when you can't hold down a Job
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- čas přidán 27. 09. 2022
- when you can't hold down a Job perhaps the problem is you but you know what excepting that may help you fix the problem or at least make these things less of a surprise when you get caned.
Often it's not the job, but the people at the job making the environment unbearable.
Yeah. I am hearing a lot of that from people. They need to put some kind of legislation in place because it's hurting people financially. It's harder to hold down jobs if the people there are crazy.
@@Corina-dq2my True i work so hard and these co-workers always make fun of me for working so hard in a minimum wage job, and then i become a bad guy because im the guy that sets the bar at work, my manager likes me because i work hard lol but if she wasn't a manager she'd hate me too lol, i would love to just work quietly alone but man the motherfuckers at the workplace give me such a hard time, my things is if i work faster time will go faster, the reason why some people hate their jobs is because they work slow so time feels slow
I'm the same. To me jobs feel like mini prisons. The backstabbing and gossiping is sickening.
work is natural, but the way we work is not natural and no one can deny it
It is, but how do you survive without a job?
It's literally every God damn time man I'm 29 now wasted the past 10 years. 10 FUCKING .... YEARS!
It’s is best to focus on the work at hand and not make any friends or be friendly with co-worker at your job. Any little opening in your armor your co-worker will exploit that and use it against you.
I’ve been called a POs and loser but I worked at dominos for 2 years. A stupid Brazilian girl started working and the GM the boss wanted to fuck her he became obsessed so he turned into a simp and I got fired because she liked me. But my sons mother looks at me like I’m a pos who doesn’t want to provide for his family. I’ve tried even using this POS but no lawyer will take it. And also I’m white and 35 nobody gives a F about me and my problems. There is no foundation for me. There is no Justice for when I’m wronged.
Show up on time, work hard, perform well = treated like garbage in 2024
Dude, thats sadly True!!
My last boss was an obese gen x, he ran a construction company and slaved out his labor. No bonuses ever. I was fired for being 3 minutes late for an 80 mile commute.
Yep
But I try to get people to work together with me and the average person is too stupid they like being abused and told what to do
I've told people over and over, "Jobs don't want GOOD workers, they want OBEDIENT employees".
Look at how many co-workers we've had or have that are straight morons, makes u wonder how they've been there so long, but then u see how fake and brown-nosing they are, it all makes sense.
I tell people to learn a skill, I established an auto repair "side hustle" right out of high school, and it eventually became my full time self employment.
I still go back to "work" every once in a while to test the waters or when a company needs help(I got a CDL, hvac and welders cert.)...and man, nothing's changed, i can see why companies are always hiring.
The only thing that's always kept me afloat, is my loyal clients that still bring me cars after over decade..!
This is what I am coming to realize myself. I am trying my best to break this cycle. It's like they feast off of people by making them miserable. People are control freaks for the ones who are independent thinkers. It does not matter how well you do your job but if they can control you.
I can't do it anymore, never been able to brown nose the boss, thats not to mention all the backstabbing politics of coworkers .... I'm going to a better place soon
It's not that I can't hold down a job. It's that a job can't hold me down.
Ohhh...yea pple at work that kept a jobs were plain assholes
@ugi976 Most of them are, yes. But not all. And being an arsehole isn't their biggest problem, but boredom, stupidity, lack of willpower, depression, drugs and booze, laziness, obesity, lots more.
If you stay at the same job for 30 years--hell, even 10 years!--... it means clearly there's something wrong with you.
Exactly!
Same. I keep running into shitty upper management. Might get into contract or seasonal work.
Yes you and y’all are sorry you can’t get nowhere on f u can’t hold a job. You can’t do whatever you wanna do and land the job you want if you can hold down a job.. sorry sorry sorry
I'm 71 with the same job hopping history over my entire adult life. Well over 200 jobs and most of them would be considered good jobs, carrer jobs. I wish I could could share a solution for you younger people, but I don't have one. My only conclusion is that it's a the freedom to come and go as I please, and that comes at a price. Best I can tell you is live within your means and don't buy into keeping up with the Jones. Thanks for keeping it real.
capitalism is system when you can change your master at will now and get brief relief/dopamine that comes with change - but when you look at it, not much different than feudalism.
