Charlie Kirk EDUCATED College Student On Modern Day Relationship And Leaves The Crowd SPEECHLESS 👀

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  • @realtalkron7667
    @realtalkron7667 Před měsícem +121

    These kids don't know how lucky they are to have someone tell them these things..

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 Před 28 dny

      I’m a Canadian born American lived here my entire life. My grandma came here from Canada legally in the 1970s and I never met my father. I listen to Charlie Kirk’s wisdom and I soak every bit of it up because I can tell him and Donald Trump on the true face in future of America. A red wave is coming to save America. Christ is King ❤🇺🇸 TRUMP 2024

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 Před 28 dny +5

      Im grateful for Charlie Kirk trump Candace Owens all legends.

  • @QueenTubby37
    @QueenTubby37 Před měsícem +69

    I love that so many of those guys are intently listening

    • @tiarysha84
      @tiarysha84 Před 17 dny

      Same here… keyword: intently…
      Extremely receptive to Charlie’s advice!

  • @nycish7148
    @nycish7148 Před měsícem +53

    Not one male in this audience was combative towards him when talking about masculinity. They seemed as if they needed to be reassured that there are things you can do to respect yourself and and still be attractive but to not give in right away, thus restoring confidence in these young men. Charlie is definitely preaching to these young men! Salute to you! We must uplift our fellow men.

    • @nrg6245
      @nrg6245 Před 28 dny +5

      When he said they all look at it thru a porn lense they all kept quiet and really reflected.

    • @captainchaos3053
      @captainchaos3053 Před 26 dny

      Do none of these kids have fathers? This guy should not have to explain this to guys this age.

  • @88earthstar
    @88earthstar Před měsícem +42

    I love this voice for men! Women want clean and strong men with self control. Beautiful women want strong men. Thank you for speaking to men about this. We need men with self control these days.

  • @toddmiller1039
    @toddmiller1039 Před 29 dny +15

    Wow. Charlie Kirk is amazing. So smart, brave and unapologetic. Keep speaking and planting the seeds of truth to these young people Charlie. This world so desperately needs it!!

  • @pimp4984
    @pimp4984 Před měsícem +52

    I agree man, beautiful words by Charlie

  • @sandystormable
    @sandystormable Před měsícem +14

    Thank you Charlie for reaching out to these young men…we need more self control in this world

  • @sandychilese2893
    @sandychilese2893 Před měsícem +18

    Charlie is an exceptional person, indeed.

  • @michaelcole4197
    @michaelcole4197 Před 28 dny +9

    We dated 4 years before we got married and waited till our wedding night. I definitely don't regret

  • @angelowhite4701
    @angelowhite4701 Před měsícem +40

    When you resist sx before you marry and have sx with your spouse that' the only one you want to have it with. It's the one when you get that desire to have it with. It creates a special bond and when I try to explain it to people but they don't understand. It takes a very, very strong person to do what's right when the majority of the people around you trying to make you do what you know is wrong. Yes being a virgin takes 100 times more strength today than in the past. As my dad said " stop trying to prove you're a man, just be a man. Don't let others view of you influence you to go down a path of self destruction. Live your life so when you look in the mirror and see yourself you can see yourself as a man of honor and dignity."

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 Před měsícem

      The only thing I would worry about re: sex before marriage is, what if you get married but you're both incompatible in the bedroom? I think sex is a very important part of a relationship

    • @TheAh78
      @TheAh78 Před měsícem +5

      ​@isleofcats9052 Sex is important in marriage, but it isn't the most important. If the husband and wife have a deep love, respect, and admiration for each other, sex won't be an issue.

    • @Silva-je3bu
      @Silva-je3bu Před měsícem

      If you really love your partner, sex will be good, or you make it good together.

    • @Silva-je3bu
      @Silva-je3bu Před měsícem +1

      Sounds like you have a great father. Wish you were dating my daughter.

