My Ex Looks Happy On Social Media
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- čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
- My Ex Looks Happy On Social Media. Yes, often times our ex looks happy on social media after a breakup. They can often post pictures and videos of them looking happy without you. It can be extremely painful to see and understand what is going on.
We see them posting on the various social media sites and they look great. They are smiling, dressing well, and looking like their life is great. But is it? We look closer at some of the behaviors exes will do after a breakup!
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If my ex was intimate with someone else during break up, thats a dealbreaker. Its disgusting.
Anyone can smile. Doesn’t mean they’re happy. So take it with a grain of salt.
Don't put too much stock in Facebook posts, you're looking at someone's highlight reel.
I always come back to this comment.
Thanks PC
It's not even a real highlight reel, it's a fake highlight reel. She could be out with her friends, being depressed as fuck the whole time, but she's still gonna smile for the photos, right?? So it's best to ignore that shit. Social media is a doctored highlight reel.
Facts
@@kingoftheworld5753 just like my so called friend so called twin flame . When I text her in July she never did get back to my text. People onlying get one chances you are out.. I am completely done though
It's all for show. Once the excitement ends it tends to slow down.
As the "ex" that posts highlights on social media, all I want was your attention...
My current ex is doing this exact thing! Every week she’s posting with a group of friends she literally just met! It was heartbreaking at first but made me realize she’s most likely just faking it to convince herself and everyone else she is super happy.
Aww 😢
I don't look. It's too painful.
Delete, Block, Un-follow! No pain will exist afterwards other than you missing how they disrespected you.
People tend to present their best selves on social media they may seem happy on the outside bt on the inside they may b hurting
bonface macharia true
My ex looks happy on social media with her new guy, but I know he isn’t me and she just settled. Good riddance.
I cut ex off from all social media. It was best decision for me.
Weak
you knw what you weak
So weak u ran away from ur fear
you knw what whatever. Not fear at all
Best decision for me too!!
Craig: “DONT DO THAT, OKAY?” 😐
Me: *nods 🥺
Same haha
my ex’s new supply posted a picture of them looking happy. she just doesn’t know what hell he/they put me through. she will soon realize how I feel.
Yeah. I been there. I found out that my ex cheated on me with his so called friend. She knew everything about me like the clown she is. Normal people would not bother and leave others alone. I blame him more for allowing it. I blame myself more for letting it go that far and instead should of went quiet like he did me. He make it seem like he is happy on social media but, I can tell in my guts and mind he isn't. He looks bad to me? He looks sick. I got pregnant before then and found out she was after that. I don't think it was on purpose it was not meant to happen like that. So, he created more problems and mistakes all over again for himself. Stupid. He will learn the hard way. He blocked me and I blocked him. Later I unblocked listen to others and realize I have a life and who cares and left it be. He unblocked me after so? I thought it was funny. I stay to myself and have nothing to say to him as much as he did to me. We could of fix our relationship but, he choice a rebound over me so, nope I'm good. She had 4 kids. He had many himself with others before then and ours. She dumb. But, then again Idk if that makes me any better. I mean I know when to back away now. She doesn't she like to seem to be a main when she is still title as the side chick. I don't care what he say or did to pregnant a ho himself. She isn't nobody to him and I know it. She was a homewrecker looking for a daddy figure. It's sick to ruin lives and expect to not get karma and he will to for not being there for his kids but, play dumb for someone else's? Anyway, I needed to get it out. But, yeah it hurts and I know he isn't happy and I believe he knows he made the biggest mistake so far in his life and now it's to late.court and coming and me moving forward with my life. My health and my family is more important we been though enough with the demonic bs and demon shit. We are with God and blessed as a great family now. I dodge a bird brain for sure. Not so smart I'll say.
Oh and btw. Rebound also can last for 3 to 4 months or a year or 2 or a little longer. It's not love. It's lust and soon it will come to an end and soon it will be doom so enough. Be smart and safe everyone. They be with someone that isn't for you if you have to chase. Or ruin something that ain't yours.
My ex blocking me from everything was the best thing he has done for me.
Update?
Did you break it off with him or did he dump you ?
@Andrew Cruz he ghosted me. So I guess it was a "dump".
@Dwight Schrute I no longer seek for him to reach out to me. He has made some of out mutual friends to check in on me but himself he hasn't reached out and I don't want to him from him. Wishing him the best out of life and wish he'll find the happiness that he is seeking for.
so true, when an ex changes their profile picture can make you feel so sad and anxious
Exactly... and you don't know actually if it's like pretending to move on over you, or is it they really moved on!? ...
