It's Your JOB, You Can QUIT IT If You Want To! | It WILL Be OK!
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- čas přidán 8. 05. 2018
- We've all had thoughts about just getting up and walking out of the door of our job and never coming back. But most of us never quit our jobs, we just dream about it. There are a number of reasons why people stay working at a job they hate, but the #1 reason is probably for the 'security' it provides. However, in many cases this 'security' isn't real. And even if it is, is it really worth sacrificing your life and sanity for it? In this video I talk about why you SHOULD quit your job if you hate it. As well as my belief that we are all smart enough to figure out how to support ourselves after quitting a job.
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We all die in the end. Trust me... Don't waste a moment being some where you can't wait to leave as soon as you arrive.
True 😩😩😩
Exactly
Very true 🥲
real as fuck
Right omg say that again
I always quit when I find myself unhappy. Life is too short to live so unhappy just for a buck.
Its always the same cycle with jobs because thats what they do to us. Managers always think their above us its sad really
Yup me too!!
Can’t stand the guy in charge at my job. I’m so close to telling them kiss my ass!
I quit my job today. 11 years in and it became so toxic I was losing my mind. People conspiring against me was the worst. Now they have to find someone that does the work of 4 people. That's what they had me doing.
Congratulations! I know that had to feel awesome!
Man this is hitting so close to home right now. I walked out today, so glad I did but feeling a lot of mixed emotions. But I did the right thing.
Yea I know the feeling I quit my job a month ago and was thinking the same thing
👍I am happy for you. I quit my job last week. I had enough of that toxic dead end job.
@@jami376 Everything happens for a reason. I had mixed emotions as well. We're human. You will find your way. Trust and believe.
I quit my job on my lunch break and never came back! Was a groundskeeper for a awful property and I’m glad I quit! The same day I got a job that’s less money but less stress! And that’s all I need
Hell to the yes!! I quit mines this pass Tuesday on my lunchbreak. Clocked out and walked OUT!!!!
that is great
💪 good luck! 🍀
I’m doing the exact same thing right now and I’m getting ready to quit
I am in the same situation.
Im so sick of all the toxicity at every job I find! People are sick!
We live in a sick world. Governments create money out of nothing that makes everyone have to work increasingly harder to maintain the same lifestyle.
I just quit my job as general manager at McDonald’s after 23 years of working for the company. I’m only 39 years old and feel it was the hardest and best decision I’ve made.
@@errorshowinguser probably slaving out employees lol
What are you doing now?
Now you’re only 40 😭
That’s actually pretty impressive that you stick with that for 23 years considering how young you are!
Hi there how are you doing today
This is why you shouldn't get married or have kids until you're in a career you like. Don't sell yourself short.
@Adamma Bello but when you have kids and hate your job you re basically stuck their. When you don't have a family you have more liberty to take risk. So it actually it really does matter.
I agree I mean I wouldn’t mind being in a relationship and another thing I wanna say if you’re really struggling and hate your job don’t bring kids here just yet
Marriage should only be earliest 35-40 years old when people are more financially and career safe. Pregnancy should be at 43-45 years once the couple had lived together a while and show team cooperation and save up more money.
So... Don't have a partner or kids. Got it! 👍🏻
@@johnconnor210 don't get married or have kids at all = happier life
I’m quitting my awful job tomorrow. Best paying job I’ve ever had and the worse at the same time
Omg! Same here! I been doing it the entire time during quarantine and I am so depressed, it’s like sucking the life out of me. Did you end up quitting?? How are you doing?
@@mrsmdub259 how are you doing? I really hope you're better now
I quit today, was depressed 24/7
@@sidwell_MH I am still at the same job. However it has definitely improved. I went starlight to the DOO and requested additional help. They’ve hired 3 new people since then and they are in the process of being trained and that will definitely help out our workload. We just have to hang in there until they are fully trained. Thank you for asking 🙏🏼🙏🏼
ugh im in the same mess
I quit my job on March 13, 2023, and I didn't look back- I would never work a 9-5 ever again, its just not for me- You come to work and have to work with people that you don't want to work with--you have to put on a fake persona, smile and conversation just to make other feels comfortable.
