Slaying the Dragon Within Us

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  • čas přidán 25. 01. 2016
  • This is the first Big Ideas Lecture I completed, back in 2002. I read a book for very young children by Jack Kent called "There's no Such Thing as a Dragon" to a group of University of Toronto alumni (most over 65). I explained what it meant: Pay attention -- or else.
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  • @yuvalyehezkel5558
    @yuvalyehezkel5558 Před 6 lety +2754

    He is so Jung there!

  • @Rokuro1
    @Rokuro1 Před 6 lety +1736

    Clean your dragon, slay your room

    • @vilnv
      @vilnv Před 6 lety +117

      sounds about right but what about my lobster

    • @p_serdiuk
      @p_serdiuk Před 6 lety +54

      SwimmingInSauce boil it alive, letting your Shadow in

    • @Keon994
      @Keon994 Před 6 lety +27

      Keep your lobster in a tank and feed it bacon bits.

    • @neihuslim
      @neihuslim Před 6 lety +23

      SwimmingInSauce Pin its shoulders back.

    • @oliverhantu910
      @oliverhantu910 Před 6 lety +25

      Rokuro1 Clean your your, slay room dragon.

  • @Sourdoughgirl
    @Sourdoughgirl Před 6 lety +3199

    Back in 2002 Jordan Peterson was a refreshing beer and today he's a fine wine.

    • @fairweatherfriends.
      @fairweatherfriends. Před 6 lety +31

      Nice

    • @LiziStardust
      @LiziStardust Před 6 lety +10

      Could've agree more

    • @Niveous23
      @Niveous23 Před 6 lety +16

      there is an ancient beer recipe that includes a bit of wine recently excavated in a Persian king's tomb. i believe jordan b peterson is that beer. and yes, they sell it now as "midas touch"

    • @youwhatmadeidk
      @youwhatmadeidk Před 6 lety +2

      Benni B send me a bottle bro

    • @unclejj13er75
      @unclejj13er75 Před 6 lety +2

      That's why he's still here...

  • @shelldunk
    @shelldunk Před 6 lety +560

    "Why would a dragon hoard gold? 'Cos a dragon represents everything you're afraid of. What's embedded in everything that you're afraid of? Absolutely everything that you need to find. Run from what your're afraid of? Run from exactly what you need to find."
    This quote really hit me hard. I need to confront and defeat my dragons if I'm to establish the meaningful, successful life that I desire. It won't be easy, but it'll be worth it.
    Thank you, Dr. Peterson.

    • @Lightnings
      @Lightnings Před 4 lety +8

      Spot on.

    • @kensurrency2564
      @kensurrency2564 Před 3 lety +4

      Absolutely right

    • @rifatarman7887
      @rifatarman7887 Před 2 lety +4

      From a wreck to a person who's supporting themselves and their family, mentally, physically and financially. I think that's coming a far way from how it was three years ago. Thanks, JP. :)

    • @painterken2542
      @painterken2542 Před 2 lety +3

      @@aWomanFreed he's dead.. dragon ate him..

    • @shelldunk
      @shelldunk Před 2 lety +16

      @@aWomanFreed Overcame a chronic addiction and feelings of suicide, got myself a secure job, made some life-long friends and found myself a wonderful partner. Still have a long way to go until the life I desire is seen to its absolute end, but I've made considerable progress mentally and circumstantially since I made my original comment.
      Rewatching this since my partner has taken an early interest in Peterson. :)

  • @RGTGAME
    @RGTGAME Před 6 lety +940

    My dragon is currently beating the shit out of me but at least I am now aware of it, thank you.

    • @fernanditonh5994
      @fernanditonh5994 Před 6 lety +27

      RGTGAME the first step is being aware

    • @jameslincs
      @jameslincs Před 6 lety +3

      How do you identify your dragons? What’s the definition of a dragon?

    • @Paddyjay12
      @Paddyjay12 Před 5 lety +20

      @@jameslincs u know your dragons

    • @zgok
      @zgok Před 5 lety

      Hell yeah brother.

    • @zgok
      @zgok Před 5 lety +1

      @@skyleonidas9270 ive employed them through salvinorin before and they're very hard workers, gave them a good yelp review.

  • @missionpupa
    @missionpupa Před 7 lety +240

    This isnt normally how psychology doctorates/lecturer/speakers talk. He has an amazing mind, well informed science mixed with poetry.

  • @SilvesterHumaj
    @SilvesterHumaj Před 6 lety +804

    Holy cow it's vintage JP

  • @coreyp9951
    @coreyp9951 Před 6 lety +847

    I've watched so many hours of Peterson, and this is the most compact, concise lecture so far. Absolutely invaluable.

    • @dnozzie
      @dnozzie Před 6 lety +4

      BrokenSocialCompact what are the other ones you recommend?

    • @WayILoveGames
      @WayILoveGames Před 6 lety +26

      Dawid Naude if you haven't watched the biblical series watch it, it's kinda long 25h+ Whit q&a. It helps you understand the foundation of the western world.

    • @EsotericHighway
      @EsotericHighway Před 4 lety +19

      Corey P every time I watch a JP lecture I’m like “that might be his best talk.” But then it happens again..

    • @ChristianBrugger
      @ChristianBrugger Před 4 lety +7

      @Corey P: You said it better than I could have expressed it, what I felt after this video. Thanks!

