The Daughter from Hell | Jennifer Pan
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- The Daughter from Hell | Jennifer Pan
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I love this comment 😄
You should tell mom this🤣 She is a HUGE control freak. I can't stand her.
Well said
Love this!!!
Great job, Christina! So happy you covered this one, and thanks so much for the shout-out.
Yay 😁 you’re both awesome!
No need to thank me you are awesome ☺️❤️
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I watched ur vid first it really helped understand the case🤗
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Going to actual school probably would have took less effort than the extent she did faking it for 4 years.
True
For real!!!
Um they were hella strict lol
Ok??? I was thinking the same thing. Hell had she really went to school she at least would have had something to fall back on.
Yall are forgetting that her parents would have abused her if she told them she failed calculus.
If she had applied to another university she would have been seen as a failure.
Tiger parenting is child abuse imo. They failed as parents by facilitating her development into someone cold, rebellious, deceptive out of fear and emotionally detached. Children need discipline and boundaries paired with unconditional positive regard, support and warmth. Her parents overloaded the former and deprived her of the latter. This "daughter from hell" was created by parents from hell.
Absolutely Jules tiger parenting is child abuse they failed as parents They just made her snap yes They should rename this instead of “daughter from hell” it should be “the parents from hell” That is a much better name for the video
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Straight up I'm a single father of twin girls and listening since the beginning all I could think of is damn man like I get it y'all came from a different country and had it rough and, you want your children to do better than you as always but you can't undermine and demean while also putting your "foot" down and being so strict and making them "your children" feel like they aren't good enough and forever chase the golden carrot and eventually that causes sooooo much damage.... I always tell my girls they are perfect and beautiful and I want them to know they are perfect and daddy always thinks they are perfect no matter what even if I get mad that doesn't mean they are anything less than perfect... And that the world is gonna tell them everything they aren't and no matter what they do they are perfect and amazing. They can do anything in the whole world and can be anyone they want.
@@tokemjuju8250 bless you
@@Vixen743 thank you and bless you too
I grew up with Asian parents and all I have to say is if anyone is in a similar spot, my heart is with you. I know it's hard for them to understand everything you're going through (especially because mental health challenges are so stigmatized in the community still) but try to have genuine and mature convos with them. The biggest things that helped me were: knowing that I would get to move out one day and focusing on my personal passions and making that vision a reality for myself. Stay strong, my friends
That's so sad
Well, that is if you actually are capable of a mature evaluation of the situation, it takes a lot of mental stability at a young age
As much as I agree with you, Asian parents imo are hard to deal with, let alone speak to & help them understand where their children are coming from.
Maybe your Asian parents are actually more free & understanding that doesn’t mean the rest are…
Sorry….Ryerson University. I know I have spelled Ryerson, incorrectly!!!🇨🇦🇨🇦🇺🇸🙏🏼
Very sad!!🇨🇦🇨🇦❤️🇺🇸
That’s why childhood is such a crucial time to mold your child’s brain into being emotionally intelligent. This is a sad story.
Emotional intelligence isn’t a thing but I know what you mean. Emotional development or whatever.
@@seabreeze9743ummmm yes, it is a thing. You clearly don’t have it . Educate yourself
This is a case that hits a little too close to home for me. I am Asian myself and my parents are the exact same way, and although part of me understands her reasoning behind wanting to murder them in cold blood, I feel like she could have handled things a lot more differently. It's tough growing up with parents like ours, no sense of privacy, individuality and autonomy. It's the absolute worst.
Thank you for sharing a piece of your life with us T ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@christinaarandall Thank you so much for noticing my comment, Christina! I'm a fan of your Channel, your Series on Chris Watts is my favorite!
Im Asian and have same parents . Best thing you can do for your parents and for yourself is to move out
Seems like a lot of Asian parents are like this,I have friends that say their parents are very overbearing.
Stay strong and if you working save your money rent you a Aparment and get the F$&@ out
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Me at home eating pizza in bed: IM HER BABYYY
Right! I commented on a podcast yesterday when some mentioned Christina "I'm one of her baby's!" Lol
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What "walk"is she talking about in the end? I'm not from usa, please tell me
Eating Fruit Salad saying the same 😭😭😂😂🤣
Omgg this describes me perfectly
" Everybody liked him, he had alot of friends"
Yea Christina he was the WEED MAN LMAO😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣✌✌✌✌🙃🙃🙃🤑🤑😋😋
🤣🤣🤣 he would have been my best friend lmao
@@courtneyb2462 👏😂
That's what I said also 😂 everybody likes the weed man 😂
Lmao for real! 😆
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To all the kids seeing this, it’s ok to not talk to your parents and start a new life. If they enrage you so much, work hard to get out and don’t have a relationship with them, but please don’t ever hurt anybody.