Coerced servitude and exploitation will remain.
Would argue things got worse in some ways, because now you are expected to pay entirely for housing and food.
People on unemployment etc
don't count because someone else is paying their way to live, so guess that improved?
It does mean however someone else will be exploited twice to sustain their lifestyle.
200 jobs. Holy shit. You would be a master of everything and nothing at the same time.
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Honest question: How'd you keep getting hired if you had a history of leaving jobs so soon? Especially for career jobs, doesn't nobody wanna hire someone they think is gonna leave right away?
@ArchIVEDCinema one, jobs were plentiful during most of my working life. Two, I was a journeyman machinist/maintenance mechanic. All they cared about was if someone could actually do the job. Three, reference checking wasn't so prevalent and I lied on applications. Things are different now and I would imagine more difficult to do that, but having a skilled trade would still help.
The system is becoming more and more restrictive and controlling.
My grandfather r.i.p. was a trucker for the simple fact he couldn't deal with the assholes at his factory. Told me before he died and still working that the job isn't worth it anymore. It's become an Orwell novel.
He did it over 40 years. Everyone loved the empathetic, down to earth old man.
Precisely restrictive & controlling.
Now trucking is even worst got cameras in your face all day they a fire u and u don’t even hit nun
We are surrounded and outnumbered by ego driven power hungry control freak sheeple
They have cameras, and gps trackers, and can even track your speed
This was an awesome video. I’ve realized that I’m not afraid of work, I’m afraid of stress. Anybody who’s struggling to stick with a job or any type of commitment (college, training, etc), you’re not damaged. Some people have adapted, and some of us haven’t and that’s okay. Don’t waste your energy and value on something you “can’t” do. Pour more into what you can do while strengthening your stress tolerance “muscle”
Me too . I hade wasting and trading my time to do the same thingfor 20 something years it feels robotic and they just pay just enough to pay your bills and then come back and work to get more money the monetary system is a scam . And he right there always a asshole on a job . It everywhere you go. And he right most people are just gonna be workers bees..
Absolute truth
Yeah I haven’t worked any job for over a year either. I think we’re just free souls man. We’re not supposed to live under these conditions. We should be free. It’s modern day slavery.
Yes, true. But how are we going to survive without a job? Here I am again. In the same situation.
Yea man I'mma free soul...I do work as I please
@@madalinamit4694 god will give you youre daily bread. Don’t trip. Or learn to hunt and fish and move to the mountains lol
And people wanna call you soft for not wanting to work your ass off every day
I like this guy. 1000% relatable in every way. “A nine to five is an American fiction”💯. Good luck man
23 I’ve had over 12 jobs . I know I have ADHD, but I also know this system is set up for everyone to survive not live comfortably far less become successful. I’m trying so hard to find jobs that give me more independence so they will at least be bearable. It’s hard when it seems like everyone around you is holding down a job with ease.
Ive quit 2 jobs in 2mths because of abuse. I suffer from anxiety/Depression and Im very sensitive. Im on time ,honest and I work hard.
Do overtime at a moment's notice. When Im yelled at or spoken to extremely rudely, my body goes into the flight or fight response and I usually regret walking out.
Im living in my van at the moment to keep costs down.
I relate to everything you said . I’m sorry I also live in my car at the moment.
Oh man I totally relate with this. I've worked at 25 jobs my whole life
..longest one being in the Navy but only bc I was under contract. I'm surprised and grateful that I was able to survive and get my honorable discharge.
Hey, I hear you! I am the same way. work ot 6-7 days a week. I do the best work they ever seen, heavenly work. I hope you ok. You got this! they gonna pay in their own karma will come back and get them.
I'm 40 and I have the same problem. It's not that we're losers. We just don't take shit from people we think are douchebags and take advantage of us. I've always gotten pissed off and did the same thing and quit. I barely ever got fired and if I did it was cause I wanted to be. It's always a manager of boss talking shit to me when I bust me ass repeatedly and don't appreciate it. They're scumbags. I'm cool with the owner though. It didn't help me as far as getting a raise or anything but it was like hanging out with a friend of mine who had a lot of money and liked the same shit I liked. We're not losers cause when we do work we bust ass and can work circles around most those other workers who kiss ass and do the bare minimum.
