey? I fell asleep they kept teasing after commercials.

  • @LeahTackles
    @LeahTackles Před 10 měsíci

    How many people looked up when you said "popcorn ceiling"? haha

  • @MIA20234
    @MIA20234 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Thank you for saving me three-hours, as Hulu has not streamed the program yet, and now I don't care ...moving on with my day! 😀

    • @jenniferhansen3622
      @jenniferhansen3622 Před 10 měsíci

      I still want to watch It though and I'm really irritated that it's not on hulu yet. 😫

    • @sq3004
      @sq3004 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@jenniferhansen3622 I signed up for a trial live stream so I could watch it without the media telling me who won.

    • @jenniferhansen3622
      @jenniferhansen3622 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@sq3004It's streaming on there now. I already knew this spoilers, but I still wanted to watch. 😊

  • @brooklynbred1460
    @brooklynbred1460 Před 10 měsíci +5

    From the moment this show began there has never been a beautiful black couple shine. Finally we have a black Bachelorette. Now we need a black bachelor. And I don't count the guy who snuck and chose a racist

  • @teresas.4541
    @teresas.4541 Před 10 měsíci

    You coulda done this recap in 2 minutes! 😀

  • @Twisted-Life
    @Twisted-Life Před 10 měsíci +1

    🤣I will never get tired of the Madi Prew clip 🤣"Ya, but does he have, like, like, this swag!?"
    "Girrrrl, she don't know" Love it!

  • @patriciawright827
    @patriciawright827 Před 10 měsíci

    Although Charity’s mom was very diplomatic - at least on-camera - she made an important observation: both Dotun and Joey came from different “cultures” than Charity. Given the two choices, she may have been concerned about which union, in the long haul, would create less culture shock; face fewer barriers related to communication, expectations, and understanding; and require less adjustment for Charity and the family. I wonder, if Xavier had handled his “ true confessions” more maturely, would Mom might have received Xavier a lot more favorably than Dotun? 0:07 Of course, from the beginning, Charity herself had preconceived notions (and perhaps stereotypes) about Xavier that she might not have been able to overcome.
    BTW, I found the whole bit about Dotun’s parents returning from Africa just to meet Charity was a bit contrived….

  • @SKimilku
    @SKimilku Před 10 měsíci +5

    What if they bring Zach’s number 2 pick I forgot her name but she was totally ruined. And make her the Bachelorette?

  • @henryhealing444
    @henryhealing444 Před 10 měsíci +1

    LOL ~ you just saved me 3 hours I didn't want to lose watching this after all the spoilers. Also, I've been a life coach since 2011. You're 100% on that one. :) (Hey, I have a couple graduate degrees in psychology to back it up but still ... 'life coach' has a vibe even I don't like). Another great one Dave!

  • @ilovegoodsax
    @ilovegoodsax Před 10 měsíci +10

    From the moment Dotun stepped out of the limo and introduced himself to Charity, the chemistry between the two was undeniable. However, odds are this relationship will be like all the other made-for-tv relationships -- these two won't last more than six months. 💯

  • @rays.3242
    @rays.3242 Před 10 měsíci +10

    Here's my real issue with the Joey selection as bachelor. I finally realize how the game is played. The show knows their audience, they also know their racist audience and panders to them. When they chose Charity as bachelorette, no one for 1 sec ever thought she would choose a black man as the winner. If they did, they wouldn't have selected her. Fastforward to the show being filmed. They knew the outcome so they intentionally tried to sabotage her rating by moving the slot to 9pm. Something I believe has never happened in 20 years of the show. They figured their main fanbase would not be invested in a black love story but when the season was still getting views and fans were complaining because they knew it was done on purpose, they moved it back to 8pm. It was always gonna be Joey because the fact that Charity had this white man competing against 3 black men and then for him to lose to an African man, was gonna piss their main audience off so to cushion the blow for them the gave Joey that redemptive moment by making him bachelor. Like I said Dotun would have to lose for John to be bachelor. My gripe with it is, if you wouldnt have given it to a broken hearted Dotun, you shouldn't give it to a broken hearted Joey either. Its all politics and I hate that. I wish Joey the best but im passing on this next season. The franchise/ decision makers will never get it, they're the problem.