Jennifer had 2 jobs when she was pretending to go to college. She had a source of income she should have just moved out.
Also i really feel bad for her brother Felix i cant even imagine what he went through loosing his mother almost loosing his dad and then to find out that his sister was the one who planned to kill their parents.
Agree. Losing a loved 1 is not easy espec if Murdered by another family member. Good thing, I guess the brother wasn't a threat 2 her!
You clearly don't have immigrant tiger parents to think she could have left easily....
@@charlotteschnook1351 she was not living with them when she was attending college so she was already out of her family home
@@nashitaattarwala9178 I think what Charlotte is saying is that she wasn’t free mentally. Let me know if I’m wrong Charlotte. The damage had been done to her based on her conditioning by her parents. She couldn’t face them finding out because of their mental/ physical abuse in the past. Mentally, she couldn’t ‘just leave’, cut her ties and be ok. We see it all the time in DV victims.
However, she murdered her mother and tried to murder her father and so will spend the rest of her life in jail. She is guilty and so are both her parents. What we are seeing is this style of parenting can be really destructive to the development of a child. Cultural differences aside.
Her parents literally said get out if u wanna be with ur bf . And she was doing job and all I think she should have chosen to get out of there but she was being dependent on her parents . She was 24 so yeah . She would have a great life .
No excuse to ever kill anyone but the constant pressure to be perfect and being told you are not good enough, you can see how this could happen.
Samaire October When a person's treated like a robot, they'll short circuit.
Yes
@@jenneacubero1036 yes
They shouldn’t have put so much pressure on her but that’s no reason to kill them. She was only sorry she got caught. Her parents created a monster.
At that point, they deserved it. They should’ve left her alone after she hit 18 or 21 the latest, no matter what. They broke her. It’s completely and utterly their fault.
@@psilocylence um? Didn't she move back in with her parents after leaving and failing? How can you say someone deserves to be murdered? She was living under THEIR roof, therefore their rules.
"Her parents created a monster". Yes, this! Her parents are the ones to blame, ultimately. They meant well, but the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Nobody deserves to be killed, but it's not a particularly shocking outcome. They wanted the best for her, and she didn't want to disappoint. They created an extremely unhealthy environment, even though they didn't mean to. Jennifer wouldn't have done what she did if it hadn't been for them
Absolutely!!!
@@psilocylence you trollin boo 😒 I see you on every comment on here
This story really drives home to me how important it is to not destroy a child psychologically and emotionally into becoming that, but teach a child love and acceptance over being an objet of my own pride and accomplishments.
When parents do this overly strict parenting to their kids, they can be sure their children will never come to them with a problem. Ridiculous to treat a 22 year old like this.
I mean I agree with the parents because imagine your daughter lying to you and you find out when she’s 22. And they did give her an ultimatum
They didn't though.
@@yahirmh8423 I agree with you on that,but if it's me that I'm 22yrs old I will do something nice like find a job so I can have a power to move out and start a new life and never see them instead of killing them.Because I know that one day in Jesus name we will meet again in peace,love and happy ending .🥺❤️
welcome to the world of asians/asian parenting
@@cafezo87934 Bkward parenting & abuse more like🤬
She never got the freedom she wanted... now she is spending half of her life in prison. Why do people think killing is the way out of things??!?!?
🤯🤯🤯 like how is that the best option??!
its desperation
@@krabbypatty2913 I get that but, at the same time, if she was able to live her life with her parents deceased then why was it so hard for her to make the choice to just walk away and life her own life in isolation from her parents which was the result she was getting if she had chose the boyfriend. Hypothetically, I’d rather live a life where I was isolated from my family (and still know that they’re alive and well) than have them murdered. I think the only hard predicament she was in here was the fact that she’d financially be set in life from her parents life insurance policy if they were dead. She just wanted the money and that was the only “hardship” she was going through
I can't figure it out either 😕
Atleast she can be her authentic self now
When your parents say "over my dead body" and kid takes it literally... Yikes😬
Right 😩😩😩
@@christinaarandall love you Sooo much😊🤗♥️
Once when I was 7 years old, my mother told me don't come home if you got any B! and guess what! I did exactly as I was told 🤪. It was somehow funny to see my mom and headteacher fought when I didn't return home for hours standing front of school!
No parent sgould say such drivel
Christina Randall, "The Graduation walk", she told her parents that her class was so big that they were all only allowed to have 1 ticket each. I think she said she gave it to a friend so she wouldn't have to choose between her parents.