    • @Heavyisthecrown
      @Heavyisthecrown Před 24 dny

      @@isleofcats9052incompatible? How so.. how would you be? You would learn sex together and talk about and do what you like. Maybe if you’re into creepy fetishs. But if that you, you need to suppress those and get help

  • @chrisrussell8245
    @chrisrussell8245 Před měsícem +45

    That's hilarious because I was raised in the bible belt and dating with the goal of finding a life partner is baked into the cake. These guys minds are blown like they've never heard this crazy idea 😂😂

    • @1986LuisK
      @1986LuisK Před měsícem +4

      Exactly

    • @macgregormick65
      @macgregormick65 Před měsícem

      As much as I can agree with you every 3rd add is a woman selling “ tool hardener “ for men even in this video . Advertising is a powerful thing. But abstinence before marriage should be brought back as a virtue

    • @Redtop1919
      @Redtop1919 Před měsícem +1

      @@macgregormick65you watching CZcams with ads 😂

    • @macgregormick65
      @macgregormick65 Před měsícem

      @@Redtop1919 yeah , the Mrs paid for premium but for some reason I can’t connect to the family sharing. So 5 seconds of 304s telling men what they need lol

    • @Redtop1919
      @Redtop1919 Před měsícem

      @@macgregormick65 that sucks bro. You gotta get that figured out.

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 Před měsícem +18

    It’s not estrogen it’s oxytocin. It is released to INCREASE pair bonding. It’s also release during pregnancy to increase the bond with your unborn child. These guys just don’t want to be celibate until marriage.

  • @user-jq4tb7yr8m
    @user-jq4tb7yr8m Před měsícem +42

    Wow! Surprisingly enough? he had all of those young people connected to him on the topic of trying to hold your sexual desires under control. The truth they were hearing was so true and vivid to them on the topic of what he was speaking on, that they did not become all wild, crazy and disrespectful like screaming at him? because they knew he was speaking with knowledge, facts and truth to them.

    • @mousetreehouse6833
      @mousetreehouse6833 Před měsícem +3

      And how many young men hear the stuff that Charlie is talking about? Not many, not these days, that's for sure!

    • @user-jq4tb7yr8m
      @user-jq4tb7yr8m Před měsícem +4

      @@mousetreehouse6833 That’s true! when I was young, I did the total opposite of what Charlie was talking about? My dad also told me the same things, when you decide to talk to a girl that you are attracted to? it’s should be about getting to know her to marry her with no sex involved. But I messed around in the late 1980’s in the hook up culture” and now have been paying the consequences for not doing things correctly in the eyes of God and my father.

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 Před měsícem +33

    I am divorced, for a long time now, (over 25 years) but I am and will continue to be celibate until and unless I find the man I should have waited to marry.

  • @damienveals7641
    @damienveals7641 Před 13 dny +2

    My cousin met her husband at Bible college in Louisiana. They met 4 or 5 times. Had real serious conversations. He came up and got to know her family and her dad married them a month later. They knew how many children they wanted and everything in those first few meetings. Both virgins and they don’t have anything to argue about they have an amazing relationship and a house full of children now.

  • @conniekellogg6774
    @conniekellogg6774 Před měsícem +24

    It's called self control

    • @Frank-DuxVanDamme
      @Frank-DuxVanDamme Před měsícem

      Or it's I just can't get some 😭 Just saying. I'm 47 and never ever saw a guy who refuses to have sex with his partner.

    • @Starsteam1
      @Starsteam1 Před měsícem

      Why do we need self control if it's accepted on both ends.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem

      ​@@Starsteam1because it's not accepted with God.

    • @Starsteam1
      @Starsteam1 Před měsícem

      @@betht7591 You don't know what god wants from it's people.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem

      He doesn't want fornication I can tell you that for sure.

  • @danielquintana7499
    @danielquintana7499 Před 28 dny +3

    Was a pleasure to see a calm and honest discussion. The kids in this one were respectful and seemed sincere with their questions and comments. Well done

  • @michalklein5219
    @michalklein5219 Před 23 dny +1

    Excellent, showing this to both my sons. Thank you!

