5 Signs You Have a Wounded Inner Child (How to Heal)
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- čas přidán 31. 05. 2024
- In this video, we are going to teach you how to heal from a wounded inner child. This video is for anyone who feels like they have a damaged inner child and wants to learn how to heal it. If you're struggling with self-esteem, anxiety, or depression, then this video is for you. I'll share with you how to heal a wounded inner child and restore balance and peace in your life. This is an important video for anyone who wants to heal their life and become more self-sufficient. So if you're ready to start healing, then check out this video!
If you can, seeking professional help is also a great first step.
We also made a video on the things your inner child needs to listen RIGHT NOW: • 5 Things Your Wounded ...
Be sure to check out the video too.
Writer: Brie Villanueva
Editor: Caitlin McColl
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
Animator: Aury @aury
CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
REFERENCES:
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Do you suspect you might have a wounded inner child?
Yes
Yeah
I dont know didn't watch yet
Maybe
I did.
Complex trauma, complex ptsd...when I became a parent I became the parent I always wanted, nurturing and protective. Then I adopted two little girls, and everything I did for them was healing to me. I raised a house full of kids, and it was absolutely healing to see them grow up confident, happy, and loved. That's my revenge, the ability to love and be loved. 😏
Congrats! You made it! Turned trauma into something positive!😊
This was not my experience of being a parent. I can do it for my daughter, but not for myself. My inner wounds are too overwhelming. What I do for my daughter doesn't apply to myself.
I chose NOT to have children b/c I didn't want to be the kind of parent I had.
using your children to comfort your own anxiety or trauma is probably not going to make them functional people in the log run
@@zaragrace964You were super educated by experience how NoT to be...i wish You will still enjoy a Family.❤
Timestamps
1). Re-parenting 1:11
2). Earning trust 2:17
3). Explore the past 3:23
4). Confront childhood trauma lies 4:25
5). Be mindful 5:30
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
is that it
theres a typo on number three should be past not fast fyi (just letting you know not trying to be mean or anything)
@@noncasges423 thanks for telling I about that
Thank you good man
@@quazar98 you are welcome
I just realized how meaningful the symbolism in the Rapunzel story is. A tower that keeps you safe but traps you from the outside world? A safe place that's toxic and the dangerous outside world full of fresh air and new experiences? Literally hair that grows and has magic powers until it's cut and she's free from it?
I've also kind of realized I'm not processing data today. I'm not thinking and absorbing information. I'm in a sort of thought deadzone. A CZcams break I think.
I just realized that, too. I had never thought about this story in that way. It’s interesting because in a lot of stories hair represents power.
Gaining weight, hiding behind a hoard are two ther ways people isolate themselves. Isolation is not good for anyone.
me too🫨💘
From being afraid of darkness,
to finding peace in it
From expecting love and care,
to accepting realities
From crying when it hurts,
to harming ourselves
"We all grew up"
Beautifully phrased.
Maybe already just another bad day, but these lines made me cry
Some didn't get to
For me, it’s not not living up to my inner child’s expectations. It haunts me, but recently I’ve found motivations and strength from remembering these thoughts and promises I had to myself. Never give up.
I think this is why most people tend to "forget their childhood", they can't cope with that fact and end burying all the experiences altogether.
Just don't expect me to live up to your inner child's expectations, cause I'm not very well balanced these days.
Happiness and fulfillment in life isn't just, or even primarily, things that you get just by reaching your goals. Happiness and fulfillment is a path rather than a destination. Reaching goals tells your mind that you're capable of reaching goals that you set, which is why everyone should have a number of realistic and small short-term goals, whether or not they contribute to any long-term goals. Happiness isn't a stash of treasure that makes you happy to have, but the universe paying your mind rent as it stays on the right path. A person can have everything they feel they might ever want and be unhappy, or nothing that they want and be very happy, because you can't be happy if you don't have wishes, desires and goals, and you're less likely to have those or experience having them in a positive way if you don't think it's realistic to attain them.
