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I'm almost there, but whenever I've tried the entire day to be myself, witty, loud, unapologetic, bold, taunting and stuff, at the end of the day when I'm in bed, everything starts flowing, making me feel too small and like where am i aiming to go with all this, after pushing everyone, acting against everyone, being myself, how will i pave my way out in real world with people and relationships that i know, if i don't get approvals. Because in real world, and with close relationships, there's a lot you need to think and act accordingly about, else you'll be ostracized in some way or hurt someone badly in the process of finding your way. But everyone at some point in their life needs connection so getting that validation becomes important. (Ex: your parents almost everyday taunting you that you're not doing good enough for them. Others trying to pull you to places and then when you don't show up according to their plan, they get pissed for life. Others when you behave some kind of a way that person didn't think you would, they become scared or disappointed.)
Hello Julien: Jesus Christ paid the fine on the cross for your sins and desires a personal relationship with you. But you must repent of your sin and ask God to be your Lord & Savior. By repenting, I mean not living a sinful, wordly lifestyle but instead living according to God's Word.
Hope to see you again soon!
I have social anxiety, but I am very outspoken at the same time I don't know what triggers it to make me feel imprisoned in my head but like some places I feel comfortable, and I can be out spooked and other places I get this sudden urge of people just looking or watching me,amd i start to freak out in my head. and I am a over weight guy who is working on my weight I've lost 100 lbs but I need to keep going but I feel people judge me because of it and so it causes me to be self conscious
Well done! It's a hell of an achievement to drop 100lbs. Anyone who can accomplish that doesn't need the approval or validation of narrow -minded people.
- People are gonna forget about you in 2 minutes
- only your ego cares, no one else does
- the voice in your head is just a stranger so who cares what strangers say
- confidence comes from subtracting whats blocking you, not adding some magical power
- who's permission are you waiting for
great points here
I mean, you sure bout the first point?
People, including myself, remember embarrassing situations years later. I doubt people forget in 2mins.
@@jd3990 yeah but they won't really care enough to conciously think of it. It's not like they go "Oh shit let me think of thay guy who did this thing yeats ago" while they are eating their breakfast.
In some cases they will, BUT it only happens when they start by thinking of themselves. Like "I am planning to do this. Oh this is similar to this thing. Which brings me back a memory of this guy that did this".
No one conciously and willingly try to think of you as a main topic. Only if they go offroad from what the main topic came from is only when they start to remember things you did years ago
Living in a self imposed prison distorts reality. What happens when billions of people are distorting reality by living as false selves? Suffering. It's all gaslighting, undercurrents of confusion, distrust, insecurity.. chipping away at our confidence, belittling our existence. Being a genuinely sovereign, free individual is the greatest gift one can give to themselves and to the world. It's worth striving for every moment of every day for the rest of my life. Thank you for the reminder, Julien.
When you save and pay for your own books at home and certifications it helps you avoid delegating your plans to the powers that be, planning by time / yr / day / hr Is importante, all successful people do that.
Schools are at fault
Lies only looks matter
I agree with but a self imposed prison distorts reality can be justified
@@gamtoszinios1336 this is false
Zack is such a cute, attractive, and humble guy! Seems like an interesting person (that’s my impression just after watching this video) Also, his shyness here is relatable. In my opinion he’s brave and real (admitting he’s nervous etc.)You’re more than good enough, hopefully you’ll believe that one day! 💯Thanks Julien for sharing this🤍I enjoy your channel. Love from girl in Norway
Yea, he seems like a great guy who has gone through the trauma of not being excepted because he’s different, and God knows what else. I think it’s deeper for him than just being nervous. He’s been nervous most of his life.
I have social anxiety because I feel people would judge the way I speak and can’t think of the right words or phrases on the dime. And English is my first language.
What so scary about people judging you your still gonna be your regardless if they judge you or not
Definitely been there before brother. What thoughts and feelings do you have when you fear that judgement coming on?
Can you contact me, to change ideas about that?
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 would you like to give us some insights about Yr journey there, like how you succeed letting go of that judgment zone?
same its like im locked up inside its ridiculous
My biggest fear is being awkward! The thought of it holds me back
Embrace the awkwardness! :) Often times awkward moments can become very cute, but only if you are not in resistance to what is.
Yes! And for me also not knowing what to say next my mind goes blank!