This so validating
I quit my job after 4 years and about 7 months. Never thought I'd leave. When you're mentally drained, and you're miserable before you even clock in, no job is worth that. No job, no money is worth your peace. Peace of mind over fortune. It will be ok, trust me. I walked right out and did not look back. I've never believed in giving a 2 week notice. When I'm ready to leave, I leave. When the company is ready to let you go, they let you go without hesitation.
Exactly! Just use you up. I quit my job last week got hired this week. Part time and on my terms. Hallelujah
@@Xoxo-mh9zryup this is what I’m trying to do especially after I got laid off from Walmart and honestly that was the best thing to happen to me
@@Xoxo-mh9zrtrying to do this same thing man
I am thinking of quitting my job. It’s scary but at the same time the job is bad for my mental health.
Yeah for me too I’m only 21 but still it’s not good for my mental health
Sucks when you quit a job and feel great and optimistic just to end up in another crappy one.
Yup, and sometimes for less pay. I've been looking for another and there are some that require more education and pay $3 less per hour than I make now. I don't see why I would even apply. In fact, my brother who will keep you alive on the way to the emergency room makes $4 less than I do while sitting at a desk moving numbers. I feel like I have to stay where I am but it's becoming toxic and I want out.
Im figuring out I’m done with this industry that may be the case for you! I’ve been cooking since I was 16 years old and now realizing I’m done with this industry never had a passion, I was just good at it and it was money! Each kitchen is the same so it feels the same exact job where ever you go, so my plan is to switch to a different industry and try some other ones out!
@@birdseye2501 Yeah every kitchen is the same
Yeah I just put my two weeks in and I have no job lined up…I just decided to choose happiness. The stress and burn out just wasn’t worth it. Now I’m just resting in the fact that I know God will provide
Good luck 👍🏾. You made the right decision!
No. You made the most idiotic decision you could with the least amount of intelligence. There is no god, karma, good will, cosmic power, none of it. You have just rolled the dice, and you better hope that circumstances align, but you also better get out of that backseat mindset and do the steps necessary NOW cause whatever meager savings you might have (if you are an average american) wont last that long.
I did the same last month. God will steer my destiny
Hi Ms. Janelle, hope you are doing well. I read your comment makes sense but wouldn't you rather have a job lined up? to give you a scense of relief and peace of mind knowing you have a job to go to once you leave that one? You say your God provides but he also doesn't want us to be ignorant of matters. He wants us to be wise and use critical thinking 🤔. And unless a person has a lover, companion, family relative or friend or 💰to fall back on. And sometimes peoples Gods and belief systems prayers don't always get answered or come to our rescue. And this message goes for any person of any Gods a Buddhist, Muslim, Islam, Jehovah's witnesses, Mormonism, Hinduism, Catholic, and Christianity etc. even that well known book called the Holy Bible saids my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. And ye shall know the truth and the truth will set you free. Just a side note sometimes our God or Gods don't always answer our prayer and may never be answered! then what we gonna do?. So again this is where critical thinking 🤔 comes in, a safety net if you will. Some 💰 to fall back on, a husband or wife, a companion family member or a friend or friends, anyways I wish the best today, tomorrow and along lifes journey. Love and light to you mam.💪🤔🌎🦉
Sometimes God will tell you to work tho.
I want… Time.
Time to create my home cooked meals, clean my house, quality time with family and friends, time to exercise,time to travel, time to read and simply stare into space, time to help others as well.
Now I found a job working with special needs students at a school which I love. This gives me summer, spring break and Christmas break off. I also work as a CNA sometimes helping the elderly.
I’ve realized that there are so many elderly people who have, house, car, money, but very lonely.
I don’t get paid a lot, but I’m happy. My next goal is building an efficiency at the back of my house. That will give me some passive income.
Way to gooo 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have had jobs that I had to quit, because of bullies! It's not worth your health!
It really isn't worth it
Isn't it sad how some jobs feel like high school all over? Some never grow up 🙄
Stop being afraid of the word "no". If someone tells you "no", move on to the next thing. And learn to say "no" once in awhile, too.
No just means next opportunity 💪🏼
@@ronnieowensby787Ayo ☠️
I walked off my job last week. I have been working as a security officer for so long. I just couldn't tolerate the insults and other security officers acting like cops. Two different job titles. I just couldn't take it any more. I reasoned with myself and just walked off. There is something better for me out there. God will see me through.