That's the basis of the tragedy of narcissists. When they won't allow their minds to be changed or contributed to even by those that they care for, it's often because they truly do care about the matters they insist that they're right about and they hold themselves to high enough expectations that it tends to make them feel insulted when others try to present them with evidence that might infer they're not doing proper justice to their own values. When a person declines to accept any knowledge and wisdom that listening to others might provide them with, they're both discouraging the other person from possibly ever being up for trying to helpfully correct or teach *any* person who might find benefit in their efforts to be beneficial (which can lead to feelings of uselessness), and the narcissist, at the same time, is denying their would-be helpers the opportunity to prove to them that people who (and ideas that) don't agree with them can still be valuable to them. Narcissists are born from a habit of not listening to people, which usually becomes a trend when they don't feel like anyone ever listens to *them*, which can be true regardless of who's right or wrong.
If a person automatically assumes that most other people aren't worth them listening to, they'll trick themselves into denial of that by only listening to people who they believe agree with them, that can help them defend what they say, so happiness, to them, then is a matter of knowing that they've successfully held their ground---because success, to them, is their track record of never having to compromise representing the fact that they never actually have to concede anything in order to maintain their sense of security. A lonely, sad life is a life devoid of challenges. If life ever feels oppressively tiring to live out every day, it can be a sign of being so scared of anything challenging due to too many negative challenges having traumatized you in regards to difficulties that some of your energy is being spent avoiding any challenges more than what already unpleasantly challenges you. Similar to a narcissist refusing to believe that others who would challenge them to see from other perspectives can be of value to them, depressed folks can see challenges as threats because they sap energy.
But exciting and rewarding challenges don't often cost as much energy as they *give*! So good, good, good for you! Give yourself visual ways to track your progress! Watering plants is therapeutic because their health is evidence of your successful efforts. You don't need to become a gardener, but having a little day planner calendar that doubles as a mini diary tracking your goals might be an idea. Good luck, friendo! 🌻🌞🌈
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It's definitely tough when you feel that you are not living up to your goals and dreams as a kid. What advice would you give to someone in your shoes?
The situation in which I'm is terrible like I can't explain it's Idk WAHT are my feelings should I laugh or cry
I REALLY WANT TO SCREAM OUT LOUD 😭🥺
Sometimes, the best way to care for your inner child (& your inner teen & your inner young adult) is to get the heck away. I left my parents’ house at 19, moved across the country, and never went back. Even when my mother finally reached out to me, I didn’t go back. I talked to her on the phone once a week, sent cards and gifts for birthdays and major holidays, but still stayed as far as I could without leaving the country. I got counseling, got married, had my child, and followed the advice my counselor and parenting classes. Now I’m 69, my daughter is 35, and we are did fine & continuing fine.
Wow your courageous story is inspiring!!
Obligatory, given your age: *_Nice._*
Amazing 🙏🏽
I’ve also connected with the story of Rapunzel and Tangled. My parents were narcissists and were controlling and overbearing. They didn’t let me hang out with friends or even family so as an only child I often felt like my room was my ‘tower’. Having adhd, my mom often made comments about me not being able to stand on my own. I struggle now with isolating myself whenever I’m down or struggling. It’s bittersweet bc I do like my space as an introvert but I often feel lonely as well. Loneliness is something I know too well. Currently in the process of escaping my tower and breaking free but it’s scary as hell
you're exactly like me.....
You are not alone. I, too, am the only child of 2 narcissists. The work is hard as hell. I think I'm finally at the core of my issues. It hurts.
We are bros
Literally me
@@vikramo6994 my mom never let me hang out with my family or friends. And my dad also sided with her saying "you must obey your mom"
Now as a pre adult, i dont like to hang around with anyone
Thanks for this vid, I just found out recently that my inner child was wounded.
Same
@@rayzorite Using this video I shall heal you. Don't worry my inner child.
I am 52, diagnosed with complex PTSD a year ago. The best thing I ever did was start working on healing my inner child. Like some of the comments here I also thought I could forget about my past, but it comes back with vengeance. You have to do the work to heal. It’s hard, but I am getting better every day. Thanks for your post, more people need to learn about inner child work.