    • @jones877
      @jones877 Před 10 měsíci

      Wouldnt racists want charity to pick a black man?

    • @sq3004
      @sq3004 Před 10 měsíci +3

      They did something similar on Michelle Young's season. 3 biracial men to choose from yet they choose Clayton as the Bachelor. If Charity had picked Joey, they wouldve found someone white to be the Bachelor, Tanner or Bradon for the drama and the views. I agree, they likely choose Charity becuase they hoped and believed she would pick a white man. Charity is also a black swan and people genuinely fell in love with her whole demanor and vibe. Plus she's nice and slim and doesnt look fake. I love black love, but Joey was also a real sweetheart, I wouldve been happy to see them together either way.

    • @sirsteve8999
      @sirsteve8999 Před 10 měsíci

      The viewership have been steadily going down regardless of race. Was it to "sabotage" Charity's season? Doubt it. Would John be the Bachelor if Dotun lost? Doubt it. Dotun would probably be the next Bachelor unless he turned it down.

    • @rays.3242
      @rays.3242 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@sirsteve8999 lmao you've got to be kidding me they barely want black leads on their show and you actually think they would let an African man be the bachelor??? You're joking right. They only choose black leads their white audience can stomach. Matt James was a mixed race man who episode one told the world yes his skin is black but he is white too and made sure they paraded his beautiful white mom all throughout the season. Dont be delusional they definitely tried to sabotage her because in 20 seasons of the bachelorette and 27 season of the bachelor they never moved the time except for Charity's season. Part of the problem is not realizing there is one.

    • @patriciawright827
      @patriciawright827 Před 10 měsíci

      ⁠​⁠@@sq3004I mostly agree with you. EXCEPT: (1) after the Matt James disaster, much of which they created, I still think it will be a long time before they pick another Black Bachelor. They mishandled and miscalculated everything about Matt’s season - and let all their racist stereotypes of black men show in the process. In fact, I don’t trust them to select or handle a Black Bachelor. (2) It’s doubtful that, whomever Charity picked - a Black man or a White man - they went into Charity’s season aiming to have back to back Black Bachelor/Bachelorette seasons. My guess is that, from the beginning, they were only scouting for viable White candidates. Therefore, from that season the only viable candidates were Joey, Brayden and Tanner (who we barely saw and still don’t know how he went so far.) Other than the recently heartbroken Joey, those were slim pickings!

  • @rainclouds1188
    @rainclouds1188 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Did Charity make the right choice....hmmm, I think not and that's why she was crying so hard when she said goodbye to Joey.. Her Mom, Dad and sister loved Joey and was ready to welcome him into the family.

  • @besame5504
    @besame5504 Před 10 měsíci

    Glad she is outtie.

  • @tinatiger8734
    @tinatiger8734 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I could care less about the bachelorette and I'm Glad they were cut off due to NFL game, now they'll know how those of us that watch Claim to Fame feel when it doesn't come on because the Bachelorette goes for 2hrs

  • @dixiematias3130
    @dixiematias3130 Před 10 měsíci +6

    She should have picked Joey, dotun is boring. Dotun and charity just don’t work. Charity parents did like him better

  • @samanthabarry4784
    @samanthabarry4784 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Well after watching charity’s mom segment, I really think dotun and charity are doomed. Her mom knows somethings not right! You could see right through her 💯.

    • @Kikeo1984
      @Kikeo1984 Před 10 měsíci +14

      She just saw what he looked like and made a prejudgement. I think they will be fine.

    • @samanthabarry4784
      @samanthabarry4784 Před 10 měsíci +5

      I disagree. Her mom had a feeling and it was so obvious. I hope the best for them but I truly think her mama was right.

    • @terriw919fyi
      @terriw919fyi Před 10 měsíci +10

      Time will tell. I wonder if the mother's reaction would be the same if she met Dotun first.

    • @pattyduke3079
      @pattyduke3079 Před 10 měsíci +6

      I'm hoping that Dotun isn't Charity's usual type. Charity's mother saw something in him she wasn't pleased with. You have to trust a mother's instinct. My siblings and I wouldn't get serious with some we were dating until our mother met them. Her radar was uncanny.

    • @samanthabarry4784
      @samanthabarry4784 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Patty- I agree with you 100%