Or people get fired because of another person bullying them. Or because they get blamed for something that was technically their fault. Or quit due to absolutely horrible work environments or conditions, abuse. People don't always get fired because they deserve it either. And nowadays many employers are more demanding and particular than ever, require degrees for entry level positions. Minimum wage or not much above that. It's getting crazy.
Some fucker stole from me at my last job, and I got fired as a result
Mate I'm 37 uk I'm just not cut out for this world lol struggle so much getting a job and keeping it is even harder.
Bro I feel you I'm in same position aswell 😢
This. 31 and Uk also, it's so fucking hard. Keeping it is even harder.
I feel like a loser for not being able to have the same job, it's tiring to deal with this shit. It's like life punishing me . Family doesn't like me because of it. I didn't choose it.
You’re not alone 😭
Depends on your age, there comes a time when you have to stay loyal to a company and move up the ranks if you want the big money and if family life is ever in your interest.
Its probably not your fault man, at the end your a product of society
@@Marrtinike19 Accepting that I can lovemyself even if I would ´have zero skill is real way forward, still working on it. Ye society and family has lot of influence but in the end is up to us to create better future.
FELT
Imagine showing up to a job and not having to worry about potentially getting into a fight with a coworker.
Something has to give. They hired belligerent bully types and they hired people they don't take disrespect. What do they think is going to happen? It's human nature to stick up for oneself and no one should be punished for that.
@@imorccUOsame thing happened to me, my msnager was drinking buddies with the technicians that had beef with me
i sold my car, most of the crap i dont need, and i live in the suburbs right outside of a big city where the rent is cheap, and use a bus/bike to get everywhere that i need. some may say that im poor or broke or a loser, and i get it, but i dont live to impress, i live for myself. monthly expenses come out to maybe 1300, and i only have to work 4 days a week. i have retirement accounts, investments, all sorts of stuff to keep myself prepped for the future. it aint a glamourous lifestyle, but ive found that all you really need is good food, clean water, fresh air, and great relationships in life. godspeed brother. i hope you find the job that suits you one day.
I’m a single mom of 2 kids. I’m living in a 1 bedroom with them currently so I don’t have to be a slave to high rent or mortgage. I’m doing ok right now. I got my job I hate. I got child support, I have dividends from my investments, divorced money, and recent I got va disability pay. Got all my expenses down to $2,200 a month, bare minimum and I can pay that with one of my incomes, but this inflation is crazy. I budget like crazy. I am meal prepping and shopping at Aldi. I don’t travel at all because honestly it sounds miserable to me to travel and a waste of money. I’m middle aged, and I have traveled a bunch of h so I don’t see the need to right now.
I found the best job in the world. I work from my computer. I have no boss, no employer. I don't talk to anyone. I am the only one in my way when it comes to making money.
My wage/salary is scalable. There is no limit to how much I can make, in a day, week, month, or year.
I work 0-4 hours M-F. I have no education. No one showed me this job. No one taught/told me this.
You won't find it on indeed, or anywhere else on any job listings.
I used to be blue-collar. Carpenter/Welder/Fabricator/Roofer. F ALL THAT.
Dont stop trying new things, dont be afraid to quit things.
When you find your passion - it hits you hard.
I jumped job to job so many times now no one want to hire me
i wonder if u’ve found anything yet
@@the1betterpodcast84 yes i did some one gave me my chance and im lovin it making good money and the co workers are great
You don’t HAVE to list all of those jobs unless you’re going to be working for the government lol.,. Just write down the longest job you’ve had on your resume and any gap years have a good explanation for it and stay consistent. You’ll land something
@@johnappleseed9290 how could you explain the gaps in your resume? How do you know a manager would except gaps in your resume?
@@johnappleseed9290 yes lie like they do, even though you don't want to. I have struggled with this as well, refusing to lie to get gain. Half of the people who are there know no other job will put up with them and all their bs. I hate to say lie but alter it in your favor cause you going somewhere they never are going to go!