Good for you. That gives hope to the rest of us. I’ve been in therapy for decades and it just doesn’t seem to do any good. I keep trying though. Thanks for being an inspiration.
Hi. What do you mean with the word ''work''. What do you do exactly?
Thanks
Hi Michelle. I left a comment a couple days ago and then I see that someone just asked you a question and it was something I had been thinking about asking you at the time, so I wanted you to know that there are at least two people who would love to know what you found that is actually helping you. I feel like I’ve tried everything! I know not everyone’s the same and different things work for different people, but I’d sure love to know what has been beneficial for you. If you don’t mind sharing of course. Thank you! 😊
@@erimozata5120 Hi, the work is looking into your past❤️ even when it’s super painful.
@@whitebirchtarot HI😊 so sorry I didn’t see the comment. What’s helping me? Well, I have a life coach and a somatic trauma therapist. I have had 7 therapists in the last 20 years, and no one was able to help me until my life coach. I was in a dark place, with so much shame, and I hated myself. I also didn’t like the younger me, I was abused and neglected and unsafe , and i just didn’t want to face it. I had an autistic son which was so hard(he is a blessing, an angel). I started self medicating with alcohol, until i was addicted. I quit drinking 5 years and 9 months ago, and then got off my anti depressants, and then everything hit me. The work is looking back, and loving your younger self, so you can love your self today. I had to set boundaries with people who always took advantage and treated me poorly, I stopped talking to my narcissistic mother 2 days before I quit drinking. My childhood was extremely bad. I am still struggling at times, but there is no cure for complex ptsd, i just have to learn what works for me when i am triggered, but loving myself really helped. I use to starve myself, now since doing inner child work, I make sure to at least feed myself a couple of times a day. that was hard. Sorry for rambling, I hope i helped a little❤️
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."
❤❤❤
Amen
I had that inner wounded child.. but I started parenting myself since I was 14.. Without knowing any of these advices.. Yep, it may sounds weird but.. I had amazing results out of that skill.. Now I'm in my 20s.. And yea, becoming aware bout what's happening around you, even inside of ur family is very important to keep ur mind in well shaped.. as may it sounds horrible.. but u have to do it..
Taking care of other people's inner children is sorta like practicing free, psychic babysitting. Your rates have got to go up...In THIS economy?
@@Pimp-Master Not just taking care other people's inner child friend.. it's important to get to know bout the ways that makes ur inner child get wounded even more.. I mean it's totally up to certain individuals whether they want or not to take care of other people's inner child.. but becoming aware bout other people means that u getting know bout the ways that could possibly can bring harm to ur innerchild.. that's what important.. u just don't want let the child only getting healed.. u need to create a shield that helps to avoid furthermore harm that causes to that inner child getting even more wounds..
It's strange how we sometimes stumble across effective ways to heal ourselves. This happened to me several times that I think there must be something guiding me indirectly
Just be aware that parenting yourself comes with other downsides. It's very common to "adult" yourself when growing up in a dysfunctional family.
@@lianevoelker9845 it already happened unfortunately.. I mean not recently.. but a long ago.. but what I admire the most is that this method helps u to bring yourself self awareness very quickly..
This video made me sob. Since childhood ive always been mentally caught in trauma and now youve put it into a label. I have adhd and have a very hard time processing things and emotions, so if i dont reflect i would literally never know how i felt about anything or understood why anything happened. I grew up with parents who have anger issues and didnt comfort me much at all and forced me to face the world on my own, so that alone has given me a lot of trauma and my inner child is very wounded. Add on everything else ive been through and if you artistically represented what the child would look like then itd be like a brutal murder scene. Im working through it all now and im so thankful for this channel, thank you for what you do. Its so validating to understand that what i go through and do is normal
Thank you for taking the time to share something that's so personal to you. Sometimes, when there are more than one thing going on at once, it can be extremely overwhelming and discouraging. What are some things that you are doing now to take care of your mental health in the midst of it all?
@@mononoke5942 ti say the least, it helps you in raising awareness of your own self. More connection == less distraction, also :D
Have the confidence in yourself that you are moving forward with strength and can deal with anything life has to offer.