  • @queenbee4637
    @queenbee4637 Před měsícem +9

    My husband and I were Virgin when we got together and been married for 20yrs. Even tho we didn't wait till our marriage but we did wait for over a year haha Don't rush to give up ur body..waiting to give it to the right person is worth it. It helps build a stronger lasting relationship where both people respect each other enough to wait. God bless u brother.

  • @SuperAllears
    @SuperAllears Před měsícem +25

    I've seen a photo of Charlie Kirk 's wife.........she is beautiful.

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 Před měsícem +1

      She SAIID she was a virgin 😉

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 Před měsícem

      @@betht7591 I didn’t say Charlie would lie. Man you must love him romantically to get so defensive. I said that she said she was a virgin, and men believe women when we love them. Don’t worry, they won’t see your comment and fly you out to hang. Let’s not insult. God bless

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 Před měsícem

      @@betht7591 also I didn’t. I’ve been with 26 females in my 36 years alive. Wish I had waited. But I’m not jealous. My path has been laid before me and I’ve walked it well. Take care again

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem +1

      Stop regretting and living in remorse. That is a sin.

    • @GodLovesYou1624
      @GodLovesYou1624 Před měsícem +1

      @@betht7591 true. Thank you

  • @richardcarle786
    @richardcarle786 Před měsícem +8

    I became a dad at the age of 17! It was quite the issue to my daughter's mom that I had been with several (13) people before we got together! I don't say this with any pride whatsoever. I regret the immoral life that I lived. To be honest I was Never faithful either, in ANY relationship I had, wether it was a serious relationship or not! Sex is something that is sacred between a Man and his wife, and that marriage is sacred between him and her and God! All I can say is be strong, especially in this day and age! You don't want to look back and have a lifetime of regrets!! I spend most of my days now trying to please my father in heaven and wishing I had done that all along!!

    • @swaggytj23
      @swaggytj23 Před měsícem

      Great insight, I don’t know if I’ll keep my V card until marriage (I’m 18 in community college) but I’m definitely self aware about the Gen Z hookup culture, and personally I find it unappealing. I’ll lose my V card when I feel comfortable doing so, but hopefully it’s with the girl I’ll eventually marry.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem +1

      @@swaggytj23 please do not lose it. Once it's gone you can't get it back. I didn't have the support around me, and ended of taking a chance. Now I can't go back and fix it. I radically accept reality. But I am warning you, please save it for marriage. You'll be very thankful you did.

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 Před měsícem +5

    Thats why i dont date if i look at someone and know for whatever reason i would never marry them i wont waste a min of their time or my own,thats not to say i expect to marry anybody just because i went out with them,but i dont date for the sake of it so if i know i would never marry them for whatever reason i dont go there at all.

  • @user-rj3dz6dz3b
    @user-rj3dz6dz3b Před 29 dny +3

    Thank you Charlie for teaching these innocent children morals and values. It doesn’t matter what in what religion or not your kids please have self respect and values. Do be a dog and 🤬 any holes? Please have self respect’s and values. Lord have mercy on you kids! 🙌💒🙏😖😖😖😖

  • @psyWAR1988
    @psyWAR1988 Před měsícem +3

    If you truly want to be a masculine man, then you dont give in to the "pressure" of what you know to be morally wrong, and you have the self-discipline to hold yourself to the highest standard. That is something to be proud of. no one celebrates a person who gets things easy, or who does the easy wrong over the hard right. If you can do this in your life, you will be the epitome of what it is to be a man. Of integrity.

  • @scottylockhart4282
    @scottylockhart4282 Před měsícem +12

    its not that hard man. You're just weak. You can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you

  • @ashleycroydon9743
    @ashleycroydon9743 Před 11 dny

    Dad always said 5 plus years no one can hold a facade for that long. Years may need to be updated nowadays

  • @margaritasandler7883
    @margaritasandler7883 Před 20 dny

    This is so good these students are listening without opposition and aggression

  • @daleanthony4632
    @daleanthony4632 Před měsícem +10

    This one's a bullseye 🎯

  • @kimbasavvy
    @kimbasavvy Před měsícem +1

    Charlie kirk and myron debate is something I need to see happen

  • @taylorcronin955
    @taylorcronin955 Před měsícem +9

    I disagree with Charlie. People need more shame in their lives. You do bad you SHOULD be ashamed. I got drunk last night, my kitchen is a mess and I'm ashamed as I should be😊

    • @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
      @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven Před měsícem +2

      People need grace... youre not perfect you deserve the grace to make mistakes... lacking accountability is another story

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 Před měsícem +1

      And so you should be, clean that mess up matey!

