Ross Rosenberg In 10 Mins: Codependency / Self-Love Deficit Disorder, & The Human Magnet Syndrome

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  • čas přidán 25. 01. 2023
  • This 10-minute video contains three animations produced by Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, to summarize codependency/Self-Love Deficit Disorder, narcissistic abuse, and trauma recovery work.
    Self-Love Deficit Disorder Pyramid:
    Rosenberg reduces his practical and theoretical explanations for his "Codependency Cure™” work, which is the follow-up to his Human Magnet Syndrome books. This mold-breaking information represents the most modern thinking about codependency. "Codependency,” is re-defined and re-conceptualized into “Self-Love Deficit Disorder™," which is a trauma, core shame, pathological loneliness, and addiction disorder.
    Human Magnet Syndrome:
    A compact and concise rendering of The Human Magnet Syndrome book and why it is a life-changing decision to read it.
    The Codependent-Narcissist Dance:
    Representation of the original concept behind Ross's Human Magnet Syndrome books. It all started years ago when he began to talk about how codependent "dancers" need narcissist "dancers" to feel whole and complete in a relationship.
    ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
    Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.
    Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it.
    Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops.
    His global impact is best illustrated by his CZcams channel with 23 million views and 247,000 subscribers, and the sale of 150,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages.
    In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services. Learn more at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com.
    In 2022, Ross Rosenberg created The Self-Love Recovery Podcast, reaching a new audience to discuss important mental-health topics while providing
    resolution and treatment options, recommendations, and resources for
    victims of narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, trauma, and codependency or Self-Love Deficit Disorder™. The podcast is available on all major platforms
    including Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, and iHeartRadio.
    Follow Ross on social media:
    Facebook(@TheCodependencyCure)
    Instagram (@rossrosenberg_slri)
    Twitter (@RossRosenberg1)
    TikTok (@RossRosenberg1)
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Komentáře • 26

  • @RossRosenberg
    @RossRosenberg  Před rokem +9

    Listen to my new podcast! The Self-Love Recovery Podcast: www.selfloverecovery.com/pages/podcast 🎧🎙

    • @user-xb6fl9ri6g
      @user-xb6fl9ri6g Před rokem +1

      Indeed I will, nobody else tackles the problem like this

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 Před rokem +24

    “Not emotionally strong enough to STOP the dance”. Thank you for putting this into words. I couldn’t wrap my brain around why.

  • @eleanorrossano9950
    @eleanorrossano9950 Před rokem +11

    I’m 73 years old. I have been suffering with SLDD since I was five years old when I suffered the worst, but not the first of my childhood traumas. I’ve been to count wants therapists. In the last few months, my “chickens have come home to roost” and manifested in health issues. Out of desperation, I’ve been searching podcast and came across Dr. Rosenberg. I think I may have finally found what will hopefully be a cure for what ails me.

  • @OpDrLaleOktem
    @OpDrLaleOktem Před rokem +11

    Thank you so much for all your work. I am now aware what happened to me . After my new boundaries in 2022 I loosed 85% of my friends and family. But I am now in the beginning of my second life 😊

  • @justjosie8963
    @justjosie8963 Před rokem +16

    Wonderful work, I'm so glad young ones will have this available and heal their lives way sooner than not. I tried therapy many years ago and had not one, but multiple therapists say things like "Well you don't give to get" or other such shaming statements and blame such as "you teach people how to treat you" putting all the responsibility for my unhappiness in various relationships on my proposed selfishness and my inability to deserve respect. It's so great to have eye opening concepts widely available and not be limited to whatever therapist the hmo dragged in. Thank you.

    • @athena3865
      @athena3865 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I am 65. If I had this life to do again, I would stay out of relationships with others.

    • @user-rc2xs5ti2w
      @user-rc2xs5ti2w Před 8 měsíci

      I don’t believe in psychologists as a good professional to consult. I rather instruct myself, so many therapists are quacks or don’t have time enough to update themselves continuously because the advances in this field is almost impossible to keep up with it.

  • @frau_ic
    @frau_ic Před rokem +6

    What to do if e.g. your mother has narcissistic traits and an immense sld, your father overt narcissistic traits, your the only child and looked through it early in your life. Now, at about forty, your whole life seems to be on a constant flight from any dynamics that remind you of this horror dance ballroom. Trusting others and enjoying life instead of just surviving after experiencing that these dynamics seem to be everywhere and still romanticized to the utmost, is so hard.

  • @opencanswithzans
    @opencanswithzans Před rokem +4

    Is it possible to be both? In one relationship the codependent, and in the other the narcissist?

  • @abundancevortex
    @abundancevortex Před rokem +2

    You have helped more than you know or can possibly comprehend. May God/The Universe bless you!❤

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Před 11 měsíci

    Wow! That was Absolutely brilliant! This is the cure and path to follow to resolve the self-love deficit disorder and simultaneously bring more of the healing power of love to the world. Thank you Ross. God bless you❤

  • @LR-yu3mx
    @LR-yu3mx Před rokem +2

    Oh goodness, I have most of my life behind me, but I am a textbook case of a codepended married to a borderline till he passed away.

  • @hemantkulkarni7679
    @hemantkulkarni7679 Před rokem +1

    You have been my saviour 🙌... in 2019.

  • @lookingforsea
    @lookingforsea Před 4 měsíci

    Ross I had this epiphany I can't hold back... You should do a study on SLDD and those who claim to be true christians and how them being too reluctant/fearful to stand up for their beleifs hinder the universe as a whole... I could relate to this... I seem to have SLDD traits.

  • @bshellyful
    @bshellyful Před rokem +2

    I don’t agree with the assumption that codependency in narcissistic relationships automatically stems from childhood trauma with narcissistic parents.
    While I agree that familial narcissism would predispose some of us to narcissistic / codependent dynamics, I also feel that “codependency” patterns can happen for anyone in a relationship with a narcissistic person. Until you understand what you are dealing with.

    • @m.a.g.3920
      @m.a.g.3920 Před 5 měsíci

      Could b whatever Cluster B parents

  • @YouknowWhy87
    @YouknowWhy87 Před rokem

    So glad about this Video

  • @msbonnie37
    @msbonnie37 Před rokem +3

    Does anyone know of a good therapist for working through the original traumas?

  • @Callendergirl6
    @Callendergirl6 Před 6 dny

    When I compare Pia Melody and Terry Real to this, is seems like the Codependent is love avoidant who gives everything and loses self, and the narcissist is a love addict is boundaryless and doesnt know how to take care of themselves

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 Před rokem +1

    Yay….takes awhile, but it works!

  • @user-xo9ez4df7g
    @user-xo9ez4df7g Před 5 měsíci

    How about working for a malignant narcissist?
    How can one deal with them best?

  • @Toadhouse2003
    @Toadhouse2003 Před rokem +1

    Do you ever do seminars or give speeches? I’m in SoCal and would love to here a lecture from you.

    • @RossRosenberg
      @RossRosenberg  Před rokem

      Thank you for your interest. I sell my recorded live lectures at selfloverecovery.com

  • @tanyakashyap6944
    @tanyakashyap6944 Před rokem

    💜❤️💜❤️