I completely feel this, even down to the ADHD thing. I went through the same thing. I wish I would’ve known how to heal when I was in my 20s. It sucks when it feels like my youth has slipped by dwelling in all that hurt and pain.
Oh please
I honestly can't remember a time in childhood when I felt loved or was happy. It was a nightmare I was always trying to escape... started running away at the age of 6 and I still want to escape from the world and go to heaven where I hope to finally find relief and acceptance in the arms of God... because nobody seems to understand or like me here because of my emotional instability and when I try to shine they think I need to be taken down a notch and humble myself so they aren't uncomfortable I guess
I too have felt those same feelings. We have to give ourselves love and find things to enjoy in life. My happy ONLY happiness in childhood and now is swimming or outdoors. Hiking and nature can heal us
If my inner child is wounded, he's probably put a tourniquet on it himself, because that's what he learned- if you want something taken care of, there's no point in asking an authority figure for help because they're useless at best, so you're going to have to do it yourself. Anything from resolving a bullying issue with violence because schools do nothing about it to walking miles because you're tired of having to harass your parents to get a ride to an important function, the little me that lives in my brain is viciously independent and that continues to inform my total refusal to ask for help to this day.
I see myself in you.. My little me has made me terrified to ask for help, even when I truly need it because I never got it or I was punished for it somehow. My mom hated when I missed the bus and always chewed me out if I did since the 5th grade I believe and if I woke up late, I got in trouble. So I just like.... don't ask for help now. It caused me to almost fail high school and flunk out because I was so scared to ask my parents to help me do better.... Hell, I'm scared to ask anyone honestly..
@@YaYa-hq9kt It's not so much that I'm afraid to ask for help as that I see it as pointless. It has no consequences and produces no results.
Fantastic use of never using a period. You could teach zoom classes cuz that's a true art.
Sounds like you had a rough time, but it doesn’t mean that you have to ask an authority figure for help. How about just asking a friend? I had to grow up basically raising myself also and I’m fiercely independent as well, but I’ve learned that all humans need help at some time and I had to teach myself to ask. So now others help me and I help others. That’s the way the world works! You sound like my sister. She would die rather than ask for help and that doesn’t make any sense. You have the power to change yourself. It sounds to me like you’re afraid to trust. I get that, but why choose to be that way forever? 💕
@@YaYa-hq9kt maybe you’re trusting the wrong people? I never used to ask for help, but as I got older I was forced to and it was a really good thing actually. Now I have no problem asking for help, well just a little bit, but for the most part it works out OK. You just have to learn who to trust. If you don’t take, then other people don’t get the chance to give. There are good people in the world, honestly there are. The key is finding the right people who care. 💕
I didn't get any or very little love as a child. I was never thought how to handle the worlds challenges. I had to care for myself. It's now time to forgive my inner child for all the emotions, and take care of it. I am 49 and suffer from anxiety, people pleasing and give too much of myself away. I am very loving but also seek confirmation. Learning to accept myself and the shortcomings I have is a life long struggle. Now and then I have had suicidal thoughts and also got professional help. But I have realised that I have to help myself. I am an adult now and I can stand up for my inner child. There is no need to be afraid anymore.
I definitely have a wounded child. I was told years ago that I was too old for my Barbies. I eventually had to sneak them out but kept pushing them away during most parts of my life. I finally accepted that I truly love them because I love to do things with them. They ground me and take the edge off in the anxiety that I might be feeling. I now have some Barbies again. And I'm being mindful by making things for them. I have felt way better since then. I called them my coping girls.
The only one I don't think I can ever do is 3. explore the past, I'm sure many can but my head made a conscious choice to block out much of the abuse I endured and I feel digging into those memories will just uncork the dark places I've done everything to forget. I'm happy not knowing, the less I know of then the more I can heal now 💜
For me I had to let out the past otherwise I wouldn't be where I'm at not only with my walk with Christ but also with the relationship of both my parents.