Is just a fake happines☺️
JJJ YOU ARE SO RIGHT GOING THROUGH THIS NOW.....I WENT NC AND REACHED OUT TO MY EX HE INVITED ME OVER AND NEVER TOLD ME HE'S IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP WITH A YOUNGER WOMAN.....I LOOKED AT HIS FB AND HAD A PIC OF NEW WOMAN.....HE'S BEEN IN DEPRESSION FOR YEARS
I KNOW IT'S A PHONY LIFE
GRASS IS GREENER SYNDROME
FOR A WHILE.....I WILL NOT TALK ABOUT OTHER WOMAN I WOULDNT LOWER MYSELF I HAVE SELF WORTH.... HIGH VALUE.....GUESS HE'S BORED WITH HER NOW THAT'S WHY HE'S COMMUNICATING WITH ME
I know it's hard but the best thing to do is mute them and don't look them up. That is what I did, one month and a half ago my girlfriend broke up with me and I haven't seen a single post of her. A friend of mine told me that she is constantly posting pictures and before she almost never did.
The best thing you can do for yourself is unfriend your ex on all social media. Otherwise, it’ll lead to stalking them online. Does he look happy? Does he look like he misses me? Has he changed his relationship status? Is he dating the girl who just liked his photo? Etc. You’re only going to make yourself miserable by constantly checking how they’re doing. Instead of being obsessed with what your ex is doing, you should be focusing on getting over them and moving on with your life.
This. No contact is for you even more than increasing the chance of them coming back. Just focus on the present moment and your next step and stop thinking about things you can’t control.
I struggled so long until I unfriended and unfollowed and it has been a life saver. No more access to checking online status etc. if you’re not strong then you need to remove the platforms of communication and I promise you that it will get so much easier.
Honestly speaking 🔊 I need to develop balls of steel and remove because it's killing me inside to see happy!
I unfriended and unfollowed to protect myself. I noticed in the days after the breakup that she was gonna be one of those people that posts a lot to look happy, like her life is sooo much better now.
Two months after the breakup she changed her cover photo to a picture of friends where she had her arm around a new guy. It was obviously aimed at me because she could’ve chose a platform that was private. It hurt so much to see that picture, I’ll never forget the feeling. It was rude and I’ve never done anything to deserve that especially after only two months. I will never do that to someone.
And yes I am guilty of putting up pictures to manipulate. Never with the opposite sex, mainly to showcase my new exciting lifestyle that she was missing out on. It’s pathetic and I wish I was above it, but it’s kind of the only thing you have when you go no contact.
It was soooooo much easier to get over someone in the days before social media!!!! Now it takes me twice as long. I wish everyone knew what it’s like to have suffered multiple attachment traumas in your life. Maybe people would be more gentle but they just don’t understand.
It’s okay to unfollow, but I wouldn’t block them because then they can’t reach out to you and blocking them is too dramatic
@@blankearth5840 completly disagree block her if you know your going to stalk her and if it hurts to much having to look at it, its about your health and your journey of healing and trust me she will panic
I'm going through this right now.. My ex came over, told me she misses me, and said the rebound is a "friend." Then she started completely ignoring me when she'd see me at college for a while. Yesterday she decided to talk to me and looked shocked when I didn't carry on a conversation with her-- this is so frustrating
Wow bro keep your head up
beezneezer I hear you bro I hope you are doing fine right now wait for the right time you will have the glory days soon
Insecure exes want their ex partner to remain hurt after break up and can't move on, the fact that you didn't show her that hurts her, so as to give you a taste of your own medicine, she posts that she is happy without you, so you can feel hurt as she feels!
Know that when she does that you're on her mind and still not over you 😉
I used to watch these videos after a breakup over a year ago. This ex never reached out and I am actually glad. Today the man of my dreams dumped me because he couldnt handle my recent feeling of depression and I am devastated. However, I was now more equiped and managed to calm down, tell him what I loved about him, that I am not going to wait but that I hope he won't let his ego get in the way of contacting me if he regrets his decision. And so the journey of self development starts all over again, but hopefully this time with more hope for a reunion. I am so sad.
Update??
Update?
All that stuff made me so anxious that I had to block my ex. It’s way too painful to see someone deleting your pictures, posting memes and that they’re happier now. Why would Anyone want to keep them in their social media? It makes the whole process 10x worse. It’s so disrespectful even if it’s fake. Block them and focus on your life!
