10 Things WE MUST LEAVE in 2023: Witches Are REAL, Gender Wars, Old Age & Weaponising Therapy (pt.1)

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • How is it already December!? As we draw to the end of the year, the sisters wanted to share 10 things you should leave behind in 2023. Join your favourite online sisters as they gist about it all; from relationship mistakes to spiritual matters and the gender wars taking place in the world wide web!
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    00:00 Welcome & Housekeeping Announcements
    05:50 Ding Ding Ding Dilemma: Can I Date My Best Friend's Ex-Situationship?
    24:14 Things to leave in 2023: Not Investing In Your Spirituality
    32:13 Leave The Gender Wars Behind!
    40:44 SHAME & EMBARRASSMENT HAVE GOT TO GO!
    48:34 Stop weaponising therapy speak!
    58:28 Let 2024 be the year you take your health seriously!
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Komentáře • 70

  • @daiishi_kinyoubi
    @daiishi_kinyoubi Před 7 měsíci +29

    2:56 hello 👋 I am new hahaha as a Christian it makes soooo happy to hear such smart and talented women being so brave enough to talk about faith ❤ it is so much needed

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +2

      We're so happy to this big up our Christian sister ❤

  • @JustttJuiceee
    @JustttJuiceee Před 7 měsíci +28

    Heavy on we need to just be serious about this health

  • @Yourrrr
    @Yourrrr Před 7 měsíci +14

    Re: weaponizing therapy speak - the only man I’ve ever had a relationship with so ar (I’m only in my early twenties) who went to therapy just used what he learned in therapy to try to manipulate better 😥 a menace he was good riddance

  • @Kierakirsty
    @Kierakirsty Před 7 měsíci +8

    Love this! I made a conscious decision to start following influencers/content creators thriving in their 40+ era. While I’m 28 and didn’t make the most of my 20s and late teens, the time is gone and passed and I want to welcome my next phases instead of fearing them

  • @khadrfarah4510
    @khadrfarah4510 Před 7 měsíci +16

    Courtney is way witty and smart oh my goodness.

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 Před 7 měsíci +5

    That last segment re: nursing home. 😅😂 The older lady you need to bring on the show (and quickly! 😅) is 102-year-old, Dr Gladys McGarey - Chief BossBabe.

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +1

      LISTEN! Thank you for the suggestion and big up DR GLADYS ♥

  • @Muyeshi
    @Muyeshi Před 7 měsíci +1

    We can't wait to have you in Kenya! 🇰🇪❤️

  • @anittanxusa
    @anittanxusa Před 7 měsíci +1

    An OG sister from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

  • @thebookishwriter
    @thebookishwriter Před 7 měsíci +1

    One of my best friends from school had 2 children with my ex 🥲 knowingly. Worst thing is I saw him a few times before I knew this and he was still trying to rekindle things with me. He decided to just not mention he had a child with my friend at the time. I don't hold anything against either of them, I'd moved on by then, but they were one of those friends who was outraged by the thought of me liking or dating any of her exes or interests. Very ironic situation, but without it, her two wonderful boys wouldn't be here.

  • @YochanaIrie_FineAppleStylez
    @YochanaIrie_FineAppleStylez Před 7 měsíci

    Hola! I am one of the 2023 subscribers. I have definitely shared your podcast as the information provided is so well thought and such a great conversation. Look forward to watching the podcast continue to grow and hear messages.

  • @Gigilovehugs
    @Gigilovehugs Před 7 měsíci

    Thanks for having the discussion it was beneficial 😊

  • @rockellarose37
    @rockellarose37 Před 7 měsíci

    I found you guys this year and I'm happy to be here ❤❤❤❤

  • @nikkio3071
    @nikkio3071 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Kenya welcomes you with warm arms 😌

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci

      We love our Kenyan sisters!!!! ♥

  • @Miss_Thelma
    @Miss_Thelma Před 7 měsíci +2

    Oh my God, i joined the sisterhood earlier on this year and i have honestly been one of the silent sisters just taking in and appreciating, i followed you both on all platforms and you know ive just been in the back but im stepping forward now cz this episode is cracking me up!!! im making this comment halfway through the episode and i cant agree any less on everything you two have said and how you put it, is what makes it even funnier and more interesting. I know i found this platform for a reason and may God continue blessing you and filling you with wisdom.