It sucked!!!!! I went to a therapist that I’m pretty sure is a narcissist herself. She did not get to know me well, (one week), before starting a treatment that was not good for me. (EMDR)…She violated patient-client relationship multiple times, and used my time to frequently tell me stories of her own, often the same story repeated at two or three sessions. Finally had enough and walked away from her. That was 2019. Took 3 years to finally start feeling like myself again. I got better results and learned more about myself, working on my own. I had to heal first from that experience! And then I could start healing the rest. It would’ve been nice and probably a little easier had I had a friend or companion to lean on, but at least I know I did it on my own. 🥰 (and a LOT of help from God/spirit/source, the universe, whatever you like to call “it”. ) 🥰😇 I completely understand why you don’t want to. Much love and respect to you. 😊
@@isaiahvoss that's fair and I hope you are doing well 🫂 in my instance I'm estranged from my dad due to a lot of what he did and my mum cut me out (and chose the abuser) when I was a teen. Haven't seen hide nor hair from her since and hopefully never will, she made that choice. So I think the lack of parents/blocked memories just helps to soften the ache around my past and I'm alright with that.
@@namethestars Thank you both for sharing your thoughts around the subject of dealing with your past. Though processing your past is essential to healing, finding the right resources and timing is also as critical. Do you think the past is something you will ever want to confront given the right resources or support network?
It's called "blissful ignorance", but IMHO it's hardly a truly "blissful" things.
For me, it works the opposite: since I am deeply appassionate in math, physics and most of all computer science, the knowledge about all of cause-effect principles plus understanding "why" I'm in the current situation helps, because I have a rational explanation connecting the past I've lived and the "forces" I'm living today. Therefore, I can actually __choose__ to let the past go and to avoid those "forces" at all, preferring my own will.
Back about you, acknowledging the past IS painful, I'm not stating the opposite, BUT it might help you to both understand why you are acting, feeling and preferring the way you are and separating that past (with all of its consequences) from your present and, more importantly, your future.
Also, "running away" from the memories of the past by "hiding" them will not remove them: facing them, and strongly stating that those past experiences does live in the past only will help tin moving on. It requires courage and bravery, of course, and TRUE convinction. You also need to understand what "true convinction" : for me, it's the chain of logical steps and mechanisms, rooting back to ancestral and animal instincts and "gears", for you it might be something else.
Build your basis (logical like me, or whatever) to disconnect the influence of your past over your present, and you'll be free. "More free", to say the least. Your "Will" will thank you :)
imma keep my focus on this over the next couple weeks. this hit pretty hard, i dont think i can get my head together enough to let it help me but im really grateful that youve put this up so everybody can find some solace.
My inner child is happy I made a different choice for myself than what my family expected. It's not good to have low expectations for your children. It's like setting them up to fail. I had my own mind and wanted a better life for myself.
That being said you shouldn't have high expectations for your children either of you're one of those parents who "needs" their kid to do a certain career or hobby
@@intermediateingrid5746 I will continue to have high expectations. That's not for you to tell me. God made me just right and I will continue to shine. Have a great day😊
A lot of us do but sadly with fads to how society is.
It is sometimes so hard to recover your inner child with others
Do it privately. I could possibly hook you up with a mountain cabin. You free to discuss it over lunch?
fads are illusions. be genuine with yourself and don't try to fit in.
I found therapy definitely helps! The writing letter part is really good. Also I think of my future children I don’t have yet and what I’d tell them. I also look at pictures of myself as a child and tell her I love her and I’m sorry. That things at that age were not my fault but now I can break free from my parents mistakes and make a better life for myself. It’s hard as my adult life were full of mistakes due to an unhealed inner child but it’s never too late to change and do better.
Yes! Those childhood pictures are great tools to use. 🩷
This isn’t 5 signs you have a wounded inner child. This is five signs to care for your wounded inner child.
For me, I revisit the hurtful moments and feel that "in the moment" emotion and tell the little me that "you deserve to be seen and heard". I was ignored by a caregiver, she didn't even look at me. This was revealed to me as i went back in my mind.
Affirmations, nightly reprogramming, R.C. Blakes and Louise Hay has helped ALOT.
Those 5 things told in the video are true, it's hard but doable. Just remember, hope is the last thing one losses in it's life, so seek your new dreams and life goal while in this process.