Update?
Did they ever reach out? My ex is doing the same, deleting pictures etc.
@@dwightschrute8141 yes 👇
@@CountOfMonteCristo_ she actually did reach out. I did all the work I could on myself while I wasn’t with her (therapy twice a week, went back to school, started doing mma, etc.) and long story short we got back together. We moved in together, traveled, talked about marriage, I was very invested in the relationship and tried to be the best partner I could be with all the knowledge I learned during the breakup process. She has undiagnosed BPD, history of being a drug addict and alcoholic, and never worked on herself which is a massive red flag. Fast forward to a week ago-now, she started pulling away saying she is very depressed, so I told her I’m here for her and we’ll work through together, but the next day she told me and needs time and space. She’s terrible at communicating, and now treats me like I don’t exist at home and ignores my needs more than she’s been ignoring throughout the relationship. So I gave her space, stopped texting/talking to her. Last night she was ou until 3am, without giving me any information. Right now, She went to a wedding we were both supposed to go by herself and started texting me like nothing happened. Ignored her texts and she sent me a picture of the both of us together, I ignored that and she told me she missed me. I knew she wasn’t telling me something so I found out that this whole time she’s been pulling away she’s been talking to this guy she recently met from her gym. She has been shit-talking me and telling him I am too dependent, she’s independent, I don’t do anything around the house, I am selfish when I know all these things are not true to find out that later she went to his house to drink with him. So yesterday I decided that I am gonna breakup with her because I deserve better, I know my value and all the work I put on myself to have a shitty partner like that who doesn’t value me and thinks can take advantage of my love. I am very proud of myself for standing up and even though I love her I know I love myself way more. So that’s my “success” story :) sorry for the long message.
Dammm, u re strong man!
I think my ex is just living there life and it hurts that they don’t want to share it with me anymore.
What ended up happening?
I admit, I post to make it look like the break up (my decision is not bothering me. I look at his way too much and get very anxious!!! I know it's not healthy.
Social media was triggering me to be sad. My ex doesn’t post a lot, but when I post something and he doesn’t acknowledge it, it’s triggering. So I deleted my social media. It really causes so much negative emotion all around.
The problem is too when they have blocked you and u see the photos u know its not just to hurt you i hate social media so much 😔 ruins relationships too
Knowing my happiness might hurt them make me even happier.
r.i.p coach Margret she seemed like a lovely lady and really committed to helping us folks that watch this channel with her and coach Craig
She wrote online saying ' I made her cry every night for the past 2 1/2 years and listening to a Drake song made her 'finally' leave me and make herself happy' 🤷♂️. Funny because I was the one staying up with her throughout the years all night making sure she was okay and slept with a smile.(she has really bad anxiety/depression and an abusive grandmother at home.) So that really hurt me seeing that, Told her about it and she tried to play the victim to make me feel bad. Really opened up my eyes.
My ex used to post once a month, now she does daily tagging her rebound 🤷♂️
I’m in the same boat, she never used to post on SM ever since breaking up with me & jumping onto her rebound/ monkey branch she’s posting constantly 🤣 I don’t follow her & don’t look. Although foolishly I have looked sometimes & it does nothing but hurt.
@@tbri5511 Yes its better not too look so much bro. Be strong
@@tbri5511 same...He never posted...His last photo was like from years ago...and now, with his new gf, he updated his post and very active, also put everything on private. It was hurting me to look... because he refused to say a word about me to the world. I begged for commitment, and four days after breaking up with me, he made her Facebook official. I blocked him because I cannot bare to torture myself obsessively anymore. It helps a little to pretend the best I can, that he doesn't exist. She flaunts cute moments all over her Facebook and she has a new baby..He told me he wasn't ready for kids...I guess that was a lie. Strangely, he blocked me the same day I blocked him. I didn't even know he was watching my social media, since my whole thing is private, there has never been anything to watch..
@@user-vp8oz1pj9c yeah best to just block everything about them out your life. Perhaps the reason they post so much more is to force themselves into thinking it’s best for them but we could never really know. All we know is we have to move on to better things.
Ya know.. I just love your channel. It's been over two years. I go months at a time and I'm completely fine. Then a moment pops up.. A song.. Or a scene in a movie. It comes and it goes.