This guy is so underrated I swear
well he has officially the title of most hated man in the word so idk bout that
Overrated? Make people scream and rank if they scream good.
@wijny4222 really ? Lol is there a video on it . The stuff he says is true tho
He used to sexually harass women on camera and hasn't changed since. He just rebranded. His new form of abuse is to single out and humiliate his audience members in the name of making an example out of them. Definitely not underrated.
@@jarjarwinks7034 he's trying to get them uncomfortable from what I see in order to expand their comfort zone
I just LOVE how he wears whatever he wants and does not care what anyone think!!!
What would you wear if you didn't care what others thought? :)
@erunarmo baggy blue jeans, stripped tiger shirt, white airforce and black shades to a funeral
Dude that outfit looks to uncomfortable 😂
@@erunarmo nothing 😂
he is able to talk his mind even in this pressure congrats man!
Big accomplishment for sure!
It's a room with maybe 20 people. He's a real Billy Graham 😂
9:27 - 10:09 XD I love how you question people's limiting beliefs while making their beliefs sound funny and unhelpful.
Oh, yeah... Everyone should learn how to call out their own limiting beliefs! 👌
Your videos have been helping me so much. I've never seen a self help person be so real and get down to the root of the issue. I went to a concert the other day and old me would've said hi to two of my friends there briefly but only talk to the other two good friend I had there. The 5th person I know there is really cool and I secretly thought I'd just bother her and probably was secretly annoyed with me.
Well, I made sure to strike up a conversation with all 5 friends and the one I thought probably didn't like me gave me a big hug and we had a really nice conversation.
No self help person has ever helped me come out of my shell like that before. I'm trying really hard to feel relaxed and let go of my fear rather than push through it.
This was so beautiful it made me cry. Zack was the example of so many people supressing themselves. I loved this session. Thank you Zack and Julien❤
My drunk uncle giving me life advice after my first break up:
I recently found you on tiktok and now on youtube. Yesterday i watched a video where you helpt a man named mathias and it made me feel sad bc i could relate. I dont have people that get me so watching this helps me to understand meself and it feels great to see that im not alone and that there are people who get me❤ thank you!!!
You're so welcome! Never forget... What's most personal is most universal! 🙏
Honestly I'm Someone with cptsd and severe emotional trauma due to neglect, abuse, bullying by my parents and classmates.. this is definitely what i wanted. Julien you always have the perfect timing and your content changed my entire life and helped me resolve tons of trauma in the past months.❤ Sending loads of love and compassion to Zack.
Good to hear your on the mend brother. Sending love your way :)
What an amazing spiritual awakening here. Sometimes, we all just need a little push in life to be the best we can be.
I don't know why I was expecting after "Zack, who are you?" -- "I am.... Batman" 😂
I was at this event in Brooklyn, it was great. I recommend anyone to attend one of these lectures.
Thanks for making it out in person! 🙌
Great video as always!
I just love your work and your Videos!! Thank you so so much!
good video Julian, I liked some of the added humor too, informative and entertaining.
Thank you julien. For you being you. You are incredible
Thanks for this gem 💎 Lots of love from India 🇮🇳
You're welcome! 🔥👊
Zach is a legend! Some minutes in and I like this man already!
Yes, MASSIVE respect to him! 🙌
You are one of my favourite people in the world! Stay safe and stay healthy. I wish you live a beautiful and fulfilling life!
Thank you! I'm glad my content resonates so deeply with you! 🙏
This is all created once you first start school and realize if you dont act a certain way or do certain things that you wont fit in and you'll be bullied, beat up, picked on all sorts of things and how you respond after those moments is who you end up becoming.
julien make one video on - i feel confident around uderconfident people but i get very uncomfortable and stifled and cant speak a word around people who are confident and they always takes my spotlight and i am shadowed and disappeared , i hope you understand
The underlying fear is that we think were going to die if we get rejected, negatively judged, mocked/laughed at, etc. So when Julien says face fears bluff it’s because you need to let the body discharge all the pent up energy that you are resisting to release Aka Letting go, and to prove to yourself that you’re actually safe and didn’t die by triggering these suppressed aspects of yourself or supposedly “fears” we have. 🤯
Hii, I'm from India Julien. Your videos are really helping me a lot. Thank You So Much Sir for helping people like me around the world. Just wanted to meet you one time in my life.
