How To Speak Softly and Elegantly: 10 Tips for Attractive Voice | Jamila Musayeva

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  • čas přidán 9. 03. 2023
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    How to speak softly and elegantly: 10 Tips To Make You A Better Speaker|
    In this video, I share 10 tips that will improve your speaking skills. You will learn how to have a more soothing and calmer voice and which exercises to do to soften your vocal cords. Speaking softer and more elegantly is a skill that you can acquire but it takes time and practice to do so.
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Komentáře • 122

  • @maneliaayesha365
    @maneliaayesha365 Před rokem +1086

    Im 100% the opposite of what she's talking about
    I talk loud,fast,and blunt 😂
    Oh well

    • @waniakhan6377
      @waniakhan6377 Před rokem +31

      Same end of funniest thing is that I want to talk like her but the people I met who talk so slowly I literally tell them all on face to be honest that please talk fast it's annoying me be fast 😂

    • @gbobble
      @gbobble Před rokem +15

      Noise gets attention.
      Soft-speakers, how do you avoid new acquaintances telling you you’re timid, unconfident or lacking energy (which is not such a compliment)
      Because a lot of people mistake reserve soft speaking and discretion for timidity ..but really it’s good breeding which is clearly alien to them and they want to give it a negative label.

    • @mercymwanza9691
      @mercymwanza9691 Před rokem

      same here, I am not sure I would manage soft slow talking...I would seriously be bored🙈🙈

    • @Sissi1830
      @Sissi1830 Před 11 měsíci +4

      You can still be blunt and speak slower and softer ;)

    • @nadineh4767
      @nadineh4767 Před 11 měsíci

      Same lolll

  • @waniakhan6377
    @waniakhan6377 Před rokem +582

    How many people want to talk like her but when they meet people who talk slowly they annoy you because they talk slowly😂

    • @laurakeenan2668
      @laurakeenan2668 Před rokem +42

      I always feel weird if I try to speak slowly, it makes me feel like I sound like I've had some kind of head injury...😏

    • @zoya7091
      @zoya7091 Před rokem +3

      @@laurakeenan2668 😂😂

    • @jaagruthisharma
      @jaagruthisharma Před 11 měsíci +1

      And my parents are forcing me to learn it bro! That's traumatic because I'm completely opposite! 😐😐😐🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @aizazoie
      @aizazoie Před 10 měsíci +15

      My brain categorizes these slow and soft-spoken people as insecure and lacking in leadership and mastery skills.... It's as if they are afraid to speak normally.

    • @reneecrotty6910
      @reneecrotty6910 Před 9 měsíci +5

      I agree!!!! It's so irritating hahahaa it's not something I aspire to be. I was shy as a kid and forced myself to become louder because I saw it was way more attractive

  • @kartikg.kartikg
    @kartikg.kartikg Před 4 měsíci +8

    I have to say, her voice just gives massage to my soul.. and it's beyond verbal explanation how it feels!

  • @marriagebeforesex
    @marriagebeforesex Před rokem +153

    I love watching her but this doesn’t work in a remote areas 😅
    In a very quiet community sometimes you need someone who will break the ice! This is for formal purposes only and not for fun 😅

  • @P_Foster
    @P_Foster Před 6 měsíci +16

    Everytime I practice to talk like her in my room. But the moment i meet with one of my very crazy and co loud friends, i forget what she thought me😂.
    When will i ever learn???

  • @PrincessRising
    @PrincessRising Před rokem +25

    I need this right now in my life 💕

  • @ErikaBardere
    @ErikaBardere Před rokem +47

    In theater growing up, we would always say, "red leather yellow leather" as one of our vocal warm-ups, but we would try to say it faster & louder each time.... so not exactly quiet nor elegant 😅😅

  • @avanesspelaez971
    @avanesspelaez971 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I love ur manner of moves jamila the way you carry yourself confidently but modest move i love that becos ur so feminine u became my idol becos i want to be more feminine like you and i love ur speaking so kind and gentle becos proverbs 15:1 said that a soft answer turneth away wrath but grievous words stir up anger..nobody can get angry becos u speak so soft at all times, it amazes me i just hope i can practice this way of speaking becos its an underrated asset..woman should be modest in all manner of life...we. Are not man we are just secondly created by God next to Adam we must kinda have a tone of submissiveness.may God bless u even more jamila ❤ create more contents and inspire us....from Philippines

  • @anantafp
    @anantafp Před 11 dny

    I like the way you talk..so soft😊

  • @jujuba9277
    @jujuba9277 Před měsícem +3

    Oh!😮
    This is to slowly!
    If someone talk to me like that, I think the person are insecure, and, automatically I try to help her find her words. Im in between quickly and slowly.

  • @mikalynn1136
    @mikalynn1136 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I love this, thank you ever so much!
    Not enough people care!!!