At times I don't know if I will find that connection again.. But here is the thing I realize now. I think the person I was with was showing me a mask.. To be the person she knew would be perfect for me.. But she wasn't real. The guy before me.. Was a runner.. She ran I was told, yet in the 2 years we dated she never ran once .. I'm a musician.. We loved all the same music.. She kept me on a string for a long time.. Suddenly she became a vegan.. That voice told me something was up.. You can guess the rest..She didn't know her own identity. The person I fell for " was" my ideal woman.. But was created..
Now this doesn't happen to everyone however I say this because sometimes the people we long for.. have no idea what makes them tick, but know completely what makes us tick. Fleeting moments toward some fantasy they have to finally find love.. But it's really so they feel complete.. And all the chemicals that give them the high they believe is love sooner or later fade and they are left feeling empty.. But in many cases.. It's not something you could have controlled.
The next person comes along.. And the posts.. Pictures.. Memes are simply someone who's "kinda" high. The chances the new person have the skill to help them realize thier true self is unlikely.
What you see on social media in many cases are them convincing themself.. If they say it.. Show it.. Document it.. It must be true.. Right?
How is that any different than my young son tying a table cloth around his neck and saying.... Hey dad look.. I'm superman.. His chest puffed out and for that moment he believes it. And the larger the audience.. The longer he feels invincible.
Guys.. Girls.. This might not resinate with all of you but.. My point is.. They in this moment of validation searching are actually no more mature than my young son. I bieve thier mind literally goes back to a place where fantasy and imagination was thier greatest ally. So while they stay stunted.. You keep growing.. And keep going.. I'm not sure if my ex ever wanted to talk to me again I could. For no other reason then I wouldn't know which version of her I would be having an adult conversation with. Peace.
VERY WELL SAID ......MY EX WAS IN A DEPRESSION FOR YEARS NOW CHANGED HIS FB PHOTO WITH A NEW YOUNG WOMAN......ITS THE GRASS IS GREENER SYNDROME.....NOW WE ARE COMMUNICATING AGAIN......GUESS HIS FAKE HAPPINESS IS WEARING OFF WITH HER
Janie Valente update us..
I needed to hear this. Thanks
"I believe their mind literally goes back to a place where fantasy and imagination was their greatest ally." This is so sad but unfortunately so true.
Saw my ex gf ig for the first time in 7 months it’s definitely killed me because she definitely looks happier without me even though my mind is over here my heart seems to wonder why am I the one that’s hurting more than you I haven’t been happy since the breakup may not have done everything right but the most high knows I wanted to be your happiness ... I was the happiest with you now I’ve just been lost trying to find my way
I feel you, exactly the same feeling that I have
I watch this video because i just saw my ex"s fb profile today. I am so depressed cause she looks happy. Thanks for this Craig
Margaret is fantastic, but I sometimes want to see just Craig talking 😊 He gets to the point quicker and the video is more informative than conversational. Good stuff Coach Craig!
LyrasRaven agreed!! You look very pretty by the way :).
Hope you’re doing well after your breakup. Craig has been a godsend for me personally.
Thank you 😊 I uh, actually got back together with my ex - the original reason why I started watching these 😂
I still subscribe and watch. I appreciate how much I’ve learned about myself through Craig! I’m still learning.
He did devalue me with anger. I wll help him to full fill his hunger .with the white woman . He is not a man he wears clothes like a woman. Women tells his secret he touches the vagina only.
My ex got engaged with a new guy within a year (more like 10 months) since she broke up with me due to reasons outside my control (my parents who have said horrible things to her and me and she got disappointed and very hurt)...the fact that my mom apologized through an e-mail, I have set boundaries afterwards and many other things I accomplished to do to ease up the situation didn't help. She is very happy and her life is going better and better.
He got married in 6 months after we broke up😂
I see this not only from my ex. But other women that go through breakups online. This is why RP content creators say men can heal, and women never really heal. Women immediately hop into this fake zone of trying to convince everyone that they are happy. Since women do 90 percent of the breaking up, they have to convince themselves that they made the right decision. I know I can't date right now. This angry and hurt stage is important for me to FULLY go through, in order to heal. Otherwise I don't heal. Women don't understand this. They try to convince themselves that this was the greatest decision they ever made and they start going out and partying and posting the pics. My ex did this...but I spotted one thing. She said she lost all this weight to this new keto diet. But she has only been on the diet for a few weeks. And lost close to 60 pounds in a matter of weeks. That much weight loss in a few weeks is not a diet. Nor is it healthy. She is simply not eating at all. Don't buy their fake social media happiness fellas. Its a lie.