Yes, she said seating was very limited, I think one ticket for seating per student. Then she told them that a friend of hers had parents that were coming from another country, somewhere in Asia (think it was China possibly), and wanted to give her ticket to them. They must have *really* trusted her to not talk to the school about the ticket situation and her graduating. 😬
@@CarrieP1981 i just commented asking about that! thanks
Thats still weird that they went with that. What parent doesnt want to see their children walk across that stage and the way the dad seems to have been i could see him calling or going up to the school... its just weird
Weird that she got away with that one but that they didn’t try to see photos of the event or anything
You're welcome. 😁
I have learned to listen to my children and try to imagine myself in their situation. It helps keep things in perspective.
You are a good mom.
This is very good advice ! Thank you !
The reason she gave her parents that she didn’t walk for graduation was: She claimed that due to the High rate of graduates they only had 1 ticket for each graduate to bring 1 guest & she didn’t want her parents to have to choose who got to go, so she gave her ticket away to a friend.
Wow! Shoot, I would have called and asked the school
OR I had the option of attending the graduation or having the diploma sent to my house. i choose the lather???
Wow 😂
@@cafezo87934 I asked my principal that and she told me no lol
At this point Christina should have 1 million subs, she never disappoints!!!
she’s so close to 800k i’m so excited!!
Not gonna be long til 800K!
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YeSsss!!!!
She's Definitely getting there!💖
Agreed
Dad : Wake up in hospital "She can't even kill me properly..." ...sigh...
djwsd i shouldnt be laughing-
I literally got angry when Christina said the father lived. He should’ve paid for breaking his daughter’s psyche like that. He didn’t deserve to live.
lmaoooooooo
@@psilocylence what ??? your crazy
@@psilocylence ummmmm. Wtf?
She was an adult and chose to go back with her parents. She could have stayed with her bf/Daniel and lived her life the way she wanted, but she valued her parents’ approval more. I would have had sympathy if she didnt have options but she did.
This exactly what I pointed out in another comment, this girl had a serious entitlement issue and probably wanted access to their insurance money and their home, a point that all these sympathizers aren’t mentioning. I actually relate to having a hard time with my parents growing up and I moved out.
I don't wanna justify anything that happened but some people are taught their whole lives that family aproval is EVERYTHING, in particular with Asian parents that is a big thing and when you have no sense of individuality it is probably hard to just think they can just leave their family like that, doing what she did is NOT what one should do but she probably really needed therapy way before she did what she did.
We need to emphasize with the mental health aspect especially with the lying she felt that she was cornered and she didn't have an out.Her parents should have provided that safe place for her and her personality.Not saying she had the right to kill but I can just imagine her mental health.
@@stardoll1995 My theory is she just snapped she’s all I’m done I am fed up with this I am done
@juul cat But being in a mental prison is the worst type of prison.Her parents where harsh in the treatment of her.Not saying it was the right thing to do but clearly she had some mental issues just because it seams like you have everything doesn't mean you mean everything was good.Victims still say with their abusers.Her parents didn't have the right tools to treat her appropriately.KILLING IS NEVER THE ANSWER.But she had allooot to deal with.
i feel like this story is a perfect example of strict parents creating the sneakiest kids! it’s still so sad what happened! love all your videos!
My heart breaks for everyone involved here. I can't tell you how my jaw dropped as I continued to shake my head in agreement to the similarities in this case to my own up bringing. Very devastating that this story took a deadly path and my heart goes out to all involved.
It's crazy to me how things just snowball.. Like this whole situation started with a crush on a boy and a failed math class. Now several lives have been destroyed.
Damn when you put it like that…scary how life can turn out for some folks
No it was more than that
It started when her parents never noticed her successes... they created a monster who was terrified to disappoint her parents...
I'm not saying they deserved what happened. Only saying that they made her so scared to disappoint them that she started lying about her entire life. Then to blame the one person she could depend on? To make her choose? Oof... just bad choices all around.
You are oversimplifying this case. There was emotional abuse involved
@@theblacklotus333 obviously it's not simple, I'm not an idiot. I'm just saying that things that seem simple to some people, like failing a test and disappointing your parents led to what it led to and that is crazy to think about. I was abused as a child and heartbroken by boyfriends that my parents didn't like. I didn't kill my entire family. I even have diagnosed mental illnesses.
If your parents are SO overbearing that you’re considering the possibility of killing them, WALK AWAY.
Both options mean you’ll never see them again, but only one option means you’ll spend your life in jail.
She wanted that life insurance
Best thing I’ve heard so far
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Amen. I cut off my toxic and overbearing parents after moving out. No contact
It seems nobody wants to walk away anymore. Even young loves, you break up, not kill each other… let’s hope for more understanding and better times🥰
“ The sick hospital for children” 😂 reminds me of “ Zoolander’s School for kids who can’t read good”
Lmaoo yes! 😭😭
Lol its actually sick kids hospital. But yes that made me laugh too
LMFAO
😂😂😂
Hahah she was close, the full title is “the hospital for sick children “
Her parents were murdering her spirit, truthfully. If you won’t accept your children, you’re too controlling, judgemental, etc (basically, bullying, coercion, abuse) you’re gonna create liars like this...
