ELIMINATE NEGATIVE THINKING & CULTIVATE A POSITIVE MINDSET | your guide to becoming an OPTIMIST

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  • Welcome to 𝘈 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶 podcast by lifestyle, wellness, & self help youtuber - Fernanda Ramirez. In this episode we're diving in on how we can eliminate our negative thoughts and change our mindset to a much more positive one 💖 I'll tell you about all the ways i stay optimistic, happy, and looking forwards to the future. Listen along to hear about all about cultivating this mindset and how you can maintain it too ! :)
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Komentáře • 263

  • @yoyleaeko
    @yoyleaeko Před 3 měsíci +65

    I'm in 5th grade and I love listening to ur podcasts

    • @xomich.
      @xomich. Před 3 měsíci +12

      that's so good for you! the fact that you are in fifth grade and experiencing bad things and somehow you seek for ways to put the bad things aside is very mature! your vocabulary is very impressive for your age as well, probably because you listen to constructive podcasts.i just wanted to say keep seeking for the positive side and focus on yourself God bless!

    • @yoyleaeko
      @yoyleaeko Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@xomich. needed this

    • @cassidee8904
      @cassidee8904 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Please be strong and stay safe love, bullying is so hard to go through, just know school doesn’t last for long. It’s over in a blink of an eye. Just be patient. You won’t know them when you graduate

    • @ShivaniS-fc5nn
      @ShivaniS-fc5nn Před měsícem +1

      I am really proud of you

  • @LillaF-xo7rr
    @LillaF-xo7rr Před 6 měsíci +31

    it is so true about how the body shows those negative thoughts, whenever I'm very stressed I start THROWING UP, literally trying to get rid of the negative vibes via vomiting.

  • @Intisar0
    @Intisar0 Před rokem +433

    This is my favorite podcast right now

  • @nienkevancaillie2328
    @nienkevancaillie2328 Před 7 měsíci +27

    I'm told a lot that im negative so I'm actively trying to be more positive

  • @elifnazsurucu7344
    @elifnazsurucu7344 Před rokem +100

    As an architecture student, It's hard to be optimistic when professors constantly criticize the work that you spent hours and even days on. I really needed this. I have been following you for years, and I can say that you have been so helpful to me. Thank you!

    • @linde2391
      @linde2391 Před rokem +4

      As an engineering student I bear with you. It can be really tough to not take all the criticism to heart, and being an architecture student you must get criticized a lot. But seriously you guys make some very cool stuff, keep up the good work!

    • @shakoorah1
      @shakoorah1 Před rokem +3

      Ah yes this is familiar! I’ve graduated as an interior architect and the portfolio crits’ were intense at times. Fern is relatable with these wellness/positivity videos ❤she’s helped me along too xx

  • @soulcontact2
    @soulcontact2 Před rokem +17

    It's really sweet from her to take from her time to help other girls (boys) become better and happy, it shows that she's one of those super rare people who've really got sweet and clean hearts 😯🍃💖

  • @indiakxoxo
    @indiakxoxo Před rokem +56

    Girl it’s so true about the body and negative thoughts. I literally made myself sick when I was dealing with some trauma bc I couldn’t let go

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Před rokem +34

    Wow these are such powerful points Fernanda! "Set aside time to worry" I absolutely agree 💖 For myself I set aside time to honour the full spectrum of my emotions so that when I am interacting with others I can fully see myself and recognise if my ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) are running into our conversation 💖

  • @polisi13
    @polisi13 Před rokem +46

    Fernanda, It's hard to put into words how much I love your podcasts. I like it so much when you share your experience and give advice. You're so cute and smart. ILY 💗

  • @zemeraldqueen
    @zemeraldqueen Před rokem +21

    I'm the luckiest person ever.
    I attract abundance.
    I attract wealth.
    I AM A DIAMOND.
    MONEY FLOWS WHEREVER I GO.
    I WAS BORN A MIRACLE.
    I AM A LEADER.
    I am luxury.
    I am beauty.
    I am wealth.

  • @victoriaaragon9294
    @victoriaaragon9294 Před rokem +8

    I love how you brought up hobbies!!! I've been thinking of starting a hobby or two! My husband loves to garden so I think for one of them I want to help him, so it can be something we do together and spend some quality time. I did already ask him to make sure I won't be intruding on his time/hobbie, and he was so excited that I asked! I love your podcast, I found you while scrolling on YT looking for positive uplifting content and I do my best to catch every new episode!!!