I love these breakdowns , ❤
Thanks a ton
- 00:00 😶 People struggle to scream loudly despite claiming free will.
- 00:17 🛑 Acknowledgement of being trapped and lacking free will.
- 00:41 💡 Free will is limited to comfort zones; everyone is a slave to their comfort.
- 01:25 🔒 Comfort zones restrict expression, health, success, money, and relationships.
- 01:39 👫 Comfort zones affect social interactions, especially with perceived superiors.
- 02:19 🔎 Awareness: The realization that self-imposed limits are the main obstacles.
- 03:36 🗣 Self-sabotage: Admitting self-restriction in expression.
- 04:19 🤝 Vibing requires feeling safe, similar to children's need for safety to play.
- 05:01 🤔 Self-awareness: Questioning why we feel stifled in certain social situations.
- 06:09 📸 Zach identifies fear of judgment and being in the spotlight.
- 07:31 🎭 Identifying internal triggers from external situations.
- 08:41 😟 Zach admits fear of not being seen as good enough.
- 10:05 🧠 Challenge beliefs: Comparing expectations for oneself versus others.
- 12:01 📝 Self-audit: Essential for understanding and challenging limiting beliefs.
- 12:34 💡 Realizing the necessity of uncomfortable self-audits for change.
- 13:23 👏 Encouragement: Participants support Zach in confronting his fears.
- 15:09 🌟 Unrealistic self-criticism: Zach’s harsh self-judgment lacks external validation.
- 16:31 🤝 Respect: Participants respect Zach’s courage to face his fears publicly.
- 18:07 😂 Facing fear: Mock laughter shows the worst fear isn’t as bad as imagined.
- 20:14 🎓 Following orders: The participant discusses how growing up with the mentality of being a good student by keeping his head down led to current struggles.
- 21:00 ❌ Questioning strategy: Julian challenges the participant's belief that his past strategy was effective, pointing out its limitations.
- 21:26 📉 Ego and reputation: Julian explains that concern about reputation is driven by ego and that most people don’t care as much as one might think.
- 22:01 🌐 Competing online: Emphasizes that people are more distracted by the internet than focused on others, reducing personal anxiety about attention.
- 23:00 😱 Fear of expression: The participant admits he’s scared of screaming loudly, revealing a deeper fear of self-expression.
- 24:03 🔬 Curiosity and fear: Julian points out that natural curiosity about oneself is often suppressed by fear.
- 25:27 🎤 Screaming exercise: The participant is encouraged to scream louder each time to break through his fear of being loud and noticed.
- 26:02 🌟 Seeking confidence: The participant expresses his need for confidence, and Julian explores where he lost it.
- 26:38 📚 Bookworm stigma: The participant shares he was considered weird in school for his interests in literature and chess.
- 28:01 💫 Personal power: The participant is prompted to shout, “The magic’s always inside of you,” to empower and assert himself.
- 29:02 🎭 Hero version: Julian encourages everyone to embody their ideal selves instead of fantasizing about it.
- 32:34 🚫 Self-imposed barriers: Highlights how self-imposed barriers prevent personal growth and confidence.
- 34:57 🧠 Inner work: Emphasizes the importance of introspection and releasing conditioning for permanent change.
- 35:51 🌱 Momentary wins: Celebrates small victories as proof that personal growth is possible.
- 37:23 📺 Digital distractions: The participant admits to watching CZcams instead of reading recently, indicating a shift in habits.
Damn the fact you took the time to write all of this out and put a timestamp to each!
So Much Fucking Respect and Appreciation to You!!!
💖💎🙌∞
dang that was so detailed!! ❤❤❤❤
Woww
@@superwebsitehero7261it’s from an AI video time stamp generator.
Chat gpt
cool guy, this Zack! Congrats!
Yes, MASSIVE respect to him! 🔥🙌
@@JulienHimselfgreat work 👍
Julien thanks for being you and bringing them minds back to Reality, Your doing gods work.🤟
Introverts worse nightmare.
I was thinking the same that this guy was reading porn instead of literature. I think julien is very intuitive and a sensitive person too.❤❤
This is literal gold man
Great video this hits the heart
Amen brother 🙏
It's funny how he can't see how courageous he is just by being there. Not sure I could pull this off one bit.
Big time - mad respect ❤
Give yourself more credit. He did about as bad as possible and look how it wasn't all that bad.
You can do it!