Well said and so true!!!!!!
I have to say I agree. Not that those people deserved what happened to them because it was horrific. However that girl had a mental break she snapped from all the pressure she was being put under. It's a very sad and tragic case for all. involved.
I hate what happened to the parents especially the mother- but what they did and the demands they put on Jennifer was very abusive. Too bad someone didn’t talk that poor child into getting the hell out of that household as soon as she turned 18. Her father was very demanding and mental abusive. Those parents did so much damage to that poor child. Way too strict- although no life should have been taken.
I am like her in so many ways but just because all of this happening to you doesn’t mean you should go harming or killing anyone. You just gotta live through it until you have a successful job and can move out and that’s when you have your freedom it will be shitty for a long time but it’s better than harming or killing anyone!
Lmfaooo
Are you gonna react to Britney Spears testimony? I ask only because you reacted to the documentary a few months back 🙏🏼
Ooooo, I'd love to hear what Christina has to say about Britney Spears testimony regarding her conservatorship!!!!
@@CatalinaFOIA yesss i’d love to as well
Really❗
Good point. 👍🏾 Christina‘s reaction from a few months ago might be different…
I would love that too!
Kind of nuts how after being caught lying for YEARS on such a massive scale the parents didn't have a pause and wonder that maybe, just maybe, having extream expectations and massive freak outs over minor disapointments may not be the best way to raise an honest kid.... NOPE they just blamed the boyfriend 🤦♀️
I have tiger parents - they will NEVER admit that their expectations are ridiculous. They would rather destroy all their kids emotionally.
I relate to Jennifer. I have African parents and my mom was exactly like her dad. I did live a tiny bit of a double life, but not to Jen’s extent. Whenever anything went wrong, my mom blamed whatever friends or boy I was with. Like it is just IMPOSSIBLE that I can have my own mind and my own opinions based on my own logic and experience - no, me not wanting to live life her way had to be due to someone else’s influence. I was INFURIATED. Not to talk about the normalized child abuse (hitting your children, insulting your children - normal means of discipline for many of us immigrants). And you don’t run away because you feel like you can’t make it in life without your parents, you have no life experience and you don’t figure anyone would even care about you like your parents do. So you stay and take it and let the feelings fester. It messed me up my whole life. I am just now getting the right type of depression treatment that is helping me. I’m 32 and I didn’t understand at all how my upbringing messed me up until I was like 24 (at that age I had no money for mental health treatment. Health insurance didn’t cover it either).I don’t think I could ever go as far as to end the lives of my parents… but I understand why Jennifer did it. The only relief for me was growing up, doing enough talk therapy to understand what went wrong, having a job to afford trying all kinds of meds and treatments until I discovered a therapy that works for me. Other than that, my mental world was miserable since I was a child. I get Jennifer.
Wow. I’m so sorry that you experienced that! That sounds extremely traumatic. I really hope you’re happy, at peace, and doing a lot better now.
Kid of Polish immigrants and I was treated very similarly. Everyone saying you learn to appreciate it when you're older is so incredibly disturbing. I'm not grateful for the PTSD I will be treating for the rest of my life, I'm not grateful for the abuse, I'm not grateful for the fear and degredation. I hope they aren't so "grateful" that they pass on the horror onward. I never will.
I unfortunately understand Jennifer as well. I was intensely suicidal for years because of that kind of parenting and in my darkest moments wondered if the pain would finally end if they were gone. It took me until 30 to finally get out because wage stagnation and cost of living makes the Masters that I had to work myself to the bone to get worth fuckall. So much of myself died in that house
I hope you find peace
Christina: Have ya'll heard about these stories.
Me: No, every story you tell is the first time I'm hearing it.
I LOVE how she surprises me every time
I’ve heard the last two stories but she tells them so differently and I love her details and add ons. She’s great!
“Ransackeling” 😂🤣
Another one for gramma Christina’s dictionary 😌❤️
Like "supposably". No awards for grammar lol
There ain’t nobody I wanna see hit that MILLION subscribers mark more than my girl Christina!!💕💕
A year after your comment, she’s done it!! ❤️
I have heard this case talked about often, but no one tells the story and conversates quite like you Christina ❤️❤️
this is so true 💯
yess! So true
@@tayy2186 I love her ❤️ I love when she mispronounces words and things like that. Just makes you feel like she's chilling telling story LOL
Christina also had a ton of new info/details that I'd never heard before!
Aw I love y’all so much 🥺❤️
During the interrogation, Jennifer cried "but what's gonna happen to me?" like she thought she was an orphan now and they would feel sorry for her.
She didn’t realize she was a murderer, too. At least in the USA.