It's easy, no one wants to be dominated. I'll cooperate all day, I will not be dominated.
(wage) slaves submit to your masters.
If we were actual partners in this 'job' deal we could have say over things that they don't let us have a say in.
Exactly that 💯
> It's easy, no one wants to be dominated. I'll cooperate all day, I will not be dominated.
Competition is inherently destructive. Cooperation > competition always. See Alfie Kohn's "No Contest".
I'm 38 and I've hated working every send I was about 22 years old I'm over it. lol! Why be tied down to it? You're not alone.
I’m 26 and I’ve had like 7 jobs. About 2 years deep in my current one. From what I’ve learned, pretty much every job sucks just in different ways. Some are better than others but none are amazing. You’re better off just sticking to something and try to make it work out.
You're not alone. I'm bout to be 30 next year and I had only two jobs that I held down for two years. I got a Associate's Degree in Business in 2018 and I still can't find a place to use my degree. These jobs also play favorites when it comes to employees too. Not to mention cheap pay.
Nice rant, I think a lot of prople tolerate more than they should in the workplace.
Once we can find a balance between authenticity and diplomacy, we may start making progress.
finally a video on this topic that isn't spewing bullshit like "you're a chosen one" or tells you to just start a business/be self employed. maybe that is the path for some of the people like this but for a majority the reality is they're never gonna be making 7+ figures driving around in a lambo like they like to dream about, they're never gonna be famous and nobody ever talks about how costly and time consuming constant job hopping can be (i can attest to it). if you weren't born into a rich family life is hard work and a lot of people don't wanna put that work in, they want the instant gratification. i've been working a part time temp job which makes it easier knowing i'm not "stuck here" and don't have to work at the same place for 20+ years like our parents and grandparents generation without seeming like a serial quitter/bad employee but after this i have to grind hard doing a 9-5 even for just a little bit bc i want better for myself (thank god i'm child free). good luck to you
I'm with you I'm 28 now graduated can't find sh!t. Idk how I'm gonna hold down this
I cant stand authority you're not lying!
It's our brains for many of us. In my industry I work 8-6, it's doing me mental damage. I can tolerate damage but I know it's costing me later in burn out and months off. 18 months is my longest and I accept it's just how I am.
It's not hard to understand people make it hard. It is not us with the problem. It's them. The majority of people think it's normal to be abused and think it's abnormal for people to stand up for themselves. That says plenty about who they are. If you get a job people in management roles should understand they arent leaders or authority. They're just managers that's it.
It comes down to wanting freedom brother, work for your self is the best for someone like us.
💯 A man like him needs to be self employed I'm sure he has a good work ethic but just doesn't want to be chained or abuse
Im 28 and I have been working for 11 years. Still can’t find a job and stay with it. And I have had quite a bit of abusive bosses that I used to work for. I recently walked out on one because she was a real bitch. The money was great but the shit I had to put up with to get it was too much for me to handle. Maybe that makes me sound kind of soft, but I really don’t give a shit. If being tough means putting up with people like that 40+ hours a week, then I don’t want to be tough😂
This guy made me laugh a lot I currently quit a job I didn’t even start yet and i just wanna run away to the woods and make a treehouse 🤣
Lol my fantasy consists of living off the grid and just living off the earth
This guy is telling the truth despite the expletives but the same thing happens to me. They don't know you bro. These folks will walk right past you without taking a second guess. What you need to do is to get something for your pain. Trade stocks bro and do crypto if you may. Get that for your pain for build a business yourself and show em how business is done.
I don't think it's sustainable like this, no careers, entry level positions aren't there anymore, think it'll come to a head soon
We shouldnt even be using the word authority in the context of a job. It's a job not a government or country. They asked for help someone came to help them and they want to act like they are some kind of rulership. Forget that mess man.
Right. They put you on trial like they didn't ask for help? The employer has too much power like they're doing you a favor. They want a slave basically
I just got a job through an employment agency for a job that I originally was told different days. The day in orientation, and was told that I'll be working Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays for 12hrs. Like ummmm, so you want me to work my entire weekend?? Wtf!