Worst is they also start getting into rebound relationships it’s unhealthy
THANK YOU! My ex is literally doing exactly what you just described, I need some advice because just like you said, not even three weeks after she dumped me she is constantly posting every single week, sometimes multiple times a week how “happy” she is at her new university with a group of friends she literally just met! It’s heartbreaking, especially as someone who doesn’t have a huge circle of friends to begin with! Since her and I where genuinely eachothers best freinds, maybe she can come around? All the signs you said are there, it’s eerie hoe accurate it is to how you described it!
@@CountOfMonteCristo_ What do you want? Here's the thing. There's a really good chance you were wanting to end it before she did. You need to determine whether you want her back because you want her back, or you want her back because she abandoned you. One is desire, the other is a hit on your ego.
@@riprpmike1433 in all honesty, I truly want her back, I was the one who messed up big time, I took her love for granted and in turn, am paying the price for it. I am working hard on my insecurity and things I need to change for myself, not for her. This breakup has truly opened my eyes, it’s been almost two months and I’ve had time to realize I truly cared for and loved this girl, I just want to make things right. If I didn’t act the way I acted, we would still be together rn, she was head over heels for me, now she’s slowly losing it, by deleting pictures etc.
I deleted all social media anyway after the break up so I don't have that problem anymore. I was married and we have a 4 yr old son, and we see each other often. We even go for meals, the three of us, once a week. I would rather eliminate the fake online stuff and see the 'real' them. I am still very confused about what is going on with us though, it is rather weird going for meals all of the time (even though they are my idea).If there is anything there at all, I am not making any first move.
My ex posted pictures for two weeks and I just ignored them. And one day I got message from him that one of his friends is asking if something is wrong between us because I did not like any of his pictures. ...
We still follow each other on all social media platforms, I just muted him which actually helped more than I thought. Right now I'm in no contact. I gotta admit I've broken it a couple times. I don't give up hope, yet....but if I see the ex posting any content with him with a girl or w.e., then that will be the final nail in the coffin to block.
I gotta also add I'm guilty of posting cryptic content on instagram. I filmed a video of myself at the gym with one of his guy friends BUT, I have all my stories hidden from him so he is unable to see it. I was too scared to post it where it would be visible to him as I feel like he may block me, but who knows. As of right now all of my stories are hidden from him & the mutual friends. I figured it would be better to be a ghost & have him wonder then see me pretend to look like I've moved on.
Good job
Me and my ex were together for 10 year's after breaking up about 3 months after the break up she started a new relationship and started sharing posts saying how much she loved the new guy it's now 4 months and to be honest I feel like crap but trying to move on.
@Petros K yeah gets better I still think about stuff from time to time but I don't dwell on it as much. I think the trick is to look at the bad things in the relationship like stuff the other person did that you don't like.
@Petros K yeah definitely and same to you stay safe message me if you ever need to chat on here 😊
Thats fucked up and could end up bring the exact same for me.
My now ex is doing the same thing... Posting about how his life is so great now that I'm gone, almost as if I was the reason for all his depression when that's clearly not true... It's pretty insulting though :(
I’m in day 11 of NC and my ex has gone through a run of posting those bullshit sanctimonious girly quotes (its empirically always women on my feeds who do this annoying thing). You know the ones with a painted women staring thoughtfully out to sea with a collection of words that sound profound but are nestled in a sea of shit logic. “At the end of the day the only regrets you have are the relationship you could have had, chances you didn’t take and decisions that took too long blah blah blah”. (Oh ffs does humanity stand a chance)
I wanted to shake my iPad and scream. “Those aren’t the only fucking regrets you can have in life you blithering star gazing wooden head!!! But I didn’t. Kept my dignity. Still want her back after all (I’m having an angry day you can tell)
It’s been a run of them, for three days. She knows I see them. Not sure why she feels the need to “re enforce the message”. - Part of me thinks it’s to get under my skin to break NC. I know for a fact they’re aimed at an audience of one. I can tell by the behaviour. She followed me onto Fb to to post them. Was limited to insta. She never uses Fb. Then she saw I’d logged on, changed my pic and then within a few hours bingo. Another vomit inducing quote to tell the world how shit our relationship was in her eyes. As “stevemre info” says....Nice.
same here, and it really is like salt in the wounds -.- / any updates?
Burbn Rabenherz shortly after I posted that I made the mistake of looking on her Facebook,saw she was out enjoying herself and snapped like a kit kat. Rang her up. She was dead chatty, but had made her mind up even more. After that she rang me a few days later for a chat (as I was moving away). She said she doesn’t ring me cos she knows I don’t want to be friends (bs she doesn’t ring me as she doesn’t feel the need or interest. Sad truth). Went back into NC. Just over 4 weeks now. Not a dicky bird. Don’t think I’ll hear again. She’s stopped posting much on social media.