@@OsirisX321 Depends where you live. It's honestly a luck of the draw to end up working a chill security job.
I quit my job a couple days ago. It was a good paying job but took all my time and my sanity. I had no other choice at that point.
i’m at work right now just so mentally checked out of this place. this video helped a lot
If I did what I truly wanted......I’d leave my job, America, and study at a Temple in Thailand.
Great. Sounds more lively and crucial than any other job.
Do it while you still have time in life, dont postpone it.
I hope you are in Thailand now.
I'm taking the lack of response as he doesn't have internet... so maybe he is at a monastery in Thailand
Do it!
I am putting in my 2 weeks notice this afternoon. I actually love my work environment, coworkers are awesome as well as my boss. HOWEVER, I’m checked out and am going to make a fresh start for myself ☀️Single, no debt or kids and 40. Excited to start reaching my goals with a move and some time off.
It’s so crazy how similar our situations are! I’m putting in my 2 weeks tomorrow, my boss is great and a decent amount of people that work with me are great. I checked out last year but fear has been an issue! I thought putting in my 2 weeks last month would be it but they gave me a small raise and other “ incentives” ….. it wasn’t enough and I’m still miserable. Anyway! I know your comment is 6 months old but I hope everything is going wonderfully for you!!!
You liked your work, & you quit. They must have been paying you low.
@@tonyp9313 It's not always about the pay. Sometimes people need to step back and take a break. Some people can't stay at one job for 20+ years. It's worth taking risks and exploring options and other ways of living if you are unsatisified.
@@tonyp9313At 40 years old she probably made a decent salary just didn't enjoy the work.
I cut my hours in half
fire your boss
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Permaculturedesigner - Last January my Sr Partner told me he was going to work 3 more years til he was 68. I told him I was not. I’m leaving on June 29 and will be 66 on July 24. Most Sr Partners leave before their Legal Secretaries or Paralegals. Not this debt-free 🐥 chick #Freedom2018
Called out from work today and watching this video. Do not like my job.
Are you still there?
I just quit my job without a definate job to go to. Everyone tells me I shouldn't have done it....its irresponsible....it was a mistake etc!...
But for me once I leave I have to figure it out. Its the kind of productive pressure I need. If I wasn't so impulsive i'd be stuck. Sometimes I think nobody really understands my decision making. But for me it works. I always figure it out 😁
That's awesome Emma! I wish more of us trusted ourselves enough to follow or impulses. And doing what you know is right for you is the height of responsibility in my opinion. Thanks for sharing and I hope your next job is one you love!
@@TimothyWard i trust my impulses 100%.... mostly people mean well. People believe what they are educated to believe I guess. Which is that we shouldn't be impulsive and that its really irresponsible... luckily I follow my own path. I'm exited about the next step.
'When nothing is sure, anything is posdible' 😁
@Timothy Ward It turns out my following my gut and being impulsive has worked massively in my favour 😁 After 4 job offers which I turned down because it just diddn't feel right (even though I had no money and my rent was due) Now I have just signed a contract for a dream job with double the money of my last one. With an amazing company, in a beautiful location with great people. I knew it would work out 😁
Congratulations Emma!!
@@Retired-jr3qs i walked out of that job too 🤣 soon as i realised they weren't going to deliver what they promised. Now i'm in an even better place 😁 and i couldn't be happier.
When you work at a warehouse job, never get cross trained. You’ll regret it later. It’s always because of unfairness and bad management. I quit a few days ago, because i got tired of being moved to work constantly. They never let me take a breather. Once i got done, i was moved to work elsewhere. I didn’t hate the job, i hated being worked to death every time i got done with a certain job. They wouldn’t let me take breather for even 1 minute. Oh, you’re done? You’ve been assigned a new work station. I was like dafuq? So i quit. Hunch of people quit. I get that they short on staff, but they used us veterans to death. Phuk amazon!
Same here! I also work at amazon. it gets bad when theres little or no communication, raising rates with no notice. Favoritism is also common. Amazon knows that people come and go all the time, they do replace someone at no time lol
When it comes to money, Dave Ramsey said it best: “We buy things we don't need with money we don't have to impress people we don't like.”