Hey man! Thanks for the video! Im 46 and I rage quit my job a couple of months ago. I show up everyday and bust my ass while dealing with coworkers who breeze by and slack and they are the ones who get promoted and pampered by managment. Also the bullshit with gossip its sickening. Im burned out and finding it difficult to find another job because I quit without a two weeks notice. Thanks for the perspective bro. Im glad im not alone. BTW 5:34......Say it, dont spray it XD. Just kidding! Peace out bro!
I realized I'm same way , then I only applied for jobs with no coworkers, office or management. Worked out allot better for my peace lol
This! I think I may try that to lessen the hate for authority
I'm in the same boat, I absolutely hate working a job. It feels like a part of my soul draining every day at a job. Been doing warehouse work for like 11 12 years now, straight grunt work in hot ass warehouse for shit pay. Only thing is like you said, lot of overtime to make up for it but if fkn sucks. When people say what's your dream job, I'm like who TF dreams of having a job? I just wanna be my own boss and do my own thing. Being stuck at a job for 40 plus years sounds like hell to me. Don't care how easy or how much they pay. It's more to life than spending most of it, 5 out 7 days at a job 🤮🤮🤮
I get it, been there many times. The solution is to start your own business. It is the only way for people like us. You can do it!
Same I recently got fired again because attendance most days were sick I get that but my energy gets drain so badly at work especially around negative Debbie down people then when I'm at work they treat me if I can't do my job correctly I work better alone I don't need someone butting in doing the work for me if that's the case why in the hell am I here I don't like getting treated like a shit on top of telling me what to do I don't respect that if you don't respect me. Working from home just been the best outlet for me now in days and making my own content
Great video!! Im 33 I just quit my trucking job. Man come back to you with these messages!! I love this video
I am the same, I can’t hold down a job. My issues is when my contract ends I end up being out of a job which ranges between a few months to a few years, I mostly end up being out of a job when I am around people who are abusive towards me I am a quite individual and as long as I can go into work and do the job that I am hired to do I am happy, I will also be ambitious enough to learn my job and progress when others around me see that I go into work and am quite they see that as an opportunity to just run their mouth and say whatever abusive stuff they want and that ends with a few things happening: I will either end up with an attitude where I will go into work whenever I want, I will call in sick because I don’t want to face those abusive people my sickies would be a way to give the employer a reason to end my contract, I will tell my employer or agency what is going on and they will say it’s all in my head.
Special people don't put up with crap at the workplace. Good for you!
Every job I have now ends in some kinda drama with me either getting fired or quitting on the spot. It's gotta be me, but I can't figure it out. I think when you're on the low side of the hierarchy, there's just a lot more drama and pettiness.
True.
First...you fix you...then you can manage others better. Choose your battles wisely and understand that EvERyOnE that you work around has some kind of issue and some are simply better at hiding or managing/coping with it than others. It took me decades to fully accept that I'm a night shift worker because I can do better care for my patients and since many of my co workers Sleep...I do not have to make small talk with them about anything...I just let them know ..."rm 113 is calling...that's your's". Nursing is stressful enough to be surrounded by god complex, delusions of grandeur and lazy people plus a fanatical administration dwelling in greed versus reality of short staffing with few fringe benefits.
@@jacquelynn2051 Ya, I get that. It's the "how" and "what" that I don't get.
I am the same bro, 34 and struggling.
Im 35 and struggling as well..
@@artcruz5603 I have substance issues and just don't go in. It's a big problem of mine for over 10 years.
29 it’s a real struggle
Huge struggle for our age group I think. Meaning and purpose struggle.
According to the Department of Labor Statistics, the average number of jobs held by U.S. workers is 12.5 for a lifetime. I've had 90 - that's 7.2 times the average. My deal is I have Autism and I didn't know it until somewhat recently. I'm 48 now and just getting tested officially. I've done all kinds of work from construction to manufacturing; service industry to computer aided design. Nothing sticks. I just started making CZcams videos so hopefully I can make that work. Other than that its disability or go back to work and put up with the high turnover. Stay strong brother, life is a rat race for most of us and boring as fuck for rich kids. Grass is always greener on the other side my man.