The divorce on my parents had to get me to rethink of my past due to my relationship with both of my parents and it was a toxic environment I was glad to get away from but it used to send triggers to my mind until talking to my counselor about it. That was the inner child for me to start to be happy with myself. I had to think of when I was happy until the breaking point where all hell broke loose and I lost the person I once knew. But in the end I had to forgive my dad for his mistakes. And I had to write my thoughts down in a journal for two years along with other mental health issues as well. I'm more happier today than I was until the last 3 years of my teenage life. I'm more happier now around christ-centered people and my faith as well. Don't let your past make you bitter, let it make you better.
I've been practising this for a long time - supporting myself, telling myself kind inspiring words. Parents never did this. And if I drew a picture of my inner child, it would be a ninja, but all covered in scars
I really do love how you guys are doing videos a lot more often, keep up the good work!
They've been doing it for 10 years now. The money is abso-friggen fantastic. I just hope they aren't using SVB, the bank that just imploded.
Thank you for the kind words and support!
I've definitely got a wounded inner child.
To the max.
My inner child wants vengeance. I've never been a victim by nature, but I was broken as a child by stronger superiors. A victim would've just wanted to cry, but I can sense that creeping feeling of revenge. To hurt them even more.
1:40 is me to my little sister. When I was depressed she was the one who kept me going, the thought of her growing up the same way I did kept me going. I wanna help her and be there for her since I never really had someone who did that for me.
Glad you posted this as it helped me to fight my demons. I have to talk to myself like I’m the parent I needed as I child. It’s like I had to gaslight myself. Exploring the past is crucial but dangerous if you don’t know what your thoughts and emotions are trying to tell you. Now I keep journal to write things down and process it.
What would you say is dangerous? Not arguing I'm just trying to heal and interested in your perspective.
@@dewaynemcclure like when the mind reflects it might trigger feelings of depression. And maybe suicide. Thoughts, feelings and behavior are all connected.
@@pierre0227yes I absolutely get you that it does trigger those feelings. So how do you avoid that plus do the work?
@@doriacortez1667 well when I had thoughts of suicide, it’s because I would look at my whole life and compare myself to others. Comparing yourself means you don’t love yourself. That’s just an example. It all depends what the thought is and how to counter it. Think of yourself as a child and speak to yourself like an adult.
I love that this channel has a narrator with a comforting voice. ❤
Could you do one on narcissistic therapists and how they hurt the person in therapy and how they being other people around that client into the gaslight…..
It’s such an awful experience and people should know the signs to look out for.
This made me cry. Thank you for this.
thank you for this video, inner child work is my “homework” for therapy.
love the voice describing each video, it's so soothing to listen to.
Some may use it against you.
Calling you negative or a bad person.
Gaslighting and shunning.
They can't shun first, because then how could they gaslight you?
I swore I would never make my child feel like my parents made me feel. And I was successful. He told me so himself.
I m right now healing my inner child since 3 years... Thanks for your videos... It helps me a lot... I m always grateful to you my whole life.....
I m healing my inner child by continuously saying don't worry... It's not your fault it's ok.... You are human.... Human make mistakes.... Just fix it and move on... And go ahead.. Or no problem if you r feeling low or unproductive today or a whole month.... It's totally fine.... And I always say that you did this right in past.. You did that right thing in a past.... I know I did countless mistake in my past.... But for healing my inner child I am often remind him good thing that he did in the past .... I always choose to think what I want instead of what I did wrong in past.... I m right now in not so good condition.... But I know it's because of my wounded inner child who is suffering from childhood trauma.... I m 29 year old..... I m on the way to heal my childhood trauma without any help of psychiatrist..... And I m 50-60% suceed in my way....
Thank you. Great video. So true! 😮
I think,in my case the history is repeating itself,I can hear same songs and all the things happened on same date,but with my new certainly different lover!
Thank you for making this, it literally made me tear up😢 looks like I have some healing to do❤
Postponing it is much more fun. Look into that.
huh, not the only one :)
Thanks for this comment. What did you resonate with the most?