  • @katherine123_
    @katherine123_ Před rokem +23

    No wonder why your voice is nice 💯

  • @tracywilliams7929
    @tracywilliams7929 Před rokem +49

    My dear, your elocution is exemplary. However the sound system you used defeated the purpose of communicating clearly and pleasantly. I could hardly hear your doubtless lovely voice.

  • @-._Itz.Yuki_.-
    @-._Itz.Yuki_.- Před 9 měsíci +2

    ✨💮I needed headphones and used full Volume to Hear your Beautiful Voice☆✧💗

  • @thetradingyogagirl786
    @thetradingyogagirl786 Před rokem +10

    Thank you beautiful!

  • @user-gs4gm3hm1f
    @user-gs4gm3hm1f Před 9 měsíci +2

    I love it

  • @mayfly9319
    @mayfly9319 Před rokem +2

    Thanks

  • @annspirit24
    @annspirit24 Před 11 měsíci

    I learn this to me at myself

  • @aussiemeditation28268
    @aussiemeditation28268 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Two Pastels ❤
    “Sometimes resting in the shade,
    Sometimes resting in the sunshine.
    Meet two pastels, one sun, one moon,
    We all become the light source.
    Observing the two together,
    Hold the Earth closer, Hayren!
    How are they in this paradise?
    Love, your bright face, your dark hair.”

  • @Stormanet1
    @Stormanet1 Před 11 měsíci

    I need this for a future yt channel

  • @eljablo22
    @eljablo22 Před 10 měsíci

    Saw similar ones from an encyclopedia but it goes red lory yellow lory, and she sells seashells by the seashore

  • @communityhealthclinic
    @communityhealthclinic Před 6 měsíci

    ver nice

  • @busahere
    @busahere Před 11 měsíci +1

    Soft

  • @BroAiman7779
    @BroAiman7779 Před rokem

    wowwww take care beautiful...😍😍😍😍

  • @Doll-Angel
    @Doll-Angel Před 11 měsíci

    Can you make video on healthy diet from morning to evening especially we eat in lunch & dinner rice lot + meat ... I love ur video i try but can't continue due to my health & emotions soft heart & im young not that old still feeling im old

  • @supriyasuthar
    @supriyasuthar Před 7 měsíci +2

    I am the only one who is thinking she is uncomfortable inside..toi much hard work

  • @DaddyScarlettC
    @DaddyScarlettC Před 5 měsíci

    Link to full vid

  • @carmenfilip1068
    @carmenfilip1068 Před 8 měsíci +4

    I wish she was my therapist

  • @zenith15496
    @zenith15496 Před 5 měsíci

    As an Asian I can confirm that we speak English in enunciate word, but we think blunt English is more elegant. Thank you for correct our mistake ☺️

    • @noralle
      @noralle Před měsícem

      Well she is also asian actually. She is just etiquette teacher

  • @Sustainablysustainable
    @Sustainablysustainable Před 6 měsíci

    And me being a doctor should speak as loud and clear as possible to be taken seriously 😳
    But trust me in home I’m all lalala

  • @indubhaipatel3945
    @indubhaipatel3945 Před 7 měsíci

    I love watching your video
    You are looking so beautiful

  • @khushijain238
    @khushijain238 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you but How can this works on voice

  • @XO_mehal
    @XO_mehal Před 9 měsíci +10

    How to be slowed + reverb 😂

  • @iana_editz
    @iana_editz Před 10 měsíci +2

    It takes me a long time to speak clearly and if I talk to slow people stop listening to me

  • @FayziyevFirdavs
    @FayziyevFirdavs Před 17 dny

    How about the other tips ? You've mentioned only tip 4. Am I right?

  • @hazel_hehe
    @hazel_hehe Před rokem

    I'm sleepy now

  • @shannongundy6889
    @shannongundy6889 Před 6 měsíci +2

    She sounds annoying though. Like I love her but it feels like she’s trying too hard. I’m not tryna creepy whisper to everyone lol

  • @creative_aayat1111
    @creative_aayat1111 Před rokem

    Mam, my voice is to louder whenever i talk with anyone or over the call people laughed at me .... suggest me something how i cantrol..

  • @nelly1094
    @nelly1094 Před rokem +3

    sally sells SEAshells by the seashore

  • @highaltitude787
    @highaltitude787 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Unintentional ASMR

  • @Gamesmaster613
    @Gamesmaster613 Před rokem

    👍🕍🕍🕍🕍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹👍👍👍

  • @jasminetaylor1206
    @jasminetaylor1206 Před 7 měsíci +1

    it's: She sells sea shells by the sea shore

  • @hautedoctor2738
    @hautedoctor2738 Před 8 měsíci +3

    No offence, but it sounds like you are speaking to a baby. It doesn't sound like a voice for adults.