  • @user-iw5sm3qs5n
    @user-iw5sm3qs5n Před 7 měsíci +1

    Sending love and light from SA xoxo

  • @ThrivingNuggets
    @ThrivingNuggets Před 7 měsíci +1

    You're welcome to Kenya!!!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @reitumetsetumza6072
    @reitumetsetumza6072 Před 7 měsíci +2

    I discovered you guys well late into the year but mehn I'm so glad I did❤ I love it here, love from your South African 🇿🇦 sister 😊

  • @barrborrah
    @barrborrah Před 7 měsíci +1

    YESSSSSSSS!!! I got yall on my spotify wrapped too, even though Ive only watched the youtube versions for months ahaha, thats how you know. From Czech republiccc

  • @sumring12
    @sumring12 Před 7 měsíci +1

    You two show up and pour into my heart every episode. Sobering gems! May 2024 be my year of release IJN.

  • @moraaataya4057
    @moraaataya4057 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Looking forward to your visit to Kenya

  • @elan218
    @elan218 Před 7 měsíci

    i love this channel so much😂 y'all are like my homegworls🤭💞

  • @Tracy_S
    @Tracy_S Před 7 měsíci +3

    Karibu Kenya

  • @sumring12
    @sumring12 Před 7 měsíci

    PART 2 PLEASE

  • @nyokafikamau
    @nyokafikamau Před 7 měsíci +1

    We'd love to have you guys in Kenya!!!

  • @Maya-gu3ku
    @Maya-gu3ku Před 7 měsíci +2

    All love from Toronto Canada #1 podcast for any woman I put everyone on !!

  • @ImeldaOkolie
    @ImeldaOkolie Před 7 měsíci

    Right on the money with Nigeria. Just subscribed! Great video, enjoyed it so much! Welldone sisturrs!

  • @tacrewgirl
    @tacrewgirl Před 7 měsíci

    31:30 - The devil works hard.
    This reminds me of the quote from the film The Usual Suspects - “The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.”

  • @natalietendwa6595
    @natalietendwa6595 Před 7 měsíci

    When I tell you I am impatiently waiting for you two to come to KENYA!!! Best believe me

  • @Cryonic7740
    @Cryonic7740 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I totally wouldn’t go for my friend’s ex anything. God forbid things start going awry in her own relationship and she starts wondering what if things could have worked with the other guy… same for the guy. Emotions will SURPRISE YOU and I don’t think this is worth it. I think of how when I was a little girl playing with friends and cousins, then letting me borrow a toy or clothes and then then not being able to stop reminding me that the thing is theirs.

  • @nwabisabeba1678
    @nwabisabeba1678 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Just joined from South Africa

  • @ndifsmurida8838
    @ndifsmurida8838 Před 7 měsíci +3

    I also discovered you guys early this year, from south africa 🇿🇦 ❤🎉

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Our SA sis! Hope you enjoy it round these sides lovely! ♥

  • @goddessglows
    @goddessglows Před 7 měsíci +5

    Right on time. I recently had been dealing with feelings of shame after deciding to step away from a form of content creation I started a couple months ago. I had to really reflect on all the great accomplishments I’ve made and even the small daily habits I’ve maintained and give myself grace. I forgave myself.
    Once I did that a new opportunity presented it self and it definitely aligns with where I am in my journey. ❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +1

      Love it for you! it really is all about curating your experience and being intentional with your consumption. Here's to even more growth and alignment ♥

  • @goddessglows
    @goddessglows Před 7 měsíci +4

    You ladies are so refreshing! Been subscribed for a while on CZcams and the content & topics are always so engaging and thought provoking. So proud of the growth ✨

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +3

      So glad you've stuck around and have enjoyed it so far, we appreciate you so much sis ❤

  • @hannahnyambura2665
    @hannahnyambura2665 Před 7 měsíci

    I'm from Kenya and I love you so much 💓

  • @akuaakyea8566
    @akuaakyea8566 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Ghana sisters where you at? Yeb3 sore!