    • @taylorcronin955
      @taylorcronin955 Před měsícem +1

      @@isleofcats9052 don't tell me what to do 52.

    • @isleofcats9052
      @isleofcats9052 Před měsícem

      @@taylorcronin955 Obviously once you've sobered up, though I found when I drank that it's much better to be hungover in a tidy place than a messy one

    • @taylorcronin955
      @taylorcronin955 Před měsícem +1

      @@isleofcats9052 maybe you'd find cleaning my house cathartic then. Lil nostalgic even. Any time after that.

  • @jay62moon
    @jay62moon Před 26 dny +1

    Your theme song at the end is literally everything Charlie is against😂😂

  • @rebeccaraoufpur4542
    @rebeccaraoufpur4542 Před měsícem +4

    this is amazing

  • @HandofBlake
    @HandofBlake Před měsícem +3

    3 weeks after I met my wife, she moved in, we married shortly after, been together for 13 years now. You don’t need 3 years to get to know somebody.

    • @Heavyisthecrown
      @Heavyisthecrown Před 24 dny +1

      Seriously. We did the same. Been married since 21 with kids and now we’re 29

  • @elisabethkolling6697
    @elisabethkolling6697 Před 28 dny +1

    I had a high school teacher back in the early '70s who said you shouldn't date someone if there's something about them that would keep you from marrying them. Why? Because logically, you're going to end up marrying someone you date.
    Case in point would be my sister. She was a Christian and wanted a Christian husband. But she went on a date with a non-Christian guy, and he's the one she fell in love with, and ultimately married.

  • @tabster83
    @tabster83 Před 13 dny

    He is speaking truth for us sane people out there. I only date with the intention of marriage.

  • @kirstenchavez2211
    @kirstenchavez2211 Před 26 dny +1

    It’s crazy to me that people do not knowing what dating is really for! You date because you’re ready to find a wife or husband…… what else would it be for.. entertainment? 💔

  • @zacharyhalma9017
    @zacharyhalma9017 Před dnem

    6:01 the moment everyone knew he was right

  • @Gone_Rogue300
    @Gone_Rogue300 Před měsícem +2

    Charlie the GOAT 💪🏾

  • @kayceetaylor2151
    @kayceetaylor2151 Před měsícem

    I appreciate your reaction videos, bro! You have wise comments, and are easy on the eyes, which anyone can appreciate! Keep it up! I hope you continue to grow in success in all your righteous endeavors! God bless you and yours!

  • @Kimx3.
    @Kimx3. Před 29 dny +1

    I love your videos keep it up ! 🎉

  • @berkesrobert3616
    @berkesrobert3616 Před 29 dny +1

    There are TWO kinds of virgins. One is trying to lose it but is a loser because he cant! That's mocked.
    The other is a virgin till marriage because of choice, like Kirk, which is very rare! People don't get this!

  • @333333joshua
    @333333joshua Před měsícem +2

    Women may still have the attachment and may want to get back with their ex but they get over the break up fully easier or quicker than men. For me, my mind plagued me for years, because I was bottling it up

  • @metallicman10000
    @metallicman10000 Před 29 dny

    That was my issue. I bought into the idea of dating without the intent to marry. Social pressure sucks, but having discipline is sweet.

