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Escaping, But Not Learning: Codependent Threshold Reactors
In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed, LCPC, CADC, discusses Codependent Threshold Reactors as a type of codependent personality characterized by intense emotional reactions and a tendency to overreact to perceived threats or slights. They often have a hair-trigger temper, quickly becoming angry and defensive when their boundaries or needs are unmet. This can lead to explosive outbursts, hurtful words, and damaging behavior. In relationships, Threshold Reactors may become overly attached and clingy, seeking constant validation and reassurance from their partner, which can create a toxic cycle of codependency. A fascinating topic!
ABOUT ROSS ROSENBERG
Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.
Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it. Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest.
In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops. His global impact is best illustrated by his CZcams channel with 28 million views and 285,000 subscribers and the sale of 185,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages. In 2013, Ross created The Self-Love Recovery Institute, a hub for his personal development, workshops, professional training, retreats, other programs, and services.
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Covert Narcissists vs Sociopaths. ASPD vs NPD. A Deep Dive
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, explains the distinct characteristics between covert narcissism and sociopathy. In this deep dive, he elaborates that both disorders involve a degree of manipulation and lack of concern for others, the motivations and behaviors associated with each are different. Covert narcissists seek admiration and validation, whereas sociopaths are driven by...
My New Book: The Codependency Revolution - An Introduction on the Covert Narcissist Podcast
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In Renee Swanson's Covert Narcissism Podcast, I talk about my new book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken." Within this discussion we talked about the magnet-like forces that compel people with self-love deficit disorder/Codependency to fall in love with pathological narcissists (and vice versa). More about the book: shorturl.at/9kc21 To learn more about Renee Swanson:...
Permanently Escape Narcissistic Abuse Through the Self-Love Recovery Technique
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In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, discusses the only effective strategy to permanently escape narcissistic abuse and any potential for repeating it with the next romantic partner. The answer is simple; the explanation makes a whole lot of sense, but the process takes a bit of time. It can be accomplished through Rosenberg's Self-Love Recovery Treatment Method (Program). In the v...
Narcissist Trauma Leakage: What you need to know.
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Narcissist Trauma Leakage: What you need to know.
Trauma’s Role in The Creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) with Riana Milne, MA
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Trauma’s Role in The Creation of Self-Love Deficit Disorder (Codependency) with Riana Milne, MA
YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity
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YOU ARE NOT SUBHUMAN! A Narcissist Stole Your Independence and Integrity
Essential Information: Narcissists, Sociopaths aka Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
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Essential Information: Narcissists, Sociopaths aka Narcissistic & Antisocial Personality Disorders
Narcissists Are Afraid of Aging And Dying. They Pretend to Change
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Narcissists Are Afraid of Aging And Dying. They Pretend to Change
Beware of Bait and Switch: How Narcissist Deceive
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Beware of Bait and Switch: How Narcissist Deceive
Trauma Recovery / The Adult Chair Program. Michelle Chalfant
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Trauma Recovery / The Adult Chair Program. Michelle Chalfant
Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo #codependency #narcissist
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Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo #codependency #narcissist
Managing Expectations: Calculating & Preparing for Logical Outcomes. Observe Don't Absorb
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Managing Expectations: Calculating & Preparing for Logical Outcomes. Observe Don't Absorb
Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo
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Observe Don't Absorb #shorts #shortvideo
Perfect Love Isn't Real. Beware of Drug Happiness
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Perfect Love Isn't Real. Beware of Drug Happiness
Love Bombing, Induced Conversation, Observe Don't Absorb. Terri Cole's Podcast
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Love Bombing, Induced Conversation, Observe Don't Absorb. Terri Cole's Podcast
Resolving Trauma & Core Shame Cures Codependency / Self-Love Deficit Disorder
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Resolving Trauma & Core Shame Cures Codependency / Self-Love Deficit Disorder
Ego "Amputated" Narcissists & Emotional "Prostheses" Codependents
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Ego "Amputated" Narcissists & Emotional "Prostheses" Codependents
Pathological Loneliness: The Concept That Revolutionized The Codependency Field
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Pathological Loneliness: The Concept That Revolutionized The Codependency Field
Relationship Math: The Sum of Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
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Relationship Math: The Sum of Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
Covert Narcissism - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
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Covert Narcissism - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
From Covert Narcissism Victim to Podcast Renown Host - Renee Swanson's Journey
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From Covert Narcissism Victim to Podcast Renown Host - Renee Swanson's Journey
High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries
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High Conflict Relationships: Self-Love Deficit, Delusions & Boundaries
Worst Case Scenario - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
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Worst Case Scenario - Q&A with Ross Rosenberg
"Worst Case Scenario Technique" May Save Your Life
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"Worst Case Scenario Technique" May Save Your Life
Escaping Core Shame. Self-Love Abundance is the Cure!
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Escaping Core Shame. Self-Love Abundance is the Cure!
Gaslighting - A Severe Mental Health Condition
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Gaslighting - A Severe Mental Health Condition
Gaslighting By What Is NOT Said. Invisible Gaslighters.
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Gaslighting By What Is NOT Said. Invisible Gaslighters.
''Trigometer'' Childhood Trauma Warning System - Fast & Automatic
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''Trigometer'' Childhood Trauma Warning System - Fast & Automatic
Narcissists and Icebergs: What You Don't See WILL Hurt You!
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Narcissists and Icebergs: What You Don't See WILL Hurt You!