I appreciate your honesty. I’m curious as to how you found out you autism so late in life?
Frequent job changes is a quite common sign of ADHD
Yessss. I have ADHD and can't fucking hold one down. The thought of staying in one place for too long makes me feel panicky. I wanna fix it, but don't wanna ruin myself taking medication for it either.
@@Ilovemybabies604me to i feel lost!😪 my last job was a fladbed truck and i was maken sometimes 200 the whole week after all that work! Sometimes ill make 1k but it wasn’t even worth it now im homeless again😣
Maybe this is what I have.
I don't know who to talk to about this, or who to see.
Do you both know how to go about this?
I don't know how, thats why I'm asking
Haven't been able to hold down a job my whole life and 31 now, got diagnosed with Adhd a couple of years ago and now it all makes sense to me lol.
Stumbled across this. Funny and insightful.
I feel you bro. I really hate jobs because you’re trading small amounts of money for large amounts of time.. and you’re making another man filthy rich so he can buy more boats and sleep with more beautiful women. I would cringe when construction guys would brag about how hard they worked, they don’t even think about that the harder they work the more money they make another man… Bragging about being the best slave is so cringe to me.
You sound exactly like Sean Strickland. "Here's the thing, guys..." I love it.
My job journey started out strong and recently I haven’t able to hold a job, I’ve changed jobs 3 times already this year. Idunno what’s happening to me I feel like I really want to stay at a job but I feel disconnected
Bro, loved the video. I have a hard time holding down jobs and its costing me my whole life. I was doing good when I first started, but then, i had many instances where I didnt get paid. And being in India, I always had to get a job in a Call Center and Night Shifts. Reaching to work on time, then cold calling till my next "luch break" which is actually dinner but we call it "lunch" 30 mineuts to eat, cant even smoke a ciggarret and log back in on the computer because its counting down the break time. Then when its time to log off, they always have a team Meeting after the shift timing is done, then rinse and repeat. I just cant handle it. Im not used to it. I have never been to school either. I was homeschooled. Everyone that has been to School and Colleges, You guys have been doing this since you were kids! Thats the only good thing from going to school and college's. Plus im an introvert. So man, Im stuck, I need to work to invest back in my music. I havnt found Freelancing to work for me yet. I now do Social Media Managing and need to work as a freelancer. Glad to know there are people who think just like me. Great video. I hope everyone can work their jobs and keep an eye out to find something they would love to do and slowly work for themselves soon. Thats the only solution. Its tough but lets pray and keep trying. Blessings to you bro
I’ve been coming across the worst people hell been fired because a boss didn’t like me made up a lie and fired me Welding in Arizona makin 14 hr workin in 110 degree weather treat me like shit I bite my tongue.
I’m a welder in Ohio making 21 but it’s not worth the pay to much micromanaging
@@ryanlangston439 here in Arizona summer of 2023 2months straight the weather was around 124 degrees every day
Imagine welding in that out doors pipe weldin helper non union I don’t think I can do it this summer for a new contractor that is paying me $19.10
Driving a fuel truck with anger issues. That is a scary proposition.
If the job sucks, I leave. Why stay at a horrible job forever? Some people are not destined to be a slave their whole life. I'm totally with you on this. This whole system sucks. Good for the people on top getting all the money from the slaves at the bottom. Not only do you work for barely enough money to get back to work, but these jerks act like they own you. The people who do this every day are stuck. They have to, or they lose their family and everything.
I’m homeless because I’m jobless because I’m not capable of being a good little wage slave anymore
Yeah this wage slave it’s BS I rather die right now
Where do you live?
Seems like on day 1 at some of these jobs no one likes you and is out to get you. Then some places are awesome everyone is kind
Absolute Legend! Tell it as it is 👏👊Love It! Not putting up with peoples B/S good for you!
Not sure why you came up on my feed but I've subscribed to your channel ❤
I’ll work but anything over 10 hours a day i wont accept, maybe once and awhile but not often
Not gonna lie this video definitely brought a couple smiles and laughs thanks for the video brother lol
The issue is that Murder should be legal.