    • @piterbzymas6462
      @piterbzymas6462 Před 4 lety +10

      @@dnozzie one of my favourite is the one called Tragedy vs Evil

  • @TroyFletcherKeyboards
    @TroyFletcherKeyboards Před 6 lety +679

    "Why would a dragon hoard gold?
    What's embedded in everything that you're afraid of?
    Absolutely everything you need to find."
    ...Tears...

    • @GeronimoLTondato
      @GeronimoLTondato Před 4 lety +8

      I felt exactly alike at that moment! I was just "wow". I came here over and over just to relisten that phrase. Soo deeply touching

    • @leo6562
      @leo6562 Před 4 lety +2

      Geronimo Tondato can you explain the phrase for me?

    • @danielplainview1
      @danielplainview1 Před 4 lety +1

      I’m scared of spiders. What do I need? Cobwebs?

    • @danielplainview1
      @danielplainview1 Před 4 lety

      Skelter But it doesn’t offer any insight from which anything can be derived

    • @marktopman1487
      @marktopman1487 Před 4 lety +15

      Daniel Plainview What the spider has that you need from it is the courage to face it. It's like the person who was afraid of elevators, they didn't need to be able to use elevators, they needed the courage to do the things they needed to do but were to afraid to do them.

  • @eclecticvibrations2044
    @eclecticvibrations2044 Před 5 lety +129

    I'm just a lobster that cleans his room and slays dragons.

  • @americanmambi
    @americanmambi Před 7 lety +386

    I feel like every sentence is a cliff hanger to the next, each word feels carefully selected to express MOST meaning. Amazing, thank you.

    • @guiraus
      @guiraus Před 2 lety +5

      He often says that he rewrote every sentence in Maps of meaning like 50 times. He also likes to say that writing is formalized thinking and also that. He centers his speech around the goal of telling the truth in a pragmatic manner and he was a teacher, and a therapist. No wonder he got good at talking to people.

    • @CraigTalbert
      @CraigTalbert Před rokem +1

      I think today he's like Four Loko.

  • @arhabersham
    @arhabersham Před 7 lety +271

    22:40 "I am not sure... but I guess he just wanted to be noticed". I am a school teacher, and I want this storybook in my classroom

  • @MusixPro4u
    @MusixPro4u Před 7 lety +570

    "If that information isn't true. How did it get there?"
    Mind blown.

    • @wkksol
      @wkksol Před 7 lety +18

      John Ny im still trying figure out what he meant by that statement.. ur thoughts?

    • @wkksol
      @wkksol Před 7 lety +11

      Hmm that makes sense thanx for clearing that up

    • @abelbabel8484
      @abelbabel8484 Před 6 lety +52

      It's an evolution consideration.
      We have the instructions to act in a certain way ingrained in us even more deeply than consciousness. If the instructions were bad, all with the instinct to act them out would have died off and the instinct with them.
      But the instinct is still here - that proves it's an asset to survival and success in this world, not a detriment.

    • @zubstep
      @zubstep Před 6 lety +18

      Another way to put it, I hope correctly, is that a conscious knowledge of our material reality is not sufficient to explain our behavior, our experiences, our nature and any meaningful purpose we might find within the world. The "world of objects" is a dead and incomplete reduction of reality.

    • @Niveous23
      @Niveous23 Před 6 lety +8

      my thoughts after just watching now, months after your question are as follows: people tend to write down into stories their wisdom and shared experiences in one form or another. otherwise you'd have a boring shopping list (and don't get me wrong, lists and data do exist in plenty) but a boring shopping list of data makes for a horrible story. so the lesson and shared wisdom in this children's book (and i presume written by an adult, correct me if i'm wrong) is to not ignore what a dragon represents, the unexpected. wisdom by it's very nature is knowledge through your own experiences rather than data gathered and transferred towards others. the moral and excitement of this story comes from gathering your own data, testing out your own limits, and to be very very very wary of ignoring the things you find yourself ignorant to.

  • @DrWaadAminFitnessNutritionist

    weird he still feels like a father to me even when he was young! ❤️

    • @vidhikataria1364
      @vidhikataria1364 Před 3 lety +2

      To me too ☀️

    • @Io-Io-Io
      @Io-Io-Io Před 3 lety +15

      this father thing is so revolting !
      you all have fathers, you don't get to fcking choose who it is!
      you are welcome to accept Peterson as your teacher- but he is NOT your fcking father .
      If you have issues with your fathers then fcol face them, deal with & stop running away from it! (precisely Jordan's teaching btw...)

    • @joaquimluz5979
      @joaquimluz5979 Před 3 lety +50

      @@Io-Io-Io Calm down. It's not about replacing our father with Dr. Peterson because of family issues. There's absolutely nothing to do with that. It's all about seeing him as a positive Masculine Role Model. You must also have men that you admire, that FEEL like a father to you in a spiritual level. Got it?

    • @BasedRanger
      @BasedRanger Před 3 lety +19

      @@Io-Io-Io What Veni said - and then some. Not everyone so much as knows their fathers as you've assumed, and many of us have truly irreparable relationships with our fathers (victims of severe abuse, incest, etc - because we do exist, and there are more of us than most good people would care to imagine). We all need strong male role models, particularly those of us who never had such an important figure in our formative years. We're not literally sitting here imagining that he's our dad, you're the one with the twisted conclusions.