@@airindiana i feel you..but stay strong and to the nc-rule. i wish you all the best!
Burbn Rabenherz thanks, I’ll keep going with it
If a breakup was really negative and/or painful, I normally prefer to completely eliminate that person from FB friends, any social media apps, phone contacts and include the Block feature so that they can never see you again. It sends a more direct message that you are moving on and that you will not deal with that person in any way shape or form any more and that you have too much self respect to be dealing with head games from someone who never made you a priority in their lives anyway. Its just not worth having that pain lingering around your life.
I agree with you, but sometimes I think it is good also to let them see our positive progress , happiness later, normal life and moving on! I believe both of them tbh
It is so crazy how nothing is new under the sun. I'm saving up money for a session because Craig you are on the ball. Literally seeing most of the stuff you have mentioned is what I'm going through.
This is exactly what I needed today thank you for that i was just wondering about this this morning!
My ex who after a year told me he still loves me , misses me in Dec a week after his mom's funeral has replaced me . I saw this women posting pics of them together , and my ex looks happy like he did with me .. exactly the same pattern how he did with me , he has exposed her to the family now .. I feel so crappy , that he told me we possibly get back together he moved on and im stagnant. After watching your videos he is a fearful avoidant , jumps from one women to the next .. so sad ! He just lucky I yet to meet me a nice man . He still hasn't exposed it out so I can see it , I just saw it his cousin had pics and she was tagged ...
same story, my ex even got engaged within 10 months of breaking up because this guy is older (28) while she is 24 and I am 22, and she wanted desperately to get married...and plus we broke up because of many circumstances that were outside of my power...well she broke up with me but anyways...it has been like a year and a half and i still miss her like crazy
My ex is retweeting things like “I don’t want feelings, I want money.” Or “ I’m off the market and don’t want a relationship.” He told me he loved the day he let me go. What can I do when I think he wants to be single?
Update?
its been 4 and a half months since we broke up... one more week and ive been in no contact for 2 months.. shes been with another guy for just over a month now.. really dont think she misses me at all.. why would she? shes with someone else.. her being with someone else hurt even more than the breakup itself..
Hang in there bud, this is a facade. Learn to know if your partner was a narcissist. They tend to move on extremely quickly and will do whatever they can to hurt you. Just because shes with another guy doesnt mean she loves him. He could just be a prop in her fantasy just to hurt you.
Find someone new. You’ll heal in time.
@@sshuteandrew Thanks guys i will
Nooooooooooooooo! He is engaged and he should be happy. Love you still. Do something where they go back to an ex and get married. I was the rebound, fwb too. Dam!,,,, we were just dating not an ex.
Coach Craig Kenneth...i have experienced this with the picture change, and Facebook/ Instagram profile change, and vacation pics...without me, we were suppose to be on that vacation!
My ex fiance has narcissistic traits and serial monogamous traits it seems. Coach Craig Kenneth can you and Coach Margaret do a video on narcissistic behavior in ex's? And serial polygamy if possible? I watch your videos so much I love you and Coach Margaret you helped many of us more than you know with breakups. I will be scheduling a Skype with you coach Craig and or coach Margaret as well thank you for everything that you do I've learned so much from just the videos alone and now I will also be getting the workbooks as well. I hope you have a blessed day!
@BB80Delta thanks for the correction! I had to fix that typo. And i am in a much better place now. My ex fiance is a covert narcissist, and her mom is as well. Good thing i don't have her in my life anymore...so much better thank God! And God bless you as well!
It can also turn into competition which is very draining and pointless. We often try to get communication manipulatively to keep a position of dominance/power
I dated my ex for an entire year and he was always private. A couple weeks after we broke up he blocked me and went public. All he ever posts are pictures of his work and one of him and his brother and another of him and his friends. It's been 4 months and still no sign of someone new. Not sure what to make of it since I'm still blocked. I didn't beg or plead, just had a conversation with him a couple weeks after the break up about what went wrong. Been in NC for 3.5 months. Still hurts
Very similar to my story.