I’m so glad you’re finally talking about this case! It’s truly disturbing
I went to the same school as the brother. He was 4 years ahead of me but I vividly remember him!!!!!
All the kids in the neighborhood hung out together and we all knew how strict their parents were but they were always so so so nice.
I still can't believe what happened to them.... Jennifer was known to tell elaborate stories. I'm glad she got life.
This father worked SO hard to give his children a better life... I hope Jennifer is plaged with guilt for the rest of her life.
And yes in Canada we do the graduation walk.
Sorry NAH the father and mother were obviously abusive and controlling ? Tf? Y’all really put here patting the backs of the parents like they didn’t literally dig their own grave 💀
Yes! Definitely agree when a “friend” betrays you, it definitely changes you as a person and your whole perspective on trust and friendships.
Christina is a breath of fresh air! I'm dealing with a very angry person. It's like a sickness, brings everyone else down. I perked up seeing a new video! For how smart this girl was, she sure didn't think this plan through!
Hope your personal life gets better 💞
Sending you so much love and big hugs! 💙
I am so sorry you are having a hard time. I don't know your story but I can say this. Don't let someone else's actions and negative steal your happy. You can't fix or.change someone else, but you can make choices about your life. And make good choices.
Sorry to hear this
I always Perk-up when Christina posts new videos.
never get tired of hearing “y’all are my babies..” 😌
If she would have put that much effort into doing the right thing instead of lying like a lunatic... unbelievable
@Jason Griffin Agreed
Good point!!
its easy to say do the right thing but put someone in difficult enough spot and everyone will act like a lunatic. At certain point it stops to matter how strong you are or if you are good person or not
She did but overall it was good enough
I love the fact that you always try to "feel" both sides of every story! And you are entitled to your opinion. We all have them. Love your vid's girl!
Just had a scare with my oldest daughter going through an emergency surgery. She is fine now but it was a hard weekend. So glad to end the bad weekend with Christina. Christina is good medicine for a hurt mommy! Thanks for the story Christina!!!!
If she had all of this money to hire a hitman, she could have left and gotten an apartment and eventually a job.
Yep. If she had $1300 that could have been used as first months rent
She had 2 jobs but both low-paying unless she got lots of cash tips.
@@truecrimechick Guess she would hav been livin with a gal or 2 that might hav had money 2 share the rent? I don't think Daniel's parents would hav given him permission or money 2 live with her.
Get the job 1st!
@@truecrimechick They want last month's rent in case Tenant moves with No Notice.
heard this story so many times but I love Christina so I’ll watch it all over again for her!💓
So crazy to think if her father didn’t live then she probably would have gotten away with the murder
Hey! Shout from the great white north here! LOL. I live in Canada not far from Toronto and remember this case very well. Crime documentaries/shows are one of my favorite genre's, and I especially enjoy Christina's commentaries! I often wonder how some parents can be so clueless when it comes to their children. I've raised 3 beautiful kids who would sometimes refer to me as "the meanest mom on the block" for setting boundaries...gauging their level of maturity and responsibility when it came to everything from cell phones, FB accounts, pets, dating, and even who they associated with. But I also listened to them, compromised or explained things, loved them like crazy, and learned from them too. Some may believe otherwise, but my commitment as their mom, was to ensure their overall wellbeing by "monitoring" all aspects of their lives (not to be confused with smothering or controlling). Graduation ceremonies are just the same Pomp and Circumstance as they are in the US (lived there too for many years). And Ryerson University in Toronto, Ontario is a prestigious university...that does require parental consent with regard to their tuition policies, even if they are paying out of pocket. Ultimately, the evil this girl did is inexcusable, but some blame also rests on her parents, who were controlling in the extreme. The interrogation was a long one as Jennifer took forever to admit what she did and when they final arrived at most of the truth, she was only concerned about what was going to happen to her, never showing remorse for her dead/severely injured parents. SAD.
Great comment…I’m thinking that she was not close to her parents..no real empathy from them and they were probably pretty cold towards her , this may be why she didn’t show much emotion towards them… just sad😞
It's scary because the way Jennifer grew up and how her parents were, are just exactly like mine and even till this day my parents praise my younger brother way more than me and give him more freedom than me, I did horrible in hs with grades and lied about everything, they put me into nursing, BUT I decide to try and do my best to build myself the best life to prove them wrong.
Can we just take a second to appreciate how perfect your brows are??
Un you already know,you are my babies!
Even though I’ve read/watched the true crime stories that you discuss on your channel, I still watch your videos on them because there is something so engaging about the way you tell the stories! Love your channel so much and I’m so happy with how much your channel has grown!!
I bet her mom was scared for her daughter and husband, while she was dying... Person can be tiger parent but still has parental instinct in crisis.
Actually, the mom's last few words were begging the intruders to not hurt her daughter 😭
@@rubiirae noooooo 😭😭 her father's scream in the background is so haunting to me.