    • @Io-Io-Io
      @Io-Io-Io Před 3 lety +1

      @@BasedRanger no idea why you feel threatened. we all have our parents. we don't get to chose who they are. We all are heirs to their genes, that they inherited from their parents and so on.
      I wasn't talking about role models at all. Get used to where you're coming from. it's important to know that, to find out why they did what they did.

  • @bokilo12
    @bokilo12 Před 3 lety +39

    This video is a summary of all JP's maps of meaning, 12 rules for life and his entire POV. What a man to contend with

  • @PGucci22
    @PGucci22 Před 8 lety +339

    His delivery is amazing! All circuits are connected....

  • @Lindairene28
    @Lindairene28 Před 8 lety +580

    I ran across you by accident and decided to give your lecture a listen. I have always had trouble facing problems in life because I was/am to scared of the outcome...always putting things off instead of just facing my fears. But you are right... if I continue to cast a blind eye to the troubling aspects of my life they will go from being minor to a major issue. So I'm going to slay the dragon before it gets to big to control it! And I will most likely watch this lecture several times more when I deem it necessary to remind me why its important to face my problems and conquer! I absolutely enjoyed this video...thank you Dr. Peterson!

    • @paulfroelich1024
      @paulfroelich1024 Před 7 lety +1

      Word

    • @paulfroelich1024
      @paulfroelich1024 Před 7 lety +12

      Linda Irene Hey check out David Foster Wallace's speech "This is Water"...super motivating and a great part of my quest for meaning...Take Care!!!!!!!! :)

    • @Lindairene28
      @Lindairene28 Před 7 lety +5

      Paul Froelich I will check that out! Thank you!

    • @Defhrone
      @Defhrone Před 7 lety +28

      If it so happens that the dragon got to big. It helps if you cut it into pieces and slay those pieces one by one: ie if the problem is too big, devide it into smaller steps you can take more easily. And don't forget to rewards yourself when you have won a battle. Positive reinforcement! I treat myself to my favorite drink everytime I stook a step and I'm now somewhere between the goal I'm working towards and the chaos I came from by simply taking one step at a time.
      I hope you succeed in slaying your dragons!

    • @Davemac1116
      @Davemac1116 Před 6 lety +2

      Linda Irene Hi Linda. He is good isn't he - in the purist sense of the word 'good.' You would like (though I presume by now you've probably seen them) Peterson's lectures on the psychological analysis of the Biblical stories. Fascinating stuff. What he says on potentiality and moving forward towards a transcendent ideal seem to echo our current understanding of quantum field theory: the Universe requires consciousness as an integral feature of what we might call existential 'reality'. Even though - evidentially - nothing 'out there' actually 'exists' !

  • @bahaanaldo
    @bahaanaldo Před 6 lety +40

    His audience got younger as he got older lol. Great lecture Professor.

  • @pendejo6466
    @pendejo6466 Před 6 lety +42

    51:24:"...the thing you most need is always to be found where you least want to look."

  • @kiaruna
    @kiaruna Před 3 lety +29

    I just realized he is teaching to people much older than him, that's amazing ! The amount of maturity and hindsight this man has on life is admirable.

  • @1baboon1
    @1baboon1 Před 7 lety +238

    I feel as though I've been slapped in the face. I've spent so much time worrying about others around me, I've let dragons take over my life.

    • @NothingTheGreat
      @NothingTheGreat Před 6 lety +7

      If you were in my room at the moment I'd slap you happily

    • @juliebarbin5541
      @juliebarbin5541 Před 5 lety +7

      I’ve allowed dragons to take over my life and thoughts too for decades. Now it is PAST time to go and kill the beasts. It is time we take our glory back!

  • @stefx5994
    @stefx5994 Před 3 lety +48

    Im convinced that Jordan is one of the smartest and most insightful people of our time. In just an hour, he can shine light on human truths that can change ones outlook for a lifetime. Another incredible lecture! God bless you Jordan!

  • @adambandurak8913
    @adambandurak8913 Před 4 lety +20

    And 18 years later, it's still a great lecture.

  • @hornedlobster
    @hornedlobster Před 7 lety +118

    On one hand I'm thrilled that people like this exist who are both brilliant and compassionate, on the other hand I'm disappointed that it's so rare that a person like this gets the recognition and power to influence they deserve. Imagine this man being the thinking cap behind the political sphere in our times. Oh the places we'd go.

    • @d.c.holshouser6716
      @d.c.holshouser6716 Před 6 lety +13

      Zedi if more of us slay our dragons then JBP WILL HAVE THE INFLUENCE THAT HE DESERVES.
      it's amazing what can be accomplished if you don't mind who gets the credit.

    • @downeybill
      @downeybill Před 4 lety +4

      well, things have changed in the last 2 years now haven't they Zedi?

    • @kudzanaikajokoto959
      @kudzanaikajokoto959 Před 4 lety

      @@downeybill they have

    • @ketzalkiawitl
      @ketzalkiawitl Před 4 lety +4

      ...according precisely with what JPsays here: Where we go doesnt depend on the personal qualities of the people in power but in every individual taking responsibility for his/her own actions. Like Solzhenitsin did. So dont worry about JP being recognized. It doesnt matter. Just attend to the core of the message and everything would be all right.