  • @PennySixx-di7um
    @PennySixx-di7um Před 28 dny

    What’s better…. Having a laundry list of how many strangers you had sexual relationships with (and how “kink” it was or how “freak off” the interactions were) like a revolving door if ppl just proving to each other EXACTLY how insignificant and disposable they all are to each other…. OR…. spending your time with someone who actually LOVES you… knows all your likes/dislikes, your childhood stories, knows your family and friends, knows what happened that caused every scar (physically/emotionally) that has your back and is your best friend and ally in a world where you need that more than ever! Someone you trust, takes care of you when you’re sick, cheers for you when you succeed, has seen you at your worst and at your best and it’s all REAL and cherished… you fight and argue but sometimes but it’s about IMPORTANT things not BS and it happens because you give a shit about that person and they give a shit about you!!! A witness to your LIFE that WANTS to be there and go through it with you and wants you to be a witness to theirs…. Until the end.
    And it WILL end!!!! Stop wasting your life on a random fuck…. you WILL regret it! One day you’ll be facing the end of your life and all you’ll have is a long list of sexual encounters with ppl who didn’t care about you in the least or any of the other ppl on THEIR long list of ppl that never mattered. But you could have someone who has LOVED you, who stuck with you, who knows you, who has been the most engaged witness to YOUR life because you matter to them and they’ll miss you and think about you and talk about your life after you’re gone. But yeah …sex with whoever and being “free” of an “old ball and chain” sounds like a way better option 😉

  • @Est-pw9ft
    @Est-pw9ft Před 3 dny

    This first guy wants to be told so bad that he should, as a man, be able to sleep with whoever they want 😂

  • @kimkimba1131
    @kimkimba1131 Před 21 dnem

    When in highschool, I dated a guy for a few weeks. Went to his home and met his family and he showed me his room. He started kissing me and put his hand up my shirt. I backed off and said I will not be doing that. His crazy reply was, I'm a farmer and this is what we do. I said I don't care, I don't want to. I went home. The next day at school he broke up with me. He looked surprised when I said ok. And walked away.

  • @nrg6245
    @nrg6245 Před 28 dny +1

    These young men really reflected and learned from him here. He’s right. Porn has ruined the societies morality in a way.

  • @GoWithAndy-cp8tz
    @GoWithAndy-cp8tz Před 8 dny

    All that is true!

  • @user-df2uu3qp3y
    @user-df2uu3qp3y Před měsícem +4

    where can i see the original video?

  • @flygirl2447
    @flygirl2447 Před 13 dny

    No husband will ever say that they wish their wife had slept around more in her single years.

  • @lynannemillerwellnesscoach9885

    I understand that culturally and traditionally this is true.. man, and I would say across the world, are able to have as many women as they want and they are respected, lauded and praised...... but if a woman did the same she is condemned as a harlot, to put it mildly. Has anyone ever read the story Tess of the d'urbervilles? She forgave her fiance for being intimate with someone before their marriage.. when she felt safe to share that she had done the same, she was ashamed, condemned and Outcast. Is Holiness and Purity only for women ? And how would a woman who has saved herself feel that he has slept with 67 other women.. there is no going back on that

  • @wouldntyouliketoknow12345

    Pre-maritial sx is complicated. I was dating this guy and he was waiting for marriage. I respected that. 4 years of dating, he asked me to be his wife, we got married 1 year later. Our wedding night, he let out the biggest sigh and said "Fine, let's get this over with." Excuse me, what? He never wanted to have sx, come to find out 2 years after being married, that he's gay and has been sneaking around with other men. I feel (I could be wrong), that if we didn't wait til marriage, I would have figured out he was gay BEFORE we got married. I was one who always believed in marriage and making it work... and... he lied to me about something that cannot be worked out.

    • @futurelane3377
      @futurelane3377 Před 14 dny

      lol 😂that’s not premarital sex’s fault. U telling me this guy kept the DL for 4 years? No signs were dropped? And did the men in ur family look at him as well? Everybody gives signs. U might have not been able to read them but somebody else can

  • @nrg6245
    @nrg6245 Před 28 dny

    That’s right. It’s all about the intention.

  • @gomeettupoc50cent
    @gomeettupoc50cent Před 24 dny

    This guy simply does not want to hold himself accountable

  • @DENNYCOOL_AND_GANG
    @DENNYCOOL_AND_GANG Před 15 dny

    Great channel my friend.