  • @cjray04
    @cjray04 Před rokem +13

    I loved and totally relate to the topic rn. I’m at a point in my life where I should feel so accomplished because I finished my first year of college which was not easy, but because of my shitty part time job that was overworking me and abusing me, I felt a downward spiral of negative thoughts which even made me start to almost relapse in old patterns I used to do like smoking and binge eating. So I said fuck this and for my own mental health I quit the job which was scary tbh. I’m at a way better point and I this episode made me realize that I made the right choice and I feel so much happier and free.

  • @L0v3m3.
    @L0v3m3. Před 5 měsíci +1

    I was listening to this while I was getting ready for school and I have to say that ur words were super gentle and so sweet that I almost cried a bit cause people hated me for having a negative thought all the time, I want to be a better person for me and my mom and family! And i believe that ur podcast can help me to be that girl

  • @makenzivehas8176
    @makenzivehas8176 Před rokem +2

    In this video I learned
    : in every embarrassing moment in my life I had a good outcome .
    Practicing self awareness is better that trying to not think about a problem that I'm thinking off. Ask people for advice..you can't control everything. Thank you fernanda ❤

  • @Oakcitymedia
    @Oakcitymedia Před rokem +10

    Positive mindset, giving my life to Jesus Christ and being around uplifting people changed my life

  • @authenticallytrish
    @authenticallytrish Před rokem +15

    Listening to this podcast is now part of my morning routine 😊 such an uplifting way to start my day

  • @PierrejordanAzor-kz2bb

    The kind of podcast is so constructive for all people who want to lear.ma'am even if i don't know you to thank you in the way I would but let me tell you are a very kind and motivating person. Keep going i love u so much.

  • @NadMartineau
    @NadMartineau Před rokem +6

    Changing my mindset is something I continuously need to work on. It doesn’t come easy for me but helps me so much. Thank you for these videos ❤

  • @user-xw1xk5rr9h
    @user-xw1xk5rr9h Před rokem +2

    I've never given optimism a try until I listened to this podcast. For years, I believed the popular misconception that optimism was always seeing the bright side of everything, which made me think it was toxic. Thank you Fernanda for clearing up toxic positivity and providing us with the true definition! I've been enjoying these podcasts, implementing some of your suggestions, and have started to see a change in myself. My skin is glowing, I'm feeling great, and I'm more at peace. Looking forward to catching up on the rest of the episodes and the future ones to come! ♥

  • @ddee_6234
    @ddee_6234 Před 10 měsíci +2

    as someone who is nearly the same age with you, and trying to be consistent creating contents in youtube( although i am full time student ) , you are so relatable, honest and all of your contents are quality contents. I feel like I am talking with my bestie when I listen to your podcasts. Just wanna say keep the good work up and thank you dear.

  • @m4yfl0werr
    @m4yfl0werr Před rokem +1

    I don’t know if you’ll see this but the one thing you said which stuck with me was not to make bad jokes about yourself or be around people who bad jokes about themselves, and since I heard you say that I’ve been so much happier by not saying negative things about myself, thank you so so much I love you

  • @user-cr4pd6bc2y
    @user-cr4pd6bc2y Před rokem +6

    I needed this so much, I have been going through normal teenage girl drama and I just needed to hear this ❤ you are so wise and easy to listen too.

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 Před rokem +4

    awww yay i’m so happy u uploaded it!!! fern you already have the best tips and make my day when you upload ❤

  • @Ellie_clarke
    @Ellie_clarke Před rokem +7

    This is my favourite podcast you have helped me so much I just want to say your an amazing person and I hope when I’m older I will be like you ❤love you Fernanda

    • @lexy1151
      @lexy1151 Před rokem +2

      Same sis it has really helped

  • @jasmijnamzirolo6773
    @jasmijnamzirolo6773 Před rokem +3

    This podcast really makes me feel alive again! My mood this year was like, really sad.. but this is something I enjoy every moment❤ thank you so so so much! Your a strong girl Fernanda, your words are positive power for everyone that struggles with something.

  • @thegirlwiththekabukimask2895

    ilysm girl like, It's not that I stopped manifesting but, I've learned to focus more on the "change" than just blindly asking the universe. You help me jump-start xoxo

  • @Abirosaaa
    @Abirosaaa Před 8 měsíci

    I cannot tell you how much the topics you focus on in your podcast help me. I listen to your episodes while I workout and it pours such good energy into my mind and spirit. Thank you thank you thank youuuuuu💞💞💞

  • @davidbruce2083
    @davidbruce2083 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for the advice you have, gave me the opportunity to help myself to know more about my self. ❤❤

  • @esavv_
    @esavv_ Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you for this podcast! It's very insightful and helpful to me and many people. I've been struggling with negativity for a while, and a big factor is the way I think whenever I don't want to get my hopes up, as you mentioned. I feel like it's really taken a toll on me mentally, but I don't know what to do to not get my hopes up because I also don't want to face that disappointment. Sorry for the long comment, much love 🩷