    • @robertthompson959
      @robertthompson959 Před 4 lety +2

      Jordan Peterson was a Harvard professor and served on the UN

  • @SeanMcGehee
    @SeanMcGehee Před 7 lety +181

    My God, you did it.. you speak such truth in the most intellectual, yet entertaining manner. I could listen to you talk for hours.

  • @trueartist7728
    @trueartist7728 Před 7 lety +53

    I'm watching in July of 2017 and it made me chuckle to hear Peterson say, "video rental".

    • @juanmccoy3066
      @juanmccoy3066 Před 4 lety

      Im watching this in 2020 and i didnt chuckle as much. U can rent videos still on google play store and vudu and even cable television. Its digital but its still a rental.....

  • @yamankj6253
    @yamankj6253 Před 6 lety +52

    This is, by far, the most amazing lecture I've ever encountered in the 21st century.

  • @escapingneverland2357
    @escapingneverland2357 Před 6 lety +41

    You know it´s about to get old school when JP breaks out the overhead. Really enjoyed the lecture. This is super fascinating to me.

  • @samyak128
    @samyak128 Před 3 lety +74

    C.S. Lewis: "Some day you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again"

  • @forestg83
    @forestg83 Před 5 lety +34

    It took me something like 8 years to figure out that there was a dragon disturbing my life. For eight years I had dreams about someone from (what I thought) was my past. Nightmares two or three times a week, sometimes more often. Anger became my daily routine, sadness too. I lived in a fear that I might meet that person one day. I was hiding and trying not to get any information about her. Eight long years. Then I came across JBP and once he stated: if there are memories longer than 18 months that still make you cry, you need to go back and slay the dragon. So I decided to meet her face to face. She agreed and we talked for five hours. Coming back home I felt relief and peace. Now it's way, way better. The dragon is gone, sadness, fear as well. If only I knew it long time ago my life would be much better.

    • @ns.hidayat
      @ns.hidayat Před 2 lety +6

      it happened to me, I forgive my father for what he done. I am peace now

  • @MultiPets.
    @MultiPets. Před 7 lety +98

    What an interesting talk this was. Full hour just whizzed past like nothing.

  • @29Hazard
    @29Hazard Před 6 lety +69

    For the first time in my life I had to pause a CZcams video just to have the time to reflect on what's being sad. The thought about combat with the unknown goes deep. That says something good about what CZcams is becoming thanks to the people like mr. Peterson. I'm glad.

    • @raewynurwin4256
      @raewynurwin4256 Před 4 lety +6

      The best therapist yet. When the student is ready the teacher appears, I'm 71 and finally got that dragon to sit still and converse she has been too vulnerable for too many years. Thank you Dr Petersen

    • @revrodrigueza8489
      @revrodrigueza8489 Před rokem

      @@raewynurwin4256 "When the student is ready the teacher appears",.. used this phrase 10yrs ago and translated into Filipino so i can share with my friends

  • @dollydickinson1907
    @dollydickinson1907 Před 4 lety +33

    After listening to countless of his current lectures, I just stumbled onto this old gem. Classic Peterson.

  • @TansGauntlett
    @TansGauntlett Před 5 lety +35

    GOD!!!! THis Has GOT to be THE MOST FASCINATING PETERSON LECTURE OF THEM ALL! PETERSON IS SOCRATES REINCARNATE!!!!

  • @mrtambourineman6107
    @mrtambourineman6107 Před 6 lety +19

    'When the dragon awoke he was hungry' , I shivered to my very core.

  • @rionlong9870
    @rionlong9870 Před 4 lety +13

    “Run from what you’re afraid of, run from exactly what you need to find.” JP!!!!

  • @PaoloMunoz
    @PaoloMunoz Před 7 lety +83

    God... This was an amazing lecture. Thank you so much for this Professor. I needed to hear this.

  • @matthewatchison1887
    @matthewatchison1887 Před 7 lety +45

    After 54:33 is such a powerful and inspiring summary. God damn this guy is badass.

  • @dobblejay
    @dobblejay Před 7 lety +77

    Powerful Jordan Peterson

  • @BeautyforAshesAnastasia
    @BeautyforAshesAnastasia Před 4 lety +8

    Agoraphobia appears to be a special case of PTSD. One progressively faces the shock by making sense of it and feeling it.
    Thankful for this insight.

  • @jacobf3902
    @jacobf3902 Před 6 lety +50

    One of the best things I've ever watched. I can see this being life changing for me.

    • @offtop3808
      @offtop3808 Před 6 lety

      Fish20 SlothCity has it been?

    • @jacobf3902
      @jacobf3902 Před 6 lety +10

      Mitch Wilkins Yeah. I've uncovered quite a few dragons on my own. I've realized that my materialistic way of life has been set up for me by my parents. Also, the problem I've been avoiding by staying at their house for so long: I stay for stability even though I'm miserable here. I can't ignore it any longer. My previous goals were based on going to college and getting a good paying career in something I am only mildly interested in. Now I am working towards moving out and adventuring, not going to live the way my father does, making himself miserable by doing all he can to get a big house to put more things in it and getting taken advantage of by his "good" job and his overrated work ethic (I think work ethic can be too much if it's fatally affecting your health). Or doing things like marrying a psycho bitch that you hate just so you can have the status of being married. I am trying to detach from those types of things. I'm trying to look closely at not only my own life, but those around me for the dragons. It is leading me in a good direction. I now feel like I have a mission and a purpose for living, at least more than "get good job, live comfortably". I honestly don't think that the good job would make me comfortable anyways. The chairs suck.