@@rubiirae this absolutely BREAKS my heart. 💔😢
Christina we all strive to do better for our kids . I recognize how much my kids had after they left home and it took 2 years to get rid of all that stuff I worked so hard for. My children and I share a trauma they lost a Dad & I lost a Mom . I was having therapy one day . My therapist asked me “ Do you want your kids to feel your pain? No that’s when I started thinking correctly their loss. My loss was just that . They needed a healthy Mom who would focus on their trauma and not mix up feeling
They put too much pressure on that girl. She's a 22 year old woman. She is in a free country.
I was born into an Asian family and I understand the type of pressure we are put under by our families it’s definitely not easy I would know but that doesn’t mean we have to go harm them let alone create a plan to murder them. I bet she regrets this.
She lied to them for years and they didn’t have to keep her. They gave her an ultimatum she could’ve left with her boyfriend.
@@yahirmh8423 talking about it is easy but actually doing it is hard. Trust me it’s not as simple as you think. I’m sure deep down she did love her parents but at the same time really despised them like they fully controlled her life.
Unfortunately, many immigrants refuse to leave "the old ways" behind, no matter how toxic or even backwards.
I kinda feel sorry for Jennifer. Her parents were so strict and overbearing to the max. But she should not have murdered them and just left.
I see it more as her parents were raising their kids the way they had been raised. And most of us do that. This kind of parenting does fail often for the children of migrants, because the dominant culture of the new country is in conflict with the traditional culture where the parents were raised.
I mean she couldn't leave. She felt trap by her parents all the time. So she made the answer to kill them.
Eren Jaeger She literally could have. She could have just gotten up and left the house. Legally, no one could make her come back after that.
@@ariaii4342 Yeah but with her bf ? It's not easy when you have strict parents.
@@erenjaeger1738 she was an adult.... not a child
I already heard this story but I wanted to hear it from Christina’s perspective.
I literally had no idea it was this bad , I saw the interrogation but I didn’t know the whole back story . This is even more insane then I thought it was
I saw the documentary “What Jennifer Did” on Netflix. Initially, I was upset with Jennifer Pan’s father because of strictness but after watching it, I began feeling bad for him because all he was trying to do was get her out of making a huge mistake.
I pray that both the father and the daughter can come together, each take responsibility for their part, honestly, and forgive each other. These are generational curses that have come to the surface to be healed. I hope they get that blessing.
My kids dad's dad (my kids grandfather) is from Vietnam. He came over as a refuge at age 17. Then the rest of the family came over in groups until the whole family was reunited in Cincinnati Ohio in the 70s. I can 100% vouch for the cultural differences described by Jennifer. I've watched this case by several other creators as well and what always stands out to me is the ways Jennifer's family was much like my in laws. My kids dad was raised with a tough love upbringing & it wasn't beneficial to him in the least. It breaks my heart to see when parents just love their kids so much but want their kids to have better than they did but don't know how to love them kindly. My father in law just wanted the best for his son but his son (kids dad) didn't see it like that growing up. He thought his dad just hated him. Vietnamese people have work ethic like none other & my in laws are a true testament to that. Many have their own nail shops and would be open 365 days a year if they could. This story is tragic all the way around.
I loooove the way you describe people! You see everyone like they’re someone you know with like-able qualities. A lot of youtubers make people villains from the start (which they ultimately are) but I love that you recognize the good things in everyone! ❤️
literally on youtube hoping for a video and here comes grandma christina to the rescue ✨💖
Same!
@@juliecarter7962 🥰🥰🥰
Tiger parenting can go one of two ways; successful kids, or vengeful kids who rebel against their parent’s standards. It rarely falls in between because there’s so much pressure on their shoulders from their parents.
I’ve heard this case a couple times now and I still cannot wrap my mind around it… it’s astounding how individuals that are abuse victims will either go one of two ways; either they’ll do what this chick did and become the predator or they can take everything that was horrible from their childhood and do much better than that with their own lives…..
my mom was the worst example of how a lady should act that it’s despicable, I can not stand to be around her for more than a few hours depending on if she’s messed up or not. When I see she’s high or smell booze on her now I just spin on my heels and leave. She’s done and said things to me her only child that would shock even the most hardened person, but with that being said I couldn’t take her life. I love her only because she gave me life, and that is also the reason I could not do this.
She wasn't an over achiever, that implies that was her choice. If she didn't do that I'm sure she would have been punished... probably physically.
I know the brother said the father wasn’t that bad...TO HIM. The fact is that especially older generations from that culture are very patriarchal. They treat girls abs boys differently. I feel for all involved
My mom is Chinese, and my parents hated me for being a girl and adored and obsessed over my younger brother literally just because he was a boy. They literally told me that I was lucky that I wasn't born in China, because at the time female infanticide was a regular occurrence. Who says that to their kid?!