Komentáře

  • @ArtiviaReid
    @ArtiviaReid Před 5 hodinami

    Yes indeed. They literally are empty. They clearly love drama. And are bored with life. So you will just give them enjoyment to target you 😊 don't fight with pig's. Please walk away ❤❤❤

  • @Granite4
    @Granite4 Před 12 hodinami

    They will destroy you. Get physical evidence call a lawyer freeze assets and serve the thing. Never look back. No speak. Zip. Trust me. 12 years of agony because I shot my mouth off. I was stunned and out of control. My weakness. Please don’t give yourself away!!

  • @user-ld5xr8km9d
    @user-ld5xr8km9d Před 16 hodinami

    (FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Children Ollwaves Set Us Up Unintentionally to make us feel the Exact Same way that wee have been making them feel They r a mirror focus on what eu can do differently to change the way that eu now knoe that eu r making them feel instead of asking the Reflection in the mirror to change

  • @jgboys1
    @jgboys1 Před 18 hodinami

    I always worry if I have narcissistic tendencies but as I get older I’m not afraid of getting old or dying, so I hope that means I’m not a narcissistic.

  • @jxflem5588
    @jxflem5588 Před 18 hodinami

    Haha stop! Sigma empathy knows ahead. Around it all the time.the mind game play it’s fun know your limits.stay strong always

  • @lonesurrrviv0r364
    @lonesurrrviv0r364 Před 18 hodinami

    I Found this video a couple days to late 🙄 so for it's thé calm before thé storm then..... Altho i feel she admitted it whithout really admitting it.... Anyway i'm down to wrestl if needed.... She allready crushed my selfworth,,and made sure thé gullable, Loving empathic me is a shadow of who i was..... There is noting worse then feeling like you are noting and worthless .... I Kn'ew it for a while but i could not accept it ,. I gave her every bit of love i had to give and she gave me rhis in return ... When you feel like you are totally defeated but she felt it wasn't enough.... She should have stopped while she was Agead cus now there is nothing left not a single feeling or emotion,only hate and cold rage ..... She will' see what she made of me and she Will regret ever have Picked me for her sic'k game

  • @warriorforchristscarlet3623
    @warriorforchristscarlet3623 Před 19 hodinami

    1 Peter 5:8 "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour."

  • @marionclark
    @marionclark Před dnem

    Thank you!

  • @jesusacruz8165
    @jesusacruz8165 Před dnem

    37 years stay that long .im the one thinking how can we provide for our kids .i feel so alone no choice but to raise my kids because nobody can count on .my ex narc dont know how to earn money by his own .i thought hes just weak but i realized he never existed and no brain at all. God gave me the way to go out but i let my kids to grow up and became adult .now i walk away .im happy i did it .thank you Lord

  • @evilcuteness8194
    @evilcuteness8194 Před dnem

    I'm so glad you're talking about this.

  • @mrslgarcia
    @mrslgarcia Před dnem

    why dont the courts recognize this their is to much emotional damage why do they get awsy with it

  • @hcwoolfgmailcom
    @hcwoolfgmailcom Před dnem

    Holy moley! I understand this on so many levels that I'm going to have to listen to this many times over a period of time!

  • @debbiewoida542
    @debbiewoida542 Před dnem

    I've found most Narcs aren't smart, as in intelligent, but they are extremely cunning, like Rats.

  • @melodysanquist4834

    Take them on? I didn’t have too. My character vs their character, past and present speaks for itself.

  • @indyd9322
    @indyd9322 Před dnem

    Lots of good points here. However, there can be many reasons why people stay in these problematic relationships. Maybe from the outside, it looks like they just don't have enough self-love or self-respect, but there can be complex factors in play. Maybe the "co-dependent" is financially dependent, or has a medical problem and is care-dependent, or their culture frowns on divorce, or trying to leave the partner could expose them to greater physical, emotional or financial abuse, or loss of time with their children in a custody battle. Of course self-love is absolutely worth cultivating, but sometimes people find themselves in tough situations, and are picking the perceived lesser of two evils for the time being.