    • @burlfaircloth_
      @burlfaircloth_ Před 4 lety +1

      Jacob F how are things today, friend?

    • @tomr6955
      @tomr6955 Před 4 lety +1

      @@jacobf3902 Jacob you still with us?

  • @evgenitomov279
    @evgenitomov279 Před 8 lety +83

    I have been binge watching your lectures for a few weeks now - rather listen most of the time since I am doing this while working. Very enlightening and fascinating! (A lot of things kind of fall in place :-)
    Thank you!

  • @Sid_Mowe
    @Sid_Mowe Před 5 lety +301

    RULE 13 / Pet your dragon so it doesn't grow too large (and carry your house away)

    • @tedbrinegar982
      @tedbrinegar982 Před 4 lety +2

      genius, thank you!

    • @nickliu3511
      @nickliu3511 Před 3 lety +2

      Love this!

    • @scottdean8576
      @scottdean8576 Před 2 lety

      Pet my dragon and it gets really big!

    • @gregr1154
      @gregr1154 Před 2 lety +1

      Why Rule 13? It's already rule 10.

    • @Sid_Mowe
      @Sid_Mowe Před 2 lety

      @@gregr1154 I actually have no idea. This is from 2 years ago lol

  • @justamangoddamn
    @justamangoddamn Před 3 lety +15

    I learned more from this man than school, work or life. He has helped me tremendously!

  • @marcusoueddir5150
    @marcusoueddir5150 Před 6 lety +79

    I had a dream once where there was a giant golden shimmering snake. Though it was beautiful it was mindless. Just raw power. In the dream, God showed up and said "if you don't learn how to work with the snake and use it, it will kill you" I shrugged it off as a nightmare but this lecture is making me think maybe there was something to it.

    • @jimmypchacko
      @jimmypchacko Před 5 lety +7

      Wow that's an unbelievably wise dream.

    • @CountArtha
      @CountArtha Před 5 lety +6

      _I will not conceal his limbs, his mighty power, or his graceful proportions._
      _Who can open the doors of his face, with his terrible teeth all around?_
      _His rows of scales are his pride, shut up tightly as with a seal;_
      _One is so near another that no air can come between them; they are joined one to another, they stick together and cannot be parted._
      _His sneezings flash forth light, and his eyes are like the eyelids of the morning. Out of his mouth go burning lights; sparks of fire shoot out._
      _Smoke goes out of his nostrils, as from a boiling pot and burning rushes. His breath kindles coals, and a flame goes out of his mouth._
      _Strength dwells in his neck, and sorrow dances before him. When he raises himself up, the mighty are afraid; because of his crashings they are beside themselves._
      _Though the sword reaches him, it cannot avail; nor does spear, dart, or javelin. He regards iron as straw, and bronze as rotten wood._
      _He makes the deep boil like a pot; he makes the sea like a pot of ointment. He leaves a shining wake behind him; one would think the deep had white hair._
      _On earth there is nothing like him, which is made without fear. He beholds every high thing; he is king over all the children of pride._
      *- Job **41:12**-34*

    • @tessarae9127
      @tessarae9127 Před 4 lety +3

      WHAT THE FUCK I had the same dream about 2 years ago.... almost exactly oh my god, message me! I gotta make a blog post about it haha

    • @sbeast64
      @sbeast64 Před 4 lety +4

      That's similar to a passage from the Bible involving Moses:
      "Then the LORD said to him, "Reach out your hand and take it by the tail." So Moses reached out and took hold of the snake and it turned back into a staff in his hand." ~ Exodus 4:4

    • @tonyvincent1450
      @tonyvincent1450 Před 4 lety +3

      I had a dream where everything was black except for an enormous nearly-black dark grey serpent that took up the entire sea. It was both in the sea and it was the sea. There was a small man made of light that was riding on the coils of the serpent successfully. The man was like Jesus but it was me also. Then years later I found Jordan's material and was able to interpret it.

  • @fredward7476
    @fredward7476 Před 6 lety +55

    "If you go to a video rental establishment..." Yes this is going back a bit. ;)

    • @MorseCodeStutters
      @MorseCodeStutters Před 6 lety +2

      fred ward lolol Blockbuster still existed at then time of this recording

    • @neihuslim
      @neihuslim Před 6 lety +3

      We could copy the video and dub in some new dialog. "Say you decide to watch some streaming video...."

    • @wowser44
      @wowser44 Před 3 lety +1

      Blockbuster pops up in my head right away

  • @LudvigIndestrucable
    @LudvigIndestrucable Před 7 lety +118

    I think there were a few dragons associated with those thumbs down

    • @DezCP3
      @DezCP3 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah it's clearly snakes...

  • @MdubFrederson
    @MdubFrederson Před 7 lety +755

    2002? It looks like it was filmed in 1985.

    • @ROCK61788
      @ROCK61788 Před 7 lety +56

      Mike Walling I had no idea this wasn't from the 80s until I read this comment holy cow

    • @MrRobertjnewton
      @MrRobertjnewton Před 6 lety +200

      Those are Canadian years.