Only in war Brodysseus. Only in war.
@@Edgesofnowhere008 we only have one life to live dude it is war.
😂😂😂😂
Thank You For This Post My G 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
33 and going through same situation as you. I’m wayyyy different though. I think the job I’m at now is the longest I’ve ever held ( a month ).
It’s been a rough life and part of it is because of my decision making. Not only is my discipline lacking with keeping a job, I think I’ve been applying to the wrong jobs for over 10 years. I keep doing warehouse work as if it’s something I like doing. Ive never been paid a fair wage ever. Probably would have been better off if I went to trade school straight out of high school, and got a job that was actually worth keeping.
Pulling siding and shingles for 19 an hour is for the worker bee. I shouldn’t be getting out of bed for anything less than 25.
On a personal note, I never finished highschool. I might be the way I am because I didn’t. Those 4 years are meant to put upcoming adults into a routine that’ll carry with them til retirement. I’ve skipped months of school at a time before. Maybe that’s why I can’t keep to a jobs schedule. I basically missed out on the “patch” and now I’m left without a limb in this life.
The longest I've held is ironically a nonpaid (because my work is not popular/and as consistent) contract work in fiction writing that I do alongside any part-time job I have at the time. This video felt like therapy for sure. Thanks. For me I know I burn out quickly from any position if I don't rest enough or take care of myself to a degree. Which is not hard to do with my health issues, but anyways thanks for the video.
Hey man did you ever figure this out? I am going through the same thing right now. I relate to this so much. So many assholes in the world.
Get you some adderall my man, it's like meth lite and it'll help you hold down a job.
Fact
Turning 29 in a few months. I just lost my 70th job or something. Basically been doing warehouse bs since i was 18. And yea man, i can relate to this.
Considering going for a mental health evaluation though tbh. The more I think on it the more i feel like it might be some kind of undiagnosed mental illness or personality disorder but then that would just make it harder to find a job huh?
Well figure it out lol🙏
Oh my god.. i can’t be more identified. Thanks for your video,greetings from Spain!
@aliensarentrealtv Spain it's not what the foreigners thinks he is
You are just speaking the truth.. feel good about being real man… ✔️
I literally asked the almost 90 year old master of my local zen center how to figure out what to do in life and he said "try things." So I've been trying lots and lots of things lol
I'm 27. I feel like I still have a chance at a career but I have to figure this out really soon. I'm just trying to accept that I'm going to have to deal with heaps of bullshit for a few years until I gain enough authority and experience to insulate myself from it
Marry me, I'll work for both of us.
Oh same problem.
They will hire you for one job but then put you in another 😂
They will try to call you last minute, they will disrespect your time. Say they will call in the morning but will in the afternoon about something. Im dealing with it all over again. If nothing else im ready to lay out some boundries this time.
I am having this problem right now. I work at Walmart. I just started like a month ago and I loved it at first and the last 3 days, I have called out and get in these crazy bouts of depression. When I call out, I get depressed cuz I know I'm disappointing everyone so I call out more cuz I feel ashamed and then I end up quitting or getting fired. It's getting really hard. IDK what to do. I feel like I should be doing more, but don't have skills and working takes up all the time I could be using to gain skills but when I'm working, I'm too tired to wanna do anything to gain skills and then when I don't have a job, I'm too focused on getting another job to try to gain more skills. I'm fucked. This is really hard. It's just like you said, there really is some kind of disconnect somewhere.
2020 I held close to 9 separate jobs because nobody can act right.
Sue, employers can’t withhold wages for accidents on the job, not enough people are standing up for themselves!
Dogg i havent held down a job for over 6 months my whole life. I cant work for peanuts!
Tremendous
I actually needed this
Same across the pond 🇬🇧 😢 im just saving to go travelling at 30 to Australia and asia see what happens 😂
Lol, same here I think I have stress problems though. The drinking through a straw story, so funny. I feel I do the same.
I had one for just over a year at longest but I think it's because it was casual/contractor although at times it was full time and that was depressing...and they seemed to like me for a change so I guess I didnt want to let them down or something.