Wage slavery... Trapped in a capitalist society
@@mayamachine lol u cant make us you tried
Capitalism is an amazing thing. It is why we are able to have seasonal jobs in the first place and live good lives and strive for better!
i quit my job a year and a half ago and i have never been happier! i live off from the minimal lifestyle....off grid
I quit my job that I worked for 22 years and feel a whole lot better ,I’ll tell you something else I gave up and that was the wife.
Hahahaha 😂
Lmao go onn
Always do what makes you happy good for you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
😂😂
nothing is worth your soul.
I just walked out of my first job out of college. They were abusing and gaslighting me and I reached my breaking point. I have my student loans and car loan to pay and I am so full and anxiexty and other emotions bc I am unsure of the future. I am scared and crying and I needed to hear this so badly. Thank you.
I'm in the same boat, you will figure it out - we HAVE to figure it out, it won't happen any other way! We will make it. Money is just paper. Student loans suck but hoping they're forgiven soon.
How are you Jacob?
You will figure it out with time
Reach out to the most high. I did and he takes very good care of me!
@@truthseeker3536 Amen true story 🙏🏽
I love how practical you are with your advice. There really is no such thing as playing it safe. I have to say it is the most educated who have a tough time with your advice. I used to have a high stress career in education. I wound up leaving it and while I had some ideas of things I could do to make money, I didn't really have a concrete plan. I got a job as a cook at Whole Foods and had an absolute ball! However many of my friends and family were a bit concerned about why someone with a master's degree would be doing something like working in a kitchen. It was a complete departure from the stuffy corporate setting I was used to. But I did it for 6 months until I started teaching cooking classes and freelance writing. So you are right, things do work out, but you have to be willing to take the leap.
love it
Just what I needed to hear today, thank you. 💖
SO practical lol guys an idiot.
🎉 Yeah you! That’s amazing. Congratulations! I’m in the process of quitting, Web Design and Digital Marketing to work in hospitality.
Been 5 years since you commented but just wanted to say this was helpful to hear and inspires confidence in my plan to quit "no backup plan" to just experiment and explore!
Just put in my notice at my soul sucking, mind numbing office job 2 days ago!! Going back to hospitality work (catering) before I can head out next year to do seasonal work, so excited!! 1 step closer to freedom!
That's awesome!!! Office jobs are awful. Good luck with everything.
Chandra D - Congratulations!! 🎈🎊🍾
Virginia Miller thank you!!!!
How is everything so far? I quit my job 3 months ago still with no job
Super proud of you! You got this. Blessings!!!!
i got two jobs im sick of working full time at the airport for 11 years soon i will leave and work part time and try to creat my own job while working part time
Go for it!!!
I work at the airport now too. Airport management and man I hate it. I loved it for the first 3 years and then things turned 180. I’m sucked dry and my physical and mental health are suffering right now. I sooo can’t wait to leave.
i quitted at my job because the work environment was so toxic. now i work in different jobb i feel little bit better.
You could be the hardest worker with the best connections, and still get laid off when unpredictable things happen, so our only real security is our own skills and you said it perfectly.
Thats what happened to me last week.
I worked harder than anyone but was still let go. :(
But the free time and less stress is awesome! :)
Needed this.
I put in a 3 week notice at my job to give them ample time to transfer my significant number of clients and have a smooth transition.
They did nothing until my final week and want to pile up a bunch of stuff on me last minute... I'm quitting tonight on Wednesday and not going back to work Thursday and Friday.
Already halfway done with the state license I need for my new career field now I have more days to study.
You're absolutely right, sir. I quit my job about 3 weeks ago because the workplace was so toxic. I actually started my own business and have been living off of that until I can find another job. But then again, if I can make my side hustle my full time occupation, I may never work for someone else ever again..... Thank you so much for this awesome content!
What do you do now
If you have to quit your job, then leave your job. However; have a game plan. Give your self 2 months maybe 3. More or less in some cases. Don't let it turn into a year or two. Once you make the decision the countdown begins. Therefore it's not as bad going to work because you know your right around the corner from leaving. When your final day arrives you'll be free!
This is exactly the point I’m at! Work isn’t that bad because I know I will be putting in my notice VERY very soon.
