Why is it that the exact type of people I need to hang out with, such as yourself, its only on the internet. I relate to your story to a borderline creepy degree...
I'm sorry to hear that man, don't let these thoughts devaluate you as a human being though. You have kindness in your heart and are deserving of a real friendship, I can tell. You'll find people! Just put yourself out there as much as you can! Good luck!
I feel the pain, people end up becoming acquintances, they chose others as "their people". And then you try to make friends with others but they all already have "their people" so you're once again not a priority. It's a dmn loop... And you end up being honest and nice, and suddenly people are afraid of your niceness, despite smiling together. Chose friendships not fear. Talk to your friends to keep them, show the effort dont leave them out and for God's sake don't let them be the only ones who initiate. Idk how to meet more people, i tried dating apps (for friendship) no success, I'm not around in clubs and stuff, and I don't want to go alone to stuff and talk to strangers, and once again even if you do, they have their people..
i'm sorry, man, i hope you find people you click with i mean i hate gossip and i don't love small talk either, people who only do that aren't worth it anyway, good luck man seriously this whole video kinda hit home
Hey, 23 yr old here from Ireland, diagnosis of ASD too, you say there wasn't "substance" in relationships, hey I see what you mean; it's like the people I get to know, I never get the relationship depth others do. To be honest it's in some part sad but at the same time I have to recognise that this is a disability, that yes aspergers makes me slower to learn things, specifically being a person in a relationship as others do, and yes I have had parties, got drunk as everyone else has, been what I thought was a good time, thought I got a great friend, only to see the outcome :(. You mention on your channel you had weed induced psychosis (same!!!), there is NO shame in that! If you are afraid of your "sterile expression" sure, maybe you can describe it and internalise it, but honest to god, a few forced smiles can get the job done, I asked a guy recently if he was still working for a scam artist (complete accident on my part) and he laughed and smiled, fair enough! But to finish, if you have the same struggles and are still living at 29, you are my inspiration, my life has been struggle and to see a guy struggle through all these years, maybe I need to see a therapist, if millions are just like us I may as well accept completely things are harder and see if a therapist or counsellor can help.
I turned 21 last week and I realized that I never had any actual friends. I dont have any memories like go to a cinema with friends etc.. Im introvert but Im not that shy though I really dont know why I dont have friends. People always told me that high school is just perfect youll have good friends etc but in reality f them all. I dont even text with people even though I like texting. Im thinking that one day I will gone from this earth with having no friends, no boyfriend, no good memories and I dont want to be die as alone thats horrible. Nobody celebrate my bday except my mom and some people. No text, no phone calls no any other 💩Im really sad about this ... I dont like peoples humor theyre not funny at all. And I have resting face for all the time and people thinks that Im sad or someting but Im not. Anyways man I hope we both find what we wanted and be happy.
It’s possible u are more introspective and unique than most peopke. You seem genuine and don’t sugarcoat or disguise your thoughts.
Why is it that the exact type of people I need to hang out with, such as yourself, its only on the internet.
I relate to your story to a borderline creepy degree...
Keep your head up, homie. Never seen ya before, but I got you brother. Stay safe and stay strong, we stand together! ✊️
I'm sorry to hear that man, don't let these thoughts devaluate you as a human being though. You have kindness in your heart and are deserving of a real friendship, I can tell. You'll find people! Just put yourself out there as much as you can! Good luck!
I feel the pain, people end up becoming acquintances, they chose others as "their people". And then you try to make friends with others but they all already have "their people" so you're once again not a priority. It's a dmn loop... And you end up being honest and nice, and suddenly people are afraid of your niceness, despite smiling together. Chose friendships not fear. Talk to your friends to keep them, show the effort dont leave them out and for God's sake don't let them be the only ones who initiate.
Idk how to meet more people, i tried dating apps (for friendship) no success, I'm not around in clubs and stuff, and I don't want to go alone to stuff and talk to strangers, and once again even if you do, they have their people..
I SHALL BE YOUR FRIEND. :D
I feel exactly the same...
i'm sorry, man, i hope you find people you click with
i mean i hate gossip and i don't love small talk either, people who only do that aren't worth it anyway, good luck man seriously this whole video kinda hit home
Im sorry for you,i hope you stay strong,i only have like 3 friends
Hey, 23 yr old here from Ireland, diagnosis of ASD too, you say there wasn't "substance" in relationships, hey I see what you mean; it's like the people I get to know, I never get the relationship depth others do.
To be honest it's in some part sad but at the same time I have to recognise that this is a disability, that yes aspergers makes me slower to learn things, specifically being a person in a relationship as others do, and yes I have had parties, got drunk as everyone else has, been what I thought was a good time, thought I got a great friend, only to see the outcome :(.
You mention on your channel you had weed induced psychosis (same!!!), there is NO shame in that!
If you are afraid of your "sterile expression" sure, maybe you can describe it and internalise it, but honest to god, a few forced smiles can get the job done, I asked a guy recently if he was still working for a scam artist (complete accident on my part) and he laughed and smiled, fair enough!
But to finish, if you have the same struggles and are still living at 29, you are my inspiration, my life has been struggle and to see a guy struggle through all these years, maybe I need to see a therapist, if millions are just like us I may as well accept completely things are harder and see if a therapist or counsellor can help.
Stay strong.
I love you man
stay strong fr
I turned 21 last week and I realized that I never had any actual friends. I dont have any memories like go to a cinema with friends etc.. Im introvert but Im not that shy though I really dont know why I dont have friends. People always told me that high school is just perfect youll have good friends etc but in reality f them all. I dont even text with people even though I like texting. Im thinking that one day I will gone from this earth with having no friends, no boyfriend, no good memories and I dont want to be die as alone thats horrible. Nobody celebrate my bday except my mom and some people. No text, no phone calls no any other 💩Im really sad about this ... I dont like peoples humor theyre not funny at all. And I have resting face for all the time and people thinks that Im sad or someting but Im not. Anyways man I hope we both find what we wanted and be happy.
ill be your friend fr