13:42 :) You totally could, you just never did it before so you never had the opportunity to prove it to yourself. Of course, it's overwhelming at first, it takes courage. But once you actually did it, your comfort zone has expanded. And that feeling is amazing!
Well what do we do when the things we fear actually happens. The reason we believe in those things is bc they happened in the past.
The point is our on inner thoughts are significant to how we act and when we let the external dictate our inner selves without question we became a slave to whatever we believe the societal/external consensus is.
I loved the attendees laughing. I laughed along!
I was a very roudy kid that ended up getting kicked out of his preschool. Somehow my next kindergarten school allowed was somehow able to mnage me for 1-2 years. All of a sudden I became very shy and quiet in elementary school starting first grade.
Was it all because of social conditioning I wonder?
Even now how do I draw the line between socially appropriate actions vs letting my intrusive actions get the best of me. In my head/my world in kindergarten, I was more my genuine self because I thought it was MY world.
But growing up, reality check sets in and I am actually living in a world full of many other clashing realities.
I think my actions now is still genuine to the degree that I only choose to do what consequences I can tolerate. Can’t be stomping my foot on the table and shouting, else I’ll be fired from my workplace. I genuinely want to work there more than I genuinely want to let loose and act out.
I wonder what your take on this is Julian.
Really really helpful❤
***'We are more often frightened than hurt; and we suffer more from imagination than from reality.' - Lucius Annaeus Seneca***
Sometimes I can be confident, and others a complete disaster.
I have a problem with women cashiers...They make me feel so nervous, this doesn't happen when it's a man at the checkouts...I guess this has something to do with the fact that I've been yelled at many times by women in my life, me, being a quiet kid never understood why they always used me as an example to make others feel fear....Not only I stutter and become clumsy, but I also blush everytime I start feeling nervous. Does anyone else go through the same ??
"what are the beliefs? what are the assumptions? where did they come from? why do i believe this? whats scary about questioning or challenging this, whats scary about letting go of this, and that is how you free yourself"
just a clip could be helpful to the questioning part.
12:10
Oh poor Zach. I feel nervous and uncomfortable for him! 😂 Seems like such a good guy though! I’d totally hang out with you buddy. No need to feel so nervous, I accept you for who you are.
Julian u are great I love your work, you are an amazing person
haha loved it ❤ the ending was perfect
29:00 this!! superbly well explained: fishing for micro-proofs of approval from others to be oneself. The "inner voice" has a counterargument though: if you don't care at all of what others say, then you'll end up doing/saying unethical things. So you can't completely be free. What do you answer to that?
Zach handled it well... totally felt for him ❤️
Breaking thru being a donkey, bust up people's fears and anxiety, keep being a donkey....be fearless people ✨️ 💪 ❤
The audience is very good , they weren't scared to say i agree with him and be the first one to share their opinion,
I commented before I watched the whole thing
I respect him
What an amazing video this youtuber is fucking awesome it gives me hope people lile this go around helping others so much
bohemian Julian 🔥
🔥👊
Seeing these videos makes me realize how much we downgrade ourselves!!
Zach is absolutely beautiful and I'd definitely wanna talk to him if around!❤ And I'm 100% sure I won't be saying the same about myself was I in his spot
This guy is brilliant
Yeah I’ve wanted to gain confidence and let go of social anxiety. Defining it as letting go instead of things I need to enhance myself definitely changes things. I love how he came up with the p star name so fast 😂😂😂
But the reason this dude is shy is because he have passed a narcissist obedience training. It's when everything is wrong about you and every behavior was punished with reaction every time. Just like a dog training. School is a perfect place where it is happening. And if you afraid of that treatment - you'll compete for joining the narcissist as a minion. Classic
Yes! I sense the same thing.
@@brip7186 I assume you were forced to go to school everyday same as me))
The worst case scenario that bothers me is they thinking that I'm going crazy or insane and that's making my mind goes blank and i dont even know what to do and how to act normally when this scenario pops up in my mind.
This all assumes that the problem is merely the way you think. When this is not always the case. That fight or flight response that happens when public speaking for instance is worse in some people. Which is why it’s easier when they drink alcohol to do that. Most peoples heart doesn’t pound so fast it feels like it’s going to explode when they are speaking in public. It’s not all in your mind is the point. Maybe for some but not for all.
Lol funny thing is, i paused the video to surf around abit and when i got back Julien said "people are on different tabs" very true!