Don't worry about the 'job' , just find your passion in life ...
Yessss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have it. It doesn't pay anything. Jobs finance my existing on the planet so that I can do it.
The prospect of working for 40-50 years to retire has always been very depressing to me. I don’t want to participate.
Exaclty! Work 40-50 years to enjoy 20-30? I’d really enjoy myself in nature and do self ustaining work than sitting in an office, that’s work at least I feel is worthy
I have a serious problem with secular work. I haven't been able to keep a secular job for more than three years. I've never been fired. They usually just harass me until I quit. I wonder how anyone owns anything because the jobs I worked at had horrible turn over rates. I know the problem is not with me because I served in the Army for 20 years. The Army was hard but working in corporate America is torture. It's like a prison sentence. I need to figure out how to live off my pension ASAP. I'm working up my courage to sell my home and move on with my life. It's going to be hard, but it must be done.
Amya Corbin-Ender - If I can do it, you can certainly do it ❤️ Also check out on CZcams for more inspiration: CheapRVLiving and Carolyn Caravan and a few others ❤️
"but it must be done" usually what successful people say and done. As the saying goes "burn the ships".
update! did you end up doing it bro
How are things going
God bless you first of all. Thank you so much. Home ownership isn’t a trap, jobs are a trap, vehicle payments are a trap. Jobs are a pyramid of corporate or private owned bull crap
Watched this video while at a job I’ve been wasting my time at for 8 years.
That's a long time...
I clicked on this video because you wrote "It will be OK" in the title. It's what I needed to hear. All the other videos about quitting were focused on the negatives and worrying. Thank you.
The main thing is to pay off debt and your car. Lower your monthly expenses as best you can, and that gives you so much more freedom and options
i quit my airport job 2 months ago thanks for this video tim!!
Nice! Glad you took that leap of faith!
Im about to go quit my job to run my leather business full time!😁
I just started a job and hate every minute of it. Two in a half weeks. Broken promises, use you up, no training and everybody being hateful. I just had a trip with someone dear to me that made me realize how awesome life can be. So I quit! Realize they need you not the other way around. My question is..,when you’re good at so much, what do you do to make it in life? Any ideas friends?
Whatever your passion is that will make you happy and love what you do. Work hard torse that passion and you will be at peace with it
What I do to make it is realize my job isn't there to fulfill my needs. I have it to finance my actual life outside of work. That's it; a way to finance me so I can exist in this world. That doesn't mean I don't do my best to correct mistakes and grow. Of course I do. When I get to the point where my bosses are causing burnout, I leave and do something else. But I never make my job my source of fulfillment. It's a tool, not a life foundation.
@@Butterflyyyy9 thanks! Always goes back to motorcycles, painting and guitar.
@@user-wh5ir4fo4r I needed that! Wise outlook. It's just there to fund the outer parts of our lives. But I used to dwell on my job. I'm a cook. I love my staff, I'm somewhat passionate about it but I know I'm in love with motovlogs and creative expression.
My health is being affected by the job stress and in my gut I want to go.Have been saving for the past year but it just doesn't seem like enough. I guess it's going to come down to having faith and just taking the leap. When I saw the title of this video I just laughed
Yeap it’s a sign, same for me
You're right. U have to trust that it will all work out and go.
I quit my job of 2 years because they where starting to miss treat me, and I've been nothing but loyal and hard working to them. It was a cashier job and I worked during the entire pandemic. Well, as it goes I broke my cool 4 days ago and walked out when I went on my lunch break, got some delicious food, and never went back. I felt awful there, I didn't realize it until then. and I feel so much better now, and got a job interview tomorrow that pays better and is overall a better company than my previous job. Anyway, listen to your gut. Put your two weeks in or just quit right away if you can. I really need this video. Thanks Timothy. :)
Oh hai a fellow exo 😁 my last day on my current job (maintenance at Walmart) is Thursday) once I gave the manager my notice a sense of calm washed over me😌 the hardest part is leaving the ppl I ended up liking 🥺
@@exorouge238 I've been doing retail/food industry since I was 17, (now 29), and I can say that the hardest part is leaving your cool coworkers behind. Sadly that's usually how I always feel when I leave a job :/
@@exorouge238 Also very rare I meet a fellow exo on here haha
im from new york and u got ppl here that are loosing their mind because its too much pressure living in the city and most ppl here hate their jobs any amount of money is not worth giving up r sanity that is why i no longer work for no one
2 weeks ago I quit my job of 33 years
I got health insurance today (free)
My social security starts in July ($1750 a month)
I fn love my life now
I asked my guides and higher self for a clear sign that I will be ok if I quit my job. And boom, this was on my feed this morning. Thank you!