  • @tinas2857
    @tinas2857 Před 13 dny

    What Charlie mentioned about the attachment that a woman gets with a man, after sex, is caused by release of oxytocin, (aka, the ‘cuddle bug’)

  • @allaw1726
    @allaw1726 Před 20 dny

    Love is our highest DEVINE POWERS healing energy ! 🤗😇 ! Innocents is beautiful and highly respected as a culture ! Love is between two people who truly respect each other and trust is a bond that holds relationships together . unconditional love for each other ! Life partner ! Thats a very beautiful out look on life ! TOGETHER for ever as one ! DEVINE ENERGY BEING ! I love you all ... Respect ! 😇 ! Thank you , God bless all ....

  • @captainchaos3053
    @captainchaos3053 Před 26 dny

    How do these people not know the difference

  • @IBmisspeppermint
    @IBmisspeppermint Před 7 dny

    OH Arizona State University Tempe - so embarrassing 🫣

  • @LightningBeam51
    @LightningBeam51 Před 27 dny

    Never sure which eye to look at when you talk and please put up subtitles, it's hard to listen. That said we really appreciate you putting these vids up, keep up the good work.

  • @zadenabi
    @zadenabi Před 4 dny

    Not to mention intimacy is not always sexual and sex is not always intimate

  • @Daxmcd3078
    @Daxmcd3078 Před měsícem

    I have a body count of 7 that I unfortunately have to carry with me the rest of my life. And more upsetting is these numbers went from 1 in 2021 to 7 by the end of 2023… so in only a short time. And i was okay with the fact it was only 1 with a girl I dated for 4 years but after her and I broke up in the end of 2021 I found it difficult to find a girl and just found myself having sex with women and a lot of them didn’t have interest in me after or anything and it wasn’t until I met my wife who’s extremely traditional and a virgin (and thank God doesn’t judge anything about my past) now I find myself realizing I messed up but there’s nothing I can do about it

    • @joey2729
      @joey2729 Před měsícem +1

      Don’t be so hard on yourself

  • @damienveals7641
    @damienveals7641 Před 13 dny

    Yupp. I wish I would have known what I was doing to myself my teen years sleeping around. I tell children now, guy at work had his 15 year old son in the shop, his uncle said he needs to get laid I said no please don’t . Save yourself until you get married and then come thank me. Having sex before marriage does nothing but bad for you.

  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 Před měsícem +3

    That is the entire point of dating, or at least should be.
    If you’re not ready to marry, not looking for someone to spend your life with, then you shouldn’t be dating.
    If the person you are dating is not someone who you could possibly consider marriage material, what is the point?

    • @Gez-C
      @Gez-C Před měsícem

      To be happy perhaps?

    • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
      @HillCountryBluebonnet88 Před měsícem +1

      @@Gez-C
      How does wasting time with someone you know is only going to be temporary make you happy?
      Does it make them happy? Knowing that they are just a place filler.
      I’ve been on both sides of that situation and let me tell you, it’s not something that makes both people happy.
      One of them is wishing that the other will see them as more than just a convenient receptacle until someone better comes along.
      One of them is hoping that the other one will be someone who will love them.
      One of them is praying that the other one has found someone they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
      One of them is going to be heartbroken when the other one, the one they thought was THE one, walks away without a second thought.
      Trust me, there is no happiness to be found in dating just for “fun” or to scratch an itch.
      Dating with purpose is much more fulfilling.
      Clear expectations from the beginning makes it much easier for people to move on.
      As soon as you know that their goals in life are not aligned, do not have the same values, don’t want the same things from life that the other person wants, they can then look for someone else who does.

    • @annbow4064
      @annbow4064 Před měsícem

      ​@@Gez-CWhy would using someone make you happy,and they will not like being used to fill your time till someone better comes along.

    • @Gez-C
      @Gez-C Před měsícem

      @@HillCountryBluebonnet88 Never said I was wasting anyones time, Im happily with someone and have been for many years, but neither of us want to marry, doesn’t mean that were not committed to one another!