  • @thehighalix
    @thehighalix Před rokem +1

    I struggle with depression since many years on and off and I really agree with you about hobbies, personally whenever I sew or knit I have to be so focused on what I do that it helps me to get out of my head. I am lucky tho for having a hobby because I know some people don't really have one or they don't yet know what they like to do... Anyway, I really enjoy listening to your podcast while I am sewing, please continue doing what you do! love from Paris

  • @gaurikunjuzz
    @gaurikunjuzz Před rokem +4

    I love your podcast so much... I don't know why it is so relatable.Every episode of your podcast so enjoyable. Your advices and experiences makes it more beautiful❤️

  • @velmavanbeulen1025
    @velmavanbeulen1025 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I've been in this dump for months after my aunt and grandma passed away in the beginning of the year , i started being hard towards myself and still am . Hearing this podcast just makes me feel good and makes me feel happy ❤ .
    If possible can you make a video about how you stay motivated to keep going in life and to follow your schedule
    ❤❤

  • @salimouche3945
    @salimouche3945 Před rokem

    it's been 1 month since this video has been up but i wanted to say that you are definitely a positive person and that your podcats lift me up so much after i've been having harsh thoughts about myself recently. now i realise that the situation i'm in is temporary, life is really not that deep and i have so many things to be proud and happy about. thank you !!

  • @Unathi.visualdiary
    @Unathi.visualdiary Před 5 měsíci

    Omg i wish i started watching this podcast long ago so helpful i have it and i give it a 10/10 the way i was feeling negative about..... But now i feel so positive

  • @hashihashi11.11
    @hashihashi11.11 Před 4 měsíci

    I dont know why but you are the person who can calm me.I must say this. Thank you very much.Hash loves you.
    Im grateful that i met you.❤

  • @ammarahnaeem5028
    @ammarahnaeem5028 Před 7 měsíci +1

    She has such beautiful energy!!

  • @myasminaaa
    @myasminaaa Před rokem +2

    Fernanda your a natural I love your podcast your awesome . You really helped me whit a bunch of struggles and you are just amazing basically, I’m very happy for you that your new podcast channel is blowing up your awesome and you always have the positive energie that makes you shine i have so many ways to explain how much you’ve helped me and how much joy you gave me keep it up girl! we love you❤❤❤

  • @dewdproduction
    @dewdproduction Před 2 měsíci +1

    Pro Tip: If you don't like listening to music while studying, listening to this podcast, really sets you in a motivated and productive mood! Thank you Fernanda for your A Better You !

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Před rokem +3

    Your podcast is helping me so much in my healing journey Fernanda I love you so much 🤍

  • @lauracaldwell5640
    @lauracaldwell5640 Před rokem +1

    You are such best friend material! I needed to hear this today.

  • @alien1971
    @alien1971 Před rokem +2

    I was abused my two of my cousins because of your these podcast I overcome thinking constantly that shitty past and accept that I'm the most luckiest girl in this world. THANKS A LOT GURRLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @elianamolina4339
    @elianamolina4339 Před rokem +3

    I absolutely love your podcast Fernanda! Theres just some type of energy and vibe u give off! 💗🎀 I love the change of setup, so cute at night 🌙✨ manifesting good vibes for your podcast! Love uuuu queen!

  • @hannahvanoverbeek4682
    @hannahvanoverbeek4682 Před 11 měsíci +3

    I really love this podcast! Your energy is just awesome and I always feel better after watching your episodes :)

  • @soniamaldonado6275
    @soniamaldonado6275 Před rokem +1

    This podcast has just helped me out tremendously, I am a negative thinker also an over thinker & listening to this really made a change for me ❤️ I thank you and appreciate you so much 🙏🏽❤️ God bless ❤️

  • @abigayleflynn911
    @abigayleflynn911 Před 9 měsíci

    Now this was probably the most helpful podcast I have heard about negative thinking and positive optimism.

  • @jamierosalez5912
    @jamierosalez5912 Před rokem

    your podcast has helped me in so many different perspectives, i’m honestly so greatful you are a creator, i feel like i’ve been needing to hear everything you’ve spoke of in all of your videos , i’m definitely headed down the right path with the help of your podcast,thank you Fernanda 💛

  • @rouuulin
    @rouuulin Před 2 měsíci

    YOU make me be more positive!
    Your videos always bring me so much joy🥺love you!!!