That's awesome! I didn't even know your guides knew about me 🤣🤣
@@TimothyWard They know ALL 🤠
Did you quit ?
I quit my job literally on the same day that I received a different offer. It worked out well.
I've come to the conclusion jobs are childish.
Enjoying this channel.
Watched this for the first time about 3 months ago. 2 months ago I quit the job. In 1 month I leave for alaska and will work at the grand canyon immediately after. I haven't even left yet, but knowing the journey I'm about to go on is enough to make my life so much better. And not having the stress of that job every day has really helped too
Bonnieli Collins how did it all turn out for you?
@@anthonyalberts8167 she's dead
@@DeadPiixxel real funny man….glad I got my comedic relief for the day 😒
I walked out yesterday and it felt great
This is why i started my leathergoods business , ill never be broke again and i can help other people make money with my product they i sell to them at a wholesale price , we all winning .
the brotha is in nature next to flowing stream, life can be really simple when you feel gratitude towards the smaller things in life
Yes yes yes. So much of the work force now is so de-humanizing. Even jobs that used to be low key and fun, like working at a book store, are now exercises in self flagellation. They watch your numbers, and how many times you smile at your customer, and work you like a freakin' dog. It is getting worse too. I'm self employed, and so grateful. But I've done a lot of odd jobs, like you, from dog sitting to house cleaning. Uggh...
When employees stop fearing employers then workforce conditions will change. But until that day I think companies will start getting worse and worse.
What is your self owned business?
Walked out on my Grocery Store job today at 17. Never felt more free!
That's awesome!
You give me so much hope brotha! I thought something was wrong with me for hating just about every job i had..I really appreciate this message on quitting a job if it doesn't make you happy. 💯🙏
There's definitely nothing wrong with you. Some of us just need more than a paycheck from our jobs.
@@TimothyWard Facts!!
I am the same way. I've never had a job that I've liked. I was just there for the paycheck.
This is so true. Bills and stuff is so important but so is your mental health. If your mental health isn't the best, then what good is staying at a place where you're not happy? My health comes first over any job
I’m at work and can’t watch the video yet but I’m already going to give this video a thumbs up.
Just what I needed to hear, right now.
I quit my job a week ago without a back up plan. It was too toxic… thank you for your confirmation
You made the right choice!
Kudos to those that have the moxy to resign from a j o b that is stressful, burning you out, and potentially make you sick. As I get older...having game plans to do you is paramount!
He could do a great Obama impersonation
hahaha. Reals
Racist
@@gmailacct9496 you know what's funny
I'm actually a black man from Chicago who thought that with my headphones on he sounded a lil like Obama. But if I offended you I apologize.
@@budnino8752 I think he sounds a bit like him too. Especially the "euh" sound lol
I quit my job 1/2019. It was the best decision of my life. It wasn’t that I didn’t love what I did but I wanted to explore my own capabilities to create with intention. One if the things while I was planning to quit is that I kept it to myself other than y’all my best friend of 25 years. She’s a free spirit with no fear and doubt and I knew her energy would support my decision.
This has been how I'm feeling! My job is ok and I work with great people albeit the work is stressful these days, I'd love to work on creative projects and try starting my own business. Thanks for sharing your experience~ Taking the step is hard especially when I am considering family and finances!
@@nikkian9254 Thus takes trust and faith in something greater and higher than yourself even when it comes to finances and family. When you are being called from by God to come out if whorl, you’ll be provided for.
I just quit my job today idgaf 🤪
Congratulations!!!
One of the best advices I can also give to other people, which was mentioned: "Apply for jobs you're not qualified for" ... especially in IT this is just true. Great video.
Amen, you can find the resources you need and I have also quit several toxic jobs on the spot. "The bird doesn't worry about the tree limb he's standing on, since he knows he was born to fly."