  • @ddc9817
    @ddc9817 Před dnem

    Yeah, and when that person is your dad… 😬

  • @Notmytoe
    @Notmytoe Před dnem

    There is a lot of weird push back in society against us learning to understand them. Several years ago, it was "Focus on yourself, not them. You're deflecting." Now, it is more like "Narcissism is an overused term, only 5% of people have NPD, so your abuser isn't a narcissist." All to shut down victims and try to get them to stop from learning. But I will say that I'm glad that I did not listen to all those people. Understanding them was really one of the first steps in healing, for me. There is so much gaslighting and brainwashing in narcissistic abuse that to regain control of your own mind, it helps a lot to understand them. That way you can undo all the manipulations and move on.

  • @alessandradevitofrancesco9819

    why is there so much ignorance about the way they can be dangerous and thirsty of revenge in the forensic sector? in Italy where I live I am living through hell cause my mother has legal right to literally sue us for visitation rights and she wants to manipulate our daughter against us. Funny enough it is us to prove she is not fit. She has an incurable cancer and this has been the perfect storm for her to have nothing to lose anymore and to escalate her final destruction. She is destroying us financially, emotionally and setting our marriage at risk for the pressure. Yet she appears as the poor old lady, sick, who has been abandoned by her ungrateful daughter and the future of my daughter is in the hands of whatever judge we will find and whatever mentality he might have. I am not living anymore.

  • @FrederiqueBertin
    @FrederiqueBertin Před 2 dny

    Those who are closer to aliveness face a huge problem into this society , they are full time busy with life into an environment full time busy on economic matters so of course those closer to aliveness will be more incline to associate with a partner who is able to deal with economic so they can go on being busy on life .

  • @FrederiqueBertin
    @FrederiqueBertin Před 2 dny

    Once the child is in trust with life , none of any illusions will lead him .

  • @klauschwabznmoeder
    @klauschwabznmoeder Před 2 dny

    Keep in mind :this is a Jew-ish coc-ksuc-ker.

  • @klauschwabznmoeder
    @klauschwabznmoeder Před 2 dny

    JEW💩💩

  • @kaystephens2672
    @kaystephens2672 Před 2 dny

    My mother labeled me as a liar when I was 5. I could never convince her that I wasn’t my whole life. Some people are not worth your life. No matter what. I remember the neurosis of this terrifying woman, the bizarre rages and hysterical passive aggressive behaviors. She was a classic hysterical woman who fooled everybody. But me. It’s a miracle I survived her and her family. They only care about money and keeping it for themselves at any cost to you.

  • @theStacyJames
    @theStacyJames Před 2 dny

    I think we're probably ALL narcissistic in the social media age. I haven't met a Woman since 2004 that isn't a perfect example of this definition. Psychologically damaged, projecting it all onto the world, in denial, self-absorbed, liars, codependent, doesn't want to change, wants to make it look like she's trying to change when she's really just seeking back slapping validation, and that everyone owes them, being controlling of others while accusing me of being controlling. That's every Woman I've ever met.

  • @withchza
    @withchza Před 2 dny

    I didn't even know this was a thing until a year ago. Ironically, it was my wife talking about Jada Smith and her narcissism that clued me in. My wife talking about Jada being a narc helped me realize that my wife was a covert narcissist! Lol, she's responsible for cluing me into her behavior! Unfortunately, we've been married almost 27 years so the damage is way past done to the marriage, and to our children. This hidden demon has destroyed my sons also. And be very careful of the ones in churches, they are THE WORST!

  • @withchza
    @withchza Před 2 dny

    I wish I knew about this 58 years ago. I'm 58 y.o. was raised by one, and now I'm married to one. Trying to slip out, but she knows I know. Of course she denies it, and even screamed at me that "covert narcissists don't even exist!" She's a nurse (derm) so she is the expert. I guess the DSM (and all those experts) must be lying about it.... I made the mistake of letting her know about the divorce and she is slowly trying to make it hard for me. Fortunately, CVs are notoriously impatient, so she has already made many legal errors hiring a lawyer and trying to hide assets. Starting my recovery at 58 is hard, but better than never! Good luck with the rest of you! stay safe!

  • @PBXVIILY
    @PBXVIILY Před 2 dny

    Not because they are liars? The Narcissist are the biggest liars. Thats a fact. Their whole life is a lie.

  • @alicefarley1149
    @alicefarley1149 Před 2 dny

    It took me over 5 yrs to exit and he has since died. After he died, other people who stood to gain, stepped up to take his place (my daughter) So, I am still dealing with his remnants. I lost a lot and my daughter is still steeling from me, picking up where he left off. God has this, I put it is in His Hands. His plan is better than mine.

  • @JillLandrum
    @JillLandrum Před 3 dny

    😮OMG: This IS Soo So Soo ME: Head On The Nail 4 SURE 4 ME😮 WOAH!!!!