  • @user-sg2ps3sb3f
    @user-sg2ps3sb3f Před rokem

    Can we agree that she is actually positive and the greatest podcast girl rn!!❤😊

  • @_xxdisgraceyxx_
    @_xxdisgraceyxx_ Před rokem +2

    And here she comes saving my day.

  • @ThanhTran-kd5pv
    @ThanhTran-kd5pv Před 2 měsíci

    how can love yourself right way!
    - love unconditional yourself without judge
    - self- responsibility things around you
    -look at loop that you catch up to expand comprehension!
    Before we want to attract good things into your life. we ought to accept darkness part inner and release it. A real love without suffers ! ❤
    I’m from Vietnam

  • @aye7770
    @aye7770 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Best podcast everrrrrrrrr I love you 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @bolaabuah3798
    @bolaabuah3798 Před rokem +1

    girl, i just found u and this , is the best thing i have listened to , btw thx for this podcast it acc really hepled me feel really positive and grateful.

  • @juandm09
    @juandm09 Před 5 měsíci

    This podcast help me to práctice my listening English, is so good and I love it

  • @Ms.A_O
    @Ms.A_O Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Fernanda; I literally had to log-in, subscribe and say that I am "grateful for you" =).

    • @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA
      @ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA  Před 11 měsíci

      aw i love you!!

    • @Ms.A_O
      @Ms.A_O Před 11 měsíci

      @@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA 🥲🥹so sweet of you, thank you love.

  • @user-me4lc8bw7q
    @user-me4lc8bw7q Před 10 měsíci

    I love you sis right you speak so fast but understantable.i am english learner and I am doing shadowing with your podcast❤️

  • @bubblelayna
    @bubblelayna Před rokem +2

    So grateful to have u fernanda 💗

  • @archxnaa
    @archxnaa Před rokem

    i just wanted to improve my english skills when i 1st click on your videos, but now i'm learning life as well. Thank you so much.

  • @alicia_alaoui2212
    @alicia_alaoui2212 Před rokem +6

    Fern you are literally ⚡️that⚡️ girl! You are always here to remind me how much chances I have to be alive, I’m going to put post its all over my room😊 p.s: you have the same attitude that my mom you really talk like her and you have the same positive mindset🫶🏻 I hope you’ll have a wonderful day!😉 queep going like this you got this girl! From you #1 fan🩵

  • @amazzfoods
    @amazzfoods Před 8 měsíci

    I just found your channel and I love listening to you and about your experiences. I feel like I relate to you in so many ways. When I need a refresher and motivation I always come to your channel to keep myself back on my feet and it has helped me to be more productive and positive, thank you :)

  • @violamugisha3843
    @violamugisha3843 Před 2 měsíci

    I feel so much positive, feel what was bothering me wasnt worth it, i will always put reminders/sticker notes to kip the positive. Thanks

  • @aishawhite7862
    @aishawhite7862 Před rokem +2

    I love this episode!!! Love you Fernanda💗🫶🏼 Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭💗💗

  • @medeeaandrus2866
    @medeeaandrus2866 Před 7 měsíci

    Girl i just listen to 3 Podcast from you in a ROW . Love what you’re doing 🫶🏻

  • @AngelFelix111
    @AngelFelix111 Před rokem +2

    The best advice ever. I take notes. Literally.

  • @Mochiplaysxx
    @Mochiplaysxx Před 11 měsíci

    Girlie I have been listening to your podcasts when I’m on a run/walk and on my bus!❤️😚☺️

  • @Aisha-zy3ks
    @Aisha-zy3ks Před 3 měsíci

    I really do love your podcast your tips are the most accurate way to eliminate negativity

  • @avocadok4789
    @avocadok4789 Před rokem

    It’s amazing! Fernanda, your podcast is what makes me understand that there are a lot of improvements which can change my life and because of your advice it can be real. You are an optimistic person and I really appreciate you being such a positive person. Thank you for your work✨🤍

  • @xobrook
    @xobrook Před rokem +1

    I was in a mood and I already feel SO much better after watching this video. Tysm ❤

  • @shafiya369
    @shafiya369 Před rokem +1

    Wow I love this podcast thankyou so much &we need podcast about hobbies ❤

  • @leomcalary7320
    @leomcalary7320 Před 7 dny

    Thank you so much for this, gave me a big energy boost!

  • @rosietorres
    @rosietorres Před rokem

    Fernanda! I'm so happy I stumbled upon your "YOUR GUIDE TO SOCIAL CONFIDENCE & CHARISMA" video and I was like "holy shit I should start doing that." Thank you for being the sister figure I've always wanted to have. Your insights are so helpful and I'm excited to learn more!!