@@Psych2go All of them but mostly number 4, confront childhood trauma lies. My family are narcissists and they made me believe alot of the lies they told me about myself but now I'm unlearning all the toxicity one day at a time.🌟
Me too
My dad was a shirt-tempered, controlling, and narcissistic asshole when I was a kid, so this definitely explains why I'm almost 40 and can't get my life going. I can't shake the feeling that I need help or permission to do anything or go anywhere even though I don't. I feel completely worthless. Everything I could've done with my life and the person I could've been are all gone because of him. He always had a very unhealthy nostalgia for when my sister and I were little kids and he made sure he'd do anything to stop us from evolving as people no matter the cost. Luckily, my sister didn't stand for it and she's doing very well today, but I was too weak to fight it. Now I have no real chance at a future and just want to die. Granted, he's mellowed since then, but the damage is done and he's completely unaware he's done anything wrong. I try to let it go and move past it, but it's just not possible. It's like admitting defeat and I don't want to give him that conformation, even though he's already won. I can't fucking stand that prick.
I think it might help you to look at family roles especially the Golden Child. While some of the issues are different you may find a local CODA group very helpful
@@Dietconsulting I think it's too late for that now.
Really helped, It will be interesting trying to confront lies, like "You don't breath/walk/enjoy like a normal person"
Dr. Nicole lapera has articles written on her about issues with gaslighting poc and black peoples experiences, as well as other issues.
I followed her for a while myself.
Thank you for the information in this video. ❤
This is alot like hypnosis, I love this!❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for making these videos❤love your voice too, it's so soothing❤
Thank you I was in need to see and hear this. still learning how to be kind to myself 🥰🥺
I wish I had someone to talk to ,I only speak to my poetry , writing & using music to make me feel better but it's hard honestly....The narcissist parent I have gets more sinister by the day & I'm not sure what to do anymore ,tried asking what I do wrong in life and it got me in trouble ,tried praying ,my Dad says he doesn't abuse me and my mom but his actions speak volumes , everyday I'm always in pain......
Thank you for this video ,this channel is full of angels 💞💞💞💞
I can pray for you. Jesus told him “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me." John 14:6
@@isaiahvoss big deal what's Jesus gonna do Lol
@@isaiahvoss thank you very much ,may God bless you ,I can't do it alone ✨
Joan Jett also said "Don't Abuse Me."
@@astalavista5328 A lot, actually, if we let Him 😊😊
Man, I wish I had this information growing up. This would've helped me out a lot.
Love all you content !!! And your videos are soooo cute !!!! Thank you for all the mental health awareness!!
I love how you mentioned Patrick!!
Thank you Psych2go, I will always cherish and remember this channel even when I get old ❤
I hope all of us get healed love ourselves and be a great parents love u all
Thank you by this vid, i now know how much kids can be cruel when we are in touch with our iner chield..
Outstanding video thank you 🙏🏾
thank you for sharing this ❤️
Thank you for this video ❤
Great video! Please do more videos on this topic of the inner child
That was excellent, thank you.
Carl Jung is absolutely my favourite psychologist, a very pleasant and beautiful outlook on the world has come from reading his books
this came at the perfect time i couldn’t have timed it any better even if i tried
So helpful, thank youuuuuu
Best video yet imo.
Thanks for this ❤
Thank you this was very helpful
Just THINKING about doing this makes me very emotional.
A lovely friend sent me this video. Thank you friend 😘
Thank you so much for this video
perfect!!
PERFECT!!!
THANK YOU!!!!
Just what I needed to hear
Wounded inner child is as real as it gets
You have a real soothing voice...
She's also incredibly gorgeous. Life absolutely isn't fair.
Thanks, some good tips here. xx
This helped me a lot. thank you
Thankyou so much!
I love your channel you deserve millions
One of the most painful memories of my childhood
Has been seeing how isolated was from gentle love.
No adult in my life ever spoke to me and asked why I didn't fit in.
I was a shy sad unsocialised child.
Afraid and emotionally frozen I cut off my pain to numb my body.
I numbed my emotions to not feel.
I hope you're good now. Emotions are like little children, the more you hush at them, the more they'll weep and wail. So embrace your emotions, we all feel them.