@@punxie89 a monster human life is human life. You deserve love affection and purpose in this wonderful. This is onlyn1 race the the human race! I don’t have much but I’m willing to help
All that talent and hard work forging these documents, she could've used to do almost anything.
Lady I get what you’re saying about giving your kids everything. My husband and I gave my daughter a very privileged lifestyle up till she was 12 and had an epiphany. She still got about everything but we made her start working for it and appreciate it. Fast forward she is almost 30 and is such a great person. Has always held a job and is good to others. There has to be that balance between having and appreciate what you have
Although I don't condone murder by any means, I think many people fail to recognize the detrimental effect that type of parenting can have on a person. It really is a type of mental abuse to make someone feel as if they are never good enough and to stifle their development in the manner that hers was. I speak from experience in this.
You cannot set dreams for your kids, they don't belong to you. They belongs to themselves. You have to let them set their own dreams.
It's true
This case is insane. All she had to do was just leave home and be on her own.
In a lot of asian homes the kids don’t leave until they get married. I didn’t do it that way but a lot of families do that.
You say that like its easy??????
This makes me think how important it is to forgive. Our parents are just people. She was an adult. She had choices. Lots of children are abused and grow up to be imperfect but good people. I even know one guy whose mother murdered his twin as a child. I asked him how he felt when later in life he came back from his mother’s funeral. He said he put her in the ground with love and thought, ‘ mom, at least you cannot hurt anyone, anymore’
I have never forgotten that.
As a society we are losing our souls when we think the material life is the real life. It is not.
He had no power to forgive someone who killed another. He was probably lying to look good
✌️🙏💜 I broke the family chain of abuse in my family, I could of turned out like my parents but instead God stepped in and showed me, for this I am forever greatful, I'm not a holy roller, I will however give testimony of what God's done in my life ❤️😇🙌 AMEN
These parents are a pure example of possessive and abusing parents. While they didn't deserve to die per se, I can understand why Jennifer was hiding tons of stuff from them.
When a man tells you it is time to move on he already has.
This case still haunts me. Right up there with CW.
What always killed me about this case was her being honest when describing the intruders. She asked them to murder her parents and then snitched.
Sounds like love was not a component in this family. Her upbringing was "stark". So sad.
I was given that same exact ultimatum when I was 14. "Either never see that guy again and follow a bunch of new outrageous rules or choose him and never come back" I chose my man without a seconds thought and never regretted it. Still together and in love as we were back then which is now going on 25 years.
My best friend that I had grew up with had parents like that as well. They wanted to choose who she married and everything like that. She met a guy and went into the navy with him, now she has a baby and is married!
Congratulations. That's amazing
Congratulations that's amazing you never hear this it's usually always opposite you go hope you have another 25+ years together and in love
Thanks for covering a Canadian case. There's a lot of messed-up murder cases here. Please search the Rina Virk, and Kimberly Proctor case.
Edit: I feel bad for Jennifer, but she did have other options. She was clearly driven and motivated to work hard. She could have saved money from her jobs and found a decent apartment together with Daniel, while still communicating with her brother and her mom on the down-low. She lived in Toronto, before the rental crisis, the world was her oyster.
And Paul Bernardo and Karla Holmolka
And the bathtub sisters
@@bethanyoneal5789 yassssssssss!! Or Russell Williams ! The colonel who would r and kill women then take pictures in their underwear. Canada is crazy savage
@@Malcolmblacc Yes we have Russell Williams but as for Canada being "savage" I can assure you that it's pretty safe here compared to the US where there's a murder that makes the evening news each day
@@realcanadiangirl64 I love the irony that you used “savage” as a bad thing when I didn’t and then turn around and weaponize that word against Americans. Typical Canadian. Your face should be plastered as the face of Canada go off sis 🇨🇦 🇺🇸
Christina, recently discovered you. Wanted to let you know how much I am enjoying you. Content can be disturbing, but always interesting. You are such a genuine and beautiful girl. You are a great storyteller, and that is a gift. So yes, this 62 year old Alabama girl is now one of your Babies!
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@@Ashley_Mo u need to read the comment again
Been struggling with my GAD - generalized anxiety disorder, but gimme some of Mamaw Christina and it feels like a big ol' hug, even if we're talking about grisly murder cases!! 💜🤪
Me too girl, I came from nothing and I appreciate everything I have so much! We’ve been through some shit and it’s a blessing cause we’re so much more happy and grateful for every little thing we have and for life in general 😇
Speaking from my own experience who have Asian parents that are immigrants, it is difficult. I learned from an early age the struggles they went through to raise me and my siblings. The expectations are high because they didn't get the luxury to achieve what they've wanted to do in life so in ways, we are living their dreams for them. The importance of wanting to achieve and making our parents proud is so high because they've struggled for so long and one of the only ways to show gratitude is to become successful and take care of them and enjoy the fruits of our labor together. It would be nice to buy parents their own home, take them on vacation or buy them that nice car they've always wanted.