    • @frankenspecies
      @frankenspecies Před 6 lety +10

      I had overhead projectors in elementary school (in Canada) which was mid-80s. You may be right overall, though.

    • @mazar11221122
      @mazar11221122 Před 6 lety +10

      Nope, went to college in 2002 and had exact projectors in classes

    • @MorseCodeStutters
      @MorseCodeStutters Před 6 lety +7

      Jared Newton LOL the 80's didn't catch up to Canada until the Y2K Bug catastrophe

  • @sunriseeternity300
    @sunriseeternity300 Před 2 lety +4

    Its good to see an audience of elderly here. Much respect to those who invest in learning and pushing themselves.

  • @sidijow4558
    @sidijow4558 Před 3 lety +11

    "A conception that portrays the world as made of objects is in some really fundamental way DEAD" He had me there😭😂

  • @Madhatter675
    @Madhatter675 Před 6 lety +19

    This man speaks hard yet simple truths, we ourselves know but have to rediscover due to our own ignorance of the world.

  • @srbudita
    @srbudita Před 3 lety +5

    I watched all these videos before going to work in Mexico city as an immigration attorney, shortly after graduation. I did not know it was so damn literal and did not get it at that time as I do now. I am in the middle of a fantastic but realistic journey and these videos and books related to such topics became a useful source. Thank you Mr. Peterson, you are a remarkable man of our time.

  • @ActuarialNinja
    @ActuarialNinja Před 7 lety +22

    At around 54:20, Peterson talks about getting a piece of the dragon and using it for good purpose. I think this is profoundly true, and the same has been said by none other than CS Lewis at the end of "A Pilgrim's Regress":
    ‘Behemoth is my serving man!
    Before the conquered hosts of Pan
    Riding tamed Leviathan,
    Loud I sing for well I can
    RESVRGAM and IO PAEAN,
    IO, IO, IO, PAEAN!!
    ‘Now I know the stake I played for,
    Now I know what a worm’s made for!’
    -A Pilgrim's Regress, CS Lewis. Sung by Vertue after slaying the dragon of passion. But not before dragon lit Vertue's rigidity, transforming leaden and dead cold-letter abiding rule into vitality, and thereby perfecting it.

  • @basscataz
    @basscataz Před 4 lety +13

    I first watched this and all of his lectures in the fall of 2016. Now revisiting it I am even more convinced that people who think that Jordan Peterson is a problem are absolutely insane.

  • @photosyntheticzee9915
    @photosyntheticzee9915 Před 4 lety +5

    When I thought about the statement, "Children don't like disorder, because their realm of competence is very limited," an instantaneous objection was: "But kids make messes all the time, and don't clean them up!"
    But then I remembered that when I was a kid, the mess was things exactly how I left them. I remember being a little confused when my parents asked me to clean up the lego and the discarded clothes, "Where else would they go?" The mess was what I knew. It was its own sort of order.

    • @LD-ju7ge
      @LD-ju7ge Před 2 lety +1

      I tried convincing my parents for years (especially the teenage years) that my room was organized chaos 🙂

  • @huandru
    @huandru Před 7 lety +15

    The dragon = nature, red in tooth and claw.
    It's the uncontrollable. The dragon is chaos. It's what mummy & daddy can't manage.

  • @drooleybob
    @drooleybob Před 7 lety +74

    Dr. Peterson I would suggest you look up the recent horror hit The Babadook. The reason that movie has been such a hit at such a primal level in so many audiences is because it was a horrifying retelling of the Billy and the Dragon story imo. You'd love it.

  • @Ninan618
    @Ninan618 Před 2 lety +5

    A rare human being!!! Sooo intelligent 🙏🙏

  • @ma-bk8kq
    @ma-bk8kq Před 6 lety +11

    This is priceless to me(or 'for' me?). Sorry for my poor english.
    I can easily identify with Billy. The difference is that Billy said it out loud: there is a dragon. I've never reached that point when I was a kid. Silence was the safest option for me and my siblings.
    Well, good for Billy that it ends pretty well:)

  • @soulcake76
    @soulcake76 Před 3 lety +4

    I love him dearly; he has no idea who I am yet he’s helped me understand and come to terms with life-multi dimensionally....

  • @knirb9
    @knirb9 Před 7 lety +13

    I struggle a lot with this. I have for a long time. I get so scared and feel overwhelmed when I think of all my "dragons". I have tried many different routes to change, and I have periods of change and hope, but right now I'm just stuck, miserably in my own fear. I can think of solutions to a lot of them, but I just can't act them out most of the time. Today is one of those days. I know exactly what I need to be doing, but I can't get going. It all feels like im doing it for someone else. That someone is demanding this of me and that I just can't obey anymore.

  • @Entropy__
    @Entropy__ Před 6 lety +11

    Found Jordans lectures yesterday and listened to them 2 hrs before bed, and then couldn't sleep all night with a horrible headache. It did however kill my dreaming phase and get me thinking about my future for the first time. The dragon story is just stupidly simple and oh so accurate.

  • @bootleghampton7963
    @bootleghampton7963 Před 4 lety +6

    I watched Full House as a kid and yet had no clue Danny was this smart. Absolutely Brilliant!