Some of them I felt cornered, treated as a object or like everyone's last minute person when others called in sick exactly as you described it really p'd me off to drop everything
When youve been to soo many jobs and youre in the interview for the next one and you already are thinking about how much of an asshole youre boss is gonna be and how much unnecessary bullshit and shit talking hell do behind your back for no reason at all.
My thing is I get so uninterested after about a year I quit caring. I am in the HVAC industry. I keep either quitting or getting fired cuz like I said I just stop caring about it. I know I should. I've grown to hate HVAC but it's all I know how to do. Anyway idk I'm starting to think I'm just destined to suffer if it's not my own doing its life in general. Idk man I'm tired. N I'm only 27
Sounds like symptoms of ADHD man, I have similar problem.
I feel u man. I’ve nothing but grocery stores and I tried carpet cleaning. Quit after 3 weeks and now I’m working at grocery store again. Feels like I’m stuck
The hvac industry sucks. When people know that money is at the top the backstabbing and brown nosing begins. If you're good at it most will be envious and try to stab you out of the game because you make them look bad.
Yea I’m in the same exact boat except I do carpentry work. I Definitely stop caring about the job about a year in. I mean how can u not it’s the same shit everyday basically
By The way I had the same issue 32 years old going to therapy to understand what is the problem
I guess we have to find what we love and do it every f day and make money
Bro. Keep making videos . 🔥 I’m a lot like you.
I can relate. You/me/we need to work for ourselves, somehow. I do everytime I can, but still need to work a job in between, sometimes
I lost track after 40 jobs. I have been working 10 years.
Same
Same.
Don't make the same mistake my grandfather's brother made. He had a very sporadic job history all his life. He's now like 65 and gets $300 a month Social Security. That's all he gets. Man that's sad.
I live cheap! 0 debt! and i go threw at least 2 jobs every year! i haven't figured out why people act like this at work, or why people wanna treat each other like this! i put up with it as long as long as i can but in the end i usually end up telling someone off!
Try Entrepreneurship man. I'm the same way. I have job hopped throughout the years from fast food to retail. And then Uber Eats and DoorDash. Or try to learn a constuction trade. That would probably be more up your alley.
And yesss.....the whole "that's my boy" bullshit pisses me off cuz u gotta be there for years in order to have any respect in any workplace. Like excuse me, but I'm a hard worker when I a have a job, but really get tired of being disrespected at every job I get. It's always the ones that kiss the most a$$ that make it anywhere in any workplace. It's depressing azfuk.
This is me, Going on my 4rth job just this year 2024 soon ill be sleeping rough again, shit mate i am in trouble..
You're funny as heck man.
It is good that you are taking responsibility for yourself but the american way is messed up and doesn't make sense. They want us to give all of our time just to get by while the few at the top enjoy all of the fruits of OUR labor. The "american dream" is really just to spend all of your time working just to buy a bunch of material crap that you hardly ever even have time to enjoy. I think the key for us poor people is to work really hard for about five years and sacrifice a lot to save a good chunk of money to invest (either in passive income or a small piece of land and small dwelling) and then live very minimalistically and find some work we can tolerate for about three days a week to pay for our basic needs. I feel that this is the only way that we can get out of working full time until the day that we die. I mean could you imagine answering to a boss half your age ,and half your wisdom if that, while your approaching your last days alive?
It comes with having adhd or aspergers.
I can’t keep any job
People that just want to be treated with respect tend to get the least.
i havent worked a regular job in nearly 2 years and have made 0 effort to reenter the normal job market. at this point in time, id rather work when there IS work. youd be surprised how many people from MY old regular jobs (which ive gone through so many i dont even LOOK at my resume anymore) secretly hated my guts. why? ill never know. if i have to apply for a job online thats an automatic no for me. im not registering for every job under the sun just so i can fill out an application (which could actually take a couple hours cause every employer out there wants to know your whole life story) for a position im not even guaranteed to get.
Im 33 and I lost count and like 35 jobs
Trust me when I say this: If _I_ can do it, then anyone can.