I really like that.
Wise, thanks mate. I walked out of my corporate job at an accountancy today, it was bullshit. I know from experience in the past there is no such thing as security anyway. Subbed
I am quitting my job in two weeks due to mental health issues and that I need a fresh start. The place that I currently work out is very toxic and I needed something more quieter. I will be a counselor for women and I am very happy to be getting out of such a toxic place. The advice you gave is so correct: never stay in a place that makes you unhappy. Get out when you can. Life is too short to be miserable. The security of my current job is what made me stay for so long, but I was never truly happy. It is also true that money isn't everything. I am going to be making less money at this new job, but I am better supported and I appreciate that more than anything. I am nervous and scared to move on, but I know I did the right thing in the end.
Congratulations on having the courage to leave a job that you knew wasn’t right for you. And good luck with your new position!
Hi Timothy,
Thanks for sharing .
My field is dental, I recently started a new job. I realised on my first day this work place is very toxic. Alot of gossiping and undermining. I told myself hang on for a few more days. The final straw was yesterday. My manager was discussing my personal business to my colleagues soo unprofessional. I’ve always been a person I’m not scared to more on. I will find something eventually. Its all about taking a risk. I hate feeling like a prisoner in a workplace. We spend a lot our life at work, why must I be unhappy and lose my sanity. I found a job as cleaner and to be honest I’m more happy doing this than being a dental assistant.
That's awesome Kisha! I wish more people were like you and had the courage to move on from toxic workplaces.
I work for myself...happy times...
Thank you. Before I watched this I was writing my resignation email and wrote I don't want to be on the hamster wheel anymore.
You are definitely on to something Timothy. Quit my 9 to 5 January 2020 which we all know was right before the "thing". Best decision I ever made. I figured it out and my bills got paid. So glad that I made that decision. Took back my freedom!!!
So what do you do ? How do you find the money ?
There is no security; that’s true. I think a lot people realized that with the pandemic. Even beyond that: illness, injury, other circumstances can happen. So it’s important to feel like we are doing things the way we really desire.
quitting Thursday. This is confirmation thank you ❤ 🙏
Good luck! 👍🏾
@@TimothyWard thank you so much! Peace love light
I quit my job today at a steel plant working security and i felt souless and they treated you like you were nothing,there was so much drama aswell,but i got a job offer the same day so heres hoping.
Good luck!
"If there were no jobs".....thats what i have asked friends and family who just cant seem to get there stuff together......create your own job.
thank you for making this. it's crazy how i came across it at this exact time. i've been pondering quitting my 9-5 insurance job for a while now. it feels like it is completely sucking my soul dry. but watching this video has given me the empowerment to finally refuse accepting this any longer. i literally composed my resignation letter while watching this lol. i am going to hand it in tomorrow and make money elsewhere. thank you
Good luck Nikki! 👍🏾
@@TimothyWard thank you!! ❤
How did it go?
Yeah we have been totally conditioned by the educational system badly. To depend on a job.
I quit a few days ago without notice. There was no way that I could spend another two weeks there. I feel so relieved being out of that place.
Last week I quit 7 hours into an 8 hour shift and never felt so much happier.
I just did today. It was me and one other coworker. My job didn't employ more due to the nature of the job. My coworker made my life he'll. She only cared about laughing and cutting up all day. I had to do the job of 2 people. I let management know between that and her mental instability/abuse that it was hindering my job etc.... I told 5 bosses and they did nothing. So I said to myself nah I'm done I'm out. I didn't say anything I just left. It took them 45 minutes to realize I was gone. And they panicked and kept blowing up my phone. I did this: 😅😂😅😂 and didn't answer the phone. Yall see how yall can deal now.
i'm about to do that
I needed this. I’ve quit so many times that I often get criticised. It’s sad because it has made it hard for me to find a job. I am currently in a job where I am over worked. I work about 14 hours a day and no breaks, no food, nothing. I get paid well, but I don’t think it’s worth it. It has affected and I have been there there 7 months. I think I might quit this job, I am so afraid because I need it, but I can’t stand what it is doing to me.
We are in the same boat, my job pays well and I have good benefits. But sometimes I get no breaks and it’s a toxic work environment.
