Step Your Money Up: Financial Glow Ups, Embracing Broke Seasons and Getting Comfortable With Cash 💰

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • Getting your finances together and cultivating a healthy relationship with money is an integral part of the glowing and growing journey! In today’s episode, the sisters talk all things jobs, aligning your goals with your money, and how to ensure you’re getting the best use of your money as a sister.
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Komentáře • 32

  • @afrikurl
    @afrikurl Před 9 měsíci +15

    The biggest financial tip that I would give to young ladies is their twenties and they is to not co mingle your funds with a romantic partner or friends and family who are not doing well financially. You can really get left with the short end of the stick. It may take you years to recover and you may damage your close friendships and family relationships.
    ( Actually just avoid romantic relationships when the other person can’t meet their own basic needs of food, shelter, transportation without your help. )

  • @TekishaHenry
    @TekishaHenry Před 9 měsíci +24

    This came right on time🙏💝

  • @Aimee-Baguma
    @Aimee-Baguma Před 9 měsíci +15

    I just finished the audio book for To My Sisters. I loved it, and I’m starting to practice all the skills to being a good friend and also choosing good friends. I 💯 recommend everyone reading this comment to go read the book. I’m so blessed that I discovered to my sister’s podcast at 17, now I’m 19 and making genuine friendships with guidance from TO MY SISTERS Podcast!!!!

  • @byNaikaJean
    @byNaikaJean Před 9 měsíci +9

    This got me at the right time, cuz my God do I need Jesus to take the wheels😭

    • @luwamalem9537
      @luwamalem9537 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I feel you! Recent graduate here and trying to figure my life out with the all the pressure around me to succeed! 😭

  • @paaf4768
    @paaf4768 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Love the episode. Can yall please do an episode on Black Tax and it's impact on particularly young black women. Would love to hear your takes on this.

    • @samukelongwane7412
      @samukelongwane7412 Před 9 měsíci

      I hope that they do this. Some of us sisters are struggling with this

    • @valtee4272
      @valtee4272 Před 9 měsíci

      Yessss please!!

  • @comelyshe4772
    @comelyshe4772 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Im 30 and just went back out on my own , I had to get out to grow . I would have stayed with my parents because of the economy, but I found me mentally being stuck . lol …praying to build a skill soon

  • @restorewithadisha
    @restorewithadisha Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this video. It's comforting and encouraging to hear "start at the beginning" and that the beginning is a sign you're going to get 'there', wherever that is for each person.

  • @onyekaobuaya7232
    @onyekaobuaya7232 Před 9 měsíci +14

    To the sister in the dilemma, you don’t earn freedom from your parents, you have to take it. So if that means getting a part-time job during the academic year and doing an internship over breaks so that you don’t have to go home, you have to do that. Without you making your own money, you’re options are severely limited and your parents will continue to use you for slave labour and you won’t be able to start your business. Best of luck

  • @Kachi_Agu
    @Kachi_Agu Před 9 měsíci +7

    Each episode are always so timely! Thank you!🎉

  • @cyndipace
    @cyndipace Před 9 měsíci +7

    "Be there or Be square" ... it's because you're not AROUND 😅... so you're not a circle, or not IN the circle. You're square 🤭

  • @corinne143
    @corinne143 Před 9 měsíci

    Love this episode I’m literally starting my financial education and organisation journey 🥰

  • @gloriakanani1026
    @gloriakanani1026 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Always on point❤❤❤love you guys✨

  • @SincerelyNezi
    @SincerelyNezi Před 9 měsíci

    This conversation is so necessary! Thank you so much for sharing ❤

  • @Rumastudio-1
    @Rumastudio-1 Před 9 měsíci

    I am in love with this episode, it feels like I needed this. Thank you sisters ❤

  • @peacehappiness2596
    @peacehappiness2596 Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you so much..... ❤🎉

  • @deborahhkomo9363
    @deborahhkomo9363 Před 9 měsíci

    Whew, this was so good!! God bless you guys🤍

  • @UnpackItWithThando
    @UnpackItWithThando Před 9 měsíci

    Bless you Sisters for this episode ❤ I enjoyed it so much and I learned a lot!

  • @Yourrrr
    @Yourrrr Před 9 měsíci

    I neeeeeeded this

  • @barrborrah
    @barrborrah Před 9 měsíci +1

    not on my first day of my new work :dd yes!!

  • @taileilani
    @taileilani Před 9 měsíci

    Super grateful for this episode. Thank you for sharing and encouraging us, sisters ❤️

  • @kevarop7626
    @kevarop7626 Před 9 měsíci

    "be there or be square" means that if one declines to attend an event, one is considered “uncool.” It implies that the event will be exciting. Someone who doesn’t attend is boring.

  • @Money4Bunnies
    @Money4Bunnies Před 9 měsíci

    To My Sisters: To answer your question. Be there or Be Square ▪️(because they’re not A-Round ⚪️)

  • @_audecarla
    @_audecarla Před 9 měsíci +2

    First ❤❤

  • @corinne143
    @corinne143 Před 9 měsíci

    Does anyone know any good financial education platforms ? 😢

  • @sweetieboo991
    @sweetieboo991 Před 9 měsíci

    Where do I send in a dilemma?😭

  • @MKatelynn
    @MKatelynn Před 9 měsíci +2

    Any tips on useful skills??

  • @ChinaJasmin
    @ChinaJasmin Před 9 měsíci

    Because you’re not A ROUND like a circle so you’re square. 🤷‍♀️

  • @livvylivinlife
    @livvylivinlife Před 9 měsíci +1

    Really enjoyed this episode up until you said money is spiritual... I think it does more harm than good to think of money as a spiritual thing because it is material and it is a tool. One should be neutral towards it and a good steward of it, just like with time. Spiritualizing money can have the effect of supporting the myth of the Protestant work ethic, the prosperity gospel, and the belief that rich people are blessed by God and poor people are not (or have sin preventing them from being rich). In reality money operates within a secular, economic system and it's not a reflection of how "spiritually good" an individual is.