  • @imah_culate
    @imah_culate Před 7 měsíci +1

    I found you guys this year, I'm a Nigerian living in Nigeria. Thank you for the hugs

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci +2

      We love to hear it! Sending love over to Nigeria, hope you enjoy being a part of the community ❤

    • @imah_culate
      @imah_culate Před 7 měsíci

      @@tomysisters oh, my heart!
      You know that TikTok sound, "I'm never leaving, I'm never leaving, I'm in this forever", that's my response.

  • @annienyambura2547
    @annienyambura2547 Před 7 měsíci +1

    A Kenyan sister here❤❤..Renee, Courtney we would love to have you here❤

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci

      We're working on it! Love you ladies ❤

  • @melissajoeachieng
    @melissajoeachieng Před 7 měsíci

    God will make a way 🎶 🎵 indeed. Waiting for y'all in Kenya.

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen Před 7 měsíci +1

    i’m late, i know (and still watching) but the show mentioned during the dilemma around 21:40 is manifest!!! SO GOOD! okay that’s all for now *continues watching* 🤭

    • @gl0hen
      @gl0hen Před 7 měsíci

      “oftentimes we hold ourselves to standards God doesn’t even hold us to” WHEWWWWWWW!!! chains were broken with that one 😩

    • @gl0hen
      @gl0hen Před 7 měsíci

      THE OLD AGE IS REAL POINT HAS ME HOLLERING IN MY CUBICLE PLSSSSSS!!!!!!

  • @Jess.Mazibuko
    @Jess.Mazibuko Před 7 měsíci +6

    Never clicked on a video so fast,😭

  • @PriscillaDunyoh-ii6my
    @PriscillaDunyoh-ii6my Před 7 měsíci +1

    Ghana we're heerrreeeeeee🥰

  • @daiishi_kinyoubi
    @daiishi_kinyoubi Před 7 měsíci

    47:05 Wow this spoke so strongly to me 🥹🥹🥹😭😭👏👏👏👏🙌 than you Sister

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  Před 7 měsíci

      Glad it was helpful lovely! ❤❤❤❤

  • @Ameera_L
    @Ameera_L Před 7 měsíci

    Love from Nigeria🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @baepy
    @baepy Před 7 měsíci +1

    Is the sisterhood open to sisters from different religions from yours? As Africans how do you navigate your knowledge and understanding of the traditional religions of your tribes with your Christian faith?

  • @folasewaidowu907
    @folasewaidowu907 Před 7 měsíci +1

    God bless the day I came across this channel! You are both so smart and every video leaves me with nuggets of wisdom and things to reflect on to make my life better. Thanks so much sisters, you are deeply appreciated! ❤️

  • @fayfay1392
    @fayfay1392 Před 7 měsíci

    From Kenya 🇰🇪 ❤

  • @schooloflife625
    @schooloflife625 Před 7 měsíci

    Kenya with a bang

  • @zintlenjikelana853
    @zintlenjikelana853 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Love the show. Maybe the dilemma segment can be shorter. It's a long time for one issue.

  • @thandohngunezi4224
    @thandohngunezi4224 Před 5 měsíci

    Not you guys mentioning amapiano!😂

  • @katlegosekgome4588
    @katlegosekgome4588 Před 7 měsíci

    2024 I WILL HAVE A MILLION MIRACLES EVERYDAY, EVERY WEEK FINANCIALLY, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY AMEN

  • @wanjikugichane1695
    @wanjikugichane1695 Před 7 měsíci +1

    🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