@madilynandujar163 read the above post the English guy made. I'm afraid too because of debt. I sought debt management, cut my budgets and don't buy things I don't need, go out less. ...it works, change your lifestyle and don't follow the crowd
Leave I support you... it's your life you only get one
I will be free of my job this month !! 😃👍🏻
I've quit 2 super toxic jobs so far. When I quit the last one (after ~4 months) I was so relieved I couldn't stop crying. I just started a new job about a month ago, and so far it's going really well! I can see it being something I stick with for the foreseeable future. :-)
I think we need to teach more people that it's OK to walk away from something that you're not comfortable with, and it doesn't make you a bad person or a bad employee to find something that will make you happier.
Good stuff yes I need to live my life I am the QUEEN OF LEAVING A BAD JOB I love life
Oh my. I just got out of a meeting and this popped up🤦🏽♀️ I gotta put me first😫
*Even though your job may be paying high, take a less stressful one, and pick up stronger saving and investing habits. So be it.
I'm about to quit my job even though I just got offered a promotion. I'm sick of working at the factory for 50+ hours a week! That, and I can now afford to pay off my student loans. I'm planning on going part time
Thank you for this video. I’ve been drowning in depression and regret after quitting a job that I absolutely HATED and not really knowing what’s next. This video gave me hope, and I super appreciate that.
In the 19th century and during wartimes people didn’t have the great careers they have today and had to go into business for themselves, either through services like seamstressing or delivering milk to people’s homes. That was a time in the world where people had no choice but to be creative. During the Pioneer days, or the days of Laura Ingalls Wilder’s childhood, people made what they needed, and had farms where they raised crops and animals in order to feed their families. They would also sell or barter their goods with other farmers. What I love about this time period is how simple their lives seemed to be. They took pleasure in the simple things.
You have motivated me to make a decision to quit my job. I'm currently contracting and my contract ends in June. A lot of my friends keep telling me to renew the contract and stick it out, but I just never felt right inside to 'stick it out' when it comes to working at a corporate job. Even though the work environment is great and the coworkers are hard working and sweet, I'm just not fit for that particular work. I want to be a motion designer, and I have a plan. I want to stop working for other people, nearly killing myself to make them happy and start working for myself, and do the things I'm passionate about. Thank you for this video!
good on you for sticking with what you feel is right for you! I'm current considering leaving at some point, family and friends aren't walking in our shoes day to day~
Finding another job that pays the same to support my bills is the hard part
Easy to say to somebody to quit their job but if you are married with mortgage, kids to support and other financial obligations, you just cant quit. The best you can aspire for is get a better job you like and retire early. Life is a series of compromises and almost all decisions are imperfect.
Maybe don't have kids and don't get married and bury yourself in debt until you find something you actually enjoy doing? The first most important thing you need to do is find a way to make money (job/businesss) that you enjoy. AFTER THAT think of marriage/kids/mortgage etc.
@@rich_rohanSome people already have kids (I don't).
Great Resignation 2021 entered the group chat.
I have just literally walked out ha feels great! The environment was very toxic and the department I worked in people were talked to like trash. It's really not worth it. One life do what makes you happy
Hello supreme leader!! Same for me, it really does feel so great if a toxic job pushes you to your bull sheet tolerance point.
@@ohmmohmm5891 good for you! Stay positive.. keep your options open but make sure you use this time to reflect on what went wrong and how to try and prevent yourself from being in that position again. With times like these most of all we have to shield our mental health.
Find a job where you believe in what you are doing is truly helping others - that whatever you are doing makes a difference ! Alter your lifestyle to make that pay wage doable. Don’t chase a salary, chase purpose and being a giver of help. The peace will come in a life of helping out of your strengths.
I encourage all to follow the wisdom that teaches it is better to give than to receive. : )
ForgiveAndLove09 - Truly wise words !!
Virginia Miller
My name is Virginia also : ) 💕
To me, wisdom has come the hard way and slow, but i am trying to seek it more and pattern my life around it in baby steps. Let us continue to seek and practice wisdom. Much peace to you. : )
Thank you for that wonderful message. I really needed this.😊
@@ryanhammonds183 May you be led with strength and wisdom.
Beautifully said.