I understand. There was very little grace in my household. I always heard what I did wrong even when 99% was correct. I did not fit in and was questioned and blamed for it when it was more because my family’s lifestyle (religious) kept me isolated. I didn’t learn how to be social. I escaped by reading. So here’s my advice, take what works for you. Be kind to yourself. You are not a misfit, you were not taught. Go to counseling. It saved me. Keep trying and don’t expect to change overnight. These things take time. Remember…be kind to yourself.
So so relatable.
Yeah, just currently
Feeling stuck though. Please pray for continued healing and for breakthroughs 🙏🙏 Praying for you all too ❤️❤️
Thanks for your videos
This helped me understand better about myself, something that even my own parents haven't known for. About my inner child however...well...let's just say that, he's in a better place now...~ 😔
Your parents had to deal with both your outer and inner child. Maybe they deserve a break?
@@Pimp-Master I suppose your right, maybe I should too for some self reflection and get my headspace right. It shouldn't be as hard as it would seem right?~
Thank you so so much!
maybe I have an inner child,, very educational video,, greetings from a traditional Indonesian gold prospector 🇮🇩🙏🌹
Way sorry. We're only buying silver. Come back in 2 years?
The English commentory having a slang. Difficult for non native speakers to follow Neverthless content is relevant and very good. Lot of awareness is required on this topic for healing the traumatic child hood.
Patrick Teahan is the GOAT for inner child work! 💛
Yes, he a lifesaver. 💗
EDUCATIONAL channel
Thank you for making these...
The money's fantastic. They'll make more.
@@Pimp-Master I don't doubt that.
My hug to all the children in everyone. ❤️
This feel like a movie, imagined having inner youth inside you that can't leave your thought yet due to the past or something. But at the end, you try and find a way to let that inner child go while making friend along the way with em
So i had a very wounded inner child. I became I a babysitter (also that was only job I could with my skills) thanks to that job I had learned how to care for kids in non toxic way how to talk to them in difficult stressful situations. It was difficult I could see the patterns that my parents had put into me and I had to be very aware to no longer act the same way toward the kid I am taking care of. Fortunately it turned out I did a great job and kids love me and I had learn how to take care of my own inner child thanks to this and that’s amazing I didn’t even know that I have had so much love to offer to myself and others. I am healing it takes time today I am feeling down I am sick had to stay in bed and I feel like I am behind in life with some things. But that is ok because I had a hard time recently and I am taking my time to recover. Everyone have a great day!
Really liked this video. I'd like to know a bit more about the healing process tho. Doing some work on healing my inner child now and it's not easy.
Thank you psych2go, it is so helpful.
I just realized that during my childhood, my therapists told my mother I don't share much. I remember my parents always told me "Tell us! Talk! You MUST tell us your secrets and things that bother you!" That's why I refused to talk. I felt pressured, making me feel like my feelings were not mine. That my feelings are to be shared whether I like it or not, and I felt unsafe... So I didn't speak. I was quiet... I shut up and suffered. I wish they had given me time then... Maybe so many issues would be solved...
Excellent.
Wow what a beautiful video ❤👏 New Sub!
psych2go you are wonderful, endless happiness, love and appreciation to you, you really are helpful, when i was a kid, anime gaming got me through it, but thanks for making videos, best to you, im/where happy you exist, just wait for better, im/where happy your alive, thanks.
This kinda helped me a bit. I had a mental breakdown two nights before and I couldn’t even move at all yesterday. My parents didn’t really help much cuz whenever I talk to them it’s lecture and I feel pathetic. Yet they yell at me for calling myself that even tho they keep saying what I cry about it BS. So idk what to feel.
It’s video kinda helped me. I finally am gonna go see a Therapist and I’ll ask if they think that this is valid. Cuz I never felt like I was a kid much in my childhood..thanks for making this video it helped a lot
Needed to hear this xoxoxo
Yes, her name is Rose. Today is the day that my father blamed me for his divorce to my mother. I was in 8th grade at the time. Since then both of my parents have passed away but what he said impacts me to this day. I call her Rose because she wants to be loved but not hurt.