  • @IDna_doo
    @IDna_doo Před 3 dny

    It's week after I clearly found out my mom is a covert narcissist, and reason why I suffered 24 year 😂 now making a plan to go away, and be on my own.

  • @HearTruth
    @HearTruth Před 3 dny

    funny you description says unmasking and so Covid Covert the Narc ( as in pharmacy) and face mask spells fake scam

  • @AliceQuinnRose
    @AliceQuinnRose Před 3 dny

    Is a narcissistic injury where someone confronts you and you become scared they’re going to abandon you and hurt you and demonise you and make everybody hate you SO. You feel like you need to defend yourself and just sort of escape as quickly as possible until they forgotten about the whole thing. Cos it’s just too much to manage and you wish you had the social skills to manage it. But you’re just so scared

  • @Grindstaff09
    @Grindstaff09 Před 3 dny

    The Narcissist DOES know

  • @Sheri-sb1yr
    @Sheri-sb1yr Před 3 dny

    Its a LOST CAUSE....the sad part is they breed more, and the demonic parasite can not be extracted.

  • @achemicalprometheus5587

    Are you going to do a Collab with Dr Jordan Peterson at some point?

  • @user-ur3ke6nx9b
    @user-ur3ke6nx9b Před 3 dny

    Oh My God please dave me. My work place is full of cobert Narcicist

  • @JKDVIPER
    @JKDVIPER Před 3 dny

    3:40 I thought of this today, they seem to want you to feel bad for how they treat you. It’s so weird. 😂❤

  • @incognito595
    @incognito595 Před 3 dny

    THEY ARE E V I L. NARC RAGE EQUALS OVERT LEGAL INSANITY. BE PREPARED. YOU WILL SEE THE DEMON FROM THE BIBLE. DARKNESS SUCH AS YOU WILL NOT BELIEVE YOUR EYES AND EARS. YOU MAY HAVE TO BE, LIKE ME, ESSENTIALLY HEAVILY SEDATED AFTER BEING EXPOSED TO THIS "THING." IT WILL SHOCK YOU TO YOUR CORE. THAT IS THE DEMON FROM THE EXORCIST(1972 MOVIE). LOOK IT UP. I AM DEADLY SERIOUS.

  • @jimmycruz1504
    @jimmycruz1504 Před 3 dny

    I destroyed her ego but not on purpose, it was my natural instinct, all she could do is a smear campaign that only hurt herself.

  • @halfpintpuppets
    @halfpintpuppets Před 3 dny

    I wasn't afraid to tell the truth about my narcissistic husband, I wasn't afraid to be alone and without him, for sure. I was afraid he would turn our three kids into him, and when I did finally leave, when the kids were older... It happened. I've never been talked to by anyone so terribly as my young adult kids talk to me. They're all suffering, as well. They all are in pain. I wish I knew what to do to help them. I think about exposing his coercive abuse to the kids so they can get help and know that they are decent humans. I'm really in pain every day thinking about their pain.

  • @KarenAnthony-ms7pf
    @KarenAnthony-ms7pf Před 3 dny

    This is very relevant for daughters and mothers. I have to get a grip. Crying and nauseous simultaneously. Rough.

  • @padmajayedla1729
    @padmajayedla1729 Před 4 dny

    Thankyou

  • @marklowe5939
    @marklowe5939 Před 4 dny

    So for men, we need to turn to porn or prostitution…. Because women down want to have sex with their husbands…. Ladies just know you’re gonna end alone.

  • @marklowe5939
    @marklowe5939 Před 4 dny

    So the man should accept no sex!? I think you guys are feeding a narcissist ammo to excuse withholding sex from their spouse?

  • @L0U1SE
    @L0U1SE Před 4 dny

    My husband called out his ex wife. She turned his kids against him and made out he was dangerous for them and she was their loving parent

  • @user-oq9kb5oi5f
    @user-oq9kb5oi5f Před 4 dny

    Thank you

  • @maryw4609
    @maryw4609 Před 4 dny

    My destructive son in law 😢

  • @ezekieljeremiah8575

    I cannot find your book named codependency or the other title self love deficit.....? I mean it's not available on Audible. The Human Magnet is along with other titles. All this talk about self love and I can't seem to find any content on how this is achieved or worked on. Only how we are deficient in love and need it. Very interested in an audio book helping with the process if I could ever find one. If Anyone has a recommendation I would very much appreciate it.

  • @Clevelandsteamer324

    Lack of empathy.

  • @LastMinuteMinistry
    @LastMinuteMinistry Před 4 dny

    I say it’s about time we stop accepting terrible behavior no matter what you want to call it. We all need to be kind and considerate to each other. That needs to be the norm not the current system.