I was depressed and anxious for most of our 5-year relationship. But after the break-up I felt SO much better. For the first time I felt truly happy because I could focus and channel all the energy on healing myself. Not that my ex was bad or unloving, truly my ex was great! But I just feel so much happier on my own, working with my psychiatrist and getting better and healthy. I don't want to return to my ex, even though they were great
My ex broke up with me after I was jealous over the guys in her life. I had no real reason to. I told her I respect her decision and went on my way. She blocked me immediately, 2 weeks after she got back with her ex before me. I have a history with this girl that is really personal. I dont know how to feel.
All you can do is focus on personal growth and move on with life. If she contacts you, then you move from there. Work on not being insecure because then what you fear to happen, you cause to happen. You were afraid of her leaving you and hooking up with one of the other guys in her life. And then look what happened. Focus on personal growth and you'll be better in future relationships. Whether you get back with your ex or get with someone new.
@@LordTails66 you're completely right, my actions forced her away. I just dont understand why I had no chance at all to work things out. It seemed like when it happened she second guessed herself but a day later she blocked me on everything. I didnt beg or anything of the sorts. I can understand if I was harassing her but I truly wasnt.
My cheated on me and left for the widow. I don’t need him back but can’t get over feeling unworthy.
A few months ago she was going out of her way to show me how happy she is/was on FB. she's dialed it back quite a bit since as I did not take the bait.
She my first and i was her first in her life never had another relationship but here 💔💔
My ex hasnt updated his whatsapp profile pic for 4 years while we were together. After 2 months of no contact, after a huge fight... he unblocks me and acts out of character by posting a pic of him and a new girl... we never even officially broke up... but he is glowing... looks so happy. I am broken. He knew I would see it.
4 weeks since she broke up with me, 4 weeks of NC. It's so hard
Same here it’s been 4 weeks , I know she’ll come back around though... if not it’s her lost , so much good looking women with good heads on there shoulders . Love yourself. Respect yourself. The rest will come into play .
@@Misterzay did she come back?
@@Misterzay update?
Update?
Spot on. Right when I needed that video.
I literally have no time to show boast my life. I don't need to prove to the EX I'm fine cause I don't look at thier media n focus on myself. I know they tried to hurt me in the last months but my indifference really scared him n caused him alot of pain, my Moto is if u can't act like a adult n not two faced go away 😂
My ex never posted about me in our 1.5 year relationship. Now she has a new BF and already made her profile picture of them. I was completely devastated when I saw it . Does that mean I wasnt worth anything to her ?
How can my ex get my attention if we are not friends on social media at all?
Craig can you make a video about when your in a long term of no contact (3 months for example) and also when my ex’s rebound lasts longer than our relationship?
A clever thing that you can do is that you can actually mute them on Instagram, that way their posts or stories won’t show up on your feed and the only way to see their posts is if you go to their profile.
Craig, your word Sir, your word just deep.
My ex blocked me. BUT, the old friend of mine she is seeing now hasn't. They look happy going out with other friends.. I'm not even risking going out much during covid, just working on myself and mine.
That is so true for me its like im so disconnected from him now it hurts so much in my tummy
Thank you! I went no contact fir the 2nd time my ex has started to post more again,looks happy with out me
Coach, I'd love your opinion, because I don't think you can really go no contact if you are on social media together. I think you have to remove them.
I believe my ex is in a rebound relationship right now cuz right after the day she broke up with me, the next day she texted her best friend and said she’s already had a new one. But my ex seems very much happy with the new person right now. I really don’t know if there’s any hope left for me 😔
Work on yourself, you deserve someone who won’t leave. If they come back they have to earn you back because you’re gunna be 10x the person you were. Don’t wait for them to return just keep pushing forward. 👌
My ex got married in 6 months after we broke up😂
Mine is engaged two months after breakup
Good for you, youre free.
She dont show she told me how she feels, she said:i feel much peaceful, calmer without you, so?
She told me the other day she was getting worse, even though she broke up with me. Today she posts a video of her drinking and tagging her friends in, was that just a lie?
Your videos are great. You're honest and your videos have been so helpful. Thank you Coach.
Thanks coach this very true 😍😍😍 my ex always doing like this hahaah but I didn’t hurt I just move on forever and he is going to hell hahah
My ex's new boyfriend has been stalking my Instagram stories, what should I do? Lmao
Post some great stuff! :)
Just open ig first Thing to pop up was My ex posting a pic of her writing 'im not the same place were you left me' she dumped me tho 😂 havent been in contact with her for a month now the break up happened early mid november
A little late. But I’m a recovering alcoholic, and I don’t mind drinking but I hate when it’s flaunted. Tonight my ex posted a pic with alcohol.
my ex wife posting a quote on her facebook. "some people are so lucky that even hurting they get so much love and some are so unlucky that even after giving so much love they always get hurt "what does this mean, she broked up me. i cried begging to come back before. i'm in no contact more than a month already.