    • @tigerlily2086
      @tigerlily2086 Před měsícem

      ​@Gez-C out of curiosity....why do neither of you want to marry if each of you is committed to the other and happy? Marriage is the ultimate commitment and when 2 people are happily committed to one another, then marriage would the bond that solidifies that and what those 2 people say they have and feel.

  • @queenstar9299
    @queenstar9299 Před 10 dny

    I love low to no body count men. ❤ they show discipline and to me, are more trustworthy.

  • @joey2729
    @joey2729 Před měsícem

    Too much overthinking

  • @rightsmatter2370
    @rightsmatter2370 Před měsícem +1

    Why do people think that intimacy is sex, its not.

  • @tylerwatson5976
    @tylerwatson5976 Před měsícem +1

    See that’s the problem with todays world. Dating is something done so loosely these days. If I’m “dating” someone, it’s to find my life partner. Why else are you dating? We are in a world where intimacy is only known as sex. 😂🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Silva-je3bu
    @Silva-je3bu Před měsícem +1

    Seems as if these young people are concerned that they want to have sex so they will be sure they will enjoy their partner. In truth, if they save themselves for the “ one”, they will make sex better because they love each other enough. It’s very hard, but very rewarding.

  • @phil.l.1327
    @phil.l.1327 Před měsícem +1

    People are always looking for that perfect person. 'There is no such thing as a perfect person and there is no such thing as perfect period.' People need to get that out of they're heads. People are naturally imperfect by default and there's no changing that.

    • @Opa773
      @Opa773 Před měsícem +1

      That is a reason to work at all time to self improve . Society has just decided not to , lowered their standers . It’s EASY .

    • @phil.l.1327
      @phil.l.1327 Před 29 dny

      @@Opa773 Yep, unfortunately society has taken the easier more non-dangerous route and is suffering for it. Worse, the people who think they have this all figured out, know this and refuse to take accountability or any responsibility for they're poor choices and/or theyre own actions.

  • @berrywine6579
    @berrywine6579 Před 8 dny

    You don't have to have sex, live together, get married. Just go out with each other and have a good time.

  • @asoncalledvoonch2210
    @asoncalledvoonch2210 Před 10 dny

    Dude in the glasses thinks he's Myron Gaines.

  • @annbow4064
    @annbow4064 Před měsícem

    I have never saw the point in pointless dating,its using someone so you wont be alone and waisting their time and your own.

  • @whatuonboa1576
    @whatuonboa1576 Před měsícem

    First guy is my boy

  • @kiyobot123
    @kiyobot123 Před měsícem +3

    As a women, I can say that I wouldn't be attracted to a virgin.

    • @GorramT
      @GorramT Před měsícem +1

      And how high is your body count?

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 Před měsícem

      @@JaneCurtright-zs1lr I'm sure I am... can't help what I'm attracted to

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 Před měsícem

      Below 4

    • @kiyobot123
      @kiyobot123 Před měsícem

      @@GorramTbelow 4... and I'm 40... that's not the point.

    • @sharonrussell4491
      @sharonrussell4491 Před měsícem

      If you are no longer a virgin, keep looking.

  • @lesliel4126
    @lesliel4126 Před měsícem +1

    I also as a female don’t want a guy with a high body count

  • @kayshakes2981
    @kayshakes2981 Před 8 dny

    I don't think it was all about religion even centuries ago, I think it was a case of common sense.
    modern day all the single parent families, STD's, the old ways made a lot of sense on a lot of levels.

  • @KaxantheDragon
    @KaxantheDragon Před 25 dny

    💯

  • @terezka5340
    @terezka5340 Před 7 dny

    It ś true. My respect for my male friend went up the roof after his female friends told me he is refusing to have sex with them if they don´t want to commit in serious relationship. Itś the most manly thing. Because part of being manly is protecting women... It´s super sexy

  • @spidergoose891
    @spidergoose891 Před měsícem

    Don't buy into social pressure. I have respect for people waiting until marriage and 0 for someone with a double digit body count. They don't respect themselves so I won't either.