This was fun but what I really want to know is where you bought that blue & orange batik robe! I might need one.
The video just ended and now I forgot about him an am googling Haley Rider. Thanks Zack
This is a pretty cool one that I've seen. It's almost as if Julian is the playable character who takes NPCs and recodes them to be playable characters.
This also impacts me in the way that I believe about things, that is reality. This is what just came to me. Jesus talks about a scenario of when you get the house clean from a demon. It needs to be filled otherwise when the demon comes back, it'll come back with worse ones than it. It's always been taught that way, so I need to fill the house. Here it is: Well being one in Christ, God has already filled me and there is no more room. So having to deal with "demons" coming out, reality is the wholeness of being filled is already there. Because everything is already complete, but not yet. That's why God and I have to get them out. But I'm already filled when they get out, if I believe.
Also, being a slave reminds me of Paul The apostle talks about in Romans either a slave to the natural of sin or slave to God of righteousness.
The screaming thing is actually ain't that easy btw.
Try it yourself and most of you won't be able to scream fast. We are all acting instead of being ourselves.
In Asia, no one will forget you until you doe
No idea who this is but i love his fashion sense
your personality is not the problem its a lack of knowledge and first hand experience
keep in mind that your brain trust experience more than knowledge and baby steps toward doing something can migate delusion of your logic caused by emotion
I feel bad that people are laughing at Zac as he is put on the spot light!
i believe i am the way that i am because of my mother, and i still live with her. can i "heal" or "let go" or whatever, while still living here, taking her abuse?
Honestly i dont believe i have the right to give any advice here, but Julien said this in the video:
"Its this person who did this messed up thing, but its you who's abusing yourself over it"
Not exactly the words but pretty much it.
Powerful 🔥
You doing great work, but I’m always distracted by those crazy clothings
I feel like I’m just doing or saying something wrong. Like my “being” is my wrong. So I’m always on edge of being judged and I hyper fixate on doing everything “right” from the way I’m standing and sitting to the way I speak. It makes me so neurotic. But it’s so automatic, I don’t know how to change that.
Thanks for sharing this man. How far back does your 'being is wrong' go for you?
@@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 I’d probably say since high school. While I wasn’t picked on really, I didn’t have many friends. I was always the third wheel, the tag along, the guy without a gf. I was the wallflower, the lowest guy in the group, the butt of the jokes. So I always did this to try to impress people and made a fool of myself. So I started fawning to gain approval. This continued in the military. I joined to make myself proud of myself and to prove I can be “that guy”, but my treatment continued, and actually got even worse. I was treated like garbage and always the butt of every joke. Still didn’t get a gf. Because of these bad experiences I always felt like I needed to hide my military service or that I don’t deserve it. What makes it worse is that because I didn’t go overseas I have people still to this day telling me I’m not a real veteran or just dismissing my service completely.
Since I got out of the military, life hasn’t really gotten better. I started looking online for a long distance gf because I couldn’t get on in rl. I met a lot of girls and I eventually did date one and she was a beautiful girl from England, we did video chat and everything. But she was emotionally abusive to me and treated me like crap. I became an alcoholic, suffered from a pornography addiction and didn’t have a job for years. I paid for my own place with the GI bill while I went to college.
I’m 32 now. Still never had a REAL gf. Had a few jobs but nothing sticks because I don’t fit in a lot of places and I’m socially awkward due to low self esteem. I’m 5 ft 2 so that plays in to my self esteem and why u believe I’ve always been treated differently. Maybe it’s an excuse though, I don’t know. No matter what I do in life I always get treated the same. This “growth” that people talk about in life, I haven’t experienced it. I hear stories of people accomplishing amazing things and I just think that I struggle with basic life stuff.
I recently moved to a different state for a fresh start, kept a job for 7 months, we got a new supervisor who didn’t like me and made my life a living hell and she wore me down until I called in sick and then she fired me.
Now I’m jobless, living with a family member, started drinking again, thousands in debt, still no gf. I truly don’t understand why I suffer so much in life. I drink because it’s too painful to be sober. It’s painful just being me. This shows in my body language when I interact with people. It’s a catch 22. I need good experiences to be validated, but in order to have those good experiences, I need to have the confidence and body language of someone who’s a winner. I can’t do that if I’ve lost at every turn. Even if I stay off good, it always ends up crashing. I had a therapist for five years and she didn’t know what to do. You can’t make society treat you differently.