My husband is posting a heap of travel photos, checking in at places and tagging his monkey branched gf in all these pictures. Only had x2 pictures of them up however. It is very inconspicuous. This is all behaviour that began after we split because I caught him emotionally cheating with her and moved out after he dumped me. She is the coworker. Been separated (not legally yet) for 15wks. He is moving in with her and moving towns. Is this a rebound monkey branch? This behaviour is out of the ordinary and only just begun since we split. I think he realised I've blocked him too. Her status is still single btw. I know they are definately shagging at least. She is definately the opposite of me and low hanging fruit. I think she is pushing him to flaunt it.
My ex and I have been broken up 3 months now and aren’t friends on Facebook since then. I changed my profile pic on Monday and he blocked me Thursday night. I guess he’s still checking my page 3 months later and my new pic triggered him.
Thank Craig for the videos... Great content. I like to ask after a break up do they compare old and current? Hope you can make next content on this.
I simply unfollowed her page. I used to want her back but now I realized women's true nature. I have embraced the MGTOW way of life and I realize that the guy she left me for is the real victim. He will spend money and time on her and then she will get tired of her new toy and find someone with more money that lives closer and he will be in my current situation.
I initiated the divorce in 2013. I divorced her for marital infidelity and financial infidelity. We have not been Facebook “friends” since 2010. That being said, a mutual friend saw a post on her page that was truly disturbing. She made a post of pictures of our wedding regarding what would’ve been a ten year anniversary. She posted a collage of the pictures of her and her family at the wedding. She then posted a picture of all of her family standing with us. However, she painted a sky blue color over my image in the picture. Why would she do that? Especially since her family members pictured closest to us, have passed away. 3 of her brothers and her mother unfortunately, are the relatives that are gone. Those pictures wouldn’t exist without me as a variable on OUR wedding day? I’ve had multiple relationships and I have never had anything close to that done. I’m curious to know if you have any insight of her motivation to do this.
my fiancè (after 6,5 year relationship) broke up about two months ago bc of his family. we were planning on building a house together, which he is still going to do with his family... i can't help checking his pinterest. he is regularly saving stuff for the house and other things. does that mean he is completely over the break up and only cares for his own future or is he maybe just seeking some distraction?
how can someone just go on with life like the loved one never existed, especially when both are still in love with each other😔
i remember once me and my ex split she went crazy on twitter, she was having a ball. Called her recentley spoke for a hr and tells me she stays up to 7 a.m because she cant sleep and she thinks about me everyday lol. Shes dating a rebound and the funny thing is she checks my twitter page from her 2nd account that i know of. Literally likes the same post i like but basically w/o me getting the notifcation. We lasted 2 yrs
My ex was posting constantly on Facebook being here there and everywhere and about how great her life is. Lately she not posting hardly anything. Why is that? Break up was nearly 8 months ago
Your workbooks works for couples is well wich they leave togheter, but the men always messing around? I just want to recomand for one of my friend she is just not in very good relation with her boyfriend. I told her to listen your videos cos You and Margaret are very helpfull. Thank you for looking after a broken hearts😘
My ex seems like she lonely low key it’s like she hopes someone talks to her and sometimes she uses my quotes that I would always say when we were together
I’m blocked
this happening to me now after breakup of 2 years. Literally day after breakup hahaha fuck i want to put my head through a wall, so childish
What changed in their lives is you. They now have the freedom that you didn’t allow them to do these things.
What If a ex unblocked you but keeps me from seeing certain post?
My ex supposedly post 1 to 2 shared post a day, now she coming up with flood post about relationship and love memes and somewhat post that make me jealous (she knows the thing which makes me jealous) then some post directly attacking me personally. Such a psycho
My ex is overposting on instagram with her new boyfriend (rebound) actualy feels great, just shows me that she wants me to se them. And havent goten over me.
Thank you coach craig kenneth!
tWitch is a prime example of someone who looks happy on social media but sadly decided to end his life.
Best thing my therapist told me is work on the things you can control. Also you need to get your head out of your ass 😅 I miss her dearly but she aint the same person. Whether they’re with someone new or not is irrelevant. They don’t wanna be with you right now. Unfollow and Let Go whether you want them back or not.
coach you are the best! great video!