  • @huckthomas7231
    @huckthomas7231 Před 4 dny

    I generally respect Charlie, but could not disagree more with his archaic stance that marriage should be the goal for all. I've never wanted to marry and feel just fine about that.

  • @cherylhaugen1897
    @cherylhaugen1897 Před 14 dny

    Compatibility is much different from trust and respect. To have sex causally is to demean both of you! Far better to face living alone without sex than to just go out and causually have sex with just anyone.

  • @hail2703
    @hail2703 Před měsícem

    God knows best. Look at Charlie’s life.

  • @connieyarga9798
    @connieyarga9798 Před měsícem

    You r ready

  • @DGregster
    @DGregster Před 18 dny

    Too late for me to save myself for marriage, but I've been saving myself for almost the last two years. As soon as I started, I started finding more desirable women who share the same values as me. I think it's God's way of pointing me in the right direction.

  • @Theimpromptulife
    @Theimpromptulife Před 4 dny

    Virginity increases his masculinity for sure. And I think men who have high body count are more undesirable (very hard to trust their judgment). I agree with him that hopefully everyone starts practicing self control again. Stope listening to media, music and commercials selling sex, people have so much more value than that. The people who have a problem with virginity I think for the most part just may simply not like they don’t have that value anymore. Or perhaps self control, or bad upbringing.

  • @Arlene_DOTK
    @Arlene_DOTK Před 17 dny

    Why do you re-post a lot of Charlie's videos? Genuinely curious 🤔

  • @920WASHBURN
    @920WASHBURN Před 16 dny

    Charlie knows nothing about women

  • @michalklein5219
    @michalklein5219 Před 23 dny

    What he must be? By Voddie Baucham Jr

  • @vincelafore4281
    @vincelafore4281 Před měsícem

    Lmao. That wut charones were for. We just snuck around it

  • @wonderwhy5824
    @wonderwhy5824 Před měsícem +2

    Tell this story way more.. please. Its so true. God made us, He made sex, He knows what He's doing. I'm almost 50 years old. And I wish I knew this when I was young

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem

      Don't feel bad. God forgives.

    • @betht7591
      @betht7591 Před měsícem

      You learned your lesson the hard way.

  • @jasonking4037
    @jasonking4037 Před měsícem

    That liberal makes me think he's a real-life Michael Kelso.

  • @Reluctant_J
    @Reluctant_J Před měsícem

    Like B4 watching just 4 the title 👍🏻

  • @leonabarkell1809
    @leonabarkell1809 Před měsícem

    Being a man is doing the hard things!

  • @dougfoster445
    @dougfoster445 Před měsícem

    I have to disagree with Charlie with a couple things. A man who is a virgin is typically a virgin-not because he has so much self control but because he can’t get a girl.

  • @vanglee84
    @vanglee84 Před měsícem

    It's actually quite easy if you're a towards the bottom percentage

  • @andym.3506
    @andym.3506 Před měsícem

    And what happens if he or she is bad in bed? No sex compatibility. All the love and commitment goes to drain.

  • @rbfarrell1
    @rbfarrell1 Před měsícem

    It has been proven many times that girls with a high body count before marriage will have trouble bonding with their husband, unless the husband has a bigger D, is more fit, is taller, is more handsome, is richer, is smarter, has more skills, then all the guys she has been with before him. Men look at thing differently. Men might want a woman that has ten qualities , but alot of men settle for women that have just five of these 10 qualities or even less. Because quality women are very rare so even though guys want gold most guys will end up settling for copper.

  • @cs6767
    @cs6767 Před 19 dny

    We would rather listen to Charlie Kirk than your rant. Thank you.

  • @GroundZero_US
    @GroundZero_US Před měsícem

    There’s a big difference between being voluntarily celibate and involuntarily celibate. The former can signify strength and latter weakness.

    • @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
      @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven Před měsícem

      Whats involuntary?.

    • @GroundZero_US
      @GroundZero_US Před měsícem

      ​@@ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven - Means they're celibate against their will. If they could get a girl they would - but they can't so they're called "involuntary celibates" or "incels" for short.