Getting to her case though, her parents were strict but i feel like there were other ways she could've handled it like telling them the truth from the beginning. It would've been hard for them to accept but it's better than murdering your own parents. Even distancing herself from them or her father disowning her was better but I understand, family is very important and maybe she thought she could have both her parents and her boyfriend if she lied. Regardless, she ruined not only her own life but her parents and her brothers. I feel sorry for the father and the brother. RIP to the mom.
Can we just appreciate how lucky we are to have Christina❤❤
This is a crazy case. I first heard it from JCS and all of the psychology. I’m excited to hear your take on it
Same!
💗JCS, just wish he posted more often!
This is so sad and I feel for everyone, but I specifically want to talk about Jennifer because I related to her the most. That amount of control, overprotection etc really does a number on you and while I'm sad for her, she shouldn't have done what she did. I left my "home" the second I turned 18 and finished up that year homeless and graduated highschool. I spent many more years being homeless too but I've managed even though it was ridiculously difficult and I miraculously have a relationship with one of my parents now. Things can change and once someone is an adult it's on them to leave. She sounded more than capable too, so I think she needed a good sentence, although I would wish she would get therapy etc too but we all know that's not going to happen. (Although idk how different Canada is from here.)
I’m a Canadian and I BURSTED out laughing when you called Boston Pizza “a pizza joint” 😂❤️
Me too 😂. She made it sound so weird and foreign 🤦🏾♀️
I work for BP and it made me burst out laughing, especially because of how confused American customers are when they come in and ask why they have never seen a BP at home in their own state.
What is it?
@@sassysarina9718 one of our “fancy” restaurants 🤣 far from fancy though
So wait, is it not a pizza joint then? Lol
I’m a child of tiger parenting. My dad was STRICT, controlling. Lived in fear most my childhood. Thankfully I’m doing well now though. How this situation spiralled is so frightening. You told this story so we’ll 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Christina got a little too hood for most her followers when she said “he likes to hit licks” 🤣🤣 i bet half of y’all was lost on that one
Please share the meaning with those of us who are unhooded.
Robberies
Yes!!
@@BrittMFH UNHOODED 😋😋😋😋😋😋 I love this. I'm Italian so thank you
@@michellesmsadventures3430 Never heard of that saying 😂😂😂 Thanks
Just a note it’s not “Ryer “ University it is “Ryerson University “ located in Toronto, Ontario. It isa very prestigious performing Arrts. University and early acceptance is virtually unheard of. Love your videos.
Omg I was like where is Christina, my weekend literally starts with your vid😂❤️✌️🇮🇪💕
Same!
I enjoy true crime stories and just recently started watching Christina. I want to say thanks for keeping the topics entertaining and interesting, but also respectful and considerate of the feelings of all parties involved. Keep it up!
Her parents were OBVIOUSLY ignorant, but not just about the education situation. They were ignorant and absolutely in denial in regards to EVERYTHING about their daughter. It really is sad how it ended for everyone.
Her education was important, but they didn't go to her Highschool Graduation?
She told them there were too many people graduating and everyone could only bring 1 guest and to make them not have to choose which parents goes she gave away her ticket.
@@AVSgirl1985 wonder if mom and dad at least saw the diploma??? golden ticket to them
This case was so crazy i definitely don’t agree with her killing her parents but i also don’t agree with they way they treated her this story is so tragic like the whole family will never be the same I feel so bad for her dad he still didn’t deserve to be shot❤️
A lot of people’s families are messed up and their children don’t kill them. Move out and Move on.
@@kimbombardiere1555 exactly
@@kimbombardiere1555 I completely agree with you
having tiger parents creates constant pressure - you either become a diamond or get left behind in the dust
You’re perfect. I’m so happy that I found you here! You make my days really better!
Esp with her advices about drinking lots of water & goin os. I suffer with Clinical Depression & Anxiety & PTSD so it helps to hear it even tho I try🖤
They should have never treated Jennifer that way. However, I feel for horrible for Felix and Mr. Pan. Their lives have been ruined in some way.
Unfortunately that’s the life most of us Asians live through I would know. I grew up the same way Felix and Jennifer did apart from the fact that apparently she made friends with everyone in highschool and I was definitely the opposite and got bullied a lot… It’s definitely not easy having strict demanding parents who have high expectations but that doesn’t mean you should physically hurt or kill anyone. It’s not worth it. I definitely think she regrets it! I don’t think she’s that bad of a person until she met her boyfriend I think he definitely influenced her in so many negative ways.