  • @jeeves2000
    @jeeves2000 Před 2 lety +4

    This is very fascinating: after years of listening to JP and loving everything he says, here's a snapshot from the past: he looks a lot younger but he's absolutely himself

  • @josephtoretti7103
    @josephtoretti7103 Před 7 lety +115

    I feel like this is a more direct translation of Campbell and Jung than Campbell and Jung

    • @nastynategreenlotus
      @nastynategreenlotus Před 6 lety

      Joseph Toretti fuckin genuis

    • @RobHaza
      @RobHaza Před 6 lety

      I was looking for this exact comment.

    • @juanmccoy3066
      @juanmccoy3066 Před 4 lety +7

      Because hes speaking in contemporary terms. I have the same problems with plato. I can read it obviously but i understand the material much better when i translate what i think hes trying to say in contemporary terms. I have a journal just for that which is what petersen said he had for Jung when he was first studying

  • @kyleb2044
    @kyleb2044 Před 7 lety +12

    I still have a vivid memory of a nightmare I used to have... I was about 5, of an actual dragon on this sort of circular island surrounded by cliffs with no where to go. I remember several weird nightmares, one with aliens, one with someone chasing me down. These all repeated enough to remember vividly. I'm 30 now, I haven't had a nightmare since I was probably 16. On a rare occasion I'll have a weird dream of zombies, or people trying to kill me except every time I'm calm and unafraid, or at least not thinking about the fear because I need to focus on survival and the task at hand, and I destroy whatever is trying to destroy me, even when completely out numbered. And I wake up refreshed lol, another night of kicking ass.

    • @CountArtha
      @CountArtha Před 5 lety

      That's because you grew up and became dangerous yourself. People tend to confuse innocence with virtue, but _real_ virtue is having power and still choosing to make things better. We face our fears by internalizing them, to a certain extent - claiming a piece of the dragons we slay, so to speak.

  • @CameronRule
    @CameronRule Před 6 lety +11

    Amazing to see how clear it is that back then Jordan was forming his theories and methods for the use of story telling in his applied practice so concretely. This video here really helps us understand why Jordan Peterson uses story as a natural means to transmit his knowledge into us

  • @MANIAKRA
    @MANIAKRA Před 6 lety +73

    Add this one to the time capsule to shoot into outer space forever.

  • @jornguatu5315
    @jornguatu5315 Před 5 lety +7

    .... This is probably the best lecture I've ever listened to .... I've been avoiding a family member but now I know I need to face my dragon.

  • @TheFusedplug
    @TheFusedplug Před 3 lety +3

    Probably younger than I am now there and I'm still on the edge of my seat capturing the most valuable information I'll ever need (never stop learning even when you are 48 learning never really stops learn something new every day)

    • @laurab972
      @laurab972 Před 11 měsíci

      Now you’re 50 and I hope you are still learning! I love to learning and getting mind blown by a brilliant lecture or podcast.I’m 50 also. I blew off really trying to learn in school and didn’t finish college. Gotta make up for the years I wasted knowledge and education.😂

  • @blackmarketgoodness5715
    @blackmarketgoodness5715 Před 7 lety +60

    This lecture helped me a great deal conceptualizing how to work with clients who see themselves as fully conscious of their motivations. we need to resurrect the notion of the shadow and the dragon, chaos, etc. Your lectures assist so well with this. If we lose the idea we only see ourselves in part, we get a little too cocky - common in the materialist culture. Thanks so much! You are my lifeline right now - these lectures are reawakening old useful ideas that were once so foundational for me, but seem to have vanished from the culture in recent years.

    • @jameslincs
      @jameslincs Před 6 lety +1

      Hi, any thoughts on how to find your dragons?

    • @blahzayy
      @blahzayy Před 3 lety

      @@jameslincs meditation

  • @briteeyes2133
    @briteeyes2133 Před 5 lety +5

    "Circumstances don't make the man BUT they CERTAINLY reveal him!!" My favorite quote!

  • @MaddinW1993
    @MaddinW1993 Před 4 lety +16

    The oldest sumerian story he mentions is called Enuma Elish, he is kinda mumbling when he says that.

  • @goldilocks913
    @goldilocks913 Před 6 lety +8

    I'd like to thank Dr Peterson for being there,and myself for listening.Truly epic,and life saving.🙏

  • @roberthuber2770
    @roberthuber2770 Před 3 lety +2

    The first time I encountered this video I was glued. Watched the whole thing in my car. Incredible to this day.

  • @gemmaluisa1974
    @gemmaluisa1974 Před 8 lety +30

    awww he's so young here cute hair 😊

  • @colinbell3374
    @colinbell3374 Před 2 lety +4

    This is my favorite old lesson from Dr. Peterson. There is so much thought provoking knowledge here it’s worth not one, but many listens.

  • @piliq3774
    @piliq3774 Před 6 měsíci +3

    We need this remastered.
    We need this by the Jordan today.