Sorry for the rant bro, I just feel stuck in my own hell.
I should also mention that my parents got divorced when I was 14 and it was traumatic for me as well. My mom became and alcoholic, made a lot of terrible decisions. My dad was in and out of jail.
@@nickp3949you've made it this far. Recognize your accomplishments and mark those down as a win. Another win, you are aware and confronting yourself. What I see, you're stuck in comparison mentality. Infatuating the idea of a gf. Earning her starts with trusting in yourself. Any gf just wants her man to believe in hisself. Prioritize inner work of faith, love and determination. Then the women will find you. Life is short, that's the motivation.
Find someone who relates to your struggles but also is happy about the same things you’re happy about. Only then will you find them and yourself.
We are all slaves of something within us!
Let’s start releasing and letting go of the things hold us slaves!
Be the slave of God! For he has given you the ultimate freedom and created you free of these hypotheses!
Nowadays people are EXTREMELY running away from the within and living such a miserable lives by coping and being unaware of the reality inside of them!
i like to use my testosterone to help with my confidence. Feel it running through your veins and scream. Exercise helps release testosterone. When you feel like your muscles can crush things somehow conversations and people become much less intimidating
Also i used to have extreme social anxiety but one day i used my adrenaline at school to get up and sit at this pretty girls lunch table and talk to her. This was 15 years ago and i still remember today. When you REALLY breakthrough you realize what your capable of and everything seems alot easier suddenly. Also over the course of years of putting myself out of my comfort zone has helped as well. Put yourself in social situations. One of the most powerful thing i learned was to be successful you have to put yourself in the right position to be successful. Really opened my mind to realizing its all about the situations you put yourself. Also the not always trusting yourself in this video is a great GEM you gave us. Thank you!
I love Zach the way he is. He doesn't have to overcome anything. Just be himself and stay that way.
Honestly I'm more likely to date someone like Zach then I would be Julien. Julien has some good points but people who just don't care what anyone else thinks and do whatever they want can be exhausting. I tend to enjoy being around people who are a little more reserved.
@@earthvarietyi dont think julien is crazy in his everyday life as he is in his videos.
He is this way in his videos to show people that if he can act crazy, then you can act like yourself which most likely wont be as extreme as how he acts here.
The comment says "i love zach the way he is"..most likely, zach is not like this when he is his comfortable self.
He needs to work on bringing that comfortable-self out whenever he shys away.
The point is not to act crazy. The point is bring out your authentic-self.
And even your authentic-self might need some work if you are not being socially aware of how you make others feel
It's not really about what you want or the kind of person you'd date. It's about him. He went to the seminar because he doesn't like how he is, he wants to learn to love himself. Other people telling him they prefer him the way that he doesn't prefer himself isn't a help for him.
Have a Great Weekend!🎉🎉🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼
The only time I’ve screamed is at a concert where nobody can hear me and everyone else is also screaming, or when I get frightened. I was so excited to get a car so I can have a safe space to scream alone because I never do. At that point I just didn’t know how. couldn’t do it, I sounded like an alien pretending to be human😭
I mean I get his point but if you think about it, Zach as any other person in that situation is not moved to scream because there is no need for it, he is not moved to scream so he doesn‘t want to scream. Isn‘t that free will?
It’s the willingness to not scream rather than the free will not to.
I really wanna know where I can buy that Cardigan
I really love this
Same
Dude didn't want to scream. Derp.
No matter what peoples gon still use this against him.
Cant lie this vid made me wanna scream as loud as possible🗣🗣🗣
Free will is an illusion
That's literally me before my presentation and then when i get comfortable on the stage I'll literally make jokes about everyone and everything 😅 and after each presentation i am ready to do one more but then the cycle repeats...
Be your own guru.
But where does this man get thoes ROBES!
HALEY FUCKING RYDER !!!!!!!!!!!! 👏
sublime
Thanks a Lot
3:40 nice 4th wall break
What does even being good enough really means can someone please tell me
I’m definitely checking Hayley rider out
But if you are asking me to scream and i dont feel like it then im not going to - but if I feel like it thats different
Screaming is catharsis
Thanks for the Videos and positive vibes! Gz from Germany.
You're so welcome! 🙌
I believe the Bible instructs humanity the standards of Love, self control, self discipline ect