  • @_alex.nooram_
    @_alex.nooram_ Před 9 měsíci

    I love your podcasts so so much! Thank you, keep going ❤

  • @kariiglv
    @kariiglv Před rokem +1

    your topics lately have been so valuable to me I've been needing all this

  • @jessicathomas5
    @jessicathomas5 Před rokem +2

    LOVE your videos! Such a breath of fresh air 💛

  • @CGMatter
    @CGMatter Před 10 měsíci

    +1 for optimism - thanks for the great podcast! lots to pull from here :)

  • @shannonfuerstenberg438
    @shannonfuerstenberg438 Před 4 měsíci

    I listen to "A better you podcast" everyday when I study and get up🩷 thank you

  • @Mimi-xq8wm
    @Mimi-xq8wm Před 3 měsíci

    I needed this . I was going through it but you helped me find a different view of life

  • @slthewolff
    @slthewolff Před rokem +1

    I feel like the last episode was yesterday, time does fly really fast!! take care of youu Fernanda

  • @solfinest5442
    @solfinest5442 Před rokem

    I loved this! I knew some of these but having it repeated again & w/ so much honesty, good example and just understanding helps a lot!

  • @riajunita3051
    @riajunita3051 Před měsícem

    I like how u explain it,, btw from ur podcasts I learned english more fun to improve my speaking skill...

  • @Aestheticvibes-42
    @Aestheticvibes-42 Před 6 měsíci

    Ur all over my fyp omg I love ur podcast already, this is my first episode I will watch the romanticize life one next so excited!!!

  • @leslielopez4205
    @leslielopez4205 Před 3 měsíci

    I love this podcast ❤ you are so relatable and !!

  • @AraVahanian
    @AraVahanian Před rokem

    Hello Fernanda how are you? Thank you so much for this! I would just like to add that it is also important to look for the silver lining in situations as this makes you a stronger and more well rounded person. I subscribed to your main CZcams channel because I really enjoy the content and presentation. One of the things that I've done recently that's really made a huge difference in my life is that I've basically cut out watching the news here in the USA because all of these media companies broadcast too much negative news and I just didn't want to be exposed to that information. There's a lot of good things happening in the world that the news doesn't tell or show you. Thank you so much for starting a podcast like this! And by the way, you are absolutely gorgeous and vibrant as usual!

  • @moomoo4695
    @moomoo4695 Před rokem

    The setup is a vibe like you Fernanda love your videos🌸🌸🌸

  • @English_with__Sezi
    @English_with__Sezi Před 3 měsíci

    OMG 😭 her speech 👍👍

  • @gessicaevans4221
    @gessicaevans4221 Před měsícem

    I use this video for practice my listening 😊

  • @tolabenday
    @tolabenday Před rokem

    Really Love your voice and accent. I'm here to practice listening fast English and I feel like you talk clearly for me to follow.

  • @Yevstifieievakarina
    @Yevstifieievakarina Před rokem

    loveee listening to this while at the gym 🤍

  • @who_is_TA_
    @who_is_TA_ Před rokem +1

    Would love if you do a whole selflove episode❤

  • @selestineshiro3918
    @selestineshiro3918 Před rokem +1

    Hi gal, this talk is very informative and relatable. Loving your energy.

  • @YuKi-mq8sw
    @YuKi-mq8sw Před 8 měsíci

    I really love this episode thank you so much ❤

  • @XamdaXasan-jo9qj
    @XamdaXasan-jo9qj Před 2 měsíci +1

    Omg because is good 👍 ❤❤❤

  • @romanovadasha
    @romanovadasha Před rokem

    This is my favorite podcast of all the time 💌💌💌

  • @user-oh5dd5cv4t
    @user-oh5dd5cv4t Před rokem

    This has genuinely inspired and helped me a lot thank you so much fernanda❤️

  • @Zainab-sx3yd
    @Zainab-sx3yd Před rokem

    I really needed this rn, thank you love♡

  • @Taniapeter-ym4lg
    @Taniapeter-ym4lg Před 3 měsíci +1

    ahh this helps me so much thank youuu

  • @divinechinye1513
    @divinechinye1513 Před rokem +1

    This is so helpful,thanks😊❤

  • @athoktvchannel3524
    @athoktvchannel3524 Před měsícem

    Thanks girl, that's great!

  • @user-mk1ro7lv1p
    @user-mk1ro7lv1p Před 10 měsíci

    thank u so much. this is what i needed. love ur podcasts❤

  • @who_is_TA_
    @who_is_TA_ Před rokem

    EVERY EPISODE IS JUST SO AMAZING

  • @nawdianadoo4571
    @nawdianadoo4571 Před rokem

    Recently , i keep listening her podcast