  • @jordanbpeterson-croatian3640

    Wow. Amazing. Thank you dr. Peterson ❤

  • @joenichols3901
    @joenichols3901 Před rokem +2

    This is genuinely just wild. It's like there is this whole world (a metaphysical world) that most of us, and certainly myself, were completely unaware of. It's crazy

  • @clarekuehn4372
    @clarekuehn4372 Před 3 lety +6

    I loved this story, as a kid!!!! 😍 Denial is powerful.
    Arthur Janov's Primal Therapy (it's not screaming: it's feeling) is the same as what Peterson describes the psychologist Edna Foa's findings with sexually abused women's healing. 24:45

  • @greengoloco6559
    @greengoloco6559 Před 6 lety +29

    What IF we were adapted to the world? The shit story we live is the shit story we've written.I'm glad to have called in sick today and stumbled onto this important talk. Thanks

    • @mikemellor8972
      @mikemellor8972 Před 6 lety

      I'm not happy with that interpretation. Right now somewhere in Somalia or Syria or wherever there is a small child, six years old, starving to death. In what possible way can I say that the child is responsible for the world it finds itself in? In what possible way can I say that the child has the ability to overcome those problems by its own efforts? JP seems to be saying that Solzhenitsyn, by taking responsibility for his own situation, helped to bring about the fall of the USSR. Solzhenitsyn could easily have been one of the many thousands he shared his terrible experiences with, who did not survive. I say that it is very romantic and dramatic to suppose there is a link, but scrutiny doesn't support it. This is "The Secret" all over again, that if you want something badly enough you will get it. Again I say, tell that starving child that it is his or own fault for starving because of not wanting food badly enough.
      Most of the rest of the talk is pretty good. JP gives us a context for understanding. If we see a whole lot of people in a field doing apparently random things, we can't interpret it. Then someone will tell us, "The're playing football and the objective is to get the ball in the net," or "They are doing Tai Chi, fighting an invisible enemy," or "They are farmworkers tending to the plants." Given that context we say "A-ha!" and we can start to make sense of it. Just a word or two in the right place can transform the way we see the world.

  • @TheGab1226
    @TheGab1226 Před rokem +2

    This is so powerful it can bring you to tears.

  • @abadsiddiqui8303
    @abadsiddiqui8303 Před 2 lety +4

    Its so deep and profound that i have decided to listen it one more time after few days.
    Thank you so much for putting this jem on this platform!😊

  • @brownshoeT2
    @brownshoeT2 Před 4 lety +9

    I want to meet Jordan Peterson one day. Reading his book and listening to his lectures changed the path of my life and quite possibly saved me from a mid life crisis by changing that path.

  • @mijuajua4820
    @mijuajua4820 Před 3 lety +4

    Once he said,”when you go to the video store...” I realize how much I miss being out and interacting with people and also kinda miss going out and picking out videos...ah the simple things😪

  • @mateusbr263
    @mateusbr263 Před 5 lety +2

    This video should have at least 3 million views. The fact that it doesn't speaks loud and clear about a world that is afraid of looking at their problems.

    • @LD-ju7ge
      @LD-ju7ge Před 2 lety +1

      Or one where the algorithm so strongly controls what we watch that you need to go looking for it

  • @AbrahamSV
    @AbrahamSV Před 2 lety +6

    Que leyenda es este tipo ahora entiendo por que muchos dicen que es como un padre en mi caso lo considero de la misma manera y admiro mucho su trabajo que gran hombre!

  • @grantfrith9589
    @grantfrith9589 Před 4 lety +4

    This is very elegant. On one level it's basic stuff, articulated beautifully and very profound when you meditate on it.

  • @Rollwithit699
    @Rollwithit699 Před 6 lety +8

    Brilliant explanation of ignored problems.

    • @chaddad1236
      @chaddad1236 Před 4 lety

      @@skyleonidas9270 The solution is in the kids book.

  • @Travanators
    @Travanators Před rokem +3

    This is one of the best videos I have ever watched.

  • @stind1299
    @stind1299 Před 4 lety +2

    Ingenious insights from a masterful teacher.

  • @jonhythetiger
    @jonhythetiger Před 6 lety +158

    The first step to slaying any dragon is to receive a Jordan B Peterson brand sword.

  • @Namen3
    @Namen3 Před 6 lety +8

    The best lecture I've ever seen.

  • @ColinWoodpeckerUK
    @ColinWoodpeckerUK Před 2 lety +2

    I'm no Philosopher or intellectual, I just fix cars, but Dr.Petersons podcasts and CZcams videos have taken over my Bluetooth headphones while I work, for most of the last month or so. This one though actually had me laughing out loud in the workshop. What a brilliant way to get a point across. Who'd have thought philosophy could be so entertaining?
    In a world coming apart at the seams, a sliver of light is piercing through the darkness of mankind's blindfold. If only more people could see his wisdom and learn what I have in little more than a month, the world would be a better place.
    Jordan B Peterson for President!

  • @avalonjustin
    @avalonjustin Před 6 lety +6

    He's so young here :3 He looks like a cast member from Street Legal. Finally, FINALLY he's getting the attention and appreciation he deserves!

  • @BiracialLaurie
    @BiracialLaurie Před 4 lety +5

    50:05 why would a dragon hoard gold? Because a dragon represents everything that you are afraid of. What’s embedded in everything that you are afraid of ? Absolutely everything that you need to find.

  • @Nundahmusic
    @Nundahmusic Před 6 lety +5

    I had nice thick brown hair back then too Jordan. I think Ive past my 1000th hour of JBP lectures. Thanks for the wisdom!

  • @maryfrances1307
    @maryfrances1307 Před 4 lety +2

    I am highly analytical. After 30 plus years and this lecture, I think it’s because of all the fairy tales I read as a kid. Thank you, Mr. Peterson!

  • @moseskkipsang3063
    @moseskkipsang3063 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I'm back here again after 2 years. I love this