The title alone tells me this is exactly what I need. I've been dealing with a whole lot of rejection ey. 🙃 I'm looking forward to this. A South African sister. ❤
I was going through your videos looking for something with this topic. Then this just popped up. You ladies are doing the Lord's work. May Jesus strengthen you❤️
Today is my birthday and I don’t celebrate for that reason. Every time I’ve tried, plans fall apart so I don’t get my hopes up anymore. I just cashed in all my free food rewards at restaurants and played cards with my mom lol
@Denise_Cocoa First off, Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 I hope this upcoming year is a great one for you. And what I realized last week (my bday was monday) the people who want to show up for you will. And sometimes you gotta be the one to show up for you. I ended up taking myself on a day trip for mine. And there's nothing wrong with a simple bday. Spending quality time with someone you're close with is still a happy day.
28:49 whew Courtney is spitting. After being let down on my birthday for the x year in a row, I simply chose to no longer have birthday gatherings. Furthermore, I refuse to host *any* gatherings. FURTHERMORE, I no longer ask *anything* of anyone which requires them 'showing up' for me in any capacity. If there's nothing to 'hope' for from people, then I can't get disappointed. My therapist and I are working on it 🤪
It's crazy how ya'll have literally become part of my week , thank you for always being a safe place for us to reflect and speak about things we try to hide from other people. ❤
When I tell you this entire past week has had me nursing a broken heart and also realising that the root of how I felt is because of rejection? Just the title alone said Joëlle, this is for you. Ugh ❤ Let me dive in.
“That leads you to jump to another extreme, not hyper independence but I will never allow anybody in close enough or I will never allow anybody to know that I desire something or I have needs that need to be fulfilled in order for them to reject me or let me down” When I say a READ? Whew, I had to watch this podcast twice and I am going to watch it again. There were so many good gems in this and I somehow found it just when I needed it the most because this entire year has been a complete rollercoaster. So grateful for this podcast and this space ❤️
I prayed about me taking a break from gifts this AM. Thanks for being transparent and letting us know it’s ok to REST! Hope y’all are enjoying your trips, lovelies.
I’ve been tuning into your podcasts every Sunday for at least 2 years now & share it with all my friends and JUST realized I wasn’t subscribed…. So embarrassing 🫢. Officially subscribed now 😂 love you guys!
The title alone tells me this is exactly what I need. I've been dealing with a whole lot of rejection ey. 🙃 I'm looking forward to this. A South African sister. ❤
Hey fellow SA sister. Notification gang ❤
Gang gang 🤗@@samukelongwane7412
I was going through your videos looking for something with this topic. Then this just popped up. You ladies are doing the Lord's work. May Jesus strengthen you❤️
Girl, thank you. I thought that struggling to celebrate your bday thing because of feeling rejected was something only i was struggling with.
Today is my birthday and I don’t celebrate for that reason. Every time I’ve tried, plans fall apart so I don’t get my hopes up anymore. I just cashed in all my free food rewards at restaurants and played cards with my mom lol
@Denise_Cocoa First off, Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 I hope this upcoming year is a great one for you. And what I realized last week (my bday was monday) the people who want to show up for you will. And sometimes you gotta be the one to show up for you. I ended up taking myself on a day trip for mine. And there's nothing wrong with a simple bday. Spending quality time with someone you're close with is still a happy day.
@@Denise_Cocoahappy birthday to you ✨🎂🌻
@@princessangel821happy belated birthday to you as well 🎉
Thank you!
28:49 whew Courtney is spitting. After being let down on my birthday for the x year in a row, I simply chose to no longer have birthday gatherings. Furthermore, I refuse to host *any* gatherings. FURTHERMORE, I no longer ask *anything* of anyone which requires them 'showing up' for me in any capacity. If there's nothing to 'hope' for from people, then I can't get disappointed. My therapist and I are working on it 🤪
I haven’t even gotten half way in and I am already dying of laughter! I truly love y’all. So relatable.
It's crazy how ya'll have literally become part of my week , thank you for always being a safe place for us to reflect and speak about things we try to hide from other people. ❤
This is true
When I tell you this entire past week has had me nursing a broken heart and also realising that the root of how I felt is because of rejection? Just the title alone said Joëlle, this is for you. Ugh ❤
Let me dive in.
The way ya'll are God sent! I needed to hear this, thank you! ❤ love from 🇿🇦
God KNEWWWW I needed to hear a conversation like this. it must really be divine timing. I pray God continues to bless y'all 🥹❤
“That leads you to jump to another extreme, not hyper independence but I will never allow anybody in close enough or I will never allow anybody to know that I desire something or I have needs that need to be fulfilled in order for them to reject me or let me down”
When I say a READ? Whew, I had to watch this podcast twice and I am going to watch it again. There were so many good gems in this and I somehow found it just when I needed it the most because this entire year has been a complete rollercoaster. So grateful for this podcast and this space ❤️
I prayed about me taking a break from gifts this AM. Thanks for being transparent and letting us know it’s ok to REST! Hope y’all are enjoying your trips, lovelies.
Now it is time to binge and catch up on the content I been missing out on 🙈
Here failing badly but growing and failing forward faster
Thank you very much for this sisters!
Nap Club - Dazzit! Now we're talking my kind of party 🙌🏾 This year's TIREDNESS is a special one!
Your BEST video yet!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! 😢😢😢❤
Wow! This was so good.
You girls are so hilarious😂😂😂😂❤
Loved this conversation as always ladies ♥
This was too short. ❤
5:28 please what heart is that😂
ughhh no risk... no reward
Honestly …… the tired giggles and jokes made the episode 😂🫶🏽amazing as always 🧡
I’ve been tuning into your podcasts every Sunday for at least 2 years now & share it with all my friends and JUST realized I wasn’t subscribed…. So embarrassing 🫢. Officially subscribed now 😂 love you guys!