  • @prateiksharma2864
    @prateiksharma2864 Před 9 měsíci

    I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOU ASMR

  • @sylviagregory3585
    @sylviagregory3585 Před 6 měsíci +3

    It’s eloquent, not elegant

  • @user-yo7zx9fc8w
    @user-yo7zx9fc8w Před 4 měsíci

    You are really like that cute 🥰

  • @heartlyintruder
    @heartlyintruder Před 11 měsíci

    I wonder if she have those balloons I was thinking if they are there or taken away😅

  • @ArmandeepKaur-il2rq
    @ArmandeepKaur-il2rq Před 8 měsíci +4

    Her voice irritate me 😅

  • @Nidakhatun0005
    @Nidakhatun0005 Před 6 měsíci

    She Sells sea shell on the sea shore

  • @P1stachi04life
    @P1stachi04life Před 9 měsíci

    Next video:
    How to breathe soft and elegantly 💖💖💋💋💅💅👄👄💝💝

    • @ambassadorofpixiedust
      @ambassadorofpixiedust Před 7 měsíci

      the most underrated comment

    • @P1stachi04life
      @P1stachi04life Před 5 měsíci

      ​Thanks for the compliment bro .😀
      *Breathes elegantly and drinks my uwu girl water 🌹✨🥰💞

  • @SvobodovaEva
    @SvobodovaEva Před 6 měsíci +1

    You just speak slowly and whisper. It might be elegant but it’s also super boring with no charisma.

  • @lavi1839
    @lavi1839 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sorry but it sounds fake ...and kinda unauthentic

  • @aastha1723
    @aastha1723 Před 6 měsíci

    I speak like her and people talk over me bruh

  • @babytiger5798
    @babytiger5798 Před 10 měsíci

    I just noticed how louder i am

  • @world_breaker86
    @world_breaker86 Před 9 měsíci +2

    That ain't it.

  • @aizazoie
    @aizazoie Před 10 měsíci +3

    Beautiful voice, but definitely not appropriate for talking to clients or if you are in a position to give information to an audience.
    Clients in our office used to complain when secretaries spoke softly and slowly to them, some with hearing problems could not hear them and the solution was to fire them or move them. We should not change our tone of voice to sound "elegant", because if I am honest, this conversation with you did not seem elegant to me, but rather forced and without eloquence.

  • @yousafjutt9979
    @yousafjutt9979 Před rokem

    What's happened to your Instagram?

  • @HeavenlyShorts1
    @HeavenlyShorts1 Před 6 měsíci

    Fact:- 99percent girls are here!!!!

  • @blubblub777
    @blubblub777 Před 10 měsíci

    I have voice like this, but I want to learn to speak american loud and dominant way, like a boss, so everyone around me would feel a bit insecure and small. 😏 Because with my soft voice the other people let me feel small and insecure 😞

  • @gabsl1552
    @gabsl1552 Před 8 měsíci +1

    This is VERY slow.

  • @Mansibisht11
    @Mansibisht11 Před 5 měsíci

    Esko dekh ke aaisa lag rha hn ki yeh ganzi hn

  • @kingnothing007
    @kingnothing007 Před 11 měsíci

    the ASMR voice

  • @watchlater6244
    @watchlater6244 Před 4 měsíci

    If you speak like this in India then you even buy a vegetable here.
    And if you live in India only few weeks you automatically speak rudely and loudly 📢 here. If not then 😂😂😂

  • @Veende_
    @Veende_ Před 8 měsíci +1

    Too much

  • @yasminkarim7405
    @yasminkarim7405 Před 7 měsíci +1

    How does saying red leather yellow leather make you sound more elegant 😂

    • @Grapefruit000
      @Grapefruit000 Před 2 měsíci

      As she said in the video, tongue twisters help you learn how to enunciate your words, allowing you to speak clearly. This can prevent you from having to repeat yourself or raise your voice to compensate. It gives the impression that you know what you are talking about as well, demonstrating confidence. It's not easy or enjoyable to listen to someone mumble or jumble all their words together. Thus, by using tongue twisters, you can learn the first step in engaging your audience: making sure they can hear you properly.

  • @Memi-cp4yc
    @Memi-cp4yc Před 6 měsíci

    You sound sick

  • @TheRealPurpleGuyRobloxianKing

    I am god angels

  • @seraph555
    @seraph555 Před 6 měsíci

    Crap like this hurts women.

  • @jadhavbalasaheb2370
    @jadhavbalasaheb2370 Před 7 měsíci

    Nonsense 🤬

  • @waltergonzalez4890
    @waltergonzalez4890 Před rokem

    Sound like french.🙇

  • @orgnmer5070
    @orgnmer5070 Před rokem

    . . . oo- :) - XXX DDX xD